10 major red flags 🚩 in men that you MUST pay attention to

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  • čas přidán 13. 03. 2024

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  • @briattnybrittany6843
    @briattnybrittany6843 Před 3 měsíci +467

    my trick with people, especially men, is to listen. if you listen, people will tell you all you need to know. it's that simple.

  • @pamelawilliams2739
    @pamelawilliams2739 Před 3 měsíci +461

    This is why some men end up alone in a nursing home 😅😅 because KARMA IS REAL

    • @aries81M
      @aries81M Před 3 měsíci +25

      Yep what you give us what you get 💯💯💯

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 3 měsíci +17

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 3 měsíci +9

      ​@aries81M AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

    • @FC-ku4ez
      @FC-ku4ez Před 3 měsíci +30

      I used to teach art in a nursing home where there was a ratio of about 40 women to every 2 men, and what did the men do? Hit on me when I was in my early 20s, and there were dozens of age appropriate women around them! They actually thought they had a chance even in diapers, with serious illnesses, and in complete destitution. A lot of men never think they're over the hill, and they don't give a crap if they have nothing to offer or are trying to waste the best years of a woman's life.
      Some men overplay their hands when they're still able to date and age themselves right out of the dating market. Then, they scramble at the end of their lives to find a free young nurse and end up making fools out of themselves. Karma is real, people!

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 3 měsíci +8

      @@FC-ku4ez Lord Have Mercy, Sister, This is Soooooo #TRUE N YET #SAD N #PITIFUL 🙏♥️

  • @Blacklipstickwearing..
    @Blacklipstickwearing.. Před 2 měsíci +188

    I think people need to start noticing their own red flags... Self awareness is important.

    • @portiamagaqa1536
      @portiamagaqa1536 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Yes. Wanting security is a red flag identified in myself

    • @user-fy5kl3nw5r
      @user-fy5kl3nw5r Před 2 měsíci +4

      So true,and a lot of people keep blaming the other person but not knowing they are the one giving the red flags

    • @outsidethebox8406
      @outsidethebox8406 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Right & work on being better, how about that part!

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@portiamagaqa1536that should be every woman’s want, not a red flag!

    • @barbarabermingham9385
      @barbarabermingham9385 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Absolutely 👍 💯

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 Před 3 měsíci +516

    “someone who wants you to be their peace is at war with themselves”🤯😱👏👏👏

    • @UnityJ125
      @UnityJ125 Před 3 měsíci +8

      This guy told me one time while dealing with another girl at the beginning that he thought I’d be his peace. I thought that was a punch line he was just trying on me. He was already distant. Called me once every other year. Not until I reached out and all this in the friendship that I thought we had came up.. Huge turn off!

    • @alana523
      @alana523 Před 3 měsíci +10

      Yeah so sick of that line

    • @user-xi2hq1re4y
      @user-xi2hq1re4y Před 3 měsíci +11

      At war with themselves. I Love it!

    • @LRey85
      @LRey85 Před 3 měsíci +19

      My ex loved saying that…hence he’s my ex. My man now never says it. He knows if he brings me chaos don’t expect peace

    • @anacollado742
      @anacollado742 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Wow wow thank you❤❤❤

  • @sephiwejoycesithole6118
    @sephiwejoycesithole6118 Před 3 měsíci +280

    Red flags...💔
    Sleep with you on a first date.
    Not committed.
    Doesn't give you a break.
    Brings up marriage/ loving you
    Who brings you to date and ask who's paying the bill?.
    Quick to talk bad about their ex
    Tells you he doesn't trust women easily.
    Who asks you to be his peace.
    He's always busy and you hear from him once or 2 a week.
    When he just disappears.
    When he comes over at night only. Or calls at night only.
    Still learning thank you🙏👌💕

    • @TheeMostDangerousOne
      @TheeMostDangerousOne Před 3 měsíci +3

      So its a red flag if i dont trust women, yall are crazyy as hell 🤣

    • @senorita-qh6bm
      @senorita-qh6bm Před 3 měsíci

      @@TheeMostDangerousOneif you have a hatred for all women then yes you should be with a man not a woman

    • @mandanaa9578
      @mandanaa9578 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thank you.

