10 things to never do with a man.. learning this would set you free
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1. Never chase a man.
2. Do not support a man financially.
3. Never compare your man to another man.
4. Never have a baby with a man before marriage.
5. Never let a man move in with you. Especially if the lease is in your name.
6. Don't talk to your ex about your current man.
7. Never go past, Go, when a man says , "I'm not ready for a relationship.
8. Stop doing anything that you feel the need to prove yourself worthy.
9. Never tell a man over and over again what he already knows he is doing is wrong. The issue is, he does not care.
10.Never force a man to do his part. He doesn't want to be there.
Bonus. Never try to control a man so he won't cheat. Your part is to observe him so you know who he is.
Beautiful
Thank you ❤
Number 3 can be very difficult. Number 9 can be tough if he says and acts like he does care. Some men are absentminded.
I feel sad for them, because they deserve love, too, and I oft think of my sweet little cousin who is developmentally delayed (and severely hearing impaired), whose dad also has a language processing disorder. (I also have/had a friend like that.) So, I try to be compassionate. Still, I know that _I_ am not capable of having a partner who is like that, but I always hope that _someone_ is. I'd be _devastated_ and heartbroken if he isn't loved as he _so greatly_ deserves. 🙏🏽
Life is crazy. Thanks for the list, OP. I couldn't watch this tonight. Good list, though (to Kirk); the rest is cake [for me], most are inherent.
Thank you so much❤️
You missed my favorite: don’t depend on potential
Thank you very much 💗
If your absence means nothing to a man, your presence doesn’t matter
Love this
I did agree. If your absence means nothing to him, then your presence will irritate him.
Right on
Wowwwwwwwwwww!!! 👏🏽🙌🏽
This made me cry ..hurts when put so plainly...TRUTH. IN. MY. FACE😢
When a man tells you he’s not ready….believe him and go your way. Please.
Amen!
Look and listen...the answers are there. Dont give yourself a stroke, it is what it is
What if he changes his mind and comes after you once you've pulled Away?
Reject him.
@@maryannifeanacho4219 most time it's a manipulation, control and attention tactic. They don't want you, but can't stand the thought of you no longer chasing them. It's disgusting actually
EXACTLY! That Yoyo Spirit... It's saying TO THAT PERSO.N.. that thet WEREN'T GOOD ENOUGH THE FIRST TIME ....(they just keeping You on HOLD or Standby, Just in case whatever they're doing to keep them from committing from you doesn't work out).🤦🏽♀️@anonymousreview1049 If they backstroke and weasel their way back into your life and proclaim sincerity.Then they definitely have an AGENDA...smh
I'm in AGREEMENT TO REJECT THEM, because That other party or person has subliminally rejected them already.
I always say men make time for who they want to make time for.
Very true. You’d be surprised how many men look for a woman to call and text them first. It’s crazy out here.
May I add to the list:
Don't make a man your CHOICE, when he only makes you an OPTION.
Oooohhhhhh that’s good stuff!!!!
Don’t try to make a man live saved, go to church, pray, stop drinking, smoking or running the streets. Bonus : Vet a man (please put a time limit on how long you vet him(. Vet-to evaluate for possible approval or acceptance… Do not allow a man to call you his woman, girly, or claim you as his own until you have vetted him well.
That's a good summary
For sure, women must use their Hod given 🎁 and they can be happily ever after, it's OK to loosen up. I got my 💰 and my man. I am women, he is man. He chases and I let him catch me most of the time.
God given feminity is not weakness, it's powerful 🙏
My mom told me don't bring NO BABIES home without a husband!!. My uncle told me once if a man wants to be with you then you should be good enough for him to marry you.
Amen! No sex before marriage!
Facts all those parts 💯
Did you listen?
Good advice 👏🏾👏🏾
@@tattqueen1494😊
Ive spent the last 1.5 years alone and focusing on my relationship with God and healing. God loves us FAR MORE than any man will. His Love is Forever and He never fails us or leaves us. So in the absence of a man look to God because He is the Maker of Men. And if He wants you to find love He will bring it to you. Life is too short to chase men who dont care. Chase God for He Cares for YOU
Well said Preacher ❤
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Amen Amen
Amen and Amen
"If your absence means nothing to a man, your presence don't either." Cold-Blooded‼#masterclass2024
💯 That's a bar right there!!
