I Caught My Husband At The Club! (Is That Cheating?)
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Girl I'm married and my husband would never even think about going to the club. This is not normal behavior, there's nothing but trouble at the club..
Right I was thinking same thing !! My husband would never leave me alone or even want to go by himself for that matter… something’s not right😭🤣
😂😂😂
💯 They still have a lot of growing up to do. Alex seems to be very passive with her. And she is just a walking red flag.
If you want to go out to clubs or bars with out your wife then you shouldn’t of gotten married! Period!!!
Been married for 17 years and not once have we gone out on our own! It’s so much better when you have your other halve to have fun with! Instead of looking like a desperate, pathetic, lonely man at the bar lol
I’m with Jehiely on this one!!!
its a praaaaannnnkkkk
I agree prank or not just don’t do it if you still want to go out alone then don’t get married or whatever Jordan is on another level and yet they want to try for kids they have along way to mature
Calm down it’s just a prank for views 🙄
Also, If you can't trust your partner to be alone for a few hours then you shouldn't get married to that person! PERIOD!!!!
Faccccccctttttsssss!!!! My girls always invite me to bars and I say no. My husband never has asked or try to go to any of these kinda scenes alone. I deffff agree with you
No married man or woman should be at a club without their significant other. Yes I understand that there should be some time where you need that time away from each other...but alcohol and the opposite gender and the venue chosen by Alex and his brother is just not okay. Alex cannot be his brother's "wingman"...Alex is married and Jordan needs to hang out with his single friends at a club. This is only causing problems between Alex and his wife. Jordan knows better. Jordan don't cause problems between them. And Alex...you need to remember that your wife has feelings and you're wrong for this. Love and enjoy each other always ❤️
But if she does or did anything like he actually did, he would be soooo pisssssed!!!! JS
Definitely agree! I was upset for her watching this. Pero que fresco son!
This 100% my husband would never, aside from the fact he doesnt even like these places and would never go to one IF HE DID it wouldnt be like this tho.
i hope they see THIS comment 🫤
Ummmm, yea Alex, how dare u! Shame on u!!! What is good for the goose, is good for the gander, have fun girl!🎉
This is so wrong...She is not his priority. He's definitely seeking.
He’s wrong for doing that , I’d be livid . That’s very out of pocket and disrespectful towards you 🙄
Fr I just moved out and broke up with my ex because he went on a work trip and went to Ojos locos with his coworkers and he didn’t tell me he went but I had his location 🤦🏻♀️ and he still tried denying it 50 times and then he finally admitted to it and got mad at me and told me not to fly out there anymore even tho I had a ticket to fly out there yesterday 🫠
Very immature. I’m so happy I’m passed all of that drama. I feel for her though. 😞
She absolutely deserves to be treated with more respect. My man would never in a million years do that.
I see these comments and I can't help but laugh. I'm willing to bet my money.... () that whoever wrote these 2 comments are ....
1 female
2 dress provocative and are used to some type of attention
3 narssisists
Why, because only female narcisists believe it's okay to recieve attention, go out and "do them" with the "girls" but if they man want to do the same thing all of the sudden it's not.
@@nayelli1764 oh hell no.. my husband and I did a food delivery at ojos locos and he let me go inside alone those girls are basically naked! That's not fair to you
@@Aixaxo exactly that’s why I moved out that nigh because he thought it was ok to go bar hopping after that too 😂🤣 boy bye ✌🏽👋🏽 he want to act single so he can be single. He’s never done that but his coworkers got into his head I guess 🤷🏻♀️ I need a man that can put his foot down and say no just like how Ryan did in the recent prank Justice did on him!
You’re always worried about him around girls, because you think he’s going to leave you; but your insecurities can drive your husband away.
He can’t even go get a haircut by himself, because automatically you’re thinking he’s seen someone or he likes the hairstylist. (Just stating what you have decided to she on your videos)
Only her husband can drive himself away. If he wants her, he will love and devour his woman regularly to make it known. If he wants to cheat, he will because he doesn’t respect her or their marriage and nothing she can do will change that. It’s all on him. Nothing she does will change how he chooses to act and he so far has shown he wants his wife.
