The Truth About My Life Before Becoming a Mom At 16
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- !TRIGGER WARNING! In this video I talk about some of the things I experienced/ witnessed as a child which might be triggering for some people. Ask an adult before watching. Viewer discretion advised.
It was hard for me to make this video but also felt really good to open up. I hope this helps even one person who has experienced things like this to feel like they're not alone. I am so grateful to have the people that I have in my life now. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to be the mom to my daughters that they need and deserve. I'm grateful for the community of people and support I have here on CZcams, thank you guys for being here and following our story for so long now!
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I’m Yasmyn Switzer, mom of three! I’m here to share my story about my journey as a mother, hopefully making memories that will last a lifetime for myself, Logan and my beautiful baby girls, Laela and Analia (plus baby girl number 3 coming Nov 2021!). Join us as we vlog about pregnancy, parenting, fashion, beauty, relationships, and so much more! - Zábava
Nothings changed -yasmyns little sister.. love you yas🤍
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venice i so hope things change for you too. i am so happy your big sister put this out for people to understand what the actions of one person especially a parent can effect on a child as you know too. i do wish you have someone to talk to also or be around as a good mentor venice
Venice I hope that you find comfort in how your sister has turned out. The things that you are going through at home will shape you and make you stronger. I went through some really tough times in middle and high school, was hospitalized for depression several times and something that always stuck with me was the quote "this too shall pass" no matter how hard something is or feels remember that it's all just temporary and soon that roller coaster of life will go up. I hope this helps you in a time where things feel not so good. Lots of love to you and Elle
Praying for you too Venice. So sorry you to have a life of heartache. Praying that you also will break the cycle.
I’m so sorry Venice, I can’t even imagine what you’re going through. I promise you’re not alone ever and have so much waiting ahead of you in your life so stay strong through this tough time ❤️ You have a great big sister to look up to and great things ahead of you I promise xxx
You’re inner child needs to heal. You’re definitely strong and you’re breaking the cycle. So good for you.
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Yasmin, my son was in school with you at Friends Community School and he loved you (6 yrs). We never knew what happened to you and we were so excited when we found your vlogs! This video is so surprising to me because the part of your story that I knew seemed like a success story! Over the past couple of years my son and I have continued to follow you and privately cheered for each new accomplishment. So I wanted you to know you DO have at least one Mom out here rooting and cheering for you. Such a cool house! Such a great way to create a successful situation for your family. You are awesome!
Thank you so much for the encouraging mom energy 💞 it unfolds out into the world, and helps anyone who could use the support with reparenting themselves. I'm here for this intergenerational healing 💖
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You are mature beyond your years, even as a kid. Don’t ever feel bad about going to your aunt’s, it was the safest choice for you and you shouldn’t hold the weight of your mom’s issues especially when it comes to your sisters. I know everyone on your CZcams channel are incredibly proud of your accomplishments!!
For anyone who needs to hear this: there is no amount of alcohol or substances that a person can consume that makes it “okay” for someone to assault them. It is never the victims fault if they are sexually assaulted. You never deserved that and I’m happy that you found Logan and it seems like he treats you like a queen 👑.
I can say this if Yasmyn was my friend and I found that happened to her god help those little rats that wasn’t the word I was going to say but I can’t say that word but the point is if I found out that a family member or friend was sexually assaulted god help the person that did that thank god Yasmyn has Logan and the girls
This. A million times this.
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I subscribed back when Laela was a new born. Your growth as a Mum and relationship with Logan is so inspiring. I appreciate how honest and open you are, even though it’s difficult. We appreciate you and your family’s journey! ♥️
Same here
Samee
Yes! It’s amazing to see how awesome someone can become coming out of all of that trauma.
same here
Same, she has really grown as a person and she is such an AMAZING mum!! 💜
Such a brave and beautiful momma. One thing my mother would say is "you can't hold the sins of the parents against the child". So sorry you have gone through so much and the aftermath that still lingers. You need to pat yourself on the back for changing your own course and not using those traumas as a reason to follow a dark path. You chose to except love and make a beautiful family. Sending light and love your way!!
