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  • @jamiesmiles8312
    @jamiesmiles8312 Před rokem +764

    I know this was filmed some time ago, but I am so sorry to hear of your losses, particularly your dad. I have just found you on CZcams and hope you find your way back. As a woman, I can absolutely relate to your videos and I really love them and enjoy the many, many laughs they give me! I wish you well.

  • @selintuksal
    @selintuksal Před 3 lety +393

    "I'm absolutely ok as I can be, obviously I'm not ok, if it makes sense."
    It makes sense. Love you.

  • @KDu400
    @KDu400 Před rokem +490

    This was filmed a year ago, but I want to tell you that I’m so very sorry for the loss of your dad ❤ you are probably one of my favorite people on CZcams right now and I appreciate you sharing this with us.

  • @GothicDominatrix
    @GothicDominatrix Před 8 měsíci +160

    Just seeing this 2 years later. Just wanted to send strength your way. I lost my dad a year ago to dementia and then a week later moved into my new home with my husband. I'm still processing and dealing with my father's passing. I'm so glad you have a wonderful network of people to help you through this.

    • @elzaanjordaan2387
      @elzaanjordaan2387 Před 5 měsíci +5

      My dad was diagnosed with dementia last year June and in the last 6 months it has been such a shock to the system to see how quickly he deteriorated. Reading your messages is like looking into the future and as if the Lord is trying to prepare me for the inevitable end. Thank you for sharing your experience. It is making me feel better to know that I am not alone in this journey with my dad

    • @erichyney6287
      @erichyney6287 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Sorry about your dad

    • @jameydupuy9280
      @jameydupuy9280 Před měsícem

      ​@@elzaanjordaan2387 I just found out about my dad, too. I had been thinking no one would understand but it seems there are some people who do. [Big hugs]

  • @teenagewritergirl
    @teenagewritergirl Před 3 lety +608

    I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. I’m really grateful for your videos as my dad got diagnosed with dementia last year and I didn’t know anyone who’s parent had it. We are a similar age. Hearing you talk about it made me feel less alone.

    • @ali5699
      @ali5699 Před rokem +8

      Seconded -- in my case, my mom.

    • @samb1123
      @samb1123 Před rokem +12

      My Dad had dementia for the last 4 years of his life.It was hard dealing with him sometimes.

    • @donavonbain4332
      @donavonbain4332 Před rokem +5

      @@samb1123 feel that. They're trapped in there. With what ever it is they've unbecome. Mom has some sort of similar disorder, dementia/alzhiemers idk, she won't get diagnosed. Bot that medicine has any answers. But sometimes she becomes someone else. And sometimes she comes back. And she's aware she "went away". Which makes it worse! Bcuz then I know! Some part of her is aware! She's not her! Maybe similar thing with your parent! They're likely still in there watching all the nasty behavior and regretting it and unable to do anything. Remember who they were growing up! And Love them as that Person! Bcuz I'd bet! They're still in there! Even if you don't see it!

    • @donavonbain4332
      @donavonbain4332 Před rokem +4

      @@samb1123 Apologies! Just re-reading what you said. "Last", as in final? If so, 🤗! You'll see it again. Try to remember, sometimes the real person is locked behind the forgetful and the mean. My Mamaw was like that. So I'm doubly fd!

    • @samb1123
      @samb1123 Před rokem +3

      @@donavonbain4332 My Dad was aware enough that he knew he was cognitively slipping. It made him very unhappy. He basically willed himself to death. He quit eating and drinking. The only way we could have kept him alive would have been to restrain him, hydrate him with IVs and force feed him. We were not going to allow that.

  • @dharmagirl5889
    @dharmagirl5889 Před rokem +478

    I've only just discovered you within the last month. I realize this was a year ago now, but I'm so very sorry for your loss and grief. I hope getting through it has gotten easier.

    • @Zuzezno
      @Zuzezno Před rokem +4

      Same here

    • @TheNicoliyah
      @TheNicoliyah Před rokem +5

      Me too

    • @azigar
      @azigar Před rokem +7

      Me too. I feel like I opened the door at an awkward time.

    • @jasonflanagan2757
      @jasonflanagan2757 Před rokem +3

      Same here!

