Jordan Peterson: What happened in your youth that messed you up

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Komentáře • 212

  • @j.fontanez3152
    @j.fontanez3152 Před 5 lety +306

    Interesting . . . I finally got clean and sober at 28; whereas, going to jail at 18 seemed cool in the environment I lived, at 28 it was pathetic. I also got married and became a father; however, years of depression ultimately destroyed the marriage. Truth be told, I felt so bad about myself, lacking confidence and self-esteem, I thought those outward expressions would give me credibility within society. Fifteen years later I'm still trying to figure myself out, but I've never returned to drugs. I share 50/50 custody of my girls, and I'm a much better father. I'm a senior in college studying English and minoring in psychology. I'm looking towards a different future while focusing on getting better in the present.

    • @superjd97
      @superjd97 Před 5 lety +15

      You're not alone in the fight against depression! If it ever comes back,stay strong and find a way out! The path to finding one self is complicated and difficult,but is also fascinating.

    • @notmyrealpseudonym6702
      @notmyrealpseudonym6702 Před 5 lety +5

      Good on you for being there for.your kids. Well done

    • @fuxuro764
      @fuxuro764 Před 4 lety +3

      You're awesome.
      I kinda admire you based on this

    • @CanoeToNewOrleans
      @CanoeToNewOrleans Před 3 lety +3

      Keep fighting the darkness.

    • @KingHenryTheGreat
      @KingHenryTheGreat Před 3 lety +2

      how are you doing man?

  • @MusicMike512
    @MusicMike512 Před 3 lety +224

    "It's no joke, man." - JP

    • @kevinking7414
      @kevinking7414 Před 3 lety +3

      😂 classic

    • @paarkour83
      @paarkour83 Před 3 lety +2

      Everything’s a joke imo. The big consciousness joke

    • @vothaison
      @vothaison Před 3 lety +4

      "It's no joke, man" - Red Skull.

    • @Anhedonxia
      @Anhedonxia Před 3 lety +1

      @@vothaison dayum i was about to comment that good job man 😂😂

    • @vothaison
      @vothaison Před 3 lety

      @@Anhedonxia 🤣

  • @generativeresearch
    @generativeresearch Před 3 lety +111

    Jordan Peterson is always reminding us how much we've forgotten as a species.

    • @WDBDWK
      @WDBDWK Před 3 lety +1

      He rarely reminds us of where the “forgetting” is programmed and with whom, and how. Society is always the reference point.

  • @chaitanyavelamala7268
    @chaitanyavelamala7268 Před 3 lety +58

    Just try to imagine the look on a 3 yr old's face when dad says 'go out & confront the chaos of the unknown man'

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety +1

      Imagine the look on my face when people take a crazy drug abuser like Jordan Peterson serious.

    • @Lenore4Evermore
      @Lenore4Evermore Před 3 lety

      🙊

    • @Anhedonxia
      @Anhedonxia Před 3 lety +8

      @@darknightbegins85 imagine going out of your way to comment that under a video about someone you despise

    • @bucketstuck7137
      @bucketstuck7137 Před 3 lety +2

      @@darknightbegins85 While I certainly agree that the “cult” that follows Jordan Peterson intently is as cringe as it largely revealing of just how unaware/idiotic the majority of people tend to be, I hardly see the validity in disregarding somebody of his stature because of a relatively short period of his life that he’s since received treatment for.
      TL;DR you legitimately seem to be just as dim-witted as the people you’re attempting to bring down.

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety

      Elliot Alderson the man wrote a book telling people how to live their life WHILE being a drug abuser, eating only meat and drinking water then ignoring western medical advise and flying to Russia and asking to be placed in a coma for a week.
      Dude...what more can this man do to discredit himself? Especially when it comes to telling people how to live their life.
      Peterson’s delivery style reminds me far more of a televangelist. His emotion, crackling of the voice you can hear, many interviews I’ve seen the man can be on the verge of tears sometimes. His academic resume is what he uses to build is credibility in a society that values education and science over religion, and yet his delivery style and message are very religious. So he’s trying to fuse the two, which he was successful at until his drug abuse and mental breakdown.
      Overall, a drug abuse giving people rules for living is ironic and anyone that doesn’t have huge questions about him at this point are blind, dumb or both

  • @tomvernham4594
    @tomvernham4594 Před 5 lety +143

    A dynamic that most females (mothers in particular) do not seem to understand, is the need for boys and young men to be called out into adventure by their fathers.

