HOMEMAKING IS IMPORTANT WORK Traditional Christian Housewife + God Talk

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  • čas přidán 27. 06. 2024
  • Today is a homemaking motivation marathon! We are revisiting our discussions on the first half of the Proverbs 31 chapter. Let's learn about the virtues of the Proverbs 31 woman and apply them to our lives as homemakers.
    X(Twitter) @thismamasfaith
    Video Chapters~
    00:00 Homemaking is a high calling
    01:47 A Woman Who Fears the Lord
    09:28 An Excellent Wife
    19:48 A Trustworthy Wife
    31:41 Homemakers Work Diligently
    41:51 Homemakers Rise Early
    #tradwife #proverbs31 #homemaker
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Komentáře • 121

  • @nicolemarie4216
    @nicolemarie4216 Před 6 měsíci +62

    Really appreciate this. I’m often looked down upon by my friends for staying home with my kids and not having a traditional paying job. I know I’m called to be home and raise them.

    • @silviag9940
      @silviag9940 Před 4 měsíci +14

      I work 40 hours a week outside my home and I would much rather use those 40 hours for productivity for my family and our home than for a corporation. I have the most esteemed respect for women who stay home raising their children well, if more families could do this the world would be better off. Don’t worry what your “friends” think when God is smiling on you.

    • @1985tmc
      @1985tmc Před 3 měsíci +2

      That’s good you understand God’s calling on your life for this. It’s really simple, if we sow into the Holy Spirit, we will reap eternal life. Learning to deny the lust of the flesh by the power of the Holy Spirit is the best way to live, even when you have a commitment with your family.

  • @Proffittk001
    @Proffittk001 Před 7 měsíci +49

    Literally as soon as I started watching the video, I heard someone saying, ‘it’s okay to be a homemaker” I had lost my second job just this year.

  • @auredji84
    @auredji84 Před 2 měsíci +10

    I am a working woman (self employed working from home) and your videos are very inspiring to become better at serving my home, husband, and family.

  • @angelamyresh5378
    @angelamyresh5378 Před 8 měsíci +33

    After listening church sermons on Sunday feel more blessed to watch this video again..I'm a full time homemaker where I feel so down to open mouth to tell everyone that I'm a homemaker because too many negative people commented on me since I got no choice to leave my job for my husband and kid. I came across many depressions and comparisons in between family and relatives but i belive God still encouraging me through this video thanks thabitha sis..praying to god for you..through you God speaks to me. I should be proud to be a homemaker as this is His calling for me. God bless 🙏 😊

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 8 měsíci +6

      Yes! You are doing Gods work being a homemaker and caring for your family ❤

  • @angelamarie75
    @angelamarie75 Před 8 měsíci +16

    I'm praying everyone reading this has a beautiful new week ❤ God loves you. ♥️🙏🏻✝️

  • @youtops2023
    @youtops2023 Před 8 měsíci +14

    Hi Tabitha!
    Just wanted to let you know that your videos inspire me to get more done in my home and with my kids. Also they inspire me to try to be a better wife and mother.
    Please keep them coming!
    Hope you (and any of you reading this) have a blessed day.

  • @milla3360
    @milla3360 Před 5 měsíci +11

    I feel so stupid and worthless. I started watching your videos to try and be a better homemaker, because I am not good at it. Honestly I'm not good at anything. I was raised by a single mom, my dad was a slackoff and my whole life I've listened how men are worthless and abusive. And want us as maids only. Now I have a good husband. He is a Godsend. But I suck at being a good wife. I've become depressed after birth, only now I'm slowly waking up. I've found God only lately and I can't help but feel cheated out of so many years... I fight with my own pride daily and fail. I wish I had your wisdom. I'm trying but today is a day where I feel like I've failed. My husband, my children. My Lord. And me. I hope I will become at least in part as good of a woman as you.
    Thank you for what you do.

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 5 měsíci +11

      Ask God for wisdom mama! That is a prayer he promised to answer! One day at a time, progress over perfection. You are not a failure! 😍

