It's a disease in society, the bigger city the worse it gets. People being afraid of eachother "omg it's a killer", "omg it's a rapist", "omg he/she must be X". I come from a small town in Sweden and it's normal to say hi and have a small conversation with people you don't know. I then went to live in Paris with my fiancé and it was just turning me into this horrible person that I didn't want to be. I was getting scared of everyone because that's how everyone were treating eachother. Keep distance, don't talk, don't smile, don't have eye contact. I had to move back for my personality not to be suffocated. Strangers are scary, don't be one.
Erik Lucidor i just moved here (just and just 2 and a half years ago, comming from the country side and small city/village too) i used to smile to people a lot more, now i just dont, i used to sometimes talk to people on the subway, now i dont. It feels like im slowly becomming more and more of this robot i dont want to be, just like you. Im trying to stay out of it but its hard, hate being a stranger and this video hits too close to home. Power and love to all of you out there
And girls too, believe it or not. We're just the same. Which is why we never make the first move. He'll laugh at us, he'll push us out of the way, he'll give us a weird look and walk away, he'll reject us. We're terrified too.
@@williamafton3137 The funny thing is dudes wouldn't mind chicks asking them out, and I'm sure a lot of chicks wouldn't mind either. Like recently I was walking through a shopping mall, and on the outside is this cafe. There was this table where two hot chicks sat at and one gave me this look like she found me attractive. I immediately got nervous lol. I walked past a few times. But you can only do the 'silent and mysterious' act so long before it becomes creepy. And it is an act, because I wanted to talk to her but didn't because straight up I'm a pussy sometimes. Gotta take action.
@@williamafton3137 ... You are correct, and your fears are valid. However, you are not in danger of a man you find attractive calling the cops on you based on your approach. Where men who approach an attractive woman are at risk of that wan not only rejecting them as a potential partner but actually calling the cops for "sexual harassment". So while I do genuinely feel for women in this... You are the class right now with legal protection... So you are the logical initiators.
This video encapsulates pain of seeing a woman you like and allowing fear to cripple you. It's why I started my journey as a dating coach... and I hope it motivates everyone to take more chances and live life more fully! Enjoy and PLEASE SHARE! ;)
No, they said don't catcall and harass women. There's a difference. Ya'll won't be accused of harassing if you don't harass someone. Crazy how that works out.
@@yallknowwhoiam7036 Simply saying hi to someone isn't fucking harassment dumbass, quit being so dense and quit acting like that's a wide spread view just so you can generalize all women and feminists as irrational. Never once did the Gillette commercial say not to approach women, so pull your head out of your ass and quit playing the victim.
@@yallknowwhoiam7036 Yep agreed. Toxic third wave feminism has made it hard to tell if it is safe to greet a woman without her yelling rape. Cant even say hi anymore, all thanks to this toxic feminist movement.
This gives me another perspective of what this song means. I always saw it as the guy was actually a creep, but now I see that it can be his interpretation of himself due to his own low self-esteem.
Yea, he made the song Creep because Yorke had a long crush on girl but he was afraid of approaching her due to his low self esteem and doubting himself.
Absolutely. As someone with stupidly low (semi suicidal in past years of my life) low self-esteem it's unreal how greatly it can effect my thought process. Even to this day, I still feel like an imposter, or just a complete coward, and failure in life, even though I'm trying and in some ways improving or doing well. Nothing about this is really beneficial so I'm always trying to work on it but again it's just unreal how powerful self-hate can be. I wouldn't want to treat anyone else the way I treat myself.
Watched this so many times... every time it blows me away. Such a powerful reminder how close we are to success if we can just ignore the fear and take a risk.
of course not, this video is a metaphor. about what could happen if you take a risk... which is what i teach during my social freedom training. i see guys have experiences like this often, they might get rejected 20 times before it happens but it's worth it!
+Liam McRae Rants Glad you liked it too bud! Just Think, That sexy address was in the apartment just a few days after you'd left.... probably a good thing :P
Once I was at a public place sitting in a bench and at the next bench there was a girl which I started flirting to and she smiled, the moment I decided to go talk to her she stood up and left, after that I walked to the bus stop to go home and there she was standing with a guy that was evidently her boyfriend...
This is the most powerful video I've seen in a while. It really made clear the struggles that so many of us have. I cried like baby. Now it's time to be a man.
I actually flirted with a woman at the bus stop today, I usually never do. It might have been because I was inspired by this video ( It was definitely because I was inspired by this video)
Watching Arthur put the finishing touches to this at my place, watched over his shoulder multiple times and the mix of cringe, pathos, and the perfect way it encapsulates most men's struggle was heart wrenching everytime. If this doesn't wake you up, you may as well become a eunech - James
+The Natural Lifestyles Hi Natural Lifestyles! Do you guys all live over in Budapest? I think I recognize the centrum wheel ^^ Going to try some Day Game for the first time this Christmas hopefully :)
@@datmexboi2121 if a woman looks at you with these eyes then she wants something from you, it's your decision but woman don't look just like that, if you feel crackling go ahead what can happen besides getting rejected, she will not slap you, you can only win
Gabe Sarria I’m confident and I’m not shy or anxious, I just don’t trust people that will probably Betray (I’m not only talking about cheating and it’s even about friendship)
Gabe Sarria no, don’t put your hands up for losing those mental battles. Use your energy to become you person you want to be rather than run away and joke about your issues
This was powerful. Everytime he was keeping himself from possible happiness cause he was scared of rejection. Instead of playing to win he was playing not to lose!
