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TO HAVE KIDS OR NOT | क्या बच्चे ना करने की इच्छा जायज़ है? पार्टनर, समाज और माता पिता ANUBHAV JAIN
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- čas přidán 23. 09. 2021
- #MARRIAGE #COUPLE #KIDS #FERTILITY #LIFE #DECISIONMAKING #RESPONSIBILITY #BABY #INFERTILITY #MOTIVATION #STRESS #DEPRESSION
1:19 I'm 28 years old I'm still single. I'm really enjoying my Life. Mere jo dost hai woh shaadi karke pachta rahe hai. 😂😂
I never felt the need to have children. I wanted a companion but now I don't even need a companion. I have got used to living alone and solitude is blissful. I have faced criticism from some people who think I am wrong in my decisions. I had to shoulder household responsibilities due to parents' illness. Now I feel so tired after their death, that I just want to live peacefully alone.
It is not selfish to not have children. It is selfish to bring children in this world and treat them badly or neglect them. There are plenty of people who have kids but do not care for them or don't know how to parent a child. Many people fail as parents too. People think that only money is important but emotional needs are often neglected by many parents who are too busy with their lives.
You r right dear
Beautifully written
@@shefalisabrina7679 🙏
Well said
I agree..... Those who know the reason...why....they don't want children should never bring children.... In to this life...Because children needs good, caring, responsible, loving parents.....+ good schooling, college studies, help in career, help in....marriage n lots of expectations from their parents and if parents can't.... Or r not upto their expectations..... Then, they criticize a lot even till the last day.... N it hurts...... Relationship should be give n take n bring peace in life..... So, if u think u need them to make life meaningful then go for it.... Otherwise stop.
Later in life if u feel like having kids..... There are thousands of them in orphanage or poor kids in slums, roads, hospitals.... Adopt them.... It's an all time Available option....
जिनका समझो नया नया मैरेज हुआ उन्के लिए यह जानकारी भरे विचार सोने पे सुहागा जैसे है और आगे के जीवन स्तर पर प्रतिकूल है जिनका विवाह नही हुआ होना है उन्के लिये तो वर्तमान काल मे बहुत अधिक महत्वपूर्ण है 🙏😇👌🏼💗💗
Great sir kash aapke jaisi soch sab logo ki ho jaye tho logo ka bhala ho jayega
Maine to sadi se phle hi bol diya h ki mai bachche adopt krungi kisi ka jeevan bana dena yahi to life h
same here
Same here
Good thinking
Good thing 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Same here
ऐसे नेक विचार रखने वाले महान व्यक्ति को दिल से प्रणाम।।
God bless you :)
सर रियली बता रहा हूं अब तक इतने सारे वीडियो देखे लेकिन आप के हर वीडियो में एक अलग ही हट के बात होती h
Thanks for Your Thoughts 👍👍
Thank you bhai :)
@@AnubhavJain bht positivitey hai apki baton me sir
Was not expecting sir that you would cover this topic. Thank you.👍👍👍
Everyone has a right to live their life as per their wishes.......if someone dont want kids, thats completely fine....its their own decision .........I totally respect them
Bhaiya Jo insaan baccha paida Karna hi Nahi Chahta koi zimmedari uthana hi Nahi Chahta Woh baccha paida Karne ke baad bhi kya hi ukhad lega Uske liye toh Woh baccha sirf ek bojh hi hoga tab bhi aur aise hi log kharab parents bante hain
Bilkul Sahi bat khi Bhai 👍
Sahi baat hI, zabardasti se kare hue faisle naasoor ki Tarah hote hain
Hello sir
Hello sir...meri dusari shadi हुयी hai mera pehala ek ladaka hai 13 sal kaa ...abhi mere pati bol rahe hai ek aur baccha karate hai..lekin मैं nahi chahati abhi dusara bachaa..main bahot pareshan hu..nahi man rahe hai. ..
Sir you are on Quora also I guess.
Whatever you said is right as per what we humans have designed.
If we go by Mother Nature's Rules, we humans are still evolving, it's an continuous and never ending process. So thoughts, way of living will change and have to change provided nobody should get hurt or minimum damage.
