Finally addressing the questions I’ve been avoiding // break up, baby daddy, my family, dating…
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I’m Yasmyn Switzer, mom of three! I’m here to share my story about my journey as a mother, hopefully making memories that will last a lifetime for myself, and my beautiful baby girls, Laela, Analia, and now baby Millie-Isla! Join us as we vlog about pregnancy, parenting, fashion, beauty, relationships, and so much more!
Girl, you’re already surpassing the bar. You have always put your girls first! A family with separated parents who are happy and can get a long is so much more beneficial to children than being unhappy and together. “Normal” family dynamics don’t actually mean you’re doing it “right”. You’re doing amazing!
I personally appreciate your honesty with everything. As long as your main priority is to keep your kids happy and healthy then everything should work out for the better ❤
Seems like her only priority is having a man to trap.
Yasmyn, as a counselor, the emotional maturity you demonstrate in this video is exactly what I wish for all of my clients. Things could have turned out so differently for you, but you continue to choose the high road every time life throws something crazy at you. Proud of you!
I, as a counselor, feel this is sooo confusing for herself, the kids… being in a relationship again already… idk. Doesnt seem healthy in my opinion.
@jyoung6366 I think it’s important to look at the bigger picture here. Based on what she has shared about her childhood throughout the past few years, the odds were stacked against her. The fact that she isn’t using drugs after the things she witnessed/experienced as a kiddo is a huge accomplishment in and of itself. I can’t imagine anyone could have an upbringing like Yasmyn’s and emerge as an adult who magically has a life that society would deem “perfect”. However, she is consciously doing her best to break the cycle and do better than her parents did. THAT is what makes me feel so impressed and proud of her. As she navigates this complicated situation, she is obviously being very considerate of what is best for everyone involved. Her thoughtful reflection throughout this video demonstrated emotional maturity that I have to imagine was NEVER modeled for her as a child. She’s figuring out all of this on her own while navigating challenges that most of us will never be able to relate to. I think she’s doing a fantastic job given the circumstances and I wanted to leave a positive comment to show my support- as a counselor, surely you know the positive impact that a genuine compliment can have and use it consistently throughout your practice. ☺️
@@jyoung6366exactly.. no good counsellor would say this is mature behaviour…
@@jyoung6366why lol it’s not like she’s getting married, I don’t believe you’re a counselor for one second.
@@make.it.rainerI highly doubt they’re actually a counselor lol I believe you are but not the person that replied 😅
I wish my parents had this mentality when they split. The love that you and Logan have for your kids is inspiring. One day the girls will be grateful for the way you have carried yourself through this all
I’ve been watching you for years now! I love this video and how it’s about you, and your outlook. Social media is getting so so dangerous for kiddos and it’s just so toxic, I would hate for them to be subject to that, especially as Layla and the other girls enter into school. I would love to see more of you and videos like this as well as you branching off into podcast and music bc you have so much wisdom to give and I think you could be very successful especially with the platform you already have. As I have grown up with you, we’re the same age, I have realized how dangerous social media is, especially for kids who can’t make that decision or understand the potential outcomes of it. I just would love to see more of you, your life and even as a mom, but just without the kids.
my parents only split up three years ago but they should've done it years ago bc it wasn't the best environment for my sister and i. what you and logan did was not only best for you but for the girls and i'm so glad you were able to show them what healthy relationships are supposed to be like.
Girl, I’m proud of you for not staying in toxic cycles and being emotionally mature and aware enough to realize staying despite, despite, despite wasn’t healthy for anyone or a healthy family dynamic ultimately. Also proud of you for you not letting people shame you - they have not walked in your shoes and do not know the extent of your circumstances, they have no place to judge. Sending you happy healing vibes always 💜
loved this video! I coparent two of my kids and the guilt I feel sometimes can be crippling but I always have to come back to the truth that two happy homes is FAR HEALTHIER than one toxic/broken home. Coparenting can be done in a healthy way and it seems like you guys are doing a wonderful job at it. Don't let your mind go to that mom guilt space. You are such a genuine soul and are making the best choices for your girls
What people don't understand is that even after the fact of having kids and stuff if you fall out of love with each other that it is way more toxic to try to be in a relationship that you aren't happy in and fight all the time then to make co parenting work and actually be happy, hope that makes since!! Love you and I hope you and your family are well!!
