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  • čas přidán 4. 12. 2019
  • In our series, World of Weddings, we are traveling around the globe reporting on what marriage means in different countries. In South Africa, as recently as the 1980s, mixed-race marriages were illegal under apartheid. Now couples are allowed to choose who they marry, but different backgrounds can bring challenges. Debora Patta reports.
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Komentáře • 264

  • @cusmaancumar7356
    @cusmaancumar7356 Před 4 lety +63

    The bride is exceptionally beautiful - profoundly an African Queen. A pageant.

    • @kerryjohnson4090
      @kerryjohnson4090 Před 4 lety

      Not a queen a man who has African genetic probably has a white ancestor

    • @cusmaancumar7356
      @cusmaancumar7356 Před 4 lety +1

      @@kerryjohnson4090 what do you mean?

  • @JackandNtombi
    @JackandNtombi Před 4 lety +124

    This is beautiful! This is called Lobola celebration! So glad to see this as we will be next soon 💕Love from Scotland and Botswana🏴

    • @africarenee
      @africarenee Před 4 lety +3

      I agree🤗💝💐🦋

    • @JackandNtombi
      @JackandNtombi Před 4 lety +2

      @@africarenee 💕

    • @macaloowify
      @macaloowify Před 4 lety +2

      Botswana? That's where I'm gonna pay LOBOLA

    • @johna.7362
      @johna.7362 Před 3 lety +1

      @@JackandNtombi Hello, there. 👋 I haven't yet paid all of my lobola because I heard it's common to be overcharged and the whole cost isn't normally considered ! 🤐 PS My wife and I made a trip to her Zimbabwean homeland and I'd appreciate you checking it out here: czcams.com/video/E1XNeg-7aYI/video.html Thanks! ✌

    • @ChristianZiya
      @ChristianZiya Před 3 lety +1

      @Jack and Ntombi do you reside in South Africa or Scotland now ?

  • @petestreet7535
    @petestreet7535 Před 4 lety +76

    Girl is pretty as ever.

  • @Pamandfam
    @Pamandfam Před 4 lety +75

    This was so beautiful. Beautiful couple❤️♥️

    • @mugodasimon
      @mugodasimon Před 4 lety +4

      Wow that's nice am also joining the band wagon, mine is South African

    • @r.gertse742
      @r.gertse742 Před 3 lety +2

      you guys are also a pretty couple🤗👏

  • @Djspice240
    @Djspice240 Před 4 lety +31

    I'm apache and I love it god bless these people who break the barriers in the name of love I been there now I'm planning to marry a navajo woman I love her she is my world

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Před 4 lety

      Do u have bride price in your culture?

    • @D_Thang
      @D_Thang Před 4 lety

      @@africaine4889
      This Joshua is probably a fake Apache (white man) pretending to be.

  • @anaispersephone6041
    @anaispersephone6041 Před 4 lety +33

    Dowry has been part of African culture for centuries. It is a legal tradition that is still practiced today.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Před 4 lety +3

      in many other cultures just in a different form

  • @lucreziavilante5993
    @lucreziavilante5993 Před 3 lety +20

    This makes me so happy! If only South Africans can come together, especially the poor, underprivileged!

  • @africarenee
    @africarenee Před 4 lety +94

    Well, I happen to think that was a beautiful story, despite the mostly negative comments. God bless them. 😇🤗🥰💐💝🦋

  • @tandilevuyo
    @tandilevuyo Před 4 lety +66

    Hebana! these Americans in the comments understand nothing about lobola.😂😂😂

    • @D_Thang
      @D_Thang Před 4 lety +3

      Daddy gets paid in full because he nurtured his daughter well..

    • @theonly6359
      @theonly6359 Před 4 lety +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @justrandom4304
      @justrandom4304 Před 4 lety +5

      yeah it's dowry guys relax

    • @BougieBlue
      @BougieBlue Před 4 lety

      Your right because in America it was outlawed to sell your daughter a long time ago.