Every individual has its own nature, destiny just like finger prints are different.
The main goal of each life including animals is to be happy, healthy & safe. Rest are all temporary including relationships.
परिवर्तन ही संसार का नियम है 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Brave topic to talk about I have seen very rare video on these topic only zorba the zen channel youtube has talk about it
Sir, plz suggest me, meri bacha paida krne ki echa ni h, but ek bacha adopt krke usko acha jivan dena , use apne pairo pr khda krna, use apne bache k rup m dekhna, aisa icha h,,,,,,,, kya mera faisla shi h, plz help me sir
Is video ka end kaa ek minute dekho
Sir school ki fees lakh rupaye ho chuki hai aur government school dikhne mein bhi achcha nahin hai sach bolu to hamare Desh mein 140 karo log hai aur bacche ki kya jarurat hai ek middle class family lakhs kahan se lega
Started following you from Quora to here......
superb! kya clearly bolte ho sir aap ..wah superb!
Past life me itna struggle suffer kr lia ab tired ho chuki ab bs khud ki life survive krni or wase w life me sambalana khud ko h pdega so baby ki kya jarurat agar kisi ke baby ni ho rha toh doctor treatment ni krwana chiye sago adopt krlo kisi ki life change ho jayegi
Agar hamara reason kisi cheez ko karne ya na karne ka strong ho tho logo ke tanne se kuch feel nahi hoga
Bachee 😎 blessings of God 😘😘😘I love bachee
Thank you very much sir ur great aaj aapna ek alag video banaya 👍
Jinko Lagta hai bacche bojh hai agar unke ma bap ne bhi yhi Soch liya hota to
Very nice video sir 🙏
Voh kaam soch ke nhi tabhi 140 crore hogye hai
Kash esi soch hr kisi me hoti ,sachi baat hai Bach bojh h hote hai
sir you are explaining big philosophy of life in simple words .
Mein shadi toh jarur karunga par bacha ho ya bachi Kabhi paida nahi karunga sala padhai ka school college Ka kharcha Bahut hai ye kaliyug mein apni biwi ke sath hi Khush rahunga
I agree 💯👍 with you sir ji, very good motivated, thank you sir ji ❤️
That's great sir ❤️❤️ hand's of you 🙏🙏
You are right sir ❤❤❤😊😊
Sir your porsnality is osm 👍
Thank you :)
Adopt BHi option hai pr logo KO smjhna hi NHi hota une lgta jab tak ek women pregnant rah kr apne andar se bachcha bahar na nikale tab tk jivan safal nhi hota uska.
@@sampadachankar1713 ye sab society k logon ko samjhna chahiye.
🙏bhaiya aap mere real guru ho.
Aapki koi v vid dekti hu to lgta h
Jaise meri hi bhawnaayen h.
Thnks a lot bhai 👍
God bless you :)
My parents usally fight and speaks to me that :- teri wjh se larai hoti hai jbki mai to involve hi nhi hoti
Thank you so much sir, great lesson covered
Plz make video to adopt child
Very very nice explaining 🙏🙏
Aajkl budhe maa-baap ki jimmedaari to koi leta nhi, to baccho ki kya jimmedaari lenge, aur budhe aur bacche ek hi jaise care chahte hai to kam se kam har beta-beti,, bahu-daamad apne maa-baap aur saas-sasur ko paal le tab bacche ke baare me soche, baccha to raat bhr nhi sone deta aur maa-baap ke taraf dekhte bhi nhi, aur jab aapke uper 2 maa ki jimmedaari ho to khud maa bnne ki kaise soche, aur jab unka hi health thik nhi rahta to wo bacche kaise dekhenge
Me Shadi Aur Bache Dono Hi Nahi Chahta Ho
Thank you very much sir 🙏🙏🙏
Wonderful I always thought this is a western concept, @anubhav Jain how are you so clear about everything in life, I am at a stage in life where I stay confused about what I want
Well said 👍👍
Very nice bro really you are such great very thanks🙏
Well explained👏
Bachhe paida karne me koi problem nahi hai lekin wahi sab repeat karna thik hai? Hum sab is duniya me fase hue hai kya bachhe paida karke unhe bhi survive karne par majbur kare kya ye sahi hai?? You are absolutely wrong bro. Sirf apni life conplete karne ke liye apni khushi ke liye bachhe paida karke unhe survive karne par kyu majbur kare?
