Hey man I have battled depression, panic attacks, agrophobia and the works. Now Im fighting cancer. It doesnt mean you cant make it in life, Im proof of that and so are you in your field. And your right about the work channeling. You dont find success in life you create it. Stay strong. Your awesome.
Roberto, I have been watching your channel since you had 10,000 subscribers. It's video's like these that really make me feel great about myself. Not only do you provide great information in your videos, you find a way to personally connect with all of your fans and that is what I believe makes you great. Wishing you a great 2017! Thanks, Nate
I struggle with this so much. No matter how long I've been doing design and marketing, I always feel like I'm not "good enough" or I don't know enough to be an "expert". It definitely impacts my confidence and causes me to be overwhelmed and ultimately procrastinate or stay stagnant. I don't feel it all of the time, but I definitely deal with it throughout the year. I try to keep active (I lift and bike) and try to write/create stuff, even if it's little. I just feel disappointed in myself sometimes for not meeting some goal that I made up in my head or not being as successful as I think I should be.
+ProlificBanana you have to reframe success down to just taking action. If you don't keep moving the goal post arbitrarily then you will find a sense of accomplishment is obtainable. I had the same issue. Additionally set simple happiness goals each day. Identify a simple thing that makes you happy, put it at the top of a to do list and make it a point to cross it off. A to do list should also never be more than 5 things at a time...
In the description, I offer some more advice and some of the best audiobooks that have helped me and that I still listen to whenever I need a reminder.
Carl, if your question is genuine, I'm happy for you. However, an empathetic person would not find it odd to think that people often have negative thoughts. In my experience a lot of intelligent people and especially creatives have struggled with overcoming these problems because they are their own worst critics.
Do you think it is appropriate given the subject matter of this video to judge a person's empathy? Everyone is on a different path. Maybe it's just a misunderstanding of the comment.
You're amazing ... Absolutely needed this .... I have been procrastinating making CZcams videos because I'm all in my head thinking of the worse scenarios in my head smh... I must overcome and I thank you so much for this confirmation.
The burying your demons by doing what you love trick is so true. I have PTSD from narcissistic abuse. It's been a long time now, I'm in a happy place, but the symptoms can get intense. It freezes me up and I get lost in my thoughts, and time gets wasted, either with panic attacks, feelings of rage, rage panics or just dwelling. Many people have been giving out the same advice, because it works. When I do what makes me feel good (videos, baking, gaming, being silly with my husband), I'm not stuck in those moments. I am being and in a good state of being. Sometimes, I will be doing some mindful meditation, so stopping and just going outside, or doing nothing will be good, but other times, it puts me in a not so good state. Getting myself out of such a state can be tough, but taking a walk, clearing my mind and then focusing on something that makes me feel good helps a lot. There are times, I can't focus, I can't "work", no videos, then if what I can do is dishes, or bake a cake, or watch a show that makes me laugh, then that's what I'll do, as long as I move up the emotional scale. And doing things for ME is what has really helped. Respecting my needs.
Great video. I have PTSD from the military and I notice I get better sleep and less jumpy when I am working creatively. How ever you can make it to tomorrow.
Thank you for being transparent and helping so many. I recommend your channel pretty often and knowing your backstory is added fuel to the inspiration you already are.
I did exactly the same thing to defeat my imposter syndrome and the reason why i was finally able to start my channel was to strive forward thinking that i got better and i will continue to get better
I appreciate this message. I have a bit to share about using successes to overcome insecurity. I found it helpful to also establish smaller, short term goals, to keep the feeling of success relevant during droughts in creativity. Sometimes the small things can add up and feel just as fulfilling as the major milestones.
Wow. Didn't see that coming. Very impressive to hear you be so straight up with us about your struggles. I'm creating an ADHD channel and what I've discovered is that by me doing videos that help people deal with their ADHD issues, actually end up helping me deal with my issues. Doing videos is like self therapy for me. It's wonderful and something I didn't expect when I started doing videos.
I love that quote "In serving others I save myself" save myself from my own demons. In this industry it's so easy to fall victim of insecurity and lack of confidence. I needed this today thank you so much.
Late to this video but wanted to say something. I have a lot of problems expressing any emotion, it’s really very hard. By holding it a build a lot of stress and it stops me from committing to my best self at times. Your video kept my eyes glued to it the entire time and spoke to me deeply. I’m filming something tonight just because of it. Subbed for life
I know this video is a bit older but I just happened to locate it today. The title was very specific to the blocks I'm dealing with right now. Thank you for posting Roberto! One of the biggest reasons besides the imposter syndrome with a motivational channel is finding the niche and being able to have a successful youtube channel while focusing on motivating others towards obtaining peace of mind. I agree with you, creating content does help squash the doubt I have however it's quite temporary when I see the results of the content I've created while utilizing the fullness of my heart. That was a little dramatic but i's exactly how I've felt. Ok, thanks again, Roberto!
Kudos to swinging the Ban Hammer on the trolls and haters! Big difference between constructive (even non-constructive but honest) criticism and the keyboard-experts, trolls, and haters.
King Julien same here dude. I struggle trying to break these habits. After my semester ends, I am planning on asking my friends to help me overcome this and other concerns I have.
You are awesome!!! Thank you for all your great work, Roberto! I struggled with severe depression for a few years and didn't wanna do anything. What saved me is meditation (simple practise with closed eyes and concentration on my breath). It allowed me to see all my thoughts and fears from distance and realize that I shouldn't listen to them because they have no power except the power I gave them myself by constant attention and focus on those shitty things. After I cleand my mind a little bit from crap, I started to feel more positive, read self-help books, watched inspiring videos and deliberately focus on positive aspects of my life. And then I started my blog and two CZcams channels. I absolutely love what I do and so happy that people like you exist and help others to shine and be awesome! Thank you!
What a time for you to be posting this! I needed this badly. Thank you so much!!! You are such a positive influence, each time you post a video I feel proud of my decision of having subscribed to your channel. Because I like surrounding myself with positivity be it in real life or on social media. Also, you provide so much of helpful content and I love the fact that you explore a lot of areas when it comes to any topic. You don't post repetitive content. All videos have at least some new things/points to offer and help a person grow and learn something new. Keep on with the good work! 😊👍
I can't tell you how much "Beat your mind's lie with an action" resonated with me. Thank you. I wrote that down today on a sticky note that I've attached to my monitor.
