Honestly I could kinda see it happening cause in a lot of tiktoks Mattie would like talk about how they saw a hot guy or hot girls and being super like into them....
@@naurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 100%. I had the same thought that she was implying bella did something and then it hit me about the lyrics, and that maybe it was the other girl. I also was not surprised that mattie cheated, she always talked about hot girls and how she wanted to flirt or ask them out.
i'm honestly fucking scared for Bella. they've shown us how fucked up a past they had, with a few self-unalive attempts. mattie seemed to keep bella happy. now mattie has just *hurt* them, and not really showing much regret. all the while bella has been just left to rot. i just can't get over how seriously worried for bella's health i am. i send them all the best wishes for a recovery. cheating is shit.
@@gxlleditss_ that’s how they trick us to get close enough to hurt us sadly! That’s why you have to take everything slow and protect yourself cuz you never really know someone!
@@Scarle55 actually its not, the creator of the song literally said that its about a drinking fountain and there was a girl that confessed to him there and when they grew older he had a crush on her but she was already in a relationship.
the one where mattie was singing "Water Fountain" at 5:58 is unreal- that song is literally about cheating and THEY are the one singing it? wow. Edit: Okay, so now I'm informed. The song is about loving someone too late, and not cheating, but the lyrics sound like CHEATING. and Mattie is singing them.... outrageous.
@@Brown_girl_artist_ i was just giving a guess. we cant tell EXACTLY what the person is trying to get across always and I’m not sure if they even said.
Wanna know something funny, in a somewhat grim way, that gives us a glimpse into the side of Mattie that did this? Majority of the videos, Mattie is out and about, clearly not at home, or with someone that doesn't live with them. They're flailing their body and synching with the song, but the emotion comes across as being rigid in amongst controlled contortions to their mouth and dancing eyes. A part to the song, not a cry from the heart. They look like they're composed, dressed up for the world. And Bella is home alone with their dogs, emotions fluid, seeping, and raw as they spiral into a twisting dance with the song they mouth and bleeding into it after building into a bubbling caphecony they cannot suppress, and they've not once appeared like they're over it, that they're composed, or that life is continuing on in any sense since the breakup beyond having a fashion sense and basic skill with makeup. These aren't just clips, or videos, or a little part for them - it's holding a lit flame, and them being rendered incapable of doing anything as it continues to burn. I don't know if Mattie genuinely is feeling anything with this, if that was all an act, but whatever is being felt is nowhere near what Bella is. This slammed into Bella like a freight train, but it feels like Mattie is treating it like a car or particularly speedy bike instead. I understand why Mattie has an off edge to me, now - and I feel so bad that Bella was drawn into it. It's like a siren call. Never notice it til you're in. Edit: had a comparison to weird vibe that was similar to Carter to me. Carter, however, just seems to be a hit or miss guy that might have stiffer body language and throw some folks off. It's kind of similar, but not. He's just existing, and Mattie's is more contextual and directed and feels more concerning. As far as I'm aware, Carter's a cool guy, just rather off-putting, but I cannot criticize him for that, being an off-putting guy myself. Not trying to attack him or imply he's done anything.
@@Emma-ls8xm As far as I'm aware, nothing. But the edge that I was trying to describe with how weird Mattie feels body-language and behaviorally thus far in the clips is one that I know more people pick up in Carter than they do Mattie. He's someone that has a hit or miss kind of vibe to him, and that vibe had me falling away from his content after a month or so. Mattie has a similarly weird feeling about them, only within context rather than in general like he does, but it's harder to pick up on without some sort of comparison, I think. Was using his vibe to kinda explain it more since my brain's soup and I can't quite put it into words in of itself. Not trying to imply he has any sort of foul behavior or is a bad person, though I probably failed in avoiding that. He's fine, though, and I edited it to remove that.
Is it just me or is Mattie smiling in most of these while Bella looks truly depressed and like they're having such a horrible time dealing with the break up while Mattie looks like they're making a joke out of it. edit: I had respect for you Mattie, but you've lost it. Keep your chin up Bella, shit sucks and that's ok. You deserve so much more, and I'm sure you'll get it one day, when the Universe thinks you're ready. Much love from your fans
@pihu7795 MATTIE ADMITTED TO IT!!!! THEY BOTH KNOW WHAT SHE DOD AND CARTER DIDN’T TELL BELLA!!!! If ur gonna comment about this, then at least get ur facts straight💀💀
I feel so bad for Bella, bc while their crying Mattie is probably still with the person they cheated on with Bella... I’m also sure that Mattie might be suing Bella for defamation, but I’m not 100% sure. NO HATE TO MATTIE PLS, THIS IS JUST MY INSIGHT.
I think Bella is getting sued by the girl who Mattie cheat on them with which is fucked up and I feel anger for Bella bc if that was my gf who cheated on me I would be so hurt and filled with emotions very bad ones
@@ladybug_katie and so? Because they are posting sad stuff we should forget that they are in the wrong?? Mattie didn't deserve Bella, they did Bella so dirty and here you are defending them because they are posting sad stuff 🙄 I don't think you understand how much they fucked up Bella psychologically I understand you love Mattie,i do too but they fucked up You shouldn't be defending them right now because they are posting sad stuff 🙄🙄🙄 are you for real, it's clear that they don't give a fuck about it at all, in fact they (mattie) are trying to gaslight everybody that they are the victim 😒😒😒
Even if Bella isn’t a good person, NO ONE deserves to get cheated on. I was shocked to find out what Mattie did when I first saw Bella’s video. In fact, I didn’t want to believe it. It just really shows that you never know what someone is like off of the internet. Another thing that gets me is when you go onto Mattie’s social media pages, people are slamming them for what they did, but not the friends that knew what they were doing but didn’t tell Bella. It’s like sentencing the murderer and not the people who knew of the murderer’s plan that didn’t do anything about it. I hope this situations blows over soon and Bella can find someone who will treat them better soon. This was truly shocking news.
The friends never told Mattie to cheat. It wasn’t their place to tell Bella either. Yes, they should’ve but that’s why they’re not friends anymore. And again it wasn’t their place. Mattie should've expected this outcome as an influencer. Her cheating should not be justified. The “disrespect” she’s getting is well deserved and quite honestly a lesson for her to never do it again. She should've never done it in the first place.
@NameNoneExistent somethin to do with her and this other dude Bassicly she texted something she shouldnt have (A slur I think she apologized but idk Cant remembur If ya want you search it up
just bc maddie cheated on someone doesnt mean shes a sociopath a lot of ppl get cheated on, there are a lot of ppl who get cheated on so, cheating is sometimes a mistake so it was probably just a mistake, have you made mistakes, yes, how do i know, i know bc no one is perfect and it was a honest mistake, so if you think every cheater is a sociopath then your the sosciopath 😒
Maybe she isn't denying it because its nobody's buisness. I honestly don't think they did. Maybe they think nobody will believe them. Or they want whatever happened in the past only. Or maybe they did and they regret it deeply and just want to.forget about it. We won't know unless Mattie and Bella desire to tell us. Together because you need both sides to make a true story.
BRO it was hurtful on both sides!! Bella hurt Mattie too. It's hard to be stuck with something that hurts you. Mattie didn't know how to escape, so yes, they cheated. I know it isn't good but you have to see things on both sides.
I will really miss bella and mattie. At first they were so strong so healthy so happy. Then mattie couldnt hold it in anymore. One night and she broke everything she could ever want. Bella didnt deserve her and it is so dissapointing how she took bellas love for granted.
