Use everything in twenties as content fuel. Deconstruct all the joy and suffering, and craft interesting stories out of them. That way it won’t have been ‘a waste of time’ but rather an important experience in your journey, that has fuelled the next 10-20 years of your life. People love stories.
Life isn't about could or should. Who and where you were in your 20s is not who and where you are in your 30s and things will happen at their natural pace. Stop listening to people who tell you that you should have ticked off certain boxes at a certain age; everyone's timing is different.
The most difficult part of a friendship or creating a connection is finding people that reciprocate. Having a deep connection is not really satisfying if you're the only one reaching out or making an effort in the relationship. Quality over quantity.
You feel like the needy person at times if you’re the one initiating the communication all the time and if you don’t then the other person will say after some time has passed, “hey, why don’t we talk anymore”. And you want to say it’s because I’ve always put in the effort.
1. Not keeping the link alive (keeping up with your connections with people in your life) 2. Being comfortable with being good enough and getting complacent(not taking the next step to becoming exceptional in things and having your skills deteriorate by time = lack of confidence and creativity in craft) Need to extend past yourself and dive deeper 3. Thinking your 20’s is your prime and putting too much pressure to have everything done in your 20’s
I have lots of regrets from my 20s but one thing I'm glad I did was become obsessed with self help. Not in the toxic sense of needing to change myself, but genuinely trying to figure myself out and heal. My life has totally turned around just from doing my own research, journalling and reading books consistently for the past 6 years. I recommend taking your 20s to sort yourself out if you don't know what else to do
This is all I’m doing and sometimes it feels like a waste of time/of my 20s due to all the loss and transitions. I’m glad to hear it’s worth it in the end :)
In my 20s what I regret is not studying way more . if I could I would take away Netflix and all time I wasted and spend it reading , and talking to wise people. Instead of eating at the same restaurants I would go to amazing new exotic small restaurant’s . and I wouldn’t say I love you I would literally act like a puppy dog and give wayyyy more love than I held back ! I would pray wayyy more than I did . and I would wake up earlier even if it’s just to write some poetry that would have been great ! Love you !
I wish I would have focused more on establishing a career and not have invested that time and attention into ungrateful friends and romantic relationships. I shoulda put more focus on my bag than relationships. It's Funny how people typically say the opposite of this. But in my experience, it's completely possible to feel like you've turned up empty-handed by investing so much into people rather than in monetary gain. At least monetary pursuits have tangible results of satisfaction.
I'm 24 and every day I try to create new things and teach myself how to be my best. I made an album in 3 weeks (posting in a week), have this travel channel along with other channels, and try to keep connections with my friends. It is hard to know what path is the right one to take sometimes.
Im 22 and I was devastated for a long time. And this happened because I was on social media all the time. This comparison thing is created by social media. I stopped watching stories and in general using social media and my mental health is much better.
I feel the last one so much. I’m 26 and I didn’t feel the pressure in my early twenties but ever since hitting 25 I have been feeling the pressure of achieving things by a certain age so I’m trying to detach from it but it’s not always easy
I’m 27 and I absolutely feel you. I never even considered feeling pressured to have certain things or ‘not waste’ my youth until I turned 25. Then during my 26th year I felt so old and worn out, and I realized it’s because I had assumed it was too late for me to continue feeling that youthful spark and achieve the things I wanted. Which sounds crazy because 26 is SO YOUNG. But I think it’s just that 25 is when your brain really starts to be in adulthood, and you see the world more clearly, which can be very painful. Best of luck to you, we got this! ❤
life is just a flowstate, the age doesn't matter, we do things with the awareness we have when it comes through. we can't do everything at once, but we can do everything we want throughout our lifetime
I'm in my 30s and I got to say, there is nothing I regret. I may be ashamed of some things, but I don't regret anything. The reason why is because all of my choices whether they were good or bad led me to who I am today. The blessings and the consequences are all welcomed. Imagine if we never went through hardship, or procrastination, or tests. What would we learn? but this is just the ramblings of a man in his 30s lol I hope yall enjoy life and learn from the mistakes. Peace and Blessings :D
Haha, I clicked on the video looking for this comment-- hear hear!! The things that happened in my 20s that I wouldn't repeat again have helped me to understand and love myself so much more deeply, my expericences have given me the context for greater freedom in my 30s. Without making those choices and trusting that I was doing my best and there was a deeper knowing to all of it, I wouldn't be where I am today and I'm so grateful. Let's not forget, taking a little bit of the "poison" can create the "anitdote", so regret is really just the step before you've processed your experience and synthesized the wisodm.
