TikTok Thinks Your Relationship is TOXIC. 🫢

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    Today we take a look at these TikTok love theories, like the orange peel theory, that determine whether you have a healthy or toxic relationship. Not that you'd need to know ofc.
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  • @RebalD
    @RebalD  Před 4 měsíci +659

    Try Opera browser FOR FREE here: opr.as/Opera-browser-RebalD
    *checking in, you still single bestie?* 🫢

    • @infppp9179
      @infppp9179 Před 4 měsíci +9

      sorry im in a rs :')

    • @z3onix
      @z3onix Před 4 měsíci +4

      Yeah..

    • @z3onix
      @z3onix Před 4 měsíci +27

      Are YOU still single bestie 😒

    • @Quad-E
      @Quad-E Před 4 měsíci +8

      No 😔 I'm sorry. I entered one on the 18th of January 😭❤️

    • @Qui_xo
      @Qui_xo Před 4 měsíci +9

      why is he attacking me like that..... :)

  • @orangeduck3813
    @orangeduck3813 Před 4 měsíci +5505

    I'm imagining him in "am I the ass hole for not peeling an orange for my girlfriend"

    • @Clara_614
      @Clara_614 Před 4 měsíci +194

      Reddit story😂

    • @jessica_7744
      @jessica_7744 Před 4 měsíci +227

      Oh god 😂 ppl who asks am i the asshole are always the assholes or people who obvi arent the asshole and wants the validation ☠️☠️😭

    • @IsabellaS967
      @IsabellaS967 Před 4 měsíci +23

      Stoppp 😂😂 literally

    • @K_idk
      @K_idk Před 4 měsíci

      @@jessica_7744or need some help

    • @Definitelynotabot4
      @Definitelynotabot4 Před 4 měsíci +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @baoziday5178
    @baoziday5178 Před 4 měsíci +4000

    Actually, the guy who got his girlfriend a fruit cup as an alternative was so cute😭.

    • @marcell3891
      @marcell3891 Před 4 měsíci +176

      The boy was so cute but I can't stand the girl

    • @Claire-cc6xy
      @Claire-cc6xy Před 4 měsíci +53

      right it was adorable 😭

    • @jamesrian1578
      @jamesrian1578 Před 4 měsíci

      @@marcell3891agreed, like damn you should be like “ohh!! Yes, a fruit cup is fine” 🫶🫶

    • @tinanana-
      @tinanana- Před 4 měsíci +13

      ​@@marcell3891why not?

    • @Eiramzify
      @Eiramzify Před 4 měsíci +91

      ​@tinanana- probably cause she kinda asked him to go buy an orange and come back to peel it lol she could have asked for another fruit.

  • @Sarah_Pixie
    @Sarah_Pixie Před 4 měsíci +2764

    "You're not special" Oh he hates her, I hope she was single by the time she posted that

    • @anactualprayingmantis5054
      @anactualprayingmantis5054 Před 4 měsíci +156

      Nah, she defended him when people in the comments went crazy.

    • @gachathis4858
      @gachathis4858 Před 4 měsíci +40

      it's a skit

    • @Sarah_Pixie
      @Sarah_Pixie Před 4 měsíci +150

      I was hoping it was a skit cause her defending him after all that is crazy and sad ngl.

    • @allisoncastle
      @allisoncastle Před 4 měsíci +118

      @@gachathis4858 No it’s not. They do make skits but this clearly wasn’t one.
      Also, who would do a skit pretending to be a verbally abusive boyfriend??

    • @ilovelucymykitty
      @ilovelucymykitty Před 4 měsíci +99

      @@allisoncastleyou’d be surprised what people do for views

  • @kirasechelmann2285
    @kirasechelmann2285 Před 4 měsíci +1643

    "Like you´re really not that special" Bestie the way I would get up and leave 💀

    • @user-wc6sg7lh7z
      @user-wc6sg7lh7z Před 4 měsíci +24

      fr but i whouldn't get up and leave without giving him a hand five ...on the face first🤚😤

    • @divine555
      @divine555 Před 3 měsíci +21

      I wouldve cheated on him and when he finds out say "and?? You're really not that special"

    • @user-wc6sg7lh7z
      @user-wc6sg7lh7z Před 3 měsíci +4

      haha good revenge@@divine555

    • @user-yq7eb7cw6i
      @user-yq7eb7cw6i Před 3 měsíci +8

      ​@@divine555 queen behavior

    • @MaddieThomas-un2li
      @MaddieThomas-un2li Před 3 měsíci +7

      @@divine555 bruh no need to cheat

  • @Randomsomeone086
    @Randomsomeone086 Před 4 měsíci +5043

    peeling an orange is not the main part it's how they say no, the tone and words
    Edit: even if your partner is in a bad mood I don't think it is fine for them to treat you like crap.

    • @swelanajohn7170
      @swelanajohn7170 Před 4 měsíci +508

      OMG EXACTLY LIKE ONE GUY TOLD HIS GF UR NOT SPECIAL LIKE WAHT

    • @nodiggity8746
      @nodiggity8746 Před 4 měsíci +150

      ⁠@@swelanajohn7170he was horrible to her but we don’t know if she plays being cool the entire time and maybe he’s just sick of it

    • @ImMyOwnSoulmate
      @ImMyOwnSoulmate Před 4 měsíci

      @@swelanajohn7170 I’ve seen people talking about her and her bf, her account mostly staged shit, so it’s hard to believe tbh

    • @LiviKittyCutie
      @LiviKittyCutie Před 4 měsíci +140

      @@nodiggity8746Fair but even if she was hesitant to talk back because she was recording, she never even said anything out of line in that situation to get told that. He was literally just outright mean for no reason.

