THERAPIST REACTS to Billie Eilish - Hit Me Hard And Soft (FULL ALBUM REACTION!)

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    In this video, Psychotherapist Tom Stevens REACTS to Billie Eilish - Hit Me Hard And Soft (FULL ALBUM REACTION!) FOR THE FIRST TIME!
    THERAPIST REACTS to Billie Eilish - Hit Me Hard And Soft (FULL ALBUM REACTION!)
    #billieeilish #hitmehardandsoft
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    0:00 Intro
    0:58 Skinny
    9:30 Lunch (separate video)
    9:52 Chihiro
    20:48 Birds of a Feather
    27:42 Wildflower
    34:44 The Greatest
    42:31 L'amour De Ma Vie
    52:05 The Diner
    1:00:39 Bittersuite
    1:09:26 Blue
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  • @shawtymcshort-ll8bc
    @shawtymcshort-ll8bc Před 15 dny +261

    I love this guy! He’s so respectful of peoples situations

  • @heartbreakhotel4278
    @heartbreakhotel4278 Před 15 dny +121

    to hear a man talk about his wife that way was so sweet almost made me wanna cry😭💕💕

  • @simgenurcankr7231
    @simgenurcankr7231 Před 15 dny +157

    It was so sweet of you to talk about your wife. Always be happy. 🤍

    • @user-zd9wc1bw1o
      @user-zd9wc1bw1o Před 15 dny +2

      Billie eilish lesbian or not?

    • @simgenurcankr7231
      @simgenurcankr7231 Před 14 dny

      @@user-zd9wc1bw1o she is bisexuel

    • @LucyFletcher-zn5my
      @LucyFletcher-zn5my Před 14 dny

      @@user-zd9wc1bw1oshe’s bisexual. she likes men and women

    • @stellers_jay8023
      @stellers_jay8023 Před 14 dny

      @@user-zd9wc1bw1o Billie is bisexual

    • @antoeab
      @antoeab Před 14 dny +2

      @@user-zd9wc1bw1oallegedly bisexual but I think she said she didn’t want it to be labeled and just wanted to live her life happily, she does like men and women

  • @CrimsxnG
    @CrimsxnG Před 15 dny +133

    the reaction to birds of a feather had me crying😂 SHOUT OUT JILL

    • @420Mama01
      @420Mama01 Před 15 dny +6

      he’s so REAL for that🫶🏾😭

    • @LucyFletcher-zn5my
      @LucyFletcher-zn5my Před 14 dny +1

      I KNOW that was so cute

    • @YS-gn3qw
      @YS-gn3qw Před 13 dny +1

      Cried too lmao

    • @YFIOFtho
      @YFIOFtho Před 10 dny

      Same - so sweet! Jill's a lucky lady to have that kind of love! ❤️

  • @alexx6112
    @alexx6112 Před 15 dny +106

    she hates the color blue and she used to associate herself with it, for example her blue hair era (that people used to love). During that time she was at her lowest and even attempted to end her life. I feel like this album it’s a journey of self discover leading to the truth she always tried to run away from, that she’s true blue. The person she hated and was scared to be it’s actually her true self. In the first track “skinny” she says “ but the old me is still me and maybe the real me, and I think she’s pretty”, meaning that looking back now, she didn’t deserve all the hate she felt for herself… just because her true nature is being blue doesn’t mean she can’t be happy and move on! At least that’s my general interpretation. Anyway sorry if I made some spelling mistakes but English isn’t my first language ahaha. Amazing reaction as always, I wish you and your wife the best❤

    • @kenny4900
      @kenny4900 Před 15 dny +4

      😭😭😭 umm I’m actually sobbing reading this while listening to skinny. Sounds too relatable. Is her being born blue abt her having depression and being in a melancholy state? Her finally discovering who she is and trying new things is beautiful. Great interpretation. I hope to learn more about myself and change. I’m just now realizing how much I’ve hated myself and assume others have a negative view on me. I hope to be where Billie is. A better place. ❤❤❤

    • @alexx6112
      @alexx6112 Před 14 dny +3

      @@kenny4900 yep!! I relate a lot, I’ve always been a very pessimistic and sad person but that’s just who I am, and even tho I’m “true blue” I can still be happy and enjoy life. I loved this album so much, I’ve been her fan since 2017 and I basically grew up with her.. so watching her becoming this amazing person is really inspiring for me❤️. Have a nice day, and even tho I don’t know you, you sounds like a very nice and lovely person