    • @fatgrandmafinds
      @fatgrandmafinds Před rokem +10

      I've seen a few videos on Facebook but just subscribed to the youtube channel recently so I'm catching up as well. I understand the pain of losing your dad and while it never really goes away it does get easier to manage and do normal life things♥

  • @gysmokates
    @gysmokates Před 3 měsíci +9

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Healing energies to you and your family.

  • @rossferguson6504
    @rossferguson6504 Před 8 měsíci +42

    I'm 69 and I have mild dementia.
    I have good days and bad days.
    But, im dealing with it.
    But, it's all good,
    I think, i will be around, for a while.
    Is it scary?
    Yes.
    I'm terrified of totally losing my memory.
    But, lets all be positive, about this disease and make the best of it.

    • @justcurioushuman
      @justcurioushuman Před 3 měsíci +1

      I've heard a lot of good things about bacopa monari and lions mane for brain... Actually my personal experience with lions mane wasn't as described... But many people swear by it. I see big difference since I started taking astaxanthin. You should research other nootropics because many of them have also other health benefits.

    • @Hooperjz78
      @Hooperjz78 Před 2 měsíci

      Best of luck and love to you ❤ my dad was diagnosed a year ago..... you sound like you're doing quite good given circumstances. Stay well ❤❤❤

    • @jameydupuy9280
      @jameydupuy9280 Před měsícem

      ​@@justcurioushuman ❤❤ just ❤

  • @davidcompton741
    @davidcompton741 Před rokem +92

    Dementia is a double loss as you can lose people twice. To anyone suffering including Hayley (thank you for your humour). Small steps and a journey can have steps back and forward. It is ok to not be ok. Love to all x

  • @faithbrawley2285
    @faithbrawley2285 Před 11 měsíci +61

    I saw that this post was 2 years old, but still just wanted to offer my condolences. Additionally, I want to CELEBRATE your decision to seek out therapy and let your fans know that there is NO WRONG WAY to grieve. As a therapist, I agree 100%! Also, thank you for bringing me small moments of joy throughout the week. They are desperately needed, TOTALLY appreciated!! Keep your head up and please keep making your content! The world needs you!

  • @shayrichards9538
    @shayrichards9538 Před rokem +11

    I'm a new viewer and it's 2023. I'm rooting for you. Good and bad. I'm rooting for you.

  • @kelliesaunders4905
    @kelliesaunders4905 Před rokem +13

    Ms. Hayley, my mother passed away suffering from Pick’s dementia. What a very hard journey.
    One of the stories I still tell of her is the time I had to leave her unsupervised (early on, before I was able to get help) so I could go to work. I came home and the apartment was filled with smoke. In the oven were these little black hockey pucks. I had to go back to work the next day, so turned the circuit breaker off to the oven for her safety. When I came back home four hours later, she had started the oven up again with nothing in it this time.
    I just looked at her and wondered how this woman who could not remember her way from the bathroom to the living room still had the gumption to know how to problem solve a non-working oven and then find the correct circuit breaker to turn it back on!! Thankfully nothing horrible happened and I was able to get my sister to help with mother after that. I’m always filled with relief when I think of how tragically this story could have ended, however it also reminds me of what a struggle it was to care for a mother (still in her fifties) who needed 24hr supervision. There is no help out there. I was alone trying to support her and also keep her safe. Picks was fast moving. She passed away after only about 8-9 years with the last 2 yrs being with her in a group home.
    Not trying to make Ms. Hayley’s problem about me, just trying to share in solidarity.

    • @jameydupuy9280
      @jameydupuy9280 Před měsícem

      My father was diagnosed last year. My mom called last night to tell me she's having to stay home with him now. I'm trying to get back home to help and be with him. She said yesterday, he was hungry and she found him cooking a pair of socks in the microwave. We laugh to not cry but I'm so scared. There nothing like the love a girl has for her daddy. I always feel like his love is extra special for me because I found out he adopted me when I was a year old. He refused to ever have children of his own because he was scared it would take away from me. He did not want to chance that he may love another child more and I would feel it. That he loved ne tgst much will always hold a part of my soul. Sorry. Getting emotional. ❤ I am so sorry for everyone who has gone through thus. It feels unbearable at times. Hugs.

  • @canadiandee6342
    @canadiandee6342 Před 2 lety +90

    I just discovered you recently, but I love your channel. I am so sorry to learn about your father.