@@kaylavarela7215 not necessarily true… having to remind someone that you love them constantly can be draining. like I said in my other comment, either y’all give each other space or leave. because being with someone you love for way too long, I mean day / night can be exhausting, doesn’t mean that you don’t love them but you have to give each other time and space to spend with other people.
If you don't have something nice to say then don't say it all!! If someone doesn't ask you for advice don't say nothing!! If it isn't encouraging, helpful, truthful and loving!!! Then keep your bitter advice to yourself!
Yup he will be tired of it slowly drift away
She’s right … I’m the same way and my husband dead ass voiced his issue with me and it’s hard … but I have to let him go do things .. and he fucks up it’s on him ..
When you’re married, it’s disrespectful for your significant other to go to a club or bar without their significant other .
Yeah that’s weird but honestly he seems like the type to cheat and if he is they always get caught and deny
I’ve been cheated on so many times, those are the vibes I first got from him. I’m willing to bet he’s already cheated before. Just by observing her body language, she’s high anxiety about it.. 😢
@@strawberryfajitas3235they both have
Tf!!! I'm married and I would never let my husband go out at night or day at any club or bar by himself! You go Jehiely!!!! You did the correct thing on meeting him there
You girls don't know your place or roles in this one don't you, like we are kicking back with the homies, and other people, we are the providers, protectors, and problem solvers 24/7, so we need to go out with our boys, and go relax, or go do something fun, because tbh, doing that gets tiring, so we need to find other ways to be ourselves with guys.
Good luck with your relationship.
@@mirac2062”providers, protects and problem solvers”
Nahhh, jit trippin 💀
Always cool to chill with your bro, never cool to lie to your wife.
I normally don’t comment on videos but honestly Alex gave the ick in this video and it seems like Jordan is soon going to start causing problems in y’all’s marriage
Yup
Man's bitter and ruins his own relationships, of course he's gonna do the same to others. But Alex also let's himself so that's on him 🤷♀️
Indeed
This was my first thought
Ikr he always does every time Jordan comes around they have problems
At this point, don’t even get mad just do the same thing what he does. Love you bbg ❤
It's a double standard, if he goes to the club, it's fine, he's a guy, but if it's a girl that is married, and is going to the club, is a straight out a whore, so if she does that, society will be way more harsher on her than him, cause why would a woman, married would want to go in a bar?.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this right here, you nailed it!
There’s so many things wrong with this situation . The betrayal, lying & overall machismo from Alex.
The insecurity, and obsession of Alex from j …
I’m really sorry you guys are going through this and I hope you guys get therapy and mature.
I honestly love watching you guys , mainly J but seeing the ins of ur relationship and how unhealthy it is really just makes me hope for the best for u guys to resolve this .
Alex is turning into his father,
The apple didn't fall from the tree.
Also, I think Jordan needs to find him a life because Alex acts out with him a lot
What happened to his girlfriend ? hmmmm.
LITERALLY
His wife?? They’re no longer together anymore
I was literally like Jehiely but I grew out of it, we grew out of it. I let him have his space. I just had to trust him and I definitely love my alone time. At the end of the day reassurance is key and trust is key ❤
Confidence and trust is the key. Reassurance should only be temporary. Nobody should remind you about how they feel towards you everyday. If you have confidence in your relationship then that’s all that matters.
@@OBVIOUSLYEVELYNthe thing is they don't have that in their relationship but do love each other a lot. I heard she was doing therapy for the last couple of years for her insecurities. He would react the same way if she goes to club without telling him and he found him dancing with a stranger in the club.
Thats how i am too but every couple is different! Everyone has different boundaries and as long as its ok w their partner then it should be ok!
Yes! Confidence and reassurance. Definitely. Alone time is nice.
On this comment yes, it is true it’s OK to keep space away from other but he shouldn’t of lied to her. That’s where he went wrong. He should’ve been honest with her and told her exactly where he was going and what he was doing and I hide all of it and lie.