    • @justsomenamelesssoul8097
      @justsomenamelesssoul8097 Před 3 lety +14

      And it's terrible for someone like me, who had no father involved in the process at all. So the one calling me out into adventure is man in this video(didn't memorize his name yet and can't look it up cause CZcams doesn't let you see video title and write at the same time on mobile version)

    • @helenhighwater5313
      @helenhighwater5313 Před 3 lety +17

      They all need a copy of "The Dangerous Book for Boys". I used to see it on the book table at Sam's Club. I would say further, girls need to be called out into adventure by their dads just as much. Not all girls like girly stuff. Don't put kids in a box. Female friends of mine whose dads did this for them are much more confident, successful, and far less likely to be taken advantage of by nefarious guys. They are also less needy and less anxious about their children, male and female, taking risks. I find that the more dependent and girly a woman is, the more fearful she is of her sons taking risks because, to her, it is a risk of losing her future financial provision.

    • @franacha
      @franacha Před 3 lety +3

      Wait really? I completely lost my relationship with my father after reaching puberty, I didn't know that was a thing

    • @anabas7098
      @anabas7098 Před 3 lety +3

      @@helenhighwater5313 Well, that is complicated. The second part is a complete truth. But it is dangerous to fathers to call out girls into an adventure. It should be done mostly by mothers. Father doesn't work as a role model for girls. It's mom's job. And here is the same logic, that father can support, but mothers should explain why/how. Because only mothers would know very specific underlying issues which girls can meet. And as you know, these "very specific" issues will be crucial

    • @williamd1891
      @williamd1891 Před 3 lety +10

      @Evgenii Percherkin As a father of a son and daughter I have to say you are 100% wrong. A father is absolutely a role model/teacher in a young girls life. In fact I would say fathers need to be MORE involved in their daughters lives. Its healthy for kids to get BOTH perspectives, from the mother and father.

  • @aadityasharma32
    @aadityasharma32 Před 3 lety +87

    Dear Lord..They made redskull into a real being. He's encouraging people to not only explore their potential but to actualise it😰😰😰

    • @brandon_bruffett_comedy
      @brandon_bruffett_comedy Před 3 lety +4

      You're absolutely kidding, yeah? PLEASE TELL ME YOU'RE KIDDING!

    • @aadityasharma32
      @aadityasharma32 Před 3 lety +17

      @@brandon_bruffett_comedy Yes it's true.. Prof. Peterson is actually a red skulled individual who's trying to get people to commit horrible crimes like getting their act together and being better versions of themselves... Such horror 😰.. obviously I'm kidding brother😁😁

    • @paulgabel1845
      @paulgabel1845 Před 3 lety +7

      We live in a society were self actualization is a crime. Too much perspective for us to handle.

    • @gurnoordhaliwal3389
      @gurnoordhaliwal3389 Před 3 lety +1

      @@brandon_bruffett_comedy You missed the joke lmao

    • @WDBDWK
      @WDBDWK Před 3 lety

      @@paulgabel1845 I don’t think that’s true at all. Look at Germany in the 1930’s. What happened in “society” came from the family system. Exclusively. Why? Attachment.
      The first three years of life are fusion. There is no “outside” beyond interaction in the family system. For us humans looking for why self actualization is a crime, look at where we are fused.
      The anti-self message comes from toxic attachment. “Society” is a mirror of that. As a causal agent it’s barely a bit player. Almost nothing in this area of discussion.

  • @ollydearden
    @ollydearden Před 3 lety +20

    How is this free?
    Bloody marvellous.

  • @juliecrecelius1856
    @juliecrecelius1856 Před 5 lety +62

    Dr. Peterson continues to blow my mind with his intelligence and passion for explaining life situations.

    • @rabeiwazzeh2962
      @rabeiwazzeh2962 Před 5 lety +4

      Julie Crecelius not pure intelligence. Knowledge and education.

