People do not understand how hard it is to date when you have chronic illnesses. It’s a battle everyday, but pls always find someone who is gonna love you and ALL of you.
I can totally relate to this. I have Crohn’s disease and I can tell you it’s no joke. I was in and out of the hospital from 2018 to 2021. It got so bad in 2021 that I had spent that whole year staying in the hospital back and forth to the point I needed surgery. I’m happy to say that now I haven’t had a hospital stay since 2021 and I started going to the gym which is helping me a lot. Keep fighting Verletta you got this.
I’m so happy for you and your journey to recovery!! May you continue to improve and prosper in health. I don’t know you, but damn am I proud of you!! you go friend ! 😊 🫶
Crohn's disease is miserable 😖 feeling to live with along side herniated discs beyond painful .. Hiding these aliments at times I've done myself ..Verletta ❤ stay strong..As "WE HEAR" James loves Verletta loves James ❤
I can relate to her I was born with a neurological condition and I went through two rounds of chemotherapy and my digestive system is messed up and my bones and muscles hurt due to osteopenia. I’m happy I found a guy who understands my medical issues
Praying for your healing and strength and that you find the right one at the right time as well ! It’s def not easy dating in general but knowing what we need and want early helps us figure out what kind of person we’re dealing with earlier than others who aren’t even sick and find out later how their partner handles it. There’s someone for everyone stay positive ❤
Honestly she did it to protect him and her she didn’t do it for malicious reasons I think he should be with her he crying because he sad she went through it alone and she felt she couldn’t come to him
Crohns sucks! Almost lost my life to it. God bless her. She seems to have a good partner to fight the good fight with tho! A supportive partner changes everything. My toxic ex made my symptoms worse from stress but having someone on your side to support you will do wonders for your mental and physical health! She needs to let herself be loved because she does deserve it ❤
Hey ! It’s Verletta, and I can relate! I’ve had exes who def flared me up from all the stress ! So I get it! have to cut those toxic people out and stay positive the right one will find you at the right time ❤
I feel this woman's pain. I have a different disability, but I have had tell me "You are smart, beautiful... but I can't date a cripple or a r-word,". I have had men say that I am not good enough because of my disability or tell me that I am a leftover... I have given up, but I am so happy when I see those who were able to find someone who could look past it and embrace the wonderful person and the heart that lays inside.
Weak men not built for this type of challenge and also the blessings we come with. Stay positive ! There are definitely good men out here just have to stay open and have your eyes peeled for the red but also green flags that we look over sometimes 😊
❤ I feel you girl. I'm a mom with a son who has Crohn's disease. And he's had 9 feet of his intestines removed. It's horrible I hope and I will pray for you too.
I can relate to what she's going through. Sadly, a lot of men in this situation leave. Doctors are trained to give the talk to married female patients because of the stats.
Those type of men are weak! But the right person for us won’t run away if the love is real ❤ stay strong and positive! Not all men are the same thank God
my father died in 2017 due to the surgery that he had for his Crohn's disease. It's a very tough disease and i absolutely hope they find a cure so no one else has to go thru the pain that I had to when I was 17 and found him dead on the floor.
I feel her that dating with illnesses or disorders is so hard. You have to battle whether or not to be up front, but I've learned that who is meant to be in your life will be in your life.
Thank you ! I appreciate that ! It’s taken some years to become more open about it but we are not our illness ! Only the strong survive with us and who would want anything else in a partner anyway 💕
As someone who lives with disability and chronic pain, I can really empathize with this situation. Navigating disability and relationships is so challenging because it can require people in your life to make a lot of space for your health, and unfortunately, a lot of people aren't willing or able to do that. I hope things have worked out for them.