    • @vjcodec
      @vjcodec Před 4 měsíci +42

      i always try to peel an orange in 1 piece, so any practice i can get in is great. plus i like seeing someone happy, because you do something special but mediocre for them. It's like holding a door open for some stranger or letting someone cut in line. its random kindness and when you do that, for the one you love it's extra special. Both parties should get a positive feeling from it. The dude in the video if real, demonstrated that he doesn't get a good vibe from doing something special for her because "your not special"

  • @peony393
    @peony393 Před 4 měsíci +12529

    No one asked but I finished all my homework

    • @fatimahnu
      @fatimahnu Před 4 měsíci +812

      I asked

    • @lilythebookworm5824
      @lilythebookworm5824 Před 4 měsíci +958

      Congratulations bestie😂😂

    • @mmoshorts4642
      @mmoshorts4642 Před 4 měsíci +730

      im so proud

    • @falfoola606
      @falfoola606 Před 4 měsíci +574

      proud of you

    • @mereyemsuzanne8635
      @mereyemsuzanne8635 Před 4 měsíci +356

      Good from you 👏
      You are doing great 👍
      Please 🙏 always do your best 👌
      Make the best version of yourself..
      Best wishes to you and your loved ones and lots of love and respect and greetings from me in Amsterdam the Netherlands 🇳🇱 😊

  • @kokorako9418
    @kokorako9418 Před 4 měsíci +2724

    I kinda agree with men not doing everything you ask them for but getting "You're not that special" from a 'so called great bf' yeah² I'll break up with him right there and then ugh

    • @jessica_7744
      @jessica_7744 Před 4 měsíci +168

      Idk abt you but i would do anything my gf asks me bc i like her ☠️☠️😭

    • @mightymeatymech
      @mightymeatymech Před 4 měsíci +147

      why is the 'yeah' in your comment squared

    • @kokorako9418
      @kokorako9418 Před 4 měsíci +129

      @@mightymeatymech Cause I need to double that down 😌😂

    • @kokorako9418
      @kokorako9418 Před 4 měsíci

      @@jessica_7744 That's what's up 👏🏻

    • @Blinngypinkbow
      @Blinngypinkbow Před 4 měsíci +82

      fr, the way he just threw that on her seemed so harsh and rude. Its so funny to see people like this to be in a relationship cuz the guy is an asshole for saying that but why is the girl just with him even after all that...dont know whos more pathetic.

  • @ericaaah
    @ericaaah Před 4 měsíci +1103

    12:08 okay but like if i were this girl, i'd literally break up with that guy IMMEDIATELY😭😭💀💀there was no need for him to be that rude, like you could tell he was purposefully tryna tear her down. even without the orange peel theory, that relationship is unhealthy asl you can see just by the way they talk to each other😭😭😭😭

    • @DistressedDamsel79
      @DistressedDamsel79 Před 4 měsíci +175

      Seriously that was verbally and mentally abusive. You can set a boundary without berating someone. He sounds like he’s been listening to some alpha bro podcast.

    • @chaoskhaos5061
      @chaoskhaos5061 Před 4 měsíci +24

      you guys realize these are skits right ? 😭😭 a lot of these are fake for views and clout

    • @vjcodec
      @vjcodec Před 4 měsíci

      @@chaoskhaos5061 yes most of them are. but its about the interaction and people express their healthy point of views if it were real! Not many tiktoks say its a skitt.

    • @DistressedDamsel79
      @DistressedDamsel79 Před 4 měsíci +98

      @@chaoskhaos5061 Even if it is fake, my point still stands, especially for people who need to hear it and/or are going through it irl. There’s so many kids on the app who might think it’s normal or acceptable.

    • @chaoskhaos5061
      @chaoskhaos5061 Před 4 měsíci +3

      @DistressedDamsel79 if ppl didn't give them attention and virality no kid would see it tho lol but yea sure I get it ig

  • @ellqistic
    @ellqistic Před 4 měsíci +2363

    best friend is here to remind us of our single lives again 😭

  • @alimac3470
    @alimac3470 Před 4 měsíci +741

    About the girl that cancelled the date: if she is so high maintenance - and she knows it - and is not willing to accept anything less from a partner, it's better to turn down the first date then to go, let him pay for the date knowing it's not gonna go further.

    • @fizzliebob
      @fizzliebob Před 4 měsíci +130

      Agreed, but she should've asked if he would arrange her car before saying yes to the date - especially if it was important enough for her to cancel the date over.

    • @thewizard555
      @thewizard555 Před 4 měsíci +26

      @@fizzliebob she doesnt want someone who she has to ask for . she wants someone to whom its already in his personality to treat his date special

    • @nehaprasad9914
      @nehaprasad9914 Před 4 měsíci +119

      A person is high-maintenance when they have a set standard that THEY THEMSELVES hold to, and maintain to. If you are expecting someone to fund your ideals, that too by a person who has bare minimum emotional investment in you, that’s not high maintenance, you’re just a free mooch, that want other people to pay for you. Which is what that girl was. She’s not maintaining a high standard, she’s expecting someone else to.

    • @sky156blue
      @sky156blue Před 4 měsíci +39

      @@nehaprasad9914 yes exactly..they don't even know each other yet..

    • @kellytibbs3815
      @kellytibbs3815 Před 4 měsíci +23

      When your own basic living expenses are a deal breaker? 🤪
      Yeah it’d be nice to have someone offer, or discuss that ahead of time but a dealbreaker ? Girls looking for a sugar daddy.

