This is easily the biggest mistake men are making in 2021, and the sooner you can 'tame' it, the sooner you can achieve all of the goals that you have in life. .
I choose to not have a porn addiction anymore. I choose to retain bc im tired of my unfulfilling life of deviant sexual behavior. I’m tired of obsessing over low-value women and basing my self-worth off of their validation. From this point forward, I choose to be a real man.
You can definitely be a better you, homie. Instead of those quiet times, of yours, filled with garbage, fill it with something for you in the long term. Whatever you find fulfilling, learn an instrument, a new language, hitting the gym, learning a new trade, the world is yours
I believe modern women just aren't able to see a man as a prize, no matter how good he is, women are too used to being chased, they don't know how to chase a good man, not to be confused with a RICH man.
@@tapatiosweb Men are by Nature 'direct'. Women by Nature are 'subtle'. Women can read subtlety from across the room, in the same way that a man understands a punch in the nose. A man becomes the prize when he comfortably wears the subtle confidence of a self-made man.
My motto is rejection from a woman can be a way God saving you from a headache you don't need. The woman that's meant for you won't reject you. Give her a compliment and keep on moving.
I like to be optimistic as well. When I get rejected by a woman i know it's God's way of keeping me from getting stabbed in the neck while sleeping, and if i lose a lottery it's just God giving me a low so i can appreciate the high when my next ticket definitely hits for $200,000,000.
@@BOG0690 That's what everyone fails to realize is that not everyone is called to marriage or have children. People would know this if they built their relationship with him and has his plan and purpose for their lives revealed to them.
That's a pretty good motto honestly. Can I steal it? Haha. "The woman that's meant for you won't reject you." That is true, but a desperate woman won't reject you either. Just something to keep in mind.
@Trippie Nxouch Wisdom is not rooted in resentment but I do agree that lust is an obstacle to wisdom. Walk the middle path between lust and resentment- clear understanding.
@@YellowPaint100 Proverbs 16:32, and I can't remember the exact page or chapter, but a Queen was telling her son some advice and told him those exact words. I think it was in Kings or Judges, it's been a while since I read the Bible from start to finish, but that phrase always stuck out to me.
The real reward is that sentiment you get when you don't give in.. Look around you, people giving in expensive things, women, drugs etc.. And tell me how you feel. That's the goal and you progress through your journey. You'll start projecting a powerful aura and people feel that.
I def mastered it. There are times I get looked upon as "weird" because I'm not the average type guy that looses his mind when he sees a bad b****. Like c'mon we're all grown. We see pretty chicks EVERYDAY. It gets old and don't mean much anymore
Not exactly. The ridicule & avoidance are only for appearances at a surface level. The ridicule is there for testing your resolve & how you cope. The avoidance... Yeah well, in quiet, they've thoroughly looked you up online
Incorrect. A woman not meant for you will obviously display that towards you but a woman meant to be in your life will respect and admire the fact you're not easily swayed or manipulated. A true woman doesn't seek a weak man that's what being manipulated is a man being weak and unsure.
Actually most women chose to be with men they can manipulate. Look at every guy that is with a woman. Majority of women will pick men who have similar traits to their fathers. This is well known in psychology. Women would rather chose to be with famliar traits than be with what they day dream of. Manipulation is an innate female trait to control anything and anyone to get what she wants and desires. If a man is not easily manipulated she will diss him. But that is relevant to each woman's needs. I always find that what a woman says she wants is not the same as the man she decides to be with. Women contradict themselves. Their desire for POWER, STATUS, MONEY makes them clumsy in their endevours. For me, I look at what women do and who they associate with, and I don't take what women say as real. When a woman is real she is straightforward without nonsense.
@@franchi8601 Whole lot of truth.. you gotta play the game let them think what they want but you hold all the cards when u can resist petty temptations
@@franchi8601 that called the unconscious programing . It true for both gender, all of us all. The few had a fine family, fine childhood, works just fine. Most of us need to be aware and unlearn the programing consciously . Reprogram our own mind.
One thing men can start to do is just focus on a task at hand, if your going to get groceries, go get groceries, going to dinner, go eat dinner. Not really paying much attention to the outside world while living in it is very strange. So the next time an attractive woman walks past you, if you actually pay her no mind you are more likely to actually attract her. See when a woman dresses that way it means she desires attention, and if all men are giving her that attention but you decide to focus on your task, she may take interest in you because she’ll see that you didn’t give her the attention. Thus causing her to become curious and desire YOUR attention specifically. It’s very cleaver reverse psychology and while sometimes this won’t always work (due to her not actually dressing for the attention) it will work when someone does.