@Analyzing Male Slavery Bro you're just taking the MGTOW stuff too far. There is a place for it and certainly if you see a feminist then fucking RUN, but not all women are that way.
*Creed Diskenth* , everybody does , my gf is chinese though .. so in japan i think the people are even more introverted and have even more fear than westerners , i think making a re-recording with japanese people for the japanese market would be feasable idea.
+Nilton Fernandes the original is from Radiohead, they won't be very similar but if you like this i would reckon you like other songs from Radiohead to, and if you do you would also like pink Floyd.
Halfway through I just started crying. Fuck! I don't know how and why exactly, but this is reality for me. Facing this everyday is a torture. So many opportunities I keep missing, for that mental film where I just keep losing! Thanks for making this amazing video. A reminder for what could happen. Thanks Sasha. Thanks a lot.
Painfully accurate. Just the other day I was at a pizza place. Simply asked a girl if she "was ordering". She gave me such a stink eye xD. She was on her phone. But still. I just asked her a question. Like I interrupted her Instagram session. Big deal. So it is true. Not everyone will appreciate someone else interacting with them. I honestly don't care. I could talk to anyone. An old man/lady, to a construction worker etc. But some women have their guard up so high. I completely understand. But is it so hard to just tell me "no. Go ahead"? Lol
Coming from a woman, dont stop doing what you are doing! As long as youre not harassing anyone, then you’re fine. A lot of women nowadays have sticks up their asses and cant manage to be polite. Asking a question doesn’t deserve a stink eye. However, not all women do this and not all are pricks. Dont change :)
Russian Bot Ulf I don't think you've seen Oscar rewarded shorts before. They're pretty damn good and heartfelt in a little time. Ex: Watch The stutterer(different theme, but the end goal is similar).
+Arthur Moore A brilliant piece of art and a great choice for the girl. Not only is she drop dead gorgeous (them eyes!), but she epitomizes the type of girl almost every guy wants but is too afraid to approach; the beautiful yet sweet, shy and innocent type of girl who remains humble and grounded despite her amazing looks. Great job all round. I'll definitely come back to this video a lot as motivation to continue PUA and remember why I'm doing it.
*i'm Actually Cried after i watched this Video Because it Descrive my Sutiation Letrally and i'm 22 years old and still Single because of My Fears From Rejection and i really got Rejected By at least 4 Girls who i loved and sorry for my Terrible English*
So good. Almost made me cry man. I'm married with three children, two of them boys, and I can still totally appreciate the fear of many boys and men today when trying to approach women. Even just to say hello.
Then it's your job to teach them Social Freedom so they don't have those struggles! It's important for your daughter too so she can stand up for herself. Get in touch with us if you think you'd like a hand with that. Many parents who take our courses report sharing what they've learned with their children.
@@AlexanderLasarev I will, thank you for the offer! My wife and I are on the same page when it comes to teaching our boys they will become good men. Boys need healthy outlets built for their young minds, even while they are young. My oldest son is 9, my middle son is 7 and my daughter is 3. I'll chat with my wife about looking further into your coaching :) love your videos.
Just saw this video something about 5 Times .... THIS IS THAT I MADE IN 18 YEARS ... It's incredibile how this video is deep ... Just touched my soul ... I think that man is really man that we need to listen... Look him.. So confident... We are that man guys... That is the man that we will become!!!! Guys if you want win you need go OUT YOUR COMFORT ZONE!!! Just focus guys!!! AND LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN!!! Thanks for this video Sasha ... I'm crying
I think this video just changed my life. No kidding. I've been struggling with a break up since August and dealing with depression this past year. My issues goes beyond the classical male-female relationship. I know I'm a nice and cool person. But I just feel really held back by my flaws. I let them rule over my life, and sometimes I feel like I'm afraid to move on and change the very things I know I have to change. But that was until know. Only I have the power to put my life on track, to face the world and fight for everything that I want. Thank you Sasha, for real. Your video had a much more powerful message than you've ever imagined. You might just had saved a life with this. You deserve to be in the most successful place in the world. And me too. I guess I'll just have to meet you there now.
Wow it’s been 7 years since I first found this video.. can’t believe it ! Sasha is in a different stage of his life now and so am I. But thank god I found day game as it saved my life. However I need to go back to not exactly day game but life improvement in general as I’m finding myself identifying old traits and things that need to be bettered. Thank you again Sasha for your inspiration and life changing positivity that you have brought onto hundred if not thousands of people on this earth. 🙏
This film hits very close at heart. It is more than just about the fear about approaching someone, it is about doing something that your thoughts keep you from doing out of fear, fear of failure, fear of disapproval, fear of judgement. The greatest films are made on the most basic of human emotions, and they do not need A grade cameras, equipment or VFX to be made. What one needs is the will to make it and the heart to put it out there. i thank you for making and sharing this film. Hope you get to read this after 3 or so years :)
and the thing is that everyone is going somewhere so you can try to talk with a girl at bus stop, but be sure that she is entering the bus with or without you.
Woow! Just had the chance to see this... :) This is your biggest move so far Sasha, which I'm sure is gonna change the way people look at this community. Arthur, what you did here with this video is just beyond imagination. The well deserved fame is coming for you, too! :)) Keep it up guys! I LOVE what you do!!!
+ElEternoPoetaLuis Thank you, but it's not only Technical. This film was in my mind a year before it came out. I've seen it in my mind as soon as I heard this song. I was lucky enough to have Sasha fully trust me to go ahead with this idea.
Arthur Moore Don't get me wrong. I like everything about the film: The message, the cinematography, the location, the actors, etc. I just meant that the film is beautiful to look at. It's great that you finally made the film after having the idea in your mind for a year.