I only saw my parents together twice. I'm so glad you guys are co parenting well together. My parents were horrible for each other.
I’m 20 years old in an almost 5 years relationship and in school to become an Esthetician and although I don’t have much in common with you I resonate so hard with you. I think your doing everything right. Your 22 trying to figure out YOU with a million other responsibilities. You’re doing amazing in my opinion. And I think you could take on school! Yes it can be a lot but with the girls starting school and the support of friends/family you have I think it’s achievable. Push you boundaries girl you got this!! Sending so much love from PA 🫶🏼
So proud of you! That comment about becoming a replica of your mom is so misguided. You have clearly put in so much work to break cycles - it's amazing. Allowing your kids to be co-parented instead of stuck in a household full of tension, anger, and confusion sounds SO much healthier. Keep on being amazing.
My friend for co parenting, decided they won’t move from the house their kids were raised at, instead they kept the house they bought, but are renting an apartment where either the mother or father will stay at whenever it’s not their “turn” to be with their kids. Whenever it’s their “turn” they stay at the house they bought together just so there isn’t much of a bigger change and different household for the kids so it isn’t as confusing since their parents are divorced. Some things work for others and some don’t, and that’s completely ok
I've never commented on one of your videos before, but I followed you on instagram before you got pregnant with Laela, because Julianna and I did choir together at Swanson for two years and were friendsish I was a grade above her (I also used to be friends with Sky's older sister Summer). I started casually following along with your social media as it was happening, and wow the growth has been insane!!
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I’m glad your perspective on dating has matured. I remember watching one of your early videos where you said that you were dating to “find a dad for Laela”, whereas now you’re dating for you. Good luck.
I'm very impressed with your decision to protect your beautiful girls and their privacy! I know it will be hard at first, you might even get some pushback, but stay strong knowing that it's the best thing that you can do to protect them!
You are wise and mature beyond your years. You've got this! 🌺
Coming from a kid that prayed her parents would get divorced growing up can tell you personally it is so so so much better to amicably split. Don’t listen to what people say they don’t know your life and what you’ve been through. ❤️
Girlllll a new relationship? Just be careful
you’re such a strong woman and mama- your baby girls are so lucky to have such an amazing mom to look up to! praying for you!💕
You are a wonderful mum and a beautiful person inside out. Keep doing what your doing, your children’s happiness will shine through what you are doing for them darling. Wishing you and your lovely little girls all the happiness and love ❤❤❤
I’m rooting for ya girl! Do whatever makes you happy, whether that’s changing things up, being in a relationship, traveling, etc!
Love love love this. I’ve been watching since you started, and my goodness it’s so great watching you mature! Love how aware you are. And emotionally intelligent! Keep up the good work! I love seeing the channel grow with you! Would love to see more you!
you need to figure out why you are attracted to toxic men and trust me the trauma of your childhood has a lot to do with this
It always ends up being the "good friend"😅🤣 poor Logan lol
Right... like so she's dating a guy that was friends with them both essentially.. and a family friend that she has history with and that have known her kids. Sounds sus and maybe there was some paths crossed before breaking up
You are putting your kids first, your mom put her kids last and from what you have shared, she's never grown up. Staying together for your kids, absolutely not! It's not just toxic for you, it's toxic for your kids as well. Believe me, been the kid in that situation and it's so detrimental. If you can't communicate with your partner, getting married and adding more to your family just gets worse, not better. Sending happy wishes your way!
I too grew up in a household w parents fighting til I was 14.
Logan needs a channel i want to hear how he's feeling 😢 i hope he's doing well
I love how honest you are,can’t wait for the change on content! Sending love from the eastern shore,md❤
you are such a beautiful soul, keep taking it day by day, proud of u
Staying in a toxic relationship just because you have kids isn’t the best thing for them! I think, just my opinion from what I’ve taken away from the videos, you and Logan made the best decision for the girls to not continue to be together if your relationship was toxic. I’m so glad your doing so well as coparents because that’s not always the case when a relationship ends. 💜
Thank you for being so vulnerable 🤍🤍 sending you light & love!