@@beansy1834 yeah like mattie thinks she can turn the situation around and make us like her again without any adressing of the situation and making bella shut up about the situation with lawsuits
It's so sad and interesting and poetic to see this from an outside perspective, with no biases and no prejudice because I don't personally know any of those people, I can't judge Mattie as a bad person although cheating is obviously wrong in any situation because I don't know Mattie, but seeing the impact it caused on Bella shows a lot about them too... Idk, maybe I'm too into sociology
From all the comments I could read, yours was far the most interesting to me. I personally don’t know both of them and I quite don’t like their content as well so I didn’t know what happened until recently. And all of this made me hate Mattie so much, cheating is very much forbidden for me and I’m really empathetic to Bella. Like, you can even see how Mattie doesn’t really care about hurting Bella, the only thing she’s sad/angry is about her cheating revealed to Bella. These videos are really interesting to watch, especially if you’re focusing on their body language. But yeah, honestly she shouldn’t have cheat, it’s really sad even tho I also pretty don’t care.
@@daisy3869 Right, that’s not sociology but psychology. But instead of making fun of their mistakes, you can show them the difference ? Because yeah, they will do the same mistake and there’s no point to making fun of them dumb*ss. Especially when sociology is a form of psychology so you obviously don’t know what you’re talking about. For op : sociology is when you study the social relation, social action and social representations to understand how society works. Sociology is about the relation between individuals and society. Psychology study the behavior, the emotions and the way they think of a person or a group of people to understand what’s their characteristics. Honestly, no wonder why you made this mistake, the two are kinda similar, except one is about society and the other about people, and when I was in high school, I was doing sociology but it became psychology at one point (so you know, kinda hard at one point to know the difference when you’re confuse). You can say sociology is a form of psychology.
@@daisy3869 yeah that would be psychology since sociology focuses on how people interact with the world and society (hence the name) whilst psychology focuses on the psyche and how the mind works and how chemistry affects it. I studied a bit of sociology in university for design and it's really interesting but this is not sociology. And I'm interested in mental health since I classify as mentally disabled (I'm on the ASD and have ADHD)
6:05 the fact that Mattie is just trying to blame it on Bella even though she knows what she did and everyone else knows it too. Best wishes to Bella ❤
Even if you cheat you have the right to go damn human emotions and I’m sick of people saying that, like no what they did want okay but they’re allowed to feel sad, like Jesus Christ I’m so sick of people like this
Mattie being able to smile rn while all of Bella’s videos are her pouring out her (very pulverized) soul and Mattie is smiling?! No. That’s crazy to me
She could just not be posting what emotions she's going through with the break up. Break ups are hard even if your the thing that caused it. I understand that what Mattie did was wrong but they don't have to put it all over their social media for everyone to see. It's their personal life not yours. You don't need to know ever emotion Mattie has about the break up so stop acting like their a bad person just because they aren't posting videos about the break up.
I don’t wanna sound one sided but matties probably covering up any negative feelings, I’ve done it and seen it and unless you personally know the person it can be really hard to tell ❤
I never liked them. Watching their videos before and not even knowing who they were I found them very irritating and just their personality (yeah only based off of videos) didnt sit right with me for whatever reason
“Why did you hurt yourself? Why did you go crazy?” “ sometimes there’s just no why I just did” that….people need to understand that more like idk why I did it I just felt it
Before y'all get mad I'm saying this from the perspective of someone who had been cheated on more than once. Yes what Mattie did was bad but you can't go around saying that she can't be sad; even though she's the one that cheated doesn't mean that she can't regret her decisions. She might be truly upset at the fact that she cheated. But we shouldn't go around jumping to conclusions. 1. We don't know what went on behind the scenes, Bella could have done something that neither of them have said anything about and 2. Mattie doesn't deserve to be treated they way people are treating her. Yes you can say she cheated and yes you can say it was wrong but all of the other stuff needs to be kept to yourself. Y'all act like you've never made a bad decision or hurt someone's feelings in your entire life. At least show some respect even when you know what that person did was wrong; don't lower your morals just because you don't agree with someone's actions or feel the situation should have been handled differently.
@@pihu7795Mattie never denied it. They indirectly posted a video about it just telling people it's their business. If Bella was lying, Mattie would've been saying they didn't do it end of story
The fact I understand Bella's pain. I wouldn't have understood the pain when it happened. It wasn't until I experienced that pain for myself. But if Bella gets more time for her to get the closure and she heals from this, and she will. Bella we're all in your corner❤
I wondered what the "I really tried" one was about when Bella posted it :( it must have been after she gave Mattie a second chance and the lies kept coming
I think it also meant that Bella really gave the relationship their all and loved mattie with their whole heart. They made unimaginable sacrifices and Mattie just ruined it.
@@quin12411 months later, but yeah :(( I haven't been in a relationship but I've had the same happen with friendships where eventually I realized I cared more about the relationship than my friend did, and for a while I thought if I just gave more they'd care again Once someone checks out it's nothing you can do 😢
We should’ve seen this coming with all the videos Mattie would post of like “I saw a cute girl in the coffee shop or in the car garage and I’m trying not to be weird.” And stuff like that. A lot of her videos were red flags but we all just ignored it thinking “she’s just being funny.” Well she wasn’t. As far as we know, she never had any intentions to stay with Bella.. On the other hand all of Bella’s videos were about.. Mattie.. no other girls at all. They seemed genuinely happy with Mattie but of course, Mattie didn’t. Bella made everything about Mattie in almost every video. While Mattie was out flirting with other girls? And it’s probably worse then that. We know they’ve kissed and probably more. Considering this, it’s easier to imagine how she feels. This person she loves so dearly and has spent multiple years of their life with just breaks up with them for no reason. And figuring out that her friends knew??? So all of her friends are traitors and her beloved boyfriend cheated on her. Considering all of this, you can clearly see how bad this is. It should not be brushed off with videos of dancing and being happy. Mattie clearly broke Bella’s heart and is acting like nothing happened. What she did is pure evil especially for the sweet little girl she made herself out to be.. and as far as we know she could’ve done this with many other girls. Even in the early stages of their relationship. Although Bella told us not to give her hate. She has clearly done something very wrong and something has to be done. Possibly even unsubscribing from Mattie because, personally, I don’t think somebody like her deserves anything good. Thank you for reading my rant.
I noticed that to!! I saw the videos and would think “Isn’t she with Bella?” because it all seemed weird to me and gave me bad vibes. I hope Bella will be alright and knows how much we love her.
I do think you should be able to feel attracted to other people, because that's not really something you can control, but Mattie didn't really show any interest in their relationship to the point that I didn't even know they were dating until I found a video about it from Bella's channel.
The thing is. Even though Bella has so much energy. You can tell she is so hurt and broken. Mattie had no right to do that. It kinda makes me tear up to see what we all thought would last a lifetime.
As someone who has faced a similar situation, I feel Bella. My bf of more than a year decided to ghost me out of nowhere, and I knew something was wrong. I used to tell my bestie that he had never stopped texting without telling me beforehand. I thought maybe he was bucy with smth important, and didn't think much even though there was a nagging feeling. I didn't had Instagram at the time but my BFF did, and saw that he had put stories and all.. That hurted me. He had time to upload stories but none to see my messages? That moment of betrayal, when everything that you had built together comes crashing down is.. Brutal. Heartbreaking. And I didn't even know why he ghosted me. I finally got the courage to tell him that I wanna break up (over text, we were in a ldr), and he pretended as if he didn't just ghosted me for a week. So technically I was the one who verbally initiated it, but he did it first through his actions. I said screw it, it hurted yes, but you gotta do what you have to do. And the thing is, I was processing all this without knowing why he technically decided to break up. After almost 10 months later I learnt it was for a girl he had studied with in hsc. He did mention about her to me and even asked me if he could be friends with her... What a joke. So I know exactly how much it must've hurt Bella. To be kept in the dark. It took me well over a year to finally get over him. But no way I'm going to be in a relationship anytime soon. I deserve a true break, and freedom. I hope Bella finds peace
Honestly, when I found this out it hurt me a lot. I really loved their relationship and all of their friends. It obviously doesn't upset me as much as it upsets Bella, but it really just shows how you can't trust anyone.