I watched this video when it first came out and I found it emotional watching it. I watched it again today and it had the same effect on me, I felt tearful. Sasha you are right man, it really encapsulates fear and approach anxiety, and interesting how you have reflections and viewpoints showing different scenarios, like our brain playing a video, normally a negative one of don't daytime approach (well that's mine). Arthur that was really well done man and Sasha, cheers brother.....
omg i been holding back tears until the end when the music ripped me to shreds. especially since only yesterday i was talking to my mentors about exactly the topics brought about in this video. i have the exact same self messaging concept, self talk and view. this was really hard for me to watch. but im glad i did. thank you to @sasha the genius who made this.
Wow man this video was great.. I'm sitting here like damn that is me every fucking day! One thing I noticed when girls look at me like this and I don't speak to them is that most aren't thinking 'wow this guy is a bitch.' A lot of girls are actually thinking 'what's wrong with me, why won't he talk to me?' I can see it in their face and it honestly hurts. So, men, don't leave women hanging like this.. At the very least make acquaintance with them. I'm telling myself this as I tell you. Don't make someone else feel like shit because of your own fear.
Wow! That's beautiful, Sasha! It brought tears to my eyes as I connected with those images of rejection and heart-break. I can see that I'm not the insecure and timid person that I was before, but there's still a momentum or weight from those years that can still grip me and keep me from taking action.
@@disparuetderetour5230 yeah, you're right. At the end of the day it's scary going up to a stranger you have interest in, whether you're a man or a woman. And women have bestowed upon us that great "privilege" of having to initiate the conversation while trying to look not creepy.
@@kaitheguy7832 Yep. When they do the same, they are even more creepy and they are so self conscious, they know it and want us to bear the blame for them.
The Golden Rule: BE BOLD You will get your feelings hurt, Your ❤️ broken, Rejected. And if you're lucky, you will find love. Every day is a rodeo little brothers. Cowboy up. You'll be happy you did when you're an old man.
I´ve watched this so many times... every time it makes me feel hope! I makes me feel we can conquer ower fears. The first step is everything. everything else comes naturally. Excelent video!
That's my first 2 years of day game right there. I barely approached no girl and when I was out, at times I did dream about a girl approaching me which never happened. This video clearly shows what goes on in the mind about an approach anxiety.
Really beautiful on so many levels. I know the feeling of going from loving myself to feeling EXACTLY like this guy here... Back and forth, when things weren't going right in my life. But that era of self-doubt is about to be over for good! :-)
For me, this isn’t just applied for a person you’re physically attracted to, but anyone that seems to be a nice or interesting person that you might cross paths with. This is a very disgusting and awful feeling, to want to sit and have a conversation and build a relationship/bond with a stranger that can last forever, but then doubt enters your thoughts, ( he’ll turn out to be boring, maybe she’s clingy, what if he’s a creep, it’ll be too awkward, what if i stutter, what if he/she has girlfriend/boyfriend ) all these thoughts that just bring you down, making you think less of yourself and others.
That's just such a beautiful piece of art. Amazing that there are no words needed, so everybody can understand it, no matter which language they speak. Love it.
This video makes me feel the most. I actually feel sensations in my body and really pronounced breathing apart from shedding a few tears, guess it really resonates with the internal struggle we men have to go through to find/free ourselves.
I wish all humans a good life whatever that means to every single individual but i guess we can all agree that we like love and love to love receiving it and giving it
I still remember 7 years back when I first watched this video. Till now this is the single most powerful video in the pickup community that accurately sums up what goes into a young man's mind when he enters this phase of life. Watching it now still took me back in those times.
This video has been up for years and I still watch it. It really captures the fear that we as man have. Even the men who really think there hopeless in attracting a woman. They know there lying to themselves because we've all experienced countless opportunities when we walk outside our door and make eye contact with a woman who is inviting us to approach, who shows her interest in us and it's one of the most haunting feelings when we succumb to the fear and don't approach her. We are more Amazing than the lies and false identities we give ourselves. Thank You Sasha Daygame!!!
*ART* That's the only word that came to my mind when I saw it. SO much compiled only in 5 minutes. Beautiful script, concise and has that suiting audio to it too!
Man, this music gets me everytime. Amazing video, my eyes watered. Thank you Sasha, Arthur and everyone involved. This most definitely going to help a lot of men. Thanks again. Love it! Peace y'all.
Man this struck a nerve.....I really screwed up so many opportunities behaving like this guy. This has happened to me so many times with really beautiful, seemingly sweet and lovely girl's. I always seem to think that women hate guys in general and dislike us more when we approach🤣. Great video spreading the love👍
this is an amazing video I love it wonderful so are you the dating coach that's why you put a video like this so you can help others for dating just asking
This whole stuff is just kick ass man....the way you have given the message is on another level. Really i cant describe in words... would love to see more from you like this and i am sure you would bring the best. Peace and Love.
Dear Sasha or who ever may read this. I have watched this video several years ago when I was 16 and had suppressed social anxiety and I didn't really understand it but I liked it and re-watchd it a few times :) today it popped back in my feed at a time were I'm a dating coach and helped tens of guys overcome their approach anxiety and proud to say i became one of the most advanced guys at this field in my country and my age
Hey, a day or two ago you guys hit the 9gagTV channel, I was hella surprised to actually see you on my news feed on facebook. You're going a bit more mainstream, and reaching out to more and more people out there with this great video video! :) Keep up the good work, and see you at the online course on 18th!
really nice video... couldn't help to notice that the actor and actress both have very beautiful blue eyes and Sashas hair looks pretty fabulous here (not that it doesn't in the other, I just don't like the style too much). Being currently in a state of depression and socially almost completely withdrawn, that gave me a little shimmer of hope, thanks for what you are doing sasha !
is that jesus as his wingman?