  • @grey.themusiccat
    @grey.themusiccat Před 4 měsíci +309

    the fact that someone commented "No one asked but i finished my homework" and everyone is (mostly) supportive says a lot about all of us besties

  • @CheerfulNihilism
    @CheerfulNihilism Před 4 měsíci +276

    Ever since I saw that dumb TikTok, whenever my husband or I eats an orange now we've been doing this exaggerated "NOOOOO LET ME PEEL IT FOR YOUUUUUU" dance with each other and grading the other person's orange peeling technique. If you can't peel an orange and keep the peel intact in one piece, dishonor on you and your family.

    • @ghostinablanket6032
      @ghostinablanket6032 Před 4 měsíci +24

      That is literally so sweet omg

    • @Lewkatme
      @Lewkatme Před 4 měsíci

      nah like acc thats so cute 😭​@ghostinablanket6032

    • @dd_333
      @dd_333 Před 4 měsíci +11

      So cute omg

    • @Anons505
      @Anons505 Před měsícem +1

      I like your username, definitely can relate to it. You're also very pretty! 😊😊

    • @Anons505
      @Anons505 Před měsícem +1

      Oh, and you and your partner are cute! (I can't edit my comments or replies to comments, mb 😂)

  • @angelablasilopez6718
    @angelablasilopez6718 Před 4 měsíci +1574

    Funny how making tiktoks about what they think is toxic, is such a toxic trait itself lmfao 😂

    • @alyasvielpalmer4705
      @alyasvielpalmer4705 Před 4 měsíci +28

      well said 😂

    • @kah2682
      @kah2682 Před 4 měsíci +7

      yooo thats so true

    • @highfae
      @highfae Před 4 měsíci +32

      these women are either trying to show off that they have a man they feel safe with and taken care of by, if the worst were to ever happen, someone who would stick by them even if they lost the ability to take care of themselves, or they suspect they’re with someone who wouldn’t, and want to try something they heard of that may prove them right… how is that any more toxic than calling people you don’t even know toxic for clout (the empty ‘likes’ of other misogynists) in a youtube comment section? putting other women down *as if **_you_** can claim to be any better?*

    • @blackxrosary
      @blackxrosary Před 4 měsíci +62

      @@highfae I think OP was trying to say that testing your partner is a toxic thing to do. Id also imagine recording without their knowledge and posting it on social media where, if they have an online account, they can get harassed online is bad too

    • @kah2682
      @kah2682 Před 4 měsíci +14

      @@highfae nooo, no one is putting other woman downn, that's not the point. doing this don't necessarily means that the person is bad, but this attitude is not good, you know? and the comment is not saying that this is more toxic, but It is toxic as well 🙏

  • @SMT524
    @SMT524 Před 4 měsíci +934

    Rebal D is finally off of the “fake Photoshop girl” and back to toxic relationships😂

    • @Ladiena
      @Ladiena Před 4 měsíci +24

      I was thinking the same

    • @Titidallah
      @Titidallah Před 4 měsíci +93

      He literally wouldn't let "Shasha susu" breath 😭

    • @analea6531
      @analea6531 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Those photoshop girlies were the demons in bestie sleep paralysis 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @meekonaleash
    @meekonaleash Před 4 měsíci +499

    One for my boyfriend's refused to cook for me even after dating years and living together said I was too picky and nothing was good enough for me, basically he wouldnt peel an orange for me and that's a red flag. I'd get off work starving and ask for pizza bites and I'd get an earful that I was capable of doing it myself while he would be gaming and home for hours. I think there's a little something to it

    • @baoziday5178
      @baoziday5178 Před 4 měsíci +124

      Please tell me he's an ex because i could never settle, I'd lash out 😭😭 I told my boyfriend that I can't live with him if he doesn't know how to cook

    • @heybeautiful6310
      @heybeautiful6310 Před 4 měsíci +55

      I hope his an ex now...🤨

    • @pipitayun.r2763
      @pipitayun.r2763 Před 4 měsíci

      that's not a man bro, that's a manchild😭he better be an ex rn

    • @NikitaClayton-qn7ge
      @NikitaClayton-qn7ge Před 4 měsíci

      Dump his ass like now

    • @Stargirl-ur5bl
      @Stargirl-ur5bl Před 4 měsíci +4

      Is he your ex Now?

  • @Amy-xu1pg
    @Amy-xu1pg Před 4 měsíci +286

    It kind of feels silly that a simple act such as peeling an orange for you is being a test but I feel like it’s about the way they do it, I mean the first guy was so sweet about it and didn’t even question her on the other hand we have the “you’re not special” guy so that proves the point.
    And for the last girl I MEAN I get that she wants him to know her worth and all that but it’s literally their first date I’m assuming, he doesn’t know her yet and I doubt that he’s willing to pay all that for practically a stranger.

    • @TacseraEpSekahs
      @TacseraEpSekahs Před 4 měsíci +18

      She reminds me of a person who've been in couple of bad relationships and now thinks that all men are trash and the only thing worth dating them is money. She had no comment about how she want to spend time with her date or likes about his personality. She was treating a date like a transaction. Even if you're someone who likes gifts and being spoiled by your partner, that ain't a way. She will only attract guys who will also treat her as a transaction. When some amount of money means they can act like a douchebag to their partner.

    • @greyskymy
      @greyskymy Před 4 měsíci +8

      ​@@TacseraEpSekahsThat's why women who were in bad relationships shouldn't date when they aren't ready. Some women fall in the same pit because they think they can't be alone. There needs to be something that makes them realize that they can be happy without a relationship as well.