Just whenever I see one of Mattias vids I just can't look at them the same way I used to and the fact that several of their freinds knew and decided not to tell bella is messed up
Wdym? She doesn’t look sad. She’s playing sad audios with a straight face and even smiling in some parts. Bella looks depressed. It seems they’re trying to force a smile. You can see in the one clip where Bella is sad while Mattie is making a TikTok. Tho I don’t have much conflict with your comment. She does seem to be playing the victim.
@@pihu7795 there are a lot of red flags in Mattie's own videos. Talking about flirting with others videos etc and making it seem like a joke when it was not a joke. I personally don't like bella. In fact, I liked Mattie. But as someone who was cheated on, all the signs are there. I just cannot overlook this action.
it's the fact that no one would expect this from Mattie... at all... BUT if Bella were the one cheating... with all controversies she had... lots of people would be like "yeah I'm not too surprised tbh"... just because of some silly stuff... i hope Bella pulls through much stronger than she ever was. poor her 😭
For everyone concerned for Bella's mental health and safety from herself. STOP. You can care for her but for someone who struggles with commiting dying, constantly being told not to feel that emotion makes them feel like they're doing one more thing wrong. You really want to help, let them feel hopeless, let them cry themselves to sleep. Your worry is a slap in the face to their strength and personal growth. Life gets nasty, and overwhelming, and frustrating and it's okay to feel hopeless. You want to help take that burden and turn it into something better then honor the process of feeling and healing. Stop pitying and suffocating someone who's angry and feels like they're drowning. It worsens the frustration. They can't catch a break because people "care" unfortunately these are also the people who make it worse. Those are the suffocating "think about how WE feel when you're gone" people and you're actually the worst. If you care, you ask them how they are and how you can help, you don't assume you have the answers because they have one too and it's permanent. Don't disrespect a human being's strength when you only know what they've shared with you. Bella made it through before, they will make it through again.
Gotta say though, this whole way of dealing with relationships is so weird. First off, showing it online and showing the breakup online and making weird tiktoks about it while crying, whether you were cheated on or the one who cheated, like maybe its a coping mechanism but its just so weird to me in general.
Ok the amount of second hand embarassment i got from the water fountain one 😭 but in general i did cringe at most of these, i feel like breakups shouldn't be aired out for the world to see 😭
im pretty sure they [jayus] posted the initial video (you knew i was getting cheated on and didn’t say anything) on her spam, which was at a way lower follow amount than it is now since the video blew up like crazy. it could’ve been used as a coping strategy but i honestly don’t know 🤷 i do agree though probably don’t post your breakups, ESPECIALLY if you have a huge following
Also for you guys who are hating on Mattie for smiling would like to point out people often smile right before and sometimes during a suicide attempt as well as during a nervous breakdown.
... I have no words yet I do- I feel like there is never going to be a happy ending for them like ''those'' kinds of stories where they end up forgiving each other. If Mattie ends up breaking up with her new ''partner'' and runs back to Bella- then I hope Bella rejects her and breaks her heart as much as Mattie did to Bella. I hope Bella finds someone she will love even more than Mattie, even if deep down... She still cares... This is all I wish to share for my comment.
It is estimated at the time jayus got her hair cut while Mattie was down in Washington Mattie cheated on jayus I have the name of the person they are speculated to have cheated on and it matches the discrimination of jayus saying in a comment that they cheated with a Victoria secret model it is also known that many friends of Mattie who where also friends of jayus knew Mattie cheated but didn't say anything once jayus found out she told some virtual friends and either Mattie or the side chick found out about it and are sueing jayus for telling the virtual friends (Mattie or the side chick also made it clear that they wanted a apology letter and a list of names of the people jayus told to which jayus manager said no) Mattie made some videos that was hinting at the fact that she cheated with songs like "it was not your fault but mine it was your heart on the line I really fucked it up this time" which have since been deleted. And people to this day are still defending Mattie I saw a comment on a fan page of Mattie's and jayus relationship when I 1st heard of this trying to get all the Info I could on what happened and I kid you not one of the comments literally said "yeah well there relationship is non of my business and I've followed Mattie for longer so" to which I replied at a sate of being so shocked at this utterly foolish comment "they made there relationship our business by posting about it on line how could you still follow someone after they cheated on someone they said they loved? I think somebody cheating on somebody they said they loved tells you enough about there character." I think if Mattie wanted to cheat on jayus she should have just broken up with her. It will take us all time to come to terms with the fact that this "clumsy nice girl" Maddie is playing is all a act and that this version of her never existed in that cold hearted gaslighting manipulative body we see here today. I genuinely don't like to be rude to people but when somebody is hurt is another story.(this is a copy and paste of my replies to other people's comment of the same question.)
Y’know what makes me even sadder is that both these people help me feel better and grow as a person and make me feel safe and at home when i watch them, and now I don’t know what to do
bella deserved WAY better than mattie like on mattie's channel WHILE THEY WERE STILL A THING talked abt everyone she saw and was like ''yo their attractive'' like wtf its okay to have crushes before and while (not gaining them whilst) dating someone but talking abt them constantly is kinda trashy plus cheating just isn't okay
Bella can never do anything cringe I swear I just ,, like any content they put out ,, it’s very honest and also show so much growth. Definitely aligns with my values a lot
Honestly I’m really curious of who Mattie cheated with bc I feel like no one’s talking about that. Ehh I’m usually the one to find out last, so y’all prob know. Sorry Bella for all the stress and all the depression. Get well soon❤
It's so upsetting cuz Bella is seriously hurt from this. She's taking it seriously bc it is! But Mattie??? They seem to be living their life normally. They put sad audios on videos and start this "sad old vibes", but don't seem to have finished a relationship with a person they "loved". It's like they don't regret making that choice, which maybe Bella doesn't notice, but for me is a slap on the face. Imagine seeing your ex pretending they are hurt and "healing" when they are the one who caused the damage... Imagine.
For Bella if she ever comes to this vid and sees this I want you to know that they did not deserve you. And you are a absolute amazing person and you TRULY deserve better and deserve all the love and support in the world.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 Ps: pls do not hate on Mattie it is not going to help the situation
Idk why Mattie was posting “sad” tiktoks when they were the one who cheated. If you cheated in a relationship that means you obviously don’t care about the other person or the relationship in general. Like finding out your getting cheated on is much more painful then a normal breakup, if you don’t want to be in a relationship anymore then just tell them, instead of causing extra pain.💀
The sad fact is that bella has told us already that mattie has dine this ti so many partners already. The fact that people get mad at the people defending bella and saying that she should get over it is so bizarre to me and shows they don't know what being cheated on by someone so important to you feels like. I watched years of my parents fight because of cheating. I have uine through the heartbreak the tesrs and the hurt because of cheating. Its not easy to get over. And now that mattie is suing bella for speaking out and not even bashing them while doing that, shows how much of a bad person mattie is. To the last one, does anyone know who they were talking about cause I'm going to unfollow them since i was subscribed to the entire group
When I first heard Mattie cheated on Bella I was so shocked. Of all people, MATTIE? it shows how the internet never really shows the best of someone, just what they want you to see. And now knowing some of Mattie's and Bella's friends knew Mattie was cheating but said nothing is absolutely insane. The crew I used to like but now don't even know. It went from this huge group to just Bella and Liv.
Does anybody else notice how mattie seemed so happy in the beginning like she was ignoring and avoiding her feelings? Bella was living out her feelings and literally expressing how she felt. As the vid progresses you see mattie getting sadder and bella slowly getting happier and moving on. I was honestly so fucking scared for bella, but seeing her moving on is kinda giving *me* hope too. I am really very mad at mattie. This just goes on to show how the most innocent looking people can be complete sociopaths.
bro shes not a sociopath? its people like you that stigmatise mental health, stop calling people sociopaths when they are or even if the arent, it stigmatises it and makes people afraid of mental health. sociopathy isnt the person with its fault, its the environment their trauma began, not them, but people like you are the cause of them.