Wow I can relate so well to the young lady speaking about the back pain. I’m the same can’t walk,sit or even get a good night sleep. I’m alone and I think nobody should ever deal with this, that I’m a huge burden to any relationship. It’s been 15 years with this pain but the last two years I can’t do much. I have put off surgeries all the way back to 2020 same year as Covid and Aug 2020 my son dies in a motorcycle accident. I will turn 58 April 13th and It’s not getting any better. I too have degenerative disc disease and I have hit the end in lots of ways. I wish you the best dear lady in this video. I hope u get the necessary medical attention you need to improve your quality of life. At this time in my life, I have absolutely no quality in my life. I go thru all this chronic pain daily and I don’t take any meds to ease the pain. I’m just tired and depressed most days.
Girl I feel you ! Got to keep finding things and staying in tune with the things that keep you happy and uplifted including God. People will fail us but he won’t! Finding someone truly God fearing will understand ! Stay positive love ! Things change over time and when they don’t we must .. environments, routines, people and influences make a difference. Stay positive ! James and I keep God first and foremost ! And I also met him unexpectedly so keep your eyes and head up 💕
This is why we don’t or shouldn’t envy or be jealous of people cause never know what there life is really like or what they go through everyday. Always count your blessings!!. 😊
My mom had Crohn’s since she was a teenager and seeing how struggles with this disease it’s definitely not easy and a constant fight everyday all throughout the day, she had a surgery 4 years ago and hasn’t had any flare ups since then. So I definitely understand where she’s coming from, from watching how it affected my mom all these years.
I have sickle cell disease. I know pain unfortunately. It sucks when ppl become "tired" of you or call you a drug seeker. I would hope they give her some type of pain medicine. They're a beautiful couple. I hope everything works out.
I am in the same position as her and i most definitely know how that feels. I was born with sickle cell disease and when i was in my relationships also i was accepted and they would be there for me and my care and then like 6 months later all of sudden they can't do it anymore and i would also be ghosted on like no phone call no messages nothing just being blocked. So i stay to myself and i am continuing to take care of me and fighting this fight regardless.
Yes he is! I know you get the struggle of it all and trying to explain your pain to someone who complains from having a cold is hard and annoying. But real men are still out here ! Keep that list of red flags to keep the selfish type people away tho fr
I don't have it but my father passed and it hurts :( I relate to her pain and even the car accident cause it's not easy being disabled but looking like you're able bodied.
I go through both things & more so I understand why she hid it from him but he had a right to know just in case it was too much for him. Being upfront & honest are reciprocal actions due to everyone.
Such a dumb comment. Nurses have to study specifically helping women abandoned by their male partners during cancer treatments because many men aren’t like this guy. She explained why. You just wanted to mention yourself.
Waiting for the right time to tell him reallly. It’s hard to kind of slip in the not exactly cute details of it all and expect a man to be accepting when people can be so horrible sometimes
I'm glad she's getting chiropractic help. Check out the Dr's who do the "Ring Dinger". I've seen a ton of positive results with that adjustment, especially when it comes to bulging disks.
Wow…I have a chronic condition and I honestly fear dating bc of it. I require lots of accommodations and even some of my family feels like it’s a burden. Sending much love to this couple. What a great man.
Not her using Crohn’s disease and a back injury. They literally have treatment for both. I don’t doubt she’s in pain but it seems like an excuse to impose on people.
Lots of back injuries aren’t treatable by surgery & you have to live in chronic, severe pain. Severe Crohn’s can also be very debilitating & can lead to life-threatening complications. There are many horrible disorders that you just have to deal with. Medicine can’t cure them all!
She put her guard up to protect herself bc her past relationships didnt last which I understand. He loves her enough to stay. Beautiful ending
You get it 😊 thanks 4 the love!
Wow. He looks like he really loves her. ❤❤❤
He does 🥺🥹
that was the best part, yes
This is rare.
That’s the sweetest thing ❤
Lucky to have each other ❤
People do not understand how hard it is to date when you have chronic illnesses. It’s a battle everyday, but pls always find someone who is gonna love you and ALL of you.
Right ! Being with the right person makes a world of a difference! ❤
I knew when he started crying that he loves the hell out of this woman! Wish them nothing but pure happiness!
