The REAL TRUTH about "Guard Your Heart" ❤️ Proverbs 4 23
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Proverbs 4 23 - "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
Have you ever asked yourself "What does it mean to guard my heart?" or "What is Proverbs 4 23 telling us when it says guard your heart or protect your heart ?" Be sure to listen, like, and subscribe! Oh and leave a comment below to share your thoughts.
Trying to figure out how to guard your heart in a relationship should not be your focus. For a relationship to thrive you have to be open and vulnerable. I know that may sound scary, but that's why healing is needed. You have to be truly open to love, and trust God to protect your heart.
I hope this video helps with this topic of guarding your heart, and provides a better understanding of Proverbs 4 23. I want you all to be open to receiving the man or woman God has for you. It is ok to guard your heart and to be cautious of what you let in your life. But don't "guard your heart" in a way that you shut down your heart and opportunities to meet the right one.
"The same walls you put up to protect you are the same ones blocking your blessing."
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I used to tell my girl all the time. The same walls you use to protect you also keeps out the good trying to invest in you.
God spoke to me about this last year. He told me that I had built walls around me to protect myself but those same walls were keeping out things that I wanted. Throughout the year He began to help me heal and trust Him enough to let those walls come down.
That a spiritual issue that can only be handle by God he tells who too trust a person can only do so much
@@dennaesmith415 wow I feel the exact way! I realized this too. Yeah i kept myself safe in a cocoon from being hurt, but i also guarded myself from love and intimacy too which i want
This is so true, and I think this is part of what led my husband to commit adultery and us separating. Although committing adultery was his choice and I put him out, I can see how some of my errors affected our marriage.
Note to self!!! Heartbreak is painful. Recognize when the HOLY SPIRIT whispers to you and only you. DISCERNMENT!
Guard your heart against anyone unequally yolked. ♥ 👑 ✝️✔️💯
Amen to that!
The same walls you have up to protect you are the same walls that are blocking your blessings 🙌
“Walk by faith. Heal. Trust God with my heart.”
I agree 100% with this video. I refuse to go into a new relationship with a jackhammer trying to break in. One should heal and become whole before getting involved with someone.
Da Nia absolutely don’t get into a relationship halfhearted
Da nia, I agree to a degree .we definitely need to get as much healing as possible before getting in a relationship. However, we will always have room for improvement. I believe there's layers of healing. It's not like we're 100% healed. None of us are perfect . Some stuff we won't realize until we're actually in a relationship to work through it beloved.
Sometimes you don't realize you need to heal, until you try to date again 😮
This is so true
“If you are walking in fear your are letting the devil use to”
You are welcome God bless you
If your walking in fear your letting Satan steal your joy because he comes to steal and kill and destroy ,God wants to give you life and more abundantly 🤗
yeah its true how can be free from fear?
Guard your mind too folks!!!
shawna Wallace once you guard your heart your mind will automatically be guarded as well since the heart is the source of it all.
In Scripture, the word heart represents the center of our emotions, thinking, and reasoning. It is the command center of our life. So when we read, ”Guard your heart” (Proverbs 4;23), it makes a lot of sense. We need God’s help not to neglect His Word, but to use it to align our hearts with His heart every day.
Well said
Very well said!❤
Proverbs 4:23
..Guard your heart!!! No negative energy!!!
this video broke my heart , made me face my reality , changing my perspective and trusting God going on from now
Yess Trust God and he’ll help you discern who to trust and he also mends hearts
Sometimes I dont trust myself. I struggle with recognizing where I should let God lead and where I should use clear judgement. Hearing this message does give me more clarity.