I am so shocked that Mattie expected Bella to accept the I am sorry point blank and considering Mattie KNEW Bella has had this happen before and how bad it crushed her! The whole video Mattie did about falling in love with without knowing them and that rose colored glasses hide the red flags was SO SPOT ON ! Bella didn't see what she probably should of BUT that is love, you take the chance and give someone your heart and hope they value you enough to cherish it as much as you do... and apparently Mattie just doesn't cherish anything but herself and her wants 🤬
a friend taught me this, but you can just tell Mattie's eyes are empty. Bella's are so full of emotion, genuine emotion, and in some clips, Mattie just - doesn't feel real. Feels fake, like plastic, kind of a shell The body language does not match up.
I have always knew love never ends with an happy ending cuz even if it's called happy it will always be sad and these two have proofed it so badly to me to a point I would never love again.
Okay like I just passed this again and realized that Mattie did the water fountain song like girl you were the one that cheated my guy said the opposite
@@thewewguy8t88 i mean, I do. It just made me sad, that's all. Ig the relationship just looked so healthy and I was really happy for them but then it fell apart so
@@quin124 I can't say it does for me but then again to me they both come across as teenagers who think they are being cool and edgy for not conforming to the normal socal standards. And they both seem like extremely damaged people who just think they are so mature but really are just Still teenagers mentally who think they are being cool. And infact probably think that they were the first kids to be brave enough to admit they were part of the LGBT community.
literally just went thru the same thing bella did w mattie. it sucks like hell. i've also done the same thing mattie did before, so i know how it feels from both sides of the story. i know the hurt and the guilt. both sides are painful.
i feel horrible for her being cheated on, and being manipulated, i sadly know how that feels and i wish she can recover some day. being cheated on is horrible it sucks and feels like your being stabbed in the heart.
I keep seeing alot of ppl being mean to mattie, and i kinda get it but, she made a mistake, and bella made mistakes too, they both made mistakes, and just because one might be worse than the other, doesnt mean you can juat be rude and mean to them, i mean i get that she supposedly cheated (idk if she did or not), but that doesn't mean you can go harass her abt it, and im not saying thats shes a great person or anything, no one is we are all just ppl, and at the end of the day its just life. And i think you can tell that mattie feels bad abt what she did, and even if she doesn't, i think bell still cares abt her. Anyways thats what i have to say, i do like them both, i watch bella and i watch mattie, i think they are both great, and funny, but anyways thats my take on it, thx for listening to my lil rant byeee😊
I only just found out about all of this drama, but i really think that what mattie did was really bad. Like, who just posts tiktoks eluding to the fact that they cheated, then breaks up with the person they cheated on with out telling why they are breaking up.I truly feel bad for jayus. I watched a video where jayus said now she will try to be single because of what happened to her. I also fell bad for jayus even more because a lot of her friends knew what mattie was doing and didn't tell her. Unbelievable.
mattie posting emo tiktoks as if they're not the one that cheated 🤨
Ikr???
Honestly I could kinda see it happening cause in a lot of tiktoks Mattie would like talk about how they saw a hot guy or hot girls and being super like into them....
Bro Bella said to not talk bad abt Mattie
@@Gusfla i'm not, i'm just saying it's weird how they're acting all sad, when they're the reason this happened
trying to be the vitctim
Mattie: playing the victim and acting sad
Bella: *Agressively washes dishes*
Edit: THIS WAS AN ENTIRE YEAR AGO WHY ARE YALL STILL ARGUING
Lmao yeah but idk why it looks like Mattie is trying to sync his vid with Bella's
dude wtf maddie finna flim a fake apology video about how Bella cheated and keep blaming Bella instead
And I believe from one of onlyjayus's videos on CZcams Mattie wanted a public apology 💀
(I think so but I might wrong)
@@Vilhelm1229 Mattie for sure, kept checking to see their new TikTok's and copied with a response lol
@@Vilhelm1229ikrr
not mattie implying bella did something 💀
Mattie was saying she did something
@@ladybug_katie ive realized imagine cheating someone and acting like they cheated you
@@circe8777 what if its the other girl mattie is talking about? Like the water fountain? Bella said the other girl did it for clout...
@@destinyu2144 still shouldn’t have hurt bella and not address it-
@@naurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 100%. I had the same thought that she was implying bella did something and then it hit me about the lyrics, and that maybe it was the other girl. I also was not surprised that mattie cheated, she always talked about hot girls and how she wanted to flirt or ask them out.
what mattie did was so unexpected.
What happened ?!
Nvm I found out
@@tristindevon8574 ok good.
Ik 😢😢
Ye... You would never expect a innocent cinnamon roll to do something like that...
i'm honestly fucking scared for Bella.
they've shown us how fucked up a past they had, with a few self-unalive attempts. mattie seemed to keep bella happy.
now mattie has just *hurt* them, and not really showing much regret. all the while bella has been just left to rot. i just can't get over how seriously worried for bella's health i am.
i send them all the best wishes for a recovery. cheating is shit.
And they have shut themself from everyone…
One thing you can be assured of is that this is nowhere near the worst thing Bella's ever been through. They'll be okay, they know how to cope
Unalive?
moral of the fucking story, never trust anyone even if they seem like a innocent and cutest person alive
@@gxlleditss_ that’s how they trick us to get close enough to hurt us sadly! That’s why you have to take everything slow and protect yourself cuz you never really know someone!
my jaw literally dropped when Mattie sang water fountain💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Same💀
SAME☠️☠️☠️😲
bro its not actually about cheating why does everyone think that
@@spikertek blue that’s literally what the song is about is an unfaithful relationship💀
@@Scarle55 actually its not, the creator of the song literally said that its about a drinking fountain and there was a girl that confessed to him there and when they grew older he had a crush on her but she was already in a relationship.
the one where mattie was singing "Water Fountain" at 5:58 is unreal- that song is literally about cheating and THEY are the one singing it? wow.
Edit: Okay, so now I'm informed. The song is about loving someone too late, and not cheating, but the lyrics sound like CHEATING. and Mattie is singing them.... outrageous.
5:58 fr bella should be the one singing it
maybe they were talking about themselves.
Lol the song isn't about cheating but I get what you mean
@@editingaldcthat the thing they didn’t
@@Brown_girl_artist_ i was just giving a guess. we cant tell EXACTLY what the person is trying to get across always and I’m not sure if they even said.
Wanna know something funny, in a somewhat grim way, that gives us a glimpse into the side of Mattie that did this? Majority of the videos, Mattie is out and about, clearly not at home, or with someone that doesn't live with them. They're flailing their body and synching with the song, but the emotion comes across as being rigid in amongst controlled contortions to their mouth and dancing eyes. A part to the song, not a cry from the heart. They look like they're composed, dressed up for the world.
And Bella is home alone with their dogs, emotions fluid, seeping, and raw as they spiral into a twisting dance with the song they mouth and bleeding into it after building into a bubbling caphecony they cannot suppress, and they've not once appeared like they're over it, that they're composed, or that life is continuing on in any sense since the breakup beyond having a fashion sense and basic skill with makeup. These aren't just clips, or videos, or a little part for them - it's holding a lit flame, and them being rendered incapable of doing anything as it continues to burn.
I don't know if Mattie genuinely is feeling anything with this, if that was all an act, but whatever is being felt is nowhere near what Bella is. This slammed into Bella like a freight train, but it feels like Mattie is treating it like a car or particularly speedy bike instead. I understand why Mattie has an off edge to me, now - and I feel so bad that Bella was drawn into it. It's like a siren call. Never notice it til you're in.
Edit: had a comparison to weird vibe that was similar to Carter to me. Carter, however, just seems to be a hit or miss guy that might have stiffer body language and throw some folks off. It's kind of similar, but not. He's just existing, and Mattie's is more contextual and directed and feels more concerning. As far as I'm aware, Carter's a cool guy, just rather off-putting, but I cannot criticize him for that, being an off-putting guy myself. Not trying to attack him or imply he's done anything.
