Why You Continue To Anxiously Think About The Future And FAILING

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Komentáře • 63

  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor Před měsícem +35

    Don’t think about the future. By the time it gets here, it will be the present moment. All you really have is right now. So do what you can in this moment. Take small steps to get to where you want to be.

    • @LaceAndCorsets
      @LaceAndCorsets Před měsícem +1

      What if you have children and no one to watch them and have no income due to being with toxic narcs?

    • @tobe-you-tube6612
      @tobe-you-tube6612 Před měsícem

      ​@@LaceAndCorsetsBe brave ❤️

    • @LaceAndCorsets
      @LaceAndCorsets Před měsícem

      @@tobe-you-tube6612 losing it once in a while. Be brave how?

    • @dominusbalial835
      @dominusbalial835 Před měsícem

      @@LaceAndCorsets get rid of the toxic people in your life it's better to be in complete social isolation than to be around people that make you feel like shit I've been alone for 23 years, it's far better than being around people that make me feel lonely and make me want to break down and cry and hit the walls and kill myself. Honestly I don't really think it's good to not think about the future either, you're not supposed to over think about the future. The whole reason we're a apex predator psychologically is that we can think significantly farther into the future over longer time frames and make plans to circumvent risks months or decades or centuries in advance. The problem is thinking constantly and not really arriving at anything you could do to rectify or improve the situation.

    • @Bookie-wm2xd
      @Bookie-wm2xd Před měsícem +1

      ​@@dominusbalial835As a teen this is 100% true. Then they wonder why you don't speak to them anymore, they always want me to be sad but I got goals to be even worried about them

  • @carlhannen1769
    @carlhannen1769 Před měsícem +24

    Fun isn't even fun. Doing that hard shit is fun. Building your sef worth is fun. The other stuff is just acting out of sorts being all willy nilly silly and that's not even fun in my mind. Getting after it, holding it down, and tearing it to shreds is pure bliss. WE STRONGER THAN DIRT. no flirt all worth.

  • @howardjunssen5595
    @howardjunssen5595 Před měsícem +9

    I recently started waking up at 430 am each morning and crushing a 5 mile beach run in 45 mins or less. Crazy how much clarity I have for the rest of the day and how much more naturally my problems seem to work themselves out.
    If ya'll aren't working out everyday at this stage where the world is at. You just slowly dying

  • @JoeKozak
    @JoeKozak Před 29 dny +3

    And unfortunately the end result of society's conditioning is being desensitized, no empathy for another human being, not thinking for themselves, categorizing and stereotyping and being self-centered and focus only on greed.

  • @jesus-on-demand
    @jesus-on-demand Před měsícem +3

    Strong ones stand on God's Word and let God lead. These days are dark.

  • @Foldylokx
    @Foldylokx Před měsícem +7

    All you can do is continue to live life one day at a time.

  • @marybrownell
    @marybrownell Před 28 dny

    These comments seem just as real as ur videos! Thanks yall ❤ xx

  • @charlesblerzbo1616
    @charlesblerzbo1616 Před měsícem +1

    When you're scrambling at the bit, Terry Joel claps those hands and you lock in.

  • @dropas4136
    @dropas4136 Před měsícem +2

    7 good things done everyday constant..7 days a week,year round!!

  • @laurierogala2641
    @laurierogala2641 Před měsícem

    Thank you. This was helpful. You are so disciplined in such a chaotic world. I commend you.

  • @tj_sway
    @tj_sway Před měsícem

    Needed to hear this bro💯🙏🏽

  • @ClairvoyantEntertainment
    @ClairvoyantEntertainment Před měsícem +1

    Nice bro last 2 videos have hit it out of the park 📈

    • @backseateats9513
      @backseateats9513 Před měsícem

      I have a small penis😢 I am ashamed of it and don’t know how to live life
      Men make fun of it
      Women laughs at it

  • @williamgrahamify
    @williamgrahamify Před měsícem +3

    Your such a bad ass. Wow. U help my life more then any one any thing. I'm a bad ass warrior I listen to thousands of interesting humans u the Best 😊

  • @gardenswell
    @gardenswell Před měsícem

    you're clearly a very strong person and i appreciate your insights. your videos are quite uniquely motivational, both for men and women. all the best

  • @tomtomboy6471
    @tomtomboy6471 Před měsícem +2

    Terry Joel: I like your videos, you sound extremely intelligent. I'm picking up what you throw down. Take care Terry!

    • @backseateats9513
      @backseateats9513 Před měsícem

      I have a small penis😢 I am ashamed of it and don’t know how to live life
      Men make fun of it
      Women laughs at it

  • @mineralwaters22
    @mineralwaters22 Před měsícem +2

    I figure this is God's plan and they say the ones who are alone are his chosen people. I've been blessed with much discernment recently which I believe God has also provided me. I now know who loves me and doesn't. I know that I have a loving family on the other side which includes God, Jesus, Mary, and of course my earthly parents!!! ❤❤❤

  • @blazebradley4276
    @blazebradley4276 Před měsícem +8

    real men fight to the very end 🥶

    • @dominusbalial835
      @dominusbalial835 Před měsícem

      I'd fight to not have to fight honestly and it seems like what I've had to do at this point, I'm tried of competing with people who are supposed to be supporting me. And being tortured and battered by people who are supposed to be loving me.

