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Purpose. What drives it, how does one discover it, and what’s it all for? Jay Shetty, purpose coach, former monk, and now best-selling author, is regarded as a world expert on such matters. In this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Jay Shetty answers these questions and many more as he takes us on a journey of discovering one’s own passion, strengths, and purpose. He shares his story of becoming a monk, the lessons he learned on dharma and zen, his equation for discovering purpose with passion, how to recognize and develop your true strengths, and how leaning into service leads to a life of peace and gratitude.
Check out Jay Shetty’s Book at: www.amazon.com/Think-Like-Mon...
SHOW NOTES:
Jay answers the question, “How close to encapsulating the notion of thinking like a monk can one get?” [1:04]
Jay defines the meaning of dharma and discusses his equation for discovering purpose with passion [2:24]
Passion through compassion; Jay discusses how pain can drive our passions [5:00]
Jay discusses job crafting and the notion, “It’s not part of my job, it’s how I see my job.” [7:59]
Seeking beauty; how to escape the “woe is me” mentality [10:25]
Jay shares how to recognize and develop your strengths; overcoming the ‘monkey mind’ [13:32]
Hard skills and soft skills; Jay discusses the difference and how to approach each one [18:15]
Peace and purpose; Jay discusses what it’s all for [19:28]
Connecting purpose and meaning to strength; Jay shares how monks tap into service [23:08]
The “Mother of Orphans;” Jay shares the inspiring story of Sindhutai Sapkal [25:50]
No longer a monk; Jay shares his story of seeking council and leaving the ashram [28:09]
Re-contextualizing reciprocity; Jay shares his story of service and giving to others [33:48]
Emptying oneself to seek zen; Jay shares the story of the ‘Overflowing Teacup’ [38:22]
Escaping the victim mentality; Jay discusses the pitfalls of not having a positive mindset [41:20]
Sight, scent, and sound; Jay defines the ‘3 S model’ and its importance [46:46]
Training your mind for presence; Building the ‘search for joy’ into your daily routine [54:35]
The power and practicality within Jay’s book, ‘Think Like a Monk’ [57:21]
QUOTES:
“It’s not part of my job, it’s how I see my job.” [8:18]
“The one way to know your strengths is to ask yourself, “What do you do that you feel the most confident doing?”” [15:55]
“There’s nothing gained out of feeling sorry for yourself.” [43:48]
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WEBSITE: jayshetty.me
BOOK: thinklikeamonkbook.com
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“We suffer more often in imagination than in reality”
― Seneca
Very well said.
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Imagination is Reality
Thank you
Thanks for the call out we should all fact check everything lol or we could just watch your channel lol
"Life is about SELF and SERVICE."
"We're born to help others, and if we can't help them, at least don't hurt them."
Very powerful.
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This is not new information. Every spiritual teaching says this.
Random but what u reading now?
It’s funny you mentioned post-mortem care. To some it may seem weird or gross. As a nurse, it’s the last act of compassion, care and kindness I can give this person as they leave my care. 💕
“You cannot save people, you can just love them.”
- Anaïs Nin
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
― Marcus Aurelius
@@brenomatheus1802 I personally could care less. I take his message and apply it, if it works that is all that matters...
@@brooklynn52dee38 the thing that he most talk about is authenticity . I doubt that you don't care .
@@brenomatheus1802 Ok!
Brooklynn52 Dee I love his messages too but some of the messages are not his (from other people, but falsely made out to be his.) So I guess I love his and other people’s messages lol.
@@a.m.7286 Thanks for that! I had no idea. This is the first time I have ever listened to him. I guess I love his and other people's messages too then!! Lol!
This makes perfect sense ! Now in my early 50's I have found my passion and have started training to be a professional counsellor. I only found this through compassion, through extreme trauma that I had experienced.
Real life get in your head
That experiment with the hospital cleaners reminded me of my experience of being a Gym Janitor in multiple locations (w/ Front Desk). I was probably the happiest gym janitor there because I was literally in a healthy environment where people were coming to better themselves and I enjoyed the fact that I could support that. And I made the choice that if I was to do janitorial work it would be at a gym for that reason. Not my purpose or passion at all (I’m a 3-Headed Artist and Digital Advertiser), but it definitely made my work more enjoyable. It’s actually when I first listened to Tom in 2017 via podcast while cleaning!
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Oh my Goodness, this is one of the most powerful podcasts,EVER!
I love you guys,!❤❤
Thank you, Tom & Jay
ROCKON
two of my favourite motivational people sitting together makes this day even more special. thank you! 🙏🏼🦋💕
Aren't they AMAZING. I love this one.