  • @alexandraparfitt2961
    @alexandraparfitt2961 Před 3 lety +15

    Thank you for sharing this with us Hayley. I’m grateful for the support you have. I hope it helps you to heal.

  • @thedawnsearlylight970
    @thedawnsearlylight970 Před rokem +15

    Nov 2022. Just now seeing this. I’m so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Thanks for sharing your pain with us. We love you. I love you.

  • @mikerb2473
    @mikerb2473 Před rokem +23

    Sorry to hear the loss of your father. Sharing it the way you did shows a lot of courage. The pain never goes away, you just learn to live with it. You have our condolences and thoughts of peace.

  • @youeyeball
    @youeyeball Před rokem +25

    Very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. God bless you and yours during your grief 🙏.
    Thank you for always sharing your light and humor. Wish we could do for you, as you do for us. Our sincerest condolences 🙏.

  • @nmyhre78
    @nmyhre78 Před 3 lety +29

    You are such a light, I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m happy you found the strength to keep going and not let these losses defeat you. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for lifting so many spirits with your exceptional comedy. Love you girl xoxo

  • @mattendspiel9341
    @mattendspiel9341 Před rokem +111

    Dear Hayley. I wanted you to know that I’m seeing this video for the first time a year later. It was top of my recommendations and this cannot have come at a more appropriate time.
    In August, we learned that my father has terminal cancer and not given long to live. He is currently in hospital, looking forward to coming home for his final weeks.
    My mother has dementia as well. She is in hospital after having elective surgery on her knee. The tragedy is that she has forgotten that my dad is terminally ill.
    I wanted to give you my condolences and to tell you that I am going to use your idea of expressing gratitude.
    Bless you Hayley. Thank you for making this video and I am grateful it came to me at this time.
    🙏

    • @Tori-ko7wz
      @Tori-ko7wz Před rokem +12

      I can’t believe it. That’s so sad. My favourite person died in august, just weeks after my nan’s birthday, and despite being I’ll, he still got her a card for the window sill, even after she died. I guess we all have extreme heartache

    • @jameydupuy9280
      @jameydupuy9280 Před měsícem +1

      Hugs. ❤

  • @cynthiamorua1624
    @cynthiamorua1624 Před rokem +33

    I know it's been almost 2 years since this video, but I recently found your content. I lost my Mother at 19. It's been over 20 years, but it still hurts. You're not alone. You make so many people laugh...hope it continues! ❤

  • @lolaw6871
    @lolaw6871 Před 3 lety +21

    You're such an inspiration! Whenever I feel sad, you're there to cheer me up. I wish I could do the same for you.. Sending you lots of love!

  • @PoizonIvy1221
    @PoizonIvy1221 Před 2 lety +54

    I’m a new viewer and I’m so sorry for your loss. I know this was filmed last year but after losing my mom I know time really doesn’t “heal all wounds”. So I wish you peace on the days when it’s really hard in the years to come. Thank you for all the joy and laughs you give me when I am struggling. ❤

  • @lilelly16
    @lilelly16 Před rokem +7

    I am a big fan of your channel

  • @jeffpiper4208
    @jeffpiper4208 Před rokem +48

    He was so lucky to have a daughter who loved him so much. He will live in your heart forever. I’m so sorry for both of your losses

  • @rachelclemons5276
    @rachelclemons5276 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you for being vulnerable with us, such a brave thing to do!

  • @Pur9leRain
    @Pur9leRain Před rokem +44

    Your dad sounds like he was a brilliant father. What a legend. You’re so fortunate to have someone like him. I hope your healing from the loss. Gone but never forgotten

  • @SandersandCo2123
    @SandersandCo2123 Před rokem +3

    Just seeing this September 2022, but praying for your continued self healing. You make great content that is sooo relatable!

  • @mistersniffers5922
    @mistersniffers5922 Před rokem +5

    You were immensely blessed to have such an amazing father! This was a huge gap in my life & my mother died last year -but we were never close. Your comedy is wonderful, and I'm happy to learn that your father gave you that gift. I hope you continue to share it with us in the future. Hug your friends!