Absolutely agree with this video. I eliminated the toxic work situation I was in May this year by (bravely or foolishly) leaving my job. I am still looking for work, it's been 6 months but in the interim started my CZcams channel as my 'therapy.' Something I'd been putting off for years due to imposter syndrome. It has given me a sense of purpose and control back and have been happier than I've been in a long time. Today I just received a knock back from an interview and started to feel very down on myself again, but this video was made for me, and no-doubt countless others. Given me hope. I'll use the time I'm out of work to focus on my channel and learn. Thank you Roberto, your videos have been so helpful.👍🏾
Hey Roberto, I admire your bravery in coming out about something so personal. You're a great inspiration and your videos have helped me tremendously. All the best to you and yours.
Thanks man. I needed this today. Suicidal ideation is something that has to be fought daily. I am a counselor who suffers from depression and inner demons - even family... Instead, today I become a writer! I know I have a gift and I will now express it.
Finding purpose, creating and serving people is such a powerful vision and pathway to forge. It is what has absolutely pulled me out of similar huge "funks" where life felt like more of a burden to live than anything. HEre in comes this massive importance of developing our selves in ways that you spoke of. Roberto - your expression and clarity is top notch. My self and countless others certainly appreciate your message!
Hey Roberto! I've seen dozens, maybe hundreds of people in my life trying to give advice on this serious issue that so many of us are fighting with. I simply cannot think of a better way to put it as you did in this very video. Thank you SO MUCH!
Now what is shocking to me is that u are ACTUALLY speaking to me, Wowwwwwwww! I thought I was the only one Wowww I am seriously trippin over here. I've let fear and the lack of confidence get in my way. The discouraging voices. U HAVE GIVEN ME FUEL and MORE CONFIDENCE to BE CONFIDENT! THANK U!
Amazing Video Roberto! I personally have been struggling with De-Realization (at least that's what I believe I have), I do have a lot of confidence overall, but I don't have the confidence to pursue my creative passion which is music. I'm in my 4th year at University. Have done a lot of work for my music and school, however I really wanted to make the shift to music. I'm taking a break next semester to work full time on my music and see where that gets me. Thanks for the video Roberto! :) Much Love, needed this.
One thing us small CZcamsrs need to realize is that our videos can and will have an affect on others, it doesn't take hundreds or thousands of views to have a positive affect. I got to see that last March. One of my co-workers came in laughing about a video I had made and that one thing helped me to realize that. And, it was at a point where I was about to quit, as well. However, once I saw how I could actually affect someone else with my content that is when I decided I will make this work. Based on others success, I am giving this four or five years to get me where I want to be with CZcams. That is how I will make it in this marathon race because even the best have spent years getting to where they are now. So, just keep creating content and reflect on how you can continue to improve the quality of your content one video at a time. Cheers!
When my son comes home from school I'm going to have him watch this. He's a only 11 but he struggles with being "different" then the other kids. He doesn't have friends. Sits alone at lunch, I think he struggles with finding a purpose. So maybe if he watches this he'll understand that others have gone through this. I try an encourage him all the time, but I think he will understand:listen better from someone who isn't his "mom"
+CraftyLori Lori Simonson there can be something to that. I felt that way most of my life and so I built worlds in my head for a long time to not feel alone... I was the nerd, the artsy kid, a first generation American with a weird name, black but not African American, smaller than the other kids and culturally I had no place and common ground. I know exactly how lonely it can be to feel like you don't fit... Eventually I found my place among other people who felt excluded and I learned that there was quite a bit of power in being apart and that somehow there is a difference between being alone and lonely... maybe I'll dive into this on a video one day... My point is that it absolutely gets better and it starts with accepting yourself and confidence attracts people to you despite differences or preferences... confidence requires a foundation of self love built on truth and self awareness... you have to find something real you like about yourself... The more things you do, the easier that is to find...
Roberto Blake That's is exactly what he does! And that's how he explains it he has worlds in his head! I have taken him to Drs. etc. but they aren't much help all they tell me is he has anxiety and he's not Autistic blah blah blah. He is in a good Charter school that is helping a lot. He is starting to interact more.
To be honest, I think the biggest point you made here was the fact that you try and serve and help others by giving them something valuable (like this video). Depression is a serious issue. I've dealt with it, along with many others out there. I, like others, have had to overcome lack of confidence, lack of inspiration of being here, and finding what fills that void. Filling your void with something positive isn't always easy, but you can win that daily fight one way by literally giving other people value and making them smile. Thank you for sharing this video for others who go through this same struggle. Roberto and others, I hope you don't see this as spam, but if you do that's okay. My channel talks about how to deal with depression, and also gives other important advice to push others to be themselves, and most importantly smile. If you feel as though this video was helpful, I believe my channel could be helpful as well. Overall, thank you Roberto for sharing your story, and inspiring others to continue to fight the struggle with depression. You've shown them that there are ways to be more positive in life, and impact others in the same way.
hey roberto, just wanna say that you are doing just like you want to do, you are changing the thinkings of many people, I was wanted to say this thing in your last video when you told that "small channel like yours" , you channel is not small roberto, your channel is the biggest channels for many people like me, you have always inspired many people including me to create something awesome... thank you.
This is some good advice. Something else I'd recommend is avoiding tv, news programs, newspapers etc. As there's just so much mediocrity and negativity in the media that can easily distract people.
Thank you so much for sharing. Most of us are so afraid to admit this so the more people like you talk about it the more it can hopefully help those who are afraid to!
Love your channel man. One of few business minded self-help youtubers I actually feel like I can trust. Been a follower since under 30k subs and I'm not surprised its gotten to where it is today
So glad you made this video Roberto, important words that need to be said especially at this time of year. I grew up in an environment where people were negative towards me the whole time, and even though I didn't believe it in myself deep down, I took it because they were family and I thought they must therefore be right. Took me fourty years to realise it was them who were broken. I stayed in those relationships out of a sense of loyalty or guilt because they were family, but cutting those people out of my life finally gave me freedom to be my own person and to start stretching my wings and growing into my own skin. It was the best thing I ever did, so I would encourage everyone who has a nay sayer in their life or hater, or troll to cut them loose. You make your own community, so only let in people who add value and love you for who you are. Don't let others suck the life out of you. I think you are proof of that, look how many people you have helped through your videos, you have had a massive impact in this life, and people value you more than you can imagine. We wouldn't be as strong in what we do, were it not for people like you, who offer their videos for us to watch. So thanks a million. x
yep you are so right i struggle everyday..but strangley enough doing content definitely helps me alot..doing videos make me feel needed ..so im with you on that..
