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  • @lizamichelleva8375
    @lizamichelleva8375 Před 2 lety +842

    The one about the drag queens reminded me of how people basically are like
    "You wear a skirt? Haha you're a girl"
    Trans girl: "actually yeah I am"
    "What?? No!! I refuse to call you a girl!!!!"

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před 2 lety +101

      "Wel- but-... H-how am I supposed to make fun of you without putting effort into my insults?!"

    • @kazikek2674
      @kazikek2674 Před 2 lety +112

      Ironically that's either some deep seated shame issue or plain misogyny mixing with T-phobia. They want to use 'girl' in a derogatory manner towards a less, in their eyes, masculine man - but are incapable of accepting someone born the same *sex* as them may be happy being feminine or indeed a woman, let alone valuing and respecting that happiness.

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick Před 2 lety +43

      I feel that. I'm a Demigirl/Neutrois gender and I dress masculine-androgynous (But I do like SOME 'feminine' things like flowers and nail polish, though to me I don't see gender in clothes objects r toys), and my pronouns are she/they and I had people call me sir, tell me I look and sound like a boy, tell me to be ladylike. When I say "I'm not a lady," they say "Well you're not a guy!" and I go "No, I'm not" and it's so hard explaining my gender to people. They ask if I'm trans MTF or FTM I say "No I'm Non-binary" some get it others ask what that is or say it doesn't exist and yeah it's so hard just to be myself.

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss Před 2 lety +32

      Hmm, it's almost like they're _trying to be abusive_ … to both the drag queens and the trans ladies.
      Hmmm…
      *HMMM…*

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před 2 lety +24

      @@kazikek2674 It's kinda funny that femboys are, in a way, more secure in their masculinity than macho-ass jarheads.

  • @LongForgottenJ
    @LongForgottenJ Před 2 lety +1961

    The first lesbian marriage in Canada was between a cis woman and a trans woman who transitioned after their marriage. I read an article about it at the time in which someone said “they’re just trying to get around the law”. That quote confuses me to this day.

    • @echiko4932
      @echiko4932 Před 2 lety +256

      Ah yes, when two women love each other but one pretends to be a man to get around gay marriage! Idk what their position could possibly be.

    • @grizzlybear2702
      @grizzlybear2702 Před 2 lety +109

      I am reading a book about antigravity.
      It’s impossible to put it down.

    • @Soundwave._
      @Soundwave._ Před 2 lety +219

      The ultimate power move is purposely being born with XY chromosomes so you can marry the woman of your dreams before you transition as a woman yourself.

    • @EliTrottervb
      @EliTrottervb Před 2 lety +19

      Do you think you could link the article? I'd like to read it

    • @grizzlybear2702
      @grizzlybear2702 Před 2 lety +25

      @@EliTrottervb hay I just found myself looking in the mirror

  • @RobinL1011
    @RobinL1011 Před 2 lety +1224

    I'm a trans guy and I play handball in a women's team (I'm pre-t). They have known that I'm trans for a month now and are really eager to get my name and pronouns right, I just love them.
    Anyways, last Friday we met for a team-building evening. Somebody got a box of fortune cookies and mine said "Never change yourself to be liked by others". And standing there, with those wonderful people who just accept me the way I am and this fortune cookie, made me realise that it does get better. Maybe not tomorrow or in a week, but it does get better.

    • @fluffy698
      @fluffy698 Před 2 lety +60

      That's so sweet! Why can't everyone be like your handball team?

    • @sarahwarnock2707
      @sarahwarnock2707 Před 2 lety +33

      I'm legit tearing up f your comment💖 soo glad you have loving ppl in your life!

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před 2 lety +22

      May you continue to feel the blessings, on every step of your journey.
      🙏💙💗🤍💗💙

    • @renhey9979
      @renhey9979 Před 2 lety +13

      Both handball and your handball team are brilliant

    • @gazepskotzs4
      @gazepskotzs4 Před 2 lety +11

      I hate handball!! But you and your team are awesome!!!

  • @sabrinachuaqui
    @sabrinachuaqui Před 2 lety +919

    the one where the friends were practicing their other friend's they/them pronouns made me so emotional. that's all my little non-binary heart wants.

    • @starrywizdom
      @starrywizdom Před 2 lety +39

      A dear young friend of ours came out as enby with the name Riley -- we've been practicing together calling them by their correct name & pronouns so as to minimize the chances of accidentally deadnaming or misgendering them. They're such a sweetie -- it's totally worth it!

    • @sabrinachuaqui
      @sabrinachuaqui Před 2 lety +20

      @@starrywizdom you’re such an awesome friend!!! :)

    • @prideyeah9014
      @prideyeah9014 Před 2 lety +13

      🏳️‍🌈👏

    • @kaded_cat
      @kaded_cat Před 2 lety +5

      Yeah 🥺🥺🥺

    • @somerandommixoffandomsands4452
  • @alexshemwell8320
    @alexshemwell8320 Před 2 lety +987

    I'm imaging Shaaba's gleeful face as she throws spices at you.

    • @ptszpwr783
      @ptszpwr783 Před 2 lety +93

      Her silently dying in the background was the best part of that entire ad. I generally zone out for them but that got my attention and made me lose it as well because like you I can just envision an evil grin as she did this.

    • @callabeth258
      @callabeth258 Před 2 lety +41

      I suspect the peanut butter was her favourite!

    • @melissashilkoff
      @melissashilkoff Před 2 lety +33

      Let's be honest, she was the star of the video

    • @sarahwarnock2707
      @sarahwarnock2707 Před 2 lety +26

      Omg yes I legit had a laughing fit just picturing her evil grin! She is too cute!

    • @Nobert594
      @Nobert594 Před 2 lety +14

      *angerey mideval noises*

  • @almoglevin
    @almoglevin Před 2 lety +493

    I've been saying "dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not" sometimes, and yes, it's quoting you Jamie.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před 2 lety +12

      Yes, my kids and I do the same!

    • @mhm7568
      @mhm7568 Před 2 lety +7

      I have that picture saved! Lol
      I THINK (emphasis on think) I’m trans ftm.
      Idkkkk, my friends still call me ‘she’ and Im super nervous to correct them!
      Most of them are LGBTQIA+ though! One is trans ftm also, one is bi, another is bi, a third is bi, and on is questioning.