    • @TacseraEpSekahs
      @TacseraEpSekahs Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@greyskymy True. But that's also about people around you. When you're hurt but still open, you can meet a genuinely good person and understand "Wow, my perception of dating was skewed". It takes both inner wisdom and good people from outside world.

    • @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult
      @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@TacseraEpSekahsI mean, the girl obviously want a "provider", a generous person to whom this wouldn't be an issue. So it makes sense in a way although I'd think it's kinda dangerous to give your address before the 1st date.

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 Před 4 měsíci

      That's the point. It's such a silly little request. It's so easy to do, literally just a minute to peel an orange.
      If he can't even peel an orange for you, drop him. Such a simple, small request? Forbid you ever need something that takes EFFORT!

  • @uponitad
    @uponitad Před 4 měsíci +1397

    Yoooo bestie finally remembered he has a CZcams channel again' 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @highfae
    @highfae Před 4 měsíci +349

    I wish the girl whose bf failed would have turned the camera around to him like the other girl so that the rest of the world could make sure to avoid him.

    • @777via
      @777via Před 4 měsíci +10

      im pretty sure she posted some tiktoks of him

    • @amanix10
      @amanix10 Před 4 měsíci +4

      they actually have a couple's tiktok account lmao

  • @Jules-916
    @Jules-916 Před 4 měsíci +249

    TikTokkers: "But that's just a theory. A LOVE theory."
    MatPat: So disappointed he decided to quit the Internet.

    • @user-wc6sg7lh7z
      @user-wc6sg7lh7z Před 4 měsíci +7

      what

    • @Aesos3429
      @Aesos3429 Před měsícem +2

      Not judging but were you on something when you typed this out

  • @oishikhan9633
    @oishikhan9633 Před 4 měsíci +86

    "Run for the hills, for the hills. Whatever you find in the woods is gonna be less of a horror story than whatever this relationship is." So real. I also refuse to believe that that one wasn't a skit. Because girl needs to absolutely run.

    • @oishikhan9633
      @oishikhan9633 Před 4 měsíci +3

      The stark contrast between that and the one after that.

  • @whentheeventsarecanon
    @whentheeventsarecanon Před 4 měsíci +168

    Bestie, everyone is toxic at this point. Even our friendship

    • @user-gj4fw6db6t
      @user-gj4fw6db6t Před 4 měsíci +2

      I agree🎉

    • @greyskymy
      @greyskymy Před 4 měsíci +4

      The insults and sarcasm but we can't leave each other.

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Britney Spears tried to warn us

    • @whentheeventsarecanon
      @whentheeventsarecanon Před 4 měsíci

      @@solus8685 Queen Britney did. NO CAP, Bestie

    • @Aesos3429
      @Aesos3429 Před měsícem +1

      You joke but parasocial relationships aren’t really…the best lol

  • @gathanaranath
    @gathanaranath Před 4 měsíci +128

    I saw one orange pee theory one where an Indian girl said "Orange peel theory? This man literally hand feeds me rice" bc u know us indians eat w our hands. It was the cutest thing ever

    • @mightymeatymech
      @mightymeatymech Před 4 měsíci +17

      that's so adorable holy crap 😭😭😭 it's what she DESERVES!!
      p.s. it's irrelevant but you are so pretty

    • @greyskymy
      @greyskymy Před 4 měsíci +8

      I'm so happy for her! He cares about her because it's true love. She's lucky to be in a great relationship. 🎀💓💓💓🎀

    • @khushiontherun
      @khushiontherun Před 4 měsíci +11

      my boyfriend does that for me too 😭😭 without any hesitation whatsoever

  • @DistressedDamsel79
    @DistressedDamsel79 Před 4 měsíci +89

    My mom does this and not to prove their relationship, but because she didn’t feel like doing the task. She would ask me too and when I complained because it was something she could do herself, I would get guilted because she does so much for me or told “Just wait until you need a favor.” Half the things I do for her is to avoid retaliation or a reactionary response. So yeah this comes with a lot of baggage for me.

    • @foxbuns
      @foxbuns Před 4 měsíci +7

      oh the narcissistic parent?😮i feel that.

    • @DistressedDamsel79
      @DistressedDamsel79 Před 4 měsíci +12

      @@foxbuns Personally, I don’t think she is. I think in this specific area she has those tendencies. Overall, from my limited knowledge of what I glean from the internet (lol) about NPD, it’s someone who refuses to apologize, see fault in themselves, and/or admit when they’re wrong. Imo she’s just unknowingly projecting generational trauma, my grandma is a huge guilt tripper. But thankfully I’m seeing my therapist tomorrow, so I’ll bring it up with her.

    • @kaylaHat
      @kaylaHat Před 4 měsíci +1

      This needs more context but, um hope you're good

    • @barb2977
      @barb2977 Před 11 dny +1

      Mine does that too, with a sweet voice and sad eyes, but I think is mostly because she does everything for everyone and expects them to do the same, or maybe because her love language is acts of service and is rare for her to receive it? As a defense mechanism I retaliate back. I know it's not right, but I don't care. We are a fucked up family anyway.
      Sadly, therapy is pricey.

    • @maximillian1109
      @maximillian1109 Před 3 dny

      This!
      My parents kinda did this as well. Not because they were bad, but because they were too busy to give back. So it ended up being one-sided even if they didn't mean it. And while as an adult I understand that they gave back by feeding us kids, it still left marks. If someone asked me to do something for them when they can do it themselves, I would find it very rude. I also don't ask for stuff like that, even when I'm sick.

  • @pie-chan25
    @pie-chan25 Před 4 měsíci +120

    " as if i don't do enough" bruhhhh.
    "nah figure your life out dude" what the flippity flop you saying, she just asked you to peel the orange for her, plus it was a request damnit.
    "and like you are not even special" bestie, thats it. the way i would flip him off and leave.