Thank you Roberto! As In-House Graphic Designer from Eastern Europe, I found this amazing you are the first YT-er to admit the importance of maintaining your mental health as a graphic designer. Few years back, I've suffered horrible panic attacks in public, then struggled with anxiety most of my life which started out as social anxiety, and later on during art school when I forced myself to be more extroverted, it transformed into generalized anxiety about pleasing other people etc. but I've been doing better recently. Your advice about doing focusing more on actual work was exactly what I needed. My only concern left is that I am 24 right now, but I've spent so much time believing bad advice or pursuing wrong options (such as believing for full 1 year that I must go back to art school and get another degree and work part time not to learn new skills but just to network with other students) that I feel like I have wasted too much time and perhaps at 24 it's little late to start pursuing the right kind of advice, especially one you give at your channel, Roberto, and the Chris Do's channel theFutur.
This video is amazing. I'm struggling to build up myself up to a point where I can be proud of my accomplishments. It is true what you say- if you're working at something every day it helps keep the demons away. I still have dark days but I always try and get myself to work 10 times harder whenever I'm feeling down. Thank you for this!
Roberto, I thought the video was going to be about how to be confident in front of the camera. It turned out not to be about that, but glad I watched it! Very good advice. Personally, I often found it hard to get started on a new video, but once the ball is rolling, I found myself "buried" in the process and had no trouble to keep going. In other words, even before the goal is reached, "burying myself in work" is already giving me fuel to fight. The small wins as I see the video taking shape is great motivator. Thank you for taking the time to inspire us Roberto!
This time of year is extra hard for me. I had a job opportunity that fell through earlier this week and I've been feeling really down on myself. Def needed this video today. Thx Roberto.
This was my most favorite video of yours ever Roberto, thank you for making it. I love the concept of video creating as a form of therapy and can relate to that!
Great video man. I find my biggest problem is "guilt" I make myself feel guilty for not uploading when I know I should, which in turn, makes me hesitant in putting what I've created out there, or continue working on an idea because "it's too late now" which I then guilt myself for. It's a bit of a battle sometimes because I know I should be uploading weekly, and really, I should be uploading more than weekly, but then the reality of my self made deadline hits in, I know I won't make it, then I get demotivated and feel guilty. Realistically I'm unlikely to hit 10k subs this year, even though I know if I'd put in more effort, I'd have reached that goal. Thus, guilt and failure. But I'm trying to learn now, and I'm pretty sure I heard it in one of your most recent videos, that I have to learn to let myself fail. That failing is okay because you learn from it. I'll keep trying to win the mental battles, and your work ethic and upload frequency helps motivate me to try harder and work harder.
I wholeheartedly agree Roberto. I have dealt with similar stuff and above everything else self care has been my own saving grace. It's ok to put ourselves first and filter out any BS.
This is key! I have been talking to people about the voices and how you need to fight them on a daily basis. I had an ah ah! Moment, now I understand why I need to be productive, hustle and create value... now, I know why I do it! Thank you! "Do the work and undermine your haters." Great video...I will save for "those" moments!
This is exactly what I needed today. Thank you! Also, you are so right about the holidays. When I was working in mental health in the military I always gave lots of large suicide awareness and prevention talks during the holidays because as a nation we see a pretty big jump in suicides and attempts during this season, for a whole slew of reasons. Thinking about your words and this also gives me pause, because at 18/19 I could confidently give those talks to large auditoriums of people without any trouble and now at 32 i find myself struggling with self confidence in so many greater ways, when I actually have far more reason to be confident now than I ever did before. It makes me remember why I was so passionate about mental health in my early pre-creative career, and that maybe in the future I'll think about ways to combine my two passions. Thanks for doing your part to not only inspire other creatives and entrepreneurs, but to help break a bit of the stigma behind mental health and these kinds of feelings that so many of us experience, by being honest and open about your experiences and with what helps you!
I was down in the dumps recently, and went through my channel recently and deleted overly negative comments and banned a few. I sort of felt it was sort of censorship, but then again, none of them used a real name, and honestly who wants to see that junk. Glad to hear you recommend this. Best wishes
Great talk, Roberto. It's amazing how prolific you are, but you keep your content in high quality. Your videos have been of great help. Thank you. Have a good night!
This video is so great and I needed to see it. I am a creative and I struggle with impostor syndrome a lot. You put your heart and effort into a project and then you step back and doubt yourself like: "Am I really good at this?" "Do I really know what I am talking about?" "Am I qualified to talk about this?" I'm working through it and I have a super support system so hopefully I will be putting more content out there soon. I will take your advice and create! :)
Thanks for this video, it came at a really good time. I'm in the midst of revamping my freelance career and finally stepping away from the (in my case) self-esteem crushing that is Fiverr. One thing I'd like to add to the eliminating haters, I'm also eliminating (or trying to) the apathetics. I've been a "pro" graphic designer for over 8 years, including 4 years on staff. I still have to remind my immediate family of what I do. Nothing's worst than landing a big client, or improving your technique and your family asking "Do you know anyone who could create a (insert graphic project) for me?" or "what is it you do again?" A lot of my actions have been motivated by if my family doesn't care or remember what I do then I'm probably not that great.
Thanks for this video, there are days when the only thing I really want is to give up, but you're right in many of the things you say, so, I'm going to focus on the facts and I'm going to stop listening to my inner demons.
Beat your demons down with your actions. That is so true and I been there, is how I live my life. I enjoy your channel and your drive to do the things you love.
holy crap, im gonna watch this about six times a day for a month! i am astounded sometimes at what a consistantly positive infuence you are for your viewers. thank you!
Thank you for being such a consistent creative and showing that regardless of what you go through in life putting in action will bury all the self doubts that you will will. I have them a lot myself and going back to back to what I've done and the interactions I've had has helped. The one thing I've struggled with is who am I to do this and I have to look back at what I've done and remind myself who I am and what I've done because self doubt will creep up but just like you said Roberto keep going back to what you've done and bury yourself in your work and that'll kill all the self doubt and negativity! Thank you so much !
Roberto. This was a very insightful and meaningful message. Many thanks for sharing this. "Create something awesome" does this for us. I think every creative person will agree that when we are in the "zone" (that is completely involved in creating) we are free. We are present only right now. Not fearing the past or the future. Not even aware of the outside influences. We are focused on what we do. Sometimes, not even knowing how we can do it but discovering and inventing along the way. Drawing from something within. That's the wonder and gift of "Create something awesome". In that line of thought I suggest this which is very much like your suggestion. A lesson I learned after many years of dealing with a lot of fear. When those negative thoughts come, when an outside influence triggers a bad reaction from your mind. Notice it and "Create somethng awesome" instead. We don't "have to" attach to negative thoughts although we tend to do that. When you notice. Change it. Even at 64 and at a good place in life, I do that probably a hundred or more times a day. You have my greatest respect for sharing this type of information and your deep caring for those who need positive step up in dealing with life.