    • @coralovesnature
      @coralovesnature Před 2 lety +2

      @@mhm7568 If your friends are LGBT+ I’m sure they’d be quite glad to oblige your pronouns. I’d suggest to test out presenting more masc and having your friends use your preferred pronouns to see if it feels right. I am afab non-binary myself and for a brief couple of days I had an inner crisis in which I though I was ftm trans, but then I was like, duh I’m non-binary. Good luck with your journey, wherever it takes you!

  • @FrozEnbyWolf150
    @FrozEnbyWolf150 Před 2 lety +730

    I just want more videos where Shaaba throws random foods at Jamie's face.

  • @IgirlbossedTooCloseToTheSun
    @IgirlbossedTooCloseToTheSun Před 2 lety +1139

    My gender is *_I have no plans to purchase a new vehicle._* So glad that theres finally representation of my people! /j

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 Před 2 lety +73

      Who needs a new vehicle anyway if you're asexual? Just flap your dragon wings if you want to get around.

    • @peacefulleopard8016
      @peacefulleopard8016 Před 2 lety +53

      Travelling by dragon wing wouldn’t exactly be inconspicuous though, and people would get suspicious if they saw a thunder (I think that’s the plural noun) of dragons all flying towards Denmark.

    • @OhSoUnicornly
      @OhSoUnicornly Před 2 lety +35

      @@peacefulleopard8016 Wait why are we going to Denmark and why wasn't I invited?

    • @peacefulleopard8016
      @peacefulleopard8016 Před 2 lety +47

      @@OhSoUnicornly there are more asexuals than there are soldiers in the Danish military, and Denmark is a cool country so we thought we’d peacefully take over Denmark. We worked out an arrangement with the bisexuals and the non binaries so we could share Denmark. I could have sworn every asexual got a telegram of our plans...

    • @OhSoUnicornly
      @OhSoUnicornly Před 2 lety +18

      @@peacefulleopard8016 Hmm, I'll have to check the mail!

  • @un-bee-leivable
    @un-bee-leivable Před 2 lety +1430

    the book from the beginningis felix ever after, i'm reading it now and it's really good
    edit: my gosh, i've never had this many likes, thank you!

    • @madisonelizabeth329
      @madisonelizabeth329 Před 2 lety +31

      I read it a bit ago and I absolutely loved it. One of my favourite books. Hope you enjoy it!

    • @MidoriyamaRArekusu
      @MidoriyamaRArekusu Před 2 lety +8

      Thank you for for this!

    • @kaylawoodbury2308
      @kaylawoodbury2308 Před 2 lety +9

      What's the synopsis?

    • @madisonelizabeth329
      @madisonelizabeth329 Před 2 lety +104

      @@kaylawoodbury2308 Felix Love has never been IN love- and, yes, he’s painfully aware of the irony. He desperately wants to know what it’s like and why it seems so easy for everyone but him to find someone. What’s worse is that, even though he’s proud of his identity, Felix also secretly fears that he’s one marginalization too many- Black, queer, and transgender- to ever get his own happily ever after. When an anonymous student begin sending him transphobic messages- after publicly posting Felix’s dead name alongside images of him before he transitioned- Felix comes up with a plan for revenge. What he didn’t count on: his catfish scenario letting him in a quasi-love triangle… But as he navigates his complicated feelings, Felix begins a journey of questioning and self discovery that helps him redefine his most important relationship: how he feels about himself. Felix Ever After is an honest and layered story about identity, falling in love, and recognizing the love you desire.
      That is straight from the book. It’s important to note that we never discover Felix’s deadname if anyone was worried about/ triggered by that

    • @spinkaj
      @spinkaj Před 2 lety +14

      I thought it sounded familiar, everyone go read it, such a good book!

  • @toast99bubbles
    @toast99bubbles Před 2 lety +1402

    Getting people to correctly pronoun your cat is usually easy, but I did once have an encounter with someone who insisted it was wrong that my boy cat called Hector was wearing a flower cape because he's a boy cat and should be wearing a suit. This was in a pet shop after taking him for a checkup at the vet in the store. He loves going out and dressing up, so why should it matter what he wears when he's just a cat?

    • @Struudeli
      @Struudeli Před 2 lety +110

      Reminds me when I was walking with my doggo (rip Nappi

    • @piarateking8094
      @piarateking8094 Před 2 lety +75

      didnt know capes are gendered(yes i know its the flowers but still)

    • @rocamboleq
      @rocamboleq Před 2 lety +28

      Lol I read checkup as ketchup

    • @toast99bubbles
      @toast99bubbles Před 2 lety +85

      @@Struudeli Some people are really odd with their forcing of gender stereotypes onto animals, even if they're wrong about the animals gender. Although it's not as often as with it happening to humans.

    • @toast99bubbles
      @toast99bubbles Před 2 lety +39

      @@piarateking8094 The cape was from Build A Bear and was a My Little Pony one (I got it just for the cat with some other clothes because they're the right size). I do have a little video from the same day on my channel of Hector in his cape, if you want to see it and how happy he is in it.

  • @livc832
    @livc832 Před 2 lety +223

    This is a comment specifically dedicated to the appreciation of the Magic Spoon AD. Shaaba and Jamie definitely had way too much fun making that. I laughed so hard I snorted out my tea.

    • @bennyton2560
      @bennyton2560 Před 2 lety +3

      it's Shaaba's laugh for me

    • @mod850
      @mod850 Před rokem +2

      As great as the video was, the advert was my favorite part

  • @skrunklington
    @skrunklington Před 2 lety +427

    okay but can we talk about how cute and wholesome jamie is?? his reactions make my day

  • @VioletRosesmith
    @VioletRosesmith Před 2 lety +196

    I thought it was going to be hard coming out to my Nan because she chronically misgenders my cat by accident. 6 months later and she hasn't misgendered me once and still can't get the cat right.. poor Yuki.

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D Před 2 lety +15

      I am happy for you, but poor yuki! What are yuki's pronouns?