Mattie has been posting old videos on snap they been posting sad stuff. Bella has been out on her snap story
@@ladybug_katieI didn't know Mattie was on Snapchat, what they been posting? What sad stuff?
what did carter do? I'm not caught up on any tea or drama on the internet.
@@Emma-ls8xm Carter didn’t do anything in fact Bella is still friends with him
@@Emma-ls8xm As far as I'm aware, nothing. But the edge that I was trying to describe with how weird Mattie feels body-language and behaviorally thus far in the clips is one that I know more people pick up in Carter than they do Mattie. He's someone that has a hit or miss kind of vibe to him, and that vibe had me falling away from his content after a month or so. Mattie has a similarly weird feeling about them, only within context rather than in general like he does, but it's harder to pick up on without some sort of comparison, I think. Was using his vibe to kinda explain it more since my brain's soup and I can't quite put it into words in of itself. Not trying to imply he has any sort of foul behavior or is a bad person, though I probably failed in avoiding that. He's fine, though, and I edited it to remove that.
Is it just me or is Mattie smiling in most of these while Bella looks truly depressed and like they're having such a horrible time dealing with the break up while Mattie looks like they're making a joke out of it.
edit: I had respect for you Mattie, but you've lost it. Keep your chin up Bella, shit sucks and that's ok. You deserve so much more, and I'm sure you'll get it one day, when the Universe thinks you're ready. Much love from your fans
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 mattie admitted it themselves SHUT UP.
@@pihu7795 she*, mattie is genderfluid and Bella literally posted proof in their channel about it
That’s exactly why I’ve never like mattie
@pihu7795 MATTIE ADMITTED TO IT!!!! THEY BOTH KNOW WHAT SHE DOD AND CARTER DIDN’T TELL BELLA!!!! If ur gonna comment about this, then at least get ur facts straight💀💀
I want to give Bella the biggest, warmest hug ever. They need it so badly.....
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 because mattie made vids about it i think
It's basically a given mattie did it
She*
@thewewguy8188 They*
I feel so bad for Bella, bc while their crying Mattie is probably still with the person they cheated on with Bella... I’m also sure that Mattie might be suing Bella for defamation, but I’m not 100% sure. NO HATE TO MATTIE PLS, THIS IS JUST MY INSIGHT.
Or at least getting sued by someone, but I think it’s Mattie. Anywho I may not be correct this is just what I saw one one of Bella’s vids.
@@daughter_OFathena13 Yeah Bella is getting sued but mattie has been posting sad snaps and stuff so
I think Bella is getting sued by the girl who Mattie cheat on them with which is fucked up and I feel anger for Bella bc if that was my gf who cheated on me I would be so hurt and filled with emotions very bad ones
@@ladybug_katie and so?
Because they are posting sad stuff we should forget that they are in the wrong??
Mattie didn't deserve Bella, they did Bella so dirty and here you are defending them because they are posting sad stuff 🙄
I don't think you understand how much they fucked up Bella psychologically
I understand you love Mattie,i do too but they fucked up
You shouldn't be defending them right now because they are posting sad stuff 🙄🙄🙄 are you for real, it's clear that they don't give a fuck about it at all, in fact they (mattie) are trying to gaslight everybody that they are the victim 😒😒😒
@@serenaleking2905 I wasn't I was saying something I like both of them
Even if Bella isn’t a good person, NO ONE deserves to get cheated on. I was shocked to find out what Mattie did when I first saw Bella’s video. In fact, I didn’t want to believe it. It just really shows that you never know what someone is like off of the internet. Another thing that gets me is when you go onto Mattie’s social media pages, people are slamming them for what they did, but not the friends that knew what they were doing but didn’t tell Bella. It’s like sentencing the murderer and not the people who knew of the murderer’s plan that didn’t do anything about it. I hope this situations blows over soon and Bella can find someone who will treat them better soon. This was truly shocking news.
The friends never told Mattie to cheat. It wasn’t their place to tell Bella either. Yes, they should’ve but that’s why they’re not friends anymore. And again it wasn’t their place. Mattie should've expected this outcome as an influencer. Her cheating should not be justified. The “disrespect” she’s getting is well deserved and quite honestly a lesson for her to never do it again. She should've never done it in the first place.
@NameNoneExistent tyere was drama behind her recently
@NameNoneExistent somethin to do with her and this other dude
Bassicly she texted something she shouldnt have
(A slur
I think she apologized but idk
Cant remembur
If ya want you search it up
@@lumity2812 exactly, she literally said that like in 2016, get over it
Why isn't Bella a good person bc she said "N" ? Please hunny
Mattie has taught the whole world that even the most innocent-looking people can hide dark truths
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 they haven't once denied it. They just kinda brushed it off in a video and tried to move on
just bc maddie cheated on someone doesnt mean shes a sociopath
a lot of ppl get cheated on, there are a lot of ppl who get cheated on so, cheating is sometimes a mistake so it was probably just a mistake, have you made mistakes, yes, how do i know, i know bc no one is perfect and it was a honest mistake, so if you think every cheater is a sociopath then your the sosciopath 😒
Maybe she isn't denying it because its nobody's buisness. I honestly don't think they did. Maybe they think nobody will believe them. Or they want whatever happened in the past only.
Or maybe they did and they regret it deeply and just want to.forget about it.
We won't know unless Mattie and Bella desire to tell us. Together because you need both sides to make a true story.
BRO it was hurtful on both sides!! Bella hurt Mattie too. It's hard to be stuck with something that hurts you. Mattie didn't know how to escape, so yes, they cheated. I know it isn't good but you have to see things on both sides.
how could mattie do such a thing? Bella's pretty, kind, amazing, funny, and has GREAT taste in music. Mattie never deserved them.
even if they weren’t feeling it at least just break up instead of hurting them
bella did something worse than cheating
@@DeansGamin ?
@@Lee-ne7bb5ps2g shes racist
@@DeansGamin what did she do
I will really miss bella and mattie. At first they were so strong so healthy so happy. Then mattie couldnt hold it in anymore. One night and she broke everything she could ever want. Bella didnt deserve her and it is so dissapointing how she took bellas love for granted.
Yeah mattie been posting stuff on snap that she feels bad and stuff
@@ladybug_katie yeah I highly doubt she actually feels bad. From most people I see who cheat never actually feel bad or never change.
You typed Bella didn't deserve her that's a mistake
@@Safi-Zargar How is rear a mistake
@@ladybug_katie huh
5:56 OHHHH THE IRONY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Frrrr like mattie is gaslighting herself to think bella cheated or sum
Dude I fr scoffed when I heard this song. The audacityyyy
@@beansy1834 yeah like mattie thinks she can turn the situation around and make us like her again without any adressing of the situation and making bella shut up about the situation with lawsuits
wait what’s the situation with lawsuits?
@@mel_bell27 Mattie is suing Bella for defamation because she told everyone what Mattie did to her
It's so sad and interesting and poetic to see this from an outside perspective, with no biases and no prejudice because I don't personally know any of those people, I can't judge Mattie as a bad person although cheating is obviously wrong in any situation because I don't know Mattie, but seeing the impact it caused on Bella shows a lot about them too... Idk, maybe I'm too into sociology
From all the comments I could read, yours was far the most interesting to me.
I personally don’t know both of them and I quite don’t like their content as well so I didn’t know what happened until recently. And all of this made me hate Mattie so much, cheating is very much forbidden for me and I’m really empathetic to Bella. Like, you can even see how Mattie doesn’t really care about hurting Bella, the only thing she’s sad/angry is about her cheating revealed to Bella. These videos are really interesting to watch, especially if you’re focusing on their body language.
But yeah, honestly she shouldn’t have cheat, it’s really sad even tho I also pretty don’t care.
that....that is not sociology lmfao
@@daisy3869 Right, that’s not sociology but psychology. But instead of making fun of their mistakes, you can show them the difference ? Because yeah, they will do the same mistake and there’s no point to making fun of them dumb*ss. Especially when sociology is a form of psychology so you obviously don’t know what you’re talking about.