    • @greyskymy
      @greyskymy Před 4 měsíci

      He talk like those alpha dudes. OMG. He's not worth to keep. Girl should leave his butt. I hate it when those boys get in relationships.

  • @tastetheengene8491
    @tastetheengene8491 Před 4 měsíci +22

    I don't expect my man to do everything I ask of him bc I won't ask him to do simple things like that, but God if he responded with some shit like "You're not special" over that simple thing, I'm leaving him with a black eye

  • @_Dia.
    @_Dia. Před 4 měsíci +477

    “I want an orange “
    “A orange tea?”
    (Ty for 400likes)

    • @HazZzel-
      @HazZzel- Před 4 měsíci +33

      Bros British coded

    • @arisu5781
      @arisu5781 Před 4 měsíci +12

      Imagine asking him for an apple and he was like “apple juice?? apple pie?” lmao 😭

    • @artlover3120
      @artlover3120 Před 4 měsíci +1

      The guy must be british

    • @shantigarin7272
      @shantigarin7272 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Man was already sweating thinking "what is the right answer here?" trying to understand if it was a tricky question,if he'll get a fight or a super hug out of the answer 😂

    • @lolatiffhur
      @lolatiffhur Před 4 měsíci +1

      Orange tea is so good tho

  • @Arniqua
    @Arniqua Před 4 měsíci +28

    I just got out of a situationship/crush who was too nonchalant and cold towards me whenever things got even a lil serious. I feel better leaving him behind. Just wanted to share here because it feels like SUCH an accomplishment.

    • @amokay746
      @amokay746 Před 4 měsíci +3

      It is a great accomplishment babe and I am so proud of you.

    • @JudgeyJudgeyable
      @JudgeyJudgeyable Před 2 měsíci +1

      I'm glad you ended it. It sounds like you want more than a situationship. Keep your chin up and you'll find what you need

  • @baileyj7968
    @baileyj7968 Před 4 měsíci +32

    Even if one of my friends asked me to peel an orange for them, I’d do it. I mean, I’d probably be like “…ok but why tho” while I was peeling it, but I’d do it

  • @HollieAndApollo
    @HollieAndApollo Před 4 měsíci +24

    “Build you up as a FEMALE” saying female that way immediately pissed me off.. then to say she’s not special.. I think I would’ve broken up with him right then and there… great video as always! ❤

  • @daisyhoch
    @daisyhoch Před 4 měsíci +41

    My husband wouldn't peel an orange for me because he has a weird thing with oranges and it hurts the skin on his hands. But he would go out at night in the pouring rain to buy a lottery ticket because I decided we'd win (we didn't lol). When I was pregnant he'd get me whatever I needed or wanted at any time. So I'd say peeling oranges isn't the end all be all lol

    • @angeldivine408
      @angeldivine408 Před 4 měsíci +21

      Not about the orange itself, it’s the fact that the way he reacted speaks to his character in the relationship

  • @LiviKittyCutie
    @LiviKittyCutie Před 4 měsíci +82

    I never understood why people get so caught up on first dates. You can say it’s about standards but you can’t really complain when the dating pool ends up small because you judged too many people without getting to know them. 🤷🏼‍♀️ That’s just my take on the whole uber thing, he just asked if she really needed that. He didn’t even say no…

    • @TacseraEpSekahs
      @TacseraEpSekahs Před 4 měsíci +16

      Yeah, he was right. If she had a good reason, maybe he actually would end up paying for it. But she had none. It was her responsibility to agree on a place where she can get with a preferred way of transportation. If you cannot get to a spot, offer change of plans or explain the situation. Most people will meet you in the middle if there's some accommodations needed. But you have to treat them with respect first. No one's gonna give her the world with that kind of attitude towards people.

    • @LiviKittyCutie
      @LiviKittyCutie Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@TacseraEpSekahs Well, idk if there is ever a good reason to demand someone pay for your ride… I understand some people expect the man to pay for a date, should probably be up front about it but that I can get. But to have them pay for a ride too and stacking up costs on a person they haven’t even properly met in person yet is a bit much… Just as much as she doesn’t know him, he doesn’t know her. Plus as a woman you should be cautious anyways, if you can’t trust a man enough to ask him to drive you, you shouldn’t trust him enough to leave transportation in his hands in general… Plus, a full on relationship doesn’t start on the first date, show a bit of independence…

    • @TacseraEpSekahs
      @TacseraEpSekahs Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@LiviKittyCutie "Is there ever a good reason to ask someone to pay for your ride". There are many good reasons if you already know a person. But let's take the same situation of the first date. I can imagine a story like... She's finishing her job at 7pm, while date is at 7:30 pm in a different part of the city. The guy is adamants that that's the time and place he wants to meet (he cannot later or in another day), while she cannot get there in time unless she takes an Uber. I can see the "Can you pay for my ride?" question not being rude. Because it's inconvenient for the person and other options were not available.
      Is it the situation of the girl in the video? No. Is it extremely rare situation I've just pulled out from my imagination? Yes. That's just for "if she had a good reason that won't be that bad" argument. But she didn't have no good reason to demand a ride from the guy.

    • @LiviKittyCutie
      @LiviKittyCutie Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@TacseraEpSekahs Well then in that imaginary situation the woman should have planned properly and who on earth goes on a date as soon as they get off work? Also, I was specifically talking about scenarios like this one. You can have a different opinion but I still think it’s off putting and seems entitled… It’s one thing to have your meal paid for but to spring other sudden expenses on a person you’ve never met in person yet is rude. I’m not talking about someone you know and are comfortable with or asking a good friend/family member when your budget is tight that month, that wasn’t even the topic.