No regrets brother. I feel like if I regretted something, then I would wished to have changed it; if I changed what happened then I wouldn't exist anymore. The me that is better because of my trials and tribulations wouldn't be as knowledgeable and appreciative as I am now. No Regrets! lol@@kennethb4932
@@lexivay_animation Exactly! Even better put than I could say. There are times that I feel shameful for my actions, but it's that shame that molded me to do better; to be better. I love the "poison" analogy.
I second Regret 3: when I was in my 20's, I also thought that I had to have everything together by 25 or I was a failure at life. It really felt like a race.
🙏🏼🙌🏼 I turned 30 and it’s been the best year I’ve had in awhile. I feel like I finally have my stride back! All of the panic and stress in my 20s is dying off and I have found what brings me peace. Hope and pray everyone is doing well today! Thank you for these videos and your presence. It’s been amazing watching!
I’m 20 years old and I’m working thru cosmetology school and this had been the LONGEST year of my life and I can’t figure out how to manage my time n every one is giving me shit for it thank you for this reminder to keep going and really be present in this time I have
I'm 35 and have thought about this a lot. I spent my 20s being in a marriage that didn't truly make me happy, but I was living abroad in an amazing country. I had a lot of time to explore different things, but I wish I had taken a yoga teacher training in 2017 when I wanted to. I also wish I had continued to live abroad. I'm now living with a lot of regrets and I'm stuck in both a career that's out of alignment and a relationship that's out of alignment. Sitting in meditation and prayer as I work on improving my situation before I reach 40.
For me I feel like I got so much out of my system as a teen and so my 20's and 30's have been spent focusing on proper connections and family. There is still so much time! Its never too late!
Yooo the whole women’s clothing thing is too real, I tell my goddess that every time we go thrifting. It’s crazy how much I resonate with you and your videos 🌬️💛💫
Being in my 24, moving out from my parents house lately, being hella stressed because of work and also having the exact same thoughts as you spoke about in the video - this video kind of gave me a certain chill, which I really needed. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
It's amazing how I'm going through one of the most influential and pivotal moments of my 23 year life and this video comes out. Truly a sign from the universe! Thank you bro!!!
It's crazy that this video popped up on my feed at this moment. I had a huge setback recently in terms of my career, and I was in tears talking to my mom last night about how this was going to set me back from reaching my goal of doing _____ before I hit my 30's. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
So crazy the first thing you mention is friendships. I'm 26 and I just had a random realization of how I should nurture all my friendships with people I really vibe with even more so and I hit them all up today. Just really resonated that you mentioned that first. 😊
I felt you on that part about switching from one creative medium to the next and never really becoming exceptional in any of them. I'm 21 now and in the past couple of months I've had this realisation as well - like why can't I keep doing one thing and become a master at it? Why do I always hit this wall that automatically makes me switch to something else. I mean, slowly I am progressing because I'm switching between the same 4-5 things, but I'm nowhere the level I want to be at. And sometimes I just focus on something completely new altogether. Right now I'm just trying to understand why I do that and how I can change that. But it doesn't help that I also don't necessarily have any bigger goals in any of them. It's a process.... just gotta be patient. I think discipline also plays a crucial role as well. Also working on it
I don't call any a lot but my mother . I just don't call anyone just to talk on the phone since high school. I have siblings but something just changed.
I’m turning 20 in august and honestly, I really needed this video. I always felt as if I was forced to grow up to fast, and with that mentality, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking you know everything about yourself and, consequently, life. I always like to tune into your channel because you’re not only a reflective person, but you also take that reflection and actually do something meaningful with it, and I truly appreciate that. Through watching you and listening to your experiences, your perspective on life really fundamentally changed mine, and I hope to keep the momentum that you’ve inspired me to set for myself in my 20’s. I appreciate you man, you have no idea.
Right on man! I am just starting to really understand what living is about and I hit 45 next month. Connecting with people has always been difficult for me! I believe connection is what will change our world though! Keep grinding!
loved the part you shared about someone saying that being wealthy is being able to go anywhere and have the connections to take care of you. that's really beautiful & a nugget i will remember and share too. thank you . just found you & love your vibe & decor too!
One of my old friends died the other week. We were no longer close, we grew up together from about 10-14, then I moved across the country. We are the same age, 30. He had a wife, a child and was an engineer. He seemed like he was on the road to a great life and I've struggled most of my life wishing I'd been more ambitious younger. I realized you really can't compare yourself to anyone, and you don't know when your blessing is coming. I'm upset at myself for how much I've taken for granted.
I’m 19 right now and I don’t know what I want to do with my life, I’ve been in an intensive pharmacy program at it’s been really hard and I don’t wanna keep on being in pharmacy because it feels meaningless. There have been people disrespecting me during this time but this helped me see that there will be more than where I am right now.