I once did this at a sports bar with our waitress. Five of my friends were hitting on her and to be honest I was attractive to her but just not in the mood guess I just wanted some good food. At the end I gave her my business card and guess what she called me the next day and I met up with her a few days later. The other five guys got nothing
@@x35mmman like I said it doesn’t always work, but yours is a perfect example of the reverse psychology I was talking about. Women desire attention and when you don’t give them the attention even if everyone is, she’ll be curious as to why you aren’t. Now I’ve used this method before at its work many times but it’s also let me down sometimes, like I said it truly depends on the intent of the woman, whether she’s looking for attention or just minding her own business
@@zTaq if your game relies on the intent of a woman, you probably are getting many women. It's all about the intent of the man to get the attention. Get her attention focused on you, because the man is the prize.
Very true that “You cannot be controlled by your impulses”. Period. The weak impulsive man is a ruined man. I like this today, very good and cosmically true.
We spend our ENTIRE life for women (staring makes our life fulfilled)... This is the Good News. Men don’t lose by staring at women, they gain. Men who resist this will never truly be an alpha man.
@@ronaldmitchell3665 it doesn't leave through your eyes.... it get's charged through your eyes. What are you talking about ? Staring is honestly harmless.... seems like the comment section are unintelligent guys.
Having desires is good but getting eaten up by your desires is not good, we should learn to have patience and the resilience to hold on to our desires and fight for it.
A fair point, though perhaps you are conflating desires and goals. Even so, if your desires are your goals, things should work out well if you've thought it through.
This is good advice for BOTH men and women! The most important human trait is the ability to DELAY gratification!! This type of self-control leads to success, riches, maturity, long life, and wisdom.
Ive watched a lot of youtubers that give men similar adive about life,women ect but your channel is by far the most underated. Wish more people could see your videos. Keep it up bro hope your doing well.
Attraction to women is built-in, comes and goes naturally for most men. Attraction to gold is acquired, developed and conditioned in the chase for survival and power, driven primarily by ego. Resistance in front of temptation has always been part of the spiritual journey since the beginning of time, for monks and kings alike. Aren’t we all rediscovering the wisdom of the old ages?! See ‘Meditations’ by Marcus Aurelius, or the Ecclesiastes as samples of the matter.
I feel as though I spend all my time resisting temptations and desires and it makes me miserable. I feel like I never get to let loose with how I really feel or find an outlet for myself. I've gotten pretty used to it, but it sucks that even giving in and showing my feelings/desires is now seen as unattractive. Honestly don't get why so many women want such total equality when as a man I feel so restricted by society. I am not transgender nor plan to be, but I genuinely feel like being a man is such an anchor stitched onto my chest. So many expectations :(
Follow what Steve McQueen said "the only person i answer to, is myself" in other words, if those expectations comes from yourself, you're good. You don't owe anything to anyone, specialy as a man.
Hey dude, talk to me :( I am a woman, and have always wanted full equality. I'd love to hear your side of it though, the downsides of being a man. I feel like we never hear about it enough :( And I'm so sorry you feel that way :(
tks, people say that u will get nowhere by watching ytb, maybe true, but when i watch ur vid, it reminds me every time, I should focus on my goals, tame my desire. that's only thing I need for now
Resisting taking the bag of money for myself, easy. However, i have learned that handing it over to the police is one of the worst things that you can do, and could get you in more problems, including jail time. Further, it is very unlikely that the bag of money will find it's way back to its owner through the police.
Its just a matter of beimg honest and being yourself. I have 5 sisters an No brother but I have seen alot of brother in Laws come an go. Its not about Testosterone its about Understanding and commitment. The beauty of the woamn is in the eye of the beholder..
Well finally, Terry you should be listened more. Seems the most of men on this site are Lost believing on all the women like Miss model or aliens or unsolved creatures. Not all the men outside that are happily married or with a girlfriend are rich, handsome, or have Lamborghini. They are normal and women too! It is a relief to listening You. 👍
mastering ones impulse is far more impressive to women than a man who is loud and tries to overshow how "confident" he is. Being loud and obnoxious doesn't require confidence or prove you an alpha.