U R right 1000%🏳️🙏
Sir, please ek video banao ki girls ko self defense sikhne chahiye. Iske saath unko physical strength increase krne vali exercises krni chahiye sexual harassment and domestic violence jaisi situations mein fight back krne ke liye
Sabse badi strength paisa hota hai
Paise kamao ye sab sikhne ki zaroorat nhi padegi
Sir your knowledge is unbelievable 🙏
Sir apaka profession kya hai ?
Thank you brother. I am a business man by profession.
So nice.. I am also businessman...
@@AnubhavJain aapka email id hai sir toh please btayen there is lot to say..
Very nice video sir❤
आज के बच्चो मे सोशल फोबिया बोहोत तेजी से फैल रहा है.मै भी इससे जूझरही हू. अब ऐसे बीमार बच्चे पैदा नही करने चाहिए . सफलता वगैरा छोडो ये बच्चे अपने रोज के छोटे छोटे काम भी नही करपाएंगे.ऐसे नाकामी बच्चो का आकर क्या फायदा?😢इसलिए अब प्रजनन पर रोक लग जानी चाहिए .
I LIKE CHILDREN BUT SCARED OF LOOSING HUSBAN LOVE.
Thank you so much sir ❣️
Good speech sir.
Sir samaj bache adopt karne pe bi tane deta hai......
Is video me samaaj ki involvement ko detail me cover Kiya hai Maine.
Kisika bacha nenhi ho raha he wo alag baat hay. Lekin jiska ho raha hey to kaun nenhi chahega mera apna bacha ho. Bache ka paida hone ke baad hi mata pita apne apko complete feel karte hay .wo ek alag ehesas hay.unmarried kabhi samagh nenhi payenge
A person with wisdom
Great sir💗👍🙏
thank you bhaiya 💗💗💗💗💗🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Right sir
Sir lok aise e hai bus apni chlaana chaahte hai
Shadi karna jaruri nahi he ....
Not needed I will also stay unmarried
Nice 😎 shirt bro... great biceps
R/Sir,
Jab tak apke Vedios nhi dekhti
Sukun hi ni milta
Thank you sir
God bless you :)
👌👌
Great 🙏🙏sir
Ab to ye bolkr taane Dene lage h ki jb chhote bhai ki shadi ho jayegi aur tumne ab tk kuch nhi socha ya kiya jbki mai apne decision pr rehna chahta hu kya kru... tension baut hoti h sirrr😓😓😓😓
Sir ,plz aap jrur answer dijiyega mai yeh answer aapse hi expect krti hu "zyda bhwnatmk hona kaise km kre ,bhavnatmk logo ka mjk b uda diya jata h or unhe pgl b smjha jata hai ,mai puri trh bhantmktha khtm krna chahti hu per kaise ?
Thanks sir jee
Itna hi nhi sir hm chaar bhai bhi h aur mujhse chhote brother ki bhi shadi hone vali h....lekin uski shadi ki vajah se muje taane sunne pdte h or esa har koi bolta h lekin iske alava mai apne career set Krna chahta hu business me kya kru kisko kaise btau kuch smjh nhi aata h sir please reply kro 😞😞😓😓😢😢😢😢
Kya pati patni me bilkul v nhi banti.. Hath uthne ki naubat tak aa jati h
To aise me bchche lena chahiye ya nhi?
Correct 🙏
Tnx sir u are amazing
Thanks sir very nice 🌸
Sir Bachha to nhi chahiye but ek question ka reply kriyega, jaise koi v random couple bachhe na paida kare to unhe old age me kaun care karega, ye bhut badi problem h...plz reply on it sir...
God lelo koi baccha
Ye Maine pehle discuss Kiya hai. Aajkal elderly living societies kaa concept aa raha Hai, buzurg logon ki societies hoti hain, sab facilities hoti hain, medical, food, community, games, entertainment, apne jaise logon kaa saath bhi hota Hai.