I just wanted to tell you that I came across your channel a few days ago and have been binge watching all your videos. They are so incredibly helpful and inspiring. And then I came across this one and was shocked that someone so smart and talented who is able to put themselves out there like this actually has insecurities. I just wanted you to know that your time and efforts are very much appreciated and I am so sorry that you have the struggles that you do. I'm so glad I found your channel!
Today I finished editing a video that took me 3 hard and busy weeks to edit ( this being new at editing) and has by far been the best edit I've ever done. I showed my mom expecting her to be be amazed right after I finished rendering and she wasn't impressed. It made me really think I'm wasting my time editing videos for fun after trying to dedicate the whole year to learn this hobby myself. I just wanted to give up forever but this video reminded me that I started editing to make myself happy by completing new things I never imagined myself doing a year ago. Thank you so much for the motivation to always be proud of my own work no matter who or how close anyone is and to push forward with this passion!
Thank you Roberto. I think this might be my favorite video of yours. I'm not one of the people who reached out to you but I have been diagnosed with generalized and social anxiety and the last 2-3 weeks have been extremely rough for me. I'm a CZcamsr and I don't think I've made a video in at least a week, which is only making my anxiety worse. I was actually watching this video while prepping to record a video for the first time in a while and it came down to me just telling myself that I HAVE to do it because it's what makes me happy, no matter how much the other half of myself is telling me no, it's not worth it, what's the point, etc etc. So thank you for making this. It gave me a little push forward today.
From a practical perspective your channel building advice is the best I've seen. From the more emotional angle you offer excellent advice and understanding, backed up by the courage to reveal your own battles. Thank you for casting a light over this difficult subject. Like you, I know the torture of suicial ideation and like you I find that "doing the work" helps. I also set myself arbitrary goals, like subscriber count etc. to drive my energy into making something awesome, rather than dwelling on dark thoughts. Christmas can be a very difficult time - I wish you all the best and please know that you are doing great work.
Hi Roberto, Thanks so much for sharing again. Recently new to CZcams (Summer 2016). Self doubt about getting my videos out have been a big barrier but since I switched up to three videos a week means I don't really have time to stop to think too deeply about it. So your advice is spot on, bury the self doubt beneath a pile of work. Many thanks Stewart
your awesome man. as of today i've started creating vlogs on my channel, to me it's watching vlogs on youtube that help me push through the day and i think every one has something different that connects to them and its just working and finding that thing that helps you fight through the battles. but keeping your self busy to pursue happiness is key. and NOT money. i volunteer at a afterschool program working with kids and helping them with school work, when im there, all my worries go away cause i know im doing something right. by helping them, it gives me life. your awesomw man , MUCH LOVE - framirezart
Thanks for taking the time to make this video I've found that I'm my own worst enemy, and I've started taking steps to fix my life and get to where I want to be.
Thanks so much for sharing your experiences on such an important subject Roberto. It's also great to know where 'Create something awesome today' came from :)
this is everything- and more, I've had in my mind for ages but haven't been able to put into words. thank you so much, very inspiring and overall helpful! Creating stuff is the only medicine that works the best, better than any pill or doctor.
This video helped me today. I filmed a new video and felt really good about it. It wasn't perfect, but I just focused on it being awesome! Thank you - your content is at the top of my list
I really appreciate your openness in sharing your experience. I think that you’ve got a great attitude and you’re adding a TON of value to youtube! Thanks for adding to the (black) community and showing the younger viewers that there’s something more important than the negative pressures that seem so important, but matter so little over time.
Thank you for a great video! From my own experience as a Holistic therapist I find that Theta or NLP worked absolutely wonders for my clients and myself (I've used it first during a difficult personal period and then learned the Theta technique to help others). It's all about our old/unhelpful mind programmes/beliefs which we have been taught by people around us (parents, teachers etc). It's in our subconscious/deep layer of mind, that's why it's hard to beat it, we really need to go to the core of it. Happy Christmas! Oli x
Wow I seriously feel like this is exactly what I needed to hear right now at this moment and I didn't even really know it. I didn't know what this was imposter syndrome but this is so accuarate. It is so true about the universe and things being aligned. And the part about blocking out negativity and toxic things and not getting in your own way. It does make u feel so good to have the sense of purpose and do what u are passionate about create and execute. Thanks so much Roberto for saying this. It really opened my eyes a lot!
I'm so glad you became this successful! For me, since I started youtube, I feel a lot better about myself and I can communicate a lot better on both English and my native language.
Thanks Roberto - great advice and an awesome youtube channel that's helping thousands of us out there. Lost my job a few months back and still looking - as a designer - I find it real hard to get regular work and the confidence level is at a low point. Keeping positive though...
7:26 you made my life simple. Just delete and report if they become too much or try to put words in my mouth. I needed that because I go back and forth in arguments online when I feel that I'm not articulated enough.
Hey man I have battled depression, panic attacks, agrophobia and the works. Now Im fighting cancer. It doesnt mean you cant make it in life, Im proof of that and so are you in your field. And your right about the work channeling. You dont find success in life you create it. Stay strong. Your awesome.
+Paul Democritou tremendous comment. 🙏
Thanks man, Just know you have helped me a lot.
I beat my demons by burying them under the sheer volume of my work and my effort.
I'm just gonna wake up and say that every day now.
Roberto,
I have been watching your channel since you had 10,000 subscribers. It's video's like these that really make me feel great about myself. Not only do you provide great information in your videos, you find a way to personally connect with all of your fans and that is what I believe makes you great. Wishing you a great 2017!
Thanks,
Nate
+Capital Solutions thanks for that tremendous comment
the battle within is always the battle worth winning, never stop yourself from your own success!
I struggle with this so much. No matter how long I've been doing design and marketing, I always feel like I'm not "good enough" or I don't know enough to be an "expert". It definitely impacts my confidence and causes me to be overwhelmed and ultimately procrastinate or stay stagnant. I don't feel it all of the time, but I definitely deal with it throughout the year. I try to keep active (I lift and bike) and try to write/create stuff, even if it's little. I just feel disappointed in myself sometimes for not meeting some goal that I made up in my head or not being as successful as I think I should be.
+ProlificBanana you have to reframe success down to just taking action. If you don't keep moving the goal post arbitrarily then you will find a sense of accomplishment is obtainable.
I had the same issue. Additionally set simple happiness goals each day. Identify a simple thing that makes you happy, put it at the top of a to do list and make it a point to cross it off. A to do list should also never be more than 5 things at a time...
"In serving others, I save myself..." I love your servant leadership!
In the description, I offer some more advice and some of the best audiobooks that have helped me and that I still listen to whenever I need a reminder.
I always enjoy your videos like these. I find them to be incredibly helpful.
