Brushing Out My 5 1/2 Year Dreadlocks | Christina Randall
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The ending of this made me sad. PLEASE remember why YOU did this. It's something YOU wanted! I understand your family was clearly attached to your locks, but it's your hair. It's something you wanted to do. Just remember that. Don't let anyone guilt you for doing something you wanted to do with your own hair.
I don't think they were trying to guilt her, I just believe it was a major shock to them. I mean, they are so used to seeing her that way & then boom...gone. Also, I'm hoping it was just some clever editing skills on Christina's part to keep us in suspense. Regardless though....she's absolutely beautiful with or without the locs inside & out â€
Yes that broke my heart for her AND them! I can remember my daughter, now 20, at that age and how my actions shouldn't have affected her but very clearly did just because we were so close. It'll take some time for them all to adjust. Maybe Christina needs to do like a mini funeral to mourn her dreads lol
yes 100%. and its good for them to be honest but i really hope your husband still supported you! you are gorgeous no matter what.
I understand her son being upset bc thatâs how heâs always seen his mom and heâs a kid, heâs gotta get used to it. But i feel like her husband was rude at the end (we only heard one clip so im not trying to say that heâs mean to her all the time or anything). Like i get him liking them and wishing she kept them but for her to ask âdo you still think iâm pretty?â And all she got was a rude response, that made me so sad for her. You can like her old hairstyle but still be supportive at the same time. Itâs a good thing she took them out since they had a little mold in them, that could make her really sick over time.
@@ogds4zn0 i literally said âwe only heard one clipâ. I never said her husband is mean to her all the time, i dont believe that at all, i know he makes her very happy. All i was trying to say is that from what was shown, it seemed like a rude comment.
âI donât know why you took them outâ
Because you wanted to and thatâs all that matters!
Right . â
Clearly he didn't even watch her video explaining WHY!!
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and they needed to come out anyway
I WAS CURIOUS, at the end of the video after she asked "am I still pretty" I heard someone say " I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU TOOK THEM OUT " what kind of response was that I'm just curious who said that cuz it WAS RUDE. Us women love to change our style from time to time, just need to get used to that.
CHRISTINA YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT I JUST LOVE YOUR SPIRIT AND HEART AND SOUL IT MAKES YOU BEAUTIFUL ON THE OUTSIDE IN EVERY WAY, GOD BLESS YOU, JESUS LOVES YOU SOOOOOO MUCH đ
You are beautiful Christina! Your husband's reaction hurt my heart. You are beautiful with or without hair!! Your personality is what makes you as beautiful as you are!! Less than 3 months ago, I was coming out of a 4 month long depression. My hair was completely matted. I even managed to hide it from my husband & kids the entire time. I would keep my hair in bun on top of my head. I finally couldn't take it anymore & showed my husband. I cried my eyes out & explained to him that it was so bad, I probably was going to have to shave it. I kept telling him I was sorry & I knew he was going to be embarrassed. He laughed at me, hugged me & went right out and bought like 10 different types of combs/brushes + every type of hair detangler he could find. He came home and spent the next 6 hours helping me. He would stop when I cried and try and make me laugh. I asked him after we were done if I had of shaved it would be still be with me?! He said "I didn't fall in love with your hair- I feel in love with you. Nothing you could do or not do to your appearance would ever be enough to make me not love you!" đâ€ïž
This is a BEAUTIFUL story â€
Sounds like you hit the jackpot with that one!! Hold and tight and do not let that man go â€
I literally have tears in my eyes- keep that love. That's real, long-term love. Maybe someday for me, maybe...
You should have a million or more likes for this story. Your husband sounds wonderful which in turn shows how wonderful you must be. You both are a reflection of each other. Stand side by side in all things.đđđâ€ïž
Awww such a beautiful story thank u soo much for sharing đâ€â€â€â€â€â€â€
I told my husband I want to shave off all of my hair, he said okay. I told him I wanted to keep my long hair, he helped me brush it out. That's the kind of support you deserve ALWAYS.
I know the dreadlocks were a stunning look, and it seems like your family was very attached to them as well- please remember the reasons you took them out! You are GORGEOUS regardless of your hair and being able to âlive lifeâ FREELY without worrying about your hair is much more important than a hairstyle!
You're soul makes you a beautiful person, not your hair.
Agreed! Freedom is everything! Change is hard but they love YOU not the dreads. You look amazing! YOU would never tell them how to wear their hair right?
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Your husband is worried you will regret your decision , children are funny when mom looks different but I think he will be just fine xoxox men can be hurtful and Iâm sorry he made you cry đą you are beautiful I LOVE YOUR HAIR !!
@@thebigw497 they'll adapt. I felt her pain when they didn't agree.
I understand when a child wants you to look the exact same forever as a first reaction. 100% normal. I'm disturbed, though, that a grown man couldn't see your fragility in that moment. Sister, you are a shining star. ::safe hugs::
Exactly what I felt, too. And Iâm assuming sheâs told him in the past her reasoning, too
Iâd like to assume itâs just the editing and he didnât actually say that with ill intent.
I agree. My son doesn't even like it if my toenails are painted. He doesn't want me to change anything, ever. My husband prefers my hair long (I got him to admit it once) but is supportive of anything I want to do. I know he probably wouldn't like anything too different, but he would probably still support me.
It feels like a cliffhanger and I hope he was more supportive than that for-real.