@@k.dsinghrajput3705 mere Bhai, maine, bachhe nhi chahiye ispar question Kiya h...
@@AnubhavJain Sir Thank you very much for replying me.. sir I don't know that concept.
@@golusingh3372 ok sir ne Jo bataya waisa Kar lo
True sir ☺️
shaadi nhi karne ka kaho toh society gharwale kehte aapki toh laparwahiya badhti hi chale jaa rhi hai...
Hlo sir mere inlaws hume bhut force karte hai baby ke liye but main or mere husband abhi nhi bacha lena chahte because hume abhi career set krna hai or fir baby plan krna hai to hum abhi kya kr
Meri soch yai hi didi aap ke jaisi or me sadhi nhi karna chata hu bas
Sir aapka her video lyf k her sections ko cover krta h
Yaa sir nice video 🙏🙏
Sir mai dusre cast mai sadi karna chahta hu meri gf se lekin gher wale nahi man rahe hai kya karu please
sir mery hby k ghr valo n unko har chiz s bedkal kr diya h or.hum itna kma ni skty h k unko ache life de unko study kray.sirf meri vja s kiya h bedkal lekin inke ghr valy mri hby s pyar krty h hum rent p rhty h muje lgta h humko bache nahi krny chaye..kuki m sirf akeli hu or mri fmly n muje chor diya love mrg k karan...mera dil mna krta k bache na kru to thik hoga pls sir btao m kya kru mri mmy ki deth ho gyi vhi thi mri .....sab kuvh
Society ki asliyat kya hai,iss baat ko bhi khyal mein rakhna chahiye
Society is trap
🌹
Namaste bhaiya 🙏please suggest me mai widow hoon aur shadi nhi karna chahti bas confused hoon k mujhe baby adopt karna chahiye ya nhi, mai working woman hoon
If your career is stable, if you deeply feel like adopting a kid, you can afford the help to take care of the kid when not at home or creche facility, it's good to adopt a kid.
Bache hame jimmedaar banna sikhate he
I dont like babies yeh bache sirf 2 3 saal ache lgte bs uske baad toh duniya me rahkar parente ke liye dushman ban jate jase h woh bade hote toh bs unko pase chiye hote or kych ni parente ho ya na ho lekin cash hona chiye islye aj kal ke kalyug me sirf 1 percent obedient childern hoge baki sabi toh selfish honge bs or sabse badi baat agar financial issue hai or background koi support ni hai toh bilkul w mt karo .jitne w aj old age me vrid ashram me hai .puri life hardwork kro phr jab relax hokar marna ho toh apna ghar chodkar vridashram me maro .aj kal jitni demands hai ushisab se toh rich wale log h baby kre .kunki middle class ke log bacho ko har facility ni de sakte chahe jitni marzi hardwork krlo.main rent me rahti laws ki koi financial support ni husband ki job w shi ni main khud ke demands puri ni kr sakti toh dusro ko kya krungi
Dear sir, mujhe ya meri partner ko bacha bilkul nahni chahiye....per old-age mein humara kya hoga ? Kya koi solution hai ?
Bacche h jinke wo bhi bhudhape me maa baap ko laat maar dete hai
Apne uper depand ho thoda dukh hoga, lekin baccha chod ke jayega jyada dukh hoga
Right
Thank you so much sir lekin ap sir itna aur bta do mai business se related careers bnana chahta aur meri shadi ko two year hue h lekin baby plan krne ka abhi tk koi plan nhi h lekin fir ese comments bahar vale relatives,aur maa baap ke taane bhi sunne pdte h...q ki mai apne kam me abhi success nhi ho paya hu...kya kru kuc smjh nhi aata itna ap comments section me hi btao sir..
Same situation bro i cam related to every line
@@sukhkaur3818 oh really...i can understand.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You are a pure soul bhaiya 🙏
Sir please suggest me..
Bacche ek hi kafi h ya 2 hone chahiye.