    • @nxcrorat
      @nxcrorat Před 2 lety +27

      That goes to show she cares and knows it's important for you, I'm sure your cat doesn't mind as much XD

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 Před 2 lety +42

      @@SammyLammy1D Since it's a cat, I assume they go by "Your Majesty/Your Holiness".

    • @silvercandra4275
      @silvercandra4275 Před 2 lety +5

      Yuki is a great name for a cat. ^^
      And a name that doesn't give away their gender...

    • @VioletRosesmith
      @VioletRosesmith Před 2 lety +6

      @@silvercandra4275 Named after the cat she looks like from the Animatrix episode "Beyond" so in her own way a little trans tribute ^^
      Also means "Snow" In Japanese.

  • @johnjohnson8575
    @johnjohnson8575 Před 2 lety +82

    I had a fortune cookie that was simply a joke, 'what do you call a sheep without legs? A cloud.' It was so unexpected that I couldn't help but laugh at the really bad joke.

  • @bookwormdystopian
    @bookwormdystopian Před 2 lety +231

    The book is called Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender and it is about a transgender teen finding love. I loved that book and it is wholesome.

    • @asherunderground7951
      @asherunderground7951 Před 2 lety +5

      I was looking for this comment. I love that book so much, I feel like every trans youth should read it.

  • @Theesevennstarss
    @Theesevennstarss Před 2 lety +224

    Spud Overlord has blessed us again with his grace

  • @SwashBuckTief
    @SwashBuckTief Před 2 lety +72

    my favorite is definitely "transmasc trans mask transmasc"
    reminds me of "ship shipping shipping ships" 😂

    • @Azavelika
      @Azavelika Před 2 lety +1

      *ahems* There's a tavern call the fox and dog tavern. They had someone out to repair the sign. The manager says to the repairman, "More space between fox and and and and and dog."

    • @Azavelika
      @Azavelika Před 2 lety

      Also, you might like the subreddit r/WordAvalanches. And if you're into stuff like that, you should check out Tom Scott's video on "garden path sentences" called "crash blossoms and being drunk: ambiguity". And if you're checking out his stuff, he has a myriad of videos on interesting linguistic topics. I'd also recommend my favorite video by him where he polled the internet to find a ranking for every thing.

  • @pjo379
    @pjo379 Před 2 lety +287

    The book is called “Felix ever after” it’s a good book📚

    • @rowanhutchison3378
      @rowanhutchison3378 Před 2 lety +8

      Thank youuuuuu

    • @SticktheTwig
      @SticktheTwig Před 2 lety +6

      I knew I read it! I love that book so much

    • @theemofemboycatgirlw3214
      @theemofemboycatgirlw3214 Před 2 lety +1

      Another good book is Mien Kampf written by a 20th century Austrian painter with a silly mustache it's literally the funniest non comedy book ever well at least according to my 5th year history teacher Mr Cook who once borrowed his friend's copy (because in Scotland the cops are a bit funny when it comes to Nazi stuff) he said it was just a long book of rambling that ultimately didn't make much sense which I guess makes sense since bigotry never makes sense like why hate someone for being the way they are

    • @JB.Junebug
      @JB.Junebug Před 2 lety +3

      I especially love this because Felix means happy and so the book is kinda called happy ever after.

    • @pjo379
      @pjo379 Před 2 lety +3

      @@JB.Junebug Felix also means lucky

  • @sleepy-emerald
    @sleepy-emerald Před 2 lety +153

    “Are you a boy or a girl?”
    “Yes”/“no”/“maybe”/“yesn’t”/“perhaps”
    “No, what’s in your pants?”
    “Depression. And a razor blade.”
    “A- are you okay-?”
    (Shi-)
    *Mission... failed... successfully?*

    • @NostalgicalE
      @NostalgicalE Před 2 lety +3

      pfft-

    • @lavender3609
      @lavender3609 Před 2 lety +2

      *_pffft-_*

    • @silvercandra4275
      @silvercandra4275 Před 2 lety +27

      So my ex and I are both trans...
      One time I drunkenly messaged him "What's in your pants?" and he relied something like "Despair. You?", "Pain and misery."
      I miss him.

    • @NostalgicalE
      @NostalgicalE Před 2 lety +2

      @@silvercandra4275 oh, are you alright?

    • @silvercandra4275
      @silvercandra4275 Před 2 lety +2

      @@NostalgicalE No, not really.
      But thanks for asking.

  • @koallawangja
    @koallawangja Před 2 lety +135

    I came out to my choir teacher yesterday after being her student for almost three years now (she heard one of my friends call me my preferred name and asked me about it). Today was the first day she started calling me by my preferred name and some people were confused when I answered to my preferred name but no one objected. I also ended up coming out to my extra math help class (one I’d known from elementary school). It was really exciting because none of my teachers have called me my preferred name (another one knows it but he just calls us all “kid” even when calling on us he doesn’t refer to us with our names)

    • @sarahwarnock2707
      @sarahwarnock2707 Před 2 lety +9

      I'm so glad this went well for you and you have supportive ppl in your life 💖

    • @KarkaranosBuilds
      @KarkaranosBuilds Před 2 lety +9

      Ah great! I’m so proud of you!

  • @EmoBearRights
    @EmoBearRights Před 2 lety +99

    The fire extinguisher covers both puberty blockers and vacinations - ergo taking out both transphobes and anti-vaxers score.

    • @circlebird9013
      @circlebird9013 Před 2 lety +11

      Ik if it hadn't been in a video about trans memes I would've assumed it was about vaccines

    • @theemofemboycatgirlw3214
      @theemofemboycatgirlw3214 Před 2 lety +8

      I'd actually argue anti-vaxxers do way more damage than transphobes since because of them viruses like polio is making a comeback we were on the cusp of eradicating it forever like Smallpox but nope anti-vaxxers ruined it

  • @lilwoofs
    @lilwoofs Před 2 lety +130

    The one about the kids in McDonald’s made me start crying, it’s so sweet

    • @alexshemwell8320
      @alexshemwell8320 Před 2 lety +14

      Me too and I'm worried it ruined my masc makeup that I just tried for the first time.

