4 Catfish Who Took Things Way Too Far 💍

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  • čas přidán 24. 06. 2023
  • From babies to tattoos, these 4 catfish convinced their victims to make life-changing decisions.
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  • @blitzyquartz
    @blitzyquartz Před 11 měsíci +6964

    Tattooing yourself with a name of someone you haven’t even met Fr is wild

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 Před 11 měsíci +163

      Especially since me thinking the kind of pic she sent was some type of nude to make it even more wild lol

    • @bellamyers558
      @bellamyers558 Před 11 měsíci +214

      So is purchasing an engagement ring 😂

    • @keramiller823
      @keramiller823 Před 11 měsíci +238

      Tattooing anyone's name on you that isn't blood related is crazy period 😂

    • @keramiller823
      @keramiller823 Před 11 měsíci +29

      But ngl if she did that for her I need her in my life 😭

    • @wilrivera2987
      @wilrivera2987 Před 11 měsíci

      Is not wild it is stupid

  • @le00n13
    @le00n13 Před 11 měsíci +12891

    Adam does really deserve the world. He really deserves someone that sincerely loves him. This man has a huge heart.... I can't believe how he reacted, the whole story broke my heart

    • @sexykattlady
      @sexykattlady Před 11 měsíci +84

      💯%!!!❤

    • @BlazingPhoenix05
      @BlazingPhoenix05 Před 11 měsíci +279

      I am here for Adam's laugh!!!! He has such an adorable laugh! He is precious!

    • @le00n13
      @le00n13 Před 11 měsíci +37

      @@BlazingPhoenix05 absolutely!

    • @sasukegirl3492
      @sasukegirl3492 Před 11 měsíci +185

      I was gonna say this, someone go love that man, he deserves it! 🥺

    • @POV18
      @POV18 Před 11 měsíci +227

      We need to find Adam a good woman. One he deserves cause damn, this broke my heart.

  • @here2laff397
    @here2laff397 Před 8 měsíci +1532

    And the first guy STILL gave him the ring. What a kind act. Unfortunately I don’t think this guy deserved any acts of kindness. That man isn’t the only person he’s scamming. I hope he finds someone who truly loves him because he was seriously too nice to that guy.

    • @StephanieBrooklyn
      @StephanieBrooklyn Před 6 měsíci +42

      He got other people he scamming. I agree with you.

    • @shannilove2801
      @shannilove2801 Před 6 měsíci

      definitely. He apologized then scammed his next victims@@StephanieBrooklyn

    • @kristy4178
      @kristy4178 Před 6 měsíci +90

      He has no empathy. That guy just got rewarded for his poor behavior it only reinforced that behavior

    • @ZinziGor
      @ZinziGor Před 5 měsíci +70

      He's probably just going to sell that ring, too 😒 smh

    • @here2laff397
      @here2laff397 Před 5 měsíci +36

      @@ZinziGor right ! Girl, IF the fool is even engaged ! At this point he could tell me he’s black and I wouldn’t believe it. Just a liar, very sick individual!

  • @toujoursici1675
    @toujoursici1675 Před 8 měsíci +371

    *Sends $1,000
    *Hears a baby in the background
    = I'm a Mom!!
    🤔

    • @neveradullmoment6882
      @neveradullmoment6882 Před 2 měsíci +10

      🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @clickchick6861
      @clickchick6861 Před 28 dny

      Ikr!! That girl was so.... simpleminded about that particular subject

    • @kevinclark495
      @kevinclark495 Před 23 dny

      she deserved to get scammed if she's that stupid

    • @marley1276
      @marley1276 Před 12 dny +2

      *Gives* *Her* *The* *Bank* *Card* *Number*

  • @tedkeedabooker8740
    @tedkeedabooker8740 Před 10 měsíci +4033

    The tattooing... The paying rent... Buying a engagement ring... The having a baby etc. Not meeting them knowing them is beyond me

    • @jadaart
      @jadaart Před 10 měsíci +207

      righttt everyone saying oh i feel bad, i feel bad too but doing those things without knowing the person is hella wild and crazy...🥲🥲🥲

    • @tedkeedabooker8740
      @tedkeedabooker8740 Před 10 měsíci +90

      @@jadaart I'm not feeling bad nor sorry... My mind process when it comes to stuff like that... I'm thinking: "u playing right?" Or "u better not do that regoofy shit*

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma Před 10 měsíci +52

      Like I'm not even paying for someone on the first date 😭 let alone buying for a surrogate 😭😭😭

    • @lifeasrere7940
      @lifeasrere7940 Před 10 měsíci +4

      fr tho..

    • @lifeasrere7940
      @lifeasrere7940 Před 10 měsíci

      @@tedkeedabooker8740real !

  • @BerLynn
    @BerLynn Před 11 měsíci +4732

    I hope Adam finds someone who REALLY loves him someday. You can see that he's a compassionate and empathetic soul. He deserves someone who can give that back to him.

    • @MrsCrandon
      @MrsCrandon Před 10 měsíci +2

      Indeed❤❤

    • @Tumbledweeb
      @Tumbledweeb Před 10 měsíci +10

      I'M NOT CRYING! IT'S CHIRAL ALLERGY! Adam is the ultimate sir!

    • @lehliladevandria5712
      @lehliladevandria5712 Před 9 měsíci +16

      I don't feel sorry for him. If he put as much effort in his health and appearance as much as he does chasing women who don't want him on the Internet, then maybe he would.

    • @1mN0tH3r3.0
      @1mN0tH3r3.0 Před 9 měsíci

      @@lehliladevandria5712shut up bro

    • @quiethills1999
      @quiethills1999 Před 9 měsíci +19

      I bet he could find a girlfriend if he didnt require her to be beautiful. Notice how he described her: beautiful and nice. Like what? There are no ugly and nice women out there?