You’re young:) you can try out different things! I went into college wanting to be a dentist, im about to graduate doing something completely different but im happier. Rooting for ur life to work itself out 😎
Regret 2 & 3… ouch! 😮💨Definitely two things I regret from my own 20s as well. Skills and dreams take time to build. I would’ve benefited from slowing down and going inward rather than looking outward. I have learnt that it’s way more important to move in a direction aligned with your true self rather than moving fast towards “success”.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, in my last year of 20s and came across this video. Also it's cool to see cool creators like you also lives in the same city as me!
I find myself coming back here time and time again because you're stuff is so mercilessly relatable. I appreciate you being here and sharing these things. You take ambiguous feelings I've had and find a way to make em real and tangible.
yeah i’m going through this right now… the shiny object of starting new projects for the dopamine and the excitement but when you don’t finish what you start you start to feel like you have nothing to show for your efforts and get blocked again. So I’m trying to keep the momentum even when things get difficult. Maybe you have to slow down, but as long as you keep going you didn’t quit. But there’s nothing wrong with pivoting either
I’ve come to the conclusion that my twenties are about having fun and learning, and I also regret all the pressure I put on myself from.. well, 19 to 25. I’ve started having fun and being more light hearted now, especially after deciding I don’t want kids, so the pressure as a woman to live to fullest by 29 is off my shoulders!
I will listen to this again when I go thrifting today 😂 thrifty Thursday. I enjoyed this very much. My earth years will be 30 this yr, so I took in a lot from this. Not really so much any regrets because I enjoy every experience the universe has given me. Plus I create my own reality 💜🙌🏽✨️
I needed to hear everything in this video. Esp 2&3. I’m 27, turning 28 this year and have felt pressure, most of it inflicted. It’s reassuring to hear your experience.
Hey HINDZ, it's not all bad! I sacrificed a lot as well and my dreams are nowhere close to coming to fruition. In your case, it worked out! That's awesome! Now you can keep it going and make an effort to rekindle connections with people. I'll keep working on my thing too.
Keep the link alive, real ish man. Im 20 and I still think about my life being on auto pilot from 16 onwards and the hundreds of connections I made that I never followed up on even if they tried to.
13:32 Naturally, I like to take my time with things. But mentally, I force myself to go faster. Ultimately thats a contradiction. i knew this about myself, but i didnt know this about myself. im happy this view has came into my perspective.
Ya know, taking a bit of the "poison" can create the "anitdote", so regret is really just the step before you've processed your experience and synthesized it into wisodm. 💖
I just turned 28 and this video has made me reconsider a lot of things I’ve been doing thorough out my 20s I just moved to a different state 8 months ago and I’ve learned how important it is to call back home every once in a while. Those connections still matter and are important as I progress in my new environment
Hindz your catalog is the best. Im currently fighting for my dreams and it’s an internal battle. Today been tough and these words, your energy raises my vibration. Im working on being able to do that myself but it can be hard sitting at an office desk all day. You like a mentor for me. This video inspires me to make time for what really matters after work. I know w each day i take a step closer and today you helped me take that step. Shouts out to the hindz community
This is maybe the 3rd or 4th video of yours that I've viewed, and as a 70+ y/o Jamaican Mum I really appreciate and compliment you on the perspectives you share, and I am getting my children, (late 20s and early 30s) to listen to this video! By the way, like you, I was an only child who had older siblings (mine were already adults when I came along, so their children -- my nieces and nephews -- are closer to my age, and their children, in turn, are older than mine). So, much of what you share here, resonate with aspects of my experience...only thing, I wasn't that competitive (Ha-ha). Anyway, as a parent who homeschooled my children, lifelong learning is something truly worthwhile, man...also maintaining meaningful social connections! So, props for sharing your perspectives on self-mastery, creativity and so on. Nuff appreciation Champ! 👏🏾🌻🇯🇲
What a beautiful video hindz such an art and great ending. I’m 20 I needed to hear this. Your videos are always in alignment with when I need to hear them. So grateful for you.
Buying a second hand tea cup is soooo normal. If you use a cup for coffee that many people have used before, even a fork, or a bed (in hotels), why not give an opportunity to something that has even less use… ❤️
Omg, I feel so understood in relation to your second regret! I did that in my early 20’s & now I’m becoming more committed to a stable life. I just came out of an unexpected break of 2 years dedicated to self discovery and I am feeling the value of my break every day. It encouraged me to have better commitments. I am looking forward to enjoying the journey more this time while working with the discomfort & unknown of it all. Your streams have been helping me along the way. Thank you for creating a safe space for us to just be ourselves!