Yeah, I agree! I understand her child acting the way he did, but I was shocked at how her husband reacted. Heâs a grown man and needs to be loving and supportive in whatever Christina does. I felt like what he said was actually pretty rude. And if my husband had said that to me, it wouldâve definitely hurt my feelings.
Your hair looks remarkably healthy for having had dreads. A+ for haircare!
Iâve literally always wanted to see Christinaâs real hair! Itâs so beautiful omg embrace it girl â€ïž
Dry and damaged, let's keep it real.
@@blackmonday738 So? That's what happens after having dreads, it's normal. Still doesn't change the fact that it looks beautiful on her.
I donât think she added any extensions. Iâm not sure but I thought that was her real hair
The dreads were her real hair
@@DionnWilliams she did sometimes have extensions
The ending of this made me sad, too. You look absolutely stunning without the locks. I know change is hard for people, but your identity or self worth is not based on your locks. You are an incredible, intelligent, funny and beautiful person who is so much more than just her hair!
I agree this absolutely broke my heart. I wanted to cry tears of joy for you girl.. but than the end it broke my heart. Please don't regret your decision. Either way it's just hair. Your still you and your beautiful đ
lol people are not that bright she obviously intentionally edited it to look bad so that people are eager for part2 ..a form of clickbait
Amenđ
@@saffysaffy3401 Somehow I don't think so in this case. I guess we will find out.
@@lilmissnumnums101 nope me either. I think Christina is as real as it gets-- therefore she shared his real reaction. She doesn't have to bait us, we come back regardless. We
The ending broke my heart, I just wanted to let you know that your story behind the dreadlocks is beautiful, and the reason why you're taking them off, is also beautiful, the fact that you have accomplished what you wanted, and its time to let go is truly amazing .
The friendship that you three have is undeniably strong and genuine! I aspire to have friends like that in my life!!
The end broke me heart. Youâre gorgeous in every way inside and out and youâd be gorgeous even if you were bald and wearing a trash bag
She is gorgeous.
Christina. It broke me when your family didnât react well. I wish they wouldâve been a bit more supportive. But, you made this decision for yourself. Not for them, just remember that. Youâre new hair is gorgeous! They just need time to get use to it, it will be like you always had your hair that way đ
It was just an honest reaction lol i feel all of us have done this thank god its just hair and thank even more for her beautiful personality
Ikr? Her husband's response is ridiculous. Like most husband's say "you are gorgeous no matter what" and stuff so why did he have to say that?? Like I am sure she has explained why she took them out before to him!
This â€
Right, dump that dude way too controlling!!!
Guys, chill out. It's edited for dramatic effect, we didn't see the full reaction yet. I can't believe some of these comments over so little EDITED information.
The fact that she has this much hair after brushing out her dreads is impressive af
Honestly đ!!!
We actually lose quite a lot of hair in a day, so it would actually be the normal amount, itâs just been stuck in her dreads. It does look like a lot when you see it altogether though lol
I think OP is referring to the huge amount of hair remaining on her head.
Im really impressed by how thick, healthy and long her hair is after the brush-out. I was expecting lifeless wisps that would ultimately have to be cropped short to look half-way presentable.
Ikr lol My hair is sooo thin, I would kill just have the end result
@@melissaedwards5689 but someone with fine, thin hair would have had a lot more breakage when trying to brush them out. Her end result is impressive and shows how thick her hair was. Finding out its wavy or curly isn't surprising.
Ok I'm a bit late to this party but....Christina's husband is ALWAYS supportive of her! He voiced his opinion to her which is what a loving partnership is about! Being able to express your opinion to each other! He ADORES Christina and anyone that has watched her videos for more than 5 minutes knows that! She feels the exact same way about him. And what makes them an incredibly loving, understanding couple is that they can do that with each other and talk about everything! We should ALL be so lucky to have a relationship like theirs. We love you Christina and Jeremy!!!
Good to know. On the upside, she must have a lot of new subscribers for this to happen in the comments. I just found her channel tonight. This will be good for her career.
It takes people, who have seen you looking one way for over a decade, a little bit to get used to a new look. Thatâs only natural. If I came home with a completely new hairdo my husband would be a little like âđ€đŻâ but heâd still love me and heâd get used to it.
And that's why she was CRYING and hesitant to go inside? Because she's always supported? Lol.
Could not have said it better, maryanneking đđ
This new style actually looks gorgeous. The family is just remembering how it was and it's hard for them to be resilient but this look is really nice, no kidding!
It's absolutely HEARTBREAKING seeing how GENUINELY HAPPY Christina was at the end doing the photo shoot, and then having him literally say "I don't know why you took them out" THE AUDACITY..... đ„șđđ€Ź
Christina, you're beautiful with or without dreads. We love you REGARDLESS â€
Iâm hoping when we see the video it will be put into context and him responding to something she said about regret. Iâm really hoping it wasnât as harsh as the clips inserted made it seem. Trying to give Jeremy the benefit of the doubt, because like you said... THE AUDACITY!
and she does look GREAT! I canât believe how much hair she got to keep on her head and it look so dang nice. I can only imagine how amazing that scalp rub is feeling!