  • @bluehoneyblood8697
    @bluehoneyblood8697 Před 2 lety +310

    Okay okay I know off topic but today my teacher said: "Nowadays, men, women and anyone else can vote."
    Hope is not lost!

    • @nukiradio
      @nukiradio Před 2 lety +23

      _angry children noises_

    • @pileofsaltOG
      @pileofsaltOG Před 2 lety +17

      I have a teacher who is so inclusive it almost faults him. xD
      Because now that the whole class knows, we mess with him.
      If he says any little thing we make him change it. xD

  • @johnjohnson8575
    @johnjohnson8575 Před 2 lety +131

    A friend of mine came out as trans to her parents, her parents are a bit on the conservative side of things. Her dad said something along the lines of, 'as long as you're happy.' Her mom was a little more confused about how my friend could be married to her wife still if she is actually a woman.

  • @Gallant_Silver
    @Gallant_Silver Před 2 lety +54

    10:17
    I will tell you that as a cis-woman, I've had my privacy invaded more than once by other cis-women (and their nosy children) in the restroom, because they're peeking through the cracks in the stall door. It's happened with a girl I knew in elementary school, and it's happened while I've been in a public restroom at work. I once had to put my foot in a child's face to keep them from staring at me from under the stall door. Humans are strange creatures.

    • @ragnkja
      @ragnkja Před 11 měsíci +1

      I’m so glad public toilet stalls in Norway are a lot more private than that. There aren’t any gaps around the doors for creeps to look in through, and you’d really have to go out of your way to see over or under the door, just as much as you’d have to to see over or under the partitions separating the stalls from each other.

  • @Cherrycreamsoda1
    @Cherrycreamsoda1 Před 2 lety +78

    "But do we know the long term effects of fire extinguishers?" that's actually an amazing analogy for how transphobes feel about hormone blockers at puberty.

    • @echolinker9590
      @echolinker9590 Před 2 lety +4

      but also covid vaccines?

    • @darkcreatureinadarkroom1617
      @darkcreatureinadarkroom1617 Před 2 lety +3

      @@echolinker9590 That was my first impression too, it seems to work both ways. Now I need to find that meme to share it with everyone.

    • @countesselvararose1128
      @countesselvararose1128 Před 2 lety

      I feel dumb asking but can you explain it?

    • @darkcreatureinadarkroom1617
      @darkcreatureinadarkroom1617 Před 2 lety +2

      @@countesselvararose1128 The dog is sitting in the middle of a huge problem (the fire) and there is a solution for the problem (the extinguisher) but instead of using it, the dog is questioning its validity. The analogy works like this:
      For Covid vaccines:
      The fire: Covid
      The extinguisher: The vaccines
      The dog: Covid-deniers/anti-vaxxers
      For hormone blockers:
      The fire: kids growing up in a body they don't feel right for themselves
      The extinguisher: puberty blockers
      The dog: transphobes
      (I'm not 100% sure on the last one, that's what I understood from Jamie's commentary)

    • @Cherrycreamsoda1
      @Cherrycreamsoda1 Před 2 lety +8

      @@countesselvararose1128 Ok so basically the fire is like a young person's body growing into a gender they don't want (causing dysphoria), and the fire extinguishers are the hormone blockers used at puberty so that kids can decide when they're 16 (or 18?) what gender presentation they want to have. Some people question the long term effects of 'fire extinguishers' (hormone blockers), without considering the devastating effect of gender dysphoria (the 'fire') on a person's life. I am cis so I really hope I got this right :)

  • @ArabellaTurner
    @ArabellaTurner Před 2 lety +103

    Shabbah throwing things at you while you talked was the most glorious thing ever. You’re so adorable together and bring be joy every time I see you together!

  • @silverfish9218
    @silverfish9218 Před 2 lety +52

    I recently went to a doctor who is a regular customer of mine, their secretary gave me a paper with personal information to fill out since I was getting a vaccination shot. At the question of "what is your gender" they put 6 DIFFERENT OPTIONS TO CHOOSE FROM!! (female, male, diverse, inter, open and not specified) I looked at it and even though I am not particularly religious sent a thank you prayer to the sky for restoring my faith in humanity. This tiny gesture made my week and I still smile thinking about it.

    • @romyjane17
      @romyjane17 Před 2 lety +1

      What does inter or open gender mean? Is inter for intersex?

    • @silverfish9218
      @silverfish9218 Před 2 lety +7

      @@romyjane17 Inter defs stands for intersex, open means questioning or not defined yet I am guessing? Where I am from we have a way of saying that if a question is still unanswered we say it's "still open" so I am guessing thats what they meant.

    • @romyjane17
      @romyjane17 Před 2 lety

      @@silverfish9218 ahh thanks for letting me know

  • @nickasher1687
    @nickasher1687 Před 2 lety +37

    He should do the meme where it's boba Fett and he's pointing his blaster at someone and the caption reads "You best be respecting trans people, or your pronouns are going to be Was/Were"

  • @alexreid7386
    @alexreid7386 Před 2 lety +39

    The one with the 'long term effects of fire extinguishers' applies not only to dysphoria and puberty blockers, but also to covid and the vaccines

  • @martelraykin
    @martelraykin Před 2 lety +65

    The cat thing made me think about one of my parent's cat from years ago. Basically it was a male (then neutered) cat but they consistently called her by feminine pronouns and named her Melody which in a weird sense kinda made her a "trans cat", who went missing way before i was born. Now, I dated a trans girl like two or three years ago and her name happened to be Melody too so I used to say that I found the reincarnation of that cat in human form

  • @scalylayde8751
    @scalylayde8751 Před 2 lety +28

    "I have no intention to purchase a new vehicle" is actually the gender shared by every member of my family including me

  • @idiotwebber
    @idiotwebber Před 2 lety +87

    Man watching these make me really happy as a trans male myself
    I have to go through people purposely dead naming me and using the wrong pronouns at school regularly now , no matter how many times I correct them or tell them to stop
    Please you're my favorite youtuber in this community and these videos make me smile and really happy

    • @zenpie5093
      @zenpie5093 Před 2 lety +5

      I hope things will get better for you soon!

