The hardest decision I've had to make
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- čas přidán 29. 08. 2022
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There is no strength like that of a MOTHER, we make the ultimate sacrifices all for the betterment of our babies. YOU ARE A PHENOMENAL WOMAN...your kids are beyond blessed to have you as their Mommy. GOD BLESS YOU MIJA❣️❣️❣️
Just out of curiosity, how can you be so sure they can join you in one year? Why would the father say no right now and say yes in one year?
I was a single mom also, I’m 62 years young, and my kids now know what I went through for them, and your kids will know how much you love them, this is why your going through this,
I just want you to know how much I support you, love and respect, Happy belated birthday liz
You deserve all the happiness life has to offer, Say hi to angel, he is a godsend, he will walk with you through this, not carry you but walk with you side by side, What a great man,
Happy Belated Birthday Liz! Liz I want you to know through the bad, good, up, & downs we will always be behind you. I support you to the fullest. Remember what I told you, try not to stress over the things we can not control & focus on the things we can control. Us mother’s continuously make sacrifices for our children & their future but yet we always turn out to be the bad person. The love between you & your kids is unbreakable & not matter what or how cruel their father choose to be the bond will never be broken & their love with you is beyond unconditional. Don’t let no one discourage you or make you feel less than or make you think that the decision you chose was inconsiderate. Everything you have done & push to do daily is for those babies & you have been nothing but considerate to everyone else but yourself. I know it’s beyond hard because I have 2 kids of my own & we are inseparable. But remind your daily, even if you have to post positive post it around the house to tell yourself the happy ending will be here in no time, all this will be worth it, this is not only for yourself but for yourself. You never get to take care of yourself or think about yourself so take this time to get that spark back, self love, self care while still getting everything more than prepared for those babies of yours. Your son is too young to know or understand but your daughter know that this choice had to be done for a better living for them. Continue to keep yourself focus on the prize & the prize is having those babies forever next year. Use this time for mommy time but still get everything that is needed done. Forget what people think or have to say. Whether good or bad people will talk regardless. Even when people think they are a step ahead of you or whatever the case may be, god does not like ugly. Karma definitely come in many ways. & remember it is okay to let those tears & cry out baby. Keeping everything bottled in is not healthy for you. Also, everything happens for a reason whether we may or may not understand why but never doubt the man above. No matter what you always gotta have FAITH!!! Remember what god has planned for you is only for you & not for anyone else nor for them to understand. Angel was brought into your life for a reason, I told you the other night y’all balance each other out. Y’all are eachother’s calm & storm & the support system for eachother. I love that for you. God knew he needed you but definitely y’all all needed eachother. I will always support my girl Elizabethalesha & Angel 🫶🫶🫶 Remember people bring the best out of eachother!!! I’m here for it & all of it 🥰
First of all Happy Birthday! Good for you, do what’s best for you and your kids!
I have been following u since the dental car lunch breaks heyyyy. So I must say thank you for sharing ur life and now your journey as that is not easy AT ALL !! I went thru same thing worst thing as a mom I had to do BUT I was ALL worth it at the end and only then it will make sense you will have ur days that u will question ur decision but stay strong YOU got this day by day!! Fun idea I did maybe u can do with ur kids was buy a calendar that u fill in each month with days they will see u if ur visiting and also marking a day closer to moving we made it fun and put stickers and also taped some photos if there were like Halloween or stuff like that that wasn’t able to be there for believe me they lived ur and every night when u call have them mark the calendar also with my oldest I gave her a journal so she am an share anything in good luck and wait till u all are reunited im lifting u all up in prayer and strength 🙏🙏💕💕💯💯🫶🏻
I’m so sorry. Be strong for your kids!!! Happy Birthday love ❤️ take care
Happy Birthday Elizabeth! This really broke my heart to see you cry. I was a single mom too and it can be a struggle. I hope you have this documented that you will get you babies back in a year. I will follow you on you journey to sucess. I made it! and I own my home and have a great job! stay consistant and stand your ground don't be afraid you're doing this for your kids and yourself. ❤
You’re such a strong woman! Praying for you! These next months will fly bye! ❤
Happy Birthday!! You got this!!!
My heart breaks for you 😞 I hope these next 10 months fly by. You got this 🙏🏼♥️
Happy Birthday Elizabeth💕🎂 Welcome To Your New Life!!!🙂
I’ve been here from the beginning and you’ve always been an amazing mother! ❤️ people will always try to bring you down but just know, you’re doing the right thing. Your kids know it and they love you for that❤️
Hang in there love it's not easy im going through the same u will get them back do what u have to for them.
Wow you made such a huge sacrifice that will pay off. I cant imagine how you feel but know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. So proud of your courage. I’m happy for you girl. God bless you and keep pushing forward. You are such a great example of a strong woman.
Happy belated birthday 🥳 Girl my heart broke for u on this video sending u lots of love I cried it out with u 😢 you ARE strong u and ur kids will get through this 💚 sending u lots of love these 10 months will fly by!!! Kick the time in the butt u got it girl!!! Stay strong sending u lots of love from Alaska 💚💚💚
Oh liz , you’ve been in my prayers and my thoughts as well as your kids, I hope he is a loving dad at the least, I’m glad you talk to your kids daily, keep it up, prayers liz
YOUR SUCH A STRONG, POWERFUL MOTHER LIZ!
Please stay strong through this process we know you got this and you have the BEST! Support system with your Real friends here and Angel is the best man to have by your side during these times. Leave it in gods hands and everything will work out! Stay positive and I’ll keep you in my prayers. You guys got this!