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp Před 2 měsíci +25

      @@TheeMostDangerousOneif you don’t trust women then stay single. But don’t play games with peoples lives and emotions it’s that simple. There are a ton of women looking for stability..honesty …loyalty…fidelity etc so if that’s not you then be fully single…however that’s not what men do…they say the don’t want anything serious ..they say they don’t trust women yet they still want the perks of being with a woman while being nothing to the woman’s life that’s positive just bunch of headache and drama.

    • @shontasmith9362
      @shontasmith9362 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Absolutely, well said.

  • @tarothijadevenus4017
    @tarothijadevenus4017 Před 3 měsíci +117

    Never believe in his words, watch his actions ❤

  • @shabanabegum9623
    @shabanabegum9623 Před 3 měsíci +290

    words and actions can fool you but patterns never lie 💯

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 3 měsíci +5

      AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

    • @claudiarainone5548
      @claudiarainone5548 Před 2 měsíci

      What do u mean by patterns?

    • @ahamed6702
      @ahamed6702 Před 2 měsíci

      @@claudiarainone5548 watch what a person does (patterns).

    • @kadinethompson9442
      @kadinethompson9442 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Hence why I only watch actions

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb Před 2 měsíci +5

      ​@claudiarainone5548 people are creatures of habit. They like consistency. You will pick up on it. Most people are hiding something and that something Is usually a flag. Everyone wants to present as the angel.

  • @angelicelevationtarot1
    @angelicelevationtarot1 Před 2 měsíci +21

    When people show you who they are.. believe them!
    - Maya Angelou

  • @sweetlo3424
    @sweetlo3424 Před 3 měsíci +149

    This is the most honest healthy advice on dating I've ever heard.

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  Před 3 měsíci +12

      Awwe. Thank u

    • @teresahendley1316
      @teresahendley1316 Před 3 měsíci +11

      I agree! Very direct and to the point also. Thank you for sharing 😊 this information with us!

  • @suebaybee
    @suebaybee Před 3 měsíci +118

    I was having a conversation with a guy and he says "i need my woman to be my peace." I told him he must first have peace withink himself.

    • @freespirit-111
      @freespirit-111 Před 3 měsíci +2

      😂😂

    • @Virgolove
      @Virgolove Před 2 měsíci +4

      ....he heard it and thought it sounded good and thought you'd like it.....but yes...peace comes from within, sir. Be peaceful...

    • @vodkavuitton
      @vodkavuitton Před 24 dny

      Most stalkers do not have peace that's why they live for drama

  • @justsayit476
    @justsayit476 Před měsícem +5

    A man that constantly looks at other women whilst in your presence

  • @Mzlilunique
    @Mzlilunique Před 3 měsíci +66

    My red flag I keep encountering with men is not being invited to their house. Smh. Big red flag. Always want to be in my space.

    • @howardcinnamon
      @howardcinnamon Před 2 měsíci +26

      I made up my mind. If I can’t come to your place, u can’t come to mine PERIOD.

  • @FC-ku4ez
    @FC-ku4ez Před 3 měsíci +221

    I had a friend who would only contact me on holidays asking when I was coming into the city. I got together with him for lunch once, and he seemed rude, distracted, and upset. I excused myself after an hour of strange behavior and my gut telling me something was wrong. I found out a month later that he was in a relationship with a 21 year old girl (he's 46) and he'd proposed to her and gotten turned down right before he met me for lunch and tried to get me to go to his place. Trust your guts ladies!

    • @KevonnieElaine
      @KevonnieElaine Před 3 měsíci +14

      Whoa😳

    • @user-nu2xv6mt1z
      @user-nu2xv6mt1z Před 3 měsíci +8

      That's insane

    • @kmydesire12
      @kmydesire12 Před 3 měsíci

      Who different level of scumbag

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 Před 3 měsíci +14

      @FC yes they take out their problems from the ones that do Not want them on you!

    • @RoseMalaneigh
      @RoseMalaneigh Před 3 měsíci +9

      ​@@Katrica670 Exactly ‼️❌ And mess with the wrong one's & 🔚 up finding out the hard way about WRONGFULLY doing thing's to innocent people.
      It's flat out ridiculous & pathetic. If dude's (in general) can't handle rejection, then they need to just stay by themselves. Period, point blank..... it's not 🚫 that durn hard!