I was going to say the same thing!! Love these guys!
Jay Shetty steals quotes from everyone
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Absolutely. Wonderful people!
Gotta love when two of your favourite men are having a conversation
exactly yeppp! 🙏🏼🦋💕
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Absolutely true.❤
@@anamikakaushik3920 :)
I really love how Jay spoke about Tom at the end. The amazing content he & his team put out is absolutely life changing & inspirational & it's rare to hear them get any credit. So thanks Tom. Thanks IT crew. I love & appreciate you guys so much ♥
Something about these two in conversation, feels so natural.
I really love the genuine praise Jay gives to Tom for the effort he puts into every interview. It really shows but the fact that Jay takes the time to explicitly share this with us shows how much he appreciates the effort. I remember a quote from Tom that he made in his last interview with Jay, stating: "I love giving compliments when I think they are true, but more importantly, I want to compliment the things I want to reinforce in somebody." What is this gesture from Jay, if it's not reinforcing Tom effort!
Thank you for answering your calling. May Creator keep you and Lisa in our light for a long, long time.
Watching these in the first few minutes just made me feel so alive. Their energy & respect. Love, love, love.
POWERFUL. I don't know if you will ever see this comment, but i have been watching IT for four years consistently and your interviews saved me from a dark place. Thank you for creating this platform Tom. God bless your work, and much love from Kenya! Hopefully one day you can visit and I will host the event.
We are lucky that we have Tom as an interviewer. I have only been recently viewing your vids, but am always so happy to see in every case you have read the book/followed the person/have a deep understanding of the person and their beliefs, which both makes your questions insightful and directive, but also ensures we the viewer get a deeper and perhaps more accurate summation of the person/book/ideoogy that the vids is about. So thanks Tom for being you.
Lewis Howes is great too, same as Tom, great interviewer.
" Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them at least don't hurt them" by Holiness the Dalai lama. 🙏🙏🙏
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I do that kinda work he speak of 8:00 at the hospital... And I feel honored and fulfilled to have things cleaned for the next patient. I love cleaning
I’ve missed this. Realized how much we need face to face interviews
Jay provide so much inspiration to become a better person.
Happy to know Jay Shetty has recognised Sindhu Taai Sapkal's Work.
Her story is really an inspiration for many people who are pinned down by their relatives, friends and families.
I am from Pune, India and Sindhu Taai Sapkal has her Orphanage in Pune. I have done service in that orphanage.
Can you tell me what the name of the book is?
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So happy you’re back. Need to watch these, not the news. Such a big help this morning!
On repeat for the next few days to let the wisdom sink in. Thank you Tom & Jay! Can not wait to get the book
Attitude (+) Positive Mindset (=) lifelong SUCCESS. Let's DO THIS!!!!
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'Cause the players gonna play, the haters gonna hate, Im just gonna shake it off'
- Jay Shetty
I heard that from Taylor Swift 👀
So....perhaps Jay heard it from Swift and liked it enough to repeat...So? Or maybe she heard it from him. Maybe both of them heard it or read it from someone else. And, so...?
@Karan K lmao looks like he's a fan
Where do I begin? You both are the true essence of love, of purpose and curiosities. Ty for showing us what you both are truly made of. Love love love 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Really happy to have you back Tom Bilyeu, best wishes for the rest of the year, your content has transformed my life, especially your notion of "skills have utility".
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After this amazing interview, I can say, with my hand on my heart, that I am exactly where I need to be.
Loved this episode, back in the studio. Looking forward to more.
Be well Tom and Impact Theory Team.
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Yes, great to hear this. Just receive email alert the hard cover book has arrived... so excited. THANK YOU Impact Theory, Thank Mr Jay Shetty. Love, peace & service to you both! xo
I am so happy because you are back in the studio
YASSSSS!!!!
Im joinin 🧤
Me too man 😃🙌🏻
Yes it’s truly fantastic
I can't help but be amazed by Jay Shetty's wisdom. He's like the father I never had. He will be passing a great legacy & he will be remembered for ages.
Thank you for this!! I just got out of a deep conversation with a good friend about the struggle of ”finding my passion” and I searched for Jay Shetty for some reason... Picked this video randomly and BOOM explained everything so well and I was open to hear the message.. Thank you!
What an amazing interview and episode. Absolutely love it. Learned so much that I can actually implement in my daily life!! Thank you
I saw this video pop up in my feed and when I saw it was just recently uploaded I literally squealed! I’m so glad your back in the studio and OMG this episode was PERFECT! Definitely getting the book and watching this one multiple times! Love you both Tom and Jay! Thank you for your service!