Girl I FEEL you! I change my hair constantly and my husband is nothing but supportive. I was really taken aback by the way they acted about it, as though it wasn't her choice alone. đ€Š
I seriously hope your family doesnât make you feel bad about this, you arenât defined by your hair, you are an amazing woman regardless of what your hair looks like â€ïž
THIS! I 100% agree! It is just hair. But, I know that it HAS to feel better. That mold was freaky đł
YES!!! It made me so sad hearing/seeing the disappointment!
They won't
@@We_Are_All_Vultures did you see the very end?
My heart sunk with his reaction~ Iâd imagined it more like seeing a (new) queen for the 1st time⊠Christina is deserving of no less than that⊠in Any version of herself. And a look is just that; 1 of many, changing, evolving Steveâs of BEing~ on the journey âđœ
My husband loves long hair, i came to him embarrassed saying that i just couldn't manage it anymore, So he cut it to my neck happily, And reminded me that my hair isn't what makes me beautiful, I'm sorry to anyone that changes something and their SO isn't as supportive.
I personally love your hair even more now! So silky, shiny, healthy and surprisingly still thick and voluminous looking. I was expecting your hair to look a lot thinner and more damaged. You have good hair genes clearly. I only have to forget to brush mine for one day and I get clumps when I comb it out lol.
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And she took super care of it too
There is nothing wrong with Dreds either ⊠theyâre also SHINY, SILKY, and BEAUTIFUL⊠watch how you word stuff.
@@Mrszhersheyy I'll describe her hair now however I like thanks
@@Mrszhersheyy oh u wouldn't know you wear wigs đ€đ
CAN WE GIVE A HUGE THANK YOU TO CHRISTINA FOR SHARING HER DREAD BRUSH OUT JOURNEY WITH US???
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THANK YOU CHISTINA!
Yeesss! đđŒ Thank you Christina! You're awesome and so brave to share this journey with us. We love you! âșïžđđŒđ
Thank you so much đ„°
I have always thought you're so gorgeous! †your husband's lack of emotional support for you is sad. Let it be known you're beautiful no matter what!
considering its been 5 œ years since you've had the hair the amount that feel out is totally normal!! because the hair was wrapped up in the dread it couldn't shed so it was kinda staying in there in the past 5 + years. so don't be worried that's normal i promise !!!
Itâs hair âŠ. She didnât get a face lift
So true-hair shedding is normal, so she had all that hair that didn't shed stuck in the locks.
@@ablair33556 This is trollish- some women really care about their hair. It has so many meanings. Don't put it down.
We naturally shed over 100 hairs a day. And with locks, those hairs get trapped. Thatâs why it looks like youâve âlostâ so much hair. You been losing it but it was just sticking around is all lol . What a journey.
The fact that she has so much on her head is impressive though. Fine, thin, or fragile hair would not have done so well with the brushing out process.
It hurts when you donât get the positive support you need when making a big change. Iâm so sorry. I canât imagine how that felt. The end was making my heart skip beats. Keep your head up. You are gorgeous no matter how your hair looks!
Absolutely and positively agree with you. The reaction from her son was just as bad as the reaction from her husband you hang in there Christina you look beautiful. Your hair does not define you your looks does not define you
The end made my PTSD come on strong. Iâm happily divorced now but when I was married my husband would talk to me like that and it got to the point that I couldnât buy my own clothes and he decided on my hair styles and color and if I could wear makeup and how to do it. We love you and support your decision and you look beautiful! I bet a lot of women would love to have your hair, I know Iâm jealous of those long flowing locks! đ
I would be so happy to get my hair that long and pretty. Im sorry your ex husband said and did those things. I applaud you for getting out of that. It's not easy. Love and blessings from KY!!đđđ€đ
Glad you are free!
Iâve been there too!! Never again!!!
@@carolynburton1628 they are still together.
A few summers back a friend of mine's daughter was taking swim lessons. She's mixed & has beautiful tight curls & because she prefers to brush & style her own hair into a low pony nobody noticed that she wasn't brushing the underside. Two months in her mom catches on & realizes the underside in the back had one big dread in the center. She said she spent 3 days trying to untangle them with a blunt hook & metal comb but was getting nowhere & the hair was just breaking off so she started massaging oil & conditioner in to the matted hair & gradually was able to get into the center & just worked up from there until it was saturated & then started untangling. She'd gotten nowhere working on them for 3 days dry & was able to get the entire dread out in 1 evening using oil & conditioner with very little breakage.
Broke my heart when you asked your hubby if he thought you were still pretty and his response was "I don't know why you took them out" I know he has amazing qualities but that was low.
I like better either way you are đŠ
Iâm really hoping the clip was taken out of context, and we will see the whole thing in the next video đ€đŒ
@@jennifercate8996 me too!
The most attractive thing about you isnât even your looks, Christina. Your smile after the posing videos made you glow!
Wow !. Love it my friend.
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That's beautifully saidâ€
Wow! Beautiful. His response should have been, âYES! Youâre Still beautiful!â Who cares how you style your hair! Thatâs so shallow of him.
Who you are is within.
Have you told them your reasons for wanting them out, Thereâs no way your family canât understand that itâs heavy and hurt your neck, or that you want to be able to roll around in the sand and jump in the ocean with them. I hope their opinions have changed, their reactions was heartbreaking to watch. Iâm sorry Christina đ
I felt horrible for you when your husband said âI donât know why you took them out?â Your hair looks good for 5yrs of locks. As time goes by your son and husband will love your natural hair.â€ïžđâ€ïž
Itâs an adjustment for everyone, but soon enough you wonât remember any differently
Her hair is going to get the chance to grow healthy and it will look sooo gorgeous and she'll be free of everything her dreads held her back from â€
Tell hubby to wear heavy dreads for 5 years then ask why you took them out...he isba good man though so he gets a pass I guess lol đ
Her man needs manors girlllll tell ypur man fuck you and his opinion!!!! Christine your fabulous and dont let him take ypur spark away he has me so mad eeeww girl!!!!