  • @IamCoachCourt
    @IamCoachCourt Před 3 měsíci +144

    Don’t just collect the flags 😩😩

  • @Shai8212
    @Shai8212 Před 2 měsíci +53

    Also, another red flag is the one that can’t pick up the phone to call always texting

    • @vfree4579
      @vfree4579 Před měsícem +7

      I got pulled into the texting big red flag never 📞

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 Před 3 měsíci +87

    "The one who lies in the beginning, then you catch the lie, it never ends!"🤔

    • @SL-ez5rv
      @SL-ez5rv Před 3 měsíci

      I achieved 40 years of that

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 Před 3 měsíci

      @@SL-ez5rv of what?

    • @Kashmir-lt4cx
      @Kashmir-lt4cx Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@SL-ez5rvare you a male?

    • @vodkavuitton
      @vodkavuitton Před 24 dny

      They'll keep the lies going for years to keep from moving on

  • @trinjuwan4422
    @trinjuwan4422 Před 3 měsíci +42

    I'm DONE with men, but I do like listening to "warnings" feedback from men & love to see ppl in love❤

  • @MzBates815
    @MzBates815 Před 3 měsíci +62

    They definitely always reveal themselves no need to go looking 💯

  • @diannwhitaker6
    @diannwhitaker6 Před 2 měsíci +27

    I just called off dating this guy last week. We were dating for a month and he "loves me" and wanted me to be his wife. This was after i told him that i don't want to get married. He would call me everyday and always ask where i was. If i said i was home, we would continue having regular conversation. If i said i was out somewhere, he always wanted to come where i am. I told him that i didn't want to date him and he immediately talked about what "I" was doing to him is wrong. What I was doing to him????? I blocked him and then 2 different people told me that he was married.

    • @peacendukwe
      @peacendukwe Před 2 měsíci +4

      😮 wowwwww

    • @---nj7hl
      @---nj7hl Před 29 dny +2

      Narcissistic as his Finest. Don't do onto me But I can do onto you. They are crazy!!!!

    • @KassieP-sf6nz
      @KassieP-sf6nz Před 22 dny

      That happened to me 7 years ago. I want them to play with me now am I a whole different person now.

  • @youvegotmel2844
    @youvegotmel2844 Před 2 měsíci +35

    10 Red Flags 🚩
    1. Ready to sleep with you on the
    1st date
    2. Openly telling you he doesn’t want to commit
    3. One that doesn’t give you a break
    4. Brings up love & marriage on the 1st date
    5. Ask you out & convo about who’s going to pay
    6. Quick to talk bad about his ex
    7. Tells you he doesn’t trust women easily
    8. Ask you to be his peace
    9. Who is always busy
    10. Disappears

  • @zimbinigijana-gz4xu
    @zimbinigijana-gz4xu Před 2 měsíci +20

    A man who talks about having kids with you on the first date, run ladies

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb Před 2 měsíci

      Great advice. He is into raw semen sex early. That's a BIG issue with the matrix. Nobody cares who gets what. Boys and girls can get it. Wild outside.

  • @latoyaalexander8951
    @latoyaalexander8951 Před 3 měsíci +95

    Sometimes they will call you while their spouse and children are inside of the house or at the store. They will also pretend to be divorced or a single parent.....

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @latoyalexander and where are they, in the car if they own one, or on the road? Then when the family is at the store, it makes sense he is calling from the house.

    • @latoyaalexander8951
      @latoyaalexander8951 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @Katrica670 No actually inside of the house at the same time as their wife while the wife is inside of another room watching TV, sleeping or running a business. They will say that their on the phone with a family member, coworker or friend if asked.

    • @sylverista3505
      @sylverista3505 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Happens to me all the time 😂😂😂

    • @latoyaalexander8951
      @latoyaalexander8951 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @sylverista3505 I am sorry that this has happened to you. These things have happened to me during my marriage and before getting married.

  • @Uwhowhereareyou
    @Uwhowhereareyou Před 3 měsíci +38

    I can spot the red flags,now that I'm older.

