OMG, thank you for posting this. I can't say I'm in the exact situation, but it helps with another professional relationship that I've been trying to get over. When you said, "he is filling a void" really clicked with me.
If you have not taken any therapy classes I would be shocked , because you are nailing it! I have been studying therapy for some time now and you are either schooled or a damn good natural. Psychology may be your calling bro!
It is a horrible experience falling in love with a sex worker. I wouldn’t wish it on the devil himself. I have spent a tremendous amount of money, time , effort and it has basically cost me my life. I’m only breathing which in medical terms means I’m alive, but inside, I definitely am not alive. It’s changed my life(or what’s left of it). She did tell me she loved me, she did plan “our future” together, kids and all. But, in the end, it was just that. I was just a job. Another “John” , and yep, she absolutely sh** on me. But I was the one paying. Im still trying to recover and will heal from this hopefully by the time I cease to exist. Hope it all works out for everyone and myself.
I've got myself in that current situation with a female escort and but i know i can't pursue it due to her job. I just hope that i find someone as stunning as her.
You would make a Great personal counselor! Great advice, given with a lot of empathy. Very sincere, your "men" are Lucky to have you in their lives! 🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀
That's cool, but don't call em sad old queens--I'm only 27, but that could be us someday--Some people are just lonely for companionship. Not all of us are gonna end up with a loyal partner by our side. It's easy being young and single, but imagine being in your 60's and 70's, with your body failing you, and no one there to rely on emotionally or physically, unlike straight people who get marriage and kids and grandkids.
Very sound and good advice. "Escort" is a nice word that was invented to replace not-nice words. I like the term Sex Worker. It IS work for them, and you need to keep that in mind. In the gay world, many masseurs who provide sexual massage are sex workers. A session with a gay masseur can resemble the "boyfriend experience". Remember that it is their job, how they pay their bills. Keeping that in mind should prevent unrealistic expectations and hurt feelings. Sex work should be legal.
Really fantastic, thoughtful and considered view of this situation and the advice was good too. Only thing I'd throw in: go to therapy and talk about why you think you can only fill that gap the escort is filling with someone who will do it for money? Paying for temporary companionship that makes you feel good and you know isn't real is fine, it's a fantasy, but trying to make something longer term out of it without some kind of explicit conversation with the escort that they want that is a recipe of disaster. If you understand what is driving you to that, you can get out ahead of it.
Yeah I also agree that I think a conversation would be somewhat warranted. That doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to happen but some kind of closure I think is necessary for the man hiring the escort for sure, but probably also the escort as well.
If I were to see escorts regularly, I would not see just one. I would have a "handful" of regular guys and see them in rotation. This way, less likely to get attached to one. You can have that "boyfriend" experience and still have that "casual dating" vibe. Idk. Just pontificating. :-)
Dead eyes means he's in some kind of trance. Whoever he is, he's not occupying his body. Kinda like a robot, but not so expensively put together . His love and respect in himself is non existent. No ones home. If you were to stand in front of this guy and look into his eyes and ask " what's it like living in there " ? You would not get an answer. If you did get an answer it would be something like " cold and lonely " but he has all his xxx films to sit and watch with himself and watch the person sexually perform all the acts of who that spirit is that overtook his body. Its an entity that will never leave. The body is " its " property for ever. Kinda scary .
I feel like rob is a very nice guy, and I am sure he will find someone for him. Not offering myself, but there are many guys who would like to be with him not for his money, but for what he is.
I’m only surprised the escort wouldn’t say that he loved the client. In another video an escort said he would say anything he even thought his clients wanted to hear.
You love an escort because when you pay someone to be what you want them to be, then of course, they are going to be more obliging. The question is, will that person still be that, when the money is not being offered?
intelligent advice by an intelligent person; an awesomely hot and handsome muscular guy; a beautiful soul and lovely person; wow , what more can i ask for!
I don’t have experience with escorts, but I would hope I would understand it’s a business arrangement if I did. Some of the blame on this case belongs with the escort. His non-response to the “I love you” comments, and the accepting of gifts, etc, indicate that he is leading the guy on. This is the difference between an escort and a hustler. This guy isn’t looking for a hustler and he isn’t looking for an escort, he is looking for love. Most likely unattainable love. He is looking for a May-December relationship. And that is a whole other can-of-worms.