Roberto Blake Great advice dude. Been drowning in this on my channel lately. Always nice knowing you aren't alone
why do you think people seem to default to negative thoughts in the first place? It's really odd
Carl, if your question is genuine, I'm happy for you. However, an empathetic person would not find it odd to think that people often have negative thoughts. In my experience a lot of intelligent people and especially creatives have struggled with overcoming these problems because they are their own worst critics.
Do you think it is appropriate given the subject matter of this video to judge a person's empathy? Everyone is on a different path. Maybe it's just a misunderstanding of the comment.
This was the first thing I listened to when I woke up. I added this to a playlist. Thank you.
You're amazing ... Absolutely needed this .... I have been procrastinating making CZcams videos because I'm all in my head thinking of the worse scenarios in my head smh... I must overcome and I thank you so much for this confirmation.
Keisha Clark you have no videos?
no not yet 😔
The burying your demons by doing what you love trick is so true. I have PTSD from narcissistic abuse. It's been a long time now, I'm in a happy place, but the symptoms can get intense. It freezes me up and I get lost in my thoughts, and time gets wasted, either with panic attacks, feelings of rage, rage panics or just dwelling. Many people have been giving out the same advice, because it works. When I do what makes me feel good (videos, baking, gaming, being silly with my husband), I'm not stuck in those moments. I am being and in a good state of being. Sometimes, I will be doing some mindful meditation, so stopping and just going outside, or doing nothing will be good, but other times, it puts me in a not so good state. Getting myself out of such a state can be tough, but taking a walk, clearing my mind and then focusing on something that makes me feel good helps a lot. There are times, I can't focus, I can't "work", no videos, then if what I can do is dishes, or bake a cake, or watch a show that makes me laugh, then that's what I'll do, as long as I move up the emotional scale. And doing things for ME is what has really helped. Respecting my needs.
Great video. I have PTSD from the military and I notice I get better sleep and less jumpy when I am working creatively. How ever you can make it to tomorrow.
Thank you for being transparent and helping so many. I recommend your channel pretty often and knowing your backstory is added fuel to the inspiration you already are.
You are an asset and a treasure in a day and age that needs people like you the most thank you so much for sharing RB
Thank yo so much for this video, I lost my job 6 months ago and still looking. I needed this video to give me hope.
+Miguel Gutierrez I'm glad this is giving you a more positive outlook. What is your profession?
Very good info much needed. Thank you Roberto. The more I eliminate negative people from my circle the more creative I can be.
that's the spirit!
I did exactly the same thing to defeat my imposter syndrome and the reason why i was finally able to start my channel was to strive forward thinking that i got better and i will continue to get better
I appreciate this message. I have a bit to share about using successes to overcome insecurity. I found it helpful to also establish smaller, short term goals, to keep the feeling of success relevant during droughts in creativity. Sometimes the small things can add up and feel just as fulfilling as the major milestones.
Wow. Didn't see that coming. Very impressive to hear you be so straight up with us about your struggles.
I'm creating an ADHD channel and what I've discovered is that by me doing videos that help people deal with their ADHD issues, actually end up helping me deal with my issues. Doing videos is like self therapy for me. It's wonderful and something I didn't expect when I started doing videos.
that's awesome! I've got ADHD too, and it makes life a bit more difficult, but it can't hold us back if we're strong!
QuirkyQuin Exactly! Find strength in our weakness... as David Rendall in his Freak Factor book.
I love that quote "In serving others I save myself" save myself from my own demons. In this industry it's so easy to fall victim of insecurity and lack of confidence. I needed this today thank you so much.
Late to this video but wanted to say something. I have a lot of problems expressing any emotion, it’s really very hard. By holding it a build a lot of stress and it stops me from committing to my best self at times. Your video kept my eyes glued to it the entire time and spoke to me deeply. I’m filming something tonight just because of it. Subbed for life
Bro. You were sent from heaven. Just a few days into your content and I have renewed determination to conquer the world. Truly, thank you.
I know this video is a bit older but I just happened to locate it today. The title was very specific to the blocks I'm dealing with right now. Thank you for posting Roberto! One of the biggest reasons besides the imposter syndrome with a motivational channel is finding the niche and being able to have a successful youtube channel while focusing on motivating others towards obtaining peace of mind. I agree with you, creating content does help squash the doubt I have however it's quite temporary when I see the results of the content I've created while utilizing the fullness of my heart. That was a little dramatic but i's exactly how I've felt. Ok, thanks again, Roberto!
Kudos to swinging the Ban Hammer on the trolls and haters! Big difference between constructive (even non-constructive but honest) criticism and the keyboard-experts, trolls, and haters.
roberto,
never feel down. i think your videos have a amazingly positive towards my life and know that alot of people care about you :)
Hi Roberto! Cool video! I have the same - I feel so sad when I procrastinate. The more I work the better I feel!
King Julien same here dude. I struggle trying to break these habits. After my semester ends, I am planning on asking my friends to help me overcome this and other concerns I have.
King Julien I am the queen of procrastination and of not sticking to the point. Or avoidance. Yep, But I work it out.
You are awesome!!! Thank you for all your great work, Roberto!
I struggled with severe depression for a few years and didn't wanna do anything. What saved me is meditation (simple practise with closed eyes and concentration on my breath). It allowed me to see all my thoughts and fears from distance and realize that I shouldn't listen to them because they have no power except the power I gave them myself by constant attention and focus on those shitty things.
After I cleand my mind a little bit from crap, I started to feel more positive, read self-help books, watched inspiring videos and deliberately focus on positive aspects of my life.
And then I started my blog and two CZcams channels. I absolutely love what I do and so happy that people like you exist and help others to shine and be awesome! Thank you!
Confidence is so important. Thanks for opening up and encouraging others who have dealt with this.
Thanks for being transparent about your depression and anxiety. It really is a relief to have a POC YTer to look up to :)
+Gamer Kitti thanks, i think that is a huge compliment and usually I'm uncomfortable with them.
What a time for you to be posting this! I needed this badly. Thank you so much!!!
You are such a positive influence, each time you post a video I feel proud of my decision of having subscribed to your channel. Because I like surrounding myself with positivity be it in real life or on social media.
Also, you provide so much of helpful content and I love the fact that you explore a lot of areas when it comes to any topic. You don't post repetitive content. All videos have at least some new things/points to offer and help a person grow and learn something new. Keep on with the good work! 😊👍
Great video, we need more of this and less of cyber bully, complaining and hate content on youtube!
wonderful video... there is so much CZcamsrs facing problems...they will motivate them self by this video
I can't tell you how much "Beat your mind's lie with an action" resonated with me. Thank you. I wrote that down today on a sticky note that I've attached to my monitor.
Love Terry Goodkind! Great video.