I've been married long enough to say don't go anywhere without your spouse.
Alex knows he has you on a string and that’s why he does whatever he wants 😭
Exactly 😩
Exactly
That's so sad 😢
Sadly....😢
Sometimes couples want to have a break from each other and that is normal But if you are going to clubs and parties then you should let Jehiely also go out by herself to these places..Si Alex!!😊😊
Tell him!!
😂❤
@@HeyJehiely lol.. It's only fair right..🫶
I agree
Thats right just say how you feel don't hide it. She can go out and have fun just like you have.
Hopefully Jordan doesn’t end up causing problems in their relationship 😕
I was thinking that too since she refers to him as “his no good brother” 😬 but if Alex wants to go and follow him that’s on him 🤷🏻♀️
Know that Jordan doesn’t last in a relationship also he already have 2 kids with 2 different women and left them
I mean he's a de@d beat dad of course he's gonna cause bad influence but tambien Alex que se Deja 🤭
@@AngelicaMartinez-ej8ssnot you calling him a dead beat.. lol I’m pretty sure the man is there for both of his kids.
@XoChulitaa707 you must be new here 🤭 he has definitely not been there. He portrays he is but just for the internet 😂
Girl you go on that trip ❤ Alex needs to learn that he’s married & he shouldn’t be going to bars & respect you more 🙏🏼
She go on the trip Alex going to the clubs 😅
And this is how there relationship will come to a end it sad tho
Girl you deserve a girls trip or a trip alone!!!!! Its always alex doing his own thing and you stressing. Just pack your bags and go relax and have fun somewhere 🥰❤
She is going to but most likely they’re going to know where she’s at
Soooo another prank ON US 😂
Terrible advice lol
Shell be happy of alex shows up to where shes at she already said it lol Jeheily doesnt wanna do anything alonee period
Your trying to make whores here, girls trip is already a red flag, and why in the first place, stop this, your telling bad advices to young girls, stop making whores cause your one, girls trip my ass.
Ugh I can binge watch jahiely all day alw be making my days sm better☺️
Oh HELL NAH, he did not just tried to normalize and act like it’s perfectly ok for him to leave without you!!!! Girl go on your trip!!! Treat yourself while teaching him a lesson!!! Turn off your location on everything and with everyone leave him with the anxiety running through the roof… he didn’t care about you so don’t care about him!!! He wanna play games show him how to play
Agreed!!
Exactamente
Exactly!
🎉🎉🎉🎉 yes
Jordan needs to stop dragging his brother along like one of his single buddies … he’s a married man now he has no business being in bars and clubs looking like one of those guys looking for chicks.
I’m telling y’all from experience, that’s how it starts and ends ugly if you two don’t handle it maturely…
As a woman I understand Jehiely point of view about other females coming up to Alex BUT on the other hand I completely understand Alex wanting to go out with “the boys” even if its his brother…
At the end of the day it is NOT OK TO LIE where you are going, it’s all about TRUST AND BEING FAITHFUL.
If y’all can’t handle it, sadly it won’t last…prayers to you both!
Agree, if he wanted a boys night he should be able to but he should have talked it out with her, instead he lied and snuck out. All his excuses are bs. And she deserves girls nights but I honestly think he don’t want her going out alone either smh
@@giovannahernandez6252 yep! And if they continued like that it will become toxic because that’s usually how it starts…as a married couple there’s lots of things to do together and individually with their friends…I truly hope they get through this…
me and my fiance both know to not go in a bar/club by ourselves. Usually a single person looking for others go to bar and clubs. Alex doing those sneaky things are a RED FLAG.