Thank you Bredda, in my 20’s it was a back and forth situation. Doing good, got distracted, doing good, got a set back. I even thought, man why wasn’t I more focused or more serious or started earlier or even stayed consistent After having my daughter, she opened my eyes and mind frame so much. The affirmation card was definitely in alignment 🙏🏽
I’m the opposite I find as I get older I fail to keep connections. I find I have to really protect my energy. I work in sales and it’s a lot from a protecting my vibe standpoint. I guess I am selectively social. I absolutely love that you are thrifting. ❤
I saved this video a few days ago even though I knew I should watch it and all I can say is this couldn't have come at a better time for me, I resonate deeply with this and you've given me some excellent clarity on what I should do moving forward. knowing you also gave up on creating is reassuring to hear as well because I'm currently in a similar space. much love ❤
I just turned 21 and for around 2 years now I’ve been truly dedicated to music and diving into it professionally. I’ve always wanted to do it and not going to college really awakened that drive in me, in a way “ok now make it happen if you really believe in it”. Also one of the things I love about social media is the way self-awareness and self-improvement have become more talked about so generations are prone to observe their life and figure some things out earlier. The pressure is definitely the bad side of it and it’s hard to find that sweet spot of being encouraged by others but not get sucked into comparison. I definitely relate to the timeline pressure and comparison you mentioned, but I’m glad I’m aware of these other things now at 21 so that hopefully I can use these years in the best way. Loved the video, you calm my worries about the future 🌞
Needed that bro. I'm 26 and I think I'm a loser. I compare myself to everyone. I see other people way younger than me and it makes me angry and it motivates me too though. Thanks for the wisdom.
i will be turning 20 in oct and i did have some regrets from high school like wishing i set healthy habits, pushing myself to do well in school, and feeling really sad for not taking my creative hobby seriously. It was all due to being depressed and that depression has me caused to be very lazy, with no goals :/
Grateful or all of the eternal abundance that your existence provides for humans and our planet ✨️🙏🏽🤍 sending you so much loveeee, light, and peaceee my friend 🦄
Me now in my 30's doing things I should've done in my 20's. As long as you're still breathing, it's never too late!
It’s never too late!!
Haha same boat at 31
Its never too late but also never too early to do change
Use everything in twenties as content fuel. Deconstruct all the joy and suffering, and craft interesting stories out of them.
That way it won’t have been ‘a waste of time’ but rather an important experience in your journey, that has fuelled the next 10-20 years of your life.
People love stories.
Life isn't about could or should. Who and where you were in your 20s is not who and where you are in your 30s and things will happen at their natural pace. Stop listening to people who tell you that you should have ticked off certain boxes at a certain age; everyone's timing is different.
The most difficult part of a friendship or creating a connection is finding people that reciprocate. Having a deep connection is not really satisfying if you're the only one reaching out or making an effort in the relationship. Quality over quantity.
Exactly 💯
I agree
You feel like the needy person at times if you’re the one initiating the communication all the time and if you don’t then the other person will say after some time has passed, “hey, why don’t we talk anymore”. And you want to say it’s because I’ve always put in the effort.
agreed
Couldn’t agree more
1. Not keeping the link alive (keeping up with your connections with people in your life)
2. Being comfortable with being good enough and getting complacent(not taking the next step to becoming exceptional in things and having your skills deteriorate by time = lack of confidence and creativity in craft) Need to extend past yourself and dive deeper
3. Thinking your 20’s is your prime and putting too much pressure to have everything done in your 20’s
I think 20 is your prime
@@russelljohnjavier it is honestly but not for the reasons people think
@@russelljohnjavierI’d say it’s your foundation.
I have lots of regrets from my 20s but one thing I'm glad I did was become obsessed with self help. Not in the toxic sense of needing to change myself, but genuinely trying to figure myself out and heal. My life has totally turned around just from doing my own research, journalling and reading books consistently for the past 6 years. I recommend taking your 20s to sort yourself out if you don't know what else to do
What type of books did you read? Were they like self help books? Or for enjoyment?
@@astay3867 yeah self help, which I enjoyed because they gave me techniques a therapist would have given me but for much less money
This is all I’m doing and sometimes it feels like a waste of time/of my 20s due to all the loss and transitions. I’m glad to hear it’s worth it in the end :)
In my 20s what I regret is not studying way more . if I could I would take away Netflix and all time I wasted and spend it reading , and talking to wise people. Instead of eating at the same restaurants I would go to amazing new exotic small restaurant’s . and I wouldn’t say I love you I would literally act like a puppy dog and give wayyyy more love than I held back ! I would pray wayyy more than I did . and I would wake up earlier even if it’s just to write some poetry that would have been great ! Love you !