    • @tonshbenosh2275
      @tonshbenosh2275 Před 4 lety +5

      😂😂😂😂our culture first then bs emuva

  • @rezzob
    @rezzob Před 4 lety +25

    That guy really should be thankful to Mandela

    • @iam1408
      @iam1408 Před 4 lety +9

      They both should

    • @noli_7329
      @noli_7329 Před 3 lety +11

      Mandela? They should be thankful to all of the struggle fighters especially those who lost their lives.

  • @mamadeebuildsahouse
    @mamadeebuildsahouse Před 4 lety +20

    My husband and I are both South African but we did not do lobola. I discussed why in my vlog. But this was beautiful. I think now we need to figure out to fuse different cultures into one wedding, otherwise too expensive.

  • @prettyprudent5779
    @prettyprudent5779 Před 4 lety +56

    Weddings like this are Definitely NOT “rare”, I can tell you. The rates of European Men marrying African women is indeed quite high.

    • @sbubhengu8322
      @sbubhengu8322 Před 4 lety +18

      That's entirely dependent on which part of the world you're in. In South Africa, the opposite is true.

    • @enilehcodramramlised8716
      @enilehcodramramlised8716 Před 4 lety +1

      Really never knew🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @D_Thang
      @D_Thang Před 4 lety +3

      Colonialism all over again.

    • @wernerschneider4460
      @wernerschneider4460 Před 3 lety +3

      I strongly support mixed marriages, because it improves understanding between communities. Children should learn the mother-tongue of father AND mother in all cases and follow both cultural traditions (I don't think a girl who is only half-Zulu would be barred from participating in the Umkhosi Womhlanga, if she wants and is eligible). I'm in a mixed marriage too - since almost 24 years now. By the way, I've no problem with Lobola. It's nothing like showing respect to the parents of the bride and has nothing at all to do with this horrible Indian dowry-system, which ruins whole families and often leads to violence.

    • @jamesleigh6166
      @jamesleigh6166 Před 3 lety +7

      For sure, that's why there are coloured people. European men cant resist the chocolate.

  • @supercat380
    @supercat380 Před 4 lety +46

    If only all South Africans were like these people in this video, it would be the nicest country in the world, instead of the tragedy it is now!!!

    • @njonjokibera9587
      @njonjokibera9587 Před rokem

      How is South Africa today?

    • @supercat380
      @supercat380 Před rokem +2

      @@njonjokibera9587 Today, South African ranks amongst the highest percentage worldwide in rapes, murders, robberies and other associated crimes. The country is in financial turmoil and with a dwindling industry due to corruption and organized crime. This is the truth, no matter how some people think otherwise

    • @njonjokibera9587
      @njonjokibera9587 Před rokem +1

      @@supercat380 so South Africa is in a crisis internally that’s it’s citizens are crying. Looks like an uprising is coming and the government needs to serve the people. Corruption is turning South Africa into a failed state, and the people are ready to revolt.

    • @supercat380
      @supercat380 Před rokem +2

      @@njonjokibera9587 you are very correct! The population being of all tribes and colours is fed-up with the corruption, hunger and poverty. Such a rich country abused and used by greedy few who feed off the poor. Enough is enough!!!

    • @divinedee3197
      @divinedee3197 Před rokem

      You can say that again sisters.

  • @mounaabbi2441
    @mounaabbi2441 Před 3 lety +13

    For love to live where it is found, and everyone deserves to find his partner and the love of his life. All the best for the world's lovers🥰🥰🥰🌹🌹🌹

  • @barzankoya384
    @barzankoya384 Před 4 lety +64

    I love black women :)

  • @naomimotlhasedi4086
    @naomimotlhasedi4086 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you for visiting my beautiful and wonderful country, South Africa 😘😍

  • @eudo1898
    @eudo1898 Před 2 lety +4

    True love needs no jury or approval from the outsider. Great wedding and celebration...