That hit different when he said that
so true - ask me how I know 🔥
POWERFUL WORDS... that dug deeply and ripped and rearranged everything from with in. 😢😢 💔
Amen
If a man loves you, when you hurt, he hurts❤️
Or he heals the situation when possible. A man who loves you wants to "fix " things. Either way, he will be there for you.
This is so real....
My ex didn't love me 😢
conclusion: accept the mistakes you've already made, look to the future and focus on the present make money, take care of your own and stay single, it's ok
Amen!❤
@@tiffaniw8270 ❤️
💯❤️
Facts
I swear!!! And I'm fortunate enough to be dating someone that I feel is the one but I've been here before too and definitely approve this message 😂😂
My mom told me never live with a man that is not your husband!
But you can give him your body and let him vomit 🤮🤢 in you. Right ?
Pray to the Lord to send the right man.
Yes, but also you must put yourself in positions and environments to meet that right person.
And be specific when you're asking God for your husband!
No, God gave you the ability to choose.
I so needed this. I kept repeating to myself when someone shows you who they are, believe them but kept allowing him back in my space, Long distance.. God has sent me many signs. Praying, Fasting and still acting weak. Ignoring the spirt that dwells but Tonight June 17th at 11:46 pm, This God Led video was it. Had a 5 min Cry...Blocked all contact with no warning. Now I heal....I will be OK....Thank You for confirming what I knew, Felt and have heard in some Form for a few months.....My Boaz is out there. If you stay with the wrong one, God can never send you the right one. Now that the distraction is over, I need quality time with my Father.....This too shall pass....
Bless you and good fortune. Stay strong
Never let a man tell you twice, he doesn’t want to be with you or marry you.
Never make a man tell you that he don't want you more than once.
He will be showing you by his actions.
My new answer to, “Why are you single?” Because God loves me more than a man ever could.
Stealing this!
Great answer
Good lesson.
Women are valuable treasures.
A man that finds a wife, finds a good thing and attains favor from the Lord🙌🏾
Amen!!!
I made all these mistakes. Now I’m in control of me. You want me? Show me how much you want me.
I'm glad that your eyes 👀 are open now. But what are you bringing to the table ?
@@ElyseeAmaraldThomasshe is the table 🙄
Relationship is not a business transaction. Incompetent good for nothing men always ask what a woman brings to the table cos he’s not masculine enough. Such men want to be the princess in the relationship. Might as well come
Out of the closet. 🥴
Me too.
Why do you women wait until you reach a certain age to talk like this. Coming from a younger woman, it doesn't look good on yall when you all wait till yall gave away your precious youth and are over 35 talking like this. I knew all of this since I was younger than 18, and I never did anything he listed. We, as women, gave men power they are not do not deserve. They only have the leverage they have because women do not understand their true power.
On the subject of letting a man live with you, my grandmother always use to say “why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free” and “never give your bf husband privileges “
The milk isn’t just sex it your full commitment and devotion.😏
Keep your legs 🦵🦵 closed.
Men will dislike you because you are standing up for your sisters. You are telling the truth about men' behaviour 😊
For those who have an ear, 📝Learn baby Learn!
Amen!
He ain’t never lied!! Damn I wish I knew this shyt 25 years ago! B/c this shyt is sooooo true!!!!
same here!!!!
It hurts that it took this long to learn! 😖 I’m glad I’m on the right track now though!
Yes
This video is me! I was that woman who didn’t see her worth! It’s has been 4 days of no contact and it was bitter sweet but today it’s on the sweeter side. By me watching your videos, you helped me recognize how relationships should be. 🙏🙏🙏 I am so done with the foolishness.
YAY... This Queen Has Woke Up 😊🫂🌷
Good for you!! You go, girl!!
It’s been 8 days no contact but I’m holding on strong. I’m hurt and crying but I will not contact him.
Keep going 🎉🎉🎉
This video is true words 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Do not be friends with an ex.
that part
Facts
Complete bs. I get along with all my exes except one real ass.