the most beautiful part is that your daughters will never grow up wishing they had a mom because they will have you. your strength shows Yasmyn, and it’s gonna shine through your family. And that will carry on for generations. sending so much love ❤️
Yasmyn daughters are lucky to have her and she is lucky to have them and Logan
Utter cringe, I can't believe you're praising a 16 year old child having kids
@@alistairrae9807None of those kids are lucky, they deserve a father
It broke my heart when you said "mom look what I did." I think that because you're a mom of three, people forget that you're still only 20. You should have that mom figure in your life to be proud of you, to be there when all your girls were born and be happy for you when you buy a house and be at your wedding. This video really just goes to show how strong you are to achieve all of this so young and without that support system.
this is exactly how i feel except with needing a dad - you put it into words so beautifully. thank you :)
@@BetteDavis19 I totally get it. My dad's dad was never in his life, he's lucky he had his mom😊
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1. You are really brave
2. You need a therapist to walk through your trauma from the past
3. You are not responsible for your sisters. You have your own life and children prioritize them and yourself first
I do that with my brothers kids I’ve always felt like I needed to do everything for them because they have crappy parents :(
I also have three kids of my own
@@Crystal_1992 being selfish is not a bad thing. You have to be selfish for your family. You are not responsible for them, only for yourself and your children. I know it’s hard, but that’s the truth 🖤
Yeah I have a older sibling and grew up the same way. For no one in my family to step up, and take me out of a very unhealthy house was terrible. I don’t have any type of relationship with my family or sibling. They talk to my drug addict father and my narcissist/alcoholic mother as well. They are all very abusive and toxic. My biggest tip is to, make sure you still have a healthy relationship while worrying about yourself also.
@@madalynrhian9372 I’m sorry to hear that. No kid deserves to be raised in environment like that. But you seem to be doing well, although I can only imagine how hard it is to not to be in touch with your parents and entering adult life without any support. Fight for yourself and be “healthy” selfish. You deserve that ♥️
You are a Generational Curse Breaker! I'm so proud of you!
Everyone is saying you’re so strong which you definitely are- but I’m sorry you had to be, and that you couldn’t just be a kid. Sometimes having to be strong hurts and you want someone to be there for you to carry you instead of being strong thru the hard times. Your feelings are valid- and things pass and things get better, worse and better again. 💕 you have a good head on your shoulders
Nothing strong about getting pregnant with 3 kids at age 20, and forcing them to grow up fatherless
your aunt sounds like a very wonderful person who cares deeply for you! i’m so glad you’ve had her in your life and that she was able to help you in many situations. so sorry abt the things you went through, but seeing the life you’ve made for yourself now is amazing
Thank you sharing!
I come from a dysfunctional home with substance abuse and violence.
The best thing I ever did was to start attending Al-Anon, Alateen and ACA meetings when I was 14. It has helped me to grow and has given me tools to take on life’s challenges without repeating the dysfunctional behavior .
It’s donation based, so you don’t need a lot of money to access this kind of therapy and recovery.
Just wanted to share in case somebody doesn’t know of this.
There are Al-Anon meetings everywhere around the world and online as well.
Much love to you all ❤️❤️❤️
This was very honest and vulnerable. I can see that she is thoughtful, analytical, and compassionate.
The way she described her shame where others can see all of her problems when they first meet her is exactly how I feel as well. I never put that feeling into words so im moved hearing it out loud.
Yeah
when you said you just wanted to be like "mum looked what i did!" that broke me :/. you're so strong
After she had horrible life with her mom I'm so happy that she is turned around in good way to become awesome mom to little lady's that I love to watching all the times...you are great mom good responsible to your 2 young sisters..and have great grandma that she was there for you
I’m 27, married, and a mom and I admire you and look up to you for your strength. You took a very bad situation and made something better for yourself. I’m so sorry for the cards you were dealt. You should be so proud. I hope you know there are so many people that would love to be a positive figure in your life, me included. You’re not alone ❤️
My mama heart breaks for you. You are a strong person and can rise above it. You are doing it! So proud of you.