  • @cynthiachavis9678
    @cynthiachavis9678 Před 2 měsíci +9

    If his mother tells you my son ain't no good and you gonna fix him

  • @user-re4hv7ns4g
    @user-re4hv7ns4g Před 2 měsíci +17

    GREETINGS FROM ARKANSAS SOME OF THIS IS VERY TRUE AND A MAN WHO TALKS BAD AND TREATS HIS FAMILY PARENTS WHO IS STINGY AND TALKS BADLY ABOUT THE POOR THE WEAK AND THE HOMELESS OR THINKS CERTAIN WOMEN ARE UNATTRACTIVE AND MEN WHO DO NOT TRULY LIVE FOR GOD....A BAD TEMPER AND ANY TYPE OF DRUG USE MJ AND OTHER DRUGS CUSSING IS ALSO A BAD SIGN

  • @samanthalake5011
    @samanthalake5011 Před 3 měsíci +69

    Just leave men alone period. 😅

    • @Tend2Rose
      @Tend2Rose Před 3 měsíci +10

      😂😂

    • @mommynti3stewart391
      @mommynti3stewart391 Před 3 měsíci +27

      I’m telling you. This shit shouldn’t be so complicated.

    • @AsheBee123
      @AsheBee123 Před 3 měsíci +3

      I agree!

    • @TheeMostDangerousOne
      @TheeMostDangerousOne Před 3 měsíci +1

      I agree, men will still win without yall.

    • @The_torero
      @The_torero Před 3 měsíci +4

      ​@@TheeMostDangerousOne..Dude, you've answered several women on this video. You're definitely afraid of being alone/single and you're deflecting.

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 Před 3 měsíci +63

    “Don’t just collect the flags” wow- words of wisdom straight at the beginning 👏

  • @sparkle1949
    @sparkle1949 Před 3 měsíci +63

    also the one who won’t talk about the ex at all when you ask what happened.
    My narc ex pulled this until I investigated and found out what he did to her ( eventually did the same to me ).
    Scary how he’s the perpetual “ Mr nice guy” soft spoken in public and you’d never guess he has a over face in doors

    • @kysharooks5219
      @kysharooks5219 Před 3 měsíci +8

      A Covert Nar- I married one- left after 7 months

    • @Leahmoonbeamflower
      @Leahmoonbeamflower Před 3 měsíci +8

      Yeah most ‘ nice’ guys are secretly evil. Kind guys are different.

    • @TheeMostDangerousOne
      @TheeMostDangerousOne Před 3 měsíci

      Why do uu care abt his personal business.

    • @ahamed6702
      @ahamed6702 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Yes, the one who pays the bill at restaurants with friends, but struggling to pay his bills. The one who thinks he’s a comedian every where he goes, but sarcastic with his family. Screaming at his kids but in public goes out of his way for strangers. Watch out!

    • @Virgolove
      @Virgolove Před 2 měsíci +8

      Or they always blame everyone but themselves as being the bad party....always the victim...no accountability

  • @ZaraUchiha13
    @ZaraUchiha13 Před 3 měsíci +14

    he gave 5 out of 10 red flags. no commitment, disappeared for days, was there for the benefits only)))
    and yeah tried to sleep with me on the first date, pushing several times and backing up after i firmly said no the 3rd time
    i left him and the trauma bond, feeling better a month later... trust me, it works. if u'r going thru sth similar, please be strong, it does get better, there's a better u at the end of the journey :)

  • @TheNisiu
    @TheNisiu Před 25 dny +4

    "Be your own peace!" Thank you!

  • @user-fy5kl3nw5r
    @user-fy5kl3nw5r Před 2 měsíci +8

    My brother,you're real. God bless you

  • @tlbb8199
    @tlbb8199 Před 2 měsíci +10

    When they only visit at night 😂😂
    This did make me laugh but ur so right ❤

  • @user-sn6yr9kh6e
    @user-sn6yr9kh6e Před 3 měsíci +50

    This definitely is very important in Dating today and one more thing when you see a narcissist run

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 3 měsíci +3

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🎉

    • @kysharooks5219
      @kysharooks5219 Před 3 měsíci +11

      You got that right! The love bombing, compulsive liar/cheater, toxic, trauma

    • @user-eb3ty9dp8n
      @user-eb3ty9dp8n Před 3 měsíci +3

      Yes 💯💯💯

  • @joynurse9598
    @joynurse9598 Před 2 měsíci +12

    I have never heard these things explained so simply in my life!

  • @Tend2Rose
    @Tend2Rose Před 3 měsíci +99

    My ex took me to measure my finger, he was always the one to mention the 💍 not me!…I waited to see if it would ever manifest. 6 years later…🧐
    He was all talk and no action and he wanted to be the MAN and LEAD?
    How he expected me to let him lead, when I could never trust his word.
    Talk is so bloody cheap and will cost u years of wasted time

    • @aracelismith6507
      @aracelismith6507 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Wow. I'm going through the same 😢.