I wish I would have focused more on establishing a career and not have invested that time and attention into ungrateful friends and romantic relationships. I shoulda put more focus on my bag than relationships. It's Funny how people typically say the opposite of this. But in my experience, it's completely possible to feel like you've turned up empty-handed by investing so much into people rather than in monetary gain. At least monetary pursuits have tangible results of satisfaction.
i am just starting to learn how to live offline i deleted instgram and twitter and i am 24! glad to have done it
Ur still young fam cherish your twenties cus once u get past 30 time starts to fly
Thank you for this comment❤
Beautiful comment
I'm 24 and every day I try to create new things and teach myself how to be my best. I made an album in 3 weeks (posting in a week), have this travel channel along with other channels, and try to keep connections with my friends. It is hard to know what path is the right one to take sometimes.
Id love to hear your album ❤️
That’s where i am. I’m like What to do lol
Also would love to hear your album! Drop the infoooo
@@Goblin_Girl thanks I just released it on my page to tie into the eclipse! Hope you enjoy it!
@@rue5344 appreciate the love! ❤️ I just released it on my page. Hope you enjoy it!
Im 22 and I was devastated for a long time. And this happened because I was on social media all the time. This comparison thing is created by social media. I stopped watching stories and in general using social media and my mental health is much better.
I feel the last one so much. I’m 26 and I didn’t feel the pressure in my early twenties but ever since hitting 25 I have been feeling the pressure of achieving things by a certain age so I’m trying to detach from it but it’s not always easy
This
yeah same
I’m 27 and I absolutely feel you. I never even considered feeling pressured to have certain things or ‘not waste’ my youth until I turned 25. Then during my 26th year I felt so old and worn out, and I realized it’s because I had assumed it was too late for me to continue feeling that youthful spark and achieve the things I wanted. Which sounds crazy because 26 is SO YOUNG. But I think it’s just that 25 is when your brain really starts to be in adulthood, and you see the world more clearly, which can be very painful. Best of luck to you, we got this! ❤
You don't fail when you've lost, you've failed when you quit. So get out there and never give up.
love that💫
life is just a flowstate, the age doesn't matter, we do things with the awareness we have when it comes through. we can't do everything at once, but we can do everything we want throughout our lifetime
Well said !
the only child thing is so real. I'm also trying to remember keeping the important links alive
I'm in my 30s and I got to say, there is nothing I regret. I may be ashamed of some things, but I don't regret anything. The reason why is because all of my choices whether they were good or bad led me to who I am today. The blessings and the consequences are all welcomed. Imagine if we never went through hardship, or procrastination, or tests. What would we learn? but this is just the ramblings of a man in his 30s lol I hope yall enjoy life and learn from the mistakes. Peace and Blessings :D
I Love the way you put this! No regrets!
Haha, I clicked on the video looking for this comment-- hear hear!! The things that happened in my 20s that I wouldn't repeat again have helped me to understand and love myself so much more deeply, my expericences have given me the context for greater freedom in my 30s. Without making those choices and trusting that I was doing my best and there was a deeper knowing to all of it, I wouldn't be where I am today and I'm so grateful. Let's not forget, taking a little bit of the "poison" can create the "anitdote", so regret is really just the step before you've processed your experience and synthesized the wisodm.
No regrets brother. I feel like if I regretted something, then I would wished to have changed it; if I changed what happened then I wouldn't exist anymore. The me that is better because of my trials and tribulations wouldn't be as knowledgeable and appreciative as I am now. No Regrets! lol@@kennethb4932
@@lexivay_animation Exactly! Even better put than I could say. There are times that I feel shameful for my actions, but it's that shame that molded me to do better; to be better. I love the "poison" analogy.
@@kennethb4932 no regrets at all brother. Maybe some shame, but no regrets lol
I second Regret 3: when I was in my 20's, I also thought that I had to have everything together by 25 or I was a failure at life. It really felt like a race.
I love the vulnerability in this video, its refreshing
thank you🫶🏾🍵
comparing yourself stops you from growing, compare yourself only to your own self, your past self ❤
definitely!
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1yr left of my 20's. This one touched deep, feel so related.
Me too 💜 congrats to us for making it through
Do you feel a lot of pressure to achieve something
Me watching this because im about to turn 20,, also I love this video style & intro🌱
me turning 20 next month hoping i don’t hear anything i’ve already gotten in the habit of
thank you🙏🏾
same
🙏🏼🙌🏼 I turned 30 and it’s been the best year I’ve had in awhile. I feel like I finally have my stride back! All of the panic and stress in my 20s is dying off and I have found what brings me peace. Hope and pray everyone is doing well today! Thank you for these videos and your presence. It’s been amazing watching!