  • @amorcupid
    @amorcupid Před 7 měsíci +186

    how are you gonna be thinking you have a whole ass baby with someone you’ve NEVER met???? saying she feels like a mother 😭😭

    • @Sammy-yb4tj
      @Sammy-yb4tj Před měsícem +6

      Fr how can she be so oblivious to the evidence that there’s no baby🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @Ellie80681
      @Ellie80681 Před 16 dny +1

      They both created a whole dimension full of lies 😂

    • @wxvy1x838
      @wxvy1x838 Před 2 dny

      i know but she fine as hell thooo

  • @dalia_does
    @dalia_does Před 8 měsíci +422

    The last one is top tier gaslighting 😂 I almost caught myself getting mad at Shay too😭

    • @simpleesambam2933
      @simpleesambam2933 Před 6 měsíci +64

      Me too. I was like dang Shay how you gon cheat on her! She loveeedddd you 😂😂😂😂

    • @chikitaivy8077
      @chikitaivy8077 Před 4 měsíci +13

      Lol ctfuuuuu stfuuuu your so FUNNY

    • @pammywhammy3767
      @pammywhammy3767 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Maamsir gaslighted so smooth😂😂😂

    • @JimeLello
      @JimeLello Před 26 dny

      Shays a moron

  • @emilycollins8762
    @emilycollins8762 Před 11 měsíci +4507

    Adam deserves the absolute world, what an angel 🥹

    • @BlazingPhoenix05
      @BlazingPhoenix05 Před 11 měsíci +31

      He is such so precious! He deserves so much better❤. His laugh is just so wholesome too! H

    • @KENTURNERSINGS
      @KENTURNERSINGS Před 11 měsíci +53

      Yeah! But giving that ring away FOR FREE… to a predator who’s just gonna move on the next victim, is Not Wise!

    • @markjohnson-sl9qf
      @markjohnson-sl9qf Před 11 měsíci +11

      Adam deserves what he got. He should you known from day one.

    • @Phoenix-jg1ro
      @Phoenix-jg1ro Před 10 měsíci

      ;*
      😮😅
      Lkk

    • @TjMurby-wp9it
      @TjMurby-wp9it Před 10 měsíci +10

      Tf?! He turned out to be the fool the scammer thought he was🤡🤣

  • @ronnie3678
    @ronnie3678 Před 11 měsíci +4554

    Adam just made me cry he’s so sweet he really deserves the world :(

    • @Naomi-sd9gh
      @Naomi-sd9gh Před 11 měsíci +6

      🥺😖

    • @grassfedcharlie
      @grassfedcharlie Před 11 měsíci +42

      So go talk to him then.
      Fake ahh sympathy

    • @simianflu
      @simianflu Před 11 měsíci +152

      @@grassfedcharlieu just want a reason to be mad.

    • @Glockkitttyy
      @Glockkitttyy Před 11 měsíci

      ​​@@grassfedcharliedamn people can't sympathize anymore? Fuck outta here

    • @acubi6131
      @acubi6131 Před 11 měsíci +82

      @@grassfedcharlie someone pissed in ur cereal today lol

  • @samuelmadigage4027
    @samuelmadigage4027 Před 5 měsíci +188

    🤣🤣🤣🤣The african guy didnt take anything serious😂😂😂😂

  • @britnicox3929
    @britnicox3929 Před 7 měsíci +337

    Gervaise makes me so sad bc she’s probably the most upset catfish about what she did - I genuinely believe she just wanted to feel good about herself and keep someone who treated her well around, and she just didn’t know how to get that as herself. I wish so much it wasn’t this way bc she and Dejohn clearly seemed to click and care for each other. No win in that situation man

    • @villandriquezhampton2771
      @villandriquezhampton2771 Před 7 měsíci +2

      😮😅😮😮😮😮😮😮😅oops

    • @moniho6907
      @moniho6907 Před 7 měsíci +62

      I felt like she didn't have to do all a that because she was ok looking, looked better than alot of catfishes I have seen

    • @britnicox3929
      @britnicox3929 Před 6 měsíci +38

      @@moniho6907 I agree, but she clearly didn’t think that way about herself and she didn’t think - either from experience or perception - that she could

    • @ChulazoPanama77
      @ChulazoPanama77 Před 5 měsíci +22

      @@moniho6907 I was thinkin' the same. Like....why did she feel the need to go thru all that. She's not bad lookin' at all. But, as someone who also suffers low self esteem I kinda get it.

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Před 5 měsíci +5

      Ya I get your point but lying and totally screwing with other peoples emotions and trust (which will mess with them forever) is not the way to get self esteem or a partner, that’s just being a selfish amoral person and having low self esteem is no excuse. Hopefully she felt bad enough to stop doing that to people. However, the fact that she’s made a whole adult life pattern (maybe even longer) doing this it’s highly doubtful.

  • @courtneyhunte-nr6mn
    @courtneyhunte-nr6mn Před 9 měsíci +1526

    planning to have a baby with someone you have never met is literally insane. There is no way that girl is all the way there mentally..

    • @JocelynBondulous
      @JocelynBondulous Před 7 měsíci +102

      This! People are saying that she’s stupid but it genuinely seems like there’s something mentally wrong

    • @JAH-iu3yh
      @JAH-iu3yh Před 7 měsíci

      Right?! I am so confused by that one. Also surrogates and babies cost way more than $1000 wtf

    • @username-re9yk
      @username-re9yk Před 7 měsíci +41

      THIS. And the fact that ir wasn't just one girl, it was two different girls who did the same, and in fact, one DID HAVE THE BABY JUST BECA OF THAT STRANGER. LIKE ?????????
      She shouldn't be allowed to be a mother, she's not even mature nor responsible enough, wtf

    • @mikescope2777
      @mikescope2777 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Adam is an adorably awesome man…Mercy just a pure mess

    • @chaylicedominic414
      @chaylicedominic414 Před 5 měsíci +4

      are you familiar with the "this is moment a little fast... even for lesbians" troupe?
      well...

  • @queencleopatra007
    @queencleopatra007 Před 11 měsíci +2555

    That woman who got tricked into paying a surrogate is absolutely not ready to be a parent. That poor kid would be so lost. Also, a surrogate cost WAY more than $1000 dollars. That girl don't have the capacity to research nothing!