    • @cerwelt
      @cerwelt Před 2 měsíci +12

      As an older woman (66) and I can tell you it’s a process and takes a lifetime. Give yourself the grace God gives. If you weren’t taught you can’t expect yourself to excel. You can learn by being around other godly women. Never take criticism or flattery to heart. Both will bring pride or shame. Do the best you know how, but try to eat the elephant of excellence one tiny bite at a time. Ask God daily to direct your steps, then lean heavily into trusting Him. He gently leads women.
      Yes, the adversary stole many years of your life, but those years, those tests, will be your testimony as you mature. God redeems the years the locust and cankerworm consumes. He will redeem those years for you. Ask Him! Every good and perfect gift comes from God to His children. Everything that steals from you, kills you or your joy and destroys comes from the adversary. He’s a deceiver. Don’t ever trust the Father of lies. Those negative thoughts in your head come from demons assigned to you. Every time they speak negativity say, “that isn’t my thought, leave now in Jesus’ name”.
      NEVER compare. Comparison is the thief of joy and hope. You are ONE OF A KIND. it’s like comparing the Mona Lisa to a Picasso. Which one is better? God has put gifts and talents in you that no one else has. They have to be developed as you trust Him.
      You are fearfully and wonderfully designed.
      Consider this: if you have a baby, would you expect her to be able to read as well as you? Would you demand she scrub the kitchen like a pro? You are a babe in Christ. If you can wash a dish you have a skill. Wash it like you’re washing for Jesus. If you can fold a towel, fold it like you’re folding it for the Lord. The more you do this, the better you will be at all your skills. Always give a bit more, do a bit better.
      God loves you just as you are, where you are. Delight yourself in Him, and He will give you the desires of your heart.
      Be encouraged.
      Nana Cherry

    • @smalltownhomesteadAC
      @smalltownhomesteadAC Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@cerwelt That was so beautiful!

    • @siriiii1
      @siriiii1 Před 23 dny

      You’re not a failure! ❤ press on! You got this!

  • @enidperez9031
    @enidperez9031 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I found this on accident and it is exactly what the doctor ordered. I love your content and it is very motivating. I found you at the right time and I needed this today. Thank you so much.

  • @carakerr4081
    @carakerr4081 Před 8 měsíci +11

    I’ve really been enjoying your videos and my husband and I who have been Protestant for 10 years are converting to Catholicism so thank you for your witness! God bless you ❤

  • @weatherponies7503
    @weatherponies7503 Před 8 měsíci +16

    I am so glad you are back! I’ve been watching your other channel in the meantime. Hearing gods words through you, and one other CZcams home maker, has been soothing and helped me transition this year. Last year I was in a dark area. I could not find happiness and it was all around me. I thank god for my imperfectly perfect home. I thank god for my boys as they go through their individual journeys. Everything I had prayed five years ago for everything currently surrounding me and I had been so blind from feeling overwhelmed and lost. Thank you.

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 8 měsíci

      I will be posting for sure every other Sunday! Hopefully more in between.

    • @taniaortiz6555
      @taniaortiz6555 Před 6 měsíci

      What's the other channel?😮

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@taniaortiz6555 This Mama’s House

    • @pbsamanthamarie
      @pbsamanthamarie Před 3 měsíci

      Do you sew your own clothes?

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 3 měsíci

      @@pbsamanthamarie no! the dress in this video is from marshalls 😂

  • @kaylabest5220
    @kaylabest5220 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I have a genuine question or two I should say. What if you would love to be a daughter of Christ and serve your family well but your husband is ungrateful of what you provide and down plays everything. What if You have tried to make genuine friendships but people are not are pure as they once were and everyone seems to take advantage of your kindness for their own personal gain. How do we go about these two situations when we are trying to live a slow meaningful life?

    • @karinacenteno9306
      @karinacenteno9306 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Pray for your husband. Keep doing what you are doing. Do it for the Lord. In regards to people, I learned to worry about myself and my families needs. If people are not asking for help, dont help them. If they need you, they will humble themselves and ask you for help. Pray for a Christ centered community. A group of people that love Christ that will be there to support you, edify you and encourage you.

    • @ashmckee
      @ashmckee Před měsícem

      Amen

  • @hollistandridge1117
    @hollistandridge1117 Před 6 měsíci +3

    You are doing good work. In old enough to be your mom but you inspire me to be a better wife and strengthen my relationship with God.

  • @svetlib7003
    @svetlib7003 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I didnt know i needed to hear all this..ive read proverbs 31 so many times but the way you explain it so simple, reallity hit me to fix up lol thank you ❤

  • @user-qp5zc9fp1u
    @user-qp5zc9fp1u Před 8 měsíci +1

    So helpful, thank you. I need the challenge to rise early as God says. Now to the implementing!