I'm going to be honest if you are unattractive this won't work for you but if you are attractive this will absolutely work for you this is my experience and this is the truth... If women are attracted to you you can choose who you want simple as that.. because when they see other women are attracted to you they take notice and they compete in subtle ways for your attention
Not true.. women are not visual, but auditory. Respond to confidence above all else. I know, I’m in NUC, have been asked to model, & see no shortage of less than conventionally ’attractive’ men dating/sleeping w/ beautiful women.
@@peterj.fallon4327 I was talking about the initial meeting yeah she's going to be attracted to the guy who sexually attractive to her. But we all know as soon as a person opens their mouth it can change everything by what you say and your energy.
But, it isnt the primary factor. I have known some really ugly guys pick up seriously hot girls, simply because they showed confidence and a sense of humour....
@@Christianityistherightway I dont see why not. For girls, just like guys, your self-worth, how you dress and look after yourself are all big factors. Be comfortable with who you are and you will see many rewards.
Resisting temptation was always one of my best strengths, with women particularly. Im married, and Ive always been easily able to walk away from other women when they were throwing themselves at me (fully knowing I was married!). I was this way as a single man, too because I just didnt trust women or wish to spend my time and money on them. However, constantly being resistent to temptations has led to a lot of regret for many opportunities I passed up out of mistrust, fear, and stinginess with money.
Know yourself, be yourself, and don't waste time on unattainable goals, whether it's life goals or potential relationships. If they're out of reach, don't reach. Attract people to impact people.
Yes and no. Being aloof or acting disinterested doesn't work either. I've been in so many situations where I was like yeh she's pretty, so what. Maybe I should just talk as a confident friend. Then invariably a bunch of other rabid dogs move in, and one of them succeeds with his charms and ability to maneuver his competition out of the way through self promotion and subtle derision of others.
You went into the situation with ulterior motives. You attempted to downplay her beauty in hopes of getting something in return when deep down you wanted exactly what those other rabid dogs wanted. If you truly meant to talk to her as a confident friend and nothing more then it shouldn't have mattered if someone else succeeded in charming her. This video isn't a tutorial on how to get women but a guide on how to stop being led away by temptations and our desires so that we can walk in our purpose as men.
Good point. But not the point of the video. Easily to misinterpret the meaning of the video. Essentially, what the video is trying to say is to resist temptation. You can pursue a girl but don’t put all of it within the basket of her looks. She will catch onto that and look for a man who’s pursing her with better attributes. You gotta come in with a game plan. If the game is already rigged, don’t waste your time.
@@lordofthehnngs2577 below avg? OH so that's code for a ⚪ gurl right? Those supposed 'hot' ones are walking sewers and all you did is reinforce why they can be one 🙄.
@Lord of the Hnngs below avg? OH so that's code for a ⚪ gurl right? Those supposed 'hot' ones are walking sewers and all you did is reinforce why they can be one 🙄. And goes to show you'd think you'd give a gurl KUDOS for taking the initiative but goes to show LOOKs NOT character are the only things that MATTER 😤.
A university psychology department performed an experiment in the 1980s. They placed a small pile of foam rubber bricks at the cash register of a store with a sign on it that said "Free! Take one". No one took one for weeks. They then changed the sign with another that said "On sale! Marked down from $20 to $5 each!" They sold out within a few days. Perceived value.
Great video. This is one thing that I believe will open the door to success for many people. Once you take control of temptation and desire you can channel that energy into things that will bring you success and empower others.
Hey Julian, Courtney Ryan made a video about your "How Girls REALLY Want You To Talk To Them" - video. Just in case you didn't know. It's really interesting what her point of view looks like.
It took many years to reprogram my mind to not look at women as sex objects. I see them as people first and then understand the simple fact that they have something I want and that I have something they need.
God promised to give us the desires of our hearts let him give them to you . Everything he gives us is good he don’t give it to us without preparing us to handle it . You don’t have to chase after women if your depending on God .
Christ is the groom while the church is the bride. Men desire women and women use that desire. God Is seeking us While a good wife is faithful to her husband.
That content would be twice as useful, to the average human being. Less if you're "above". But when it comes to education, never mind entertainment, if Far From Average let us see a woman he got pregnant talk about how worthy of her he is in her opinion, that'd be worth more than all he has to say. Which is worth less than what the Dalai Lama has to say about subjective value and self-control. But I guess someone has to teach kindergarten. To pay their bills if they can't sell shoes or flip burgers, which is more productive.