  • @cancerwithasmile
    @cancerwithasmile Před 3 lety +55

    Sending love, losing a parent at such a young age is incredibly difficult but I promise it does get easier and hurts a little less xx

  • @archanamani2898
    @archanamani2898 Před 3 lety +5

    I totally feel your pain as I’ve been going through something very similar - just know that making it through each day, is an achievement in itself 💖

  • @firstlady161
    @firstlady161 Před rokem +25

    Oh sweet girl, I’ve only just seen this, you give us so much joy and it’s so sad to see you so distressed. I wish I could hug you as I’m sure many of your viewers would. Many of us completely understand what you are going through having been through something similar ourselves. But it doesn’t stop it being so painful. I hope you can cling to the good memories and the crying will diminish but the pain of their loss is something we can’t help you with much as we would love to. It will become less painful over time but your memories will always be there. Good luck. 5:50

  • @AgingGam3r
    @AgingGam3r Před rokem +10

    I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I cannot imagine the struggle you went through. As a father, my daughter is only 3, your comments and sharing of emotions for your dad makes me want to be a better father to my daughter. My wife and I lover your comedy. Thank you and I wish you peace.

  • @samuelleleveau3895
    @samuelleleveau3895 Před 3 lety +4

    Loving your videos. You sound so authentic, nice and funny; human really. Just started following you about a month ago actually and it’s a personal joy for me to watch your videos when they come out.
    I am really sorry for your loss.
    Grief is very personal but I think what you feel, everyone who lost a parent can relate. You seem to be doing all the right things for yourself. You are learning to live with the grief. Your dad lives through you now.

  • @sarahwest1983
    @sarahwest1983 Před 3 lety +7

    I lost my Dad in February so I am so feeling your pain, it’s heartbreaking. Your processing of it is amazing, I have tried to do the same to make sure I don’t hold it in. Sending love to you from just over the water in Bournemouth xx

  • @shev6213
    @shev6213 Před rokem +39

    Seeing this on my recommended videos over a year after you posted. I just wanted to tell you I’m so sorry about your dad. I understand your grief I lost mine in September 2020. It’s still hard. Be kind to yourself as you work through your grief ❤

  • @dolfingirl2000
    @dolfingirl2000 Před rokem +3

    OMG! I just discovered you and I adore your videos and subscribed right away. I'm so sorry for your hurt and the loss of your beloved Dad...I know it was over a year ago, but I'm still going to send you my condolences and I hope that you're filled with peace. You are an amazing talent and I'm grateful that I found you.

  • @stephanieellis5399
    @stephanieellis5399 Před 2 lety +18

    I'm sorry to hear about your dad. As someone who lost her daddy 26 years ago and did bottle it up and did minimal processing, I am so glad to hear you are not doing the same. Now, my mum has Alzheimer's and, well, she's gone even while she still lives. It's an odd thing as I'm sure you know.
    I should follow your example and make a conscious effort to journal and seek some grief counselling because, you're right, bottling it all up isn't good.

  • @lauriew8433
    @lauriew8433 Před rokem +22

    I know at least a year has passed since you lost your dad, but I've just recently found your lovely channel. My heart deeply aches for you, dear girl.

  • @scottaussem1771
    @scottaussem1771 Před rokem +1

    Im sorry for your loss your dad sounds like my dad he was a great dad taught me everything i needed to get thru life. Your an amazing woman. I hope you find a greater love in your life keep your sense of humor

  • @evpack
    @evpack Před rokem +2

    Awwww. I've seen a few of your (very funny) comedy videos and then I see this, which is heart-wrenching and heart-warming. You've made us all a little bit more human. Thx.

  • @gozin
    @gozin Před rokem +34

    Hi Hayley, myself and my wife recently discovered your channel and we love it. I lost my mum to FTD/picks disease November 2020. My heart aches for you and your family; it is truly a horrendous illness and robs you of your loved one over a tortuously long time period.
    Not sure if you'll read this as you posted this a while back but one piece of advice is try your best to compartmentalise the time your Dad was ill and not let it taint the good memories you have of him. This is something I have struggled with since my Mum passed away and I hope you can do better than me :)

  • @Jennifer-on2qn
    @Jennifer-on2qn Před rokem +3

    It's been a while since you've posted this. I just came across some of your shorts last night, while trying to ignore my grief. My mother just passed less than a month ago. It's incredibly hard. I am sorry you lost your father. I wanted to say thank you for all your videos and shorts. They made me laugh and smile during a time I thought I couldn't. Many blessings to you.

