Parents Demand money from Child, obliged to obey? assim al hakeem JAL
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Desi parents in a nutshell, their money is their money, you're money is also theirs.
If not, youre ungrateful to your parents and a horrible child, and needs to improve their character
It was narrated from Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah that a man said: “O Messenger of Allaah, I have wealth and children, but my father wants to take all my wealth.” He said, “You and your wealth are for your father.” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 2291; Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, 2/142 from the hadeeth of Jaabir, and 2922; Ahmad, 6902 from the hadeeth of ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr).
And Ahmad narrated from ‘Amr ibn Shu’ayb from his father from his grandfather, who said: A Bedouin came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: “My father wants to take all my wealth.” He said, “You and your wealth are for your father. The best that you can eat is what you have earned, and your children’s wealth is part of what you have earned, so eat it and enjoy it.”
This report has other isnaads and corroborating reports which make it saheeh.
(See Fath al-Baari, 5/211; Nasb al-Raayah,3/337)
There is truth in it and it is never black and white these matters people always go from one extreme to another as seen in your post
Everybody loves money . Specially the more they get older more their lust for money increases . So if one thinks parents are never gonna ask or love money then they are at fault. Hadith says 2 things keeps or become younger as bani adam gets older 1. Love for wealth 2. Wants to live more .
It was narrated from Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah that a man said: “O Messenger of Allaah, I have wealth and children, but my father wants to take all my wealth.” He said, “You and your wealth are for your father.” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 2291; Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, 2/142 from the hadeeth of Jaabir, and 2922; Ahmad, 6902 from the hadeeth of ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr).
And Ahmad narrated from ‘Amr ibn Shu’ayb from his father from his grandfather, who said: A Bedouin came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: “My father wants to take all my wealth.” He said, “You and your wealth are for your father. The best that you can eat is what you have earned, and your children’s wealth is part of what you have earned, so eat it and enjoy it.”
This report has other isnaads and corroborating reports which make it saheeh.
(See Fath al-Baari, 5/211; Nasb al-Raayah,3/337)
Sheikh got a video about the explanation of this Hadith. For example Hadith says " this duniya is a prison for mumin and heaven for kafir" . What would you take from this Hadith ? Most of the time Explanation is based on context , subjects and other variables. Hadith " heaven is under the feet of mother " now how would you interpret this ? Sticking to mums feet all day ? Hadith " if a women oblige her husband will enter jannah " how would you take the meaning for example" husband telling her taking off hijab , killing someone or dancing in media and she obeys so her jannat is fixed ? Or for example the latest internets interpretation of the Hadith about drinking when fajr athan is calling during Ramadan suhoor .
Give everything you can for your parents work hard to give them comfort while you still have them in this dunya. Because they are the one who will love you unconditionally specially your mom.
not always true. this is very very subjective. the answer should be give them the best u can even if they dont love u. But dont hurt ur soul and balance it out. If Allah doesnt burden anybody more than he can bear then it is completely ok.
@@TanzimMerajher father sounds like a womaniser. Probably one of his wives is trying to hurt his daughter and make her father hate her
give everything and then starve to death, yeah...smh
Her father is probably a sadistic womeniser. One of his wives told him to do this to harm her
Unconditional is when you give without expecting any return . If you expect return or ask for it that's conditional .
No No No No ya Shaykh,
In 1/2Continent, parents torture their Sons' Financially and in every other way and if married, also the Sons' wives but at the same time, they worship their Daughters' husbands(not the daughters) and husband's families. And they do all this in the name is Al-Islam and they do so even in the Month of Ramadhan. Comprende?