I relate to you a LOT! I lost my mom 3 months before my 9th birthday. I lost my dad on Thursday, July 29th of this year. Both from overdoses. I have been damaged and broken down to nothing by my dad. He was definitely a narcissist and like the king of manipulation. When I was younger, I didn’t understand either, no kid does. I walked in on my dad when he OD’d, I’ve watched him collapse and I’ve had to narcan him. I’ve witnessed drug use as well. I was ALSO drug into everything, every argument. My dad never got physical but mentally and verbally he was abusive. In so many ways, I relate. My dads girlfriend would say all the time that she would leave him and never stayed away… unfortunately that’s what happens in toxic relationships. I never understood why and hopefully never will with my future significant other
thank you for being so vulnerable. we love you, Yasmyn ❤️
You are so mature. The fact that you don’t have to share your story but chose to is so amazing. Im sure you’ve inspired so many others🤍 You’re doing great mama💗
“Mom look what i did” ugh i started breaking down for you. I felt your pain in that moment. You are such a strong person. We’re right around the same age and I couldn’t imagine going through what you deal with. Thanks for coming on and telling your story 💕
When did she say that ?
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Aw Yasmyn this had me in tears near the end. Mommas around the globe need to create an advice and answers column type thing for young women without moms. Call it YWWM.
So happy you shared this. If you’ve heard of the book, “The Body Keeps the Score,” it’s literally about how trauma is kept in the body. 🥺💕 I’m sorry you experienced those traumatic experiences, but so happy to see you having so much stability for yourself now. You are so resilient !
Read that book in college. Great book!
I love this book!!
I hope you find more people that make you feel supported, heard, and encouraged about how well you’re doing in life! You are so strong and bright! Such a good momma.
I want to start this by saying it is never your fault…none of it. you’ve been through something that no child should have to go through and your inner child needs to heal from that. You have something special because of your past. Your kids are growing up loved and supported because you know how bad they need that. Your mother is truly missing out on her beautiful children and grandchildren and there’s nothing I can say to fix that but I do want you to know that you are loved, valid and an amazing mother
I know it’s not the same as hearing it from your mom but we are all so incredibly proud of you and the life you have made for yourself 💗thank you for being so real, sending so so so much love to you and your family!! You are so loved.❤️
man you are so inspiring. you’re a large part of the reason i felt okay about having my daughter at 19. i watched your vlogs throughout my pregnancy and it was so comforting to me to see you making a life for yourself and your family, despite everything. thank you for your vulnerability, even though you don’t owe it to us at all. sending blessings to you & your family 💚
Congrats 🥺
This whole video was so helpful and raw. I’ve listened to a lot of CZcams “life stories” and by far this the only one that has felt genuine and truly like how real life plays out. Listening to you has helped me realize some things about my own life and for that I truly thank you.
This a million times over
this just shows that you truly never know what someone is going through or gone through, but watching your video made me understand you so much more than just watching a family on CZcams. my respect for you grew 10x more and I wish you and your family nothing but the best, im proud of your accomplishments 💓
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that at such a young age, you're such a strong woman and all your subscribers are so proud of you and we love and support you
My heart breaks seeing others go through similar stuff as me. This video was so relatable. You are so strong ❤️ I love your videos and have been here since the beginning
Proud of how far you’ve come! You’re changing the cycle, and creating a safe place for your family to grow!!
I myself come from a messed up family and it still so reassuring to hear that i’m not alone and even the people who look like the perfect family have sometimes a dark past . Thank you yasmyn for your courage to open up about this
You're just so strong, Yasmyn, be' proud of this every single day
I’ve been subscribed from the very start and I cannot put into words how incredible it is to have watched you grow throughout the years. Thank you for being so vulnerable, you are truly inspiring. All the best to you and your family♥️♥️
You are a tough woman, I think we all here can say that we love you and support you through all of this💕
You are so STRONG
Im so sorry for the loss you have experienced in your short life. You are an outstanding mom and I hope you find peace in knowing you are being everything you have missed and more for your girls ❤️
Im turning 20 this month and it is such a hard age filled with self realizations and we're now forced to look back at our trauma and realize that so many things were not okay. Youre doing amazing for everything you've been through! You have girls who need you but you're also a girl who needs her mom. I'm glad youre seeking help and healing. I also hold the weight of my moms substance issues and it can be crushing sometimes but all we can do is heal. I wish you the best
You’re a very strong woman, things that happened in your life shaped you for a reason but doesn’t mean you deserved any of those bad experiences. You can only do you best and that’s all anyone can ask of you, you’re doing great I promise! ♥️
The way you’ve made the most out of every situation you have been in is admirable. I do hope your in therapy and give yourself the help you deserve!