A man who lacks purpose, distracts himself with pleasure.
A Man With much Purpose Deserves such Pleasures. Zz
True❤️
My favorite quote for this week.
- Jordan Peterson.
I love that you share this statement daily I also binge on these types of video and that’s a great quote :)
The ability to control your inner beast is golden
That's why you're a guy with an anime girl pfp.
Onee-chan?
@@whiteydiamond is that you in your profile pic? Both of y'all look gay as hell.
@@blueshanks1 lmao again some twink with an anime pfp comes out the woodwork. Move along.
And that's why we watch anime
Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is True Power.
Enslaving others is true power
@@EpicWarrior131 Nuclear fission is strength. Nuclear fusion is true power.
R34 GTR Skykine is true power
DOM is true power
@@EpicWarrior131 the only person that want that power is a evil ass person
I choose to not have a porn addiction anymore. I choose to retain bc im tired of my unfulfilling life of deviant sexual behavior. I’m tired of obsessing over low-value women and basing my self-worth off of their validation. From this point forward, I choose to be a real man.
this guy trying to make us relapse with them thumbnails 😂
Congratulations 👏🏽👏🏽man
You can definitely be a better you, homie.
Instead of those quiet times, of yours, filled with garbage, fill it with something for you in the long term. Whatever you find fulfilling, learn an instrument, a new language, hitting the gym, learning a new trade, the world is yours
lets go! same
Well said. Let’s do this!
Every man has the power to make himself the prize. Resisting temptation is a big part of the journey.
I believe modern women just aren't able to see a man as a prize, no matter how good he is, women are too used to being chased, they don't know how to chase a good man, not to be confused with a RICH man.
@@tapatiosweb Men are by Nature 'direct'. Women by Nature are 'subtle'. Women can read subtlety from across the room, in the same way that a man understands a punch in the nose. A man becomes the prize when he comfortably wears the subtle confidence of a self-made man.
@@tapatiosweb Big Facts
Neither gender should be "chased". A good woman should be pursued though. "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing."
@@tapatiosweb lol, yes because years of natural laws are changed just like that
My motto is rejection from a woman can be a way God saving you from a headache you don't need. The woman that's meant for you won't reject you. Give her a compliment and keep on moving.
I like to be optimistic as well. When I get rejected by a woman i know it's God's way of keeping me from getting stabbed in the neck while sleeping, and if i lose a lottery it's just God giving me a low so i can appreciate the high when my next ticket definitely hits for $200,000,000.
God instructed one of his disciples (or maybe it was angel) to not marry or have kids
@@BOG0690 That's what everyone fails to realize is that not everyone is called to marriage or have children. People would know this if they built their relationship with him and has his plan and purpose for their lives revealed to them.
That's a pretty good motto honestly. Can I steal it? Haha. "The woman that's meant for you won't reject you." That is true, but a desperate woman won't reject you either. Just something to keep in mind.
@Trippie Nxouch Wisdom is not rooted in resentment but I do agree that lust is an obstacle to wisdom. Walk the middle path between lust and resentment- clear understanding.
Giving in to lust = kryptonite to the soul.
Easier said than done
I simply think of yeast curds and 💩 stains surrounded by plumbers hairy sweat crack. Works every time 🤷.
@@thebtchthathikes1008 yea but you like the plumber's plumbing because of the $100 per hour the plumber makes
Your your life force (Chi). Save your Jing essence for something better, like helping people less fortunate then yourself.
"Give into Your Lusts ...... "
But DO NOT BE ..... *CONTROLLED* .....
By Them ...
: D
A man who conqueres himself is greater than a man who can conquer a city.
-The Bible
☝️ awwww, can you be more specific?
@@YellowPaint100 Proverbs 16:32, and I can't remember the exact page or chapter, but a Queen was telling her son some advice and told him those exact words. I think it was in Kings or Judges, it's been a while since I read the Bible from start to finish, but that phrase always stuck out to me.
@@crappiehookking387 ok thanks 👍
The real reward is that sentiment you get when you don't give in.. Look around you, people giving in expensive things, women, drugs etc.. And tell me how you feel. That's the goal and you progress through your journey. You'll start projecting a powerful aura and people feel that.
This dude keeps dragging it but basically don't give up to temptations and focus on your goal.