    • @joeroot9142
      @joeroot9142 Před 3 měsíci +6

      but you stayed 6y smh.

    • @kmydesire12
      @kmydesire12 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Right💯they already trying to lead us into a ditch, and run off with the person when stuff hits the fan

    • @joyricherson4570
      @joyricherson4570 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Curious why did you wait 6 years

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Před 3 měsíci +7

      They will waste your time until your biological clock ticks and thank toks. Don’t allow them to waste your time.

  • @debede8296
    @debede8296 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I saw your other video about men who pick women to prey on. It was just timely in my life. Met a guy who was my sister's friend. Said he liked me. I never knew what it was about him, but my guts didnt trust him. Turns out he was also professing love to my sister. I feel so validated for not trusting him and giving him a chance. What a loser. Ladies trust your guts amd don't break principles. This man was already naming "our" kids.😂 It was so fake and senseless. I hadn't agreed to date him. He said if I didn't agree, he'd die or become depressed. What a narcissist. I'm so mad at my sister for introducing us.😢 God bless you for being so wise and keeping it real with us ladies.

  • @mwoods2375
    @mwoods2375 Před měsícem +3

    Yep when they NEVER ask YOU any questions

  • @angiepurpleyoda
    @angiepurpleyoda Před 3 měsíci +27

    When you connect with your true self it all makes sense. If you are true to yourself and what you want emotionally, you’ll be in a desperate situation…and you can save yourself if you lean into truth. Discernment is very very important. People tell on themselves in the first meeting but you’re not vigilant enough to see because you’re stuck in desperation mode evaluating the situation for yourself emotionally instead of logically. Train yourself to not respond emotionally first and you’ll see a lot.

  • @cassandramitchell802
    @cassandramitchell802 Před 3 měsíci +44

    These are PURE FACTS!!! I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE 😊

  • @rialee9789
    @rialee9789 Před 3 měsíci +31

    I agree! Listen to what people say and believe it!

  • @indiagragg27
    @indiagragg27 Před 3 měsíci +11

    This video of all the videos is by far the most detailed and straight to the point. This guy is literally being purely honest with no chaser.😮

  • @SharleyPaul
    @SharleyPaul Před 3 měsíci +11

    “If you connect with the truth within yourself, you will know everything.” 💯 God = Truth

  • @chrishanswann433
    @chrishanswann433 Před 3 měsíci +39

    ❤🎉😂I LOVE THIS😂 Sir I Am 45 & Been Through These Things, You ARE ON Point Once Again. I Pray All Your Female Listeners Take Your Sage Advice❤🎉

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 3 měsíci +2

      AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER, ME 2, I just turned #52🎉

    • @rachaelrobinson2185
      @rachaelrobinson2185 Před 2 měsíci

      Just realized I've been doing the 4B movement without even knowing it for years!😅

  • @carlamitchell466
    @carlamitchell466 Před 3 měsíci +33

    You're correct my husband did this to me and I lost all my friends bc they Said I don't like him he's controlling

  • @jacquelinefarquharson5848
    @jacquelinefarquharson5848 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Discerning Spirit....
    Have to have that ❤.
    Real facts bro 💯

  • @user-dr6vj8ez9q
    @user-dr6vj8ez9q Před 3 měsíci +36

    Appreciate your knowledge & tips! Trust your intuition! When in doubt.....

  • @wongiwesamana3482
    @wongiwesamana3482 Před 3 měsíci +20

    No7 😢 i was there....i broke up with him 4 days ago, we've been fighting and forgive each other but it never stops. So i decided to leave him.
    Thank you Kirk 🙏💞

    • @Virgolove
      @Virgolove Před 2 měsíci +4

      Don't go back. God, universe ..is trying to save you. Good relationships have fwd movement, and last. Bad ones are chaos and heartache..❤

    • @portiamagaqa1536
      @portiamagaqa1536 Před 2 měsíci

      They never ever leave until you leave

  • @lesegomatlhale6282
    @lesegomatlhale6282 Před 3 měsíci +11

    I just left a guy who has all 10...