    • @kenny4900
      @kenny4900 Před 13 dny +1

      @@alexx6112 😭 thats so sweet. And thank you. I’ll try not to assume how others view me so much. Now if you’ll excuse me, I’ll be twerking to Lunch 🤭😌

  • @LexiLouu-cj8sw
    @LexiLouu-cj8sw Před 15 dny +90

    Chihiro means thousand questions, wise questions, excellent, gentle, generous, and one thousand. So all of those questions that she was asking and the pondering really fit with the title. She is also representing the main character in Spirited Away (see other comments for the details ☺️)

    • @Umeroayaar
      @Umeroayaar Před 15 dny +10

      And chihiro is also the main character of spirited away who forgots her name in case of this song billie forgets her love

    • @LexiLouu-cj8sw
      @LexiLouu-cj8sw Před 14 dny +5

      @@Umeroayaar Yeahhh, I was going to add that but I knew that someone else would so I just gave the definition 😂😂☺️☺️

  • @lexarrecinos6414
    @lexarrecinos6414 Před 15 dny +52

    Gotta protect this guy at all costs 😫

  • @aububub1726
    @aububub1726 Před 15 dny +29

    'but when can i hear the next one' could be referring to demanding fans. they've reached the end of an entire album but they just want more. it must be exhausting

  • @mariokon
    @mariokon Před 15 dny +46

    the way he talks about her wife how cute 😭😭

  • @blake-i-guess
    @blake-i-guess Před 6 dny +7

    basically the number at the end of diner she essentially cuts out and says she’ll call back later but if you listen to the retro automatic voicemail response it says to press any key to get updates, and so billie has already sent two texts out one was a leak for her now released song which is the extended version of the 2nd half of “L’AOUR DE MA VIE.” (THE LOVE OF MY LIFE) anyways she’s been dropping little hints and it’s rumored billie will call when the (essentially confirmed by billie at this point) 2nd album.

  • @IL0V3P1NK__
    @IL0V3P1NK__ Před 13 dny +8

    The meaning of "WILDFLOWER" is actually about someone (or in this case, Billie) helping their friend get over a break up but then going and dating the person that broke up with their friend and feeling so guilty about it that you cannot continue dating, its actually really sad. 😭

  • @plasticbcdy
    @plasticbcdy Před 15 dny +34

    24:33 IM LAUGHING SO HARD AT THISSSS 😭😭😭😭

  • @c0nn1ee
    @c0nn1ee Před 15 dny +35

    I can just tell you are one amazing guy. your have such a kind aura and its so lovely to see someone so truly passionate about what he does. The way you speak about your wife is so beautiful and I truly wish you both a lifetime of happiness!!!!

  • @Thee.Official.Johnathan
    @Thee.Official.Johnathan Před 15 dny +27

    Diner-I remember seeing on the news that the stalker/intruder broke into Billies family‘s home and the cops were called to the house while he tried to leave but the cops were surrounding the home. what if that’s what this is about 🤔

    • @kiwicutiepievr
      @kiwicutiepievr Před 14 dny +1

      yes

    • @misiaczek-mi6oc
      @misiaczek-mi6oc Před 14 dny +2

      yes your right , diner is perspective of stoker she had

    • @hannahroyster
      @hannahroyster Před 14 dny +3

      It is! The diner is about Billie’s stalker’s POV, and UGHHH BILLIE’S MIND when she made this song though, what a genius!

    • @jellylicious1527
      @jellylicious1527 Před 9 dny +1

      anddd when you call the number in the end it’s Billie answering- she’s saying hello? hello suggesting that she doesn’t even know this number and this stalker who “calls her when they please”

  • @louist91art
    @louist91art Před 15 dny +22

    you talking about your wife on birds of a feather 😭😭

  • @katiedepue6272
    @katiedepue6272 Před 15 dny +16

    The song you were referencing during L’amour is Take on me by A-ha! Great song. Gotta love the 80s music!!! Absolutely loved your reaction to this

  • @h0neymoonisaliveandbreath1ng

    I HOPE YOU AND YOUR WIFE HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY

  • @janab.7037
    @janab.7037 Před 15 dny +16

    Chihiro is a movie character and the song is inspired by the storyline of that movie 🙈 'Genius’ (a lyrics website) always has great connotations for lyrics! Makes it easier to understand 😊

  • @Galactation
    @Galactation Před 14 dny +5

    I love your perspective man. Please keep going because you make the world a better place with these videos.