    • @juliecrecelius1856
      @juliecrecelius1856 Před 5 lety

      Rabei Wazzeh you are absolutely correct!!!

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety

      Was your mind blown by his all meat diet, his drug addiction, going crazy, going to Russia and being placed in a coma for a week?

    • @juliemauger6183
      @juliemauger6183 Před 3 lety

      @@rabeiwazzeh2962 ... and a very curious, exploratory mind

    • @juliemauger6183
      @juliemauger6183 Před 3 lety

      @@darknightbegins85 it wasn't drug addiction; related, but not so.

  • @chezlonian
    @chezlonian Před 3 lety +30

    The title and the lecture are seemingly unrelated. What traumatized me in my youth? Who knows, this lecture covers societal norms and genetic dispositions.

  • @ernestrolf2182
    @ernestrolf2182 Před 5 lety +3

    Really good, thanks

  • @williegates627
    @williegates627 Před 3 lety +14

    "The dragon hordes gold or hordes virgins....very very strange behavior for a reptile as I mentioned...."

    • @lucasb409
      @lucasb409 Před 2 lety

      The very treasures of facing the unknown. Unless it kills you of course. LOL

  • @bonnierobinson8684
    @bonnierobinson8684 Před 3 lety +15

    What about daughters and their Fathers? My dad died when I was nine. I am still working to live without him!

    • @TheHalfGlassFullGuy
      @TheHalfGlassFullGuy Před 3 lety +3

      Learn to forgive your mother for all her shortcomings as a parent while you were growing up, and identify the things she did that you want to impart on the world

  • @JoshuaCastillo6309
    @JoshuaCastillo6309 Před 3 lety +6

    Love this guy! States the facts, doesn’t make it emotional or too logical. Just the black and white.

  • @christopherballesteros5659
    @christopherballesteros5659 Před 5 lety +57

    Brilliant man! Introduced me to Nietzsche and Carl Jung ideologies.

    • @truthseekeratheist9105
      @truthseekeratheist9105 Před 5 lety +3

      Both men were insane

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 Před 5 lety

      He seems to have a good handle on the latest neurobiology, BeastBoy Gaming. I was just reading some of the content of this talk in Sapolsky's "Behave." I don't agree with everything he says, but believe he has been a positive influence on many people.

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 Před 5 lety +1

      I wonder If I am insane? I love them, Truth Seeker Athiest.

    • @truthseekeratheist9105
      @truthseekeratheist9105 Před 5 lety

      coreycox2345 Then you believe in Ubermench?

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 Před 5 lety +3

      I do Truth Seeker Athiest. Without getting all nutty about it. I am in (for me) an extreme training regimen to climb Mt. Robson to Lake Berg with my son, whose original partner had to cancel due to knee surgery. I will be in top shape, for a sixty-two year old woman who is doing it because she doesn't want her son to remember it as the time he helped an old woman up a mountain.

  • @gojuryu83
    @gojuryu83 Před 3 lety +46

    "This man killed seven people with an axe."
    Judge Peterson: "How old is he?"
    "He'll be 28 in June."
    Judge Peterson: "I sentence you to life in prison until then."

  • @insert_creative_line_here1516

    Here I am wanting to be an innovator and creator and Jordan Peterson tells me that I’ll lose allot of my creativity by the time I’m 28 years old :/

  • @Verwijderd435
    @Verwijderd435 Před 2 lety

    this man is diamond.

  • @jennakarpe2783
    @jennakarpe2783 Před 3 lety +4

    Jordan Peterson is incredible

  • @russiane.lection-hacker2057

    So somewhere in out limbic system there's a WTF gland.

  • @movieandbookreview2684
    @movieandbookreview2684 Před rokem +2

    How do I learn to follow his advice. I didn't grow up with a father figure, only women. I never keaned to be confident or to pursue my interests. How do I correct this now? I'm 38.

  • @vleedingrainboom3618
    @vleedingrainboom3618 Před 5 lety +3

    I am very interested in this, mostly because I am on my valley of aggression/creativeness. (28yr )
    I am just kinda not male. 😁😅

  • @juicerlol
    @juicerlol Před 3 lety +4

    Parents. Thats what happens. They mess kids up.