    • @waddlesmom
      @waddlesmom Před 4 měsíci

      I mean I do get your point but she never complained about how the dating pool is so small. She had a standard he didn’t meet it and she politely declined. I don’t think what the guy did was wrong or anything but also she didn’t do anything wrong either. People have different needs in life while you might not get so caught up on a first date some people does and that’s fine 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @lynnazor
    @lynnazor Před 4 měsíci +42

    My roommate always does things like asking if I want anything while he's up during a film or bringing me a snack while I'm working at my desk. Sometimes it feels silly when it's something I can easily do, but it's his way of looking out for his friends and being a considerate person, and I really admire and respect that about him.

  • @tselisomalete3003
    @tselisomalete3003 Před 4 měsíci +27

    the way i gasped with you when he was like your not that specialhad to pause and let that sink in

  • @vante7875
    @vante7875 Před 4 měsíci +28

    13:07 even if this is a script relationships like this exist. My ex boyfriend also told me a few times I wasn't that special and just an ordinary girl and once he said he could find millions like me. 💔😢
    Now thinking back then I can't even figure out why I gave him chances or loved him.

  • @Yourdailydoseofsarcasm
    @Yourdailydoseofsarcasm Před 4 měsíci +51

    I never thought that Rebal would just pull out that cute notebook out of no where. That caught me off guard lmao 😭

  • @talkin_bout_this
    @talkin_bout_this Před 4 měsíci +129

    "Is our relationship healthy bestie?" **fire alarm rings** ....yeah bestie. I strongly believe that our relationship is healthy bestie. Fire alarm does not mean shit bestie and we all are colourblind. So red flags..what are they? 💀💀

    • @Sandra-ml1xn
      @Sandra-ml1xn Před 4 měsíci +6

      If it matches the color of the leaves, then its red flag. You are good to proceed.

    • @sintay8002
      @sintay8002 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Sandra-ml1xnlol what season is it?!

  • @maranne_
    @maranne_ Před 4 měsíci +110

    Its always a blessing when Rebal post

  • @vaishnavikatakdhond2337
    @vaishnavikatakdhond2337 Před 4 měsíci +53

    Actually peeling an orange or serving any type of fruit to your loved ones is just a traditional standard that was used in asia. Or maybe it's used even now. It's about how the person serves the fruit, how carefully they peel it. It's about cultural difference here. These people just making a mess out of it🙆🏻‍♀️

  • @vsm5787
    @vsm5787 Před měsícem +4

    The last one the girl should be paying for herself. She one of the girls who expect the guy to pay for anything. If she didn’t have money for Uber, it just means he also had to pay for the whole ass date YIKES

  • @hns4426
    @hns4426 Před 4 měsíci +34

    broski finally remembered that he had a channel lmao he will never stop reminding us his random stuff

  • @DiamondsRexpensive
    @DiamondsRexpensive Před 4 měsíci +10

    4:14
    You're a real bestie for your besties. A keeper.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Před 4 měsíci +1

      11:38
      Holy shlt. The gaslighting this guy is doing. Holy shlt.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Před 4 měsíci +1

      12:07
      Holy shlt. I hope she left. Gotta find someone who sees you as special and you see them as special.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Před 4 měsíci +1

      13:24
      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Před 4 měsíci

      14:20
      Dam. When I say I want a man that's what I mean. Holy shlt.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Před 4 měsíci +1

      15:32
      She brings herself 😊

  • @tonchobg652
    @tonchobg652 Před 3 měsíci +7

    If you get upset when someone says no to your request, it's not really a request. It's a demand.

  • @najlaai254
    @najlaai254 Před 4 měsíci +11

    12:31 I don’t know why I feel like they are acting because she’s smiling all the time!

  • @kevanmcdougallmph
    @kevanmcdougallmph Před 4 měsíci +6

    "Can you bring me an orange?"
    *brings them an orange*
    Comments: ew he didn't peel it. bad bf
    The takeaway shouldn't be if someone assumes beyond what you have communicated. The takeaway should be clear, effective communication and respect for one another.

  • @4ngel222
    @4ngel222 Před 4 měsíci +61

    I watch your videos while eating, that's how much I love them, Rebal.

  • @Onlymetonight
    @Onlymetonight Před 4 měsíci +3

    That is the only way to have a relationship at all and how you grow. Doing everything for EACHOTHER.

  • @Jewel8206
    @Jewel8206 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I remember how special I felt when my bf would open my soda for me. One time I told him it hurt my nails to open my soda cans and from then on out he opened it for me. And it just made me feel so special that he did such a little thing for me

  • @cursetea49
    @cursetea49 Před 4 měsíci +5

    10:54 some people dont like being tested, he sounds like he knows what it is lol

  • @m1lk0fthes1rens
    @m1lk0fthes1rens Před 4 měsíci +75

    It feels illegal to be this early

  • @Quad-E
    @Quad-E Před 4 měsíci +25

    So sorry bestie, get well soon 😔❤️

  • @marysadat8020
    @marysadat8020 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I remember when I was 4, our computer had Opera, and I'd never thought that Opera had changed this much, I go install it after the video, and I'll test it for sure, Thanks ❤

  • @focusd8521
    @focusd8521 Před 2 měsíci +3

    The guy who said her gf is not that special made me so mad , I felt like going in person and breaking them up! 😭😭