Sex workers have one of two types of partners. The first is a sucker that's getting a long term con run on them. The other is a fairly standard relationship. With concerns for the workers safety, well being etc. Nothing to do with feeling cheated on. As they get it. It's work and mechanical.
"If you don't pay me, I won't spend time with you." Well I'm not being facetious, but I disagree. How is this different from many marriages out there (besides being a bit more honest about the economic exchange)? I'm sure if more married men became broke, divorce rates would go up, up, up. Not to bash women or anything, (society doesn't let them earn the same as men even if they want to) but if these two are emotionally attached in the long-term, is it all that different from a marriage?
If you have not taken any therapy classes I would be shocked , because you are nailing it! I have been studying therapy for some time now and you are either schooled or a damn good natural. Psychology may be your calling bro!
OMG, thank you for posting this. I can't say I'm in the exact situation, but it helps with another professional relationship that I've been trying to get over. When you said, "he is filling a void" really clicked with me.
Brian Jones Yes Banging for money does help...For a short while
If you have not taken any therapy classes I would be shocked , because you are nailing it! I have been studying therapy for some time now and you are either schooled or a damn good natural. Psychology may be your calling bro!
What do you think an escort is????!!!! Other than the sexwork part more goes into it 🙄
It is a horrible experience falling in love with a sex worker. I wouldn’t wish it on the devil himself. I have spent a tremendous amount of money, time , effort and it has basically cost me my life. I’m only breathing which in medical terms means I’m alive, but inside, I definitely am not alive. It’s changed my life(or what’s left of it). She did tell me she loved me, she did plan “our future” together, kids and all. But, in the end, it was just that. I was just a job. Another “John” , and yep, she absolutely sh** on me. But I was the one paying. Im still trying to recover and will heal from this hopefully by the time I cease to exist. Hope it all works out for everyone and myself.
Thanks for ur experience bro iam in initial stage of your experience i will try to cut this as early as possible
Marc you are awesome giving any kind of advice. You are a natural at this.
I've got myself in that current situation with a female escort and but i know i can't pursue it due to her job. I just hope that i find someone as stunning as her.
Wow Marc! You have expert advice and incredible wisdom! God bless you for helping so many people!
You would make a Great personal counselor! Great advice, given with a lot of empathy. Very sincere, your "men" are Lucky to have you in their lives! 🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀🌹🍀
April 2022 and I got a lot from this video , thank you Marc
Marc, i love listening to your advice! Hope you have an amazing safe trip :)
Such a great analysis and thanks for your thoughtful response to a sensitive subject for Rob :)
That's cool, but don't call em sad old queens--I'm only 27, but that could be us someday--Some people are just lonely for companionship. Not all of us are gonna end up with a loyal partner by our side.
It's easy being young and single, but imagine being in your 60's and 70's, with your body failing you, and no one there to rely on emotionally or physically, unlike straight people who get marriage and kids and grandkids.
Damn this was 10 years ago. Time flies
A very great video and such intelligent non judgmental words
Its nice how he sounds very authentic and effortless with his presentation. This was 7 years, when vloggers were cooler.
Very sound and good advice. "Escort" is a nice word that was invented to replace not-nice words. I like the term Sex Worker. It IS work for them, and you need to keep that in mind. In the gay world, many masseurs who provide sexual massage are sex workers. A session with a gay masseur can resemble the "boyfriend experience". Remember that it is their job, how they pay their bills. Keeping that in mind should prevent unrealistic expectations and hurt feelings. Sex work should be legal.
I've never watched a video like this one, and I thought your advice to this young man was actually excellent. Snaps to you:)
Thank you !
Bang on answer!
Really fantastic, thoughtful and considered view of this situation and the advice was good too. Only thing I'd throw in: go to therapy and talk about why you think you can only fill that gap the escort is filling with someone who will do it for money? Paying for temporary companionship that makes you feel good and you know isn't real is fine, it's a fantasy, but trying to make something longer term out of it without some kind of explicit conversation with the escort that they want that is a recipe of disaster. If you understand what is driving you to that, you can get out ahead of it.
Yeah I also agree that I think a conversation would be somewhat warranted. That doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to happen but some kind of closure I think is necessary for the man hiring the escort for sure, but probably also the escort as well.
Wow! I like this guy! He really is wonderful at giving advice. Calm and Confident!!
Thank you
VERY accurate explanation, Marc.