I trust God to lead me but try to balance this with discernment in all areas of life (love, work, friendships, ect)
I agree 100% with what you said. I used to believe it meant protecting your heart with walls. But as I have been studying scripture and praying on it and reading Faith Based books. What you said makes more sense. I used to be an awkwardly social person and I truly believe that I have to learned to put my fear and anxiety aside so I do not give the devil control over my blessings. This is something I have been working on this year. I am putting myself out there in my church and getting involved, which are things I've never done because of how I would allow myself to be consumed in fear of rejection. But now I am living in God's light and I will no longer be a prisoner to my fear and anxiety. Thank you so much for always spreading such uplifting messages. GOD BLESS ❤️
It’s a VERY delicate line when recovering from a narcissistic abusive relationship. Most, if not all, CZcams posts will tell you to run, be afraid, be very afraid of relationships and when approaching relationships! They stress be on high alert at all times!! Makes it truly difficult for the one who wants to experience real, true meaningful love 🤦♀️
I totally understand
Guarding Your Heart simply means allowing God to protect it from things and situations WE can’t see ahead. Yes, I agree we will be hurt at some point and time in our life however, we must always be aware of the things we don’t want so that we can welcome the things we do want. #guardyourheart
Amen to that!! 🌸
EXACTLY👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Amen..toxic people..Guard against them
On the other hand, the heart represents our innermost feelings and emotions. So sometimes our heart leads us to making the wrong decisions based on emotion. In guarding the heart, you are using yr head ❤️🧠
I felt that.
No In guarding your heart you are being lead by God.
Living in truth and righteousness
Yes. Guard your spiritual heart from all negativity.
Wow! This last week I have studied several interpretations of Proverbs 4:23. This short video said it all for me. I understand and feel the truth about it. Blessings and many thanks to you! ✌️❤️
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
Good word❤🙏 but I never knew my life could depend on me discerning good from evil in a man. We need to be cautious. It almost cost me my life.
The way that works for me is to do nothing. All of those toxic actions I used to take to try to avoid heart break I keep it inside and release it to the lord.I also know that the word says the Lord is a just judge and that he will repay 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 so it is not my job to react bc it is his battle not mine. We have to stay in our place. I pray for peace in my heart and a peace of mind and look around me for blessings that I can thank the lord for. “And allow the peace that comes from Christ to live in your hearts. For as members of one body, you are called to live in peace and ALWAYS be thankful”. 💕😭🙏🏾🥰❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾
God is always confirming himself. He is right! This was in my devotion today. "Guarding your heart, doesn't mean not loving others. We love like Christ, its always has risk involved. Allowing yourself be vulnerable and genuinely caring (loving) deeply. Possibility of deep connection and love. A wounded heart is susceptible to hurt someone else." Healing is needed. Blocks you from being loved. He is right!
Amen , Agreed
"The same walls you put up to protect you are the same walls blocking your blessing" I resonate with those words (reminded me of Brene Brown about vulnerability) because the pain of heartbreak can be so big that you just want to shut down all gates not to experience it ever again. But in the same time...you hardly can let anything good in. I am learning to open the gates again, I know it is silly to keep them shut. Thank you for your simple truth I needed to be remineded of. God bless you!
I grew up in church most of my life and im NOW understanding why the Bible is Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth! (B.I.B.L.E) God HAS given us everything we need and its within us. As i work on myself, im understanding the Bible more. Thanks for speaking Stephan.
Wow this really touched me just now! I’m very guarded right now after the man I’ve been with for 6 years has continued to hurt our relationship. And here I am bitter, angry, got my guards up, fearful of getting hurt a 7th time .. and your right walking in fear is coming from the enemy when I should walk with faith that God will protect my heart. 🙏🏽♥️
Jasmine Morales when a person shows you who they are believe them don’t continue to take it anymore, each time he breaks your heart your self esteem is affected God is trying to tell you something your going to keep going around the same mountain if you refuse to be obedient , I real man protects ,loves and provides 😇
I've been trying to find my way back into God's grace and watching your videos has helped, so thank you.
Proverbs 4:23 is referring to control your thinking…for out of your thoughts issues of life occurs.
For example, if you feel your neighbor is making you angry? Don’t allow your thoughts to believe that.
Hearing your explanation makes me think of just living in your joy/happiness and to live in love no matter what or who comes and goes ✨
Amen! No matter how much I have been hurt, I still choose to love and have an open heart.
Yes! Walking in love! Not allowing the circumstances to dictate your joy! Abide in Christ!!
God saids the joy of the Lord is yours that true happiness because he loved us first
Ms. Holloway once God has done the appropriate work in you He will send that husband
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I definitely touch and agree, and that’s why it’s always wise to ask the Lord for clarity regarding Scripture.
