The First Time I Found Out What "Lesbian" Meant | A Spoken Word Poem

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2024
  • You can talk about love as biology and lust as chemistry but there aren’t any words you see, for how I feel whenever my girl touches me."
    Pink, a spoken word poem by Bethany Rose
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Komentáře • 124

  • @JD-dh7bk
    @JD-dh7bk Před 6 lety +59

    My daughter at 14 gave me a poem to tell me she was gay.. I thought it was adorable. Never ask her to explain it. I just love her..

    • @senoritasombrero
      @senoritasombrero Před 6 lety +2

      She's in for a lifetime of deception and constant need of validation, congratulations

    • @alexoglitter2700
      @alexoglitter2700 Před 6 lety

      Jennifer Dilbeck
      It’s good that you accept her for who she is
      But adorable is no way to describe us

  • @bagels1485
    @bagels1485 Před 6 lety +21

    GUYS THAT WAS MY DRAMA/ENGLISH TEACHER OKAY? IM SO HALLY AND PROUD OF HER 😭😭😭😭❤️

  • @dirtyronald
    @dirtyronald Před 6 lety +129

    You can’t fix something that’s not broken. 👍🏻

  • @mirandaih0p
    @mirandaih0p Před 6 lety +15

    "Where I'm cracked;
    it's just where the light shines through."
    *brilliant*

  • @soph-333
    @soph-333 Před 6 lety +54

    Gorgeous poem. I can feel the passion through the screen... Bravo!

  • @larrylee1758
    @larrylee1758 Před 6 lety +36

    "Gender is a performance"...I will remember that line. Great poetry

  • @sugarhoneybee2979
    @sugarhoneybee2979 Před 6 lety +7

    This moved me and wrecked my soul. Thank you so much for sharing this with us, it's amazing.

  • @mlutra5676
    @mlutra5676 Před 6 lety +6

    I would love more about bisexuals, just to get some reassurance in a world where the closest person I know in my life, my mother, doesn't even believe my sexuality is real.

  • @Charlie-ql1wi
    @Charlie-ql1wi Před 6 lety +22

    this honestly spoke so much to me thank you for sharing

  • @indiawalker2955
    @indiawalker2955 Před 6 lety +17

    This is so beautiful & needs so much more attention❤️

  • @teepee3182
    @teepee3182 Před 6 lety +7

    bishop boys big up miss norris

  • @kixibee
    @kixibee Před 6 lety +7

    Miss norris!!!!

    • @lr7017
      @lr7017 Před 6 lety

      KixiBee wah skl she gwan

  • @leiayck
    @leiayck Před 6 lety +2

    Amaaazing poeemm extremely refreshing✨

  • @aisha4610
    @aisha4610 Před 6 lety +5

    This was really good 👏🏾

  • @baileymorrison2467
    @baileymorrison2467 Před 6 lety +1

    Amazing! Thank you Bethany Rose for such an amazing performance and poem! I would love to be able to recite it 💓 Keep your head up and don’t listen to the trash people say in person, online, or behind your back. You are stronger than them simply for having to put up with their relentless nonsense. You have heard things a thousand times, they aren’t original or witty. You sure are pretty. Whether that be in your appearance or in your demeanor. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story!! Appreciate it a lot :-)

  • @jadewatts1087
    @jadewatts1087 Před 6 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing this, I myself can identify with a lot of the things that she said in this video

  • @ruthlouise95
    @ruthlouise95 Před 6 lety +5

    This is so good 💜

  • @ClassySecrets
    @ClassySecrets Před 6 lety +3

    MISS NORRIS AYT ENGLISH AND DRAMA ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gabimaza780
    @gabimaza780 Před 6 lety +3

    Yes. I relate

  • @charlottefinch2994
    @charlottefinch2994 Před 6 lety +1

    this is amazing!! best drama teacher ever!!!

  • @gracejx
    @gracejx Před 6 lety +10

    💞💞 amazing💞💞

  • @alexoglitter2700
    @alexoglitter2700 Před 6 lety +3

    God I hate those people, who say that u haven’t met the right man, eugh
    Whoever you are stand tall
    (Unless ur a bad person)

  • @LondonsPointOfView1
    @LondonsPointOfView1 Před 6 lety +1

    Love this poem

  • @precious7754
    @precious7754 Před 6 lety +3

    Ms Norris

  • @jokerpresident5286
    @jokerpresident5286 Před 6 lety +2

    I get told that I haven’t met the right man yet too

  • @uwuitsfin2944
    @uwuitsfin2944 Před 6 lety +2

    This was so beautiful, and I relate to it so fucking much

  • @electricmagnetic
    @electricmagnetic Před 6 lety +1

    beautiful

  • @miklomartinez8188
    @miklomartinez8188 Před 6 lety +29

    The fire burning within me was finally lit.
    How the fuck was the fire burning of it wasn't lit?