Two of my favourite self-help leaders and motivational speakers in the same spot. Can't wait to dive deep into his book and get inspired by his wisdom thoughts and meaningful preaches. I've been dealing with a lot of struggles lately so hopefully this book will open my mind to greater possibilities.
Best
Moment for me
50:15 Start your day with a quote that u love, a picture u love, a piece of work that inspires you, first thing u see make it so close and connected to your purpose
Jay top quotes: I am not my body, I am exactly where I need to be
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Good Moments
04:40 Step 1: What are you curious about? Go take a course on that. Then you are closer to finding your passion(s)
28:15 The answer is service. Whatever you have going on, service is the answer.
37:00 circle of love/ circle of hate
Thank you for taking the time out to write this. Appreciate the effort
@@priyankachowdary You are very welcome. 28:15 and 50:15 are really good points.
Jay this was a phenomenal interview and without listening to the end of the interview I purchased the book. In addition a wonderful tribute to Tom by Jay at the end - absolutely amazing!!! In a time of severe depression, anxiety and identity crisis this was exactly what I needed - THANK YOU!!
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I have been waiting for two years for you to write a book Jay. I am super excited to finally read it & Thank you Tom for going back to the studio & bring back Jay Shetty! keep kicking ass gentlemen.
Dharma as a natural induvidual purpose of one's life was one of the greatest lessons I learnt from this podcast❤
Thank you for bringing him back on the show, the first episode with him changed my life
Minute 15 makes so much sense!! Never thought about it and the effect that has in us growing up
this one had soooo much nuggets, but the part where we go to training the mind to be present while washing the dishes, is goldddddddd i love it, excellent work Tom and all his guests.
Even if we have no money, we can still give. Kindness, empathy, compassion do not require money.
Thankyou so much Jay! You have addressed all the problems that we face as humans. The ups and downs.
One of the best interviews! I love that he highlights accepting and healing your emotions. One of the most challenging tasks we have as humans is to understand why we are making the choices we are in our lives. Thank you Jay for this!
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What a blessing it is to have two amazing, talented and inspirational people like Tom and Jay. Thank you both for sharing your wisdom with the world!
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This is such a beautiful insightful conversation.! As acknowledged by Jay himself, this has happened because of your insightful interviewing skills Tom Bilueau! Thhank you so much!
46:45 is my epiphany 💜 💕 💓 💗 walked while listening, back on track. Love this guy!
Simply love this two guys. Thank you for everything. Already read Jay's book. It was a beautiful journey which I will repeat everytime I need more guidance.
So true what Jay said about Tom in the end, I have seem some other interviewers that talked with jay about the book and the content doesn't even compare to the one you get from here! good job Tom, thanks for bringing us quality content
What's Jay said at last min about you Tom - was so great to hear ❤️. Amazing man, you are an inspiration 🙏
Tom, amazing interview. Jay summarized what you bring to us. Thanks a lot. You are making a huge difference!!!
I thank you Jay and Tom from bottom of my heart for this conversation ❤️. Picked some valuable pieces of wisdom. Special thanks to you Tom for your amazing observation skills and attention to details about the work of your guest that enables you to ask such meaningful questions 😊.
2 minutes in and I already know it's going to be great!
He's right on, you are amazing Tom!!!
I'm looking forward to this young georgous guy's book! Great interview 🙏
Jay has copied EVERYTHING from others. He is literally just a plagiarist.
Amazing interview with Jay Shetty, I love the way you explain and clarify every point in basic form. World will be a better place if we all learn to lead our life with service. Thank you Jay for putting out this message in a profound way.
Well said!
Above & beyond! Grateful 4 U ! Thank U!
Tom Bilyeu is an amazing listener.
Amazing interview and information! So many things were explained that helped me put more clarity to messages I often share. This was EVERYTHING!!! I feel blessed!I’m heading over to Audible NOW!!!!
I’m so in love with this interview. Beautiful understanding of life! ❤️
Blessings 🙌🙌 Tom blessings
You deserve every ounce of success you're having due to hard relentless work you put into what you do
Yaaassss so excited love to see a guest go back with new insight especially shetty just bought his book , I'd buy yours and Lisa 's too Bilyeu !!!
Service is a part of your daily routine... Your gift is given to you to be in service to others.