You should be so proud of yourself. Walking away from a relationship is so hard, even more so with kids. You are doing so good Yazmyn
Hey yasmyn I hope you’re having a good day today 🤍
I have a video idea! Do you remember the trend on TikTok “ doing my makeup while telling you facts about me” ? I think you should do a CZcams video on that, we already feel like we know you but I think we’d all like to get to know you better 🤍
I’d love to!!!
@@YasmynSwitzer yessss! Thank you for even considering it
i love this idea!!
0:00 Intro
2:29 Family
3:36 Plans for future
4:51 Logan
5:56 Moving?
6:15 Dating
7:27 Relationship
9:37 How the kids are handling the breakup
10:29 Friends
10:48 Sexuality
11:24 Podcast
12:08 The engagement
12:38 Layla's bio dad
14:30 Logan
16:13 Travel?
16:59 Advice
18:11 CZcams
I’m so proud of you Yasmyn! I know this has been a hard journey so far but I believe everything will work out for the best! My love is with y’all, I love you and the girls!!💗💗
Yasmyn you’re an amazing mother, daughter, friend, sister, granddaughter and overall woman. You’re doing so good and I hope one day you see the same yasmyn we see. Don’t be so hard on yourself, life is hard, you’re doing amazing.
They say you date your dad, obviously not in a weird way, but you attract people similar to your dad when you start dating if you aren’t healed. Breaking generational curses is real, and once you break them then you will attract different people
Is Logan upset you’re dating someone you were already friends with?
I obviously don't know what happened in your all's relationship but I don't think it's Fair to say that you might get back together and let's start a new relationship and then be like oh i dont think we will get back together now. Its because you added a whole other guy and more feelings which makes things complicated of course.
No correlation
Yasmyn is soft launching the idea of Logan having been a terrible partner and before the video comes out let me just remind all her subscribers that Logan admitted in a video that yasmyn flirts with people a lot. He also seems annoyed by it so it wasn't something involved in their relationship. So before she spins the narrative just remember that.
do you know what video he said that in
what video
@@evelynmormino6930 it's at the end of her RELATIONSHIP ADVICE Q&A // teen parents of 2
thanks
Well I'd say Logan dodged a bullet with you 🤣😂 hopefully he will find a good woman to merry while he is still young.
When you and Logan think you’ve done all you can to make things work try harder…. I did exactly what you did… I thought it was best for my 4 kids but it wasn’t…😢… now I have children that hate me because they don’t think I tried hard enough… Just food for thought… you must do what you feel is best… I support you either way..❤
can't you be alone for awhile? one after the other one after another!!!!!!! Find yourself first please
I don’t get it either why can’t she function alone and find herself. Adding a new relationship so fast is crazy
She’s young, that’s why. Explains it all.
It’s NONE of your business
I don’t think that matters to you. Are u in her life. I don’t think so. Your not her parent or know her really so you have no input.
@@meganmontgomery8593 ** you’re**
Are you in her life? Do you know her?
She puts her whole life online for ANYONE to give their input. Good or bad. Not everyone is going to have the same input. You’re prob young too, so it makes sense.
Coparenting is so so hard, and dating as a single mom is no easy thing to navigate. I’m in almost the exact same stage as you right now… a recent break up and trying to move on with my 2 year old son. You are thriving sis and seeing you be able to move forward has given me hope that I can too. You’re amazing 💖
You are fine example. I am so happy you have the resources to take good care of yourself and your girls!
Her new boyfriend is Luke Glad.
From one young single mom to another, you are an amazing woman & mother. You are not your mom. You seem so much lighter j freer. I KNOW the struggle is real doing things alone, but it beats feeling alone & trapped & stuck with someone else weighing you down.
I loved this video, I am so happy for you. And i think the change of not having the girls on the channel as much is great, you are the main character lol.
You know what you’re doing for your life better than anyone but jumping into a relationship that quickly after your pervious relationship ended is definitely not the smartest thing. When leaving a relationship your whole life changes and so do your emotions and feelings,and it stays that way for a very long time before you find yourself again and jumping into a new relationship is very dangerous for yourself and your kids. I just hope all goes well and you REALLY know what you’re doing because relationship to relationship becomes a toxic codependent cycle that does a lot of mental harm in the future.