Gotta hit that 8 minute mark for more ads
Yeah , jeez, get to the point lol zzzzx
I def mastered it. There are times I get looked upon as "weird" because I'm not the average type guy that looses his mind when he sees a bad b****. Like c'mon we're all grown. We see pretty chicks EVERYDAY. It gets old and don't mean much anymore
Lemme guess, some Simps also think that you're gay 😂
@@avuyilecakwebe6880 🤣 that’s me
@@Im.justsayin Got the same problem G
😂😂😂😂
I simply think of yeast curds and 💩 stains surrounded by plumbers hairy sweat crack. Works every time 🤷.
Women avoid and ridicule men who can't be manipulated. They DO NOT seek these qualities in men, ever.
Not exactly. The ridicule & avoidance are only for appearances at a surface level.
The ridicule is there for testing your resolve & how you cope. The avoidance... Yeah well, in quiet, they've thoroughly looked you up online
Incorrect. A woman not meant for you will obviously display that towards you but a woman meant to be in your life will respect and admire the fact you're not easily swayed or manipulated. A true woman doesn't seek a weak man that's what being manipulated is a man being weak and unsure.
Actually most women chose to be with men they can manipulate. Look at every guy that is with a woman. Majority of women will pick men who have similar traits to their fathers. This is well known in psychology. Women would rather chose to be with famliar traits than be with what they day dream of. Manipulation is an innate female trait to control anything and anyone to get what she wants and desires. If a man is not easily manipulated she will diss him. But that is relevant to each woman's needs.
I always find that what a woman says she wants is not the same as the man she decides to be with. Women contradict themselves. Their desire for POWER, STATUS, MONEY makes them clumsy in their endevours. For me, I look at what women do and who they associate with, and I don't take what women say as real. When a woman is real she is straightforward without nonsense.
@@franchi8601 Whole lot of truth.. you gotta play the game let them think what they want but you hold all the cards when u can resist petty temptations
@@franchi8601 that called the unconscious programing .
It true for both gender, all of us all.
The few had a fine family, fine childhood, works just fine.
Most of us need to be aware and unlearn the programing consciously .
Reprogram our own mind.
One thing men can start to do is just focus on a task at hand, if your going to get groceries, go get groceries, going to dinner, go eat dinner. Not really paying much attention to the outside world while living in it is very strange. So the next time an attractive woman walks past you, if you actually pay her no mind you are more likely to actually attract her. See when a woman dresses that way it means she desires attention, and if all men are giving her that attention but you decide to focus on your task, she may take interest in you because she’ll see that you didn’t give her the attention. Thus causing her to become curious and desire YOUR attention specifically. It’s very cleaver reverse psychology and while sometimes this won’t always work (due to her not actually dressing for the attention) it will work when someone does.
I once did this at a sports bar with our waitress. Five of my friends were hitting on her and to be honest I was attractive to her but just not in the mood guess I just wanted some good food. At the end I gave her my business card and guess what she called me the next day and I met up with her a few days later. The other five guys got nothing
@@x35mmman like I said it doesn’t always work, but yours is a perfect example of the reverse psychology I was talking about. Women desire attention and when you don’t give them the attention even if everyone is, she’ll be curious as to why you aren’t. Now I’ve used this method before at its work many times but it’s also let me down sometimes, like I said it truly depends on the intent of the woman, whether she’s looking for attention or just minding her own business
@@zTaq if your game relies on the intent of a woman, you probably are getting many women. It's all about the intent of the man to get the attention. Get her attention focused on you, because the man is the prize.
Doesn't work. Women want/need attention - if not from you, then all their "Chick" friends on InstaCram.
@@s.mendez7160 I don't have time to waste on attention whores those kind all they want is attention to boost their ego.
Very true that “You cannot be controlled by your impulses”. Period. The weak impulsive man is a ruined man. I like this today, very good and cosmically true.
According to one survey, men spend nearly a year of their life simply staring at women.
We spend our ENTIRE life for women (staring makes our life fulfilled)...
This is the Good News.
Men don’t lose by staring at women, they gain.
Men who resist this will never truly be an alpha man.
@@karkedikhanahai8552 does not work like that
@@karkedikhanahai8552 The game : When i look at them - they look away. When they look at me - i look away . .....
@@LK56835 dude , when u stare at ANYONE your power leaves thru your eyes.....
@@ronaldmitchell3665 it doesn't leave through your eyes.... it get's charged through your eyes.
What are you talking about ?