  • @Angelus_Mortis1123
    @Angelus_Mortis1123 Před měsícem

    Good message! 👍

  • @dropas4136
    @dropas4136 Před měsícem +2

    Fuel for sucess!

    • @backseateats9513
      @backseateats9513 Před měsícem

      I have a small penis😢 I am ashamed of it and don’t know how to live life
      Men make fun of it
      Women laughs at it

  • @TheGizzle85
    @TheGizzle85 Před měsícem

    Thank you. Needed this one. Unfortunately. I veered off track. Time to get it together

  • @JosephAlexanderCEO
    @JosephAlexanderCEO Před měsícem

    The hard-working Farmer will eat plenty, but he who has his head in the clouds will starve to death!

  • @tommyparrott4172
    @tommyparrott4172 Před měsícem

    @terryjoeljunior You are speaking to my exact situation. I think God needed me to see this. Great video as always bro. 👊💪🙏

  • @Nsimpson
    @Nsimpson Před měsícem +1

    The dating lifes of some of us men suck we have to put in so much more effort than the women too. We just want to be happy with a woman

  • @candyosborne214
    @candyosborne214 Před měsícem +1

    feel the pain, then let it fuel your fire 🔥💯

  • @Jacksonjet1
    @Jacksonjet1 Před měsícem

    Bro, this one hit home for me ❤

  • @YouTubeOverrated
    @YouTubeOverrated Před měsícem +3

    Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present. - Marcus Aurelius
    And in similar vein
    Two elements must therefore be rooted out once for all, - the fear of future suffering, and the recollection of past suffering; since the latter no longer concerns me, and the former concerns me not yet. -Seneca

  • @johnmoran7996
    @johnmoran7996 Před měsícem

    My future is fine.👍🏻

  • @papachris8540
    @papachris8540 Před měsícem

    You guys I went exempt

  • @christopherpringle8094
    @christopherpringle8094 Před měsícem

    Man Terry this video is also about why I let the ladies come to me. Gotta focus on myself and let them come and not bullshit partying all the time. I know they're a reward in the end once I do what I have to do. I don't wanna chase them man.

  • @user-el7yj4bo5g
    @user-el7yj4bo5g Před měsícem

    Amazing video bro. Im thinking Rick Grimes vibes. Be a man. I needed this.

  • @dominusbalial835
    @dominusbalial835 Před měsícem

    I feel and have experienced for 23 years, I feel like I have no leverage or control over my circumstances and people seem highly motivated to view me and my merits as separate from one another. it's not that I'm kind and generous. It's that I can be exploited to expend time and energy for other people. and that I have a large amount of wealth that I'm easily separated from. But they don't care that I'm helping them out or giving them money. I don't know how to make any headway when people act like this. They honestly just seem evil. I've cut away everything Unclean and now I'm left with nothing, and honestly it's a lot better but this doesn't feel like success this just feels like torture. All I wanted was literally just a friend and it seems like that's too much to ask for.
    I could do some more, I could eat better and exercise more. That's it what else can I really do to improve my life circumstances? It honestly just makes it extremely demotivating to even pursue those things because that's all that I can do. The dumb stuff I'm doing is not exercising and eating right. There should be more to left than eating good food and exercising. I really want more stimulation than that, human beings aren't supposed to be living like they're in solitary confinement for decades. I want to work but my co-workers usually end up tormenting and harassing me until I literally have a mental breakdown and potentially attack one them. So I can't really work, I won't accept money to be treated like absolute fucking shit. I want to accept money for work, I work you give me money. You treat me like shit I won't work. And it seems like setting that boundary has forced me out of society entirely. Like I cannot participate and it seems unfortunately here in Nova Scotia it's better to not participate in society.
    I can't live a life where I'm the only person in my life. I don't want to be alone, and people make me feel lonelier than I do when I'm by myself. And it's really starting to kill me at this point, I don't feel like I'm living a life I feel like I'm slowly dying.

  • @djnquire
    @djnquire Před měsícem +1

    Let's travel boi

  • @juniordelarosa748
    @juniordelarosa748 Před měsícem

    I do think a lot about the future

  • @falsepositive275
    @falsepositive275 Před měsícem +1

    I live a boring life with hobbies seldom anymore.

  • @blazeorangeandcamo
    @blazeorangeandcamo Před měsícem +3

    There is no future

  • @nhat9960
    @nhat9960 Před měsícem

    Put a Jbl boombox 3 behind you , G

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome Před měsícem

    Im doing the keto diet still don’t think it’s about weight though

  • @captaintrips6780
    @captaintrips6780 Před měsícem

    💪😇👍

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 Před měsícem +2

    You can't push..force or control things to happen.....

  • @Emmalynrosie
    @Emmalynrosie Před měsícem +1

    So true tho, as a woman, if you’re not seeing enough results, you should be doing more. Buying more dresses, more skirts, more heels, more makeup, more feminine jewelry and perfume. Like Terry says “if your _____ you’re just not doing enough.” Yup.

  • @backseateats9513
    @backseateats9513 Před měsícem +1

    I have a small penis😢 I am ashamed of it and don’t know how to live life
    Men make fun of it
    Women laughs at it

  • @Emmalynrosie
    @Emmalynrosie Před měsícem +3

    Exactly. Put yourself (& God) First. Period. 🌷👛💅🏻☁️🤍 Women need to learn to do this & think about their future instead of what their lesbo friends want from them… (Or how they want to ruin their lives).