Everything happens for a reason as cheese as it is. I’m happy your making changes for your mental health and life to make it better for your kids. That is the definition of a strong mom! You know I always got you if you need anything 🤍🤍
Your so a great mom!! Your babies are so blessed to have a wonderful mom like you. Put your worries in God's hands and soon you will be with your beautiful babies. I will continue to pray for you all. Stay strong blessings
You’re so strong! Let these 10 months fly for you and your babies ❤️
Stay strong Elizabeth we love you and we understand it's gonna go by very fast I'm praying for you and I love your videos.
Happy birthday to you 🎂🎈🎁🎈🎉🎉. stay strong you are a great mom to your kids . Your kids know they you love them and you will be with them soon . Have a great day 😊💞
Awe girl I’m so proud of how far you’ve come ❤❤❤
I have so much respect for you liz, I see your struggle, I respect what your doing for your life for your kids life, keep going forward liz, you will do it, your kids when they are older will know how much you love them, I love you and respect you so much liz. Stay strong liz stay strong, you are so so loving what a great mommy you are,,,,,
Thank u for sharing...being a single momma is the toughest...I feel you mama🥲💔💔
I’m praying you got this agreement in writing 🥺 this worries me for you so bad. I know you have good intentions and you’re doing what’s best for you and your kids I just hope the father and the state don’t screw you in the end 🙏🏼 Keep your head up and I’ll be praying it all works out for you and your babies ❤
You are an amazing person and I know you are going to rock it. My heart hurts for you, but you did things right. Build that empire girlfriend we are here for the ride. 🥰🥰
Stay strong girl !! You got this ! Time will fly that you won’t even know it that your children will be with you 🥺💕
I’m so proud of you for doing this for your family god bless you all 🙏🏼
God Bless You and Give You Strength 😇🥰
Happy belated Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁
You are the best mother never doubt that ❤️
They will see what he's done and resent him. Keep your head up and grind for you and your babies 💕 before you know it you all will be together again.
Happy belated birthday, It broke my heart to see you cry, you will have happiness in a year with God’s will, God’s got your back he’s your rock he will walk with you through all this . we will walk with you through this journey, much love and blessings ,🙏🏻💕
I know exactly what you are going thru we are going thru a similiar situation. I look forward to following your journey and hope nothing but the best outcome for you and your kids.
Thank you 💜 good luck on your journey everything will fall into place
My respects girl you got this and at the end of the day we all can’t wait for that happy ending ❤
HAPPY Birthday. You are a great mother and your will be together again soon.
My heart breaks for you and your kids. I've followed your journey since way back on Tik Tock eating on your lunch break in the car. I've always enjoyed all your videos with your kids. You are an amazing mom. So sorry this is even going on. Your happy time and little family will be back together before you know it. Love ya girl. 😘
Happy Birthday beautiful be strong keep your head up God is on your side just have faith he guide you always to the end just don't give up love and I found out that me and you have two things in common I love rootbeer and my hubby always takes me to Fego De Chuo for my birthday love that place sweetie may God be with you and your family always 🙏 ❤️
Hang on liz. Hang on liz. Your doing this for your kids, you will get your kids liz, this is breaking my heart for you, I’m sorry you have to go through this, I’ve been through this, I feel for you
Your a good strong loving mom, don’t worry about what people say, yessss girl. Your doing right by them
My son's dad will threaten me every now and then about getting a lawyer. He lives in Texas and I live in Florida. I've been here for almost 10 years. We moved here when my son was 3. He wants to take me to court but isn't stable, lives with his mom and step dad and talks about all these health issues he has. I honestly think he's bipolar because there are times he can be the nicest person. And like you, we didn't get along at all until like last year.
Girl I am so sorry that you and your kids are going through this
You three will be together soon, hang in there liz, you just do all you have to do to get them back, work save, and get the house together for them, save save save, It will all come to light my dear,
And with angel by your side, it will happen
❤❤❤❤You got this!👍
🫂🫂🫂I felt this in my heart 🥹🥹🥹god willingly it’ll be as planned.
You stay strong for your precious babies. Laws in this country are so backwards. Prayers!
Sending lots of love and positivity your way!! :)
Happy Birthday 🎁🎉🎊🎂🎈
You are an AMAZING mother,human being🙏🏼and FUCK everyone who talks shit and judge.
My heart is breaking for you and your children. It’s so unfair. Please know you’re in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong 💓
Happy birthday 🎈🎉🎊🎂🎁
I know how hard this pain is. Your doing such a great thing for them and respectfully there dad will get his karma! Because him knowing his daughter is heartbroken is SHAMEFUL! This time will fly by and you will all be reunited! I’ll keep you and your babies in my prayers!!
It broke my heart to see you crying, Hang in there girl. You will do this, you will be together again
Are your kids in Florida with you?
Do NOT be hard on yourself. Families have done this for forever to set up a better life for their themselves. Be blessed you have the court system for guidance. So thankful that we have phones and video chat. Families would be separated without even that to stay connected until being reunited before this technology. Its hard but its life and a decision made daily by families for a better life in the end.
Hi beautiful, please correct me if I’m wrong, but did you not mention that you DO NOT get any type of Child Support from the children’s dad? With that said, why would he have ANY type of say so if you want to move to another state with your children? And please help me to understand WHY would the courts give 50/50 custody of he DOES NOT even help you ? Keep being the best mommy to your babies as you are ❤️🤗
Not necessarily. If the parent is “active” in a way weather they be a good parent or not they still have a say … at least in the state I was in
They can do the bare minimum and that’s good enough for them
I stopped putting my kids on social media too.
Honey listen until the public opinion Pays your bill’s then they need to take a set. I know you miss the kids but this want be forever. It’ll be ok