Yasmyn love how you introduced that your father is same as Lala father, I did the same thing but married him! you are smart cookie, keep it up girl
Hi Yasmyn..I'm from South Dakota..I'm a single mom to 3 boys & i just recently got into a relationship too..hang in there girl you got this 🤗🥰💖
I think it’s crazy and strong of her that she removed herself from a relationship that also in the beginning was so beautiful to her. I think that speaks volumes especially how her social media glamorized Logan so much for being this blessing of a man treating laela like his own and she still decides to leave 👀 I think nothing is really as it seems
Well we only get her point of view of the relationship, I don’t think she is so perfect either.
Your kids not having a stable family and father figure being “not that bad” says A LOT about your priorities.
her kids have a father figure in logan, that will NEVER change, they don't have to be together for that to be a factor. And a stable home is what shes providing with her kids right now.
@@cloudedcolour5329what part of a new man shortly after their father is broken up with is giving “stable house” to you?
@@StarrySoakedSkiess what part of this relationship was over months ago and shes not bringing him into their lifes in that manner is not resonating with you?
Keep doing what's best for you and your girls. Always praying for you and your family. Mikalyn Daugherty
U are so strong and smart for being so young i had my first child at 20 and was nowhere near where you are! I have 3 children and I wish I had put them first ALWAYS. All my relationships were toxic and it definitely affected my children. My daughter father was the only one semi involved after he got out of prison but also dealt with addiction i wanted my family so bad i didn't see until everyone was affected i have a great relationship with my daughter she's 21 now yet i wish she had had a better childhood for sure! Ur doing great!
This is what happens kids play house. You didn’t realize the responsibility is actually is and now you have not only 1, but 3 children.
I know you never plan on breaking up, but children are involved. Not even mentioning that that children of teen parents most likely get pregnant as teens. You both also showed, that it is ok get pregnant as a teen intentionally.
With that being said I think it’s better that you broke up rather than suffer together and with children, all I’m saying is that partially you “asked” for it by jumping into the stuff you were too young for.
CZcams is temporary, content based on children is temporary and gives materials to predators and perverts. Not even talking about the fact that it’s borderline abuse. They cannot consent and don’t understand what potential consequences are
Time to grow up. Go to therapy, you need that. To not to respect your parents’ mistakes, to not to get into another toxic relationship and to be a mom your kids deserve and heal your inner child.
I wish you all the best Yasmin. And to Logan
Well said! 👏
Sounds like the situation kyra pulled on Oscar with dating a friend that was already in your kids lives
sooo you didn’t want to be in a relationship but then get into a relationship right after…..
I didn’t want to be in that relationship
@@YasmynSwitzerdon’t explain yourself to people who are actively trying to miss what you’re saying, they’re only here to purposely miss your point to find something to be mad at, ignore them
Of course.. so typical!
I’m a single mom, also young and I feel like to really understand what she means, you’d have to have been in this type of situation. I haven’t been in a serious relationship since my daughter was born 5 years ago and although I don’t desire to date for the purpose of marriage, I do really want to date for myself and so that I can fulfill some of what I feel like is missing in my life, but without the long term planning and commitment. It’s hard to being people into your life and your kids lives, especially when things haven’t worked out in the past so for me personally, if I’m dating for fun, I wouldn’t introduce that person to my kids, ever. I think she’s lucky that this person and her kids already know each other. It makes it easier to have that person around and live a more simpler life, without your children being confused and questioning everything. Happy that that’s how things worked out for her rather than the complete opposite white is harder to navigate through.
you are aware they’ve been split up about 6 months an before that they was definitely mentally apart
The way she describes potential future step parents is really mature, Some mother/fathers who are lot older do not have that same mentality. I am very proud of you and logan. I know you talked about logan still being Layla's dad even though he is not biologically related to her which is great but is him adopting her still a thing or is that of the table now?