  • @strahlungsopfer
    @strahlungsopfer Před 3 lety +8

    Do you just choose titles randomly?

    • @tan7060
      @tan7060 Před 3 lety

      They’re playing the algorithm. We both clicked it.

  • @elipacheco532
    @elipacheco532 Před 3 lety +6

    Change the title. The clip is good, but the title doesn’t seem broad enough to cover what he’s trying to say.

  • @lilblondiebear
    @lilblondiebear Před 3 lety +2

    I was socialized...but I'm still socially awkward.

  • @darling11111
    @darling11111 Před rokem +1

    The unknown number. Imagine if we got comfortable with the unknown?

  • @metaphysiiickz
    @metaphysiiickz Před 3 lety +1

    I want JP to play Ancestors: the Humankind Oddesey

  • @floydcucciajr6640
    @floydcucciajr6640 Před 3 lety +1

    I enjoy what JP has to say but, after listening to several of his videos, he needs to fire his sound guy! vocal distortions and volume peaks are distracting

  • @ccusad3810
    @ccusad3810 Před 6 měsíci

    @JordanBPeterson 7:30 you kinda joke about the Virgin and the Drake but i was wondering if you did the link with the transmission effect of the myth of Médusa?

  • @superslyko123
    @superslyko123 Před 5 lety +11

    Wow! This guy is good! Where does he get all this stuff?

    • @jesusguzman4777
      @jesusguzman4777 Před 5 lety +7

      superslyko123 ....are you new to the Jordan Peterson?

    • @samuel7385
      @samuel7385 Před 5 lety +2

      He’s a professor at UofT. Or at least he used to be lol idk if he still is after being so famous

    • @michaelnatsariym3690
      @michaelnatsariym3690 Před 5 lety +14

      He's a heavy metal singer

    • @JT-ig1zl
      @JT-ig1zl Před 5 lety

      A lot of it stems from Kabbalaha

    • @MiguelRamirez-bk7eb
      @MiguelRamirez-bk7eb Před 5 lety +6

      His first single was: "God only knows".

  • @fernandopiazentin3350
    @fernandopiazentin3350 Před 3 lety +1

    the great prophet of yesterday...

  • @Domieboy
    @Domieboy Před rokem

    why cant you post more, these clips are not cohesive enough

  • @1845Raven
    @1845Raven Před 3 lety +2

    What does the title have to do with Peterson’s lecture??? I see no relationship

  • @jackdixon372
    @jackdixon372 Před 3 lety +2

    Looks like a boxer in the thumbnail. Imagine if he was a boxer

    • @Gaonaism
      @Gaonaism Před 3 lety

      Lmfaooooo
      A boxer who fights with his suit on.

    • @TheHalfGlassFullGuy
      @TheHalfGlassFullGuy Před 3 lety

      He is a boxer, but he teaches people to fight their internal battles, rather than an external battle

  • @angelkalathas
    @angelkalathas Před 5 lety +2

    So what he's saying so as the title makes sense is that your father wasn't encouraging enough.

    • @mikec3391
      @mikec3391 Před 3 lety

      Yeah I think we need a father that is solid for our direction , and a mother for nurturing we need both

  • @hippityhoppity657
    @hippityhoppity657 Před 5 lety +2

    3rd :I

  • @davidroseitg
    @davidroseitg Před 10 měsíci

    So should the law be more lenient on men than women due to men's preclivity to trouble. If we want equel outcomes and all!

  • @user-qb5wy5dg8w
    @user-qb5wy5dg8w Před rokem +2

    "we know biology quite nice now". Well, that didn't age well lol

  • @caleuxx9108
    @caleuxx9108 Před 9 měsíci

    Piaget - morality emerges out of play.....

  • @Infrared01
    @Infrared01 Před 3 lety +2

    Hail Lobster!

  • @Ryanhelpmeunderstand
    @Ryanhelpmeunderstand Před 3 lety +2

    So what you are saying is, we should have children run our countries. I like that idea!

    • @siyaindagulag.
      @siyaindagulag. Před 3 lety

      If you have seen Australian politicians in action ........
      Not merely children but petulant
      infants.