"Mind what people do, not what they say, for deeds will betray a lie."
Being someone who has overcome severe depression and continues to work on it each and every day, I really appreciate this video, Roberto.
Absolutely agree with this video. I eliminated the toxic work situation I was in May this year by (bravely or foolishly) leaving my job. I am still looking for work, it's been 6 months but in the interim started my CZcams channel as my 'therapy.' Something I'd been putting off for years due to imposter syndrome. It has given me a sense of purpose and control back and have been happier than I've been in a long time. Today I just received a knock back from an interview and started to feel very down on myself again, but this video was made for me, and no-doubt countless others. Given me hope. I'll use the time I'm out of work to focus on my channel and learn. Thank you Roberto, your videos have been so helpful.👍🏾
Hey Roberto,
I admire your bravery in coming out about something so personal. You're a great inspiration and your videos have helped me tremendously. All the best to you and yours.
+Black Sun Comics 🙏
Thanks man. I needed this today. Suicidal ideation is something that has to be fought daily. I am a counselor who suffers from depression and inner demons - even family... Instead, today I become a writer! I know I have a gift and I will now express it.
Finding purpose, creating and serving people is such a powerful vision and pathway to forge. It is what has absolutely pulled me out of similar huge "funks" where life felt like more of a burden to live than anything. HEre in comes this massive importance of developing our selves in ways that you spoke of. Roberto - your expression and clarity is top notch. My self and countless others certainly appreciate your message!
Hey Roberto! I've seen dozens, maybe hundreds of people in my life trying to give advice on this serious issue that so many of us are fighting with. I simply cannot think of a better way to put it as you did in this very video. Thank you SO MUCH!
Now what is shocking to me is that u are ACTUALLY speaking to me, Wowwwwwwww!
I thought I was the only one
Wowww I am seriously trippin over here.
I've let fear and the lack of confidence get in my way. The discouraging voices.
U HAVE GIVEN ME FUEL and MORE CONFIDENCE to BE CONFIDENT!
THANK U!
Amazing Video Roberto! I personally have been struggling with De-Realization (at least that's what I believe I have), I do have a lot of confidence overall, but I don't have the confidence to pursue my creative passion which is music. I'm in my 4th year at University. Have done a lot of work for my music and school, however I really wanted to make the shift to music. I'm taking a break next semester to work full time on my music and see where that gets me. Thanks for the video Roberto! :) Much Love, needed this.
One thing us small CZcamsrs need to realize is that our videos can and will have an affect on others, it doesn't take hundreds or thousands of views to have a positive affect. I got to see that last March. One of my co-workers came in laughing about a video I had made and that one thing helped me to realize that. And, it was at a point where I was about to quit, as well. However, once I saw how I could actually affect someone else with my content that is when I decided I will make this work. Based on others success, I am giving this four or five years to get me where I want to be with CZcams. That is how I will make it in this marathon race because even the best have spent years getting to where they are now. So, just keep creating content and reflect on how you can continue to improve the quality of your content one video at a time. Cheers!
God bless you for sharing! Very much can relate, sadly. I appreciate this video so much! Thanks, Roberto.
When my son comes home from school I'm going to have him watch this. He's a only 11 but he struggles with being "different" then the other kids. He doesn't have friends. Sits alone at lunch, I think he struggles with finding a purpose. So maybe if he watches this he'll understand that others have gone through this. I try an encourage him all the time, but I think he will understand:listen better from someone who isn't his "mom"
+CraftyLori Lori Simonson there can be something to that. I felt that way most of my life and so I built worlds in my head for a long time to not feel alone...
I was the nerd, the artsy kid, a first generation American with a weird name, black but not African American, smaller than the other kids and culturally I had no place and common ground. I know exactly how lonely it can be to feel like you don't fit...
Eventually I found my place among other people who felt excluded and I learned that there was quite a bit of power in being apart and that somehow there is a difference between being alone and lonely... maybe I'll dive into this on a video one day...
My point is that it absolutely gets better and it starts with accepting yourself and confidence attracts people to you despite differences or preferences... confidence requires a foundation of self love built on truth and self awareness... you have to find something real you like about yourself...
The more things you do, the easier that is to find...
Roberto Blake That's is exactly what he does! And that's how he explains it he has worlds in his head! I have taken him to Drs. etc. but they aren't much help all they tell me is he has anxiety and he's not Autistic blah blah blah. He is in a good Charter school that is helping a lot. He is starting to interact more.
To be honest, I think the biggest point you made here was the fact that you try and serve and help others by giving them something valuable (like this video). Depression is a serious issue. I've dealt with it, along with many others out there. I, like others, have had to overcome lack of confidence, lack of inspiration of being here, and finding what fills that void. Filling your void with something positive isn't always easy, but you can win that daily fight one way by literally giving other people value and making them smile. Thank you for sharing this video for others who go through this same struggle.
Roberto and others, I hope you don't see this as spam, but if you do that's okay. My channel talks about how to deal with depression, and also gives other important advice to push others to be themselves, and most importantly smile. If you feel as though this video was helpful, I believe my channel could be helpful as well.
Overall, thank you Roberto for sharing your story, and inspiring others to continue to fight the struggle with depression. You've shown them that there are ways to be more positive in life, and impact others in the same way.
hey roberto, just wanna say that you are doing just like you want to do, you are changing the thinkings of many people, I was wanted to say this thing in your last video when you told that "small channel like yours" , you channel is not small roberto, your channel is the biggest channels for many people like me, you have always inspired many people including me to create something awesome... thank you.
I can''t even begin to tell you how much I needed this video.
This is some good advice. Something else I'd recommend is avoiding tv, news programs, newspapers etc. As there's just so much mediocrity and negativity in the media that can easily distract people.
I hate how the media swarms on people's misfortunes and "sentationalizes" it for money
Thank you so much for sharing. Most of us are so afraid to admit this so the more people like you talk about it the more it can hopefully help those who are afraid to!
Love your channel man. One of few business minded self-help youtubers I actually feel like I can trust. Been a follower since under 30k subs and I'm not surprised its gotten to where it is today
Great video Roberto. A lot of profound value in this.
So glad you made this video Roberto, important words that need to be said especially at this time of year. I grew up in an environment where people were negative towards me the whole time, and even though I didn't believe it in myself deep down, I took it because they were family and I thought they must therefore be right. Took me fourty years to realise it was them who were broken. I stayed in those relationships out of a sense of loyalty or guilt because they were family, but cutting those people out of my life finally gave me freedom to be my own person and to start stretching my wings and growing into my own skin. It was the best thing I ever did, so I would encourage everyone who has a nay sayer in their life or hater, or troll to cut them loose. You make your own community, so only let in people who add value and love you for who you are. Don't let others suck the life out of you. I think you are proof of that, look how many people you have helped through your videos, you have had a massive impact in this life, and people value you more than you can imagine. We wouldn't be as strong in what we do, were it not for people like you, who offer their videos for us to watch. So thanks a million. x
yep you are so right i struggle everyday..but strangley enough doing content definitely helps me alot..doing videos make me feel needed ..so im with you on that..