It must be. This video is superb
Jesus is the way, the truth, and the light
Looks more like jason momoa
2 Timothy 1:7 - "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
sasha daygame
It's a disease in society, the bigger city the worse it gets. People being afraid of eachother "omg it's a killer", "omg it's a rapist", "omg he/she must be X".
I come from a small town in Sweden and it's normal to say hi and have a small conversation with people you don't know. I then went to live in Paris with my fiancé and it was just turning me into this horrible person that I didn't want to be. I was getting scared of everyone because that's how everyone were treating eachother. Keep distance, don't talk, don't smile, don't have eye contact. I had to move back for my personality not to be suffocated. Strangers are scary, don't be one.
Sharatain X I thought Sweden was worse , more asocial
Sharatain X,
It's called "alienation". Marx, for example, described it, but not only him.
It's every city, cause cities attract the worst kind off people, and the worst kind shapes the city.
What is human interaction without trust?
"Strangers are scary, don't be one" wow, that's really powerful. That sentence alone makes me want to get to know more people
Erik Lucidor i just moved here (just and just 2 and a half years ago, comming from the country side and small city/village too) i used to smile to people a lot more, now i just dont, i used to sometimes talk to people on the subway, now i dont. It feels like im slowly becomming more and more of this robot i dont want to be, just like you. Im trying to stay out of it but its hard, hate being a stranger and this video hits too close to home. Power and love to all of you out there
Definitely an accurate representation of how young men feel these days
Mora Africano Camilo Andres ...?????????? As if there are no Russian or Asian feminists? 💀
And girls too, believe it or not. We're just the same. Which is why we never make the first move. He'll laugh at us, he'll push us out of the way, he'll give us a weird look and walk away, he'll reject us. We're terrified too.
@@williamafton3137 The funny thing is dudes wouldn't mind chicks asking them out, and I'm sure a lot of chicks wouldn't mind either.
Like recently I was walking through a shopping mall, and on the outside is this cafe. There was this table where two hot chicks sat at and one gave me this look like she found me attractive. I immediately got nervous lol. I walked past a few times. But you can only do the 'silent and mysterious' act so long before it becomes creepy. And it is an act, because I wanted to talk to her but didn't because straight up I'm a pussy sometimes.
Gotta take action.
Pollepel In Asia most of the people don’t event know what feminism is. Their history and culture is so different from ours...
@@williamafton3137 ... You are correct, and your fears are valid. However, you are not in danger of a man you find attractive calling the cops on you based on your approach. Where men who approach an attractive woman are at risk of that wan not only rejecting them as a potential partner but actually calling the cops for "sexual harassment".
So while I do genuinely feel for women in this... You are the class right now with legal protection... So you are the logical initiators.
Gillette ad would say "No bro, not cool"
This video encapsulates pain of seeing a woman you like and allowing fear to cripple you. It's why I started my journey as a dating coach... and I hope it motivates everyone to take more chances and live life more fully! Enjoy and PLEASE SHARE! ;)
Made me cry haha So identified by
Great production!
+Sasha Daygame F@*king epic video dude! We've all been there.
+Sasha Daygame The sexiest and certainly the most moving one. I got a tear or two at the end.Thanks for everything man
+Sasha Daygame The video was Perrrrrrfect, but i cried like a little baby, i can't denay it :D
Gillete ad told me not to approach wamen
Same, I dont want to be accused of a crime I didnt commit simply for approaching a woman.
No, they said don't catcall and harass women. There's a difference. Ya'll won't be accused of harassing if you don't harass someone. Crazy how that works out.
@@ramusfacts3914 saying hi to woman is harrassment acording to feminazis so your full of shit
@@yallknowwhoiam7036 Simply saying hi to someone isn't fucking harassment dumbass, quit being so dense and quit acting like that's a wide spread view just so you can generalize all women and feminists as irrational. Never once did the Gillette commercial say not to approach women, so pull your head out of your ass and quit playing the victim.
@@yallknowwhoiam7036 Yep agreed. Toxic third wave feminism has made it hard to tell if it is safe to greet a woman without her yelling rape. Cant even say hi anymore, all thanks to this toxic feminist movement.
Social anxiety sucks
yee
Yup
totally
Facts
i agree but everybody can overcome it, i got my first date just yesterday
This gives me another perspective of what this song means. I always saw it as the guy was actually a creep, but now I see that it can be his interpretation of himself due to his own low self-esteem.
Well the second interpretation is more accurate, i think thom york was describing himself when he had a crush on a girl.
He wrote the song because of the latter. It's an expression.
Yeah but also Thom Yorke literally stalked a girl and was scared to talk to her... so yes he was a creep.
Yea, he made the song Creep because Yorke had a long crush on girl but he was afraid of approaching her due to his low self esteem and doubting himself.
Absolutely.
As someone with stupidly low (semi suicidal in past years of my life) low self-esteem it's unreal how greatly it can effect my thought process.
Even to this day, I still feel like an imposter, or just a complete coward, and failure in life, even though I'm trying and in some ways improving or doing well.
Nothing about this is really beneficial so I'm always trying to work on it but again it's just unreal how powerful self-hate can be.
I wouldn't want to treat anyone else the way I treat myself.
Watched this so many times... every time it blows me away. Such a powerful reminder how close we are to success if we can just ignore the fear and take a risk.