  • @kmydesire12
    @kmydesire12 Před 3 měsíci +11

    My ex had all of these traits. He was rude to waiters just to not foot the bill at restaurants, he would never have money but all see something he like at the mall. To make it worse this guy I recently mentioned marriage after having 2 conversations I told him right of the bat, I don’t think I’m the one for him to try and date he’s already talking marriage in the talking stage. And other little nuisances in his way that he watches me and notices every , little, detail about me. It’s giving major turn off vibes, Deleting and blocking

  • @MissOne
    @MissOne Před 2 měsíci +18

    If I can heal my trauma, maybe I will no longer attract these types of men. And if i do, i wont suffer them for very long.

    • @Virgolove
      @Virgolove Před 2 měsíci +7

      It's exactly how it works:).you heal....and after that hard work, you will find yourself to be much more discerning, boundried up.....and won't take anything less than u really deserve. It's ok to be single. Many of us are now preferring it🎉❤

  • @crystalgeter.6294
    @crystalgeter.6294 Před 3 měsíci +27

    One More The Man or Woman who says I Just Want to be Friends With Benefits Great Message❤

    • @MissOne
      @MissOne Před 2 měsíci +1

      At least they were honest. I respect that.😂

    • @shahneezyswayyy8689
      @shahneezyswayyy8689 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yeah they're honest, but then starts acting like we are together, giving mixed signals. Never again will i entertain that notion. Broke my own heart with the back & forth. He wanted me to be with him & only him, while he did him and of course lied. Smh

    • @MissOne
      @MissOne Před 2 měsíci +1

      @shahneezyswayyy8689 EXACTLY 💯 when you know you know.

  • @user-cb4oq8sd8p
    @user-cb4oq8sd8p Před 2 měsíci +4

    Thank you. EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS SO TRUE.I AM IN THIS SITUATIONSHIP.

  • @bernetajohnson3296
    @bernetajohnson3296 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Excellent video. You kept it 💯! Every woman in America should take heed.

    • @nyneegardner6235
      @nyneegardner6235 Před 28 dny

      They should listen to rhos Worldwide! The dust is global!!

  • @lijonpichon712
    @lijonpichon712 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I wish so much as women, that we could make better dating decisions when choosing men. We are hurting ourselves and our future family units.

  • @aandreahodge
    @aandreahodge Před 2 měsíci +5

    This was a red flag for me I just met a man within two months he stood me up twice first time he said he was sick after I call and asked was he still coming. Next time he stood me up he didn’t call me like the first time. When I asked he why he didn’t call to let me know he wasn’t coming, he said I didn’t have anything thing else to do.
    I was furious . I said to my self he didn’t value my time. So he doesn’t value me. I hung up the phone. He kept calling and calling me leaving voicemails, so I blocked him. Just to let you know I never slept with him.

    • @---nj7hl
      @---nj7hl Před 29 dny

      I would have Bailed the First time he stood me up on the alleged date.

  • @tlbb8199
    @tlbb8199 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Time after time I always get the BEST advice here ! 💯

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 Před 3 měsíci +14

    @7:54 this male did that with me about his ex, and I said stop that ain't cool, funny, or flattering! I ain't that chick!

  • @LetsTalkAboutItWithTALEYA
    @LetsTalkAboutItWithTALEYA Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you for these confirmations…it’s very necessary, as it truly does take a King to heal a Queen!

  • @802lioness
    @802lioness Před 2 měsíci +3

    When someone moves funny (🚩), lies a lot and/or cheats (🚩)...of course you're gonna have trust issues.
    At this point, it's time to move on.

  • @angelamhlongo1749
    @angelamhlongo1749 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you 🙌🏽 💯👌🏽

  • @MAGAMomma27
    @MAGAMomma27 Před 3 měsíci +6

    You have great energy. Your nature is refreshingly straightforward and full of common sense.
    Thank you & God Bless. 🙏🏻

  • @rosalind7678
    @rosalind7678 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Teach!💯👍🏾💪🏾🖤👑
    Everything That You Stated Is All Truth‼️

  • @gingermark2321
    @gingermark2321 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Thank you Kirk - valuable information

  • @MelitaLabort
    @MelitaLabort Před 3 měsíci +6

    Thank you so much coach 🥰 Very clear advice, I hear you. I already feel so much safer learning from you. Love and blessings 🙏🏽💖

  • @NB-xt7tj
    @NB-xt7tj Před 3 měsíci +5

    Real talks 👏👏👏 your so right, thanks for sharing

  • @marissahumblytherealistone8950
    @marissahumblytherealistone8950 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Wise Man 🦉❤ Thank you!! God bless you Abundantly 🙏

  • @debralewis111
    @debralewis111 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Wowwwww!!! Kirk I've be apart of all of them an totally miss read them, I took it as they were so into me, an of coarse when they got what they wanted, they left or only kept me as an option. Wow ❤ so stupid

    • @romansmommy7460
      @romansmommy7460 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Ur not stupid. We just fell for the bull. It happens to the best of us. Its okay❤

  • @user-xi2hq1re4y
    @user-xi2hq1re4y Před 3 měsíci +5

    Thanks! This is so good. Where were you 20 years ago, when I really needed to hear this. Thank you for it now.