I’m 20 years old and I’m working thru cosmetology school and this had been the LONGEST year of my life and I can’t figure out how to manage my time n every one is giving me shit for it thank you for this reminder to keep going and really be present in this time I have
I'm 35 and have thought about this a lot. I spent my 20s being in a marriage that didn't truly make me happy, but I was living abroad in an amazing country. I had a lot of time to explore different things, but I wish I had taken a yoga teacher training in 2017 when I wanted to. I also wish I had continued to live abroad. I'm now living with a lot of regrets and I'm stuck in both a career that's out of alignment and a relationship that's out of alignment. Sitting in meditation and prayer as I work on improving my situation before I reach 40.
For me I feel like I got so much out of my system as a teen and so my 20's and 30's have been spent focusing on proper connections and family. There is still so much time! Its never too late!
Yooo the whole women’s clothing thing is too real, I tell my goddess that every time we go thrifting. It’s crazy how much I resonate with you and your videos 🌬️💛💫
Being in my 24, moving out from my parents house lately, being hella stressed because of work and also having the exact same thoughts as you spoke about in the video - this video kind of gave me a certain chill, which I really needed. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I’m an only child and I struggle with keeping the link alive too! That’s so interesting!
It's amazing how I'm going through one of the most influential and pivotal moments of my 23 year life and this video comes out. Truly a sign from the universe! Thank you bro!!!
It's crazy that this video popped up on my feed at this moment. I had a huge setback recently in terms of my career, and I was in tears talking to my mom last night about how this was going to set me back from reaching my goal of doing _____ before I hit my 30's. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
Keep going ❤ what did you wanna do before 30?
So crazy the first thing you mention is friendships. I'm 26 and I just had a random realization of how I should nurture all my friendships with people I really vibe with even more so and I hit them all up today. Just really resonated that you mentioned that first. 😊
I felt you on that part about switching from one creative medium to the next and never really becoming exceptional in any of them.
I'm 21 now and in the past couple of months I've had this realisation as well - like why can't I keep doing one thing and become a master at it? Why do I always hit this wall that automatically makes me switch to something else. I mean, slowly I am progressing because I'm switching between the same 4-5 things, but I'm nowhere the level I want to be at. And sometimes I just focus on something completely new altogether.
Right now I'm just trying to understand why I do that and how I can change that. But it doesn't help that I also don't necessarily have any bigger goals in any of them. It's a process.... just gotta be patient. I think discipline also plays a crucial role as well. Also working on it
I don't call any a lot but my mother . I just don't call anyone just to talk on the phone since high school. I have siblings but something just changed.
Peace of mind leads to a piece of mind
I’m turning 20 in august and honestly, I really needed this video. I always felt as if I was forced to grow up to fast, and with that mentality, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking you know everything about yourself and, consequently, life. I always like to tune into your channel because you’re not only a reflective person, but you also take that reflection and actually do something meaningful with it, and I truly appreciate that. Through watching you and listening to your experiences, your perspective on life really fundamentally changed mine, and I hope to keep the momentum that you’ve inspired me to set for myself in my 20’s. I appreciate you man, you have no idea.
Right on man! I am just starting to really understand what living is about and I hit 45 next month. Connecting with people has always been difficult for me! I believe connection is what will change our world though! Keep grinding!
loved the part you shared about someone saying that being wealthy is being able to go anywhere and have the connections to take care of you. that's really beautiful & a nugget i will remember and share too. thank you . just found you & love your vibe & decor too!
thank you🙏🏾🍵
One of my old friends died the other week. We were no longer close, we grew up together from about 10-14, then I moved across the country. We are the same age, 30. He had a wife, a child and was an engineer. He seemed like he was on the road to a great life and I've struggled most of my life wishing I'd been more ambitious younger. I realized you really can't compare yourself to anyone, and you don't know when your blessing is coming. I'm upset at myself for how much I've taken for granted.
I’m 19 right now and I don’t know what I want to do with my life, I’ve been in an intensive pharmacy program at it’s been really hard and I don’t wanna keep on being in pharmacy because it feels meaningless. There have been people disrespecting me during this time but this helped me see that there will be more than where I am right now.
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You’re young:) you can try out different things! I went into college wanting to be a dentist, im about to graduate doing something completely different but im happier. Rooting for ur life to work itself out 😎
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Love that you’re doing content outside the studio! I’m in my 40s and share some similar regrets about my 20s.
i’m in 20s and really feel messing up, thank you for advice! love ur vids! love u!