+Liam McRae Rants Absolutely.
of course not, this video is a metaphor. about what could happen if you take a risk... which is what i teach during my social freedom training. i see guys have experiences like this often, they might get rejected 20 times before it happens but it's worth it!
+Liam McRae Rants Glad you liked it too bud! Just Think, That sexy address was in the apartment just a few days after you'd left.... probably a good thing :P
address? you mean actress right?
Once I was at a public place sitting in a bench and at the next bench there was a girl which I started flirting to and she smiled, the moment I decided to go talk to her she stood up and left, after that I walked to the bus stop to go home and there she was standing with a guy that was evidently her boyfriend...
This is the most powerful video I've seen in a while. It really made clear the struggles that so many of us have. I cried like baby. Now it's time to be a man.
+MoGainz787 Man up then, buddy! :)
+Sasha Daygame In what city it was recorded?
+Jimmy Mahaney -- Haha! Even predators cry. Let's be clear though, this has nothing to do with "To Catch a Predator."
MoGainz787 I know it has nothing to do with "To Catch a Predator", it was just a joke.
+Jimmy Mahaney -- Chris Hanson, Dateline NBC....
Everything is easier when Jesus is your wingman
2 Timothy 1:7 - "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
People neglect the power of God...
Thank you Jesus 🙌🙏☮️❣️
@@anonimoporfavor7299 powerful stuff
wanted to like this comment, but it´s at 420 xD
This is still amazing 4 years later.
And will forever be because this will most likely never change.
It's actually a lot more meaningful with terminal feminism...
I actually flirted with a woman at the bus stop today, I usually never do. It might have been because I was inspired by this video ( It was definitely because I was inspired by this video)
good job...making peoples day better.
+flingoo Did it work or were you rejected?
+MrBX5 ?? Let's see
+flingoo Did you started or her? :D Explain us.
+postnavodi I started it and it seemed like she genuinely liked talking to me :)
Watching Arthur put the finishing touches to this at my place, watched over his shoulder multiple times and the mix of cringe, pathos, and the perfect way it encapsulates most men's struggle was heart wrenching everytime. If this doesn't wake you up, you may as well become a eunech - James
+The Natural Lifestyles Thank you brother.
+The Natural Lifestyles Hi Natural Lifestyles! Do you guys all live over in Budapest? I think I recognize the centrum wheel ^^ Going to try some Day Game for the first time this Christmas hopefully :)
+Arthur Mor Great work.
+The Natural Lifestyles Might as well whip out the knife right away, then ...
+RobsterPulse TNL team is based in Budapest most of the year until it gets to cold for our Aussie asses and we fly south.
CZcams recommended me this, and I'm really proud.
@@datmexboi2121 just do it man, if you get rejected, I've been through that, at least you tried ya know ;)
@@datmexboi2121 if a woman looks at you with these eyes then she wants something from you, it's your decision but woman don't look just like that, if you feel crackling go ahead what can happen besides getting rejected, she will not slap you, you can only win
CZcams recommended it, so you get jailed for harassment
lets all put our hats up for the people with social anxiety + being shy + low confidence
Gabe Sarria hey man I appreciate it
+lazy+pussy
When you're ugly, you get all of that as a plus.
Gabe Sarria I’m confident and I’m not shy or anxious, I just don’t trust people that will probably Betray (I’m not only talking about cheating and it’s even about friendship)
Gabe Sarria no, don’t put your hands up for losing those mental battles. Use your energy to become you person you want to be rather than run away and joke about your issues
This is a masterpiece
Truly. Suffering is pretty when see it from the outside
Truly
Thank God, Jesus Appeared To Help... :v
+Solo es la Verdad Praise the Lord
Hahaha you just made my morning
+SnapTowels REBUKE THE DEVIL
Don't forget the Antichrist
C mamut :v
Wish someone would smash a mirror around me... :(
+D Sid I do it for a living. Come to one of my events ;)
+D Sid You crush it for you...
In the end, you have to crush it yourself... No easy way around that.
The video is that mirror. It's telling you to abandon those fears and just go for it! That was the whole point of the video!
@@Suriner1 So what you're saying is I should smash my phone. Ok got it.
This was powerful. Everytime he was keeping himself from possible happiness cause he was scared of rejection. Instead of playing to win he was playing not to lose!
That was beautifully said.
We lack the courage of our romantic convictions; and thereby miss the wine of life, forgoing the very thing that makes living worthwhile.
Hunter S. Thompson
just want to add that romance isnt the only thing that makes life great
@Analyzing Male Slavery Bro you're just taking the MGTOW stuff too far. There is a place for it and certainly if you see a feminist then fucking RUN, but not all women are that way.
The lesson of this video is this.
F.E.A.R = False Expectations Appearing Real
Now go get what you want!
Fear =lie
F.E.A.R = First Encounter Assault Recon
2 Timothy 1:7 - "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
@@anonimoporfavor7299 Probably stolen from Taoism.
@@W45P. Taoism is from centurys before.
Beautiful. We, need to stop looking at ourselves as broken, when we are not.
it hit my heart coz i always worry too much about something before it happens...
thumbs up from japan:)
I love Japanese girls 👶
*Creed Diskenth* , everybody does , my gf is chinese though ..
so in japan i think the people are even more introverted and have even more fear than westerners , i think making a re-recording with japanese people for the japanese market would be feasable idea.
luv2bfree I love how you’re just representing your whole country
2 Timothy 1:7 - "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
I love Japanese chicks I'd get with you lol. Come to Australia.
Song name: Creep - Scala & Kolacny Brothers
+Niaz Ahamed That's what I thought. Would have been nice to have been credited properly.