Thank you Stephan for this teaching and clear understanding of Proverbs 4:23
Just rolled my eyes because what you’re saying is confirmation to REALLY trust God and Jesus and be a kind open minded happy and out going person again.
nessa nikkita when you love and treat people right God is in you and if God Be for you who can be against you
I believe you have a point! Because if you are completely guarded how can you receive love and give love? you will always be fearful, and anxious.
Thank you! Blessings.
Yes checklist of regulating your emotions! 👋
Love them in such a way that they should feel free❤️
Sir...you are absolutely correct, we must allow God to be the center of all issues that flow through our hearts. Only God can provide the holistic view point that will generate blessings and protection in our life. He alone knows the pure nature of our heart and provides grace when we are ignorant in our decisions. Once again thank you @stephanspeaks. Your wisdom continues to bless and enrich my life. Be Blessed.
Stephan is only speaking in part - with some valuable points. Keep in mind all of us are at different stages in our faith and walk with God. I recommend that those listening seek God one-on-one...🙏🙏
Well said. I think you hit the nail on the head on this!! I don’t want my blessing being blocked anymore.
I’m still learning so much the older I get. This is a powerful video...Thanks...Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen. Yes Sir!
Its right, the more you avoid your self to be hurt, the more you get hurt...
Im very sensitive women but im not afraid to get hurt we cant avoid it, because what Christ suffered in this world happen to us..guarding your hearts means dont let your heart being trouble, dont let that hurts and angry stays in your heart it ruins your future.
If you love God you will get hurt because its not easy people will persecute you but why do you stays in God because you see future in his kingdom same goes with loving someone. But if you stay faithfull and positive you will overcome all of this.
God bless pastor Stephan🙏
I keep waking up at 423 am so i looked it up and it took me to proverbs 4:23 and that led me here bc i didn’t understand but now i understand hearing you i started to cry. Bc this is what I’ve been asking for and God gave me the answers to all my questions through your video !!😭😭😭
Needed to hear this. I'm not Christian but I appreciate the lesson and perspective. Thank you!
Same
Double same x
I agree 💯 That's the way love go's !
Steven you nailed that pretty good. You covered one end of the extreme Spectrum, over guarding. Under guarding the other side of the extreme Spectrum. I was guilty of under guarding, so when it comes to guarding properly we have to be as innocent as doves and wise as serpents
Sharing this with my circle. Confirmation to pray about everything and pray about your process.
Real talk! "Guard your heart."
Vulnerability is feminine and the main characteristic that makes a good man fall in love! Don't play hard to get. Just BE easy to lose.
I love your message ❤️
The Fasting Goddess Yes be Vulnerable to the right person but learn by listening with your mind and spiritual decernment
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What??
Yes i agree with you. I walk in faith. I separate myself from the evil.
Enjoyed hearing an excellent prospective on this - Guard your ❤!!! 🙏💗🙏
You’re speaking the truth. Thank you!
To me guard your heart means that we watch what we let enter your eye gate and ear gate (e.g. what we watch, what we read, what we listen to) that can break us down spiritually and end up making us vulnerable to the devil getting the best of us and destroying our lives.
Definitely needed to hear this today! Thank you!
Wow, what a revelation! Absolutely agree with this.
Stephan, you are telling the truth.
Thank you Stephan Labossiere
Such a good message! I’ve been meditating in this scripture and asking God how to make this practical for me! I had a prophet tell me other day to guard my heart ❤️ and of course I’m nodding and aware of the scripture. And I had another prophetic friend tell me to prepare my heart and that not many hearts could endure what I have or will. And so I’m like okay GOD, let’s work on this, but how? I like the way you broke it down.
Being vulnerable is a scary thing when you've been hurt and used in the past. But I think the fact that I'm scared, means I'm not ready to let someone in yet and I still have some healing to do.
Amen. I like how you started off by saying to pray about it first. I want to totally heal and learn to allow God to show me how to change my perspective.
Thanks and Lord Blesd
Felicia 1234 also pray for a church home to study and learn Have a close and intimate relationship with God that’s the key
Wow. Very profound. I'm going to heed this immediately! Bless you.
Wow! Food for the soul.