@@sonjajetter197b!tch 🙄you’re still fvckin your exes 🤷♀️
@@sonjajetter197she said don’t be friends, not don’t get along 🥴
This video is on point. I was talking to a gentleman and he began lacking in the communication department. I brought it to his attention and shared my expectations and what I needed in terms of communication. He voiced understanding and started slacking again. I told him he was a grown divorced man, I wasn't going to attempt to train him how to communicate with me. He was aware. I told him I knew I wasn't a priority for him and I shut it down and moved on. All is well.
Good for you! He thought you would just except the bullcrap from him. It’s better to show them better then tell them
You did the right thing.
If your absence means nothing to a man, your presence means nothing too.
I have a zero tolerance for bull crap!!! period!!!
You have to know the difference when someone is playing you and when he's just being human. Don't be so bitter.
@@danilaroche1156you are right. Some men or women are just immature and need a bit of a nudge in the right direction.
But ain’t nobody got no time for that!
Be in a loving, trusting, respectful relationship with yourself first. Allow for the universe to match and gravitate someone to you with similar energy. Know thyself and you will know who's for you❣️
We don't have a relationship with the Universe. We have it with the Lord who loves & cares for us.
MANY YOUNG WOMEN NEED TO HEAR THIS YOUNG MAN…. I HOPE THEY REALLY HEAR YOU AND TAKE HEED!!
The most profound statement that resonated with me was, 'he liked you the way you were when he first met you.' Which translates to Don't change & don't do more.
It all boils down to knowing your worth. Never allow ANYBODY to treat you as an afterthought or to breadcrumb you. If they can only send a text saying "hi" everyday and nothing else, do the same and go on your merry way. This world is filled with millions of people who can and will give you what you deserve without you having to be only an option.
Turn the tables and you be the one with the options, you be the one who controls who deserves crumbs and who deserves the whole loaf.
That's one thing I've never did was chase a man
You are like the big brother. Thank you for helping us
No chasers,straight to the point.
He knows what hes doing.....he just dsnt care!!!!. Boooom🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥truthhhhh right there
Not gonna lie the one thing on this list that i did wrong was continuously telling this men over and over and over again repeatedly things he did that were wrong and how he needed to put effort in spending time with me and he just would not change that at all . I got tired. He knew what he was doing
Damn...Do I Really Want A Relationship ⁉️
This man is telling nothing but the TRUTH, this is daddy advice. What a loving father would tell his daughter.
Wow if only i knew this stuff as a teenager!!!! You have no idea how much of a Blessing you are to women that didn't have the privilege of learning this growing up. A lot of men only want their daughters and sisters to learn this stuff because they don't want them to be used for sex... but when it happens to woman that didn't have men in their families teaching them things,,, we are blamed for not knowing
Ten (10) Things NOT to Do in regards to a Man:
1. Don't chase a man;
2. Don't support a man;
3. Never compare a man to another man;
4. Never have a baby for a man - before marriage;
5. Never let a man move-in with you;
6. Don't talk about your current man with your ex-husband or ex-boyfriend;
7. Don't "Go Past - GO" if a man is NOT ready;
8. Stop doing more than you are already doing; if they are NOT currently appreciating what you are doing now;
9. Never insult yourself by telling a man what he is already doing wrong with you; and
10. Never force a man to do his part!
Bonus: NEVER try to control a man in order that they don't CHEAT! Just observe ... 🧐
In addition to not talking about your current man with your ex, I would add "Don't talk about your ex or exes with your current man."
Also, "Don't discuss your sexual history with a man." This includes not telling him how many men you've been with, what race they are, or how old or young they were. It's none of their business. The only exception would be if you have HIV or AIDS, or if you're transgender. Your potential partner has a right to know that so they can make an informed decision about whether or not they want to be with you. Otherwise, keep your dating info to yourself.
@@walkabout123 Well said ... ❤️🩹
And if a woman is insecure she will never be worth it till she overcomes herself
I agree and the fact this is coming from a male..I hope some young ladies are understanding this. Do not chase what ain’t for you! Don’t take care of a grown adult! Know your worth! Leave the table when you are no longer being served! All in a nutshell
I wish my absent father would have sat me down and spoke with me like this. I struggled in relationships due to lack of knowledge, guidance and parental care. Thank you for opening my eyes so that I dont become someone's 'parent' and keep the cycle of dysfunction going. Men and women change when men and women change!