Not his best moment. Christina looks AMAZING as always (and sheâs way out of his league to begin with so he should be careful lol)
Awww between Jayden not saying anything and your husband saying:
âI donât know why you took them outâ then seeing your face at the endđ„ș thatâs heartbreaking baby it looks beautiful!!! And tbh you donât look any different cause you can still style your hair to the side like normal , geez I hope your feeling good about your choice, See thatâs the key your choiceâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžAnd I absolutely love it!
Especially after saying "Do you think I'm still pretty?" Like that's just a punch to the gut
Yeah that made me so sad for her, I thought heâd say something like youâre always so beautiful no matter what because you really are
He needs to treat her better or he doesn't deserve her.
Yeah for real, wth was her husband's response? It's just sad, because she is incredibly gorgeous no matter the style of her hair.
Yeah that hurt me I can't imagine how it felt for her! Like she has said it over and over why she is taking them out! So for him to say that is just ridiculous...
You are so much more to so many people than your hair. I never saw them as your trademark as such, just a part of you, and I admired your reasons for having them. This starts a brand new chapter of your life-with a lighter head. Congratulations Christina xx
As women, our hair is our vanity. I know why you got the dreads and why you removed them. You went through the process and are free! Love your channel so much.
They say when a woman changes her hair, she's going to change her life. You look BEAUTIFUL â€
I have never heard this before. I love it. I changed my hair today! đ
@@lynseycobden203 yay! Good luck I hope your life changes for the better love.
Well put!! I need to write down what you said!!
Omg really? I'm cutting all my hair off. đ€Ł
Your still gorgeous, so keep it up and love your spirit. You ROCK.
Christina, it seems like your family are shocked to see you without the locks as they were so so attached, but girl, your hair looks so amazing! It looked great either way, but wow, I wasnât expecting your hair to be in such an amazing condition after brushing it out and it suits you a lot!
YES đ AGREED!!
Your hair looks AMAZING
Agree with you, her kid love her, in time he will accept, growing up, with lucky they will stay in her life, unlike mine.
Itâs like when your dad shaves off his beard. Lol. Itâs just different. But I would always cry when I was a kid.
@@prettybirdmossygnome I can remember my dad shaving and it freaking me out. When I was 6 or 7 my mom (who is naturally blonde) came home with her hair dyed red. I could barely recognize her and started crying lol. Christinaâs little guy will get used to it âșïž
No pain, no gain! You took it like a champ ,girl!!
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:( idk why the âdo you still think Iâm prettyâ followed by âidk why you took them outâ broke my heart but it did :(
I know how good it feels to finally just have a brush running through your hair and itâs such a good feeling, dreads are awesome, but so is just having really easy manageable hair that doesnât feel so heavy all the time
Keisha, it broke my heart as well. I think it was just about the worst most awful thing for him to say. He absolutely knows why she took them out. Like I canât imagine she just told him one day they were coming out and hasnât been telling him for months that she was thinking about it and the reasons why, which include medical reasons! Like I get that he liked the dreads, but the dreads didnât make her who she is. So heâs basically saying he wanted her to keep them despite the medical issues, and that makes it seem like he only loves her for her dreads. Which isnât true, she didnât hv dreads when they met, and I think their son was 4 by the time she did them. Just the really wrong thing to say, and it broke my heart bcuz it came right after the scene of her showing off her beautiful hair and she was so happy and literally said she felt like herself again. Then to hv them hv that reactionâŠ.ugh. I hope theyâve apologized since and hv told her how beautiful she is dreads or not. đ„ș
It infuriated me. She looks amazing and that was so cruel
You donât know their relationship evidently ⊠he clearly was attached and they must have really really grew on him thatâs all. Christina wouldnât appreciate you talking about her husband like that. Her family is the most important thing in the world to her. Be a true supporter and friend and for bad mouth her husband
@@kalievesely3200 đđđ the comments are FULL of ppl saying the same. You gonna go after every single one, or is this thread just special? We only know what we heardâŠ.and what we heard sucks. Christina had to hv expected ppl to react this way when she put that clip in at the end, so I highly doubt sheâs in turmoil over us being angry for her. Whether they hv a good relationship or not isnât in doubt. We know heâs a good guyâŠ.but what he said was shitty and wrong, full stop. âđ»đ
I think youâre even more stunning without the locks! Iâm so sorry your husband and son were more attached to them than you were. It broke my heart to hear what your husband said. Iâd love to have hair as beautiful as yours!
Wow! Looks beyond awesome!
Itâs amazing how much hair you were able to salvage, I lost so much of my hair to my dread removal, 42 hours of hell but worth it.
The end was so sad though, who tf would say something like- âI donât know why you took them outâ instead of supporting you.. de-dreading is like removing a unicorns horn, for them to take it so lightly shows that they have no idea how much transforming takes emotionally and physically.
I loved my dreads however removing them was liberating, as if they held years worth on tangled trauma.