Staring is honestly harmless.... seems like the comment section are unintelligent guys.
Having desires is good but getting eaten up by your desires is not good, we should learn to have patience and the resilience to hold on to our desires and fight for it.
A fair point, though perhaps you are conflating desires and goals. Even so, if your desires are your goals, things should work out well if you've thought it through.
I respect your view of this topic
Sometimes it’s hard to live with people doesn’t understand you value but it’s fine
1 word detachment..buddha says: desire is the root of all suffering
And Buddha never had a root lol
And Buddha real name is Fat 🐖🐷
I simply think of yeast curds and 💩 stains surrounded by plumbers hairy sweat crack. Works every time 🤷.
MAYBE BUT WITHOUT DESIRE NOTHING GOES ON,NOONE WILL COME AFTER YOU WANTING YOU TO HAVE HER,JUST LIKE THAT...
There is good suffering and bad suffering. Suffering is another term for tolerate.
Probably the single greatest truth you have yet put forth, thanks Presh.
This is good advice for BOTH men and women! The most important human trait is the ability to DELAY gratification!! This type of self-control leads to success, riches, maturity, long life, and wisdom.
Ive watched a lot of youtubers that give men similar adive about life,women ect but your channel is by far the most underated. Wish more people could see your videos. Keep it up bro hope your doing well.
Underrated? Dude has over a million subs
Can't even lie this is the most life changing, informative video all year !!!!!
Praise God for His work in my life. Temptation would totally control me if not for Jesus.
Thanks for sharing truth man
Attraction to women is built-in, comes and goes naturally for most men. Attraction to gold is acquired, developed and conditioned in the chase for survival and power, driven primarily by ego.
Resistance in front of temptation has always been part of the spiritual journey since the beginning of time, for monks and kings alike. Aren’t we all rediscovering the wisdom of the old ages?! See ‘Meditations’ by Marcus Aurelius, or the Ecclesiastes as samples of the matter.
I feel as though I spend all my time resisting temptations and desires and it makes me miserable. I feel like I never get to let loose with how I really feel or find an outlet for myself. I've gotten pretty used to it, but it sucks that even giving in and showing my feelings/desires is now seen as unattractive. Honestly don't get why so many women want such total equality when as a man I feel so restricted by society. I am not transgender nor plan to be, but I genuinely feel like being a man is such an anchor stitched onto my chest. So many expectations :(
Follow what Steve McQueen said "the only person i answer to, is myself" in other words, if those expectations comes from yourself, you're good. You don't owe anything to anyone, specialy as a man.
Go do a fightsport as outlet
Women should resist temptations as well, that should be obvious.
Hey dude, talk to me :(
I am a woman, and have always wanted full equality. I'd love to hear your side of it though, the downsides of being a man. I feel like we never hear about it enough :(
And I'm so sorry you feel that way :(
@@silverseen8300 Such a lier😎
tks, people say that u will get nowhere by watching ytb, maybe true, but when i watch ur vid, it reminds me every time, I should focus on my goals, tame my desire. that's only thing I need for now
This video pretty much sums up major aspects of Stoicism.
*Whoever reads this i hope you will be successful in life ✊🏼*
Great content.... you're bringing the wisdom of ages and conveying in a simple understandable language. Respect...
Islam speaks a lot about resisting temptations. Religion has a divine wisdom.
On spot
Resisting taking the bag of money for myself, easy.
However, i have learned that handing it over to the police is one of the worst things that you can do, and could get you in more problems, including jail time. Further, it is very unlikely that the bag of money will find it's way back to its owner through the police.
Just walk away
Your videos are so deep bro!
You keep preaching, we'll keep liking, sharing & subscribing.
This video is horse shit and conjecture. All opinion based hippy drippy shit.
Its just a matter of beimg honest and being yourself. I have 5 sisters an No brother but I have seen alot of brother in Laws come an go. Its not about Testosterone its about Understanding and commitment. The beauty of the woamn is in the eye of the beholder..
Well finally, Terry you should be listened more. Seems the most of men on this site are Lost believing on all the women like Miss model or aliens or unsolved creatures. Not all the men outside that are happily married or with a girlfriend are rich, handsome, or have Lamborghini. They are normal and women too! It is a relief to listening You. 👍
By the way two or more men from here would find interesting the tips that Will Smith gives on the Hitch movie. Useful. 🙂
This is the video which makes me think again about my life
Discipline Equals Freedom.