  • @catarinateixeiranobrega2139
    @catarinateixeiranobrega2139 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Had this reading on my wedding day blessed to hear it again ❤

  • @EmilyGregory2024
    @EmilyGregory2024 Před 8 měsíci

    Always excited when I see your videos ! Your so inspiring . Can’t wait to see the next

  • @annmarieknapp9942
    @annmarieknapp9942 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful day with us. I was able to work alongside you while listening and learning more about the Proverbs 31 woman who honestly always made me feel less than. 😢 My perspective on her has changed thanks to you sharing your Bible study. Praise God! I work from home and sometimes neglect my homemaker tasks. You've encouraged me to get going on those tasks early so I don't procrastinate, and I know my future self will be so grateful. Have a blessed day, and thank you again! You made a difference in my life today. 💖🌹🙏

  • @lamb11764
    @lamb11764 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love watching you “walk the talk”💝

  • @StacySorvig
    @StacySorvig Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for helping me work out my motivation. I so appreciate you and this community.

  • @marissaguill9790
    @marissaguill9790 Před 2 měsíci

    Please make more of these!! I got so much done for my family and to glorify God with my home while listening to this. It was such a peaceful joyful time.

  • @faithfulacresfarmhouse
    @faithfulacresfarmhouse Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love the long video. ❤ I love to watch though while also doing things. The Holy Spirit really speaks through you and gives you beautiful insight to share. I've loved watching your channel grow. It's well deserved! ❤

  • @albertalhorne1644
    @albertalhorne1644 Před měsícem

    I find your videos very comforting, as well as motivating. They encourage me to stop thinking negatively about myself because I’m unable to keep up with my housework as a 70 year old wife. I’m decluttering, & bringing order to specific areas of my home each week or as I can, such as my closet. I know decluttering comes before organizing, but I find encouragement from organizing after I declutter that one area. Otherwise my entire house gets worse before it gets better. I have so much I want to do, but run out of energy & have a lot of back & shoulder pain. Plus, I’m a musician who writes worship music to God. That takes time too. Prayers please. TY for your videos.

  • @BabeDmoney
    @BabeDmoney Před 5 měsíci +5

    You make good points but I don't agree to the expect nothing from your husband...as a married woman I expect him as a husband to put me before (after God) his needs....he suppose represent what God is to the church..also there is nothing wrong with expressing something that is bother you to someone..as long as your not being extra nasty about the conversation...because yea you can speak to your husband and he could not hear or care what you say ...that's how fight start...then just praying isn't enough when you want someone to give fee back in a physical manner

  • @BethMJones
    @BethMJones Před 8 měsíci +2

    This is awesome! Love it! ❤ Thank you.

  • @radiantchristina
    @radiantchristina Před 8 měsíci

    I love the longer video. I listened while I worked today. Bless you.

  • @carolwhisenhunt7504
    @carolwhisenhunt7504 Před 8 měsíci

    I just loved this. God bless you and your family Tabitha.

  • @LauraIkic
    @LauraIkic Před 14 hodinami

    Thank you for inspiration! 💜

  • @theromanticcatholic
    @theromanticcatholic Před 8 měsíci +4

    The trustworthy wife segment was the best truth bomb I needed! Thanks for sharing Tabitha

  • @tyd_vir_nuwe_begin
    @tyd_vir_nuwe_begin Před 2 měsíci +1

    I love your dress. Thank you for your video. I'm doing laundry while listening.

  • @HerminaArshakian
    @HerminaArshakian Před měsícem

    I wanna thank you for being a very inpirational example to me. You really motivate me to care for my home and family! And do it with love and appreciate my position in the home, since I'm a stay at home mom. God bless you for what you do hun!! ❤I also love the Bible study you do😍

  • @milktea_femme_
    @milktea_femme_ Před měsícem

    Thank you for this reminder in being a good wife. Sometimes in today's society it is so hard to keep that in mind and allow ego to ovyer come us. I appreciate this purity so much.

  • @Anne914
    @Anne914 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Happy Sunday beautiful mama 🙏🏼🧡🍂🍁

  • @Journey.of.francesca
    @Journey.of.francesca Před 2 měsíci

    I will prepare myself. This video must be the answer to my prayer

  • @lauramcginnis8508
    @lauramcginnis8508 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I just listened to this video while bustling about my own home.
    Thank you for sharing. ☺️ I might try your phone in the bathroom idea as I have a difficult time getting up before my early rising kids.
    Love the soft music choice for this too-it made my chores enjoyable while listening to His Word and truth. Blessings!

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 8 měsíci

      So glad I was able to keep you company while you did your chore :)

  • @littlevalleyhomestead
    @littlevalleyhomestead Před 8 měsíci +2

    I love your channels and appreciate the content you create. Thankyou for the inspiration.