For op : sociology is when you study the social relation, social action and social representations to understand how society works. Sociology is about the relation between individuals and society.
Psychology study the behavior, the emotions and the way they think of a person or a group of people to understand what’s their characteristics. Honestly, no wonder why you made this mistake, the two are kinda similar, except one is about society and the other about people, and when I was in high school, I was doing sociology but it became psychology at one point (so you know, kinda hard at one point to know the difference when you’re confuse). You can say sociology is a form of psychology.
Agreed, the analysis of individual motives is as far from sociology as you can get 😅
@@daisy3869 yeah that would be psychology since sociology focuses on how people interact with the world and society (hence the name) whilst psychology focuses on the psyche and how the mind works and how chemistry affects it.
I studied a bit of sociology in university for design and it's really interesting but this is not sociology. And I'm interested in mental health since I classify as mentally disabled (I'm on the ASD and have ADHD)
6:05 the fact that Mattie is just trying to blame it on Bella even though she knows what she did and everyone else knows it too. Best wishes to Bella ❤
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795mattie is a she .
Always with bellas side ❤
The amount of second hand embarrassment I get from Mattie posting emo "aww I'm so sad" tiktoks as if they weren't the one that cheated.. 💀
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795they both admitted to it....
Even if you cheat you have the right to go damn human emotions and I’m sick of people saying that, like no what they did want okay but they’re allowed to feel sad, like Jesus Christ I’m so sick of people like this
@@lillaperkins8498 okkkkkaaaaaayyyyyy? and I’m sick of cheaters ☠️
Mattie being able to smile rn while all of Bella’s videos are her pouring out her (very pulverized) soul and Mattie is smiling?! No. That’s crazy to me
She could just not be posting what emotions she's going through with the break up. Break ups are hard even if your the thing that caused it. I understand that what Mattie did was wrong but they don't have to put it all over their social media for everyone to see. It's their personal life not yours. You don't need to know ever emotion Mattie has about the break up so stop acting like their a bad person just because they aren't posting videos about the break up.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
Well maybe they got over it or she is hiding the pain. Don't judge just because of that
I don’t wanna sound one sided but matties probably covering up any negative feelings, I’ve done it and seen it and unless you personally know the person it can be really hard to tell ❤
This is so embarrassing. Mattie always gave me docuhey vibes
RIGHT?
Me two
bro mattie trying to be the victim is so embarrassing
I never liked them. Watching their videos before and not even knowing who they were I found them very irritating and just their personality (yeah only based off of videos) didnt sit right with me for whatever reason
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
“Why did you hurt yourself? Why did you go crazy?” “ sometimes there’s just no why I just did” that….people need to understand that more like idk why I did it I just felt it
I literally was on that video right when I scrolled to this comment!!!😦
@@__dollyep same
There is always a reason but often people do not realize why at the time.
watching all of matties tiktoks now knowing what really happened .... it was so obvious, they basically confirmed it from day 1
Mattie doesn’t deserve to be sad. She mad a choice and carried through leaving someone in pain. Shame on you Mattie shame.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
Before y'all get mad I'm saying this from the perspective of someone who had been cheated on more than once. Yes what Mattie did was bad but you can't go around saying that she can't be sad; even though she's the one that cheated doesn't mean that she can't regret her decisions. She might be truly upset at the fact that she cheated. But we shouldn't go around jumping to conclusions. 1. We don't know what went on behind the scenes, Bella could have done something that neither of them have said anything about and 2. Mattie doesn't deserve to be treated they way people are treating her. Yes you can say she cheated and yes you can say it was wrong but all of the other stuff needs to be kept to yourself. Y'all act like you've never made a bad decision or hurt someone's feelings in your entire life. At least show some respect even when you know what that person did was wrong; don't lower your morals just because you don't agree with someone's actions or feel the situation should have been handled differently.
@@That_Girl09I understand, Mattie does have the right to feel sorry.
@@pihu7795Mattie never denied it. They indirectly posted a video about it just telling people it's their business.
If Bella was lying, Mattie would've been saying they didn't do it end of story
The fact I understand Bella's pain. I wouldn't have understood the pain when it happened. It wasn't until I experienced that pain for myself. But if Bella gets more time for her to get the closure and she heals from this, and she will. Bella we're all in your corner❤
I’m sorry that happened to you. Anyone who gets cheated on deserves better. Just hang in there. You’ll find the piece to your puzzle.
mattie had pain too you know
@user-ge5on1df5b bruh it's literally been 8 months💀
I wondered what the "I really tried" one was about when Bella posted it :( it must have been after she gave Mattie a second chance and the lies kept coming
I think it also meant that Bella really gave the relationship their all and loved mattie with their whole heart. They made unimaginable sacrifices and Mattie just ruined it.
@@quin12411 months later, but yeah :(( I haven't been in a relationship but I've had the same happen with friendships where eventually I realized I cared more about the relationship than my friend did, and for a while I thought if I just gave more they'd care again
Once someone checks out it's nothing you can do 😢
5:11 proof that lyrics only make sense when you’re feeling it.
We should’ve seen this coming with all the videos Mattie would post of like “I saw a cute girl in the coffee shop or in the car garage and I’m trying not to be weird.” And stuff like that. A lot of her videos were red flags but we all just ignored it thinking “she’s just being funny.” Well she wasn’t. As far as we know, she never had any intentions to stay with Bella..
On the other hand all of Bella’s videos were about.. Mattie.. no other girls at all. They seemed genuinely happy with Mattie but of course, Mattie didn’t. Bella made everything about Mattie in almost every video. While Mattie was out flirting with other girls?
And it’s probably worse then that. We know they’ve kissed and probably more. Considering this, it’s easier to imagine how she feels. This person she loves so dearly and has spent multiple years of their life with just breaks up with them for no reason. And figuring out that her friends knew??? So all of her friends are traitors and her beloved boyfriend cheated on her.
Considering all of this, you can clearly see how bad this is. It should not be brushed off with videos of dancing and being happy. Mattie clearly broke Bella’s heart and is acting like nothing happened. What she did is pure evil especially for the sweet little girl she made herself out to be.. and as far as we know she could’ve done this with many other girls. Even in the early stages of their relationship.
Although Bella told us not to give her hate. She has clearly done something very wrong and something has to be done. Possibly even unsubscribing from Mattie because, personally, I don’t think somebody like her deserves anything good.
Thank you for reading my rant.
I noticed that to!! I saw the videos and would think “Isn’t she with Bella?” because it all seemed weird to me and gave me bad vibes. I hope Bella will be alright and knows how much we love her.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
I honestly thought the girl in the coffee shop was Bella..
@@pihu7795 why are you comment this on every comment on this comment section
I do think you should be able to feel attracted to other people, because that's not really something you can control, but Mattie didn't really show any interest in their relationship to the point that I didn't even know they were dating until I found a video about it from Bella's channel.
The thing is. Even though Bella has so much energy. You can tell she is so hurt and broken. Mattie had no right to do that. It kinda makes me tear up to see what we all thought would last a lifetime.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 because mattie made videos as well
Mattie trying to guilt tripping bella after cheating on them is going so ignored. That isnt fair at all.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 mattie acknowledged it aswell. It is confirmed true.
5:57 THE FACT MATTIE WAS SINGING TO THIS LIKE SHE DIDN’T TELL BELLA SHE LOVED HER AND THEN CHEATED 😂
Mattie was my favorite youtuber and seemed so caring, kind, and lights up my day. You cant trust anyone, ive lost my faith in humanity.