  • @iam1408
    @iam1408 Před 4 lety +11

    Goodness she's stunning

  • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
    @ScribblebytesWorldwide Před 4 lety +10

    At least he can keep to the beat of the song.

  • @fhatuwanimaudu185
    @fhatuwanimaudu185 Před 4 lety +6

    We glad you back on tv Debra Patta

  • @imonosi1188
    @imonosi1188 Před 4 lety +15

    Heh the Priest 😂
    "do it Girl..." that's Gangsta Yoh

  • @mariciacharles7116
    @mariciacharles7116 Před 3 lety +6

    Awwww she is sooo Beautiful 😍❤

  • @Black-lioness
    @Black-lioness Před 3 lety +5

    Omg Debra the legend E news /3rd degree tv personalities happy to see after a long time..

    • @r.gertse742
      @r.gertse742 Před 3 lety

      Debra is so pretty and also has a black husband.❤they have a beautiful daughter 🤗love has no color👏

  • @gags-villsounds5351
    @gags-villsounds5351 Před 4 lety +11

    If you have ever read the bible from Genesis you will know this kind of dowry has been a thing in Africa from way back to the times of Abraham and Israel/Jacob

    • @gags-villsounds5351
      @gags-villsounds5351 Před 3 lety

      @*shrug* idk nah it was never a sin but Abraham (who I know of) preferred his son isaac to marry from his relatives...

  • @mariciacharles7116
    @mariciacharles7116 Před 3 lety +9

    This is sooo Beautiful congratulations 😍😍❤❤

  • @arikinesis4840
    @arikinesis4840 Před 4 lety +15

    So beautiful to see interracial marriage celebrated in the media 😍 🔥

    • @arikinesis4840
      @arikinesis4840 Před 3 lety +1

      *shrug* idk Research “Hybrid Vigor” it’s actually better for the offspring.

  • @sirayaschalklen1254
    @sirayaschalklen1254 Před 4 lety +9

    Ai ai who gave thumbs down this is beautiful

    • @wano_ZA
      @wano_ZA Před 2 lety +1

      Very ntwana 🔥🔥

  • @imonosi1188
    @imonosi1188 Před 4 lety +6

    I was wondering the only connection I know of CBS to 🇿🇦 is Patta...
    Fitting it was her to cover this story.
    Also not surprising Andrew's family is from the UK..Scotland as said.
    Pre Olympics I think those in London a study did show that The UK is the most biracial country in the World..

  • @ashton1952
    @ashton1952 Před rokem +2

    Lovely to see ❤️ beautiful couple, so good that they honor their cultural traditions; it's important to pass that on to the children one day

  • @testtor2714
    @testtor2714 Před 2 lety +1

    4:32 the green stuff above the tables is the most beautiful thing in the video

  • @lubaniskie
    @lubaniskie Před 2 lety +2

    Seeing Debora Patta on CBS is so mental. . . I still miss 3rd Degree

  • @myldwinpierre3962
    @myldwinpierre3962 Před 3 lety +9

    I promise you that she would never get the greeting that he got from where his ancestors are from. So beautiful and heartwarming. You can see it on his mother’s face.

  • @piglet2548
    @piglet2548 Před 3 lety +6

    Damn!! She's pretty..

  • @simouallan6221
    @simouallan6221 Před rokem +1

    lovely to hear about this issue in 2022..
    even the big commentator in South Africa Debora Patta is maried to a Black Male from South africa .

  • @wano_ZA
    @wano_ZA Před 2 lety +3

    This is absolutely beautiful 😊

  • @pritamshee7780
    @pritamshee7780 Před 2 lety +4

    Congratulations brother ❤

  • @Moabi4
    @Moabi4 Před 4 lety +7

    Come on, 15 cows are not 10 000 dollars, it's actually around 4000 dollars.

    • @D_Thang
      @D_Thang Před 4 lety +1

      Daddy is a scammer.