I hope your soul and scalp continues to be blessed đđŒđ congrats beauty!
I'm sad with the ending, you had been so happy with your pals and with the results of your epic hair salon experience.
"I don't know why you took them out" wtf dude! You look GORGEOUS, your hair is beautiful! It was time for them to come out, plus you rock it with AND without them! Don't let anyone else's opinion sway yours.
The ending made me tear up for you. You look absolutely gorgeous. Your son and husband just aren't use to seeing you without the dreadlocks. You're a beautiful person, please don't let anyone make you feel otherwise. Much love to you â€.
So glad you did this for yourself. And I hope you had an amazing time with your friends, you all looked so happy together.
Good for you! Way better than dealing with alopica for your entire life from 7 years old until present in 2022 and Iâm 63 years old, Iâm a sad expert on shaving your head for decades and wearing wigs 6x10 decades! Good on you! Everyone has their own hair issues! Love your honesty and channelâs đâ€ïžđ
I'm so emotional watching your friends help brush the hair out. đ„șđ„ș I was in the hospital in 2017 for 4 months straight and my best friend came and sat in the SICU with me for hours brushing out my hair because it had became so matted lying in the hospital bed. GOD BLESS FRIENDS LIKE THESE!!!! đ„°đ„°đ„°
Iâm trying real hard to keep my thoughts to myself about your husbands reaction. Hair is hair. Not everything is about looks. This is about so much more than that
That was absolutely horrible. You look wonderful Christina period and the way that your son walked away from you? And what your husband had to say?
@@cyndymcfarlin8537 okay, to be fair her son is 9 years old and he grew up with his mom (Christina) having locs but the husband just made me upset
not kaitlyn I couldn't keep my thoughts to myself and I didn't. No way.
Yeah, I couldnât keep mine to myself. That was just sad. All he needed to say in that moment was that sheâs always beautiful. He can say he likes her locks without being insensitive.
If she made a major change to her appearance without telling her husband she was going to do it, what do you expect his reaction to be? Some of yâall love to throw stones but know darn well that if your husband came home with a shaved head, a tattoo across his torso, or his septum pierced and never discussed with you that he was going to do any of those things, your reaction would be far worse than, âI donât know why you did that.â
Christina I love it that you had to help, you know how people sit and just relax, you are so sweet helping and all âșïžđ·
Hair for alot of women signifies alot more than just a look. I have always had "very" long locks, I left a very physically abusive relationship that damn near killed me & the first thing I did was went & had my hair cut. It was a change, & a very surreal & freeing decision. I am proud of you. It looks beautiful Christina.
I watched this, then went away and I felt compelled to come back because all I could think about was the pain in your face right at the end of the video.
I am a qualified counsellor and You may not see this but Iâm going to write it anyway. Change can be hard to believe in at first because different is not what you know but you was both beautiful and worthy with dreads and without them.
Sometimes people need a gentle nudge in the right direction.
If you could have executed self belief in your beauty ( because itâs there) people will begin to give you what you need back and you are so deserving of that. When others see your confidence, your power and your unwavering self love, they do this thing where they just believe it too because thatâs what they can see and feel from you.
Keep doing the amazing job you are doing and being beautiful inside and out đ±đ»đ
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VERY WELL SAID & SO TRUE, WORD FOR WORD!
Girl I canât imagine how good it must feel to run your fingers through your hair! Your hubby should be excited because now he can too! Regardless your hair looks beautiful and healthy and now you can do so many other things with it! Youâll come to love it and so will your fam Iâm sure!!
i think his initial reaction was just because sheâs had them for so long and she had them as a spiritual think and he probably just didnât expect her to actually take them out. heâs probably expecting her to start getting upset because she misses them
I donât have a tender headed scalp at all but I canât imagine the toll this took on your head and neck. I havenât gotten to the end yet but Iâm so excited to see you be able to run your hands through your hair!
Our hair, our looks, our eyes, our bodies do not define who we are but our inner spirit is our beauty. If the people around you can not see past your looks and donât naturally see your inner spirit then they are not where they need to be on their spiritual journey. Surround your self with beautiful spirits. Cause you know who they are.
It breaks my heart your family wasnât as supportive. Itâs really hard to not feel the support but just remember you did this for you. â€ïž
I agree
I know it seems like that's a lot of hair but you gotta remember we shed hair daily but with locks it stays so that's basically 5-6 years of hair that would have shed but couldn'tđ€·đ»ââïž your hairs thick it'll be greatđ
You are GORGEOUS! You look so happy, too! That must have been such a freeing feeling. Sometimes weâre ready for a new chapter in life (even if just with our hair!) and thatâs a beautiful thing đ
You have to remember that children do not like any kind of change at all. The way they feel safe and secure is through routine. Everything being the same, knowing what to expect, etc. Adults are like that, as well. They will accept your new look over time.
Yes! Kids don't like change. I remember my mom cut her hair from long to a bob when I was about 5. I was so upset! She looked great, I just didn't like the change.
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My uncle shaved his beard and mustache and my granddaughter was weirded out by it. She doesnât want to go to his house until it grows out she said đ. I will respect my grandbabyâs wishes. (He had to shave because he had surgery), but yes, babies do not like chance. I like what you guys said đ€.
I bawled my eyes out when my mom went from waist length to pixie when I was 10 đ
Iâm a fully grown adult and nothing will make me pissy quite like change.