    • @ahzar4384
      @ahzar4384 Před 11 měsíci

      EXACTLY. She was do stupid asf. She was just obsessed with bumpin coochies with her one day😂

    • @NDJunction
      @NDJunction Před 11 měsíci +92

      its the lack of going to jail for me o_o

    • @ISa-jy8ol
      @ISa-jy8ol Před 11 měsíci +139

      More than $30K + all care and delivery expenses on average for the cheapest end!

    • @RandySoWavvy
      @RandySoWavvy Před 11 měsíci

      @@ISa-jy8ol $60k-100k

    • @julez0909
      @julez0909 Před 11 měsíci +61

      Absolutely dummy

  • @emilygaskell424
    @emilygaskell424 Před 6 měsíci +62

    The baby one is absolutely hysterical 😂
    It’s her own stupid fault, surprised she didn’t go on Dr Phil for a DNA test 😂😂😂

  • @nicoleperez3134
    @nicoleperez3134 Před 6 měsíci +100

    Frank had no MERCY and brought the frank and beans to the convo😂😂😂... Darn, Adam!!! Adam is a gem!!! Dang, Adam turned the other cheek and said, if your trying to take my shirt...you can have my coat as well. Unbelievable!!! Not many people like him, I wish him well in life!!!

  • @starfire4030
    @starfire4030 Před 11 měsíci +1086

    The woman who thought she had a baby via surrogate is STUPID omg

  • @tapwiregonecool6439
    @tapwiregonecool6439 Před 11 měsíci +1842

    Shout out to first guy who took it like a boss. And was very thoughtful considering the circumstance.

    • @robogreek3157
      @robogreek3157 Před 11 měsíci +63

      Wonderful man but what he did was wron... you never reward someone that wasn't even apologetic

    • @Wizardly.hogwarts
      @Wizardly.hogwarts Před 10 měsíci +29

      ​@@robogreek3157 catfish are never sorry. they feel bad they get caught but that usually it. take these stories as a lesson to never trust anyone online unless you know them in person.

    • @atomiclena128
      @atomiclena128 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@robogreek3157 I think they mean Adam is a champ, not the catfish.

  • @jasminerc3240
    @jasminerc3240 Před 8 měsíci +131

    I hope Adam is doing okay, he really does deserve the world, kindest and most genuine guy I've ever seen

  • @almedoraymond9422
    @almedoraymond9422 Před 7 měsíci +38

    the first man is not fat, he just full of love. he has a very big heart. i hope he found a woman who deserve the kind of love that he has.

  • @zoedi2615
    @zoedi2615 Před 11 měsíci +2050

    Dude.... Adam's reaction had me in tears.... No one deserves having their heart broken like that. I really hope he will find true love. He really deserves the world

    • @hinatababe97
      @hinatababe97 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I almost cried too! Omg ?

    • @maryymendes
      @maryymendes Před 6 měsíci +4

      Me too. Over here crying. So sad. I can completely understand thw feeling of wanting to be loved and not believing it will happen. That hurts. He really wanted to believe it 💔

    • @ZoilaSolis
      @ZoilaSolis Před 5 měsíci +2

      Oh don’t you worry GOD is going to give him more than he asked for and someone will see him bc of the show and want to connect with him.

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Před 5 měsíci

      Did the same to me.

  • @Aetium
    @Aetium Před 9 měsíci +1259

    yoooo Adam is soooo pure. with so many of these situations you feel bad for the victim but this dude is just next level, the kindness he portrays is so genuine, and even in that moment he doesn't hide that he's also upset. I really hope he's happy, that man deserves it.

  • @iamvalor_
    @iamvalor_ Před 7 měsíci +68

    He gone sell that ring 😂😂🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @kiyokumabear
    @kiyokumabear Před 4 měsíci +9

    "Do you have a family?"
    "No, I have a girlfriend and one son."
    🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀

  • @tcl09110
    @tcl09110 Před 11 měsíci +1079

    Adam is one of the most selfless humans I've ever seen.. wow. He would be such an amazing husband to someone and I truly hope he gets that.

    • @aHavenForTheLost
      @aHavenForTheLost Před 7 měsíci +25

      Yes he would most likely honor his wife and his vows. I pray he finds a woman who will love and appreciate the wonderful man he is.

    • @masonasher9689
      @masonasher9689 Před 5 měsíci +8

      Poor adam.....his heart is simply too golden, any woman who ends up with Adam will be the luckiest woman, she would definitely be a queen in his eyes, ugh i feel so bad for him he deserves nothing but love and happiness 🥺💙

    • @culenahalim9683
      @culenahalim9683 Před měsícem

      Adam such pure soul❤

  • @anasdomain9994
    @anasdomain9994 Před 11 měsíci +1132

    They should have like a catfish dating show where the victims who were catfished can go on blind dates with each other and maybe find true love with someone who understands idk 😭 I’m sure one of those were catfished like him would
    Love Adam

    • @augustmoon9973
      @augustmoon9973 Před 11 měsíci +83

      That's an amazing idea, MTV should totally run with your idea! I would definitely watch! ❤

    • @iiilovesh300m
      @iiilovesh300m Před 10 měsíci +19

      Omg Lmao this is genuinely a good idea. Hoepfully catfish sees this!!!

    • @la6136
      @la6136 Před 10 měsíci +5

      This is a horrible idea I don't know why so many people liked this. No one going on a reality TV show is serious about finding love. It is all for attention and money. And why would they want to bond over their trauma? How about get off of dating apps and the internet trying to find love and get out in the real world to meet people.

    • @DuhCaptainObvious
      @DuhCaptainObvious Před 10 měsíci +2

      I definitely would date adam

    • @DuhCaptainObvious
      @DuhCaptainObvious Před 10 měsíci

      I definitely would date adam

  • @shupikaichigaba3431
    @shupikaichigaba3431 Před 6 měsíci +42

    That poor child. Can’t imagine being born in such circumstances. Can’t believe these people live among us smh

  • @CRAYCRAYLESBIAN
    @CRAYCRAYLESBIAN Před 3 měsíci +16

    THE FACT THAT THE LAST PERSON FIXED THEIR CAR WITH MONEY FOR A BABY IS SO CRAY-CRAY

  • @marqueldeaneee
    @marqueldeaneee Před 11 měsíci +698

    The fact they are planning kids with strangers is so scary to me. They have never seen these people and they would have a whole child ! 😭 I didn’t have my son til nearly 10 years into me and his father like this is crazy asf to me.