Regret 2 & 3… ouch! 😮💨Definitely two things I regret from my own 20s as well. Skills and dreams take time to build. I would’ve benefited from slowing down and going inward rather than looking outward. I have learnt that it’s way more important to move in a direction aligned with your true self rather than moving fast towards “success”.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, in my last year of 20s and came across this video. Also it's cool to see cool creators like you also lives in the same city as me!
I find myself coming back here time and time again because you're stuff is so mercilessly relatable. I appreciate you being here and sharing these things. You take ambiguous feelings I've had and find a way to make em real and tangible.
This is different and a dope vibe! Please add these into your content sometimes 💫
yeah i’m going through this right now… the shiny object of starting new projects for the dopamine and the excitement but when you don’t finish what you start you start to feel like you have nothing to show for your efforts and get blocked again. So I’m trying to keep the momentum even when things get difficult. Maybe you have to slow down, but as long as you keep going you didn’t quit. But there’s nothing wrong with pivoting either
That last one hit me. I have been going crazy trying to do things by 21 and it has been tough. Thank you for this video🤴🏽
I’ve come to the conclusion that my twenties are about having fun and learning, and I also regret all the pressure I put on myself from.. well, 19 to 25. I’ve started having fun and being more light hearted now, especially after deciding I don’t want kids, so the pressure as a woman to live to fullest by 29 is off my shoulders!
Wow the thumbnail was not clickbait.. so refreshing in a world of clickbait’s ✨
I will listen to this again when I go thrifting today 😂 thrifty Thursday. I enjoyed this very much. My earth years will be 30 this yr, so I took in a lot from this. Not really so much any regrets because I enjoy every experience the universe has given me. Plus I create my own reality 💜🙌🏽✨️
I spent most of my 20s horribly anxious. Now as I near my thirties, I feel it starting to wear off.
I needed to hear everything in this video. Esp 2&3. I’m 27, turning 28 this year and have felt pressure, most of it inflicted. It’s reassuring to hear your experience.
as someone who turns 20 this year - thank you for this
Hey HINDZ, it's not all bad! I sacrificed a lot as well and my dreams are nowhere close to coming to fruition. In your case, it worked out! That's awesome! Now you can keep it going and make an effort to rekindle connections with people. I'll keep working on my thing too.
i love you so much as a spirit. so grateful you exist.
i LOVED the thrifting part of the video omg please do this regularly!
Me turning 25 tomorrow taking in all this info *spongebob voice* “write that down, write that downnn!” 🤣 good video
Keep the link alive, real ish man. Im 20 and I still think about my life being on auto pilot from 16 onwards and the hundreds of connections I made that I never followed up on even if they tried to.
13:32 Naturally, I like to take my time with things. But mentally, I force myself to go faster. Ultimately thats a contradiction.
i knew this about myself, but i didnt know this about myself. im happy this view has came into my perspective.
Ya know, taking a bit of the "poison" can create the "anitdote", so regret is really just the step before you've processed your experience and synthesized it into wisodm. 💖
I just turned 28 and this video has made me reconsider a lot of things I’ve been doing thorough out my 20s I just moved to a different state 8 months ago and I’ve learned how important it is to call back home every once in a while. Those connections still matter and are important as I progress in my new environment
Vancity Vibes ! Love it ❤
Hindz your catalog is the best. Im currently fighting for my dreams and it’s an internal battle. Today been tough and these words, your energy raises my vibration. Im working on being able to do that myself but it can be hard sitting at an office desk all day. You like a mentor for me. This video inspires me to make time for what really matters after work. I know w each day i take a step closer and today you helped me take that step. Shouts out to the hindz community
Love this outdoor vlog typa content !
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This is maybe the 3rd or 4th video of yours that I've viewed, and as a 70+ y/o Jamaican Mum I really appreciate and compliment you on the perspectives you share, and I am getting my children, (late 20s and early 30s) to listen to this video! By the way, like you, I was an only child who had older siblings (mine were already adults when I came along, so their children -- my nieces and nephews -- are closer to my age, and their children, in turn, are older than mine). So, much of what you share here, resonate with aspects of my experience...only thing, I wasn't that competitive (Ha-ha). Anyway, as a parent who homeschooled my children, lifelong learning is something truly worthwhile, man...also maintaining meaningful social connections! So, props for sharing your perspectives on self-mastery, creativity and so on. Nuff appreciation Champ! 👏🏾🌻🇯🇲
What a beautiful video hindz such an art and great ending. I’m 20 I needed to hear this. Your videos are always in alignment with when I need to hear them. So grateful for you.