    • @idiotwebber
      @idiotwebber Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you !

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss Před 2 lety +4

      Possible response: "No. That's my twin-sister-from-a-parallel-universe. In this Universe, there's only *ME.*"

  • @collapsingwavefunction_.3356

    Ugh the accuracy in the drag queen one! My mom refuses to use zey/zem but has no issue calling a plant "he". And I pointed that out to her and she's just like well blah blah it's not literal so it doesn't feel like I'm being dishonest or some bullshit like that. 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @thefool3357
    @thefool3357 Před 2 lety +37

    My teacher was trying to tell people in my 4th hour that ypu need to respect pronouns even if you don't agree with it. Its not about your "beliefs" it's about respect. One girl asked what if it goes against their beliefs, many people said *they* don't get *they/them* pronouns, and most of the guys went off b*tching that there are only two genders and said pronouns are stupid. I live in a very christian, republican state and I'm a transgender, pansexual, satanist, and non-political teenage boy. Imagine the struggle lmao.

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D Před 2 lety +13

      I am sorry. As an atheist enby with the same problem (more religion than just Christianity) I feel with you. You should know that you are valid, and those idiots don't know basic respect nor what their religion ACTUALLY stands for /preaches

    • @thefool3357
      @thefool3357 Před 2 lety +5

      @@SammyLammy1D Thank you, and same to you my friend.

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss Před 2 lety +5

      Hang in there, and plot your escape. You too, @Cas.

    • @slimetank394
      @slimetank394 Před 2 lety +5

      Good for your teacher, suck to be your classmates. Can't imagine the ignorance, couldn't be me!

    • @doctorsex01
      @doctorsex01 Před rokem +2

      i also live in a state like that.

  • @silvthedusky1078
    @silvthedusky1078 Před 2 lety +99

    If someone were to run away from the word trans aren't they TRANSporting themselves with their legs, and that begs the question do they not do an action with trans as well?

    • @iantaakalla8180
      @iantaakalla8180 Před 2 lety +4

      If they were that particular about avoiding any word with the letter sequence “trans”, they would call walking ambulating, using vehicles driving vehicles or riding vehicles, fixing their transmission fixing their gearbox, a particularly esoteric/spiritual/surreal moment ethereal, a person who translates into another language a localizer, getting an organ transplant “receiving an organ from another person”, and call Transitions eyeglasses just eyeglasses, to name a few “trans” words I can think of off the top of my head.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 Před 2 lety +7

      I could always offer to do a cisaction with them, as opposed to a transaction. In which case, I'd just take the goods from them and run away without paying.

    • @silvthedusky1078
      @silvthedusky1078 Před 2 lety +4

      @@iantaakalla8180 they must hate water because its TRANSparent

    • @noahluppe
      @noahluppe Před 2 lety +2

      @@silvthedusky1078 and their skin is translucent to a degree...

    • @theemofemboycatgirlw3214
      @theemofemboycatgirlw3214 Před 2 lety +5

      Transphobes no longer get to buy things because that's a TRANSaction

  • @lukaphoenix1568
    @lukaphoenix1568 Před 2 lety +30

    The number of times that I said "oh my god Jamie is adorable" in this video is more than I can count.
    Also I've seen that one about the kids practicing their friend's they/them pronouns so many times and it still makes me tear up. It's so pure

  • @flyingfox1679
    @flyingfox1679 Před 2 lety +101

    I’m going to talk with my doctor about my trans issues this Friday! I’m really excited cause I’m gonna get permission to join a sort of trans doctor at my local hospital. Basically they help people with trans issues to find themselves and what the best options are.

    • @flyingfox1679
      @flyingfox1679 Před 2 lety +2

      @Sean thanks :D

    • @gamerfourlife64
      @gamerfourlife64 Před 2 lety +6

      You got dis

    • @OhSoUnicornly
      @OhSoUnicornly Před 2 lety +7

      Congrats & good luck!! ^^

    • @yarr0
      @yarr0 Před 2 lety +6

      YESSSSSS I'm so excited for you!!! Good luck! 💕✨

    • @Abigail-Rebecca
      @Abigail-Rebecca Před 2 lety +3

      Fabulous my friend. I feel happy for you, I am having my third doctor's appointment about my transition in a few days time too...can't wait to start hormones.

  • @schoolemail190
    @schoolemail190 Před 2 lety +41

    Have a good day/night people 😊 also I'm so glad just came out as trans to my mum and step dad, I'm allowed to wear a suit for their wedding in a few months 😭

    • @skyball130
      @skyball130 Před 2 lety +6

      Ahhh that's great!! I'm enby and I gotta say, suits are everything!! I have a purple one, a yellow one, a classic black one, and a very, very silly one that I made out of fabric with pride flags on it. Honestly, idk you, but I'm 100% sure you'll rock that wedding

    • @schoolemail190
      @schoolemail190 Před 2 lety +3

      @@skyball130 Yesss!! Omg thank you I will tell them😭 i actually can't wait lol I've got a white shirt, black waistcoat but my mum is still forcing me to wear a pink tie (but she can have her own way this time since it's her wedding😂)

    • @skyball130
      @skyball130 Před 2 lety +2

      @@schoolemail190 haha ofc!! Also, I think pink is a great color -- again, I'm sure you'll rock that tie, along with the rest of the suit!!! :)

  • @bluehoodieart7315
    @bluehoodieart7315 Před 2 lety +4

    4:17
    Jamie: phew. She’s gone
    Shabbah, off screen: pocket sand!

  • @Prickly_Cactus_1993
    @Prickly_Cactus_1993 Před 2 lety +217

    I'm so proud of you for surviving another day, you have overcome so much and are still here with us today, if the version of you from 5 years ago could see you right now, they would be so proud . You are all such strong and valid people and I know you can follow your dreams and there will always be someone there for you, you are not alone.

    • @justsomeaddict6380
      @justsomeaddict6380 Před 2 lety +7

      So wholesome!!!

    • @swagnuts908
      @swagnuts908 Před 2 lety +18

      me from 5 years ago would call current me several slurs lol

    • @nyandoesthings
      @nyandoesthings Před 2 lety +11

      @@swagnuts908 this is hilarious thank you. I was never one for slurs but me from 5 years ago certainly would treat me transphobically.