Many blessings... I'm sharing your messages far and wide here in the 🇬🇧. Peace ✌🏾
most fathers don't have these talks either... An absent father is a suffering and a violent one is too, you didn't miss on much, trust me. God bless you, we're lucky to be in such times where others can give us such knowledge for free without even meeting them.
@@Ssookawai blessings to you also and you're absolutely correct. Im so grateful for this information at this moment, as it is making a huge difference going forward. Peace 😊
What really sucks is that society has taught women that they should do everything for "the man". This has gone on for centuries. This is why many women will put up with all this bull crap. It's about time that women are empowered and shown that they are better than being an option and better than being breadcrumbed. We need to see our own worth. Women should know that they are important and that their presence is valuable. Therefore, in a world of billions of people, you don't have to stay with someone who doesn't value you. There are so many in the world who would cherish the knowledge that you are there.
@@katflorez7280well put!
Today, I heard this pastor say, " Being futhered is the fruit of being fathered!!!
Never insult yourself by telling a man what ge already knows he's doing wrong. The issue is they just don't care!!! Whewww! This is not just fir romantic relationships 💥💥💥 BOOM
Kirk, I promise you one day I am going to host a ladies and young ladies gathering and have you as Guest speakers.
Baby girl what he’s really saying be single as to come across a man like that is one in a million.
😹😹 this truth is why I'll never envy another woman's relationship like it's ok sis somebody's gotta settle 🤷🏾♀️
Basically I don’t have anymore time to waste I rather get my money up and travel .
On behalf of all Women id like to say .....God bless you sir!!!
I Definitely Do NOT See this as "Victim Blaming" I See this as more as Guidelines or Conscious Decisions To Make (or Not to Make) To Not Become a Victim in the First Place!
Best 11 rules to learn from early beforehand rather than afterwards.😊
You are so right. If a man is not ready to commit but wants your body still then he should not be ready for your body
I have just learned to have guts!
Back bone, stand by myself 1st!
Thnx again for the big best school 😢
I’ve done all these things🙈. I’m 42 now. My last partner of 10 years passed away two and a half years ago now, so I have found myself single again. Recently started dating. I’m approached a lot… but pursuit is very limited. Very few men consistently call, reach out and ask for time. I’ve had plenty of men tell me to call them sometime… I know what it is to be pursued. I know what it feels like to be loved. These days I’m more patient… and stubborn when I run out of patience. I figure, since I want to be in love and married, I will be…
Sis! Im 43 and my husband passed away 4 years ago. We got married when i was 27. Being Single after a soul mate relationship is tricky. I too know what true love feels like so I wont settle and can't fathom being desperate. Self Love is everything! Date yourself too :) I'm talking, getting dressed to the God's and going out and having intriguing conversations then calling it a night, with no expectations.
@@dcg31free ❤️🌺Yes! All that…
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I can't remember when last a persons words made me sit up and pay attention. Many thanks for this
Never let a man tell you twice he dont want to be with you. Never force a man to do his part. Good teaching .
I’ve never been faced with these problems , my late husband spoiled me , if nothing else he was a great provider ❤
Nice 👍
This Channel Is The REAL DEAL...💯
indeed!!!! 🔥
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Been with this man for 10 yrs and he has done nothing for me no special outings I'm the one doing everything and i mean everything for him. He has never done his part😢. You hit the nail right on the head
Well Sis, now that you know, GO!! 👋🏽 👋🏽
Time to move on.
JESUSSS AND WHAT ARE DOING NOW.
MY GODDD.
I FEEL SOOO SORRY FOR UUUUU.
DO HAVE THE STRENGTH TO LEAVE HIM.
Move on and forgive yourself.
“ run forest run “ 😂
My ex bf did talk to his ex abt how he was not happy in our relationship. I dumped him. I can’t trust him.
Finally someone is telling the truth. Thank you.
This is what the young girls should listen to ages 17-29 years of ages. This is great wisdom.
I wish I had heard all of this 35 years ago. My life would have been so much better. Three failed marriages later, I advise all the young women to LISTEN!!!!!
Yea this información needs to be heard by young women just starting to date.
I was unfamiliar with how men think or operate.