  • @elena_eleen
    @elena_eleen Před 6 lety

    That was absolutely beautiful!

  • @cutepumpkin4744
    @cutepumpkin4744 Před 6 lety +1

    Lovely

  • @precious7754
    @precious7754 Před 6 lety +2

    Ms Norris

  • @aliciacroft
    @aliciacroft Před 6 lety +1

    Love it :)

  • @anellinanatale8996
    @anellinanatale8996 Před 5 lety

    Wow!!! Awesome

  • @Polyhat_
    @Polyhat_ Před 6 lety

    Very much enjoyed your performance at Amnesty Student Conference :)

  • @Lol-sy9iz
    @Lol-sy9iz Před 6 lety +1

    Gender is just a performance. wow. i love this

  • @ericaann146
    @ericaann146 Před 6 lety +1

    acc crying

  • @kleriamendes8521
    @kleriamendes8521 Před 6 lety

    guys realise,she didn't write it,above it says written by bethany rose,and the lady reading it isn't bethany rose

  • @wackity.7879
    @wackity.7879 Před 6 lety

    Honestly me.

  • @PhilippaCarmel
    @PhilippaCarmel Před 6 lety

    well my version is a boy at school called me a lesbian (year 4) and i went home and told my christian mum and she went to level 100 and wrote a letter to my teacher to report bullying
    im not a lesbian but this is the first time i learnt what lesbian meant hahaha

  • @christinaho2808
    @christinaho2808 Před 6 lety +18

    Jesus Christ. You guys aren't even trying anymore.

  • @hamzakhamlichi190
    @hamzakhamlichi190 Před 6 lety +3

    Wack

  • @Euclides287
    @Euclides287 Před 6 lety +17

    It's *2017.* Unless you live in a Muslim country, why are we still talking about this?
    Being gay/lesbian is the cool thing in the West these days. It's celebrated everywhere and it's even used as a *get out of jail card* for sticky situations. Just ask Kevin Spacey. :^)

    • @rhubarb_crumble
      @rhubarb_crumble Před 6 lety +22

      yikes people that actually think like this

    • @srhrth
      @srhrth Před 6 lety +22

      Cletus Spuckler I’ll hope this is a joke because of your name and picture. And unless you are of LGBTQ+ yourself I suggest you keep these opinions to yourself because some people really need this.

    • @magdalena9250
      @magdalena9250 Před 6 lety +24

      There is still a lot of homophobia, prejustice and hate...

    • @t.jackson2613
      @t.jackson2613 Před 6 lety +10

      Cletus Spuckler maybe west Hollywood or NY or some large cities. Most of us don't have that luxury. What ur doing is the equivalent of telling blacks to calm down bc it's cool to be black now and racism doesn't really happen.

    • @wackity.7879
      @wackity.7879 Před 6 lety +6

      I'm in the Uk and my parents wanted me to go see a doctor when I came out- they saw it as a sign of me being abnormally hormonal. My mum told me it was in my head. They refused to accept it. My grandparents haven't spoken to me in two years over it. Don't make assumptions on what it's like to be gay/lesbian- there isn't a universal experience.

  • @EliteXtasy
    @EliteXtasy Před 6 lety +3

    Soft ball?? Dodge ball?? You may be a lesbian, but you're not American.

  • @chicotthejester9341
    @chicotthejester9341 Před 6 lety +12

    More licence fee money wasted. Thanks BBC.

    • @dawezer
      @dawezer Před 6 lety +5

      Chicot The Jester fuck you

    • @chicotthejester9341
      @chicotthejester9341 Před 6 lety +2

      😂😂😂 Triggered!

    • @dawezer
      @dawezer Před 6 lety +2

      Chicot The Jester nah that's what I was trying to do to you 😂😂😂😂

    • @ShadowyFigure83
      @ShadowyFigure83 Před 6 lety +2

      What could the bbc actually do if EVERY single person simultaneously stopped paying their licence-fee? Absolutely nothing, thats what.
      Thats what we need to do. There should not be a mandatory tax that exists for one tv station. It's ridiculous,
      no other country in the world do you need a licence to watch TV....I do not concent!

    • @t.jackson2613
      @t.jackson2613 Před 6 lety

      PhantomAudio83 well they are actually gaining revenue through utube so perhaps it will be self funded soon. In the mean time i found this to he beautiful and needed. Different art for different people. From what ur saying, this is equivalent to the USAs PBS stations public broadcasting system? We pay a tax. The federal government kicks in i think ten percent and then pledges pay more than half and then licensing deals for example Elmo and Barney that purple dinosaur. They make hundreds of millions from toys alone here so I'm not sure why they need help constantly to keep PBS on air. Is BBC this way as well?