And the audacity of someone to draw comparisons between you and your Mum. They must be extremely ignorant about addiction.. and lacking in basic compassion. I know you aren't necessarily expecting understanding and compassion for all you have endured over your life.. but by the same token, people have ZERO right to criticise you or try and put you down because of your Mum's addiction. Anyway, you handled the question with alot of maturity and insight. Well done 🙏
Make your $$$$ now, Ruby!! Family vlogging is coming to an end, as more and more adult children of Influencers tell the story of living life with a camera in their faces, so mom and dad can have nice things!
this isn't ruby? and shes literally not posting her kids in this video yet you're posting this crap?
@@cloudedcolour5329, ok Bozo!! Keep supporting child exploitation. Maybe, do some research about what child exploitation is!!! 🤡🤡🤡
@@cloudedcolour5329she’s right though.
@@oliwiapronko7688 no actually shes not, shes nothing like ruby and besides, its nobody elses business what someone does with their channel
washington is absolutely incredible! you will love it. my partner lives out there and i’m trying to move out there myself. it’s such an amazing place ❤
i wish you the best with ur college dreams yasmyn!!!
yay excited for all the recent content lately ♡
You have such a mature head on your Young shoulders. I wish I had had your foresights at your age. Good luck with your future plans. ❤
As a child raised by parents in a toxic relationship who stayed together "for the kids" and yeah... no. It's better to split up.
Girl I just wanna get a bottle of wine and sit on a porch and chat with you. I feel like we’d get along so well haha
I hate when people compare people to their parents. Just because you had a parent that was unemotionally available doesn’t mean you will be the same. Some times it means you want better for yourself after watching that your whole life.
Pleaseee spill the tea about you and Logan… but so proud of you🤍
lmao why would she do that? its none of your business
@@AtomicMushroomz she said she was going to😂
She’s got to split it into 5 videos first to keep everyone coming back! I doubt she’ll ever fully share what happened.
You're doing great Yasmyn! I'm so proud of you. When you come to FL again let us know i'd honestly love to meetup with you and my son he's 1 :)
You should look into a trip with the girls to New Zealand. You love nature and holy moly it would feed your soul coming here for a few weeks and the girls would friggin love it!!
It’s so much worse to stay in a toxic relationship for your children. My boyfriends parents stayed together until he got older and finally divorced and he even says he wished they would have just divorced when he was younger because it was so unhealthy.
“the bar’s set pretty low to be honest” GIRL U GOT ME CACKLING
Pattern of your Momma..apple never falls far from the tree
You clearly don’t know anything about her mom lol
Yeah, her mom went to college
@@sydney20489she has literally made numerous videos telling the internet more than any stranger needs to know about her mother, their relationship, and how her childhood was lmao. Unless she’s a liar, which is very possible, everyone knows plenty. Unfortunately.
Please please please do not beat yourself up for leaving the relationship and causing the change for your girls. I am the same age as you and Logan and I still live with my parents. My parents should have gotten divorced when I was a baby but they never did. And I've been living the consequence for that my entire life. My parents live in the same house but we aren't a family, just coexisting. They don't speak to each other and when they do they just argue. I can see how unhappy my mother is because she stayed with my father. I wish and wish that my parents got divorced when I was younger because now im almost 22 and the damage has been so badly done for me. You made a great choice for yourself and you will be so happy in the long run. No regrets. I am so happy for you:):) **If everyone could like this comment so Yasmyn could see it, that would be great!!***
Has Yasmyn specified what the "toxic" dynamics, patterns, or topics were in her relationship with Logan? I'm honestly curious and confused because from the content that was presented to us publicly, it's difficult to identify. I understand that content is curated but Yasmyn was the person editing her own content and presenting us with a narrative of her own choosing for monetized consumption. If it's difficult to believe and trust that their relationship was authentically "toxic", it's because of how she characterized him and how he conducted his speech and behavior on camera and in life. Yasmyn would be better able to use her life experience to help others learn or bestow wisdom if she clarified specifically why she identified their relationship as "toxic". That word choice is extremely powerful rhetoric. It paints Logan in a very negative and unhealthy light. She's using the word "obvious" a lot but its not obvious to me and I'm confident others are confused too. Their relationship was consistently depicted as healthy and the extreme change now begs the question why is the word "toxic" accurate and warranted? Our views provided money for them to richly provide for themselves and their children for years. Its fair and valid to ask.