  • @lillm6874
    @lillm6874 Před 14 dny +5

    Great reaction👍
    I had so high expectations for this album, and she for sure didn’t disappoint😍😍❤️

  • @LemonKittyCat2.0
    @LemonKittyCat2.0 Před 15 dny +1

    Ugh I really appreciate your long videos❤️ you give such a good insight for each song, hope you keep doing them❤️❤️

  • @wissy0062
    @wissy0062 Před 15 dny +5

    Hi Stevens, I am subscribing I am loving your reactions and this one was truly on point. Thanks for analyzing it from your point of view 🫶🫶

  • @jonnazzz7219
    @jonnazzz7219 Před 15 dny +3

    First time watching a video of your channel, but I really enjoyed your input. All the best from Germany to you and everyone reading this!

  • @harryspeace6316
    @harryspeace6316 Před 15 dny +10

    I love what you said about Blue, really make me think ❤

  • @sabimse
    @sabimse Před 15 dny +16

    No matter how many times I listen to “The greatest” I keep crying. Back in October, I ended my 4 year relationship EXACTLY because I couldn’t and didn’t want to wait for change, when it was obvious it was never going to happen. I’m over the relationship and him, but I mourn and cry for the girl who got manipulated and frowned upon, from someone who supposedly loved her.🥲 I am so happy to be free, but I’m struggling a lot with the realizations I’ve come to, after the breakup. This song talks straight to my heart and soul, and will forever connect with me on a very personal level.🥲🥲

  • @anacaraus891
    @anacaraus891 Před 12 dny +3

    Very nice video, love to see more people speaking up about the courage that it takes to be authentic and Billie is all about that.
    I feel like CHIHIRO is one of these songs where she poured her heart out and adressed it to the person that she was dating at that time, Jesse Rutherford, the solist of The Neighbourhood. There are some songs(chihiro, wildflower, the greatest, bittersuite, blue) in the album that are very straightforward about this relationship because Billie has never divulged the identity of the person that she was dating in her past and she had a lot at stake making public her relationship with a 31 year old when she was barely 21. Also, CHIHIRO in Japanese means a thousand questions, and the whole song is full of questions adressed to him and to the situations in general i think...anyways, to see how she overcomes this whole situation in the eyes of the whole world and makes art out of it is just incredible, I am speechless and full of admiration really. She is so young and it's ok to be wrong and to loop on the same pattern as many times as it takes to realise some things and grow. I love her soul, I don't think I've ever seen an artist as authentic as she is.

  • @karend169
    @karend169 Před 14 dny +2

    You have such great insight. I appreciate your version of these songs.

  • @asshees_
    @asshees_ Před 14 dny +1

    just discovered yesterday your channel and I already love you, love your vibe and your reactions🫶🏼

  • @soma4727
    @soma4727 Před 15 dny +4

    I LOVE UR REACTIONS!!

  • @yeahwhaey
    @yeahwhaey Před 10 dny

    thank you for this video, for making me company in listening this wonderful album! loved this hour and a half

  • @ImV1v13nn3
    @ImV1v13nn3 Před 15 dny +8

    Your a great reacter! Love it.

  • @Doug00115
    @Doug00115 Před 14 dny +1

    Thank you for the reaction, it truly made me understand the album more, and wow the emotional roller coaster from these songs to Lunch had me sobbing and laughing😆

  • @MargieLeigh3
    @MargieLeigh3 Před 3 dny

    the way you talk about your wife is so incredibly beautiful. actually made me cry. shout out jill!

  • @eshkazaire1002
    @eshkazaire1002 Před 13 dny +1

    When you talked about the greatest about being like that for years and years. I just cried and cried cause I’m trying to get out of a situation like this. And I set this trap up for my self and I never have the guts to leave

  • @SkidRow2105
    @SkidRow2105 Před 14 dny +1

    Ι started crying when you said ''Thats how i feel about my wife'' on birds of a feather it was so beautifulll

  • @MiguelMikeLopez
    @MiguelMikeLopez Před 10 dny

    I enjoyed your reaction 😍 ❤. We need more pop music reactions

  • @Isa-zq4zj
    @Isa-zq4zj Před 15 dny

    I love ur reacts thank youuu!!!!

  • @miimiibuu
    @miimiibuu Před 14 dny

    LOVE your reactions!!!