Iâm an adult and if my mom changes her hair NOW I get freaked out!
I've been a hairstylist for 17 years. Girl, you just went THROUGH it! You look beautiful with or without them. I think your hair looks gorgeous!! Please don't be sad!
Me too! Hairdresser for more than 20 yearsâŠand she definitely went through it! Her hair will thicken up in a few months, because sheâs had to have lost some that was meant to stay in. So, with time itâll just keep getting prettier and prettier. Sheâs gorgeous no matter what hairstyle she has! Iâm convinced she could be bald and still be stunning!
Yes girl!!!! Your hair looks healthy and your natural color is absolutely beautiful!! Please remember although your family may have had less than positive reactions because they might not be used to it now, they will grow to love it over timeâŁïžchange is slow and sometimes difficult but I promise it was worth it gorgeous!!
Thatâs a TRUE FRIEND right there that will come down and take down your braids, thatâs nothinâ but love
Hopefully Jeremy is more supportive now. That comment of his at the end of the video was heartbreaking. This is Christinaâs journey, no one elseâs. â€ïž
You could have no hair and no teethâŠâŠ and we would still watch you! We love you for who you are inside. The compassion, spunk, authenticity you show in your videos makes you so normal and relatable. You are a beautiful person! Your dreads donât change that. You inside beauty shines on the outside. However, all that being saidâŠyou are physically beautiful as well!!!
Amen! đ
Looks beautiful! You had so many good reasons for doing it. Also, kids don't like any kind of change. Your family will see how gorgeous your hair is and be happy for you if you are happy. They just love you and couldn't understand why you'd change anything about yourself. It is kind of a compliment if you think about it.
Omg what a process! I hate even combing out a knot! It mustâve been very emotional for you â€ïžđđ»đ€ love it and love your channels
Breaks my heart that your family didnât seem to be excited for you... Iâm excited for you!! Itâs just hair after all. You look so beautiful either way. Iâm proud of you! Itâs YOUR hair and YOUR spiritual journey!! Own it babe! Closing that chapter was itâs own spiritual journey. I am with youâ€ïž xoxo lots of love
Yeeeesssss
Hi Christina, I think you are beautiful inside and out, and with or without your locks!! Your family loves you and they will adjust in time. First and foremost this was your journey and a spiritual journey at that, it continues to be your personal journey. Hold your head high and move into what's next for you as you continue to grow along your spiritual path. You are beautiful.
âDo you still think im prettyâ âIdk why you took them outâ HUHHHHHH WHAT WAS THAT REACTION??? I had box braids for 11 years straight from 4 yrs old to 15 and my bf has been with me since i was 14 im 17 now and he had only ever seen me in braids I finally got the courage to take them out and all he could tell me was how beautiful I was and how a hairstyle didnt matter that I was beautiful both ways and anyway i could have my hair and the man youâve been with for longer than a decade wasnt supportive??? This breaks my heart you are so beautiful and look great without the dreads like ur hair looks so healthy and gorgeous do not listen to any hate from anyone including ur fam
@Natasha Warden It's not mold. It's dust built up. Lol please. I have dreads. My health??!! foh
@@rantersparadise NO SHE DEFINITELY SAID SHE FOUND MOLD IN HER DREADS/A DREAD! go back to 9:17 she's telling Jody how SHE FOUND MOLD in ONE OF HER DREADLOCKS. THEN at 10:37 mark she's telling her friends how Jeremy her husband didn't want her to cut her dreads but Christina said as soon as she found mold in ONE OF HER dreads she said it was a rap she didn't want them no more! AND NOBODY NEEDS TO TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY, I ABSOLUTELY LOVE CHRISTINA BUT I'M JUST REPEATING WHAT SHE SAID IN THIS VIDEO! THIS IS HER JOURNEY SO LET'S SUPPORT HER!!đđđđđđ„°đ„°đ„°đđđ
@@Amanda-ob9jx then the hairdresser told her it's dust if it was mold it would stink so it wasn't mold my dear
âŠthe one time I stop watching CZcams I COME BACK TO THIS AMAZING TRANSFORMATION!?!? đ€©đ€© you look so lovely!
Your hair is long and beautiful! You look so much happier and healthier. Comfort is everything as we age. Doesnât matter what anyone thinks once you reach that point!
Youâre beautiful with or without your locks â€ïž the ending broke my heart a little bit but we all know how much your family loves you. Just a little time to adjust to the change. You are not your hair. â€ïž itâs youâre heart that we all know and love.
This this this!
Amen! đđŒ
Same
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I am genuinely shocked at the lack of compassion and empathy from Jeremy. I was fully expecting him to say "of course you're still the most beautiful thing in my world and no amount of hair could ever change that" đđ
Christina, you are a stunning, beautiful, woman inside and out! Your hair looks so healthy, thick, and shiny!!
Wear it proudly Momma!
And if the Hubby doesn't want to come around to reality..... tell him to grow out his own hair and get it locked!
Agree 100%!!!
Absolutely, he's such a bummer to her imo.
I hear what youâre saying, but men are very visual and have preferences. Hopefully this isnât a family ending issue over hair, but if it takes them some time to get used to it then so be it.
I feel like men never give us the reactions we would love them to!!
These friends are so special đ đ
Girl, you are super blessed that you have beautiful hair even after you combed out the dreads! If that weee me I would have jade nothing left! Glad you had your girls with you! I feel like you could be my new best friend!