As someone who has faced a similar situation, I feel Bella. My bf of more than a year decided to ghost me out of nowhere, and I knew something was wrong. I used to tell my bestie that he had never stopped texting without telling me beforehand. I thought maybe he was bucy with smth important, and didn't think much even though there was a nagging feeling. I didn't had Instagram at the time but my BFF did, and saw that he had put stories and all.. That hurted me. He had time to upload stories but none to see my messages? That moment of betrayal, when everything that you had built together comes crashing down is.. Brutal. Heartbreaking. And I didn't even know why he ghosted me. I finally got the courage to tell him that I wanna break up (over text, we were in a ldr), and he pretended as if he didn't just ghosted me for a week. So technically I was the one who verbally initiated it, but he did it first through his actions. I said screw it, it hurted yes, but you gotta do what you have to do. And the thing is, I was processing all this without knowing why he technically decided to break up. After almost 10 months later I learnt it was for a girl he had studied with in hsc. He did mention about her to me and even asked me if he could be friends with her... What a joke. So I know exactly how much it must've hurt Bella. To be kept in the dark. It took me well over a year to finally get over him. But no way I'm going to be in a relationship anytime soon. I deserve a true break, and freedom. I hope Bella finds peace
the fact is Mattie was acting all innocent throughout it and after when they acted like they did nothing wrong
Narcissist
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
any1 in 2024?
Careful people wouldnt wanna be sued for "defamation" too....
Honestly, when I found this out it hurt me a lot. I really loved their relationship and all of their friends. It obviously doesn't upset me as much as it upsets Bella, but it really just shows how you can't trust anyone.
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@Pihu singing Well no one else is saying anything different
Just whenever I see one of Mattias vids I just can't look at them the same way I used to and the fact that several of their freinds knew and decided not to tell bella is messed up
I'm sorry I meant to put bella
Love how mattie is more sad in the videos then bella but she knows damn well it wad her fault.
Honestly mattie just looks more like they're faking unlike Bella who actually looks depressed
Wdym? She doesn’t look sad. She’s playing sad audios with a straight face and even smiling in some parts. Bella looks depressed. It seems they’re trying to force a smile. You can see in the one clip where Bella is sad while Mattie is making a TikTok. Tho I don’t have much conflict with your comment. She does seem to be playing the victim.
thats ts that’s lowkey pissing me off
how do you know he cheated? just because Bella said it doesnt mean its true
@@pihu7795 there are a lot of red flags in Mattie's own videos. Talking about flirting with others videos etc and making it seem like a joke when it was not a joke. I personally don't like bella. In fact, I liked Mattie. But as someone who was cheated on, all the signs are there. I just cannot overlook this action.
it's the fact that no one would expect this from Mattie... at all... BUT if Bella were the one cheating... with all controversies she had... lots of people would be like "yeah I'm not too surprised tbh"... just because of some silly stuff... i hope Bella pulls through much stronger than she ever was. poor her 😭
I used to love Mattie’s videos but I guess it’s true no matter how much you love someone, you’ll always choose popularity over them
For everyone concerned for Bella's mental health and safety from herself. STOP. You can care for her but for someone who struggles with commiting dying, constantly being told not to feel that emotion makes them feel like they're doing one more thing wrong. You really want to help, let them feel hopeless, let them cry themselves to sleep. Your worry is a slap in the face to their strength and personal growth. Life gets nasty, and overwhelming, and frustrating and it's okay to feel hopeless. You want to help take that burden and turn it into something better then honor the process of feeling and healing. Stop pitying and suffocating someone who's angry and feels like they're drowning. It worsens the frustration. They can't catch a break because people "care" unfortunately these are also the people who make it worse. Those are the suffocating "think about how WE feel when you're gone" people and you're actually the worst. If you care, you ask them how they are and how you can help, you don't assume you have the answers because they have one too and it's permanent. Don't disrespect a human being's strength when you only know what they've shared with you. Bella made it through before, they will make it through again.
No one is saying anything about that…..
Plus bella is doing great Now
@@ladybug_katie yeah she has a new gf :D
Gotta say though, this whole way of dealing with relationships is so weird. First off, showing it online and showing the breakup online and making weird tiktoks about it while crying, whether you were cheated on or the one who cheated, like maybe its a coping mechanism but its just so weird to me in general.
Finally, someone who feels this way.
you can tell that Bella really loved them, and its so sad that Mattie broke that trust/love possibly forever for Bella
Mattie gives Ellen Degeneres evil vibes
i'm saying like
Ok the amount of second hand embarassment i got from the water fountain one 😭
but in general i did cringe at most of these, i feel like breakups shouldn't be aired out for the world to see 😭
fr if you dont want to get bullied after you break up with someone dont put it put for the world to see
fr
im pretty sure they [jayus] posted the initial video (you knew i was getting cheated on and didn’t say anything) on her spam, which was at a way lower follow amount than it is now since the video blew up like crazy. it could’ve been used as a coping strategy but i honestly don’t know 🤷 i do agree though probably don’t post your breakups, ESPECIALLY if you have a huge following
@@perilokkkkkkkkkk yeah i mean it probably was a coping mechanism but fr don't post ur entire break up
Mattie acting like a victim had me cringe so hard 💀
THEY did not just sing the water fountain when THEY CHEATED wth
FR
Also for you guys who are hating on Mattie for smiling would like to point out people often smile right before and sometimes during a suicide attempt as well as during a nervous breakdown.
... I have no words yet I do- I feel like there is never going to be a happy ending for them like ''those'' kinds of stories where they end up forgiving each other. If Mattie ends up breaking up with her new ''partner'' and runs back to Bella- then I hope Bella rejects her and breaks her heart as much as Mattie did to Bella. I hope Bella finds someone she will love even more than Mattie, even if deep down... She still cares... This is all I wish to share for my comment.
Bella singing to I’m not okay was the gem I didn’t know I needed
Edit holy smokes this is the most likes I’ve ever gotten
you got 32.
Wow.. I can FEEL Bella’s pain. Literally makes me remmeber my last breakup.. so sorry for you Bella.
Honestly, side eye. Out of all ppl she chose olivia over bella. Bye mattie😂
Who's Olivia?
I thought it was Eva for a sec
@@joliesbasement i honestly don't knowww olivia is a rando fr
Search it up on yt i think it should come up
@@hxxnii what do I search from that to come up?
@@joliesbasement umm i think "olivia and mattie" on yt and it should come up
It is estimated at the time jayus got her hair cut while Mattie was down in Washington Mattie cheated on jayus I have the name of the person they are speculated to have cheated on and it matches the discrimination of jayus saying in a comment that they cheated with a Victoria secret model it is also known that many friends of Mattie who where also friends of jayus knew Mattie cheated but didn't say anything once jayus found out she told some virtual friends and either Mattie or the side chick found out about it and are sueing jayus for telling the virtual friends (Mattie or the side chick also made it clear that they wanted a apology letter and a list of names of the people jayus told to which jayus manager said no) Mattie made some videos that was hinting at the fact that she cheated with songs like "it was not your fault but mine it was your heart on the line I really fucked it up this time" which have since been deleted. And people to this day are still defending Mattie I saw a comment on a fan page of Mattie's and jayus relationship when I 1st heard of this trying to get all the Info I could on what happened and I kid you not one of the comments literally said "yeah well there relationship is non of my business and I've followed Mattie for longer so" to which I replied at a sate of being so shocked at this utterly foolish comment "they made there relationship our business by posting about it on line how could you still follow someone after they cheated on someone they said they loved? I think somebody cheating on somebody they said they loved tells you enough about there character."
I think if Mattie wanted to cheat on jayus she should have just broken up with her. It will take us all time to come to terms with the fact that this "clumsy nice girl" Maddie is playing is all a act and that this version of her never existed in that cold hearted gaslighting manipulative body we see here today. I genuinely don't like to be rude to people but when somebody is hurt is another story.(this is a copy and paste of my replies to other people's comment of the same question.)
7:50 they did not just use THAT audio as the one who freaking cheated!
Y’know what makes me even sadder is that both these people help me feel better and grow as a person and make me feel safe and at home when i watch them, and now I don’t know what to do
bella deserved WAY better than mattie
like on mattie's channel WHILE THEY WERE STILL A THING
talked abt everyone she saw and was like ''yo their attractive''
like wtf
its okay to have crushes before and while (not gaining them whilst) dating someone but talking abt them constantly is kinda trashy
plus cheating just isn't okay
I feel dumb for not knowing that onlyjayus's name was Bella. This whole time I've been calling her Jayus.