I just remember times when he would have an issue with you going to parties or hangouts without him. Like when you were joking about going to Patty’s pool party. He said not to leave and that him and his brother were on the way to go with you. I feel like if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldn’t be so happy. HOWEVER, I do feel like you guys should have some time to separate yourself from one another and have some time for yourselves but to be honest with one another about it and to not send each other straight to voicemail/ ignore calls so that the other knows you are safe. Love the videos and love to see how much y’all have grown as a couple. ❤️
Watching yall take the gummy bears while i sit here watching the video high asf LMAO💀 love you guys
Y’all don’t understand how you guys make my day when I see that notification and mama Lisa posted too?!? YESSS 🎉❤
Alex, going to the bar without even telling Jehiely is VERY disrespectful. You didn’t find it very nice when she up and left on her birthday, so what makes you think it’s ok for you to up and leave like that too? If it’s a thing where Jehiely isn’t okay with you going to the club/bar alone with the guys without her, you gota respect her on it. If you so badly want to go to the bar with your boys, communicate with Jehiely on it. Do more things to win her trust, for example, step 1, not just leaving to go to the bar without telling her first.
Jehiely, I do believe this man loves you, and wants nothing to do with other women, but I agree with you that this ain’t right.
Also, I seen a lot of comments about y’all two needing more space to do y’all’s own thing with your separate friends, and I do agree. But people, they at least need to talk about it first. I mean they live together, so to just up and leave like that is kinda crazy.
I loved Jehiely vibe, she had amazing energy and always having fun and laughing 😂😂😂
Girl at this point you def gotta do that solo trip 🤭
YUP! YUP! CATCHING FLIGHTS ✈️ 😌
Always looking forward to your videos!😊
I love mamas Lisa and jheilys relationship how she defends for her!
We need moreee content 😭 from mama lisa too 😢 the videos are just not long enough lol love watching yall!
as a MARRIED woman, you did the RIGHT thing jehiely!😊
I just wanna say, Jeheily tou look so naturally nice, i love the less is better makeup in the begining, really accentuates your face structure :)
Respectfully alex dont listen to your brother if u want your marriage/relationship to be successful his relationship doesn't look like it worked out do things the right way include ur wife in everything u do theres no reason for why u should want to go to a party or club without her thats just sus
I was about to comment this but I didn't want to come out as disrespectful🫣
its a prank she literally pranks alex all the time 😂
💯
@@smiles-zo6qpthat’s not a prank if you actually do it 💁♀️
Exactly and it Deff wasn't a prank he acted weird as hell he was sus af, that man getting old of her and tryimg to go searching for something new he thirsty as hell
It’s considered cheating if he goes without telling u
Yup! I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE! 😂
Good thing I told her 🙏
@@JehielyNAlex😭😭😭
Huh? No it’s not.
@@cloudie9druoid172 yeah goin out with the guys without telling them is cheating to them😂😂😂 the stupidity. Bet they think women & men are the same too lol
OMG I love you guys So much ❤❤❤❤ You guys are the best couple I've ever seen in my life ❤
Watched mama Lisa’s then jumping into y’all hell ya ❤
I remember those days 😂😂 that’s crazy. But I think jehleilys feelings are valid . And Alex just wants to feel trusted .
Love you guys!❤
Very weird to be going out to bars/clubs without each other once married. Going out to lunch or a friends house during reasonable hours is okay at least for me
Just trust each other, let Alex hang out with his brother and enjoy each others company, and Hailey enjoy your girls night outs 👌🏻
Yea I'm going to be enjoying my vacay soon ALL BY MYSELF!
Agree!!
True ❤😂I'm sorry jehiely😅 you always can revenge . Make him feel the same as you. Go to the bar with the girls with your new reveal dresses 😅 payback do it😈💕
@@1990sbabyyyit’s not about revenge. If Alex is representing the fact that it is ok to lie, sneak around, and go to clubs w/o her, then those are the behaviors that he should accept ok for her to exhibit. But, imo, those behaviors only lead to the destruction of a marriage.
I’ve been waiting for this video! 🤣🥳
Omg you guys are literally MARRIED and act like you’re teens dating and figuring things out lol I’m here for it tho. Keep on the show! Loving it 👏
jheiley, you should go for vacation somewhere nice by yourself..with all the revealing clothes you bought from shein😂😅
This ain’t it bruh 😒
Girrrrl yasssss! 😂
The fact that y’all go to both moondogs and Havana oh my god me too love both of them. Me and my friends always stay at the Hyatt place right in front of it and walk to both. Favorite bars in Buckhead.