I have had different family problems but I relate to you carrying a lot of other people’s emotions and problems at a young age ❤️ it’s hard
I’m in awe of your strength. So much love for you and your little family. You deserve to be happy ❤️
I feel like out of such a traumatic childhood, you were able to give yourself and the people you love the best outcome possible. It is amazing to see your strength and you prospering. Thank you for sharing with us.
i’m currently in a pretty bad situation with my dad who is a alcohol and i lost my best friend to murder when i was 7 so knowing i’m not alone even if our stories aren’t the exact same is comforting so thank you! i’ve been watching since the beginning ❤️
You're an inspiration for others living through similar traumas. Please give yourself the grace you deserve. You broke a generational curse and that is the toughest journey in life, but you're a warrior, clearly. You're an amazing mother, be proud of yourself and your family! 🌞❤
The strength you have to share this is incredible. I'm in the middle of healing only now as a 26 year old and looking back is really hard. This video has really helped. Thank you.
You're so brave and strong. You've come so far and your such an amazing mom and soon to be wife. I'm so sorry for all you've had to go through.
Thank you so much for trusting us with your story. I'm sorry that you had to experience so much adversity through your life. I am so proud of you for being a great mom, acknowledging your struggles, and inspiring others - buying a house and your career are just bonuses!
So brave. So strong. So real. Breathe in love, breathe out peace.
I’m impressed by how raw this was. I feel like no one else would give these kinds of details but this video made me cry. Thanks for sharing ❤️
I can’t believe how strong you are and as the lady said, we could’ve never guessed it. You had way too many bad things happening for such a young girl and still you are a wonderful woman, caring mum to your babies and girlfriend to Logan. You can feel SO proud of your journey, you became who you are now because of how strong you are. Damn girl I wish I could hug you right now ❤️
I'm so proud of you, it's okay to need someone to help sometimes, it's normal to resent your mother for not being there for you. You're a great mother! And your girls are gonna be so proud of you, and are never gonna think less of you. I hope you're happy now
Thank you for sharing ♥️ you should be so proud of yourself. You have created such an amazing and stable life for you and your family.
Thank you so much for putting yourself out there in hopes to give other hope too🤍
I totally understand. My mom passed away from heroin when I was 5. I graduated at 2019 and totally understand everything you went through. You aren’t alone ❤️
I’m glad that God saved you from what could’ve happened. I pray that you get healed and Logan gives you all the patience. From experience, patience is so needed.
You are such a strong, intelligent, resilient, accomplished person. Look how you changed your life. Your girls are so lucky to have such an amazing (present) mother like you. Remember your past does not define you. Thank you for sharing.
I’m so happy that your girls have such a strong woman to look up to. you go girl
yasmyn, you deserve the absolutely world. thank you for sharing this part of your life, you don’t know how much it helps people in a similar situation. i love you ❤️
It breaks my heart to hear what you’ve gone through, it’s not your fault and you’ve come out so strong! But it’s still perfectly okay to struggle and have days where you don’t feel strong and you just need to cry. You don’t deserve to be without that motherly figure and I am so sorry. I pray that you can heal from the shame you have, that one day you’ll get to have a relationship with your mom, and that you know how special and amazing you are. Your past does not define you and try to remember your feelings are always valid❤️
You are so strong. Never be ashamed of your past. You are the best mom to your girls. You really broke the cycle. You’re doing amazing, remember that❤️
Thank you for sharing your story! You're inspiring and helping some people who are struggling with this. The girls and Logan are lucky to have you in their life 🥺❤
You will always deserve a mom and I completely understand the void where a parent should be in moments of joy, I'm so glad you share your life with us. Thank you.
you got me through my pregnancy at 19 . i also grew up with somebody in my house living with substance abuse as well to the same drug. i relate to you so much& ur videos have helped me more than you’ll ever know🥺❤️. i can never thank you enough ❤️
You are the definition of resilience. I've been watching your videos for years and am so amazed at how you have grown into such an incredibly strong, raw and inspiring person. Your girls and your sisters are so lucky to have you to look up to.