I need to do this , I'm enjoying myself watching you, it's like spirituality I'm there❤
Buying a second hand tea cup is soooo normal. If you use a cup for coffee that many people have used before, even a fork, or a bed (in hotels), why not give an opportunity to something that has even less use… ❤️
you’re so right, I never thought about it that way
The way I found this as I’m about to transition into my 30’s . Right on time
I found this real comforting. In my 20s now and feeling these motions heavily. This bought me some ease. Thank you love
Love the new video style and the fresh retwist!
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Omg, I feel so understood in relation to your second regret! I did that in my early 20’s & now I’m becoming more committed to a stable life. I just came out of an unexpected break of 2 years dedicated to self discovery and I am feeling the value of my break every day. It encouraged me to have better commitments. I am looking forward to enjoying the journey more this time while working with the discomfort & unknown of it all. Your streams have been helping me along the way. Thank you for creating a safe space for us to just be ourselves!
i love all your videos but this one hits different thank you for creating it
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I needed this video lol. I love your content King 👑 super inspiring to me as a creator too, thank you
Thank you Bredda, in my 20’s it was a back and forth situation. Doing good, got distracted, doing good, got a set back. I even thought, man why wasn’t I more focused or more serious or started earlier or even stayed consistent
After having my daughter, she opened my eyes and mind frame so much.
The affirmation card was definitely in alignment 🙏🏽
I’m the opposite I find as I get older I fail to keep connections. I find I have to really protect my energy. I work in sales and it’s a lot from a protecting my vibe standpoint. I guess I am selectively social. I absolutely love that you are thrifting. ❤
Your words of wisdom reach far and wide and it never returns void! Thank you for the encouragement and reassurance 🙏🏼🤍
the alignment of me finding this video today was beautiful :)
I really love this kind of format (the regret 1 in the store)! 😁
Your peaceful aura is so powerful i feel it through my screen...wow!!!!!!
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I’m starting my personal brand this year! The networking tips are amazing. Thank you
hindz please do more vlog like vids! Thank you for this, sending blessings from australia ⭐✨
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Hindz, I really resonated with your regrets. Made me feel less alone. Thanks for making this video! :)
i’m glad it resonated 🙏🏾
This was the best conversion ever. This video came to me at the perfect timing
This vid came at the right time from just the right person. All the same thoughts and I’ve been thinking bout thrifting myself as I never have
I saved this video a few days ago even though I knew I should watch it and all I can say is this couldn't have come at a better time for me, I resonate deeply with this and you've given me some excellent clarity on what I should do moving forward. knowing you also gave up on creating is reassuring to hear as well because I'm currently in a similar space. much love ❤
im 23 and the things you name for yourself are so close to home. had no clue I was doing these things so much.
We are TIMELESS 🌟
Thank you for this beautiful reminder!
exactly🙌🏾
I just turned 21 and for around 2 years now I’ve been truly dedicated to music and diving into it professionally. I’ve always wanted to do it and not going to college really awakened that drive in me, in a way “ok now make it happen if you really believe in it”.
Also one of the things I love about social media is the way self-awareness and self-improvement have become more talked about so generations are prone to observe their life and figure some things out earlier. The pressure is definitely the bad side of it and it’s hard to find that sweet spot of being encouraged by others but not get sucked into comparison. I definitely relate to the timeline pressure and comparison you mentioned, but I’m glad I’m aware of these other things now at 21 so that hopefully I can use these years in the best way.
Loved the video, you calm my worries about the future 🌞
im 24. i needed this for sure. thank you.
Needed that bro. I'm 26 and I think I'm a loser. I compare myself to everyone. I see other people way younger than me and it makes me angry and it motivates me too though. Thanks for the wisdom.
Your messages are so helpful. Thank you
I love this guy
commercial drive vibes ✨ i love this video.
Thank you for this content! I relate to these regrets so much & appreciate your outlook.
Truly enjoyed the concept of this video, Brother. Thank you for the wisdom, always.
You are always bring the vibes and inspiration when I need it most 🙏 Thank you Hindz
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Holy guacamole, I felt like you just spoke directly to me. Thank you for your beautiful message.
this is my favorite video of yours! love the camera work!
i will be turning 20 in oct and i did have some regrets from high school like wishing i set healthy habits, pushing myself to do well in school, and feeling really sad for not taking my creative hobby seriously. It was all due to being depressed and that depression has me caused to be very lazy, with no goals :/
I love this video. I would love more videos of you outside.
Grateful or all of the eternal abundance that your existence provides for humans and our planet ✨️🙏🏽🤍 sending you so much loveeee, light, and peaceee my friend 🦄
Great video and perspectives, as usual! Love it
thank you🙏🏾
Wow I love the changing of content 😍❤