    • @onefluffyredpanda1909
      @onefluffyredpanda1909 Před 2 lety +3

      ❤️

    • @silvercandra4275
      @silvercandra4275 Před 2 lety +6

      5 Years ago I was just on the brink of going from bullying a lesbian class mate to going "maybe I am lesbian"
      Today, I'm a gay trans man, trying to finally get my transition going, but struggling because all the therapists in my area don't have spots open...

  • @swiftlyaswiftie
    @swiftlyaswiftie Před 2 lety +35

    I wanna see the design on his jumper lol

  • @dotjpeg-bng
    @dotjpeg-bng Před 2 lety +18

    hey y'all, hope you have or will have a great day ! you're all valid :)

  • @finnilyenough
    @finnilyenough Před 2 lety +43

    Oh my goodness 🤣 I'm a trans man married to a cis man and my parents won't accept my marriage because "gay bad" and they deadname and misgender me because "trans bad"
    It really is wild lol

  • @HadriansSquish
    @HadriansSquish Před 2 lety +7

    One of my best friends, we’ve been besties since kindergarten, has a ‘Schrodinger‘s Marraige’. She was apparently supposed to abandon and stop loving her partner because after they were married, she felt safe and loved enough to accept herself as trans. They’re still married and still madly in love as two women, the love doesn’t change because they weren’t the gender you thought they were. I like to think she always knew, she always knew I was a guy before I allowed myself to listen to myself.

  • @kadieleesilva773
    @kadieleesilva773 Před 2 lety +75

    Seriously like the school age kids are miles ahead of my dumbass ADULT coworkers who after six months can’t “remember” to use they/them pronouns for our coworker!

    • @v.e.jansen7720
      @v.e.jansen7720 Před 2 lety +3

      I feel like people who say they "can't remember all those pronouns" only know one trans person, maybe two but just don't want to do it

    • @starrywizdom
      @starrywizdom Před 2 lety +2

      It's not like you even HAVE to remember to avoid misgendering -- if you've forgotten someone's pronouns, you can either ask them "What are your pronouns again?" or explain in an aside "I can't remember this person's preferred pronoun so I'm going to use 'they' because it's neutral; I apologise in advance." Using the wrong pronoun & not bothering to correct it means someone just doesn't care about someone else's feelings. Ugh.

  • @winterdragon0
    @winterdragon0 Před 2 lety +59

    I cannot remember the last time I DID NOT skip the sponsorship add thing in the middle of a youtube video. You truly are a creative man Jamie👏

  • @bornvolcano
    @bornvolcano Před 2 lety +64

    I find it interesting how he pronounces the “masc” in “transmasc” as “m-ah-sk” but the “mask” in “mask” as “m-aw-sk”
    No hate, just found it kinda funny and interesting

    • @silver_crystal
      @silver_crystal Před 2 lety

      How do you pronounce it?

    • @TeacupTSauceror
      @TeacupTSauceror Před 2 lety +2

      Southern English accent innit

    • @Parker8752
      @Parker8752 Před 2 lety +2

      @@silver_crystal Don't know about them, but I pronounce them identically, the way Jamie pronounces "masc".

    • @silver_crystal
      @silver_crystal Před 2 lety

      @@Parker8752 Oh cool, thanks.

    • @masicbemester
      @masicbemester Před 2 lety +2

      iirc linguistics call it the TRAP-BATH split, where these particular vowels are pronounced differently

  • @sinimeg
    @sinimeg Před 2 lety +15

    This reminded me that one of my sister’s friend came out as trans boy, and my sister told me (she didn’t tell anyone else on my family because, well, they’re not against lgbt+ people but they also aren’t the mist supportive), and I’m so happy for her friend and for her, she’s a very accepting child that loves everyone and I can’t even say that I’m proud because that’s all on her. She is our best ally, I didn’t tell her that I’m nb because I was afraid that she wouldn’t understand, but I tried to explain that fact using a character of a series that we love, and weeks later we were talking about series with trans characters, and she mentioned this series and character, and I melted because she remembered what I said, and she took it seriously and accepted that there’s nb people, and I love her with all my heart.
    P.D: Choose your gender, I’m a I have no plans to purchase a new vehicle.

    • @raynegallaher7661
      @raynegallaher7661 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm a trans girl but I'm in no position to be planning out a vehicle purchase so maybe my egg had another layer 👀

  • @TheSkullcleaver
    @TheSkullcleaver Před 2 lety +9

    OMG Shaaba's suppressed wheezing laughter as she had a one sided food fight with Jamie had me crying. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Lear_Bear
    @Lear_Bear Před 2 lety +15

    My little brother (He’s cis) sent me a wholesome trans meme today and IM SO HAPPY. IM TEACHING HIM TO BE THE BEST ALLY EVER. 😩😌

  • @krisswiftt
    @krisswiftt Před 2 lety +18

    That moment when the entertaining ad gets interrupted by a youtube ad 😂

    • @ToeBag
      @ToeBag Před 2 lety

      YEP- THAT HAPPENED

    • @ToeBag
      @ToeBag Před 2 lety +1

      It was a simply piano ad LMAO

    • @pathevermore3683
      @pathevermore3683 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ToeBag as a professional piano mover i encourage you to buy a real one. and call a professional piano mover. there is a 3 in 50 chance you will get me.

    • @grey8288
      @grey8288 Před 2 lety +3

      Go away ad im watching an ad

    • @ToeBag
      @ToeBag Před 2 lety +1

      @@pathevermore3683 There is a real piano in my house

  • @altyacke
    @altyacke Před 2 lety +19

    I liked the whole video, but Shaba laughing hysterically at the end was my favorite! What a contagious laugh! Thanks for the giggle! 😂

  • @nekoites
    @nekoites Před 2 lety +19

    Might get the okay to start testosterone tomorrow, I'm super nervous. Thanks for the distraction ♡

  • @Ray-pk9bs
    @Ray-pk9bs Před 2 lety +35

    the meme about the friends practicing their friends they/them pronouns reminds me of one of my friends im non-binary they/them and came out to my school not too long ago and she literally hits anyone with a bottle (not that hard ofc) who misgenders me lmao

    • @skyball130
      @skyball130 Před 2 lety +6

      Ahhh I have a similar friend!! Their name is Max, and they literally carry around one if those rainbow leaded pencils so that every time anyone is mean to me/literally anyone, they'll bop them on the head and say, "that's not nice, so take my advice, that if you stop, that'll suffice, but if you continue, *YOU'RE GONNA GET HEAD LICE!!!* " and just smiles really big at them and walks away. Idk where Max came up with it, but it never fails to confuse the crap out of people lol.