thank you for sharing your story with us. you're unbelievably strong, and even though I haven't experienced half of what you have, you're such an inspiration to me. you're the most amazing mum to your girls and they are so lucky to have you. we're all so proud of the life you have made for yourself and are always cheering you on. so much love xxx
This was really brave. You speak about everything and what u have learned from it in a more positive outlook than most. You’re doing great
You’re a beautiful amazing strong woman, a caring mom, you’re changing your story by being the adult you needed when you where a child, all of your kids are blessed to have you in their life, and together as a family I feel like you will be able to heal. 💕❤️❤️
I’ve been subscribed for awhile now and appreciated this video. I had a similar childhood and have had to work to make my life the way it is now. I have felt all of those same feelings and am still working through them but At least we’re breaking generational trauma :)
i’ve been following since you lived w your aunt before you and logan started dating and i just wanted to say it’s been so rewarding to see YOU and your family grow! the things that happen to us in our childhood never really leave but i think anyone watching can see that it doesn’t hold you back. i’m proud of all you’ve accomplished and you should be too! ❤️
thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing with us ❤️
I am so sorry you experienced all of that, Yasmyn. I love you and am here for you. I am so proud of where you are and how far you've come.
Sending you big hugs!! Someone posted the other day (can't remember where it's from), Forgive yourself for what you did when you were in survival mode. I know I needed to read those words, hope they help! You have & are continuing to grow & evolve as a person & that is what is important 💗
You are a sweet soul. The same thing happened to me in highschool. I partied way too much and put myself into vulnerable situations and I always blamed myself for every sexual assault situation because there were so many. It's not your fault. It's not my fault. I send you so much love
You’re soooooo inspiring!!!!!!!! You have grown sooo much over the years. You are breaking the cycle. You are so amazing with laela, ana and your to be baby girl
I am 20 as well and I could never imagine having two kids and a third on the way. You are super strong and an amazing role model. Even though we don’t know each other, I feel proud of you that you went through all that and look at you now. You have two beautiful girls, Logan, a lovely house. Good job girl you’re doing great!
Yasmyn, you’re a great mom, sister, daughter, & person. Never ever forget that! Also you’re doing a fantastic job! I am a new mom, 31. I have watched your videos from the beginning and always wonder how you do what you do. It’s definitely helped me navigate being a mom & I know it’s helped so many other people as well. Thank you for telling your story. You are loved by so many! 💙💙
I teared up a few times watching this. You are an amazing young woman and a great mother to your girls. I’ve been around since that 16 and pregnant story/video. You’re so inspiring & just know you’re doing a great job!
Girl you’re beautiful. Inside and out. I had my first child when I was 16 in 2005. He’s now 16!!! I just found your channel by this video. I also had a screwed up dynamic with & because of my mom. You will be so shocked at how the time will change things for your and your family. Time is really the only thing that can and will heal the past. You just continue doing you and taking care of your family the best you can and it will all pay off. Just enjoy those babies while they are small!!!!!!!!!! Time with them right now is the most precious thing that time will not let you have back!! So make it count!!!
Awe Yasmyn, you are beautiful and I could be your mom. You definitely grew up faster then you needed too. You are an amazing person and because of your experiences in the past your knowledge on life is far beyond much older adults. Kudos to you for the path you decided for your life.
This hits home so much thank you for speaking out, I relate to soooo much of what you said and I know it’s so hard to come to terms with as you grow into adulthood. It’s weird to grow up and look back on those traumas. You’re so strong gf! You’re an amazing mama❤️
I’ve been watching you for a few years now and I just wanted to say how proud I am, and I’m sure the rest of your followers are, for sharing your story. I know I’ve had some trauma in my life and I’m definitely not ready to talk about it with people, let alone thousands. It took a great amount of courage to explain your life, and it’s so amazing to see how far you’ve come and how great of a mom you are to your little girls. Much love ❤️❤️
Been watching you since your very first video, and wish I could hug you through the screen. It’s been amazing watching you grow as a mom and woman, so proud of you❤️
I’ve been here since baby Laela🥺 I can’t even imagine going through this as a child but it truly has shaped who you are today. You love your girls so much and it’s everything you deserve. Lean into God he will heal you and love you like no other 🙏🏼❤️
I started watching your channel when I was 4-5 months pregnant at 20 years old. Even though you are 3 years younger than me, you taught me so much about being a good mom and not caring about what other people think. I never once though you were someone who came from a hard background or didn't have it all together. Your past does not define who you are and seeing the home that you have created for your three babies is inspiring to me.