WOW Roberto! This video is so important. Thank you, I'm so glad I found your channel.
Thank you Roberto! As In-House Graphic Designer from Eastern Europe, I found this amazing you are the first YT-er to admit the importance of maintaining your mental health as a graphic designer. Few years back, I've suffered horrible panic attacks in public, then struggled with anxiety most of my life which started out as social anxiety, and later on during art school when I forced myself to be more extroverted, it transformed into generalized anxiety about pleasing other people etc. but I've been doing better recently. Your advice about doing focusing more on actual work was exactly what I needed. My only concern left is that I am 24 right now, but I've spent so much time believing bad advice or pursuing wrong options (such as believing for full 1 year that I must go back to art school and get another degree and work part time not to learn new skills but just to network with other students) that I feel like I have wasted too much time and perhaps at 24 it's little late to start pursuing the right kind of advice, especially one you give at your channel, Roberto, and the Chris Do's channel theFutur.
This video is amazing. I'm struggling to build up myself up to a point where I can be proud of my accomplishments. It is true what you say- if you're working at something every day it helps keep the demons away. I still have dark days but I always try and get myself to work 10 times harder whenever I'm feeling down. Thank you for this!
Roberto, I thought the video was going to be about how to be confident in front of the camera. It turned out not to be about that, but glad I watched it! Very good advice. Personally, I often found it hard to get started on a new video, but once the ball is rolling, I found myself "buried" in the process and had no trouble to keep going. In other words, even before the goal is reached, "burying myself in work" is already giving me fuel to fight. The small wins as I see the video taking shape is great motivator. Thank you for taking the time to inspire us Roberto!
+Hari Wiguna i actually do have a 5 tips video on how to be confident on camera in the how to grow a CZcams channel playlist.
Roberto, after watching this video I only have one thing to say, thank you.
This time of year is extra hard for me. I had a job opportunity that fell through earlier this week and I've been feeling really down on myself. Def needed this video today. Thx Roberto.
This was my most favorite video of yours ever Roberto, thank you for making it. I love the concept of video creating as a form of therapy and can relate to that!
Great video man.
I find my biggest problem is "guilt" I make myself feel guilty for not uploading when I know I should, which in turn, makes me hesitant in putting what I've created out there, or continue working on an idea because "it's too late now" which I then guilt myself for. It's a bit of a battle sometimes because I know I should be uploading weekly, and really, I should be uploading more than weekly, but then the reality of my self made deadline hits in, I know I won't make it, then I get demotivated and feel guilty.
Realistically I'm unlikely to hit 10k subs this year, even though I know if I'd put in more effort, I'd have reached that goal. Thus, guilt and failure. But I'm trying to learn now, and I'm pretty sure I heard it in one of your most recent videos, that I have to learn to let myself fail. That failing is okay because you learn from it.
I'll keep trying to win the mental battles, and your work ethic and upload frequency helps motivate me to try harder and work harder.
Very sincere sentiment, and most appreciated.
I wholeheartedly agree Roberto. I have dealt with similar stuff and above everything else self care has been my own saving grace. It's ok to put ourselves first and filter out any BS.
This is key! I have been talking to people about the voices and how you need to fight them on a daily basis. I had an ah ah! Moment, now I understand why I need to be productive, hustle and create value... now, I know why I do it! Thank you! "Do the work and undermine your haters." Great video...I will save for "those" moments!
This is exactly what I needed today. Thank you! Also, you are so right about the holidays. When I was working in mental health in the military I always gave lots of large suicide awareness and prevention talks during the holidays because as a nation we see a pretty big jump in suicides and attempts during this season, for a whole slew of reasons. Thinking about your words and this also gives me pause, because at 18/19 I could confidently give those talks to large auditoriums of people without any trouble and now at 32 i find myself struggling with self confidence in so many greater ways, when I actually have far more reason to be confident now than I ever did before. It makes me remember why I was so passionate about mental health in my early pre-creative career, and that maybe in the future I'll think about ways to combine my two passions. Thanks for doing your part to not only inspire other creatives and entrepreneurs, but to help break a bit of the stigma behind mental health and these kinds of feelings that so many of us experience, by being honest and open about your experiences and with what helps you!
I was down in the dumps recently, and went through my channel recently and deleted overly negative comments and banned a few. I sort of felt it was sort of censorship, but then again, none of them used a real name, and honestly who wants to see that junk. Glad to hear you recommend this. Best wishes
Great talk, Roberto. It's amazing how prolific you are, but you keep your content in high quality. Your videos have been of great help. Thank you. Have a good night!
This video is so great and I needed to see it. I am a creative and I struggle with impostor syndrome a lot. You put your heart and effort into a project and then you step back and doubt yourself like:
"Am I really good at this?"
"Do I really know what I am talking about?"
"Am I qualified to talk about this?"
I'm working through it and I have a super support system so hopefully I will be putting more content out there soon. I will take your advice and create! :)
Thanks for this video, it came at a really good time. I'm in the midst of revamping my freelance career and finally stepping away from the (in my case) self-esteem crushing that is Fiverr. One thing I'd like to add to the eliminating haters, I'm also eliminating (or trying to) the apathetics. I've been a "pro" graphic designer for over 8 years, including 4 years on staff. I still have to remind my immediate family of what I do. Nothing's worst than landing a big client, or improving your technique and your family asking "Do you know anyone who could create a (insert graphic project) for me?" or "what is it you do again?" A lot of my actions have been motivated by if my family doesn't care or remember what I do then I'm probably not that great.
Thanks for this video, there are days when the only thing I really want is to give up, but you're right in many of the things you say, so, I'm going to focus on the facts and I'm going to stop listening to my inner demons.
Beat your demons down with your actions. That is so true and I been there, is how I live my life. I enjoy your channel and your drive to do the things you love.
holy crap, im gonna watch this about six times a day for a month! i am astounded sometimes at what a consistantly positive infuence you are for your viewers. thank you!
I love your truth statement. Actions have always spoken louder than words. ~Smile!
Thank you for being such a consistent creative and showing that regardless of what you go through in life putting in action will bury all the self doubts that you will will. I have them a lot myself and going back to back to what I've done and the interactions I've had has helped. The one thing I've struggled with is who am I to do this and I have to look back at what I've done and remind myself who I am and what I've done because self doubt will creep up but just like you said Roberto keep going back to what you've done and bury yourself in your work and that'll kill all the self doubt and negativity! Thank you so much !