+Niaz Ahamed thanks mate:D) u are awesome
+petrastheunique thanks :P you're awesome too!
+Niaz Ahamed Thanks Cap!
+Nilton Fernandes the original is from Radiohead, they won't be very similar but if you like this i would reckon you like other songs from Radiohead to, and if you do you would also like pink Floyd.
Halfway through I just started crying. Fuck! I don't know how and why exactly, but this is reality for me. Facing this everyday is a torture. So many opportunities I keep missing, for that mental film where I just keep losing! Thanks for making this amazing video. A reminder for what could happen. Thanks Sasha. Thanks a lot.
this is fucking heartbreaking tbh
Yep lol... that's the idea!
Painfully accurate. Just the other day I was at a pizza place. Simply asked a girl if she "was ordering". She gave me such a stink eye xD. She was on her phone. But still. I just asked her a question. Like I interrupted her Instagram session. Big deal.
So it is true. Not everyone will appreciate someone else interacting with them. I honestly don't care. I could talk to anyone. An old man/lady, to a construction worker etc.
But some women have their guard up so high. I completely understand.
But is it so hard to just tell me "no. Go ahead"? Lol
Coming from a woman, dont stop doing what you are doing! As long as youre not harassing anyone, then you’re fine. A lot of women nowadays have sticks up their asses and cant manage to be polite. Asking a question doesn’t deserve a stink eye. However, not all women do this and not all are pricks. Dont change :)
jtplt many are like this sadly not all, but that number is growing with radical feminism in full effect right now taking over young girls.
that's exactly why this video is so unrealistic, the moment the video started i thought "yeah that girl would be with her nose in the phone"
She obviously has issues..ignore people like her..
I was so quite depressed watching this untill Jesus broke mirror
2 Timothy 1:7 - "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
Brunno Silva "For God has broken the mirror."
This video deserves an Oscar. God bless you Sasha
*Vinny Trainz* , satanist hollywood would never approve of that
ulf ulf ulf yep in a million years
Russian Bot Ulf I don't think you've seen Oscar rewarded shorts before. They're pretty damn good and heartfelt in a little time. Ex: Watch The stutterer(different theme, but the end goal is similar).
OMG OMG OMG that was so well executed, it can be a short movie winning awards, not just an ad for dating coach.
This is actually unironically beautiful.
Such a powerful piece arthur congratulations, the actors were fantastic. Editing, cinematography and music worked so well
+stu crompton Thank you
+Arthur Moore A brilliant piece of art and a great choice for the girl. Not only is she drop dead gorgeous (them eyes!), but she epitomizes the type of girl almost every guy wants but is too afraid to approach; the beautiful yet sweet, shy and innocent type of girl who remains humble and grounded despite her amazing looks. Great job all round. I'll definitely come back to this video a lot as motivation to continue PUA and remember why I'm doing it.
Thank you Phil
*i'm Actually Cried after i watched this Video Because it Descrive my Sutiation Letrally
and i'm 22 years old and still Single because of My Fears From Rejection
and i really got Rejected By at least 4 Girls who i loved
and sorry for my Terrible English*
Wonderful Budapest, great Hungarian actors 😊👌🏼
Love it! Everything, every portion of the video. The idea, Budapest, the actors, the cover...everything!
Sasha is an Angel in this video. I love 2:56! haha
Seriously really fucking awesome video. I've watched it like 6 times. Beautiful video :)
the video just tells liess
everything is easier when jesus is your wing man.
Stolen
So good. Almost made me cry man. I'm married with three children, two of them boys, and I can still totally appreciate the fear of many boys and men today when trying to approach women. Even just to say hello.
Then it's your job to teach them Social Freedom so they don't have those struggles! It's important for your daughter too so she can stand up for herself. Get in touch with us if you think you'd like a hand with that. Many parents who take our courses report sharing what they've learned with their children.
@@AlexanderLasarev I will, thank you for the offer! My wife and I are on the same page when it comes to teaching our boys they will become good men. Boys need healthy outlets built for their young minds, even while they are young. My oldest son is 9, my middle son is 7 and my daughter is 3. I'll chat with my wife about looking further into your coaching :) love your videos.
Awesome! My head coach for North America is married and him and his wife talk to couples about social freedom as well so I can put you in touch.
Just saw this video something about 5 Times .... THIS IS THAT I MADE IN 18 YEARS ... It's incredibile how this video is deep ... Just touched my soul ... I think that man is really man that we need to listen... Look him.. So confident... We are that man guys... That is the man that we will become!!!! Guys if you want win you need go OUT YOUR COMFORT ZONE!!! Just focus guys!!! AND LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN!!! Thanks for this video Sasha ... I'm crying
I think this video just changed my life. No kidding.
I've been struggling with a break up since August and dealing with depression this past year. My issues goes beyond the classical male-female relationship. I know I'm a nice and cool person. But I just feel really held back by my flaws. I let them rule over my life, and sometimes I feel like I'm afraid to move on and change the very things I know I have to change.
But that was until know. Only I have the power to put my life on track, to face the world and fight for everything that I want.
Thank you Sasha, for real. Your video had a much more powerful message than you've ever imagined. You might just had saved a life with this.
You deserve to be in the most successful place in the world. And me too. I guess I'll just have to meet you there now.