    • @cculc175
      @cculc175 Před 10 měsíci +24

      It was hard for me to believe that situation. I feel like it was fake cause who is that dumb??

    • @lifeasrere7940
      @lifeasrere7940 Před 10 měsíci

      realll

    • @anonymous92126
      @anonymous92126 Před 8 měsíci +7

      I mean, at least there's some kind of planning involved lol. My dumbass friend had a girl he didn't even remember the name of show up at his doorstep 9 months pregnant. He took them in, bonded with the baby once he was born and didn't even end up being his child. All kinds of stupid out there walking around. 😅

    • @marqueldeaneee
      @marqueldeaneee Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@anonymous92126 goodness gracious!!! I feel so bad for him but no offense if it was my son would have told him to get a dna test. Women are something else and as a woman I can say that wishing him the best

    • @bmoe4609
      @bmoe4609 Před 8 měsíci +1

      No different than how people worship n believe in God. It happens until you love yourself

  • @shakitabananaa5651
    @shakitabananaa5651 Před 11 měsíci +383

    “I’m a mom now I can’t just walk away frm the situation”
    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @highq9039
    @highq9039 Před 7 měsíci +30

    That first guy has a heart of gold. Nice people like him always get hurt.

  • @DrayaBaya
    @DrayaBaya Před 7 měsíci +32

    Thinking $1000 would cover a surrogate is crazy 😂

  • @lilanthony21O_
    @lilanthony21O_ Před 11 měsíci +1253

    Ceejay and Tae situation was just insane. And what Tae did was completely unacceptable

    • @TheQjad135
      @TheQjad135 Před 11 měsíci +237

      Honestly Tae is not nice- the way she flipped so quickly and was quick to berate Shay, no wonder Shay cut her off shes toxic

    • @JessicaMarieLove1
      @JessicaMarieLove1 Před 11 měsíci +124

      And the co-host face the whole time 😆
      30:55

    • @chic.n.fabulous
      @chic.n.fabulous Před 11 měsíci

      t😊😊

    • @Lady.B0420
      @Lady.B0420 Před 11 měsíci +69

      ​@@JessicaMarieLove1Tallulah's face says what we all are thinking

    • @fundragon298
      @fundragon298 Před 11 měsíci +116

      @@TheQjad135 Everything about Tae screams abusive partner/narcissistic partner/domestic violence.

  • @trinitymetler1246
    @trinitymetler1246 Před 11 měsíci +496

    CJ needs help yo…the way she immediately went into defense mode by gaslighting and shifting the blame is crazy. She really thinks she’s being rational

    • @aaliyahbby53
      @aaliyahbby53 Před 11 měsíci +33

      Fr! She’s CRAAAAAAAAZY.

    • @analea6531
      @analea6531 Před 6 měsíci +16

      I was going crazy like how you are the catfish, you lied and robbed this woman yet you’re screaming and calling her dishonest. I’m happy Nev didn’t hold back and confronted that psychopath about the tattoo and the money 😮‍💨

    • @IZaubermausI
      @IZaubermausI Před 6 měsíci +6

      CJ/Tae is like sh*t at the *ss of our society!

    • @erinfield1943
      @erinfield1943 Před 5 měsíci +5

      I think CJ is potentially still dangerous to Shae, like I think the police need to keep an eye on her.

  • @krystalolsen5693
    @krystalolsen5693 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Tallulah get your shoes off that woman’s couch girl 😂🙄

  • @JazmyneAlexandria
    @JazmyneAlexandria Před 2 měsíci +14

    That man bout to sell tf outta that ring 😂

  • @CaptKPinksies
    @CaptKPinksies Před 10 měsíci +224

    I'm seriously concerned for anyone who thinks they can/should/did have a baby with someone they've never met in this kind of circumstance.

    • @Phoebe5448
      @Phoebe5448 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yeah, I've never been lucky with dating even offline back in the day, and even though I've done online dating only recently I still don't trust it. I've had maybe three dates and I haven't found anyone I click with yet. And yeah, I've had a couple weirdos message me. But yeah, even I wouldn't go this far.

    • @user-hy8xd9be4d
      @user-hy8xd9be4d Před 5 měsíci

      nah fr.

  • @graceanderson7933
    @graceanderson7933 Před 11 měsíci +1339

    Adam is such a sweetheart. I hope he finds someone who will love and cherish him as much as he deserves.

  • @bipolarbear9163
    @bipolarbear9163 Před 6 měsíci +21

    What adam did for that man was so selfless and kind. however, that man did not deserve that. if anything, i feel it might have just encouraged him to continue doing what he’s doing. he literally just got rewarded for it by getting to be on tv AND getting a brand new ring out of it!

  • @tshiwemadamombe5781
    @tshiwemadamombe5781 Před měsícem +4

    Smiling and calling catfishing a job is willdddd💔😭😭

  • @emmafinch1127
    @emmafinch1127 Před 11 měsíci +566

    Kudos to the first guy. He showed his true colors by mailing that ring. Very thoughtful choice.

    • @shaylatorch
      @shaylatorch Před 11 měsíci +97

      More than thoughtful, I bet that ring cost a pretty penny! He could have really returned it & got all his money back. He was generous to a fault, the guy he sent the ring to, probably sold it. In Nigeria, that was probably enough to pay his rent for a year or more. Sadly the guy is probably STILL scamming people to this day

    • @texassaxet4893
      @texassaxet4893 Před 10 měsíci

      This was stupid and weak as fuck. He should have donated the money to an animal shelter if he didn't want it...but not reward a criminal. africa is laughing.

    • @elcee84
      @elcee84 Před 10 měsíci +11

      @@shaylatorchexactly

    • @laurahero8778
      @laurahero8778 Před 9 měsíci +12

      @@shaylatorch tell me about it. His heart is so pure and selfless. I hope he finds someone worthwhile. No users or abusers of his money.

    • @Marie-ie9zl
      @Marie-ie9zl Před 6 měsíci +13

      i hate that he did that because the scammer's going to end up pawning or selling that ring.