    • @MayaS-wk5yj
      @MayaS-wk5yj Před 3 lety

      You are right,🤣 10k doesnt add up

    • @lifewithphiwe7699
      @lifewithphiwe7699 Před 2 lety

      You have got it all wrong. Cow term is a currency for Lobola. People use the going currency at the time to determine how much it is. In some families one cow is 900 dollars or if people want to be reasonable depending on the grooms budget they will lower the currency. It could even go down to 300 dollars and lower.

  • @MyAlexkent
    @MyAlexkent Před 3 lety +2

    so sweet and lovely couple

  • @marthahoracio7153
    @marthahoracio7153 Před 3 lety +6

    Wow that was so beautiful 💞

  • @marcusee7186
    @marcusee7186 Před 4 lety +4

    I love seeing this

  • @nomazizizembe8662
    @nomazizizembe8662 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful couples

  • @k_dee9168
    @k_dee9168 Před 2 lety +4

    Damn she's quite a beauty 😲

  • @prettyprudent5779
    @prettyprudent5779 Před 2 měsíci

    The Natural procreative Union is all that matters. God bless them. 🌺

  • @Tarrynmj
    @Tarrynmj Před 3 lety +4

    Just so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @NoxyDlamini01
    @NoxyDlamini01 Před 4 lety +6

    Very beautiful ❣

  • @franktomasreynoso1899
    @franktomasreynoso1899 Před rokem +1

    Interracial couple goals. 👩🏾‍🤝‍👨🏻

  • @gladysnqiwa3320
    @gladysnqiwa3320 Před 2 lety +2

    This is beautiful 🥰

  • @pointa2b388
    @pointa2b388 Před rokem

    Oh Debra Patta, i miss you

  • @nthabishengmaila9294
    @nthabishengmaila9294 Před 4 lety +7

    OMG! 😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @neilzanellysibanyoni3175
    @neilzanellysibanyoni3175 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow this is beautiful, i wish nothing but being blessed. I hope that one day I will also find my own white king who will love me. Stay blessed guy's ❤❤❤

    • @Providence..
      @Providence.. Před rokem +2

      I hope you've found one! If not, you will someday. As a white man, I must say that African women are the most beautiful on earth and you queens only deserve the best.

    • @Thegreatest342
      @Thegreatest342 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@Providence..African women especially south african women like the woman in this video love white men
      We find them very attractive ❤
      Especially white europeans natives.

  • @RSVPrr
    @RSVPrr Před 2 lety +1

    They look beautiful

  • @donaldraife8099
    @donaldraife8099 Před 4 lety +2

    Blessings

  • @johnzacharias8630
    @johnzacharias8630 Před 4 lety +4

    New beginning

  • @davidroux7987
    @davidroux7987 Před 4 lety

    He couldn't resist those peppercorns

  • @Mowizzy1
    @Mowizzy1 Před 2 lety +1

    Mante my love...you looked absolutely stunning 😍

  • @Coolio_za
    @Coolio_za Před 2 lety +1

    Wow I wish I was here

  • @BG-it7hb
    @BG-it7hb Před 4 lety +4

    Nice to see love across the colorline. But this is nothing new. The man is foreigner....

  • @precioussimangele6930
    @precioussimangele6930 Před 3 lety +2

    Wooow❤

  • @jbk19xx57
    @jbk19xx57 Před 4 lety +2

    Well, you like what you like.

  • @JJ-hs1ep
    @JJ-hs1ep Před 8 měsíci +1

    Yeah bra wit man moet daai labola betaal😂

  • @scarletdamsel3139
    @scarletdamsel3139 Před 4 lety +4

    beautiful

  • @wtnf2653
    @wtnf2653 Před 4 lety +2

    This story was ran Yesterday. Didnt get the response you wanted CBS so you delete it and comments an repost it? Why did you take down the NEW BORDER WALL story too?

  • @TotalHistoryOfficial
    @TotalHistoryOfficial Před 3 lety +3

    This is what us in the west should strive for.

  • @damienabsalon
    @damienabsalon Před 3 lety +1

    Debra herself also married out of her race.

