Selfishness
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- čas přidán 9. 05. 2024
- You can live your life as you please - change your name, dress the way you want, that's your freedom. And I wouldn't want anyone to stop you. But as soon as you start doing stuff that implicates our collective concern with fundamental fairness, we have a right to weigh in. And I think this is just pure selfishness.
It's not okay to be hateful towards anyone for any reason. Period. There's bad apples in every group and community. There's bigotry in all communities. However, they don't represent and shouldn't be the main example of a community (nor speak for the whole group.) That's not right either. Secondly, when someone who is trans tells you who they are and who they identify as, you should probably believe them and respect that. Bad experiences are just that: bad experiences. Bad people are just that: bad people. We need to rise above our differences and come together. We can not let bad examples likely from propaganda media guide us to feel unjustified prejudice. No one is discounting your experiences, just because they are finally accepting themselves and now trying to be who they are. I speak as someone who is afab, white and a victim of SA themselves (acute/criminal/brutal/aggressive) in adulthood and by a person of color too. (He hated me because I was white.) Should I then judge this horrible person's entire community based upon what this person (my abuser) did? Hell no! Why? Because it's wrong. All forms of bigotry are wrong. Originally, I thought you were against hate. You stood up for the asian community. Understandable! You even stood up for white people. Okay! Thank you for that. Why this now? I implore you to stop the hatred and think about your words and perspective here. If someone (from a certain group) has been hateful or discriminated against you, understand who that person is (one singular bad example.) Don't blame the whole group just because of a few bad examples. That is not the answer either. Think about it Charlie. Think about it.
At what point did I say these selfish individuals “represented” the entire trans community? Where did I blame the whole group? Show me - pinpoint the exact time. Also, I don’t have to believe anything anyone tells me about themselves. One could tell me that they’re a trigender tricycle, and I wouldn’t be spreading “hate” by saying that’s untrue - it sounds like hate to you because you don’t like what I’m saying, but it sounds like the truth to a whole lotta others. So you don’t have a right to shut it down under the veneer of quashing “hate”.
Tl;dr quit acting dense
@@chinitocharlie Charles Charlie... I agreed with your last videos. I was a fan of yours. Please acknowledge me. You're young. I believe you can understand it from all perspectives. You're a lawyer. Despite all odds, you were trained to be objective. Please do try to understand the other side of things. I like you as a youtuber. I would not have a problem if a trans woman entered my restroom or locker room. Maybe not everyone is capable of being comfortable. I acknowledge as someone who is assigned female at birth, that some trans women are thinner, prettier, and more feminine than I am. They also act more feminine than I do. Not everyone is a stereotype. Not every person in a community should be the representative. That is what I am trying to say. Can you understand that respectfully, as I am a fan of some of your videos? ...Please... I understand your perspective. Please understand mine. Please?
@@charlottehonor7265It seems you are deliberately misrepresenting his beliefs and then only half representing arguments.
The argument against shared bathrooms is having Men who Identify as Women who will ( and have) go into female washrooms and assault/harass them.
That is an issue of safety and has nothing to do with biology or ideology.
@@chinitocharlie ... I'm 38 and watched the entire video. Multiple videos overtime in fact.
Very well said! It's ok to violate women's rights, not to mention expose yourself to young children, so you can "live your truth" 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Don't even get me started on the freaky TikToker who encourages children to actively keep secrets from their parents. If that isn't predatory and a massive 'groomer' flag I don't know what is.
woman's rights?
You gotta be joking, been mostly woman after all who where in favour of the latest transgender policy's.
In my eyes it's exactly what you deserve, whining and complaining for change but the second a "man" want's something we gotta respect traditional bounderies, as afformentioned, you get exactly what you wanted and deserve
Just go to Southamerica to get a normal holiday! They will brake your nose if you come up with any woke BS.
They fight for survival, no time to f.. around..
And yet crickets from women on 60 years of the like of Haley Van Voorhis.
Where's that spirt for the millions of Afghanistan females being sold as we speak?
It's not just selfishness. It's blatant masogyny.
Bingo!💯🎯
you mean misogyny?
@@veesavi7316 Yeah. Sorry. That's not a word I use a lot. Actually, until this situation, I've never had to use it.
@@midnitelite7210 You can always edit your comment.
@@TomboyGamerGalit's not a big deal we all knew what he meant
When I was a young girl, so maybe a decade ago now, my sister and I were enrolled in swimming lessons. My sister and I would change in the women’s room, and one day this boy who was about eleven or twelve came in and was gawking at the women and the girls getting changed. His mother did nothing, and she was right there. I told my mother since I was highly uncomfortable, and she let the swimming people have it.
Your mom is a badass & a great mother ❤️
@@DuncanDonDukenthat’s not a badass. She was doing the most basic requirement a parent should pass; concern for children
Mister Thomas. He is no woman. He is a man. Let's not feed this madness by changing words. Words have incredible power.