  • @carolannbolinger3795
    @carolannbolinger3795 Před 3 měsíci

    I enjoyed this so much. Thank you for sharing. I don’t feel so bad now that I not the woman in this chapter. I realize that I need to work on beefing a better wife. My children are grown up and not at home. I would enjoy hearing about how to be a better wife that glorifies God .

  • @caballefam
    @caballefam Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hello Tabitha! I am soooo happy to stumble upon your channel. I am a homemaker, too, but I'm older with small kids. We are a traditional Catholic family, too. And I love watching Mamas here in yt who also love homemaking. ❤❤❤

  • @daniellechevious9094
    @daniellechevious9094 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you that blessed praise guiding to come best godly wife I can be ❤

  • @kristennessel
    @kristennessel Před 6 dny

    Loved your video!

  • @cassandranocos9947
    @cassandranocos9947 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hebrews 13.4 ❤ we choose that for our wedding Mass. A wonderful reminder.

  • @Lisa-ne5pd
    @Lisa-ne5pd Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you great video 🙏❣

  • @fernandaoliveira2895
    @fernandaoliveira2895 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Thank you for your catholic apostolate. God bless you and your family. God bless all families.

  • @eytyxia9915
    @eytyxia9915 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much ❤ Regards from an orthodox Christian from Greece! this is the most beautiful video ive ever seen in homemaking made me realise a lot of my mistakes! Thank you so mush I wish God blesses you with all my heart! It almost made me cry! I feel like homemaking its not the best thing ever but after watching this video it made me realise how important for all and gloryfing to God is! This video made me wanting to make a family again! Im 24 but the last years after all the divirces I see and everything of todays world Im so afraid and thoughtful on wanting a family! Thank you so much God bless you and your fam !you are far precious than jewels 💎❤Thank you!

    • @eirinis.1173
      @eirinis.1173 Před 5 dny

      Ο Θεος να σε ευλογησει με μια χαρουμενη κι αγαπημενη εν Χριστω οικογενεια!Μη φοβου,μονο πιστευε.😊🙏❤️

  • @notibutchristGal222
    @notibutchristGal222 Před 2 měsíci

    I don't have a dishwasher or a washing machine it does play a big issue, and takes way more time out of my day.

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I like these videos. Can you do one about how you rest in God and also from your daily routine.

  • @fabiolajustice4460
    @fabiolajustice4460 Před 2 měsíci

    Do you have any favorite places to get all these beautiful dresses? All he ones I have liked are so expensive! Thanks sooo much❤ New to you channel and loving it!

  • @kimwieczorek1879
    @kimwieczorek1879 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Luv your dress❤🎉

  • @Yanivlogs88
    @Yanivlogs88 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I love your videos. 🙏

  • @indiratibig6757
    @indiratibig6757 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @Candace0
    @Candace0 Před 6 měsíci

    God bless you to

  • @carolineg2305
    @carolineg2305 Před 8 měsíci

    Thanks!

  • @psalmbird6187
    @psalmbird6187 Před 4 měsíci +2

    There's a high calling
    A high calling
    Can you yield when God commands
    Come out of her My people
    And testify through the land
    That My word will sanctify.

    • @ruth3452
      @ruth3452 Před 4 měsíci

      God bless you. I will share your message.

    • @psalmbird6187
      @psalmbird6187 Před 4 měsíci

      @ruth3452 it's a song I wrote, it's on sound cloud search ...high calling meier

  • @lidyateweldemedhin6285
    @lidyateweldemedhin6285 Před 6 měsíci

    Love your channel keep at it (:

  • @kaelynsmom09
    @kaelynsmom09 Před 8 měsíci

    Where do you buy your dresses from?? They’re very pretty!

  • @suzannemarie86
    @suzannemarie86 Před 4 měsíci

    Hi Mama, thanks for sharing. I am really liking your videos. Can you please share your favourite place to get modest dresses? And how did you make the switch to wearing only dresses? I struggle to find it practical many days with a baby and two toddlers, running around and cleaning. I thought to maybe wear shorts underneath, since I am on the ground playing with my children a lot. Thoughts and tips? Thank you and God bless.

  • @leeworley5160
    @leeworley5160 Před 8 měsíci

    The excellent woman is Gods church with enough members for the perfect wife seeing as the church is his bride/wife. Never saw that before. what one woman cannot do the church can like our body with all its parts. God is good!

  • @Mica.99
    @Mica.99 Před 8 měsíci

    Where do you get your dresses? 💛

  • @wendymurangi
    @wendymurangi Před 8 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @magdalenadudek9466
    @magdalenadudek9466 Před 8 měsíci

    💕

  • @Jamiebena1984
    @Jamiebena1984 Před 5 měsíci

    Where do you get your dresses? Do you make them?