  • @mallelaneha3698
    @mallelaneha3698 Před 4 měsíci +26

    My literal comfort channel lots of love from indian

  • @Harumiixharu
    @Harumiixharu Před 4 měsíci +7

    14:49 imagine if they broke up 💀

  • @alexmoon-ko4eo
    @alexmoon-ko4eo Před 3 měsíci +5

    brooo the way i was eating an orange i was like spil the juice bestie

  • @triptripp1873
    @triptripp1873 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Honestly with the fruit theory, it depends on the fruit. If I want a banana, I hope to god you haven't peeled that for me

  • @uponitad
    @uponitad Před 4 měsíci +8

    We really were waiting for rebal to talk about the orange theory and that also right before the valentine's day 😅

  • @user-xw3fz1sp3f
    @user-xw3fz1sp3f Před 4 měsíci +6

    Like I’d peel an orange for a friend, someone who can’t be bothered to help you every once in a while with menial stuff is just a person who doesn’t really like you I’d say, it doesn’t really say much about how healthy the relationship is overall imo

  • @Icanhandleyourtherapybills
    @Icanhandleyourtherapybills Před 3 měsíci +2

    Rebal can make me laugh in ways I didn't know were humanly possible. Thats what true besties do.

  • @anactualprayingmantis5054
    @anactualprayingmantis5054 Před 4 měsíci +6

    It seems like the last girl probably has some past relationship trauma. It may seem extreme, but she is probably over protective of her feelings. I assume she set her own wants and needs aside for a long time. If thats what makes her feel safe or good, I don't think she was wrong for canceling the date.

  • @RebalDAlpha
    @RebalDAlpha Před 4 měsíci +18

    BESTIE UPDATED IN FEBRUARY!! IS THAT A SIGN!???
    ( dolulu is solulu 😍)

  • @I_inhail_rats
    @I_inhail_rats Před 4 měsíci +2

    Ur giving Ben of the week+those ppl that react to drama and I LOVE it

  • @Hyeinniii
    @Hyeinniii Před 4 měsíci +2

    Rest well bestie!! Don't push yourself too much😭❤️‍🩹

  • @Alexandra-dn
    @Alexandra-dn Před 4 měsíci +7

    my ex did peel an orange for me but he was still toxic. we knew each other for almost 2 months and i told him that soon it will be 2 months since we starded dating(i asked him out and he agreed to be my bf)and then he said "you mean 2 months since we started talking" 😭😭as in we weren't a couple

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 Před 4 měsíci

      I mean.. You didn't immediately become gf and bf, right? So he's correct, no?

    • @Alexandra-dn
      @Alexandra-dn Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@solus8685 oh no, I asked him out after 2 weeks of knowing him, and he agreed to be my boyfriend at that time. so that's why it was confusing to me when weeks later he said that we're not actually dating

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Alexandra-dn damn that's rude

    • @Alexandra-dn
      @Alexandra-dn Před 4 měsíci

      @@solus8685 I know, but I don't blame him, I felt that he wasn't fully over his ex

  • @tjzhang
    @tjzhang Před 4 měsíci +3

    sorry but the dramatic music mixed with the "oOoHhHh yEaAhHhH" is SENDING ME-😭😭😭

  • @whoislalala
    @whoislalala Před 4 měsíci +2

    Bestie posted when I needed him, that's a real bestie 😭(Helping me procrastinate on skl work-)

  • @howdyclu8990
    @howdyclu8990 Před 15 dny +1

    people on tiktok see a happy couple then try to throw their projections,trauma, and insecurity onto them

  • @tanishkharaj6744
    @tanishkharaj6744 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Wake up bestie the new Rebal making us feel *excruciatingly* single (again) vid just dropped 😻😍😍💀

  • @Creaamy787
    @Creaamy787 Před 4 měsíci +5

    4:24
    Me eating orange: 😳

  • @Modyspeaks
    @Modyspeaks Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am forever grateful to Rebal D for kind of inspiring me to start my own channel. Thanks a lot

  • @aproditi1216
    @aproditi1216 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Stumbled across your channel after 7 years. Cant believe you are the same guy with straight hair and weird camera angle that talked with weird mouth movements 😂😂😂😂 youve grown so muuuuuch. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @allisnottrue
    @allisnottrue Před 4 měsíci +9

    BESTIEEEEE about that last part XD here is some tea:
    in china, some of these pretty influencer girls tell their date to come pick them up with their own car. then the girls will see from their window what car the man is driving/has come to pick her up with. if the car isn't a ferrari or porsche, the girls cancel the date XD THEY DONT EVEN GO DOWNSTAIRS TO TELL THEM. They cancel the date on text
    😆💀

    • @rrxn
      @rrxn Před 4 měsíci

      This is a thing ⁉️⁉️⁉️😭😭😭😭

    • @greyskymy
      @greyskymy Před 4 měsíci +1

      And when they end up with a playboy or toxic rich guy, they will realize money isn't everything.

    • @allisnottrue
      @allisnottrue Před 4 měsíci

      @@greyskymy yeah but in this case, women are the toxic ones 😭💀💀 they take all the money & then leave the guy for more richer man lmao

  • @riro7170
    @riro7170 Před 4 měsíci +18

    10:14 this whole 12 seconds should be a meme😂

  • @laurakalagobe8919
    @laurakalagobe8919 Před 4 měsíci +1

    thank you Opera 😄

  • @soap2770
    @soap2770 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have really bad strep theoat right now and im stuck at home si this is a literal God send, thanks Bestie

  • @annalyn_
    @annalyn_ Před 4 měsíci +8

    16:17
    Hell no, that is simply disrespectful towards the guy. Don't get me wrong, it's okay to have requests but this kind of "Princess Treatment" is ruining healthy expectations in the dating scene and putting too much pressure on the other person. Chill out, it's a first date. If there are any red flags to be seen, you will see them in no time. Everyone is entitled to their own time & resources not just you.
    If I were the guy, I'd see that as a problem. If you'd expect me to go that extra mile for you without knowing anything about you, how bad can it get over time?