  • @lifegenius763
    @lifegenius763 Před 7 měsíci

    Beautiful wedding ceremony with such lovely people 🙏 God bless them both 🙏🙏

    • @prettyprudent5779
      @prettyprudent5779 Před 2 měsíci

      The Natural procreative Union between Man & Woman is all that matters. God bless them. 🌺

  • @optimist-warmheart8291
    @optimist-warmheart8291 Před 3 lety +1

    british generally men ect are kool marrying anyone really, they have their own minds, yeah they sweet, they know pros and sons but if they like you ,they reallly do

  • @mlulekicebekhulu8455
    @mlulekicebekhulu8455 Před 3 lety +1

    10 days?? Hhebana😂

    • @LadyT06
      @LadyT06 Před 3 lety

      Imagine 10days🤣😫.Debra should know better because she was married to a zulu man.

  • @sweettoothmarie7304
    @sweettoothmarie7304 Před 4 lety +2

  • @khabartubetv4509
    @khabartubetv4509 Před 3 lety +1

    😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @lf1496
    @lf1496 Před 4 lety +5

    Why didn't you go to Nigeria where weddings are epic and world renown for their beauty and deep cultural significance. Why does it have to be an African wedding showcasing the "mixing thing." I find that very curious 🤔 And I'm married to an Italian and am myself a mixed raced black Latina. But if you're going to showcase Africa, showcase Africa.

    • @mylifemyjourneylincy6028
      @mylifemyjourneylincy6028 Před 4 lety +12

      Nigeria?... She's South African.. Did you listen and watch the video.. They mixed the wedding with both tradition and some people just do the white wedding.She's South African flying to Nigeria with your whole family to have a wedding that's not your culture ? That's hella expensive at least a million rand

    • @jessicamappless4024
      @jessicamappless4024 Před 4 lety +14

      Why are you jealous? They specifically wanted an African wedding and they chose South Africa.

    • @a.k.jatsanjose9637
      @a.k.jatsanjose9637 Před 4 lety +1

      u read my mind, well said

    • @imonosi1188
      @imonosi1188 Před 4 lety +2

      No free pass entries to Nigerian wrddings Oga...
      They're Baws like that. 🤷🏽‍♂️🙄😳
      Then again Oprah her friends & all really do have massive Love for SA...
      My sister told me Ava DuVarny was in the biggest Ghetto in SA...Soweto..were seen there just walking about
      So no surprise Gail took a Story from an Italian South African in Deborah Patta & ran with it..I mean it's Africa but the South of Africa.

    • @r.gertse742
      @r.gertse742 Před 3 lety +6

      @@jessicamappless4024 You go girl... can't help if they chose SA and Debra is our presenter from our news station and not from Nigeria. don't come and be jealous of us🇿🇦❤

  • @penuelyahucodiyah.4678

    Do i want equality with somebody who invaded my country, raped my ancestors/Women and Men, took everything by storm, killed Billions and still oppress my people these present day. My Father set me/Chose me to be above: Deuteronomy 7:6 ... Psalm 55:21 Proverbs 11:21 Isaiah 14:21-23

    • @Thegreatest342
      @Thegreatest342 Před 8 měsíci

      That man is scottish hes ancestors didnt do anything to the pedis .

  • @Jay-hr3rh
    @Jay-hr3rh Před 4 lety +2

    I wonder how much are British and American women dowery worth. 🤔

  • @mdfaiyazansari925
    @mdfaiyazansari925 Před 4 lety

    Mexico weding cerma ny

  • @omegaalphaeren3148
    @omegaalphaeren3148 Před 4 lety +3

    I Stil don't understand why would you sell ur child

  • @shaneclk9854
    @shaneclk9854 Před 4 lety +1

    I don't even know if I believe in them things

  • @CapitanoGUC-gf6el
    @CapitanoGUC-gf6el Před 4 lety +1

    This is one exemption that confirms th rule :-/

  • @D_Thang
    @D_Thang Před 4 lety +3

    A white man paying 10.000 US dollar for a African female. I thought these type of auctions were over. And was tax included?