  • @matthewmurphy8981
    @matthewmurphy8981 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey, vulnerability, example, and leadership as a great human. Warm support.

  • @ciroccomoody1242
    @ciroccomoody1242 Před rokem +3

    I’m so sorry, but thank you so much for your strength in sharing this with so many of us who otherwise might have felt totally alone. Sending love❤️

  • @kimdenny2738
    @kimdenny2738 Před rokem +6

    The depth and beauty of your sharing this deep life changing heartbreak is reflected in many beautiful and respectful comments. Through humor and Artful visualization you have touched so many of our fears and joys. We are grateful for the person you are. And share in this very human transition. Your father must have been quite a man. We all celebrate him

  • @spudfingers_united8663
    @spudfingers_united8663 Před rokem +7

    Thank you for being brave enough to post this. I've only just found your hilarious content then saw this video today. We lost dad in july 2022 and like your dad; he was taken from us quicker than expected. With moving and other things going on in your life at the same time it must've been unbelievably difficult. We hope you are ok. You probably dont realise you've given people a reason to smile in their darkest moments. Your dad would be so immensely proud of you. Thank you

  • @TenaciousTMidwest
    @TenaciousTMidwest Před 11 měsíci +12

    My wife discovered your content a couple of weeks ago. I just started going through your channel tonight. Everything that we have seen of yours is laugh out loud funny!
    Then I saw this video, and broke down weeping. Anna's mom passed away three years ago this past June. She had vascular dementia, along with COVID. Because travel & being in hospitals was severely restricted, at the time, none of her daughters or grandchildren could be with her during her last days.
    So, when you told your story, I could see & feel how much you love & miss your dad. I could feel your pain during that video.
    Thank you for your humor, your wit, and your way of being genuine with people.
    Looking forward to seeing more of your stuff!
    Love From South Dakota!

  • @24_7_Truth
    @24_7_Truth Před rokem +5

    Awe babe... I am so sorry you're going thru a hard time. I know any forms of Dementia is difficult to deal with. My heart breaks for people that have to deal with a loved one with the terrible disease.
    You are such a beautiful person inside & out. Much love from Tennessee, USA💜

  • @bremenschmidt2437
    @bremenschmidt2437 Před rokem +4

    I've been watching your videos and Instagram for a couple months now and you crack me up everyday and I want to thank you very much for this laughter, you're awesome. And I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, I just lost my dad last May and I'm still in shock and can't believe that he is gone so I feel your pain. My condolences. I am so glad you are part of my life! :-)

  • @CelebrityWotNot
    @CelebrityWotNot Před rokem +3

    Sending you love. Sorry for your loss.

  • @preetumuleypandey7330
    @preetumuleypandey7330 Před rokem +1

    Your videos have been so relatable qnd funny, you've made my day every single day and I'm sure your dad is very proud. Alll strength to you!

  • @ScottishBraveheart1983
    @ScottishBraveheart1983 Před rokem +2

    I've just recently found your lovely channel. So sorry for your loss. If it helps, grief is the loss of love. We are not ever taught or shown about how to cope with grief which is not ok as we'll all have to process it. My dear Mother passed 17yrs ago and many family and friends since then. You're so very right, there is no right or wrong way to process it but I had to let you know how brave you are for this video and you're a beautiful soul 💗 love & light from Scotland xxx

  • @meme-jc5ks
    @meme-jc5ks Před 3 lety +20

    I am so, so, so very sorry for your loss. May he Rest In Peace. Sending so much love to you and your family. X

  • @euanmacleod3738
    @euanmacleod3738 Před rokem +3

    So sorry for your loss. Greif like this is beyond words. It sounds like you had a beautiful, precious relationship with your dad, and I'm sure he cherished every second of it like you did and was tremendously proud of the person you became. As a father myself I can say his moments with you likely made his life perfect, and your moments with him are always with you in the person you are - meaning in a real sense he is always going to be with you. I wish you all the best and hope you're getting on okay.

  • @BusyBeeRecovery
    @BusyBeeRecovery Před 10 měsíci

    You bring so much joy to many people's lives. It's hard to see you hurting, but inspiring how strong you are. Thank you for sharing all of your beautiful self with us.🥰 We love you❣️

  • @via5063
    @via5063 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely love your videos. You are such a funny person and you bring a lot of joy to my life when I need to smile and laugh the most. I truly appreciate your contributions to CZcams. Thank you for being so open and sharing your views/perspectives on certain topics. Thank you for being so awesome!