It looks so good! Not gonna lie I thought it was going to be way shorter when they were brushed out.
I did too!
SAME!!! I tend to change my hair dramatically and often (so maybe my thoughts don't count much đ ), but my initial reaction was "that's not even that different" since it's still so long and full!
Me too! I love it either way.
okay for one, your husband did not pass the vibe check whatsoever which is so sad to me. it made me so upset that you were worried you were no longer going to be beautiful in his eyes. your hair needed to be set free, especially after 5 1/2 YEARS! thatâs crazy to me! your hair looks so beautiful and youâre so gorgeous! you looked so happy to have them out, i just wish your family was more supportive on your beautiful journey. good luck and wishes to you! đ
Typically I stay far far away from building bonds with women but I've been binge watching your videos and you have such a good heart like me and youre so passionate about kids and love. You seem like someone I could hang out with and not be afraid of the problems I normally get from women. (Gossiping backstabbing etc) keep being you and sharing your story đđ proud of you !
One of the reasons why so much hair comes out is because when the hair is locked, the hair isnât able to shed normally. It gets âlockedâ into the dread instead of falling to the floor or in your brush or wherever.
Itâs normal for a son to have a reaction like that when mama looks differently then theyâve ever remembered her too. BUTâŠIâm pissed at youâre husband. His job is to be supportive of you doing WHATEVER you need to to be mentally, spiritually & physically healthy by your standards. Heâs lucky you donât tell him all the things that are unattractive about him. Ugh
Uggh I hate to say it but I agree w youâŠI wished her hubby would have been more encouragingâŠChristina is so bright and cheery, she deserves that back ten-fold. Kids donât know better, but they adjust & love unconditionally, so I wasnât too worried about that! My own son burst out in tears at about 4 years old when I straightened my curly hairâŠhe said he wanted âhis curly hair mommy backâ lol I laughed & cried at the same time! But then after I comforted him & told him it would only last a few days, he couldnât stop touching it haha! So I know how that goes!! đ„°âșïž
Yeah⊠honestly if heâs going to make her feel guilty about her decision that just pisses me off. Honestly he should appreciate that sheâs sad her son isnât happy with it and know that she needed some support from him in her decision, not guilt trip his wife!
I feel the same. She would have been supportive of him if he made a life changing decision. My heart broke to see those tears. The hair doesn't make her the amazing wife and mother she is. It doesn't define her as a woman. I was disappointed in his behavior to say the least! She deserves so much better than that!
@@marinamarcus3866 this!!! im so happy she has all of us to remind her of these thingsđ„șđ€ it's so important to have ppl who encourage you
Agreed, my husband and I have been together since I was 17, I have had many body changes with weight due to thyroid issues, I have changed my hair dozens of times, including a really bad perm because I was drunk and let my friend who was in cosmetology school practice on my thigh length hair lol, and through all these changes not one time did my husband say something so cruel and insensitive like, "I don't know why you changed ____". In fact my husband would always give me a giant hug and kiss and reiterate he wouldn't care if I were bald, toothless, and weighed 30lbs or 300lbs he loved me for my heart and in his eyes I was always the most beautiful woman in the world. Yes, I know I am beyond lucky to have a man like him, and many aren't, but damn when it comes to a haircut to be that insensitive someone needs to kick him in the balls and put legos in his shoes! My heart just broke for her.
With all that said, I love her hair without dreads, I think it's beautiful... in fact if we're being honest, I actually prefer it without the dreads it looks more healthy.
started crying when you said âdo you still think iâm prettyâ.. canât wait to see your husbands reaction but girl!! you are so beautiful!!!!! inside and out, with or without dreads! iâm so happy for you đ now you wonât have to keep stressing about little things from your dreads!
Made me sad when he said he didnât doesnt know why she took them out. First thing he should have said was WOW YOURE BEAUTIFUL
@@amandalujan4730 i understand where youâre coming from. iâm sure he didnât mean it in a bad way.. he supported her through her spiritual journey, learning to love herself, etc. so he may of had an attachment to them like she did, i mean 5 1/2 years is quite a long time. just have a positive outlook đ
@@lexinicole12 I m sure he was very attached, I think a lot of us were attached to them in some way, I mean, let's be honest, she rocks them! It was just sad to hear her say what she said & then to hear Jeremy's reply....perhaps edited for clickbait, perhaps not. We will have to wait & see. I just hope she doesn't regret her decision based on other peoples opinions ie: her son & husband.
@@lexinicole12 Attachment or not, your partner should always be supportive & uplifting.
You saw his reaction though... He said "I don't know why you took them out" and he sounded upset or angry
Way to go! Iâm so glad you did it.Youâre beautiful and I love to see your natural hair.
If I had dreads I would never have the patience for this, Iâd just chop at least most of it right off đ This must have felt amazing though, getting all that weight off of your head. You look beautiful! I think you could have saved your hair a lot of damage, time and lost less hair if you had applied conditioner or diluted conditioner first and let it soak. Reminder for those who are watching who are about to brush them out themselves âșïž
Same
Naturally curly hair should never be detangled wet. Oiled is different, but no water or water based products. It can easily cause snapping and more damage.
Is there a brand of oil? I will keep trying to help the ladies I love who have health stuff then depressed about that - then it seems to all be overwhelming. I bought satin pillow covers for mom and sister, to help prevent hair breaking but they still get all tangled. We tried to figure out just today if you have to comb first, then shampoo and conditioner, or will conditioner help when wet? For wavy hair.