  • @rjf7023
    @rjf7023 Před 5 lety +1

    2nd :(

  • @bbyponk
    @bbyponk Před 3 lety

    crocodiles and snakes and birds of prey and C A T S

  • @cog1140
    @cog1140 Před 3 lety

    What happened to a man in his youth that made him think he knows everything about everyone?

    • @silkroad1201
      @silkroad1201 Před 3 lety +2

      It's more what happened to him in his 14 years in college

    • @JDC5656
      @JDC5656 Před 3 lety +10

      Yeah I mean he has a PhD in psychology - he's not exactly a pseudo smart narcissist

  • @d.n.4423
    @d.n.4423 Před 3 lety +2

    Stop with this misleading title! You cheat people!

  • @ivymikebushmann9100
    @ivymikebushmann9100 Před 5 lety +10

    1st!

    • @matej9255
      @matej9255 Před 5 lety +2

      IvyMike Bushmann who.gives.a.fu.k?????

    • @ivymikebushmann9100
      @ivymikebushmann9100 Před 5 lety +1

      matej 92 who does not?

    • @Sarah-so1lt
      @Sarah-so1lt Před 5 lety

      matej 92 he does clearly. Just leave him be.

    • @matej9255
      @matej9255 Před 5 lety +1

      Sarah I must agree with you...let him have his moment lol

    • @ivymikebushmann9100
      @ivymikebushmann9100 Před 5 lety +3

      matej 92 now you get it finally. Thanx. Lol 👍

  • @certified_geek7536
    @certified_geek7536 Před 3 lety +2

    I like Jordon peterson and all but he just talks about random stuff that doesn't answer the question of the title

    • @andremedeiros4275
      @andremedeiros4275 Před 3 lety +9

      Probably whoever named the clip didn't pay attention to the actual message of the clip

    • @suras8984
      @suras8984 Před 3 lety

      @@andremedeiros4275 it’s a joke

  • @franacha
    @franacha Před 3 lety +4

    Damn I'm 28, and I have wasted all of my life
    god I want to die so bad

    • @xXTepicwinTXx
      @xXTepicwinTXx Před 3 lety +8

      My friend there is still time. Your brains ability to change is amazing. Harness your neuroplasticity and adopt healthier habits that reflect your ideals

    • @franacha
      @franacha Před 3 lety

      @@xXTepicwinTXx I have no ideals, goals, or even desires in life

    • @xXTepicwinTXx
      @xXTepicwinTXx Před 3 lety +1

      @@franacha i suppose a good goal would be to find something you do desire thats healthy. As well as a set of principles and ideals that align with that

    • @xXTepicwinTXx
      @xXTepicwinTXx Před 3 lety +1

      @@franacha im not a doctor but i believe it should also be mentioned that there could be medical reasons for feeling that way. Not just environmental factors

    • @franacha
      @franacha Před 3 lety

      @@xXTepicwinTXx I have been wondering what even do I like since childhood. I should have already find it.

  • @mackenzieusher8025
    @mackenzieusher8025 Před 3 lety

    Your video titles are stupid clickbait.

  • @EJ-ig1rd
    @EJ-ig1rd Před rokem

    What happened to JordanPeterson in his youth that messed him up? A lot of wedgies.

  • @darknightbegins85
    @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety

    Wonder what happened to him in his to make him a drug addict and go nuts?

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety

      Jack Boomerang the uselessness lol

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety +1

      Jack Boomerang yay name calling! You’re stupid!

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety

      Jack Boomerang no you are defending the guy who got hooked on drugs and ignored western medical advise, went to Russia, asked to be placed in a medically induced coma for a week, while eating nothing but meat and water. Derp derp.

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety

      Jack Boomerang I like this name calling game. We get it, you’re a brain dead follower

    • @darknightbegins85
      @darknightbegins85 Před 3 lety

      Jack Boomerang lol tampered with reality? Is that what we call it now when a guy tells other people rules for life while he’s hooked on drugs, eats only meat, ignores western medical advise, goes to Russia and asks to be put in a medically induced coma?
      I guess it’s easier for fanatic to call that “tampering with reality” vs going insane.
      How’s it feel to take life advise from a legit quack?