Jitni palne ki okat hai utne kro
1 bacha bht hai
Meri sadi ko 5 sal ho gye h aur problem ki wajah se tana marte h
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Bacha paida swart ke khatir na karo wese bhee aabadi badh rahi he na samjo ki karan Or bacho ko gulam banai ja raha bache ke mummy papa apni aexa puri karne ke liye paida karte he bache ki apni khud ki apexa hoti he
WHO report ke anusaar unplanned baby 99.9%
Sir meri allready ak beti he 9yrs ki, me confused hu ki or ak bacha Janam du ya nhi, q ki mera partner apna responsibility kya he., nhi samjhna chahta.. 😭
Agar apko ek bacha hai toh dusra karna nahi chaiye..bht population ho gayi hai..ab planet ek se zaada bacha afford nhi kr sakta.
@@ashu6664 reply diye ho 2years bad 😁 mera 2nd babe 1year ho gayi last November 11 ko, but av khush hun mein pahle se q ki mere hubby v ab pahle so jyada jimmedari samjhne wala ho gaya hai,
Thankyou God. 🙏
Bash ab dono mein bonding pahle se best ho Jay..
sir bhut couples aise bhi hote hein jo shadi ke 4-5 ke baad bacha paida krte hein
That's absolutely okay, I fact good for the relation
Love u sir ❤️❤️
I LIVE MY LIFE LONELY SO, I SCARED THAT AFTER MARRIGE IF I HAVE CHILDREN ,MY HUSBSND WILL NOT LOVE ME AND GIVE MORE ATTENTION TOWARDS THE CHILDREN. IT MAY BE POSSIBLE THAT HE FIGHTS WITH ME DUE TO THE CHILDREN PROBLEMS.
Children are urs not someone else.
Sir i want to talk with you....
Mujhe bachchha chahiye but kuchh harmone issue h
Is mamle me meri soch hai ki bache jab bade ho jayenge fir wo hamare jutte hi marege is liye shadi ke baad mujhe bacha paida krne se dar lagta hai
Abe sanskari bana na
Mahatma buddha to sabse bade gair zimmedar insan the... iska matlab
Pehle poori video dekhni chahiye fir comment karna chahiye, aadha gyaan bahut khatarnak hota hai
@@AnubhavJain buhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha 😂🤣 nice 😎 reply
Mahatma Buddha ko ek ladaka tha jiska naam Rahul tha, Jyoti sis half knowledge is very dangerous 😏
Sastro me bhi likha hai Jo aurt dharti par janm leti hai aur baccha nhi chahti uska jiwan vyarth hai wo is dharti par sirf kalank hai Maine aisa khi nhi likha ki baccha paida Karna hai ladki k liye jaruri hai
Galat baat, Har insaan ko apne hisaab se Jeevan jeene kaa haq hai, aur isme aurat mard kahan se aa Gaye? Baccha to ek aurat aur mard ko milakar hota Hai?
@@AnubhavJain Bhai Maine nhi Bola Maine PDA hai to Galt likha hai ha har insan ko Apne hisab se Jine Ka huk hai ye sastro me bhi hai to wha Galt likha hai Maine ye nhi likha ki baccha paida Karna jaruri hai aurt ko
@@AnubhavJain sir aap ne reply nhi Kiya meri bat Ka ye to aap ne bhi bhut jagh pada hoga ki ek aurt Ka jiwan tabhi Pura hota hai jb wo ma ban jati hai aur ek aurt k liye Uske jiwan Ka sabse khubsurt pal hota hai jb wo ma Banti hai aisa hamre sastro me bhi likha hai aur aap hamesa Bolte ho adhytm se judo but aaj use Galt sabit Kar rhe ho
Purane time ke rishi muni bhi bhramcharya follow karte the aise toh phir Woh bhi paapi hue unko toh koi Kuch Nahi bolta
@@vishalthakur3944 rishi muni sadi nhi karte the to kaise baccha paida kare Jo sadi karte the unke bacche hote the aur tum Bolte ho bhut samchdar hi Mai itna bhi nhi jante brambhchar Ka plan Karne wala insan grahsth jiwan se door hota hai MOH maya sab se door to bacche kha se paida karega wo
@anubhav ....Bhaiya mere parents bohot force krte hai marriage k liye but the problem is mjhe shaadi krne ka smjh ni aaraha..aapka email id hai toh please btayen there are lot to say why I am not ready.
Thank you so much sir ❤