Since you are coming to visit Italy and Greece,come to see Romania too,it's very close and you won't regret it:yellowish,gold autumn here!
great content 🔥
I'd recommend Rob go chat to a counsellor to work out the dynamics of what's going on so he can move towards a reciprocal relationship.
If they are escort they just doing sex not LOVE, so every one must know the different having sex and making love even do the same thing....
If I were to see escorts regularly, I would not see just one. I would have a "handful" of regular guys and see them in rotation. This way, less likely to get attached to one. You can have that "boyfriend" experience and still have that "casual dating" vibe. Idk. Just pontificating. :-)
Very interesting. Thx
You have what I would describe as emotionally dead eyes, life does that to some people. That said the advice was sound.
Occupational hazard. Or he could have that quality since he was born. We don't know.
Dead eyes means he's in some kind of trance. Whoever he is, he's not occupying his body. Kinda like a robot, but not so expensively put together .
His love and respect in himself is non existent.
No ones home.
If you were to stand in front of this guy and look into his eyes and ask " what's it like living in there " ? You would not get an answer. If you did get an answer it would be something like " cold and lonely " but he has all his xxx films to sit and watch with himself and watch the person sexually perform all the acts of who that spirit is that overtook his body.
Its an entity that will never leave. The body is " its " property for ever. Kinda scary .
you should throw in a little flex at the end.
I thought the letter started off that they are both involved with some else?
I feel like rob is a very nice guy, and I am sure he will find someone for him. Not offering myself, but there are many guys who would like to be with him not for his money, but for what he is.
Love is blind escort in the profession in the relationship between you and the lover shouldn't impeed if the love is genuin👍
I’m only surprised the escort wouldn’t say that he loved the client. In another video an escort said he would say anything he even thought his clients wanted to hear.
You love an escort because when you pay someone to be what you want them to be, then of course, they are going to be more obliging. The question is, will that person still be that, when the money is not being offered?
If you are about to come to see Vienna too I can show you here around.
intelligent advice by an intelligent person; an awesomely hot and handsome muscular guy; a beautiful soul and lovely person; wow , what more can i ask for!
jareddaughtry Thanks u...I'm smart and this guy is Smart..His Stuff.
Well, Marc-now I’m in love with you
Baby, you're sooooo very right..
I don’t have experience with escorts, but I would hope I would understand it’s a business arrangement if I did. Some of the blame on this case belongs with the escort. His non-response to the “I love you” comments, and the accepting of gifts, etc, indicate that he is leading the guy on. This is the difference between an escort and a hustler. This guy isn’t looking for a hustler and he isn’t looking for an escort, he is looking for love. Most likely unattainable love. He is looking for a May-December relationship. And that is a whole other can-of-worms.
Jervisdude That's what they do..Accept Gifts and donations..It's thr job..NEVER FALL FOR ONE.
you look nice;i see that in another clip your skulpture!nice man,onest ;love your videos;
DUDE I HOPE YOU'RE A LICENCED THERAPIST BY NOW!!!
Tragic.
Are very handsome men
Run for your life
Agree
Sex workers have one of two types of partners. The first is a sucker that's getting a long term con run on them. The other is a fairly standard relationship. With concerns for the workers safety, well being etc. Nothing to do with feeling cheated on. As they get it. It's work and mechanical.
Guys, what means a Escort? It's a man who is gay for pay? Why Escort?
Carlos Vasconcelos Escort can be a Woman.Mostly Women..Very rare u see Guys
Ayo!
💯 I was falling this girl.
What happened?
@@Alexanderthegreatjones at a Asian massage parlor I caught feelings for coco
@@jf8468 oh dam not coco! Hopefully feelings passed
"If you don't pay me, I won't spend time with you." Well I'm not being facetious, but I disagree. How is this different from many marriages out there (besides being a bit more honest about the economic exchange)? I'm sure if more married men became broke, divorce rates would go up, up, up.
Not to bash women or anything, (society doesn't let them earn the same as men even if they want to) but if these two are emotionally attached in the long-term, is it all that different from a marriage?
You are a cutie
If you are falling in love with an escort I have one answer GET A LIFE
Lmao 🤣🤣
I had an escort fall in love with me once and I was not prepared for that
what happened after bro how’s it going?
@@Frayicz21 wrestling muscle was what I was interested in
If you have not taken any therapy classes I would be shocked , because you are nailing it! I have been studying therapy for some time now and you are either schooled or a damn good natural. Psychology may be your calling bro!