Take patti with you on that trip u plan on taking !!!! ❤ girls trip!!!
There’s no “trip” happening 😁
@@JehielyNAlex oh nooo 🙊
Alex is like, there’s no trip happening 🤣🤣
Congratulations on 1 million subscribers!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻😀😊😊
omgg i didn’t even notice
You put up with EVERYTHING. You forgive him sooooo fast. He knows he can do ANYTHINGGGGG and you’ll be back!!!
Love y’all 💞
My husband & I were similar to you guys. We’ve been together for 10 years, and he always hung out w his friends and I was always more of a home body, he never went to bars or clubs w out me though. But now I have my girls night, and he has his boys night. Quit stressing girl, it’s not worth it. You go and have your girls night! Have fun.
This young lady is very sweet but you have to have a lot of patience to deal with someone like this.. hats of to you brother ik you must really love her.
GOOD SAMARITAN 😂😂😂😂 smart ass funny af love it 🥰
My ex-husband😢😢😢😢 used to do this. that's why he's an ex. i would drive with our kids to find him, and sure enough, I'd find him at a bar. When we first got together, I wasn't the controlling type. I'd give him his space but after a while it got out of control he would come home the next day around 7am eventually he got into heavy drugs and had a few strokes which unfortunately ended his life he died at age 48 😢 this life only brings heartaches and breaks up families. Your relationship reminds me of ours he was the type who expected me to be perfect while he wasn't and whenever I found someone new he would cry and beg for a chance and I'd fall for it but it would happen all over again. This continued for 20 years. I wish i could've ended it the first few times that he did it because if you keep giving them chances, they'll never stop. 😔
I’m sorry Alex’s and Jehiely’s replies to comments 😭😭😭 creasinggg
Girl if you have to worry about him going to a club/party alone, then that’s a problem. It seems like you know that but don’t want to believe it. Blaming Jordan shouldn’t be the problem. If you don’t trust Alex being alone without you then you know he will do something. It seems like he is just waiting to be alone to do something. Girl don’t ever do and meet him somewhere, if he cheats on you while being alone (which he is allowed to be alone) then you know he’s not the one for you.
Honestly girly how I stay being on top is all in my confidence I’ve been left in the dirt but sometimes it has to happen for we can really make a change I worked hard on the new version of me with self care and the gym and Built my confidence no one can bring me down any man can do me dirty and it won’t change the way I look at my self cause we have to remember is not us is them is their minds that are messed in what they do without caution but trust is key confidence is everything let him do him do you alone time and personal time is so important at the end they come home to you and it’s the best feeling don’t manifest them doing anything before they even do it and if they do do something that’s on them learn how to hold your own always work on loving yourself everyday never stop that will give you the strength for when anything comes along but I love you guys been here since 5ever lmao Alex loves you trust his ass till he fucken up it’s all his lost as at the end you are baddd
I feel like they are just creating content for us, it's not true buttt I love it always keeping us entertained 😊
I’ve been married for three years now and we’ve been together for 5. Honestly I would not have allowed any of this to pass so smoothly. Been through my fair share of fights because of my partner lying to me. And all I want to say is, beautiful show him he has to respect you. Do not let this slide. What he did was not okay. And the thing is they’re brothers and they are always going to lie for each other which is the worst. But even then don’t let it slide with J. Let him know that’s not okay and do you girl. Mature from this and out your foot down. These are things that need to be talked about now before any baby comes into the picture. Because when a baby comes in the picture, things only get worst sometimes. Not because of baby but because of all the indifferences and insecurities that come after.
Jailey tell him “You better get yo life together before you loose it boy ! “ 😂😅
The ending thooo !!! Puurrr mama you going all out!!