  • @joannpotts819
    @joannpotts819 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Peace and love my Brother thank you

  • @marvetteaiken4534
    @marvetteaiken4534 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Thank you for that!! I needed to hear this.

  • @livie1111
    @livie1111 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This has to be the most transparent, wisdom based advise on dating I have ever come across! Thank you ❤

  • @empathicmisslady
    @empathicmisslady Před 3 měsíci +1

    Very Authentic you are. You get straight to the point. Thanks

  • @candyyelton7286
    @candyyelton7286 Před 3 měsíci +6

    So true. I love your wisdom!

  • @shahneezyswayyy8689
    @shahneezyswayyy8689 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @spice174
    @spice174 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Oh I am paying attention 💯thank you for the 10 red flags❤️

  • @s.l.copeland1549
    @s.l.copeland1549 Před 2 měsíci +2

    this is good! Thank You so much! 💯 appreciate your realness!

  • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
    @StandupGirl-ym3ey Před 3 měsíci +5

    You are absolutely correct!!!!

  • @awrightlove
    @awrightlove Před 3 měsíci +10

    Great conversation & content tips. Really enjoyed your flavor or style when delivering your messages. 💖

  • @viviennetse1207
    @viviennetse1207 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You hit the nail exactly on the head! no bullshitting! love this.... thanks for coming up with this list.

  • @stellaeightp8596
    @stellaeightp8596 Před 14 dny

    Thank you for your confirmation. I stopped this... and because I stopped him in his tracks he removed himself 😊

  • @Njeri79
    @Njeri79 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Nothing but the truth! Thanks for this…

  • @sharonwilliams4461
    @sharonwilliams4461 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You’re so right !

  • @sylverista3505
    @sylverista3505 Před 2 měsíci +1

    So valuable!!! Thanks 🙏 ❤

  • @ayishaablake4397
    @ayishaablake4397 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much very good episode.

  • @gladyscole5062
    @gladyscole5062 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @MissChannin
    @MissChannin Před 2 měsíci +1

    Ran across ur video randomly. It is right on time. Thank u!

  • @breadiva7205
    @breadiva7205 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this information 🙌🏾

  • @gulperisalman6966
    @gulperisalman6966 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the honesty

  • @tay468
    @tay468 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your advice

  • @jacquecook9904
    @jacquecook9904 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for the confirmations!

  • @cherylphillips5159
    @cherylphillips5159 Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent!! Ty

  • @christianlaws8204
    @christianlaws8204 Před měsícem +1

    I listen with my eyes. Some Men will say one thing then come w excuses or ignore what was said. To see if they can put u on hold and wait for them. Dont overlook what they say dont match what they do.

  • @IAmTheQueen87
    @IAmTheQueen87 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great list

  • @user-su5my7rm1h
    @user-su5my7rm1h Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thanks for sharing your truth and information about this subject. I Love you for your truth and keeping it 💯. God bless you Sir. Conformation. Taking notes to share with my daughter's and friends 🧡 😊❤

  • @sharonwilliams4461
    @sharonwilliams4461 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Very Knowledgeable!!!

  • @shantelcameron2724
    @shantelcameron2724 Před 3 měsíci +2

    LOVE U BROTHER GOD BLESS PEACE & SO MUCH LOVE 🙏💞🇬🇧

  • @shaunierockett4964
    @shaunierockett4964 Před 3 měsíci +3

    You are such a blessing with your wisdom 🙏🏾

  • @claudettespence307
    @claudettespence307 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for your insights and wisdom. Much appreciate

  • @Jesusistherealdeal
    @Jesusistherealdeal Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Thank You🙏. I NEEDED THIS HARSH TRUTHS/FACTS❤❤❤❤

  • @haimanotlemma7247
    @haimanotlemma7247 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you brother