i feel every bit of emotion you felt while filming this. you are strong & your friends mom is absolutely right, your trauma & your past does not define you. you are without a doubt one of the strongest young woman i know, you are an amazing momma & being able to know where you came from helps you to be a better you. it’s never easy to navigate through your trauma even when you think you have (lord knows i’ve been there too), but it helps you grow & it will help you know how to help not just yourself, but others and being more understanding. i’ve been following you since you uploaded your first video ever, and i’m so proud of the woman you have become and are still growing into even when life hasn’t always thrown you the nicest events. and you’ve always got support with you & an ear that will listen & a shoulder to cry on 💛
Been here since laela was a newborn..it’s been amazing watching you & your family grow..thank you for allowing us to be part of your journey of life❤️ Sending love & positivity to you,Logan & the girls😌
I went through a similar past and it still really affects me. I know it is hard to talk about. I really appreciate you sharing and know you will get through your past.
yazmyn, thank you so much for having the bravery and strength to share your life story with us all. it makes those of us who have gone through similar situations feel not alone in this world and validates our experiences that we never felt like was such a big deal before. So many girls including myself used to try to fill our empty spaces in life with hooking up with guys and getting into dangerous scenarios at parties then not realizing that we were taken advantage of and violated afterward because we would blame ourselves for partying (which of course never makes it ok for any one take advantage of someone just because we drank or smoked). I personally realized after all these years that older guys in their twenties would prey on me in my mid teens and i never truly realized at the time how wrong that really was. All of these experiences make us stronger and shape us into the amazing people and mothers we are today. I have a 4 year old son and another on the way and I live in my own bought condo with my little family. This is why i love watching your channel because you keep it real with us and i can relate a lot to you in different ways. Keep being you :)
I wish I had inspiring words to say in response. I can’t vocalise them in an eloquent way - but just know they’re in my heart. You’re incredible for opening up. You’re an inspiration Yasmyn, to me, to all of your subscribers and to your kids ❤️
You are so strong, Yasmyn! Thank you for sharing this with us. We are always here for you! Lots of love for you, Logan and the girls! You deserve all the best!
I had a very similar child hood and have had fears my whole life of turning out the same way as my parents because it was “in my dna” to be the same, so I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’m now married and get to actively choose to live my life how I want and I find it so inspiring to see that you’re doing the same!! I still struggle with the thought that I’m bound do after like my parents but seeing you and how you live your life is so reassuring that I can also be strong enough to do the same. I really admire you for being brave enough to post this.
you’re so strong❤️ your mom is like my dad... it’s hard but you made a beautiful life for you and you’re family
Both of her parents are like my dad.. Hes always used and drank and on June 28 he got me into an accident that almost killed me :(
You are such a strong, brave, loving woman. Your girls are lucky to have you as their mama❤️
thank you so much for sharing. i feel a sort of protection over you because ive been subscribed from the beginning. you are such a light it breaks my heart to see you cry. stay strong momma.
Yasmyn, thank you for sharing your story. You are doing so much good by speaking your truth on your channel. I’ve recently been revisiting childhood trauma and i came to a similar conclusion with my therapist about how it never really leaves you. You expect to talk it through a couple times and then to be done with it emotionally. But that’s not how it works. I’m just thankful that you had the courage to tell us what you’ve been through. And I know so many other people, especially young girls, need more role models who discuss mental health and trauma openly. This is how we heal. ♥️ keep on being you. You have turned things that were unfortunate and out of your control into a life and family that is beyond beautiful. And that’s something to be proud of. You’ve made your CZcams channel into a legitimate business and your hard work and creativity is inspiring. Your friend’s mom was right and it’s advice that so many of us need to hear: Let go of your shame. You are not the things that have happened to you. Here’s to you and your courage and kindness. 👏🏼
You’re so brave for speaking your truth. I had a similar upbringing but even now at 28, I still have moments where I need a mom. My deepest sadness will always be that I didn’t get the mom I deserved as a child. Here if you ever need to talk about some of that ‘I’ve got no mom’ sad feelings ❤️❤️❤️
I am so sorry about all the things you went through. You’re breaking the cycle and I’m so proud of you. 💞
Thank you so much for sharing this! You are so strong and such a good mother! Hearing this made me open my eyes more to other people’s stories because while this was happening to you I was living obviously to your situation probably less than 20 miles away ❤️❤️❤️