+Eduardo Amaral Dude, I'm *very* happy to hear that. That's why we made it!!! Let us know how it goes :)
I'm literally crying out loud after watching this. Fear lies... So beautiful and powerful message ❤️
Wow it’s been 7 years since I first found this video.. can’t believe it ! Sasha is in a different stage of his life now and so am I. But thank god I found day game as it saved my life. However I need to go back to not exactly day game but life improvement in general as I’m finding myself identifying old traits and things that need to be bettered. Thank you again Sasha for your inspiration and life changing positivity that you have brought onto hundred if not thousands of people on this earth. 🙏
This film hits very close at heart. It is more than just about the fear about approaching someone, it is about doing something that your thoughts keep you from doing out of fear, fear of failure, fear of disapproval, fear of judgement. The greatest films are made on the most basic of human emotions, and they do not need A grade cameras, equipment or VFX to be made. What one needs is the will to make it and the heart to put it out there. i thank you for making and sharing this film. Hope you get to read this after 3 or so years :)
Put it very well, I watched this video when it first came out and I'm still the same :( it hurts but I'm working on it even more than I was before
Let's face it, in the real world she would never be sitting alone.
not True open your eyes my friend ,Beautiful women surround you most men are afraid be carefree even if you are rejected !!!!!!
@@pyrrhus17
I see beautiful women all the time, and they're never sitting alone in coffee shops!
Really? Must not be the ones I go in.
and the thing is that everyone is going somewhere so you can try to talk with a girl at bus stop, but be sure that she is entering the bus with or without you.
In the real world she would not even look at this fellow really
Was that a modern Jesus destroying his fears?
Awsome movie btw ;)
Middle and high school ruined us. School is all a symptom of why we have men like this
School is a better place to socialize with women I guess especially in a country like USA uk Canada Australia...where men n women have much freedom
so relatable... always backing down because you don’t think you’re good enough. i wonder how many chances I’ve missed due to fear. love the message!
Woow! Just had the chance to see this... :)
This is your biggest move so far Sasha, which I'm sure is gonna change the way people look at this community.
Arthur, what you did here with this video is just beyond imagination. The well deserved fame is coming for you, too! :))
Keep it up guys! I LOVE what you do!!!
+Norbert Sinku thank you Norbert!
+Arthur Moore You are the director! In a technical point of view the video looks amazing. You did fantastic job!
+ElEternoPoetaLuis Thank you, but it's not only Technical.
This film was in my mind a year before it came out.
I've seen it in my mind as soon as I heard this song.
I was lucky enough to have Sasha fully trust me to go ahead with this idea.
Arthur Moore Don't get me wrong. I like everything about the film: The message, the cinematography, the location, the actors, etc. I just meant that the film is beautiful to look at. It's great that you finally made the film after having the idea in your mind for a year.
+ElEternoPoetaLuis Thank you very much!
One of the best videos I've seen on CZcams. I think I'll rewatch it a few dozen times.
I watched this video when it first came out and I found it emotional watching it. I watched it again today and it had the same effect on me, I felt tearful. Sasha you are right man, it really encapsulates fear and approach anxiety, and interesting how you have reflections and viewpoints showing different scenarios, like our brain playing a video, normally a negative one of don't daytime approach (well that's mine). Arthur that was really well done man and Sasha, cheers brother.....
omg i been holding back tears until the end when the music ripped me to shreds. especially since only yesterday i was talking to my mentors about exactly the topics brought about in this video. i have the exact same self messaging concept, self talk and view. this was really hard for me to watch. but im glad i did. thank you to @sasha the genius who made this.
This needs to be spread worldwide! We need to see this on the TV, ads and all that is possible!
Wow man this video was great.. I'm sitting here like damn that is me every fucking day! One thing I noticed when girls look at me like this and I don't speak to them is that most aren't thinking 'wow this guy is a bitch.' A lot of girls are actually thinking 'what's wrong with me, why won't he talk to me?' I can see it in their face and it honestly hurts. So, men, don't leave women hanging like this.. At the very least make acquaintance with them. I'm telling myself this as I tell you. Don't make someone else feel like shit because of your own fear.
+Drew Lewis Yep..... it's not just the guy that looses out. It takes two to naked tango! :P
I am really moved by this video! It made me chuckle and makes me thank for the journey I have embarked on!
Great video! Really really beautiful
Wow! That's beautiful, Sasha! It brought tears to my eyes as I connected with those images of rejection and heart-break. I can see that I'm not the insecure and timid person that I was before, but there's still a momentum or weight from those years that can still grip me and keep me from taking action.
Glad you like man. And we're here for you if you want any help making even more progress in this area. Just get in touch!
The real creep is the woman. She's got no social skills, I don't think she tried to converse once. XD
True but look, most women actually are like that.
@@disparuetderetour5230 yeah, you're right. At the end of the day it's scary going up to a stranger you have interest in, whether you're a man or a woman. And women have bestowed upon us that great "privilege" of having to initiate the conversation while trying to look not creepy.
@@kaitheguy7832 Yep.
When they do the same, they are even more creepy and they are so self conscious, they know it and want us to bear the blame for them.
@@disparuetderetour5230 Classic humans. Aren't we all just a big mess.
The Golden Rule: BE BOLD
You will get your feelings hurt,
Your ❤️ broken,
Rejected.
And if you're lucky, you will find love.
Every day is a rodeo little brothers.
Cowboy up.
You'll be happy you did when you're an old man.
I´ve watched this so many times... every time it makes me feel hope! I makes me feel we can conquer ower fears. The first step is everything. everything else comes naturally. Excelent video!
Thanks bro. Great video. Going to try and keep this one at the top of my head when out and about.
But i still ain't gonna ask the girl from my class to go out with me...
That's my first 2 years of day game right there. I barely approached no girl and when I was out, at times I did dream about a girl approaching me which never happened. This video clearly shows what goes on in the mind about an approach anxiety.
What about today ?