Thank you!!
Yes!
Unfortunately CZcams like to demonetize when people use correct pronouns. I don't blame him for not wanting to be demonetized.
CZcams sucks.
Yes! I always make sure to remind everyone that his name is WILLIAM, not Lia!
@@DuncanDonDuken not just CZcams either, almost every platform prioritizes lying to cater to this group. I think the billionaire trans woman is a big bit part of the reason why. Lots of $ to push an agenda
NO ONE should be living "their " truth! The only way we can truly live in peace together is that we all Live THE TRUTH. if you insist on living "your" truth. Then go live on the bush by yourself and don't infringe on my rights not to be forced to live "your Truth". 'Your truth" is just a synonym for " a lie"!
Just like the original meaning of politically correct
there is my truth which is different than THE truth
It's synonymous to narcissisms. They are a god who bends the reality to their wish, - their truth.
Keep preaching. More people needs to fight against this nonsense.
It's so refreshing when you find a channel that just speaks common sense, which seems like it's becoming a rarity nowadays. Keep it up 👍👍
He speaks how most people feel about this subject. We’re all just too afraid to get cancelled for saying it. He’s a brave man, that’s for sure!
Common sense is anything but common
the world became more clear once i learned how many people nowadays can be categorized with communal narcissism
Thank you for supporting women's spaces and rights! You're one of the good ones 😉👍
Thanks for articulating everything super clearly, and saying what a good fair few of us have been thinking 🤔
Thank you for being brave enough to talk about these very real and valid questions!
thanks for exposing the absolute absurdity of the activist industrial complex, unfortunately this absurdity has real world consequences
What an articulate description, yes activist industrial complex. They often employ anarchist rent-a-mobs. Here are some more fun ones......antifa/intifada, anarchist/antichrist. Oh and let's not forget the classic - santa/satan. I think the real problem is that this generation literally has stockholm syndrome and is loving the social engineering, like religious fanatics.
If you don't like something that's happening then stop complaining.
@@tanyas8596 If you feel that way then stop complaining.
Keep speaking truth brother.
If you think about it, any identity/lifestyle that conflicts greatly with existing norms will bring great social resistance/rejection, so the only people who could possibly choose such an identity/lifestyle would necessarily be self-centered enough to not be deterred by nearly ubiquitous social rejection. This, combined with the immense amount of attention (both positive and negative) that the alphabet gang receives, means that the "T" identity/lifestyle will be most appealing to people who are highly self-centered, lacking in empathy, and seeking attention (AKA highly narcissistic).
Thanks for speaking truth in a world that has very little.
Thank you for saying what others are afraid to say. 10000% agree with you.
You’re channel is a breath of fresh air. Thank you
Love you brother! This channel helps keeps me sane in this…weird ass reality ahahaha
"Transgender militia" never have less threating words been spoken...
I knew that shorter men felt bad when I (5'10) was around them, but it still makes me feel bad. Most tall women got crap for being tall growing up so we're not thinking anything bad about you. Not the topic I know!
Haha thank you! I was joking - i don’t feel anything (good or bad) when I see women taller than I am. And you shouldn’t feel bad either!
@@chinitocharlie ok that's good :)
How do you know shorter men "felt bad" when they are around you?
@@DeyTookOurJobs I felt that they did, based on things they say to me and how they act, and then Charlie confirmed it in the video. It's not all of them
Agreed 100%. Thank you for bringing common sense to things!
This should have way more views… well said!
I could spend my life in the company of a mind like yours.
It's funny because the trendy thing right now is women saying they'd rather spend the night in the woods with a bear than a man because of how "dangerous" men are, but it's totally okay for them to be in women's locker rooms. Yup.
So real
my freedom ends at the starting line of other people's freedom. we can negotiate any grey areas, but we shall never impose them on others, at the risk of not having our freedom respected.
if the above its not obvious enough, surely you will not understand more detailed debates.
Spot on.
This is how a society works, your freedoms are tied to your neighbours. If you impose, that directly opposes inclusivity.
I love u. Thank u for keeping it real.
Having all sports co ed would essentially run nearly every girl out of sports
Why?
Because in track, for instance, the first place girl would drop back to 6th, or 7th.....not eligible for any awards at all. The saddest part? No amount of training or dedication would change that.
In team sports, nearly every girl would be a bench warmer, and those who did get to play would be at much greater risk of injury.
All womens records would eventually be broken, all female stars replaced. It would be pointless for a biological female to even try to compete. All the scholarships and opportunities would go to bio males.
Oh, but sports is supposed to be about fun and being on a team right??? Sure....so if that's the case, why is there such an insistence on the girls always taking the "L"?
Exactly!