One of you best vids yet I’m implementing this now
I do that...and I know that's a super power.
I couldn’t agree more. Great video!
mastering ones impulse is far more impressive to women than a man who is loud and tries to overshow how "confident" he is. Being loud and obnoxious doesn't require confidence or prove you an alpha.
Men shouldn't look at girls but with balance why doesn't she look at you
There should be a balance between desire and self control
I'm going to be honest if you are unattractive this won't work for you but if you are attractive this will absolutely work for you this is my experience and this is the truth... If women are attracted to you you can choose who you want simple as that.. because when they see other women are attracted to you they take notice and they compete in subtle ways for your attention
Alias...You are the real guru!
Not true.. women are not visual, but auditory. Respond to confidence above all else. I know, I’m in NUC, have been asked to model, & see no shortage of less than conventionally ’attractive’ men dating/sleeping w/ beautiful women.
@@peterj.fallon4327 I was talking about the initial meeting yeah she's going to be attracted to the guy who sexually attractive to her. But we all know as soon as a person opens their mouth it can change everything by what you say and your energy.
"Sow your wild oats before you regret at your older ages"
"Me"
What that mean?
@@burman3789 Get laid
Thank you so much.great eye opener. Awesome. I'm so hungry for more.
95% Of us brake our necks ,that power come with your personality all of us possess it but society grab a hold on it (desire her for her not for you)
Very insightful. When we see an attractive girl the majority of the time we forget that they have flaws and insecurities just like us men.
I needed this info very badly thank you very much.
I love this channel, learn a lot from it.
I respect this vid! So informative thank you for a refresher I needed this.
Thanks for this million dollar educational video👍🏻. Men should watch and change themselves.
Real Talk. Self Control.
Thank you for your work sir. We need this
Great video and totally agree. Glad I can control myself
This video has A LOT MORE MEANING than most men will ever know - which is very unfortunate... Great stuff!
Following this advise will improve the human condition for me and for you.
You videos are on another lvl
Thanks man for the advice
A battle temptation everyday lol thanks man
thanks for this man 6:22
I really do apreatiate what you awakened me on.
Just found your channel. Great explanation. Looking forward to more.
PS. I just subscribed.
Thank you foe your efforts and precious time to imprive manhood
being handsome also helps
But, it isnt the primary factor. I have known some really ugly guys pick up seriously hot girls, simply because they showed confidence and a sense of humour....
@@dampnickers does that work for ugly gals?
@@Christianityistherightway I dont see why not. For girls, just like guys, your self-worth, how you dress and look after yourself are all big factors. Be comfortable with who you are and you will see many rewards.
Resist temptations that's great and I'm working on it it feels good
Great video FAA!
Resisting temptation was always one of my best strengths, with women particularly. Im married, and Ive always been easily able to walk away from other women when they were throwing themselves at me (fully knowing I was married!). I was this way as a single man, too because I just didnt trust women or wish to spend my time and money on them. However, constantly being resistent to temptations has led to a lot of regret for many opportunities I passed up out of mistrust, fear, and stinginess with money.
I like your videos cause it has true facts that helps really and practical.
I can't resist temptation when in comes to cars and the gym, cars/gym eliminate all together the need and the temptation to chase women.
Don't get fazed by a woo-man's beauty, try it and see yourself growing in a different way.
Exactly. simply think of yeast curds and 💩 stains surrounded by plumbers hairy sweat crack. Works every time 🤷.
Great message 💪🏾
Very good, and much needed video.
Thank you for this wisdom
Thanks that was enlightening
cool videos, on point, but the star trek music in the back ground its totally mesmerizing.....
Desire is a good thing. You don’t always get what you want. I think we learn this as children. Desire makes us strive and then we get rewarded.
Know yourself, be yourself, and don't waste time on unattainable goals, whether it's life goals or potential relationships. If they're out of reach, don't reach. Attract people to impact people.
Keep spreading positive 😇😇😇😇n things that most don't know but very important in life
Yes and no. Being aloof or acting disinterested doesn't work either. I've been in so many situations where I was like yeh she's pretty, so what. Maybe I should just talk as a confident friend. Then invariably a bunch of other rabid dogs move in, and one of them succeeds with his charms and ability to maneuver his competition out of the way through self promotion and subtle derision of others.