  • @Vinsomer
    @Vinsomer Před 14 dny +2

    Your reaction to Birds of a Feather was so sweet

  • @Soupytimeee
    @Soupytimeee Před 13 dny

    Your reaction to birds of a feather is so sweet! I hope one day to find a love as strong as the love you and your wife share:)

  • @brooklynations
    @brooklynations Před 13 dny

    You are one of the most adorable people, I swear. And the way you talked about so correctly about "The Diner"... You're amazing.

  • @pugpugarts4034
    @pugpugarts4034 Před 15 dny +3

    React to Loyle Carner! Hes got so many stages of emotion in his albums!
    - Ain’t Nothin changed
    - You Dont Know
    - PolyFilla

  • @milesslavensky1104
    @milesslavensky1104 Před 7 dny

    You're literally so unintentinally funny i literally love you!!!!

  • @abrard1913
    @abrard1913 Před 15 dny

    man you're the best ceep doing the good work 🫡

  • @akaLids77
    @akaLids77 Před 14 dny +1

    ALBUM OF THE YEAR..released in May 🤘🏼😜🤘🏼

  • @ciandryl
    @ciandryl Před 7 dny +2

    when i look for billie eilish reaction, it's always gonna be: Ajay Deluxe, ashley, metri, all those dudes with their dads, and Reaction Therapy

    • @ddcakes7377
      @ddcakes7377 Před 6 dny +1

      This list is so real, especially the way you worded all the dudes with their dads. 😂

    • @ciandryl
      @ciandryl Před 6 dny

      @@ddcakes7377 yo, those guys aged 30 and above always give the best commentaries that makes you think about yourself. most of these young reactors are only after the beat of the song and not the essence of it

    • @Slunch78
      @Slunch78 Před dnem +1

      turning the tables stay my go to with dudes with their dads reactions. especially cause of both of their commentary and catching things

  • @BeatsbyTheBoy
    @BeatsbyTheBoy Před 14 dny +2

    “Who is this, let me talk to him”😂 lol @25:30

  • @jailynus3897
    @jailynus3897 Před 13 dny +1

    THE DEVASTATION IN HIS FACE WHEN VERSE 2 OF BIRDS OF A FEATHER PLAYED 😭😭💔 Shout out to Jill ❤️❤️

  • @Damianasclips
    @Damianasclips Před 3 dny

    Chihiro is a character that the song is based on (based on what I read about her interview)

  • @stefanie6338
    @stefanie6338 Před 14 dny

    I didnt really understand the second part of blue but thanks to you I get in now! And damn thats sad 🥹

  • @andrewmyers__
    @andrewmyers__ Před 11 dny +1

    the diner is talking about her stalker who broke into her house, its from the stalker's perspective

  • @stupidsminkle
    @stupidsminkle Před 12 dny +1

    "Now I'm depressed" that's the Billie I know haha

  • @kristybeutler5962
    @kristybeutler5962 Před 10 dny

    In birds of a feather she means that the other person doesn't understand how wonderful they are to her.

  • @rosaliajimenez5332
    @rosaliajimenez5332 Před 12 dny +3

    I love this reaction. Slowly making me consider going to therapy

  • @nomadine85
    @nomadine85 Před 13 dny

    Hahahaha taaaaake ooooooon meee now I can’t unhear it. I already heard Cher’s “believe” and now I also hear “Take on me” by A-ha. And that’s on the heel of a jazzy crooner first half. And it makes sense anyway. Like what?? So good.
    I also hear and Mel C’s “I turn to you” in parts of “Blue”.

  • @mouthbreether
    @mouthbreether Před 14 dny +1

    i think a thing all reactors need to keep in mind is that not every single word by an artist is autobiographical. there's often an amount of fiction. yes, you can draw a straight line from the artist to the art most of the time, but the characters and the scenes may not be 100% real. great reaction as always. you missed a few things that you would only notice if you were steeped in billie lore. no biggie.

  • @LegitLee
    @LegitLee Před 13 dny

    The only therapist i want nd need in my life

  • @SOAxZIPPER
    @SOAxZIPPER Před 14 dny

    Hey doc, you think you can do a video to the Benson Boone song in the Stars?

  • @kristineteall368
    @kristineteall368 Před 13 dny +1

    Take On Me was sang by A-ha.