  • @tracyscooking4656
    @tracyscooking4656 Před 2 lety +10

    I'm so sorry to hear this. I lost my dad back in 1996 when I was 17. If you ever need to talk , let me know. Sending love and support ❤️

  • @tomburgin
    @tomburgin Před rokem +8

    My father was in his 60s when he died 4 years ago from Pick's disease. It's an appalling disease to suffer from and to deal with from a family and care perspective. You're so right about grieving before they are gone, that's exactly how I felt. I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope the time that's passed since your father died has helped to smooth the waters a little and made it hurt a little less.

  • @AffectionatelyNae
    @AffectionatelyNae Před 3 měsíci

    Praying that your healing journey has gotten easier! Sending hugs your way

  • @pamshifra
    @pamshifra Před rokem

    Thank you for all the joy you bring us with your videos. I wish you and your family peace during this very difficult time. ❤

  • @calicogreyroot9238
    @calicogreyroot9238 Před rokem +9

    Just watched this video in January 2023... It's been one year since I lost my mom to dementia too. My father and husband and I cared for her at home until the end and her passing has left a gaping hole in our lives. Honestly, I've lost my sense of purpose. It's been so hard... I'm really glad you're taking steps to keep yourself healthy during this painful time and that your family members are supporting each other. You are such a talented person and you give me hope that my life might get better someday too. Much love and healing.

  • @malcolmmunroe1257
    @malcolmmunroe1257 Před rokem +10

    I feel your pain of loss regarding your father. I am 12 years since my father’s death, it is still there. Your video was enlightening.

  • @downswithupsdownswithups6775

    Oh Hayley. I’ve just come across your wonderful videos that have made me laugh so much. Thank you for sharing this, such a personal message. I hope that with the passage of time your pain has eased and happier memories have come to the fore.

  • @richwallach1129
    @richwallach1129 Před rokem +1

    So glad that you're getting so much support here. You deserve it for all the laughter you bring to these uncertain times. Love and Strength always.

  • @joekavanagh7171
    @joekavanagh7171 Před rokem +3

    I'm so sorry to hear this Hayley. Your dad sounds like a great guy. I hope that since then time has helped to heal your pain, and that the beautiful memories you have of him will outweigh the grief. He is waiting for you in a far better world x

  • @elessar60
    @elessar60 Před rokem +3

    I just saw this video and I'm so sorry for all that went on back then. You never get over the loss of a loved one, but you do learn to cope. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and sympathy even though it's much later.

  • @Michel-rh3nj
    @Michel-rh3nj Před rokem

    I admire your courage for sharing your hardship and your emotions. It’s not obvious and shows your strength. thank you so much for sharing, for being real, for what you bring.

  • @7andearth76
    @7andearth76 Před rokem +1

    I’ve watched your hilarious shorts and thank you for the laughter. This just popped up and of course I had to check in. I don’t have parents but I have children and grandchildren and just the thought of them being ill or leaving this earth Brings pain to my soul. I hope you’re doing at least a bit better by now. Lots of 💕

  • @FarscapeFanDCT
    @FarscapeFanDCT Před 2 lety +9

    Hi @Hayley Morris, you probably don’t remember me posting to you, but I too had a father who was diagnosed with Picks Disease (FTD). I found your page because I related so much in what your going through. Grieving a love one who is taken over by illness. I loved my father dearly like you loved yours and I too lost him this year.
    I’m crying as I write this as I’m still in the grieving process, but have to learned to function with the pain. He died at 57 years old on April 21, 2021. You may not read this comment, but if you do, know I’m praying for you and your family and your not in this alone.
    God Bless

  • @PhillipLemmon
    @PhillipLemmon Před rokem +34

    Seeing this AFTER your I million shirt update....
    I'm so sorry to hear about your dad.
    I almost turned the video off for fear of wetting up my phone with tears.
    But I didn't.
    Just want to say I love you and whenever you post again we will be watching and laughing.
    (mental health note:
    please take your time and deal with your heart and mind during this tough time I wish you and your family well)

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- Před 2 měsíci +2

    Im sorry about ur dad. ! 😢 hugs! Seeing this yrs ago. Glad u have support & your prepare for therapy.