Thank you both for this interview! 🤍✊🏾
So powerful!! He's so wise. :)
Whew! Sooo many jewels dropped here.. thank you brothers. Gotta rewatch this one several times..
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You are great!!! Amazing life lessons from Jay, amazing questions and statements from Tom!!! Thank you both, so much!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️
thank you jay for highlighting the work tom does as an interviewer to prepare for an interview. I’ve been watching IT for a while and I have noticed this in every interview, really shows a level of respect that other interviewers don’t always provide.
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I really am washing the dish and listening to this podcast...
I really needed this. Thank You so much Tom and Jay for such a good self-improvement session. I'm really Gratefeul to have come to this channel. It's motivating and so engrossing at the same time.
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Thank you for the amazing video. I never realized how much our mindset guides our lifes that once I started implementing those shifts in mindset to every day life with mma is how im able to live my life more freely. Thank you for this guide!!!
Empathy is trying to understand but compassion is trying to understand and trying to help, the idea is yeah we’re here but we’re here together
Thank you Jay for your beautiful message and thoughts. I feel sorry for that poor girl. God bless her 🙏❤️❤️
Tom for real! Great call getting back in the studio. It worked so great a while back for a reason! Thanks for staying on that grind and not giving up man 🙏
Wow, what a great way to describe being in alignment! Not only does it explain the true essence of what he means, but it really make you think inwardly about how we individually perceive alignment.
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@58:49 - I listened to the whole interview and this right here speaks volumes about Tom!
Fantastic interview! Jay has always got something wise to say and... I love that he practices what he preaches. His compliment at the end of the interview beautifully captured the talent that Tom Billyeu brings to each conversation. Pausing to acknowledge this before the moment got away was priceless!
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@@brenomatheus1802 Thanks for the video. I had no idea... Tom does an incredible job when he interviews a guest, so I was glad to see someone give him a compliment.
I love the dinamic you both share. The energy shines through!
Thank you for making me aware of my monkey mindset :)
Jay almost made me cry with his heartfelt words! You both deserve the praise!
So happy to see the studio again. The zoom calls were not doing it for me... and like old time I have to pause the vid to go get the book you are speaking about. Jay Shetty is the man
Thank you @jayshetty and @Tombilyeu
Mindset is pretty much ALL the really matter and meditation helps you soo much with it.
My phone is filled with these two men’s podcasts audio to listen while traveling to work and while working. Now added this after watching whole video completely. Super excited to read the book 📚 though
This is the best thing I have heard. I really needed it. Thank you, thank you❤️
Awesome interview and I 1000% agree with what Jay said about Tom at the end. You guys are both incredible and inspiring!! Keep up the awesome work! Loving the book so far too!
Wow !! two of your conversation..too good!! .. worth listening til the end😇 Thank you Jay and Tom 🥰🥰
Best show, so many new people are discovered and it always keeps me thirsting for more knowledge
Love it! So much wisdom from Jay. Greatful that it's back in the studio again 🙏🏼
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I love it. Especially the part when Jay Shetty brings up how the there are hospital nurses and cleaners who hate their jobs and complain about it and there is also hospital nurses and cleaners who love the idea to be saving lives, 1 nurse said I am happy to be a healer, I get to heal people.
This was so deep. Thank you for this Tom Bilyeu.
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Tom's questions are spot on!! Only a great listener and someone with vast knowledge can ask such apt questions... Ps: just ordered the book on amazon😍
Awww that’s so nice how Jay compliments Tom at the end 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 great interview! My next book I’m reading 😍
Jay and Tom are so wise. I thoroughly enjoyed this profound interview
I love his advice! so powerful, thank you!
I'm going to liek this video before watching, it just can't be anything but amazing!
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Andreas Rydell - Vlogs & Self Development haha same!! Jay and Tom never disappoint
Such great wisdom, Looking forward for your book getting delivered! ❤️ Jay & Lewis, now Jay & Tom, such great interviews!!!
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Me too!! I'm so excited. Such good stuff. :)
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I really love the way you both are talking and I consider u my inspiration
I was just about to look up Jay Shetty and this was the first thing that appeared when I opened CZcams.
watch his motivational videos. You will be a different person
Sweet, there is always more to gain on you life path, and reminders to heed.
Thank you 🙂
Thank you! Thank you, Jay🙏🏽💙
Absolutely great interview. Love the dynamic between you two.
Great interview. Loved the ending bits. That was beautiful actually.
The best episode! Two powerhouses coming together and sharing so much goodness and practical tips on life!! 😍😍
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This is so on point with the idea that what breaks your heart breaks gods heart