Thanks, sorry to but in, this comment section has nice people.
No clue how I ended up here! You look up "how to take a 1 month olds temperature, end up talking about ladies hair lol.
Tbh, I am a bit freaked out about the temperature taking too! I have 4 generations in this house, so I'm all over the place
Wow, real supportive Husband! That didnât make him look very emotionally nurturing. I have so many thoughts I want to type. Iâll only say my peace is to lift you up as a fellow woman and support you. Thatâs being human!
There's been a few things about her husband that's come up that caught my attention. I agree with you 100%
She made a comment awhile ago but not going to the gym as much and he basically agreed she needed to go more. Like sir youâre not that buff or skinny yourselfâŠ
When he said I DUNNO WHY YOU TOOK THEM OUT..:( That made me sad. You look goregous!! You can see how happy you felt playing with your hair when it was all done. The mold isn't worth the dreads. Now you can play more with your looks. Im proud of you. Your man sounds insecure tbh i wish he wouldve been like wooooooow damn look at you cuz u are beautiful!
Agreed I thought it was kind of selfish! It's about what she wants not him lol
That had to feel so much better! Great transformation!
You look fabulous and starting a new chapter with a new look is always very renewing and personal, your hubby doesn't have to approve or get it, it's all about your journey, and you know that, you looked so light and not boggled down, remember that feeling, that weightless freedom, congrats to you, that took endurance removing them, I know it was painful, but you made it without shaving your head as others do
It honestly broke my heart to see how happy you are then the boys response seemed vaguely unhappy about it. You look absolutely stunning either way. Just remember the dread process took forever so they saw it happen. Slowly saw the change. This is a big change all at once. You look so happy!! It looks absolutely beautiful! Iâm excited to see the curls too!!! đ„°
Her son I can understand. He's pretty much only known her with locs and kids get freaked out by big changes sometimes. There is no excuse for her husband.
Her son is still very young he doesnât remember her hair any other way so itâs a big change for him
I love the way it looks. I canât imagine what a relief it is after years of upkeep
Actually locs are less maintenance than loose hair. At least for me and probably other AA people as wellâŠ
@@tataliciousdelicious9840 watch her previous dread video and youâll find thatâs not the case for her
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9.14 minutes in and it's so sweet and endearing watching you girls work on her hair! Love thatđ
I never seen you with them but Iâm so glad you took them out because your hair is so much better now, not that they were bad but the hair you have now suits you better đđ
Iâm sad that your husband wasnât more supportive of your decision. Iâm super happy that you did it anyways â€ïžâ€ïž
I don't think he "Didd'nt support her" , he just gave his opinion on it, being unsupportive is something COMPLETELY different.
Itâs good he was honest.
He'll get over it đ€·đŒââïž
@@jessicah3450 yea, yea
I think it was sweet that he loved her just the way she was.
Iâm sitting in line at Starbucks, IM NOT MISSING THIS CHRISTINA
Same here!! â€ïžâ€ïž
Im watching at 12.33am hahaha but I have to !!!
Same!! đ
14.50 best moment of the video.
So heartwarming. Beautiful ladies and friendship.
I LOVE it!! Looks soo healthy and no more mold girl! đâ€ïž
Well boys don't know shit.... You look so amazing! It looks healthier, easier to maintain, more flexible with style, and natural. You look so beautiful. I'm glad you did it and I hope you still feel that too
Amen đ€Ł
âDo I still look pretty?â âIdk why you took them out.â Wooooow first of all to answer you since he didnât...YES of course youâre still beautiful babe. Iâm so sorry your hubby DID NOT pass the vibe check. Tf is his issue
No wonder she looked so sad at the end of the video. I'm hoping it's just the way it's edited and that he didn't ignore her question.
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Yâall..of course he does. Thatâs his wife. Wait until the next video to see how the actual conversation went instead of just a small clip lol. đ„°
I kind of feel like itâs taken out of context and wasnât as rude as viewers are seeing in the clip. Christina is Jeremyâs queen and he would never intentionally make her feel bad, and he thinks she is beautiful with or without locs.
Of course he is going to say sheâs still beautiful. Itâs just to create suspense. If yâall know anything about their relationship you know he loves her no matter WHAT. Just stick around and watch the next one and Iâm sure youâll see lol â„ïž
Your transformation was beautiful to see. Your âLocksâ were beautiful and that was your real hair before and now. Is t it such a beauty being able to have so many different varieties of styles and still hold onto the reason for locking it up and releasing them. Remember in the Bible Samsonâs locks gave him strength. Our hair holds onto so much energy and Iâm happy to see u release some energy! The good the bad and the beauty. Keep shining Christina!!â€
I was hospitalized for 6 months and my hair was badly matted by the time I was well enough to do anything about it. I totally empathize with the amount of work this is. Luckily my mom helped me patiently brush it out (she's a saint) but I definitely I don't think I could've done it on my own.
It looks great!
I lovee you jesssss! But you did tell her to never get rid of her dreads when she put on the extentions in the bathroom with you that day đ„șđ„șđ„ș
@@stephkay8204 ok? whatâs that have to do with anything ? đ
Sooo much better!
Iâm so surprised with how fast you all finished
Omg i love you jess! You are such an inspiration to me!