  • @zeebo30
    @zeebo30 Před 2 lety +9

    my favorite is when transphobes try to claim they don't have pronouns. like i'm sorry, are you trying to tell me everyone refers to you by name only?

    • @awfuldynne
      @awfuldynne Před 2 lety

      Yes. Transphobes are so principled about the non-use of pronouns, transphobes even refer to transphobes' selves in third person and request people addressing transphobes not to use the pronoun "you".

  • @anonymousarmadillo9800
    @anonymousarmadillo9800 Před 2 lety +4

    10:42 omg I want these friendsssss

  • @kevinlove1664
    @kevinlove1664 Před 2 lety +20

    Whenever I am feeling bad about myself, all I have to do is watch one of Jamie's videos and I always come away in a better place.

  • @Lorena-eh5cl
    @Lorena-eh5cl Před 2 lety +5

    The blooper at the end LOLLL that was amazing 🤣 I laughed as much as Shaaba

  • @hopesauce3324
    @hopesauce3324 Před 2 lety +10

    I usually skip sponsorships but that was so cute

    • @bellablue5285
      @bellablue5285 Před 2 lety +2

      The sheer exasperation after the cinnamon, that was a mood

  • @maayanona
    @maayanona Před 2 lety +3

    5:27 LMAO that's so clever!

  • @ashkyra5739
    @ashkyra5739 Před 2 lety +13

    I got my first binder today and I just wanted to share that! Also kinda relevent to the video 💜

    • @nxcrorat
      @nxcrorat Před 2 lety +4

      That's really nice!! I hope trying it on gave you a big self-esteem boost/gender euphoria!🧡
      Remember to bind safely!✨

  • @lune8533
    @lune8533 Před 2 lety +3

    That ad made me so happy

  • @AmanKumarVlogs
    @AmanKumarVlogs Před 2 lety +10

    Jammi is such a great motivation for me on my own CZcams journey, I am glad I was motivated by this man.

  • @totallyoutofit6989
    @totallyoutofit6989 Před 2 lety +4

    7:35 you have a pretty big fan base. Alot of trans people know who you are, they probably got it from you :)

  • @aaliyahborthwick8553
    @aaliyahborthwick8553 Před 2 lety +14

    Trans memes are my favourite 😌✌️

  • @beyedoc
    @beyedoc Před 2 lety +3

    I had a fortune cookie once that said, "You're in over your head. Time to get professional help." 😳😂

  • @justsomeaddict6380
    @justsomeaddict6380 Před 2 lety +25

    Been 5 years, My Mother is still calling by she/her prounoses and using my deadname :/ . . .
    And she said she isn't Transphobic

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před 2 lety +2

      When did you come out or start your transition? Some people just take a while to make the "new" identity routine. My mother's better with pronouns now but she still deadnames me sometimes cause she knew me as a boy for two decades while I've only been a woman for one.
      Be patient and helpful, I'm positive she'll get better with it as time goes on. ❤

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 Před 2 lety +4

      Guess you have to start calling your mom "dad" until she learns...
      Seriously, I'm sorry she's giving you a hard time. :(

    • @justsomeaddict6380
      @justsomeaddict6380 Před 2 lety +2

      @@sluttyMapleSyrup 5 years ago I came out
      Still refuses to even try but I'm to broke to move out✌

    • @justsomeaddict6380
      @justsomeaddict6380 Před 2 lety +1

      @@johannageisel5390 It's fine, it's not that bad at least she hasn't decided to kick me out yet

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss Před 2 lety +1

      You are valid.

  • @meganrichter7341
    @meganrichter7341 Před 2 lety +3

    My son (6) started first grade a few weeks ago. After his first day there I asked him if he'd made any friends and who he was sat next to. He answered: "I don't know their name, but they let me borrow their rubber."
    Even a 6 year old who hasn't learned about it at school yet understands the use of they/them as singular pronouns.

  • @RoxyTwitch
    @RoxyTwitch Před 2 lety +3

    OMG thank you for putting in that last bit at the end. The look on your face and the belly laugh that Shaaba let out, is simply priceless.

    • @nxcrorat
      @nxcrorat Před 2 lety

      Ngl, I had the exact same reaction as Shaaba XD

  • @mushthatoatmeal6547
    @mushthatoatmeal6547 Před 2 lety +2

    yeah dude i came out as genderfluid to my friends and changed my name and they’re all so supportive and i told one friend that people don’t use he/him for me a lot and now that friend makes sure to use he/him and it makes me so happy!!!!!!!

  • @Niko__01
    @Niko__01 Před 2 lety +7

    1:17
    Not only that, but those SAME people will call men they see as feminine (usually for the most asinine of reasons) a woman (or call a woman they see as masculine a man), but the moment it's not used derogatorily, the transperson wants it, the person will go on a whole rant about pronouns...

  • @Leena79
    @Leena79 Před 2 lety +10

    I like to think there is also a Transit somewhere out there with the A Trans on the license plate. B Trans and C Trans are their allies.

    • @Heamarhar
      @Heamarhar Před 2 lety +1

      I sent him that pic! I'll be on the lookout for A and C just for you.

  • @Rachel-fi4sc
    @Rachel-fi4sc Před 2 lety +8

    The cat thing you said made me think:
    People will immediately change pronouns for your cat if you tell them they got it wrong (notable exceptions in the comments aside).
    We're told that being a responsible owner of an outdoor cat is to get the cat spayed or neutered so as to not add to the huge number of kittens in shelters and on the streets.
    So... people are correcting themselves with the gendered pronouns of a living being with no genitals in the equation at all. Huh.
    Transphobes are wild.