  • @mariavelazquez5115
    @mariavelazquez5115 Před 11 měsíci +236

    “Now I’m just not a mom anymore” TOOK ME OUTTT

  • @nickolea6838
    @nickolea6838 Před 2 měsíci +6

    The surrogate situation - baby girl you need some HELPPPPP

  • @ThiaJetNeYu
    @ThiaJetNeYu Před 3 měsíci +5

    Adam broke my heart but also astonished me with his kindness. Im sure he faced a lot of flack for not only forgiving Frank but then giving him a beautiful ring for his girl.Praying that Adam is blessed with a beautiful,kind forgiving woman who will love him to the moon and back.

  • @lunacy3
    @lunacy3 Před 11 měsíci +269

    I’ve never seen such *delusional* people with the *grimiest* of catfishes😭

    • @BePatientSeeLove
      @BePatientSeeLove Před 11 měsíci +29

      She said you cheated on me😂😂😂 whole time lying about who she really is 😭😭😭

    • @Dlntck
      @Dlntck Před 11 měsíci +17

      ​@@BePatientSeeLovetalking about "You got commitment issues"
      With her lying a**

  • @pambrown5316
    @pambrown5316 Před 11 měsíci +713

    Did not expect that of Adam. He must really be an awesome guy. He will make some lucky lady very happy.

    • @texassaxet4893
      @texassaxet4893 Před 10 měsíci +14

      rewarding a criminal is such a brain dead thing to do. should have given the money to an animal shelter.

    • @pambrown5316
      @pambrown5316 Před 10 měsíci +9

      @texassaxet4893 true but the reasoning behind the giving of the money was what I was commending. Yes, I agree, never reward a scammer, and animals are number 1 in my book :)

    • @Momo-po5tn
      @Momo-po5tn Před 10 měsíci +11

      I cannot BELIEVE he said he'd send the ring 😂😂😂

    • @bahleybhengu
      @bahleybhengu Před 10 měsíci +9

      Adam really is a king😊

    • @luwanji1
      @luwanji1 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Very true....

  • @whinnie7529
    @whinnie7529 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I never understood how a person can not marry, not fall in love with, not financially take care of, and not tattoo their body for a real live actual person, but will do all of this for an imaginary person. SMH 🥺

  • @jadarobinson7307
    @jadarobinson7307 Před 18 dny +2

    The first men was so kind and sweet! It's really messed up he had to go through that!

  • @992porter
    @992porter Před 11 měsíci +253

    The girl saying she think she has a baby and never seen the baby or anything is wild. Her whole actions were wild. I can’t understand

    • @NeonSuperNovas
      @NeonSuperNovas Před 11 měsíci +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kitsunefaye1661
      @kitsunefaye1661 Před 10 měsíci +3

      It shows how desperate she is for a child of her own because she’s infertile.

    • @kitsunefaye1661
      @kitsunefaye1661 Před 10 měsíci

      It shows how desperate she is for a child of her own because she’s infertile.

    • @charliek2077
      @charliek2077 Před 10 měsíci +23

      ​@@kitsunefaye1661 In the video, she said that she didn't want to carry a child because she didn't want to take time off work. She didn't say anything about being infertile.

    • @kitsunefaye1661
      @kitsunefaye1661 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@charliek2077 I didn’t know. That shows how career obsessed she is.

  • @kalliek83
    @kalliek83 Před 10 měsíci +525

    That AUDACITY of that last person! She was legit hurt! Hilariously insane story 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @crnkmnky
      @crnkmnky Před 5 měsíci +35

      _No, Tae. None of your alleged grievances against Shay are worse than you being an imposter. She "cheated" on_ Ceejay, _not you._ 😸
      Tae seems like an emotionally abusive partner. I would say Shay dodged a bullet, except she didn't: two babies, debt, and a bigass flower tattoo. 😬

    • @Robloxiokoj
      @Robloxiokoj Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@crnkmnkydamn

    • @d0llf4c3luci
      @d0llf4c3luci Před 2 měsíci

      exactly!! bro thinks everything she's saying is rational just bc shay "cheated," acting like shay's the worst person ever & like she did her sooo wrong but, tae literally catfished her, robbed her of all of her money, etc. like what? bffr & stop acting like a dumb b*tch

  • @fishbone8703
    @fishbone8703 Před 7 měsíci +10

    That ring is gonna get sold quickly

  • @Irissss18.
    @Irissss18. Před 6 měsíci +6

    the last one is so crazy😭

  • @vicsilva7293
    @vicsilva7293 Před 11 měsíci +671

    Adam deserves so much. Even though he was hurt and struggling financially, he still helped the guy. That’s a quality guy

    • @d0llf4c3luci
      @d0llf4c3luci Před 2 měsíci

      definitely, adam deserves the world! i really wish he didn't give away tha ring doe, cuz i got a big feeling dat, dat african dude definitely sold tha ring, rather den actually propose to his girl

  • @MrBlackspidergaming
    @MrBlackspidergaming Před 11 měsíci +452

    The last clip was sum else. She was really tryna deflect from the fact that they’re there for her lie of being someone she was not, she’s focused on bringing the other girl down and being nasty simply because she was called out. Definitely a bullet dodged

    • @Laurie_Ramone
      @Laurie_Ramone Před 11 měsíci +73

      I knowwwww omg, and the way she said "you cheated on me" as if it wasn't *her* idea for Shay to find a sperm donor in the first place??

    • @alexandersolomon7472
      @alexandersolomon7472 Před 11 měsíci +57

      Shay did say that she was mentally and emotionally abusive which caused her to pull back several times. Imagine being upset for being “cheated on” when it was your idea, you lied about your name, looks and identity as a whole. But go off sis. You’re the victim😒🙄

    • @JewelWildmoon
      @JewelWildmoon Před 10 měsíci +13

      ​​@@alexandersolomon7472hat and she kept pushing the idea on Shay despite how many times she said she didn't want to meet up with the guy who was going to be the donor. Shay legit said no to it and Tae kept pushing her to get pregnant asap, and now all of a sudden she's claiming that she cheated. Bullet dodged fr. Just hoping Tae isn't still pestering and stalking her on POF or elsewhere.