Thank you for the support and love ! ❤ we are doing well and are documenting it on our channel 😊
I can totally relate to this. I have Crohn’s disease and I can tell you it’s no joke. I was in and out of the hospital from 2018 to 2021. It got so bad in 2021 that I had spent that whole year staying in the hospital back and forth to the point I needed surgery. I’m happy to say that now I haven’t had a hospital stay since 2021 and I started going to the gym which is helping me a lot. Keep fighting Verletta you got this.
I’m so happy for you and your journey to recovery!! May you continue to improve and prosper in health. I don’t know you, but damn am I proud of you!! you go friend ! 😊 🫶
Yes I have crohns too and these last 2 years have been very hard more downs than up and so many drs appointments ugh
@@hafsahussein365 thank you so much. Blessings.
@@brrvii I know how you’re feeling but better days are coming. You got this. Everything will work out just fine. Keep your head up and keep fighting.
@@jpprophete1988 thank you!!
Crohn's disease is miserable 😖 feeling to live with along side herniated discs beyond painful .. Hiding these aliments at times I've done myself ..Verletta ❤ stay strong..As "WE HEAR" James loves Verletta loves James ❤
Thank you ! It’s def not easy but it gets easier . Thank you for the support ❤
I had no idea Crohns disease had many different faces like that. That's sad.
It definitely opens your eyes and makes you realize how many people must be silently battling these type of illnesses . ❤
I can relate to her I was born with a neurological condition and I went through two rounds of chemotherapy and my digestive system is messed up and my bones and muscles hurt due to osteopenia. I’m happy I found a guy who understands my medical issues
Praying for your healing and strength and that you find the right one at the right time as well ! It’s def not easy dating in general but knowing what we need and want early helps us figure out what kind of person we’re dealing with earlier than others who aren’t even sick and find out later how their partner handles it. There’s someone for everyone stay positive ❤
I just watched this episode. I tried my hardest not to cry but this was sad af
❤ We are in a better space now! Follow us for more 😊
Honestly she did it to protect him and her she didn’t do it for malicious reasons I think he should be with her he crying because he sad she went through it alone and she felt she couldn’t come to him
Facts ! U get it! It’s been a lot I’ve gone thru and have to remain strong so I’m not putting my burden on others fr. Grateful for him ❤
I love them and that brother doing exactly what he's suppose to do... LOVE...✊🏽🙌🏽❤️
Won’t HE do it ! God is good and I’m very thankful for James ❤
@@JustVibeWithJayVee 🙌🏽✊🏽💯
James loves her deeply. ❤ I wish them all the best!
Just like lupus there's different forms of it it may not be showing up on my face or anything but I do have it
Right ! Hopefully more people will be more considerate and at least aware ❤
Totally agree. With Lupus you look fine but your body says otherwise.
Crohns sucks! Almost lost my life to it. God bless her. She seems to have a good partner to fight the good fight with tho! A supportive partner changes everything. My toxic ex made my symptoms worse from stress but having someone on your side to support you will do wonders for your mental and physical health! She needs to let herself be loved because she does deserve it ❤
Hey ! It’s Verletta, and I can relate! I’ve had exes who def flared me up from all the stress ! So I get it! have to cut those toxic people out and stay positive the right one will find you at the right time ❤
eWithJayVee I left him because of it. I had to love me more 💝
This one made me tear up. Beautiful ending
Appreciate the love ❤
Omg this man loves her no matter what! He is her person. Best wishes to them❤
I feel this woman's pain. I have a different disability, but I have had tell me "You are smart, beautiful... but I can't date a cripple or a r-word,". I have had men say that I am not good enough because of my disability or tell me that I am a leftover... I have given up, but I am so happy when I see those who were able to find someone who could look past it and embrace the wonderful person and the heart that lays inside.
Weak men not built for this type of challenge and also the blessings we come with. Stay positive ! There are definitely good men out here just have to stay open and have your eyes peeled for the red but also green flags that we look over sometimes 😊
Thanks for the support ❤
❤ I feel you girl. I'm a mom with a son who has Crohn's disease. And he's had 9 feet of his intestines removed. It's horrible I hope and I will pray for you too.