  • @paulinefaber997
    @paulinefaber997 Před rokem

    I have only found your channel recently. I am very sorry for your loss. I really appreciate the lightness you bring to my day.

  • @maggysday
    @maggysday Před rokem +9

    It makes sense. I used to cry every time I would speak about my dads passing 2 years after it happened... so sorry for your loss. We love you

  • @jonismith7897
    @jonismith7897 Před rokem +13

    This was filmed 2 years ago, but wow, such raw emotions. I’m so very sorry for your loss. That’s a lot to have to deal with, just know that you’re in my prayers. I hope that time has helped you deal with everything as you’ve needed to.

  • @craigsisco1894
    @craigsisco1894 Před rokem

    I just saw this after enjoying your comedy videos. Thank you for your bravery to share. Your dad lives on through you and your amazing talent.

  • @grantamey1537
    @grantamey1537 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I’m so very sorry for your loss , I know what you are going through having recently lost both parents myself

  • @judithpack6124
    @judithpack6124 Před rokem +4

    My heart ached for you watching this. I am a new fan so this just popped up. I am a physical therapist in long term care and have been for over 30 years. Loss of a parent under any circumstance is difficult but dementia is a particularly hard pill to swallow. I know you have come a long way with this over the past year but I am still sending you hugs and warm thoughts. You certainly bring light to my world as well as countless others!

  • @davidpuzycki7278
    @davidpuzycki7278 Před rokem +4

    So sorry for your loss . I'm 71 and never even knew my dad .I lost my mom over 20 years ago . The pain does subside but keep your dad in your heart which I know you will do . The joyful memories will keep you going .God bless you .

  • @juneledell6983
    @juneledell6983 Před rokem +1

    geez so sorry -totally understand. Lost both my parents and my baby sister. The lose is heartbreaking. My sympathies. Sending virtual hugs and appreciation for your candor.

  • @HolisticRedTent
    @HolisticRedTent Před měsícem

    Sending you so much love and hugs Hayley. 🤍 Your vulnerability and honesty in sharing your journey is so very humbling.

  • @KirstenIsHere
    @KirstenIsHere Před rokem +3

    I totally understand that it doesn’t get any better saying it because I lost my dad too when I was five he fell from a high place but now I’m feeling better and he will always be in my heart ❤️ 😢

  • @rocknrollcraftstar1081
    @rocknrollcraftstar1081 Před rokem +3

    I am so sorry for your loss. My father had dementia and passed in 2020. Like you and your family we weren’t ready to lose him and to your point, you grieve the diagnosis of dementia and then the loss of a parent. It’s awful…but therapy helps and knowing that grief isn’t a straight road. Hold on to the good memories, treasure the parts of your father that continue to live on in you. ❤

  • @annan4866
    @annan4866 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤
    Much love to you!
    Recently discovered you and thank you for the tremendous laughter you have brought myself and friends. Your dad is very proud of you I'm sure .🌺

  • @Sarahqiu
    @Sarahqiu Před rokem +2

    I’m so sorry about your dad. He’d be very proud of you. I hope you and your family can heal eventually, and connect with each other and hold each other deeply through this difficult time. Time heals ❤

  • @swissmiss116
    @swissmiss116 Před 2 lety +42

    My father passed away after a short and sudden battle with COVID. That was Jan 22’
    Just found this creator/channel and LOVE HER! My pops would get a huge kick outta her.
    Love and thanks for the 😂 and distractions

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 Před rokem

      So sorry for your loss, I lost my aunt to Covid then my uncle (aunts brother) to Covid two months later

    • @NavyGunnersMateMan
      @NavyGunnersMateMan Před rokem

      @@natalieeubank4533 Well your aunt was weak wasn't she? She clearly couldn't handle something so small

    • @NavyGunnersMateMan
      @NavyGunnersMateMan Před rokem

      Well he was probably weak wasn't he? He clearly didn't deserve to live if something small could end his life. Good thing the deaths have stopped since covid just...gave up

  • @anemone6204
    @anemone6204 Před rokem +3

    I feel you, my father and I are extremely close since my mother and I have always had a turbolent relationship. I send you a huge huge hug from Italy ❤️