  • @taweesaknummaxdot
    @taweesaknummaxdot Před 14 dny +1

    Kahoot! Beat FRRRRR

  • @Luisitoantonio_
    @Luisitoantonio_ Před 11 dny

    CZcamsr’s Zmoovey also thought of “take on me song” during transition on L’amour de ma vie 😂

  • @imaniprice2395
    @imaniprice2395 Před 14 dny

    My favorite 😊

  • @alexgeorge9533
    @alexgeorge9533 Před 10 dny

    the kahoot beat on the diner goes SOOOO HARD

  • @h0neymoonisaliveandbreath1ng

    I LOVW YOUU

  • @japjap3639
    @japjap3639 Před 10 dny

    Hii funfact the diner is about a stalker billie eilish had ! And he came to her house and everything kept sending letter and stuff and that's why :]

  • @MogammadrezaLendor-yz8gz
    @MogammadrezaLendor-yz8gz Před 13 dny +1

    We Need eternal sunshine album reaction ❤❤❤

  • @Sk8ForLifeKatrina
    @Sk8ForLifeKatrina Před dnem

    Came for lil peep n stayed for Billie Eilish. ✨ these are awesome

  • @qalmmusic
    @qalmmusic Před 2 dny

    49:23 you're thinking of A-ha!

  • @gilapotter8853
    @gilapotter8853 Před 14 dny

    green could refer to green light I think :)

  • @Cookieandkittens
    @Cookieandkittens Před 12 dny +2

    Tom can you please react to because i liked a boy by Sabrina carpenter

  • @King-Of-The-Demons
    @King-Of-The-Demons Před 13 dny

    Billie did actually have a stalker that broke into her childhood home in LA a year or two ago.

  • @user-ww9ox5rn8f
    @user-ww9ox5rn8f Před 12 dny

  • @armandohornberg1655
    @armandohornberg1655 Před 10 dny

    Birds of a feather
    The other person is just like…. Nah this can’t be real, this might be a bit ! It’s still a beautiful song !!! 🤍

  • @blakebaird5829
    @blakebaird5829 Před 15 dny +5

    BRO REALLY ANY OF HALSEYS ALBUMS ARE EXTREMELY PSYCHOLOGICAL! IHOPE YOU LISTEN TO SOME OF THEM ONE DAY!!

  • @herosuper2253
    @herosuper2253 Před 11 dny

    You should react to preachers daughter by Ethel Cain ❤

  • @SLAY-mur-mur
    @SLAY-mur-mur Před 14 dny

    49:38 A-HAAAAAA❤❤❤❤

  • @toastytoons1930
    @toastytoons1930 Před 11 dny

    you should react to space song

  • @nastehoibrahim14
    @nastehoibrahim14 Před 12 dny +1

    could you please react to Hozier Cherry wine

  • @_Pixelated
    @_Pixelated Před 12 dny

    The Diner was very Melanie Martinez. Even the title reminds me so much of her!

  • @ashaima147
    @ashaima147 Před 14 dny +1

    What he says about his wife:(((((

  • @onyxjohnsmith211
    @onyxjohnsmith211 Před 6 dny

    The Diner reminds me of Melanie Martinez

  • @kristybeutler5962
    @kristybeutler5962 Před 10 dny +1

    You're probably hungry. Get it? Cause you skipped lunch.

  • @idalina480
    @idalina480 Před 4 dny

    a-ha take on me

  • @EgeOzturk17
    @EgeOzturk17 Před 15 dny +1

    My favorite resction channel we love u you feels like our grandpa 🫶🏻

  • @alinasanchez140
    @alinasanchez140 Před 22 hodinami

    I was so looking forward to this album reaction, as a psychology student who is a huge Billie Eilish fan! But I had to stop the video and leave because you skipped a song 😢 "Lunch". Honestly can't respect an "album reaction" that skips tracks. Just wanted to give that feedback because this probably woukd have been an interesting channel for me to subscribe to as a psy student, but without the true respect given to a musical artist's entire given piece, I could never subscribe or want to look further into your reactions. ✌️

  • @amypearl9590
    @amypearl9590 Před 14 dny

    Skinny gives me Alicia Keys vibes.

  • @user-xc5yq4bb9p
    @user-xc5yq4bb9p Před 9 dny

    she should stop,marilia adamaki's black title lyrics 4 times he,her greatest 6th song in her album,all her albums he stole,her 6 until 2020,now ohter 2,she sued them,she should stop stealing marilia adamaki,she stole all hers,marilia sued them,finneas stop,return all awards back he stole them all with marilia's lyrics,law,she impersonates her clothes,hair,personality,but marilia talented,down to earth,nothing alike stop