God bless him ! Praying for healing ! Thank for the support as well ❤
I can relate to what she's going through. Sadly, a lot of men in this situation leave. Doctors are trained to give the talk to married female patients because of the stats.
Those type of men are weak! But the right person for us won’t run away if the love is real ❤ stay strong and positive! Not all men are the same thank God
my father died in 2017 due to the surgery that he had for his Crohn's disease. It's a very tough disease and i absolutely hope they find a cure so no one else has to go thru the pain that I had to when I was 17 and found him dead on the floor.
Compared to all the other episodes, this one is more believable. You can't make this stuff up.
I feel her that dating with illnesses or disorders is so hard. You have to battle whether or not to be up front, but I've learned that who is meant to be in your life will be in your life.
As someone who also battles with Crohn’s disease, I respect her bravery.
Thank you ! I appreciate that ! It’s taken some years to become more open about it but we are not our illness ! Only the strong survive with us and who would want anything else in a partner anyway 💕
I have Crohn's Disease and I completely get where she is coming from. ❤
I always felt alone in this having healthy friends and associates so thank you for sharing ❤
I feel her pain. I have leukaemia + colitis and every relationship has ended because my illnesses are too much of a burden for them
They weren’t for you ! U need a strong man. Stronger than average with an amazing relationship with God. You got it ! Stay positive love !
As someone who lives with disability and chronic pain, I can really empathize with this situation. Navigating disability and relationships is so challenging because it can require people in your life to make a lot of space for your health, and unfortunately, a lot of people aren't willing or able to do that. I hope things have worked out for them.
Yes we are together and growing our family ! After some lessons learned I have a good man who gets it ❤
Being a woman with Multiple Sclerosis, I get it! He's an amazing man and that means a lot.
It’s nice to know other people get it ! Thank you ! ❤ yes he is 😊God is good
That's so sweet! I loved this. Pure love
Thank u ❤
Wow I can relate so well to the young lady speaking about the back pain. I’m the same can’t walk,sit or even get a good night sleep. I’m alone and I think nobody should ever deal with this, that I’m a huge burden to any relationship. It’s been 15 years with this pain but the last two years I can’t do much. I have put off surgeries all the way back to 2020 same year as Covid and Aug 2020 my son dies in a motorcycle accident. I will turn 58 April 13th and It’s not getting any better. I too have degenerative disc disease and I have hit the end in lots of ways. I wish you the best dear lady in this video. I hope u get the necessary medical attention you need to improve your quality of life. At this time in my life, I have absolutely no quality in my life. I go thru all this chronic pain daily and I don’t take any meds to ease the pain. I’m just tired and depressed most days.
Girl I feel you ! Got to keep finding things and staying in tune with the things that keep you happy and uplifted including God. People will fail us but he won’t! Finding someone truly God fearing will understand ! Stay positive love ! Things change over time and when they don’t we must .. environments, routines, people and influences make a difference. Stay positive ! James and I keep God first and foremost ! And I also met him unexpectedly so keep your eyes and head up 💕
This is why we don’t or shouldn’t envy or be jealous of people cause never know what there life is really like or what they go through everyday. Always count your blessings!!. 😊
Wowwww that's or lot it takes or strong person to handle that!!!!! Peace and blessings to her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🌌❤️🌹
Thank you ! It took time to develop this strength fr and I’m blessed to have James and his uplifting and positive self
My mom had Crohn’s since she was a teenager and seeing how struggles with this disease it’s definitely not easy and a constant fight everyday all throughout the day, she had a surgery 4 years ago and hasn’t had any flare ups since then. So I definitely understand where she’s coming from, from watching how it affected my mom all these years.
So many kudos and so much love to this lady. You are not alone #silenthurt ❤
Thank you ! Not having a community of people who understand until now has been hard. Grateful for your support ! ❤
I have sickle cell disease. I know pain unfortunately. It sucks when ppl become "tired" of you or call you a drug seeker. I would hope they give her some type of pain medicine.
They're a beautiful couple. I hope everything works out.
