The Pandemic of Divorce | Khutbah by Ustadh Umar Muqaddam

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  • čas přidán 5. 08. 2024
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    #Islam #sunnah
    0:00 Introduction
    0:37 Context
    1:28 Men vs Women
    2:15 Equality vs Justice
    5:05 Islam & Divorce
    7:37 The elephant in the room!
    11:09 Statistics & History
    14:50 'Loveless' marriage fallacy
    17:29 The Pursuit of Happiness fallacy
    18:35 4 societal destroyers of marriage
    18:50 1) Influx of feminism
    20:52 2) Social media & comparisons
    22:25 3) Selfishness & Individualism
    23:40 4) Weak mentality
    25:35 5 points to raise children for successful marriages
    30:10 Salah

Komentáře • 34

  • @AbutaymiyyahMJ
    @AbutaymiyyahMJ Před 26 dny +17

    May Allah bless u Ustaz Umar

    • @soumailasesay
      @soumailasesay Před 26 dny +1

      Ameen

    • @JohnDoe-ji6ye
      @JohnDoe-ji6ye Před 15 dny

      We would like you ustad to address this issue as well. This feminism spreads into our houses and mosques and imams and administration adopts this feminism and proudly speak about it.

  • @bibikarim1506
    @bibikarim1506 Před 27 dny +16

    My brother in Deen, thank you for sharing what Allah has blessed you with, this knowledge is what the Ummah is in desperate need of…… may Allah unite the Ummah and forgive us our shortcomings. May Allah enter us into the Eternal Paradise, Ameen Allahuma Ameen.!!!!!🤲♥️🕋

  • @jeenadjo1238
    @jeenadjo1238 Před 26 dny +8

    I hate divorce! I hate it with all my heart. I grew with a divorced mother. My mom did her best but it was hard growing up without a father. My father was absudive, alcoholic and a cheater. I grew up not knowing what it means to have a man in your life or how to treat a man. I actually grew up fearing men and having a negative outlook on them. The default was to become too socially aware from an an early age, too independent, mistrustful of people and pretty much a loner. I'm still single at the age of 32 and I fear settling down and getting married. This is the result of broken families and absuive parents.

    • @shirleyasraf64
      @shirleyasraf64 Před 25 dny +3

      Salaam alaikoem
      Don't be afraid to get married. My parents divorced after 25 years of mariage. I am married now for 40 years. In mariage you always learn to give and take. Every day.
      Because you have gone through the divorce of your parents does not mean that your distany is the same.
      Your heart is now close to meat a partner, just close your eyes and open it , let your heart speek and open your self for the rigth partner.
      May Allah SubhanW Ta'ala opens many beautifull doors for you in your life.
      Assalaam-alaikoem ❤❤❤

    • @addisachannel169
      @addisachannel169 Před 25 dny +1

      thank for sharing his is blaming women but now how men abusive to women

    • @JohnDoe-ji6ye
      @JohnDoe-ji6ye Před 15 dny

      It leaves a mess in your head and creates more complications. I agree with you. Especially if the mother decides to marry again.

  • @majestic6303
    @majestic6303 Před 26 dny +4

    I predicted that during COVID pandemic marriages will be tested and I swear so many been broken.

  • @DawaKalsumMulayi-ni8tl
    @DawaKalsumMulayi-ni8tl Před 26 dny +3

    May Allah bless you brother in this Dunia and the akhira.

  • @medwho959
    @medwho959 Před 15 dny

    Eye opener lecture!! May Allah reward you abundantly.

  • @fatimamohammed9295
    @fatimamohammed9295 Před 26 dny +5

    Great opportunity to mash the brakes! Save your marriage! Step back and stepback. This kutbah is remarkable! While a gen0cide is occuring of peoples in the world, another is occuring - death of marriage, families,
    May Allah continue to inspire brother to advise us aameen.

  • @AdoraFabro-rl4uk
    @AdoraFabro-rl4uk Před 21 dnem

    Beautiful kutbah thank you sheik Allah keep you safe ameen

  • @filippodrammeh3903
    @filippodrammeh3903 Před 21 dnem +1

    Masha Allah ❤️ ❤️

  • @emranuddin3687
    @emranuddin3687 Před 26 dny +3

    Very good khutbah

  • @mohamadrilaf707
    @mohamadrilaf707 Před 25 dny +1

    In the name of almighty l love to listen to your khuthbah my Bro, may Allah bless you more
    Knowledge. Alhamdulillah, my son also conducting jum ah sermon in our country language language sinhala,

  • @jocelynburrell445
    @jocelynburrell445 Před 25 dny +1

    The Quran mention this is a guidance for those who fear Allah ( Trangression ,)against the laws sent to Humanity)and believe in the Books sent before The Torah the Injeel and the last revealation to all of Humanity

  • @naturallyaishaj
    @naturallyaishaj Před 26 dny +6

    Do you realize the main difference of why women chose to stay in horrible marriages in the past was because women couldn't support themselves. Now, women can support themselves. So are you saying that the statistics only show women are leaving for happiness only or now women can afford to leave and couldn't in the 70s

  • @jocelynburrell445
    @jocelynburrell445 Před 25 dny +1

    Knowledge of Islam back , or a Mercy given from those who forefathers was bont warned

  • @allykhan8594
    @allykhan8594 Před 25 dny +1

    Since the State law and not the Shara law is enforce, i would encourage marry nikkah only. The kufr system, the deciever system is taking over. Those who are too attach to the dunya yoiur eyes can see how they ehave.

  • @jocelynburrell445
    @jocelynburrell445 Před 25 dny +1

    Clear , read sacrifice our behaviors from world veiw,taught behavior and Parents tribe or learnt behavior,

  • @jocelynburrell445
    @jocelynburrell445 Před 25 dny

    A S A so far none can deny what he has said

  • @jocelynburrell445
    @jocelynburrell445 Před 25 dny

    You can under stand the wisdom how Allah dealt with those before the Aadd Thamud. Nuh Pharoes, a duty for man S-2: S-3_.Men took the devine worship S-72-

  • @banirahman4926
    @banirahman4926 Před 23 dny

    Why will a woman want to get a divorce unless the husband is abusing her in some way?

  • @jocelynburrell445
    @jocelynburrell445 Před 25 dny

    Even pre-marriagr a greeme t based on The Quran Contract

  • @starsighting7167
    @starsighting7167 Před 26 dny

    Yea its becoming wayy to much

  • @addisachannel169
    @addisachannel169 Před 25 dny

    not true I'm women I want be independent don't lie