Proverbs 4:23 Guarding your heart, SPIRITUAL HEART GOD IS AMAZING GOOD. The word "HEART" looks at the center of this word there's an "EAR" in the middle of the Spiritual Heart. This is the heart I believe God is speaking about. Not the physical fleshy heart where the blood flow. Yes, Stephan, I agree with the Spiritual Cleanings Healing.
This message was for me and I shared it with some people. Thank you.
The heart is the subconscious mind
That's a good word. I was just sharing something similar with a young man. He shared a story of a family situation and I reminded him we are to love the sinner and only hate the sin. However to create safe boundaries for respect on both sides of the aisle.
Thank you…it was for me🙏🏾
Wow makes sense, Very profound! Thank you💕
This is so good. You share so much wisdom with us, and it is appreciated!! I once heard that fear is faith (for some people)...just in a negative way, so we have to be very careful and mindful of having faith that produces positive fruit.
Absolutely true! You can either operate out of love or fear . everything else is a by product of that.
Perfect timing... thank you!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks, yes... just divine confirmation
I agree so much. Insane amount of wisdom.
Thank you So Much For This.. God is definitely Using You🙏🏾 #Humbled🌹
#Truth... I have had MANY conversations with others about this... We have emotions and we are to learn how to manage them as we are trusting in God.. not hiding from life. Thank you Stephan
In agreement with this interpretation of The WORD. ❤ This scripture has been presented as you say for walls to go up. Good things can't penetrate walls. We have to have healthy boundaries with others....not what this scripture is imparting. ❤
Wow, spot on Stephen!!! That was a sermon!! Good job❤
I agree with your interpretation. Everything you do flows from the heart. Guard your heart from hate. Trust in God, increase your faith
EXACTLY! THANK YOU!
My interpretation of this scripture was way off but I cried once I heard yours 🥺 I always got this scripture wrong thinking it meant I needed to have a wall up since I constantly get hurt by others.
I just adore this man! 😫😫😫
Very valid points. All this time I did have that scripture wrong and now I have a better understanding of what guard your heart means. I love how this was broken down thank you❤
Yes you're right about that I cannot agree with you more 100% on that sentence but at the same time you know what we know the way to stop that from happening and stop making judgments and moving too fast with the relationship you got to see how things go first and to see if there is any connection between the two
Good message needed to hear it. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you very much for this truth, sir.
Thank you for this. Im trying to heal and trust God so I can fully love!
You have to guard your heart from actually doing good and protecting yourself from evil. I feel a person's vulnerability is not for everyone to explore because there are very sacred parts that can come with being vulnerable. You can't allow that to be a playground for people and I think there are levels to it. It can be very easy for people to take advantage of you because of your heart. Bad things that happen to us do allow us to grow and those bad moments teach us how to control our intentional output. There will be moments and parts of me that I will share with you and only you (mind, body and soul).
For years I thought this passage meant
exactly what most believe. I recently received a different outlook which lines up with what you are sharing. I am learning to walk in love (although a challenge with some) and watch the universe manifest the best outcome in every situation. Thanks for the reminder.
I agree, what ever you allow to enter in you will display on the outward man, meaning what ever you allow to take hold of you, you will ultimately show in action at some point, and this will hinder you from being open to the one that is for you..
Love this perspective. I do walk in fear. I will work on this.
This came when I least expected it and needed it most. You left me speechless. Thank you ❤️
@Andrew M. Thank you 😁
I’m glad you started inputting the word of God.
Damn you really opened my eyes in a completely different viewpoint of what guarding your heart can actually be.
God is the greatest healer if your heart gets broken God can heal it…. You can’t walk in fear. Be lead by The Holy Spirit.
Wow...beautiful message! ❤️
Thanks 👍 you helped me break thru a tormented prison.❤
Amen Stephen Thank For Explaining Guard Your Heart .Father God Forgive Me For Asking You To Guard My Heart And Not Realize The Fear Of Hurt And Continue To Walk In Faith And For My Soul Mate To Come In My Life Now Im Ready To Love Thank Lord For Stephen For Revelation
Well said! Thx so much for this video!
I so needed this... Where to even begin!! Smh....I can't afford counseling but...I do appreciate this... I had to keep replaying this😌