Fast forward 20 years Im single and loving life. I had my first kid last year from a donor. And this is the happiest I’ve ever been. Sometimes I think about all the time I wasted in relationships. To realize the best relationship is with myself ❤ (men and relationships are so overrated)
Congratulations on your first kid. And you are right, relationships/sex are soo overrated
I'm in tears because I did a few of these things for years 😢 . I finally stop dealing with him.
Good for you sis.
This is the 10 best lessons about men that all women should learn to have. This is the truth period
I truly appreciate everything you say, I’m 66 years old and I have done all the things you say not to do and it was not good. I have been alone for 15yrs. And I’m at peace. Now I’m feeling like I would like to have a healthy relationship finally! So I agree with everything you said, thank you so much for your wisdom. And I hope you don’t mind me saying you are very pleasant to look at too.
I’m 54, twice divorced, 2 children and I have done everything he says not to do and I can confirm, it does NOT work. Finally, on my own and living a peaceful life. Maybe when I’m done healing, I will be ready for a healthy relationship.
Don’t build up no man! I was the build a bear woman and when that man reached where he was going guess where I’m at. Kicked out with NOTHING!
Wow sorry to hear. A man will be with you until he feels like he can do better. I will never build a man just so he can leave and find what he really wants. A guy wanted me to help him with a business. Not!!
YESSSS YOU ARE RIGHT...DONT LET HIM MOVE IN.
When I say that it's freeing to hear a man acknowledge truth... and yet I'm still single.
At least I won't insult myself anymore by drawing his attention towards what he already knows he's doing. That could be self demeaning. And this could even apply to a job that don't appreciate you. The earlier you acknowledge the reality, the better. Thanks a lot Kirk. It's time!
Perfect advise, hope some ladies are listening cause not listening can mess your life up for good.
@ somegirl Not necessarily. I've done alost all the things he mentioned in my younger years. And I can honestly say they have been blessing in disguise. Taught me very valuable lessons. Fast forward, I've been married for almost 40 years. I'm doing pretty darn good. Learning a great deal of wisdom on my life journey. ❤❤
Love it! Observe a man's character. Thank you
This is good advice. Don't give money easily. Don't have a baby without being his wife.And so many more nuggets of wisdom.You are not victim blaming your are being straight to the point. And if people listen they can earn some knowledge that can help them.
PRETTY MUCH ❗
Marriage is no guarantee, especially these days. Being married can end up wah harder to get out of the situation.
QUEEN'S...If Your Tired Of Being Taken Down Through There Your Betta LISTEN ❗
Wow…I’m 53 and only wish this advise had of come to me 30 yrs ago! This is real talk, straight talk no beating around the bush….done made all these mistakes because I never had a strong male role model to show me what to look for or a strong female role model to show me what to ask for….learned a lot of these through mistakes…keep up your good work…appreciate you 🙏🙏🙏
When you know what you have there is no need to compare only those who don't know will compare you to someone else.
I'll have to watch tomorrow, but your statement is not necessarily true.
For instance, I can know I have a good man, but the sexual intimacy is _terrible,_ and it can be tough to not compare to an ex who was _fantastic._ Also, the new man might be a bit more trustworthy, but not nearly as generous. Kind, but not as intelligent. Sweet, but not as spiritual. I can know what I have, but still know what I had. It's hard to not compare.
Please please please please please listen to this man's wise advice. At 50 years old I can say this advice is golden. Save yourself a heartache and the hard knocks.
If he wants you, he will do anything for you. You wont have to question his love. If you have to, then he does not love you.
I've done ALL 10 BUT I am learning and listening and definitely taking notes to pass along to my twin daughters! Thank you!!!!
This list needs to be global curriculum.✨️
Good one ☝️
The moral of the story is that you cannot raise a grown man. Love yourself first and find inner peace. This is too much work just to find love. smh
You are very wise...learnt these the hard way! But i know better now.
You are telling the truth and hopefully helping an entire generation to conduct themselves in a manner that will benefit their life.
Thank you beautiful soul ❤ I didn't understand another person could be so intentionally cruel. I believed lies for 10yrs and your straight talking no BS approach has been so wonderful for me.