Exactly. It's selfishness. And it's selfishness because there are plenty of trans people who disagree. I've met trans women who say, "I use the mens bathroom or the multi-purpose bathroom because I'm aware that my identity can be uncomfortable or triggering or traumatic for biological women, and that my identity impacts me, it's my personal thing, and shouldn't have to be something I force others to answer to without their consent." The people who charge their way into the women's bathroom in the most entitled way are always the selfish ones, or the ones pretending to be trans and get a high off of making women look small. And it's actually really scary as a woman to me, to know that there are people out there who will gladly let that happen for the purpose of appearing "just" or politically correct when that is NOT the case at all
Great video! Everything is well spoken! Thank you for acknowledging that men have more strength and aggression than women. Yes we are all human, and deserve equal rights. Rights to vote, rights to work, rights to be independent both financially and at home. However our anatomy are still different, that its best to have separate sports and separate bathrooms and locker rooms.
the phone case is too plain in my taste, to be honest. No offense btw
And not to mention that only 0.5% of Americans are actually trans. Not 5%, not 1%, but .5%.
So wild.
.5 is 50%. .05 is 5%.
@charlottehonor7265 yes, 50% of 1% out of 100% if people. Meaning they are .5% out of 99.5% of people
@@charlottehonor7265 1.6 million Americans. So roughly .5% of the country. Make sense?
I doubt it. I don't think I've ever met a trans person. And I've been around thousands of people. So the number must be much smaller
@@nerychristian Yeah. Maybe. Stats are weird though, too. Kinda hard to imagine such small percentages. Astounding how much of a fuss the topic is tho for how few it actually effects.
I agree with you. Thank you for standing up for women because we are being canceled out.
Hey, hey, to be fair Eric(a) Cartman was the first transginger to win “her” rights! Respect “her” autoritah!!! 🤓
Thank you for calling selfishness out. Our culture has changed that term to narcissism. Making it a mental health issue rather than a character issue. As a mental health therapist I’m am absolutely about mental health care. I totally believe in and understand mental health issues, but selfishness is ruining our culture.
sex based rights are human rights. thank you, Charlie :-)
are we heading towards a "gender-neutral" maternity ward, or a "gender-neutral" prostate exam?
and if so, can't wait for the Tik-Tok videos....
Intelligent, articulate, an incredible breath of fresh air, to brilliantly to show how it is clearly their "Selfishness". Thank you. (nice phone case lol)
LOVE YOU CHARLIE!
thank you Charlie, for calling out what is the societal elephants in the room. Its so refreshing to hear because otherwise to pretend its not happening is the definition of insanity.
Facts that we bend our lives around such a tiny minority and we as a society should stand up against it!
I agree, this is absurd! Should we let a huge boxer self identify as a bantam weight boxer, let him beat the living daylights out of the smaller guys, win all the bouts and get praised for it? No of course not! That would be completely unfair. How is this any different?
Thank you, Charlie. ❤️
Another great video! This is getting out of hand by the day.
This one doesn't miss.
Based. So funny how people get so up in arms defending predatory men.
Originally factories had one unisex bathroom but after many incidences of rape they separated into mens and womens bathrooms. ( only trains remained unisex ) . People forget why the separation began.
I remember at my dad's old skateboarding ministry, one of his house rules was that boys and girls were not to touch each other, or as he put it, "Boys are red, girls are blue, no purple."
I can only imagine what would happen if he had that rule today.
i love your body language. so expressive and animated
So refreshing when someone speaks truth into madness.
My first objection to this kind of thing was reporters in locker rooms. It seems to have become a nearly very important issue since that decades-old concern. All I would ask persons to consider is that an absolute goal will harm absolutely. Forty years of my adult life went without bathroom politics; now, this.
You are crushing it, my man.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you for speaking truth.
You need more views my guy!!! Love your videos, thank you for everything👍🙏❤️
Love your content and love how you’ve been getting progressively more savage. Keep speaking up!
I wish they'd go back in the Closet.
asylums*
Chef Charlie stay cooking, keep it up brother! Also I envy that gigachad jawline. 🗿
Keep fighting, love your content.
Well said!! Thank you!!👏
Please run for President of the World - we NEED common sense and Logic/sanity back in society!!
I’ve NEVER disagreed with anything you’ve shared or spoke out on.
Thank you
Surgical. Selfishness is at the heart of all of this.
I appreciate all of your videos, Charlie 👏
Well said!
God Bless you, sir!😍😚
I just thought about that movie called 'Junior' where Arnold Schwarzenegger has an experimental pregnancy
keep on keepin' on, charlie. i enjoy every video you post.