Really beautiful on so many levels. I know the feeling of going from loving myself to feeling EXACTLY like this guy here... Back and forth, when things weren't going right in my life. But that era of self-doubt is about to be over for good! :-)
For me, this isn’t just applied for a person you’re physically attracted to, but anyone that seems to be a nice or interesting person that you might cross paths with. This is a very disgusting and awful feeling, to want to sit and have a conversation and build a relationship/bond with a stranger that can last forever, but then doubt enters your thoughts, ( he’ll turn out to be boring, maybe she’s clingy, what if he’s a creep, it’ll be too awkward, what if i stutter, what if he/she has girlfriend/boyfriend ) all these thoughts that just bring you down, making you think less of yourself and others.
That's just such a beautiful piece of art. Amazing that there are no words needed, so everybody can understand it, no matter which language they speak.
Love it.
Dope video, love the cinematography and message! Keep up the good work
Do u have problems with the ladies too
thnx jesus
This video makes me feel the most. I actually feel sensations in my body and really pronounced breathing apart from shedding a few tears, guess it really resonates with the internal struggle we men have to go through to find/free ourselves.
Very powerfull! Especially with this song in the back. Love it!
I wish all humans a good life whatever that means to every single individual
but i guess we can all agree that we like love and love to love
receiving it and giving it
Thanks. i wish u da same
This video make me cry. Thanks man!
I still remember 7 years back when I first watched this video. Till now this is the single most powerful video in the pickup community that accurately sums up what goes into a young man's mind when he enters this phase of life.
Watching it now still took me back in those times.
Thanks Sasha, this is how I feel everyday! This is motivating I hope to prevail soon with my approach anxiety.
1:47 He is reading Eckhart Tolle - A new Earth book
Good catch!
This video has been up for years and I still watch it. It really captures the fear that we as man have. Even the men who really think there hopeless in attracting a woman. They know there lying to themselves because we've all experienced countless opportunities when we walk outside our door and make eye contact with a woman who is inviting us to approach, who shows her interest in us and it's one of the most haunting feelings when we succumb to the fear and don't approach her. We are more Amazing than the lies and false identities we give ourselves. Thank You Sasha Daygame!!!
Countless opportunities? I doubt "countless" is correct.
But your point is valid.
👍
The mirror shattering was especially powerful
*ART* That's the only word that came to my mind when I saw it. SO much compiled only in 5 minutes. Beautiful script, concise and has that suiting audio to it too!
Man, this music gets me everytime. Amazing video, my eyes watered. Thank you Sasha, Arthur and everyone involved. This most definitely going to help a lot of men. Thanks again. Love it! Peace y'all.
+Frederico Silva Glad you liked it, thank you
The girl could have said anything and everything would have worked out fine.
We don't do that here
Man this struck a nerve.....I really screwed up so many opportunities behaving like this guy. This has happened to me so many times with really beautiful, seemingly sweet and lovely girl's. I always seem to think that women hate guys in general and dislike us more when we approach🤣.
Great video spreading the love👍
This video is 1 of the reasons u keep inspiring me Sasha! u always try to help others!
I feel you bro but after Gilette this is harassment.
Hmm
The production value is just amazing :D Keep up the good work ! :)
You are so talented. The choice of song is absolutely amazing!!
this is an amazing video I love it wonderful so are you the dating coach that's why you put a video like this so you can help others for dating just asking
Jesus dresses well.
First time i cried in years.
Repeats every time i watch that video.
Really resonated with this video, good work truly inspiring.
This whole stuff is just kick ass man....the way you have given the message is on another level. Really i cant describe in words... would love to see more from you like this and i am sure you would bring the best. Peace and Love.
+Toni Guy Thanks man, yeah we'll try ... but this is gonna be hard to beat! :P
Nagyon jó kürtöskalács reklám :) 4:12
Sasha, this was bloody amazing. Really opened my eyes to all the chances I had and lost. I'm going to have to bookmark this. Damn this was good, DAMN!
+Zak Thanks brother..... Share that shit ;)
Still beautiful and moving after all these years. It took me a long time to find it again but thank you!
Dear Sasha or who ever may read this. I have watched this video several years ago when I was 16 and had suppressed social anxiety and I didn't really understand it but I liked it and re-watchd it a few times :) today it popped back in my feed at a time were I'm a dating coach and helped tens of guys overcome their approach anxiety and proud to say i became one of the most advanced guys at this field in my country and my age
This was perfect guys. Awesome.
Hey, a day or two ago you guys hit the 9gagTV channel, I was hella surprised to actually see you on my news feed on facebook.
You're going a bit more mainstream, and reaching out to more and more people out there with this great video video! :)
Keep up the good work, and see you at the online course on 18th!
+Purinethol I didn't even know what 9gag was LOL... but yeah cool! :)
Damm that final got me really pumped. It was like I was hearing in my mind "rise up kid, life is too short to live in fear and daydreams"!
+Henrique Klein Good! :) Now go do something about it....
This video has such a beautiful message, I love it! Thank you for making this!
3:30 "Hey wanna hear a joke?"
She :"no"
"knock knock"
"Ohh god!!"
Judul film?
This was incredible. Lifegiving, breathtaking. I even cried :)
Great stuff, I really relate to this picture. I got encouraged to not believe in my fearful thoughts.
really nice video... couldn't help to notice that the actor and actress both have very beautiful blue eyes and Sashas hair looks pretty fabulous here (not that it doesn't in the other, I just don't like the style too much). Being currently in a state of depression and socially almost completely withdrawn, that gave me a little shimmer of hope, thanks for what you are doing sasha !