    • @AA-ek5kz
      @AA-ek5kz Před 4 lety +11

      clown in your family?

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Před 4 lety +23

      You would not understand. You are not african

    • @D_Thang
      @D_Thang Před 4 lety

      @@AA-ek5kz
      I ain't no clown, i'm just writing about something I see. You seem butthurt.

    • @D_Thang
      @D_Thang Před 4 lety

      @@africaine4889
      Okay it's culture I guess. The daddy gets paid because he nurtured his daughter very well.

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Před 4 lety +15

      @@D_Thang it's not only that. African traditional marriage brings together 2 families. African men cannot marry an African women without paying a bride price. I am from Congo and the traditional marriage is the most important. The court and church will not marry you if you did not do the traditional marriage The bride price is different depends from witch country you are from or tribe you are from. Normally it's just symbolic but people had distorted the real meaning of it. In my tribe the man will give a salt, palm oil, cases if beer and soft drinks. One bottle of liquor, a machete, traditional clothes, shoes and headscarf for the girls mother, a suit shoes for the girls dad and small amount of money(the amount into be discussed between. the 2 family and depends of what the man's family can afford).

  • @mikecarone7320
    @mikecarone7320 Před 4 lety +9

    Hey at least Whites stay when the baby is born

  • @DP-qw1ly
    @DP-qw1ly Před 4 lety +3

    👎👎👎

  • @crackfloor
    @crackfloor Před 4 lety +1

    But the family pretty much sold her ...wtf

    • @bilalfares930
      @bilalfares930 Před 3 lety +3

      we do the same thng , but it is bride who get the money not the family and i think it s the case here

  • @mamzerhunter3923
    @mamzerhunter3923 Před 3 lety +2

    I think I'm gonna Vomit!!🥴😵

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Před 2 lety +1

      Of course a person of your miserable kind would say such. Incel.

    • @thabisokhumalo6516
      @thabisokhumalo6516 Před 2 lety +2

      What's stopping you??

    • @asafe_space
      @asafe_space Před rokem +1

      Cleanse your heart.

    • @Thegreatest342
      @Thegreatest342 Před 8 měsíci

      These jealous black men are jealous this beautiful black woman chose a white man 😂😂😂
      I would too and I'm from south africa!

  • @taliagreenberg5228
    @taliagreenberg5228 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations to this couple!!
    To say that apartheid no longer exists is incorrect as long as there is affitmative action!! It's just black against white instead of white against black!

  • @newyorkny533
    @newyorkny533 Před 4 lety +4

    I'm speechless...(in a bad way).

    • @fathimamangubaneahmed4840
      @fathimamangubaneahmed4840 Před 4 lety +5

      Stephen Peoples why????

    • @BG-it7hb
      @BG-it7hb Před 4 lety +2

      A English man marring a black woman is nothing new.

    • @whaleness1425
      @whaleness1425 Před 4 lety +1

      It's been happening for years and nothing bad came of it...except maybe me.

    • @missgifted
      @missgifted Před 4 lety +1

      Shame

    • @lienbijs1205
      @lienbijs1205 Před 3 lety +4

      I guess you wanted to marry her instead and you are just jealous.😂

  • @blvckseekyoushallfind.8491

    Hamite & Esua not everyone with brown skin share the same biblical nationality.

  • @JJ-ok2sm
    @JJ-ok2sm Před 4 lety

    Only can Bless married went is man woman ,dont why people dont undesrtand and waist their money in that .God bever chanche.

  • @mrmusanda3576
    @mrmusanda3576 Před rokem

    This is disgusting

  • @lauranope605
    @lauranope605 Před 4 lety

    Let “Same” get married, I can’t marry mine let them marry theirs.

  • @black50736
    @black50736 Před 4 lety +1

    mix marriages is not write it's not fare on the mix race offsprings