Why do you feel that because she make money off of these videos that she has to broadcast what she may view as her family’s worst and most intimate moments for the entire world to see?
I'm curious as well! Logan appeared to be nothing but a supportive partner and I never saw any flags so I'm wondering as well. I don't feel entitled to know but hoping he will make a video telling his side or that Yazi will tell us what's happening cause as of now it sounds like someone stepped outside of the relationship imo
You do you boo☺️ put topsail island, NC on your travel list for a long weekend!
14:51 helped me so much ( my partner and i dont have kids) and its been so hard to come out of the toxicity
I dont even know why im holding on yet he is SO SO bad for me
I keep trying to leave and just get pulled back in
Your perspective or just seeing u do it knowing how hard it was for u is giving me hope .
2 words: so. confusing.
Kids know so much more than you think.
It does really up to know others go through similar situations
please bring the podcast back with madison!! i loved it
Sending love Yasmyn 🤍
Ilysm yas, keep ur head up love😆
Coming from a family where my parents stayed together way longer than they should have....it's better that you ended things when you did. I actually made a short film where I had a character inspired by my mom actually get to work with a therapist (an opportunity my mom never had) that helped the character make the decision to leave her toxic relationship. I would've respected her more if she had.
I agree. Mine stayed together far too long til I was 14. I used to beg them to divorce. I ended up with a severe anxiety disorder over that toxicity.
Now people are reeeeally not gunna let you use the term “single” mom lol😂
please bring back the podcast but w madison!!
You’re doing great! But maybe don’t move right now? Just for the kids sake. It might be tough for them having everything fall apart simultaneously. They’ll associate the end of relationships with a ton of scary change.
my mom moved to washington! the whole state is superrr pretty but the west side is more active than the east (spokane, etc) but you can still find things to do over there! also twilight was filmed just under seattle :)
You do so good we all proud of you bestie! Another good thing about what you choose is that the girls will grow up knowing their parents but they won’t remember you two together. I know that sounds bad but it’s better for the kids now then later down the line when they have all those family memories. Does that make sense lol?
Layla is old enough to remember.
Keep doing you! You’re doing great 🩷
btw you owe us nothing, be as private as you want.
Yasmyn, if you ever choose to come to Wisconsin, ill give you a tour!!!
Hi Yasmine happy Thursday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter
Love you Yasmyn!!!❤
Has your brother had any lasting health impacts? I think you’re very smart & would do very well in school. I could see you in psychology. Also so glad you saw the toxicity in your relationship and did what was best for you. I had noticed that for a long while in your videos.
Third baby daddy on the way
Rude
@@poohbear_loves_Tigger Truth is not rude!
@@Canuckgirl152 There is no 3rd baby daddy so its not the truth
@@AtomicMushroomz There will be !!
@Canuckgirl152 do you know that for a fact no you don't rude to judge someone who you don't really know just know off CZcams and what they share with you
You’re doing amazing! ❤
Thank you for your honesty hope you are all doing well ❤❤❤
I think I like you less and less every time I click on one of your videos
Proud of you girl! Ignore the trolls! Ive been watching your content for years and you are doing your best for your family and anyone with empathy and a heart can see that. Love you, and your content💙💙💙keep your head up!
Hi Yasmyn, first off just wanted to say i love your videos and you are so strong for everything you have been through. But I’m just curious, did you and Logan ever go to couples therapy? I feel like maybe that could have helped with you two understanding each other’s feelings.
My husband and i have been having lots of problems for a while now, but he refuses to go to therapy, so I’m wondering what else we could try
Id hes not willing to try dump him.
At the very least, you should seek out therapy for yourself, even if your husband doesn’t join you. A therapist can better help you work through your feelings and help you figure out your options. And who knows, maybe your husband will become more open to the idea of couples therapy if he sees you going every week to a therapist for yourself and hears you openly talk about the help they are providing you. If he eventually decides to join you, great, if not, then at least you have a safe place where you can get advice from an unbiased professional and open up about what you are truly feeling.