    • @arianam6430
      @arianam6430 Před 10 měsíci +10

      "You have commitment issues" but she never once showed her face, stole all her money, lied about who was actually texting Shay, had "someone else" tell Shay to go tattoo a fake name on her body to prove her love, and pressured her to have a child but then shame her on having a child, and then continue to stalk her? lol f'ing demented

  • @svietka202
    @svietka202 Před 2 měsíci +4

    the baby story is insane!

  • @technana3.141
    @technana3.141 Před měsícem +2

    Can you imagine making up a fake person, stealing money from a persons credit card, lying about a life that doesn't exist and virtually creating every detail out of thin air , never meeting the person for yrs and then gettin mad at THEM for cheating on you . Thats a new kind of insane

  • @mairengmosheledi2710
    @mairengmosheledi2710 Před 11 měsíci +548

    Tallulah expressions throughout the ceejay segment had me rolling on the floor, she was expressing everything I was thinking. Like this shit can’t be real😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @klajate8031
      @klajate8031 Před 11 měsíci +13

      Same here!!😂

    • @SexAppeal191
      @SexAppeal191 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Me too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @melissa8313
      @melissa8313 Před 10 měsíci

      🖕🏼😮😬🙄🥴🫠🤔

    • @trionfreeman3935
      @trionfreeman3935 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yep!!😂😂😂😂 Like she was seriously mad but she was the one that lied and catfished Shay! Like really😂😂😂

    • @Jamarrayy
      @Jamarrayy Před 7 měsíci

      😂😂😂

  • @Tiramysuu
    @Tiramysuu Před 11 měsíci +229

    "Do you have the receipt?" Kami is me af 😂😂😂

  • @GoddesssofMind
    @GoddesssofMind Před 8 měsíci +9

    His eyes lit up when he saw that ring.

  • @Tilly-ts8sz
    @Tilly-ts8sz Před 5 měsíci +84

    Adam just enambled his catfish. Mailing Frank that ring just rewards Frank's ingenuity Thanks Adam for perpetuating that catfishing does pay.

    • @null.ru.1337
      @null.ru.1337 Před 4 měsíci +1

      He will adapt once he gets better and becomes a social catfish, he will make some money for his family. ❤

  • @TaraTiaraBell
    @TaraTiaraBell Před 11 měsíci +772

    I loves me some catfish. I’ve been catfished when I was a kid and almost walked into a really dangerous situation so I love to see these creeps get caught

    • @losergoddess6277
      @losergoddess6277 Před 11 měsíci +83

      I am SO glad you're safe.

    • @Alia-uk4li
      @Alia-uk4li Před 11 měsíci +61

      Same, I almost got kidnapped, thankfully someone I knew saw me & pulled me out of that situation 🤞🏼

    • @gigismalls3683
      @gigismalls3683 Před 11 měsíci +18

      Same moved to a whole new city for the person. I contacted catfish and they reached back to me but it was a lost cause at that point

    • @aGwEENapple
      @aGwEENapple Před 11 měsíci +8

      I have too but it wasn't that it wasn't the same guy. It was just he had a head full of gray hair when his pics he had black hair lol

    • @KingArsine
      @KingArsine Před 10 měsíci +2

      Care to tell your story??

  • @consoledollz1688
    @consoledollz1688 Před 10 měsíci +233

    The man from Africa is smiling cause he’s nervous. He doesn’t know what else to say and honestly I’m shocked he agreed to speak with his scam victim. Adam is a kind person and I wish them both the best financially and in love!

    • @Beingoftheuniverse
      @Beingoftheuniverse Před 6 měsíci +43

      Yes! I’m glad someone caught that, I’m someone who tends to smile in uncomfortable situations I can’t help it and that’s definitely why he was smiling

    • @crnkmnky
      @crnkmnky Před 5 měsíci +23

      Yeah, that's what I thought. Unfortunately, Frank is branded as a liar now, so we can't trust that he's really sorry, or that he won't pawn the engagement ring and keep scamming with his partner.
      Poverty sucks.

    • @erinfield1943
      @erinfield1943 Před 5 měsíci +11

      Oh god you guys, Frank is definitely trying so hard not to laugh at Adam.

    • @LeaflyLane
      @LeaflyLane Před 5 měsíci +2

      Don't make excuses for him ffs 😂

    • @ht_2323
      @ht_2323 Před 4 měsíci

      how can that fat guy hope to get a baddie

  • @Multifandom04
    @Multifandom04 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Don’t understand how ppl can be so awful, insecure, and selfish to catfish and then play victim. So sick and disgusting

  • @rachelwalker1873
    @rachelwalker1873 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Adam has a bigger heart than most of us could ever have, he deserves the world

  • @IdislikeTechnology
    @IdislikeTechnology Před 8 měsíci +754

    Adam is the most caring human i have ever seen. He gives me hope that humanity can get back to caring about one another.
    Well wishes to you, Adam. You deserve all the happiness ❤

    • @PoetTornado2022
      @PoetTornado2022 Před měsícem

      For me, personality will always come first - if someone has a golden personality and is a decent looking man then yeah say no more

  • @therainbowrexy5079
    @therainbowrexy5079 Před 11 měsíci +379

    I feel like Adam just gave him what he wanted which is honestly really sad. Adam deserves so much more man! I feel bad for the man!

    • @TheQjad135
      @TheQjad135 Před 11 měsíci +50

      Literally, the man was like omg yes finally some money from this guy- I get its good to be the bigger person but man could've used the money himself instead of sending the ring off

    • @aGwEENapple
      @aGwEENapple Před 11 měsíci +14

      ​@@TheQjad135yes it would've been better if Adam sold the ring for his self because honestly we don't know what that guy will do with the ring

    • @ronnahjohnson5013
      @ronnahjohnson5013 Před 10 měsíci

      PLENTY OF FISH? CATFISH YOU MEAN!!!

    • @ronnahjohnson5013
      @ronnahjohnson5013 Před 10 měsíci +2

      13:03 at least she could put on some MAKEUP & GET DRESSED UP!! She’s not that bad looking!!!