  • @lanahundley8625
    @lanahundley8625 Před 4 měsíci

    💗💗

  • @akaciafabus9917
    @akaciafabus9917 Před 8 měsíci

    Hey there, I've been looking all over for dresses like the ones thaf you wear, but haven't had any luck. Could you share with me?

  • @heathersheartco
    @heathersheartco Před 2 měsíci

    It’s funny because I often hear pastors teaching about these worthy qualities in a wife but they fail to mention that we’ve got to start developing these habits in singleness.

  • @shannonc4939
    @shannonc4939 Před 8 měsíci

    💕🙏

  • @mysteryworld8170
    @mysteryworld8170 Před 2 měsíci

    Check out the book called Steven Demogorgon if you love to read. It has a little bit of everything.

  • @candyhr4152
    @candyhr4152 Před 2 měsíci

    I have to go back to work part time unfortunately. I'm feeling really guilty about this. What should I be thinking about?

  • @FoxOil
    @FoxOil Před 5 měsíci

    Could you share your recipe for the blueberry bagels?

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 4 měsíci

      I found it on Instagram! I can’t remember the post!!! 😅

  • @vickivee
    @vickivee Před 8 měsíci +1

    Do you have a link for the yellow dress you’re wearing?

  • @Galgal999
    @Galgal999 Před 6 měsíci +3

    When you say 100% to those of us who do work full time does this also mean the husband gives 100% too? Trying to see the context in what you meant when you said that

  • @susanspianostudio7057
    @susanspianostudio7057 Před 8 měsíci

    What Bible version were you reading from when you read Prov. 31? Thank you!

  • @martipallag3432
    @martipallag3432 Před měsícem

    Where buy you your dress? Maybe, you make its?

  • @alliboyd6346
    @alliboyd6346 Před 6 měsíci

    Where can I find the proverbs videos?

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 6 měsíci +1

      There is a playlist with all of them :)

    • @alliboyd6346
      @alliboyd6346 Před 6 měsíci

      @@ThisMamasFaith thank you so much! I just have to say thank you for sharing your faith and life with us. It’s truly helped me change my attitude towards my homemaking and it’s a complete game changer. Thank you 🙏

  • @alyssa.017
    @alyssa.017 Před 8 měsíci +2

    What is considered a high calling?

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 8 měsíci

      I’m not sure I understand your question?

    • @alyssa.017
      @alyssa.017 Před 8 měsíci

      @@ThisMamasFaith your video said homemakers is a high calling

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 8 měsíci +8

      I believe, as a Christian, that our highest calling is serving Christ and spreading the faith.
      Many women, including myself can best fulfill this high calling by being a homemaker.

  • @lucygale336
    @lucygale336 Před 8 měsíci

    🫶

  • @dentzierands8357
    @dentzierands8357 Před 4 měsíci

    I appreciate what you and some other young women are putting on you tube.i think it’s important and I wish I had this 40 years ago when I was a young mother. But what is with all you girls with having your back to the camera. I’m not trying to be rude,but what are you looking at. You’re all so lovely let’s see those faces not the back of your head.

  • @rahilawarsi2013
    @rahilawarsi2013 Před 7 měsíci

    What if God's and husband's opinions are different and they don't value homemakers:(

  • @kimberlyholt2241
    @kimberlyholt2241 Před 8 měsíci +25

    I love your videos! Being a homemaker IS a calling....but only if you have a GOOD husband and don't have to work 2 jobs to raise your kids. 🥲🙏

    • @hopefull61256
      @hopefull61256 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Yes it is definitely a privilege

    • @SA1G0N_
      @SA1G0N_ Před 8 měsíci +17

      It used to be common back then, it became a privilege due to feminism.

    • @Galgal999
      @Galgal999 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Yea I’m having a hard time with this one. You can’t give a 100% if you’re working and doing everything because you yourself will be burned out

    • @dannapelaia6081
      @dannapelaia6081 Před 3 měsíci +2

      It always was a privilege. Many women back in the day worked to on the farm, out of the home for survival. The idea of the perfect stay at home mom was a marketing scheme perpetuated back in the 50's

  • @Bilisjourney
    @Bilisjourney Před 28 dny

    cloth diapering mama! 🫶🏼 love it! thank you for this huge motivation we need 1000 videos like this one !!😍😍

  • @gaildurocher6553
    @gaildurocher6553 Před 8 měsíci

    ❤❤❤