    • @mightymeatymech
      @mightymeatymech Před 4 měsíci

      true, true. i'm personally such a laid back first date kind of person... like, let's grab take out and just talk for a bit. i don't wanna do my makeup on a first date tbh, because i don't know how much it's gonna be worth it. and i don't want someone spending a huge amount of money on me either, for the same reasons lol.

    • @annalyn_
      @annalyn_ Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@mightymeatymech I get you!
      Personally, I like to get pretty on any kind of date but I prefer to use my own resources as well. If my partner offers to pay or offers me a gift, that's sweet of him but I'd never expect that on a first date.
      Someone trying to impress you and love bomb you right away is a no-no.

  • @nikolaa1625
    @nikolaa1625 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I personally believe him dating me is a major red flag on itself, but that’s just me 😂

  • @tasmiatabassum786
    @tasmiatabassum786 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I usually watch videos on 2x but bestie's videos keep me excited and patient enough to watch it normally

  • @shitkid1112
    @shitkid1112 Před 4 měsíci

    I have been waiting for a new video bestie, we missed you 💕 sending love to your mom to🫶🏻

  • @toxicinfinityy9938
    @toxicinfinityy9938 Před 4 měsíci +34

    The one dude that called the "girlfriend" dude, bro whatever tbh didn't even Sound like they were in a relationship more like a Cloud chaser using a best friend 😂

  • @veeangel1504
    @veeangel1504 Před 3 měsíci +4

    3:26 “i say you walk away ✨sprinkle sprinkle✨” 😭😭😭

  • @peculiaregbim4012
    @peculiaregbim4012 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Honestly, I kinda just broke up with my bf gos of something like this.
    Like, he doesn't give me attention, we would talk and then he would snub or ghost me for about 2-3weeks, then come back apologising 😢. So i had to end things with him 😢.
    But what that bro said, now THAT was too much. He has no excuse for saying trash to her like that. I felt like crying for her 😢

  • @abhisiktaghosh9761
    @abhisiktaghosh9761 Před 4 měsíci +2

    my college entrance exams are tomorrow and I'm here watching you. bestie goalsss

  • @Sarah_Pixie
    @Sarah_Pixie Před 4 měsíci +6

    Been single for too long can't even imagine myself in a relationship, let alone a healthy one lol

  • @v_bunny
    @v_bunny Před 4 měsíci +12

    simple solution, ask your partner what they want :) example a: “hey babe can you get me an orange please?” “sure do you want me to peel it for you too?” “yes/no thank you!”
    example b: “hey can you get me an orange and peel it for me please?” “sure babe give me a few minutes.” like it’s not hard peeling an orange for a partner (or doing ANY little acts of service).
    wow look at that, good communication! i love when my boyfriend does things for me, he does without hesitation, but if he’s busy (which does happen) he’ll tell me in just a few seconds. plus, he knows i’ve got bad sensory issues, he said he’ll even handle the butter for me when we cook with it. and it goes both ways, i’ll happily do things for him too, especially things he doesn’t like, because we’re adults who genuinely love each other.

  • @vanshikaraturi9242
    @vanshikaraturi9242 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Finallyyy he decided to post a videooo. I had literally beem binge watching his past videos.

  • @priyamvadasingh8583
    @priyamvadasingh8583 Před 4 měsíci

    Rebal, good morning (IST).You always make me laugh so indulgently and tis the reason, I clicked on you as the first thing for the day. Yeah, wasn't a wrong decision. Have a good one you too❤

  • @IceyBunny32
    @IceyBunny32 Před 4 měsíci +16

    Poor Bestie

  • @wot7541
    @wot7541 Před 3 měsíci +4

    HOW IS HE SO FUNNY MY BONES TURNED SQUISHY

  • @sun00305
    @sun00305 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Been patiently binge watching all of Rebal’s videos until he posts more

  • @Sookirino
    @Sookirino Před měsícem +2

    wait... i dont peel the oranges before giving it to someone...
    OK BUT LIKE MY THINKING IS THAT THEY DONT WANT MY ICKY HANDS TOUCHING THE FOOD THEYRE ABT TO CONSUME 😭😭

  • @ItsIns777
    @ItsIns777 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I love his blanket and how it just disappears after he's done being dramatic and acting😂

  • @marysadat8020
    @marysadat8020 Před 4 měsíci +5

    10:31
    He is friend zoning her 🥲🤔

  • @ReFilm12
    @ReFilm12 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. Now I'm gonna cry.

  • @bubbles1366
    @bubbles1366 Před 4 měsíci +2

    My ex would say shit like that one girls boyfriend who told her she wasn't that special and worse stuff too. There are some awful people out there. I have a feeling that was real and not a skit.

  • @__dollyep
    @__dollyep Před 4 měsíci +6

    8:00 REBEL THERES A COLOR ORANGEEEEE

  • @avish77
    @avish77 Před 4 měsíci +4

    15:12 my face when I see loving relationships😍... bestie always make fun of us for being single but what about u bestie?

  • @irked_me5735
    @irked_me5735 Před 4 měsíci

    i hope you feel better bestie 💕

  • @ExcitedBeagle-mn1uy
    @ExcitedBeagle-mn1uy Před 4 měsíci

    The "it vested the virus out of my system" got me off guard😊😊
    But you finally uploaded we missed you so much😢😭😭😭