Alex said my brother wanted to go to this party 😂but is a whole bar bruh
One million subs yay! 🎉❤
YOU GO ON THAT TRIP MAMAS!❤❤❤
Bro JEHIELY IS GORGEOUS. Don’t mess up now, she could do Wtv she want let’s be real 🥴💗💗
Congratulations on the million subs guys. Y'all came a long way. Mucho respeto de mi parte
Another great video!!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻😀😀😊😊
Next time go to the “liquor” too girl with patty and don’t tell him 😂
Suppose to say way to an Epic marriage is honesty.
Just because j’s marriage didn’t work out…. Don’t mess with Alex’s marriage!!💯
Bro the part where jehiely sang 😂
Yea, I would not like that either. If he wants to go to places without you, then it's fair enough for you to do the same!
Let’s do thisss🤣❤️
I love yall ❤
Idc but my man ain’t going no we’re by him self!! Got me effed up!!! Jehiely you have every right to be upset!!!!
Mama Lisa tryna Sneaky Link while y’all out the house 😂
GIRRRRL I would’ve lost my shit too omggg & I can’t speak for y’all but, I’m standing on RESPECT BOUNDARIES FR every1 would’ve got dragged 😂& that trippy place y’all went 2 looks soooo fun & superdope ❤ya girl keep ur beautiful head up n that bright spirit of urs alive!!! 💯
I’ve been with my husband for 12 years and married for 3 years (we were high school sweet hearts) and if my husband would ever do anything like this we would be done. You want to act single then go be single 👋 it’s not even my relationship and I was pissed off for Jehiely!
Jehiely you looked so pretty with that dress on!!! &
lmfaoooo the tiniest bikini 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bruh moondogs be packed asf😂😂
Yous both deserve to have alone time! But the way Alex went about it, was making it seem like he's sneeking or doing something shady, trying to lie about where he's going!! Yous need to communicate with each other, be honest and assure each other!
He will be cheating on her before long
Strict parents create sneaky kids. The same with relationships, Ofcourse you guys aren’t going to be honest with each other if you guys dont let each other do anything
Not the “Tiny itty bitty bikini” 😂😂😂😂
Jehiely looking like Lola from Charlie & Lola with her hair like that in the beginning lol
On standby for the videos lol we would be such good friends 😭 a girl Can dream lol 😮💨💗
Yes girl goo! Take me with you ! 😂
The dad ah dog , jordan ah dog.... alex... might just be ah dog 😅😅😅 whole pack of dogs
He would lie for his brother 😂and next time girl don’t tell him nothing just do it !!!! 🤣🤣 team haley
okaayyy girl so when is this vacation coming ???
OMG this video gave me anxiety attacks😂😂😂 and you all guys should only go together to any parties never apart just my opionion love your laugh Jehiely
Oh hell no. That’s so messed up that Alex left with his bad influence brother like that! Girl, you better leave the same way he left! Let’s see how he likes it
Lol just know if the liquor store is closed at 9pm there is still beer and wine available at the grocery store until 11pm.
Jehliey going to a club in a sun dress 😂
He doesn’t want you to go out alone because he thinks you’ll do the same things he does. Wake up girl, don’t let his ass go out alone. That’s your husband girl you chase him down! 😂 drag his ass out the bar next time
As a South African I have seen the womb cleaning sign in church bill boards
Alex was wrong and his brother. Point blank period.
Jheiely I really admire how strong you are and how much you love and respect him when it comes to stuff like that. I hope that after your marriage that you don't run into more issues like that and anyone who's around yall should respect that family or not. Your a good woman.
You're both young and should be able to hang out with your friends alone, without your partner. You two have been together for as long time and are rarely apart and when you try to it's always a big deal. The trust on both ends has not improved after all the talks...
Let the man enjoy himself,works hard and is entitled to some fun time,it’s a 2 seater at least u know it will just be them 2😂
This is not on subject but, jehiely are you okay? I've noticed recently that your hair is thinning and im kind of concerned for you. When I'm under extreme stress my hair thins, sending positive vibes and hope everything is okay!!❤️