Sammee
Bella can never do anything cringe I swear I just ,, like any content they put out ,, it’s very honest and also show so much growth. Definitely aligns with my values a lot
5:31 imagine having the audacity after cheating on someone to do this.
4:31 is the most relatable for almost every person that has ever lived
Honestly I’m really curious of who Mattie cheated with bc I feel like no one’s talking about that. Ehh I’m usually the one to find out last, so y’all prob know. Sorry Bella for all the stress and all the depression. Get well soon❤
the fact that mattie had the audacity to do water fountain. i can't believe that they would stoop so low with all of this
5:48 Ohhh…That was made for mattie😮.
I really hope Mattie was more hurt
The fact matties acting all sad and the victim when they are the one who cheated and ruined the relationship. It angers me so much
It's so upsetting cuz Bella is seriously hurt from this. She's taking it seriously bc it is! But Mattie??? They seem to be living their life normally. They put sad audios on videos and start this "sad old vibes", but don't seem to have finished a relationship with a person they "loved". It's like they don't regret making that choice, which maybe Bella doesn't notice, but for me is a slap on the face. Imagine seeing your ex pretending they are hurt and "healing" when they are the one who caused the damage... Imagine.
For Bella if she ever comes to this vid and sees this I want you to know that they did not deserve you. And you are a absolute amazing person and you TRULY deserve better and deserve all the love and support in the world.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
Ps: pls do not hate on Mattie it is not going to help the situation
Idk why Mattie was posting “sad” tiktoks when they were the one who cheated. If you cheated in a relationship that means you obviously don’t care about the other person or the relationship in general. Like finding out your getting cheated on is much more painful then a normal breakup, if you don’t want to be in a relationship anymore then just tell them, instead of causing extra pain.💀
I think it’s hilarious how at 5:56 Mattie makes a vid making it sound like Bella cheated and not herself ironic right
The sad fact is that bella has told us already that mattie has dine this ti so many partners already. The fact that people get mad at the people defending bella and saying that she should get over it is so bizarre to me and shows they don't know what being cheated on by someone so important to you feels like. I watched years of my parents fight because of cheating. I have uine through the heartbreak the tesrs and the hurt because of cheating. Its not easy to get over. And now that mattie is suing bella for speaking out and not even bashing them while doing that, shows how much of a bad person mattie is.
To the last one, does anyone know who they were talking about cause I'm going to unfollow them since i was subscribed to the entire group
I'm so glad Bella is healing and found someone new
“I’m not saying that he deserved it, I’m saying god’s timing is always right”
I can’t believe this happened, I love them both so much 😢
When I first heard Mattie cheated on Bella I was so shocked. Of all people, MATTIE? it shows how the internet never really shows the best of someone, just what they want you to see. And now knowing some of Mattie's and Bella's friends knew Mattie was cheating but said nothing is absolutely insane. The crew I used to like but now don't even know. It went from this huge group to just Bella and Liv.
This makes me sad and in tears :(
Does anybody else notice how mattie seemed so happy in the beginning like she was ignoring and avoiding her feelings? Bella was living out her feelings and literally expressing how she felt. As the vid progresses you see mattie getting sadder and bella slowly getting happier and moving on. I was honestly so fucking scared for bella, but seeing her moving on is kinda giving *me* hope too. I am really very mad at mattie. This just goes on to show how the most innocent looking people can be complete sociopaths.
bro shes not a sociopath? its people like you that stigmatise mental health, stop calling people sociopaths when they are or even if the arent, it stigmatises it and makes people afraid of mental health.
sociopathy isnt the person with its fault, its the environment their trauma began, not them, but people like you are the cause of them.
I am so shocked that Mattie expected Bella to accept the I am sorry point blank and considering Mattie KNEW Bella has had this happen before and how bad it crushed her!
The whole video Mattie did about falling in love with without knowing them and that rose colored glasses hide the red flags was SO SPOT ON ! Bella didn't see what she probably should of BUT that is love, you take the chance and give someone your heart and hope they value you enough to cherish it as much as you do... and apparently Mattie just doesn't cherish anything but herself and her wants 🤬
I'm genuinely disappointed in Mattie
a friend taught me this, but you can just tell Mattie's eyes are empty. Bella's are so full of emotion, genuine emotion, and in some clips, Mattie just - doesn't feel real. Feels fake, like plastic, kind of a shell
The body language does not match up.
I have always knew love never ends with an happy ending cuz even if it's called happy it will always be sad and these two have proofed it so badly to me to a point I would never love again.
Okay like I just passed this again and realized that Mattie did the water fountain song like girl you were the one that cheated my guy said the opposite
I cannot stand the fact that this relationship was what made me believe in true love and then it ended in the worst way possible.
Yeah okay you don't have a lot of experience in seeing relationships fall apart so easily do you.
@@thewewguy8t88 i mean, I do. It just made me sad, that's all. Ig the relationship just looked so healthy and I was really happy for them but then it fell apart so
@@quin124 I can't say it does for me but then again to me they both come across as teenagers who think they are being cool and edgy for not conforming to the normal socal standards. And they both seem like extremely damaged people who just think they are so mature but really are just Still teenagers mentally who think they are being cool. And infact probably think that they were the first kids to be brave enough to admit they were part of the LGBT community.
literally just went thru the same thing bella did w mattie. it sucks like hell. i've also done the same thing mattie did before, so i know how it feels from both sides of the story. i know the hurt and the guilt. both sides are painful.
bro it just gets sadder and sadder each vid
i feel horrible for her being cheated on, and being manipulated, i sadly know how that feels and i wish she can recover some day. being cheated on is horrible it sucks and feels like your being stabbed in the heart.
They were one of my favourite couples😢
4:38
I know it's off topic, but does anybody know the sond from this timestemp?
thanks for telling me :)
It is TROUBLE by Jaxten
what are the songs called in this video cuz now i need to make a new playlist
i need it too
If you look in the description there are some of the songs
I keep seeing alot of ppl being mean to mattie, and i kinda get it but, she made a mistake, and bella made mistakes too, they both made mistakes, and just because one might be worse than the other, doesnt mean you can juat be rude and mean to them, i mean i get that she supposedly cheated (idk if she did or not), but that doesn't mean you can go harass her abt it, and im not saying thats shes a great person or anything, no one is we are all just ppl, and at the end of the day its just life. And i think you can tell that mattie feels bad abt what she did, and even if she doesn't, i think bell still cares abt her. Anyways thats what i have to say, i do like them both, i watch bella and i watch mattie, i think they are both great, and funny, but anyways thats my take on it, thx for listening to my lil rant byeee😊
Im trying so hard but i cant take it seriously with all the bojack horseman audios💀
The thing is is how loving and caring Mattie is it’s was unexpected!
I only just found out about all of this drama, but i really think that what mattie did was really bad. Like, who just posts tiktoks eluding to the fact that they cheated, then breaks up with the person they cheated on with out telling why they are breaking up.I truly feel bad for jayus. I watched a video where jayus said now she will try to be single because of what happened to her. I also fell bad for jayus even more because a lot of her friends knew what mattie was doing and didn't tell her. Unbelievable.
that just shocks me that mattie is suing bella. it just makes me so angry that they cheated on them, and making things worse for bella.
I can't believe Mattie would do such a thing, it was so unexpected.
0:37 the dog casually attacking Bella
5:56 & 7:40 Mattie is acting like it was Bella's fault. That really pissed me off.
5:57 this is so ironic knowing the situation now
You know this would be a crazy prank if it was a prank
Yeah but at the same time it’s like why would they make up all this stuff
@@ladybug_katie yeah agreed 😅
i dont have snapchat can someone tell what mattie posted abt the breakup?
Nothing