    • @Amrfx3
      @Amrfx3 Před 7 měsíci

      This show seems so fake now😂. He agreed to video chat and be on the show why didnt he just block the account if he’s just a scammer. He happened to be engaged and this guy bought a whole ring and decided to mail it to the catfish lol ok

  • @Beingoftheuniverse
    @Beingoftheuniverse Před 6 měsíci +7

    The Adam one was so sad 🥺🥺🥺 the guy trying to take care of his family and even after Adam not getting the love he deserves, he still was generous he really has a great heart I hope he found someone to reciprocate that love☹️☹️

  • @Burlykim13
    @Burlykim13 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Adams case literally made me cry. He’s such a beautiful person. I honestly hope he finds someone to love him like he deserves (maybe even through someone seeing this) because he TRULY deserves it…and as someone who deeply loves a bigger guy, I’ve never found better. My man is so caring and so great and has such integrity. Adam seems the same.

  • @MarieAmicalola
    @MarieAmicalola Před 11 měsíci +293

    😂 at the way Tallulah looked flabbergasted during the entire final segment. That whole story was WILD.

    • @kathrynshadel1788
      @kathrynshadel1788 Před 11 měsíci +32

      Tallulah doing math on the sidelines trying to made stuff add up 😭💀

    • @Jamarrayy
      @Jamarrayy Před 7 měsíci +1

      😂😂😂

  • @lettyc1090
    @lettyc1090 Před 11 měsíci +132

    I wouldn’t even tattoo my husband’s name! 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @newenglandcoastershots
    @newenglandcoastershots Před měsícem +2

    I hope the first guy finds someone he's so kind

  • @LESREID2
    @LESREID2 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Adam…such a genuine soul. I pray that he has the absolute best life.

  • @BecauseOfKati
    @BecauseOfKati Před 11 měsíci +86

    Imagine finding out your were a planned child from a catfish 💀

  • @aziacamacho7311
    @aziacamacho7311 Před 11 měsíci +377

    I feel bad for Gervaise even though she set herself up for failure, I know her self esteem was crushed after he mentioned that engagement ring.

    • @NeonSuperNovas
      @NeonSuperNovas Před 11 měsíci +156

      I feel sorry for her as well. You could tell that she really liked the guy. Also, she’s not really unattractive. That was her at her lowest and she doesn’t look that bad. I’m sure she looks amazing whenever she’s genuinely happy and has her natural glow going ✨💯!

    • @JysMe
      @JysMe Před 10 měsíci +30

      I was hoping they could fix it😊

    • @StrongerCoffee1
      @StrongerCoffee1 Před 10 měsíci +2

    • @aziacamacho7311
      @aziacamacho7311 Před 10 měsíci

      @JysMe yeah that dude look like a roach anyway idk what he was thinkin, he'll be single forever

    • @Buddhistsocialist
      @Buddhistsocialist Před 10 měsíci +17

      She admitted to phishing and stealing peoples money lol

  • @ToniaRichardson-tm3ff
    @ToniaRichardson-tm3ff Před 7 měsíci +4

    The compassion that most of these people show after being manipulated for long periods of time astounds me. I admire it - but without aspiring to it.

  • @strawberrybokkie
    @strawberrybokkie Před 3 měsíci +2

    Adam seems like such a funny, good-hearted guy. My jaw dropped when he said he’d mail the ring to Frank even after what he did. It takes a lot for someone to forgive so easily, let alone do something like that. I’m gonna admit it, Adam is a handsome, kindhearted guy and he deserves a happy marriage and possibly a family.

  • @abeltesfaye_
    @abeltesfaye_ Před 10 měsíci +306

    Buying a wedding ring and contacting the Catfish cast simultaneously is crazy. He knew there was a HUGE chance she wasnt who she said she was which is why he called the Catfish people... yet he bought a ring anyway. Wild

    • @ImNotNotAllCityChi
      @ImNotNotAllCityChi Před 8 měsíci +15

      The thing is she wasn’t all that far off though he should have tried to wrk that out

    • @Anna-ik8nn
      @Anna-ik8nn Před 7 měsíci +25

      Pretty sure he was really convinced he was talking to a girl but wasn't sure if she looked the way she said she looked. He said he would understand if that was the case because of his own body issues, so I think he still fully intended to marry her as long as she wasn't lying about anything else. Really just the worst case scenario for that guy, hope he's doing alright

    • @sexymskat
      @sexymskat Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@ImNotNotAllCityChiexactly

    • @sexymskat
      @sexymskat Před 7 měsíci

      Right

    • @sexymskat
      @sexymskat Před 7 měsíci +2

      ​@@Anna-ik8nnno we talking about the second guy

  • @Skyebug_06
    @Skyebug_06 Před 11 měsíci +53

    Everybody delulu 😂😂

    • @lulbenji1146
      @lulbenji1146 Před 11 měsíci +7

      Maaaan mfs buying wedding rings over internet chats 😂

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 Před 11 měsíci

      if people are this stupid they deserve the consequences.

    • @JazzlynRenee.
      @JazzlynRenee. Před 11 měsíci +1

      Frrr I guess being Delulu is the trend nowadays 😂

  • @lJuJuBee11l
    @lJuJuBee11l Před 2 měsíci +3

    Awww Adam 😢😭. He has a heart of gold

  • @ForeverThirtyNines
    @ForeverThirtyNines Před 6 měsíci +4

    I'm still puzzled how people can date online. Like, I can't even trust most of the people I meet in the office, let alone strangers whom I never met in person and just online.

  • @mybusiness186
    @mybusiness186 Před 11 měsíci +224

    I hope Adam finds a good woman who will reciprocate his love and affection. Such a nice guy.

  • @theone1796
    @theone1796 Před 11 měsíci +67

    Adam pissed me off. Like what are you even doing? That dude will sell his ring and laugh on the way there. People are interesting.