Roberto. This was a very insightful and meaningful message. Many thanks for sharing this.
"Create something awesome" does this for us. I think every creative person will agree that when we are in the "zone" (that is completely involved in creating) we are free. We are present only right now. Not fearing the past or the future. Not even aware of the outside influences. We are focused on what we do. Sometimes, not even knowing how we can do it but discovering and inventing along the way. Drawing from something within. That's the wonder and gift of "Create something awesome".
In that line of thought I suggest this which is very much like your suggestion. A lesson I learned after many years of dealing with a lot of fear. When those negative thoughts come, when an outside influence triggers a bad reaction from your mind. Notice it and "Create somethng awesome" instead. We don't "have to" attach to negative thoughts although we tend to do that. When you notice. Change it.
Even at 64 and at a good place in life, I do that probably a hundred or more times a day.
You have my greatest respect for sharing this type of information and your deep caring for those who need positive step up in dealing with life.
I just wanted to tell you that I came across your channel a few days ago and have been binge watching all your videos. They are so incredibly helpful and inspiring. And then I came across this one and was shocked that someone so smart and talented who is able to put themselves out there like this actually has insecurities. I just wanted you to know that your time and efforts are very much appreciated and I am so sorry that you have the struggles that you do. I'm so glad I found your channel!
Today I finished editing a video that took me 3 hard and busy weeks to edit ( this being new at editing) and has by far been the best edit I've ever done. I showed my mom expecting her to be be amazed right after I finished rendering and she wasn't impressed. It made me really think I'm wasting my time editing videos for fun after trying to dedicate the whole year to learn this hobby myself. I just wanted to give up forever but this video reminded me that I started editing to make myself happy by completing new things I never imagined myself doing a year ago. Thank you so much for the motivation to always be proud of my own work no matter who or how close anyone is and to push forward with this passion!
Thank you for posting this, Roberto!
Thank you Roberto. I think this might be my favorite video of yours. I'm not one of the people who reached out to you but I have been diagnosed with generalized and social anxiety and the last 2-3 weeks have been extremely rough for me. I'm a CZcamsr and I don't think I've made a video in at least a week, which is only making my anxiety worse. I was actually watching this video while prepping to record a video for the first time in a while and it came down to me just telling myself that I HAVE to do it because it's what makes me happy, no matter how much the other half of myself is telling me no, it's not worth it, what's the point, etc etc. So thank you for making this. It gave me a little push forward today.
From a practical perspective your channel building advice is the best I've seen. From the more emotional angle you offer excellent advice and understanding, backed up by the courage to reveal your own battles. Thank you for casting a light over this difficult subject. Like you, I know the torture of suicial ideation and like you I find that "doing the work" helps. I also set myself arbitrary goals, like subscriber count etc. to drive my energy into making something awesome, rather than dwelling on dark thoughts.
Christmas can be a very difficult time - I wish you all the best and please know that you are doing great work.
+Unruly Housewife thanks so much! 🙏
i.am glad we did not commit suicide...we are worthy....love how you encourage others
+Lady Charla 👍🙏💕
Thank you, I needed this today. On July 23, 2017, my son Alec took his life. Again, your words mean a lot to me
Hi Roberto,
Thanks so much for sharing again. Recently new to CZcams (Summer 2016). Self doubt about getting my videos out have been a big barrier but since I switched up to three videos a week means I don't really have time to stop to think too deeply about it. So your advice is spot on, bury the self doubt beneath a pile of work.
Many thanks
Stewart
your awesome man. as of today i've started creating vlogs on my channel, to me it's watching vlogs on youtube that help me push through the day and i think every one has something different that connects to them and its just working and finding that thing that helps you fight through the battles. but keeping your self busy to pursue happiness is key. and NOT money. i volunteer at a afterschool program working with kids and helping them with school work, when im there, all my worries go away cause i know im doing something right. by helping them, it gives me life.
your awesomw man , MUCH LOVE - framirezart
Thanks for taking the time to make this video
I've found that I'm my own worst enemy, and I've started taking steps to fix my life and get to where I want to be.
I'm not a graphic designer but now I'm a scrubber...thanks for telling me the strategy to overcome negativity...from self n others
Thanks so much for sharing your experiences on such an important subject Roberto. It's also great to know where 'Create something awesome today' came from :)
this is everything- and more, I've had in my mind for ages but haven't been able to put into words. thank you so much, very inspiring and overall helpful! Creating stuff is the only medicine that works the best, better than any pill or doctor.
This video helped me today. I filmed a new video and felt really good about it. It wasn't perfect, but I just focused on it being awesome! Thank you - your content is at the top of my list
Love your content and your honesty about your life I'm a new subscriber and a new CZcamsr but this video hit home for me thank you
I really appreciate your openness in sharing your experience. I think that you’ve got a great attitude and you’re adding a TON of value to youtube! Thanks for adding to the (black) community and showing the younger viewers that there’s something more important than the negative pressures that seem so important, but matter so little over time.
Thank you for a great video! From my own experience as a Holistic therapist I find that Theta or NLP worked absolutely wonders for my clients and myself (I've used it first during a difficult personal period and then learned the Theta technique to help others). It's all about our old/unhelpful mind programmes/beliefs which we have been taught by people around us (parents, teachers etc). It's in our subconscious/deep layer of mind, that's why it's hard to beat it, we really need to go to the core of it. Happy Christmas! Oli x
Wow I seriously feel like this is exactly what I needed to hear right now at this moment and I didn't even really know it. I didn't know what this was imposter syndrome but this is so accuarate. It is so true about the universe and things being aligned. And the part about blocking out negativity and toxic things and not getting in your own way. It does make u feel so good to have the sense of purpose and do what u are passionate about create and execute. Thanks so much Roberto for saying this. It really opened my eyes a lot!
I'm so glad you became this successful! For me, since I started youtube, I feel a lot better about myself and I can communicate a lot better on both English and my native language.
You're such an asset to creation, Roberto. Thank you for putting out this video.
You are so sweet for doing this! You are the one who is awesome! Keep inspiring us. 😁✌
Another great video Roberto, added it to a new playlist so i can watch it again in the future. 👍
Thanks Roberto - great advice and an awesome youtube channel that's helping thousands of us out there. Lost my job a few months back and still looking - as a designer - I find it real hard to get regular work and the confidence level is at a low point. Keeping positive though...
7:26 you made my life simple. Just delete and report if they become too much or try to put words in my mouth. I needed that because I go back and forth in arguments online when I feel that I'm not articulated enough.