  • @Alecto44811
    @Alecto44811 Před 6 lety +1

    couldn't she have brushed her hair before making this video?

    • @jhdrch2656
      @jhdrch2656 Před 6 lety +4

      Laquisha she did? Hair is unique and she didn't make this video so you can judge her hair😂 let her be happy with what she does, it's her choice

    • @ksc3495
      @ksc3495 Před 5 lety +1

      .....are you serious...?

  • @TheFever77
    @TheFever77 Před 6 lety

    I don’t care where she sticks her tongue I just wish she’d do her hair.

  • @user-lq3ro4vp3z
    @user-lq3ro4vp3z Před 6 lety +3

    wtf

  • @lisaa6099
    @lisaa6099 Před 6 lety +7

    Dude......
    if that is femme.....
    ................

    • @t.jackson2613
      @t.jackson2613 Před 6 lety +16

      Lisa Archibald apparently u missed her whole point.

  • @senoritasombrero
    @senoritasombrero Před 6 lety +1

    Another propaganda video from the BBC, nice! If you spend so much time trying to get validation or trying to justify yourself then you must be really confused.

  • @Deku0611
    @Deku0611 Před 6 lety +1

    this is definitely scripted

    • @t.jackson2613
      @t.jackson2613 Před 6 lety +8

      XxMrKhxX yes. It's spoken word poetry. Like phenomenal woman.

    • @gracejx
      @gracejx Před 6 lety +6

      XxMrKhxX it's a poem

    • @TheProxy066
      @TheProxy066 Před 5 lety +1

      Of course it is? What's the issue?

  • @LemonSte
    @LemonSte Před 6 lety +6

    jesus what is with her hair lol. also this is a terrible slam poem lol

  • @marcalinewampire2102
    @marcalinewampire2102 Před 6 lety +1

    Coming from me - a gay girl - this is cringe. Just stop.

    • @Jayderica
      @Jayderica Před 6 lety +1

      Marcaline Wampire Some of it was a tad cringe...isn't all poetry a little?
      Some of it hit home.

    • @wackity.7879
      @wackity.7879 Před 6 lety +6

      Being gay isn't a universal experience- whereas this may be cringy to you- it might have been enlighting/important to someone else.

    • @alexoglitter2700
      @alexoglitter2700 Před 6 lety +1

      Marcaline Wampire 🖕🏻
      This is a beautiful piece
      So shut your filthy mouth
      And I get to say that because I as a gay girl can sympathise with the amazing woman who wrote/ said this beautiful piece

    • @marcalinewampire2102
      @marcalinewampire2102 Před 6 lety

      To each their own.

  • @babieslove4711
    @babieslove4711 Před 6 lety +1

    You spoke so sweet , nice and free , you make 95% sense but the 5% I think u had a error. I think nobody is born to be gay it's a choice it's like you're saying I'm born to be a drug addict, criminal or straight. Think of it but I respect u for who u are and what u choose to be . I think when we all respect each other the world will be a better place because God loves us all , He doesn't separate us He sees us all as his children, but he hates some of our attitude. Hope I didn't hurt anyone here ❤️🇱🇷🇧🇪

    • @isabella1744
      @isabella1744 Před 6 lety

      I agree no one is born gay but sexuality develops during adolescence or puberty. I just have one question though. Do you choose who you fall in love with? Do you choose to have those sparks inside kiss someone or those butterflies when you see your crush? For me I don’t. I don’t believe it’s a choice to be gay because it would be so much easier if I were straight. But I do believe it’s a choice to be with who you want to be with.

    • @isabella1744
      @isabella1744 Před 6 lety

      And that was a well written paragraph. You seem very accepting and I do believe that this world will eventually become a better place eventually. ❤️

    • @babieslove4711
      @babieslove4711 Před 6 lety

      Yes u choose who u will fall in love with, you know u can't be 30 years old and fall in love with a 15 years old girl or boy. If u do it u are choosing to bring shame and disgrace unto yourself. You do you think people from Royal families don't just fall in love with someone of not the same class think of it . The problem with us is we let our emotions enslave us .

    • @queerukuleleplayer
      @queerukuleleplayer Před 6 lety +6

      Babies Love did you just compare my relationship with my gf to a pedophile lusting over a 15 year old? Or drug addiction? And I can tell you now I would never have chosen this. Being gay has made my life ten times harder. No one would choose this. You are ignorant and your comments have hurt mine and other people's feelings. Educate yourself.

    • @babieslove4711
      @babieslove4711 Před 6 lety

      Lissy I'm sorry if I hurt u , but it's how I feel, and sometimes the truth do hurt, I respect u as a person I respect your relationship, but I believe that u choose that and you weren't born like that . It's all ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ and I'm watching for you to educate me maybe I can learn from u

  • @precious7754
    @precious7754 Před 6 lety +2

    Ms Norris