Thank you ! I haven’t started any yet ! Especially now that I’m
Pregnant. But we’re going to figure it out! ❤❤❤
the look in his eyes while he was crying turned me on 😏.. a man loving his woman.
Aww an actual happy ending
I am in the same position as her and i most definitely know how that feels. I was born with sickle cell disease and when i was in my relationships also i was accepted and they would be there for me and my care and then like 6 months later all of sudden they can't do it anymore and i would also be ghosted on like no phone call no messages nothing just being blocked. So i stay to myself and i am continuing to take care of me and fighting this fight regardless.
I’m not crying , YOU ARE!!!!! 😢😢😢😢❤
lol thanks for the love! We are doing much better now ❤
He's a real man but I have multiple sclerosis
Yes he is! I know you get the struggle of it all and trying to explain your pain to someone who complains from having a cold is hard and annoying. But real men are still out here ! Keep that list of red flags to keep the selfish type people away tho fr
He’s amazing ❤❤❤
Yes he is ! Thank you ❤
I don't have it but my father passed and it hurts :(
I relate to her pain and even the car accident cause it's not easy being disabled but looking like you're able bodied.
Right people want to say you’re lazy or judge you based on what they are familiar with .. so it’s def hard trying to be understood at times ❤
Praying for you! Sorry for your loss ❤
I go through both things & more so I understand why she hid it from him but he had a right to know just in case it was too much for him. Being upfront & honest are reciprocal actions due to everyone.
My Hubby has Crohn's disease and I will always love him and have his back Why would you hide that??
Such a dumb comment. Nurses have to study specifically helping women abandoned by their male partners during cancer treatments because many men aren’t like this guy. She explained why. You just wanted to mention yourself.
Waiting for the right time to tell him reallly. It’s hard to kind of slip in the not exactly cute details of it all and expect a man to be accepting when people can be so horrible sometimes
I'm glad she's getting chiropractic help. Check out the Dr's who do the "Ring Dinger". I've seen a ton of positive results with that adjustment, especially when it comes to bulging disks.
Ouu okay thank you ! Definitely will !! ❤
Damn this makes me wanna cry 😢😢
Beautiful episode!
Thank you for the love ❤
Wow…I have a chronic condition and I honestly fear dating bc of it. I require lots of accommodations and even some of my family feels like it’s a burden. Sending much love to this couple. What a great man.
He’s a true man 4 saying that
Isn’t that the guy from that episode of Catfish where the girl says no due to his missing teeth or am I crazy ?
No that’s not him
thx !! @@vibingwithsyd1783
Def not him and he’s not missing teeth lol
@@JustVibeWithJayVeebut dude got his teeth fixed.
God bless theses two❤
Thank you ! God bless you too !
@@JustVibeWithJayVee thank you ❤️
Time to fire the script writer 🙄. It’s like they aren’t even trying.
That's how I felt with the "biting massages" guy.
Here i go again believing that this show is real.
We are def real 😂😊
@JustVibeWithJayVee I believe u are real I just think that the show is fake
I have Crohn’s. Diagnosed 4 years ago. /:
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They could’ve handed my boy some tissue or something
Ngl as I was eating these pizza bagels I cried ❤
Anyone can help me with a song that is played in the show? Please 🙏🏽
She needs Dr. Rahim in LA.
💔💔♥️
Dang
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Not her using Crohn’s disease and a back injury. They literally have treatment for both. I don’t doubt she’s in pain but it seems like an excuse to impose on people.
Lots of back injuries aren’t treatable by surgery & you have to live in chronic, severe pain. Severe Crohn’s can also be very debilitating & can lead to life-threatening complications. There are many horrible disorders that you just have to deal with. Medicine can’t cure them all!
@@renb6133exactly my dad has had 2 back surgeries and a knee operation and he still in pain
I have multiple sclerosis and I tell people to mind their phucking business because it ain't for us to explain my pain😊
I have MS and its hard meeting someone, falling for them and saying "yay, you get to push my wheelchair".
Don't go there. Treatment isn't for everyone. Treatment works for some and others not. Lameo