It’s 2024, I never would’ve bet back in 2004 that at this very moment biological facts and anatomy would be up for debate for years now; people suggesting the best possible way to curing racial discrimination of any and all kinds would be segregation and racial discrimination; never would’ve bet on college students supporting a terrorist organization that oppresses Palestine more then any other organization has before; never would’ve bet on the best way to decolonize a nation being to colonize it with unregulated mass migration; homeless vets scarred and disabled for life abandoned by the ones they fought for and the ideas that made all of this currently happening possible without the reeducation camps or out right slaughter of any and all who disagree with the currently popular societal faction/agenda. This is 2024 forget the headsets for VR no need for those when irrefutable truth is irrelevant in mass, god society as a whole needs an adult, (multiple actually the whole world seems hell bent on operating like “lord of the flies” ) smh
Thank you!
This is like an old song that continues to play that eventually, it has lost general public interest. But first things first, if one has an issue about trans women identifying as women in places that legalized it, perhaps try to have that conversation directly with those who created the bill that now officially makes trans women, women. It's not a kind of one-sided argument people should have with those who see themselves as women, or men, despite being born otherwise, or those who are suspected of seeing themselves as women. Although I am not a trans woman, but I can only imagine how it must feel like for those who don't feel right about their assigned gender at birth, and if one doesn't have the ability to understand that by constantly focusing on the bad types of trans, or those who have committed crimes, making the rest of the demographic more prone to discrimination, then that's a form of selfishness that people likely miss about themselves.
The daily wire needs to hire you.
Dog goes meow.
You’re honesty will get you v far. W for the algorithm.
Thank you for stating the obvious when everybody else is afraid to…very nice phone case btw.
6:38. “If you’ve lived on Earth…”. 🤣👍👍👍
Thank you for your eloquent take. While I disagree on some points, the things you covered really needed to be said.
Great video thank you 👍🏻
Succinct and well put!
👏🎉🎯💯👍❗
Also for the algorithm.
Ty.
asians are amongst the most publicly considerate communities. i don't expect this level of consideration from other.
Charlie I love your videos. How old are you? You’re so articulate that I feel like you have so much wisdom beyond your years. I hope to be as articulate as you are one day and I want to make it a goal to become more articulate by whatever age you are because it’s so nice to see such an articulate young person.
bouta turn into hercules himself to fight for woman rights argggh💪💪
❤well said
Of course it's selfishness and an overinflated sense of entitlement fueled by social media and the media in general. And, I don't believe that anyone living with the trauma of having gender dysphoria would be so blatantly narcissistic, have such a high self-esteem, that he or she would demand to be in a space that is obviously making others uncomfortable. There has to be an underlying psychopathy and/or an overwhelming (sexual) desire in a person like that.
That case with Lia Thomas is always gonna make me laugh it’s just so absurd 😅
Mr. Cheon, I hope you'll allow me to share with you my story and sentiment on your video. Thank you for your opinion on this matter as it is a serious discussion that should be had like many of the videos you've created.
Annoying story time: My whole life my mother, single mom of 2 was a victim of my biological father who would physically and verbally abuse her. When she finally had the guts to leave him, she raised me and my sister differently. I had to learn this through therapy and years of self exploration, but my mom had condemned me for being a male, because I am the same gender as her abuser, my father, who also abused me. My sister who stole and caused significant damage to others growing up with her anger, was treated with preferential treatment because she was a female. This made me grow up desiring to be a female because I just wanted to be worthy of affection from the only parent I had. My mother only reconsidered her way of treating men when she met her second husband and had a son with him. I come to you with this because I've struggled all my life with transgenderism thoughts. And I even transitioned myself. And we see every day that all men are being lumped in when the conversation is approached about bad men. I think this in addition to transgenderism being seen as a "fad" is the cause of why there are so many people claiming to be trans. I also say this because I think that real transgenderism, like in my case, is a mental disorder. And yes, HRT and SRS can fix some cases of transgenderism, and/or even therapy. But I also completely agree with you that many will use it just to get a free pass into women's spaces as we've seen in sports, issues with bathroom and perversions there, etc. I see the only way to fix it is to create a third space for transgender people, since the term is very broad nowadays-- this isn't to disrespect those people, like myself, but to keep people safe from monsters like me.
Thanks again for your video, Charlie.
I love Decoy Voice's little brother.
I think wherever kids are .... we all need to be careful of our conduct.
I love the shade in this video! 😂
If you were alone in a women's bathroom, would you rather encounter a man or a bear?
Wtf?
A bear. 🐻
a bear with lipstick on
Hahahahaha
I’ve never encountered a bear in a bathroom. Nor will I.
I'd call it narcissism as opposed to selfishness, but tomayto tomahto.
"My truth is that im not guilty so i guess you'll have to let me out" -complete immunity take
you’re awesome, Charlie
Love your new phone case 🎉😁
Had to rewind that first 30 seconds to make sure i heard that right 😂😂😂😂
You’re the best, Charlie
Great talking points. Awesome phone case
Exactly
Thank you 👏👏👏 and nice phone cover 👍