  • @r2Gt06
    @r2Gt06 Před 2 lety +2

    Much love to you too! Thanks!! I reeeaaally loved todays's sponsor's message xDD as always, love JamiexShaaba chemistry :)) golden ❤️

  • @FTMothman
    @FTMothman Před 2 lety +10

    Just got a gender affirming ad

  • @ellie2546
    @ellie2546 Před 2 lety +4

    I'm still a Harry potter fan and my rule now is if I consume anything wizarding world related I also donate to a trans charity and encourage others to so the same because trans people are cool as hell! ☺️

    • @alexshemwell8320
      @alexshemwell8320 Před 2 lety +2

      This is the best possible answer to what if a problematic creator makes great art?

    • @stephanieden4
      @stephanieden4 Před 2 lety +2

      I love how everyone has agreed, “We’re not canceling Harry Potter.
      We’re just canceling JKR.”

  • @tealberries
    @tealberries Před 2 lety +8

    I have no plans to purchase a new vehicle

  • @samplesizehuman
    @samplesizehuman Před 2 lety +2

    I remember you mentioning in a video that some of your audience discovered that they were trans through your content, and I distinctly remember thinking that I wouldn’t be apart of that group, and that I was just being a supportive cis person.
    That didn’t last very long

  • @bigmanrui3503
    @bigmanrui3503 Před 2 lety +5

    went to the beach yesterday and wrote TRANS RIGHTS in the sand in big letters facing the path. My friend and I sat near it and watching people’s reactions was very funny

    • @JKing666
      @JKing666 Před 2 lety

      aww, what were the reactions

  • @NomadicElfling
    @NomadicElfling Před 2 lety +3

    I loved this whole video, but Shaaba’s laugh at the end is ✨perfection✨

  • @lees_act
    @lees_act Před 2 lety +4

    I recently received a book about harry styles as a gift (pretty much my whole family knows that he’s one of my favourite people) and the first page has one of his quotes mentioning things like “Whether you are black, white, gay, straight, transgender etc i love you all” and i have seen it before a lot, but seeing it in the first page of this book almost brought me to tears (i am closeted bi, trans ftm, but mentioning it now i guess im not as closeted as i was before 😂)

    • @chrisewan6808
      @chrisewan6808 Před rokem

      What's the name of the book?

    • @lees_act
      @lees_act Před rokem

      @@chrisewan6808 I believe its called ‘harry styles - the making of a modern man’ !!

    • @chrisewan6808
      @chrisewan6808 Před rokem

      @@lees_act Thanks!

  • @waffles3629
    @waffles3629 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm dying of laughter just imagining Shaaba's grin while throwing food at you 🤣

  • @baileyblight3867
    @baileyblight3867 Před 2 lety +12

    Well I'm not a man or a woman, and I'm definitely not interested in purchasing a new vehicle right now, so... It's not totally wrong LMAO

  • @missnaomi613
    @missnaomi613 Před 2 lety +5

    Whoever you are, wherever you are on your journey, You Are Valid! Love and blessings from a religious Jewish lady.
    💙💗🤍💗💙🙏

  • @liquorice5480
    @liquorice5480 Před 2 lety +12

    HI YALL
    Hope you are all having a great day :)
    Remember you are beautiful and valid 😘

  • @johnrees9554
    @johnrees9554 Před 2 lety +1

    That AD was everything, though Shaaba seemed to have too much fun LMAO

  • @GothGoat420
    @GothGoat420 Před 2 lety +2

    Ad blooper at the end was the most wholesome thing in this video 🤣

  • @gamerfourlife64
    @gamerfourlife64 Před 2 lety +22

    Jammi is an inspiration an being an Irishmen i love how they call everyone a spud XD

  • @jezzyka_4944
    @jezzyka_4944 Před 2 lety +4

    TRANS MEMES LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @nicolakunz231
    @nicolakunz231 Před 2 lety +2

    Okay, Shaaba had waaaay too much fun. 😆
    Aaalso trans mask transmasc.
    I am a happy Spud! Wholesome content on my way home.

  • @Luubelaar
    @Luubelaar Před 2 lety +2

    The outtake at the end! I am HEAVING with laughter.
    Just beautiful.

  • @morgangreen8777
    @morgangreen8777 Před 2 lety +4

    I guilty admit that I usually skip the sponsor parts but the magic spoon was so hilarious
    I could watch an entire video of shaaba throwing food at Jamie lol

  • @demirogue
    @demirogue Před 2 lety +3

    When I was telling my mom about they/them pronouns for one person, I was hit by the "but they/them is plural!" and I immediately hit her back with "when you don't know someone's gender, do you say look at he or she over there, or do you say look at them over there? Or when you're called by someone and you don't know their gender. Do you ask what he or she called about, or do you ask what THEY called about?" and she got it after that. (This was like a month ago)

  • @hilaryaberle6448
    @hilaryaberle6448 Před 2 lety +1

    Shaaba had way too much fun slapping that peanut butter on your face. 🤣

  • @Sparrow-42
    @Sparrow-42 Před 2 lety +2

    11:40 Poor Jamie looks scundered 😂

  • @club_penguin
    @club_penguin Před 2 lety +3

    The first one (quote from the book) is Kacen Callendar’s book, Felix Ever After. Coincidentally, I just finished the book, I’d say it’s a pretty good read!

  • @Kevin-xe3th
    @Kevin-xe3th Před 2 lety +3

    Hey Jamie! When I first started following you I was 16 yo and pre T, now I'm almost 20 and tomorrow I'm gonna have my first dose of Testosterone

    • @dont_blink3578
      @dont_blink3578 Před 2 lety +1

      Congrats! Good luck with the life ahead of you!

  • @letmebecharlie
    @letmebecharlie Před 2 lety +2

    I just got a „Dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not“ pullover for my birthday!!!

  • @KayBeast
    @KayBeast Před 2 lety +2

    I just had to come here and share the weirdest fortune cookie fortune I ever got. "You are not illiterate" I got that one at least 15 years ago and I've never forgotten it cause it was so damn funny