  • @tristessa1975
    @tristessa1975 Před rokem

    I’ve only just stumbled across you and I think you’re completely fabulous. What an unexpected and delightful discovery! Your humour is 100% my cup of tea.
    I too know something of the road you’ve travelled. My Dad had younger onset Alzheimer’s and passed away in 2013, when I was in my early 30s. The complexity of grief you spoke of is something not many people can relate to. I hope you are doing ok and that you’ve still felt the love and support of those close to you. There’s no time limit on grief, nor is there a rule book. ❤️

  • @osjapa
    @osjapa Před rokem

    Oh darling, so sorry about your dad, I am sending you some warm [virtual] hugs.
    Your short videos always make me smile and chuckle and sometimes even laugh out loud, and I surely hope you are well and we will see more of your delightful self xxx

  • @nashwas5761
    @nashwas5761 Před 3 lety +7

    Take your time to heal, Hayley. We’ll be here for you. Keep your strength ♥️

  • @wiccanmoon0001
    @wiccanmoon0001 Před rokem +3

    I’ve no idea how I missed this, I’m
    So sorry for the sad loss for your dad. I hope you’re doing a better now. You’re das must have been hilarious, because your videos never fail to crack me up. Even if I don’t want to laugh or if I’m just unwell (as I am often) Thank you to your dad for his sense of humor that was obviously passed down to you. 🌸

  • @sampeters1252
    @sampeters1252 Před rokem

    Hayley, I love your work, your videos brighten my day. It's December 2022 currently and I just saw this video of yours. I'm sorry for your loss but I hope things are better for you now that a few months have passed since this video was made.
    Happy New Year 😃

  • @stevejones8392
    @stevejones8392 Před rokem

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Only discovered your videos recently and both myself and my partner love them.
    Thanks for all you do. Lots of love x

  • @mamazalama
    @mamazalama Před 9 měsíci +3

    Sweet woman-child, everything has been said, but I just had to add my love and support. I pray you are feeling better, you deserve it as you give so much of yourself to the world and we adore you for your way of sharing. My dad was a huge part of my life and still is although he passed several years ago. We are so fortunate to have had fathers like ours. Just wanted to say I'm with you, love you and look forward to whatever you want to share. God has blessed you in so many ways. You are never alone, the YOU within is with you always and forever, guiding and giving you strength and assurance. Please never doubt even for a second the Source of your blessings, which is God's Love. Shanti Om, dearest Sister.

  • @stephenreese5921
    @stephenreese5921 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I’m sorry to hear of your breakup and loss of your dad. Both are extremely stressful and I hope that you seek out professional help. When I lost the love of my life and my father, I had no one to talk to. It took me many years to deal with it and have come to accept it even if it still hurts some 30 years later. Watching your previous videos gave me joy.

  • @dianagarland5366
    @dianagarland5366 Před rokem +1

    So sorry for your loss. We appreciate the smiles you bring us when were down and i hope the memories you have of him bring a smile to your face today.

  • @CaptainRambunctious
    @CaptainRambunctious Před rokem

    So sorry to hear this. If anything, thank you for talking about this and grief and how you’re getting counselling as this will help others in a similar position. Thank you and you’re being very brave.
    Take care.

  • @balancedactguy
    @balancedactguy Před 2 lety +3

    My Sincerest Condolences to you Hayley. I no longer have either parent. Do your best to let go of the pain and focus on the Love you had for your Dad...as Love is what's supposed to endure! Much Love to you from the US!!

  • @melissabiri2947
    @melissabiri2947 Před rokem +3

    No matter how long we get with a loved one, it is never enough.. I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I'm sure he'll be watching over you to smile & laugh with you on the good times and be a comforting presence for you during hard times. *healing hugs*

  • @erinrow399
    @erinrow399 Před rokem

    I’ve just found your videos in the past few months and they have given me some much needed laughs.
    Just seeing this now and I’m so sorry for the unwelcome changes in life. Relationships and parents health, gosh that’s all so much.
    I have a healthy parent and fear loosing them so much. Hoping you’ve found some healing and comfort over this last year.

  • @cassandrahill6339
    @cassandrahill6339 Před rokem

    I'm sorry for your loss. I wish I could do something for you because your videos make my day. Thank you for the laughs