You went into the situation with ulterior motives. You attempted to downplay her beauty in hopes of getting something in return when deep down you wanted exactly what those other rabid dogs wanted. If you truly meant to talk to her as a confident friend and nothing more then it shouldn't have mattered if someone else succeeded in charming her. This video isn't a tutorial on how to get women but a guide on how to stop being led away by temptations and our desires so that we can walk in our purpose as men.
@@SLamarHarryTruth. Very well said.
@@SLamarHarry what if part of a man's purpose is to get good with women? Who gets to decide what someone else's purpose "should" be?
Good point. But not the point of the video. Easily to misinterpret the meaning of the video. Essentially, what the video is trying to say is to resist temptation. You can pursue a girl but don’t put all of it within the basket of her looks. She will catch onto that and look for a man who’s pursing her with better attributes. You gotta come in with a game plan. If the game is already rigged, don’t waste your time.
Great content! Keep it up
You don’t desire the thing but what the thing represent.
its so true man, love you´r videos
I dont stare them i dont give atention and i never chase them, the moment a girl dares to aproach you, you will have the power over her!
I simply think of yeast curds and 💩 stains surrounded by plumbers hairy sweat crack. Works every time 🤷.
Below avg wmn usually the ones approaching tho
@@lordofthehnngs2577 below avg? OH so that's code for a ⚪ gurl right? Those supposed 'hot' ones are walking sewers and all you did is reinforce why they can be one 🙄.
@Lord of the Hnngs below avg? OH so that's code for a ⚪ gurl right? Those supposed 'hot' ones are walking sewers and all you did is reinforce why they can be one 🙄. And goes to show you'd think you'd give a gurl KUDOS for taking the initiative but goes to show LOOKs NOT character are the only things that MATTER 😤.
@@lordofthehnngs2577 Your looking for good looking womans or something ? Dont look find if she has a soul the rest toss in trash
A university psychology department performed an experiment in the 1980s.
They placed a small pile of foam rubber bricks at the cash register of a store with a sign on it that said "Free! Take one".
No one took one for weeks.
They then changed the sign with another that said "On sale! Marked down from $20 to $5 each!"
They sold out within a few days.
Perceived value.
Focus is the hardest thing for men to do 👀
I simply think of yeast curds and 💩 stains surrounded by plumbers hairy sweat crack. Works every time 🤷.
Great video. This is one thing that I believe will open the door to success for many people. Once you take control of temptation and desire you can channel that energy into things that will bring you success and empower others.
Bloody good shit👍
If man must know he must first himself be what he knows (stay true to yourself)
This what we need to listen on regular basis.
Instead of going to the mall and checking out chicks, i go there to watch dudes who are checking out chicks....there’s the REAL show...
Lmaoo it’s so funny when you catch them checking her out 😭 I always laugh under the mask lol
Becareful about checking out chicks sometimes it can be a set up for violence guys you don't need the drama real talk 🤔🤔
What's better is watch the women checking out the other women. You will see so much envy and jealousy.
yo you gay? 😳😤
@@harrypairatestys4230 narrr, I'm just lesbian
It makes so much sense. mind blowing
Hey Julian, Courtney Ryan made a video about your "How Girls REALLY Want You To Talk To Them" - video. Just in case you didn't know. It's really interesting what her point of view looks like.
It took many years to reprogram my mind to not look at women as sex objects. I see them as people first and then understand the simple fact that they have something I want and that I have something they need.
Solid perspective. 👍
God promised to give us the desires of our hearts let him give them to you . Everything he gives us is good he don’t give it to us without preparing us to handle it . You don’t have to chase after women if your depending on God .
Christ is the groom while the church is the bride. Men desire women and women use that desire. God Is seeking us While a good wife is faithful to her husband.
Great content.
You are doing a great job. Keep it up!
Lots of love from 🇮🇳. Jai Hind.
Love ur content! Can you make a video on how you animate your videos?
That content would be twice as useful, to the average human being. Less if you're "above". But when it comes to education, never mind entertainment, if Far From Average let us see a woman he got pregnant talk about how worthy of her he is in her opinion, that'd be worth more than all he has to say. Which is worth less than what the Dalai Lama has to say about subjective value and self-control. But I guess someone has to teach kindergarten. To pay their bills if they can't sell shoes or flip burgers, which is more productive.
Practice every day in resisting temptation 🧘🏾♂️💯
Thanks Sir...
Truest truth ever spoken.
You have awesome content bro
Desire is fine if focused to the right thing.