I'm really grateful for you 🌟
❤️❤️🙏🏾 thank you
Love the bonus. You can’t make a man or woman want you. You can’t make them love you etc etc etc. I could have used you when I was dating. I’ve giving up on dating because men play too many games and I rather be alone than to played with. I never knew what ghosting meant until I looked it up. I’ve been thru that with a man in his 60’s which I think he is too damn old to be ghosting someone. He was a some timey man one day he’s treating you good and the next he acted like you didn’t exist. So I fixed his ghosting problem and blocked and deleted him. I’ve had enough of the BS. I rather be in peace than to tolerate his shyt. I wish I hadn’t let my guard down with him. I regret doing so but I learned from that mistake and I will never let my guard down again with anyone. I will be 59 this September and playing games at this stage of my life I don’t have time for
Yes the amount of blk men playing games in their 50’s and 60’s is ridiculous. Then when they get in their 70’s and sick and elderly that’s when they want to reach back and find you. No ninja keep moving along by yourself. 😂
I let a man move in with me just because I wanted to see what the hype was. NEVER AGAIN!!!!
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King this is one of the best relationship advice videos that I've ever seen on CZcams. I am an MFT educator and watched countless videos on here but this one cuts to the chase and is all FACTS. Thanks for keeping it real...
We as women are the gems they have to labor to find and keep. All girls must be taught that.
This should be given to all junior high high school student girls all over the world
This is very hard and good information, keep it up love.
Potential without consistent action emanating from inside one's own soul is like a seed that is buried...and never gets water nor sunshine.
(Wow...that's pretty good, I just thought of that as I typed just now...hee, hee) 🥰
‼️✨️Thissss. " Therefore it never grows, just remains stagnant" I hope that you don't mind me adding to your new catchphrase lol
@@Alicia.Ambiance not at all...that's how light grows...🌹💥🙏🏽👑🥰💜
@@rorenee5245 And so it is ✨️Your message reminds me of one of my own personal quotes: "Good intentions without any kind of action is only considered as wishful thinking" - Co. Andrews ✨️
All great advice. Also it's good to separate on good terms, you don't have to be enemies, but a lot of people stay emotionally entangle with an ex for years because they are afraid of letting go. If he's not your current partner, he should not be your friend on Facebook, etc. Let him go.
Thank you for the wisdom you share! What I have learned is that when we value ourselves, wecwill not live from desperation or neediness. These are very low vibrational places from which to live. It's a pity that parents don't understand how to love their children to value themselves. They don't know how to instill value into their sons and daughters. When we know that we are Royalty - Created by The King of all Kings we will love ourselves unconditionally and learn to love others unconditionally, the way God loves us. I wish all women would be cherished and lifted up and the same for men. Sending the highest vibrations to all my Sisters. The one you are seeking is seeking you! Do not sell yourselves short! I love you and God loves you more!
I keep listening to this, to remind me not to ever take him back. He is trying to get me back, but it's his ego at play here. I have moved on even though I am focus on myself. I like how you say, "that's some BS❤
I sincerely love and respect your content 💗
I loved this video. I can see how much I’ve grown and why I feel so much better about myself now. Thank you for the clarification 16:27 what not to do. For the record, I 100% agree with you. At 52 I’ve seen all kinds of things. I wish I learned all these lessons at 25.❤
Learning at an early age can prevent collateral damage.
Real talk. We sisters are juggling a lot with the visible and invisible chains imposed upon us by the dominant society...take your time and continue to love yourself first.
It's not victim shaming it's called knowledge
This just a blessing to hear we have to own our responsibility in decision that we made acknowledge embrace and evolve and there is nothing wrong with looking back on mistakes you made.This was food for the soul and hopefully it help plenty women or men
🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you so much.
Thank you, I have started practicing these things. I just wished I knew them in my 20"s and 30's. Better late than never, I am single and much happier. it's okay to be single it's peaceful. Thank you for reiterating these things so I know that I'm am doing the correct things.
Thank you for explaining “chasing a man”.
I LOVE THIS! I learned the hard way that my man/ husband of 38 years just didn’t care. … didn’t want me anymore bc of years of desiring a non black mate . Once I was able to let go my blessings were able to flow in all areas of life!
All truths!!! Me my younger years, I made some of these choices, not now. Perhaps that's why I'm single!