    • @kiyah540
      @kiyah540 Před 11 měsíci +24

      same i empathize cause he’s such a good person obviously but at the same time it’s the reason why he was able to be scammed in that way 🥲

    • @theone1796
      @theone1796 Před 11 měsíci +18

      ​@kiyah540 I sympathize as well but at some point, get it together 😂

    • @yougotgamesonyourphone6947
      @yougotgamesonyourphone6947 Před 11 měsíci +20

      That’s the first thing that came out of my mouth. That man gone sell that shit

    • @droppedboez4270
      @droppedboez4270 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Well whether we like it or not he did what felt right for him

    • @skinni_the_P00hBear
      @skinni_the_P00hBear Před 11 měsíci +18

      Dang now y'all got me wondering if the african guy even had a gf 👀

  • @AiirxGeordan
    @AiirxGeordan Před 2 měsíci +1

    I could tell from his email that Adam was a nice man, but the gesture at the end solidified it.

  • @AsianBrownie
    @AsianBrownie Před 6 měsíci +2

    God bless Adam his compassion is off the charts, I'm here all teared up by his heart after all that, wow he deserves the best.

  • @Leoprincess3038
    @Leoprincess3038 Před 11 měsíci +78

    Kiara........honey.........you can still have a baby 🤱🏾 of your own? I dont want to sound mean because shes a sweetheart; but she also seems to be a few sandwiches short "you made me think i had a baby" 🤨😐 uhm......

    • @itzjess88
      @itzjess88 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Definitely a lil slow unless she can't get pregnant and that's why she's clinging on like that.

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@itzjess88 but its not like the catfish impregnated her lol

  • @latanyahood5622
    @latanyahood5622 Před 11 měsíci +239

    Its obvious that Gervaise want somebody in her life but the guy think he's too good for her. She is crying because he's not accepting her based on looks, and she knows that.

    • @deenikki9690
      @deenikki9690 Před 11 měsíci +131

      Which is wild because he’s not much to write home about either. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @ericadee6050
      @ericadee6050 Před 11 měsíci +34

      @@deenikki9690that part lmfao 👀😂

    • @NeonSuperNovas
      @NeonSuperNovas Před 11 měsíci +77

      Right!! Gervaise wasn’t even ugly! Her feelings were genuine and that was her at her lowest! I’m sure she looks amazing whenever she’s genuinely happy and has her natural glow going on ✨♥️💯! Dude probably just missed a blessing in disguise smh.

    • @larnoralacey9339
      @larnoralacey9339 Před 11 měsíci +3

      I agree.

    • @bre9060
      @bre9060 Před 10 měsíci +45

      she still lied tho-

  • @Wdstck1
    @Wdstck1 Před 19 dny +1

    The audacity …. 🤣 the gaslighting of the last girl

  • @toyslaughter8255
    @toyslaughter8255 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Kammies face is so telling. She feels so bad cz she knows that's not who he's talking to.

  • @grassfedcharlie
    @grassfedcharlie Před 11 měsíci +152

    Tae flipped the script and made herself the victim 😂 daaamn they both deceived each other. That argument was juicy 🍿

  • @IMeanIGuessWhatevs
    @IMeanIGuessWhatevs Před 11 měsíci +184

    Okay so the first guy asking the African catfish guy “Was any of it real?” was super odd to me. Like you ended seeing a whole different person on your screen, and you ask if anything he told you was real? My dude… obviously, as you can see… 👁️no👁️.

    • @artinaallen4065
      @artinaallen4065 Před 11 měsíci +23

      Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight....as if buddy said it was real, Adam was gone consider making it work?? I was confused 🤔

    • @srae7658
      @srae7658 Před 11 měsíci +8

      I thought the same thing!

    • @kiamaria331
      @kiamaria331 Před 10 měsíci +13

      I think he wanted to know where Frank was coming from. Did he genuinely care about him or was he just out to use him and lying from the jump.

    • @ormilg89go
      @ormilg89go Před 10 měsíci +1

      I think it was just the shock of realizing that he's been duped...had him lost for words...he was probably rehearsing what it was going to say if he met the lady...and the question were any of it real just stick to his mind.

    • @bbsaboniss
      @bbsaboniss Před 10 měsíci +3

      to me it was more like "how could you come up w some of the things you said to me and its all fake" but i feel like to make somebody fall in love theres def so emotional expense ur putting into that

  • @vargaszilvia774
    @vargaszilvia774 Před 4 měsíci +6

    When the dude offered the ring to his scammer... I literally started crying. This man deserves someone truly amazing in his life! I hope he finds the one!

  • @lonwabosikweyiya5466
    @lonwabosikweyiya5466 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Oh God Adam, you made me cry so much. This person has hurt you but the God in you still made you show him kindness. Bless you

  • @Dondadaduda
    @Dondadaduda Před 11 měsíci +60

    Kiara needed to be parented a little more because the delusion this child was living in. A baby fr smh

  • @darklingstarrissa7264
    @darklingstarrissa7264 Před 11 měsíci +76

    The girls who said they didn't want to take time off to be pregnant ??? ...but then once it's born you will have to dedicate a ton of your time to the child. That statement right there, meant neither of them are mature minded enough to have responsibility of a child.

  • @StacyPickhardtLMT
    @StacyPickhardtLMT Před 8 měsíci +4

    Adam is a good guy. He definitely deserves love. That catfish did not give a crap about him though and he won't change.

  • @zwashebangani8328
    @zwashebangani8328 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Tattoing a whole name😂😂😂😂

  • @Lmay1787
    @Lmay1787 Před 11 měsíci +88

    Kiaira is so gullible. She really thought she was a parent when she never met the person, contributed $1000, and saw no pictures.

    • @wordplay6665
      @wordplay6665 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Unbelievable how dense she could be

  • @maxvelazquez3246
    @maxvelazquez3246 Před 11 měsíci +113

    In the first scenario, Kamie’s face says it all
    She knew it was doomed from the jump lol

  • @meredithjemola1630
    @meredithjemola1630 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Adam has such a big heart, and I hope that he find somebody who loves him for who he is and how big his heart is because even though that guy completely broke his heart, he still gave him an engagement ring. That is so sweet.

  • @renb6133
    @renb6133 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Adam is a beautiful person & a great eg that you can’t judge a book by its cover. I honestly hope he finds love as he has many wonderful qualities. The way he forgave that man (& even gave him the ring) shows what an amazing heart he has.