This TikTok Girl wants to abolish TIME.🤦
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- čas přidán 4. 09. 2023
- Today we take a look at Chaotic Philospher, a timeblind TikTok girl; that is, the tik girl who suffers from the condition of not being able to be on time: timeblindness.
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Are you a punctual person? Or are you usually the late bestie? ❤
*Some of you guys are misunderstanding the point in the video; its not about timeblindness being a symptom or a state, its about her bringing politics, God, and workers rights to somehow justify being late when people with ADHD consistently find ways to make time work for them without calling everyone else entitled.*
Hi
this is very much me.💅🏾
I'm usually this Late bestie ❤😂😂
teehee
Been waiting for u to post the whole day lol
She’s what boomers think Gen Z are like…😭😭💀
Fr I feel Embarrassed
tbh a lot of Gen Z is like her. AND I AM PART OF GEN Z LOL
@@vz8432which is the sad part 😭
@@vz8432yeah I agree
@@vz8432also a gen z here and it's TRUE, I've seen alot of people on the internet that are like that [entitled] but I didn't expect to see it irl which I did😬😤
As a person with ADHD, I can relate the hardship in time management... but blaming others and the society for her problem is 🤦 I think its good that she knows she have ADHD, there are a lot of tips for people like us on the internet. It is easier to find a way to keep track of time than changing the concept of time.
Exactly i had to make my routine as simple as possible so I could mange and using specific songs to measure the time I take do things
I have so many alarms, and calendar reminders. I have an alarm that goes off every night to remind me to check my calendar so that I can keep track of what's happening the next day. I have to put any upcoming event into my calendar as soon as I learn about it. She should learn how to work with herself instead of making excuses.
@@dorothyshinani6862thats a genius tip, ill be using that, thank you sm!!
Time blindness gets me hard, even with reminders, so this is a solution I worked out for myself and have asked people around me to use if they wanna do meet up: I either consider it urgent as hecc OR people tell me the wrong time intentionally, like "Be there at 5" when the meet up is supposed to happen at 5:30 - 6, that way it's all covered.
If I have a bad phase, I also save appointments that way too, set them earlier than they actually are, so I don't miss them. I still struggle with regular things that suddenly are off schedule though. But you gotta find solutions that work for you and not just keep putting it off. I was able to hold all of my jobs despite ADHD.
This. The number of timers I use to function...😵💫 😂 since I was 15 and I'm almost 40 now.
She says "you are very lucky I'm not insecure" yet this kind of overreaction to criticism is one of the most obvious tells that somebody is insecure/ has low self esteem
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as a psychology student, it physically hurts me when I hear people making up random psychological disorders or speaking like they know anything about them.
I do have a Master's degree of psych and I am also a MH advocate. Mental illness is not an excuse for bad behaviour.
yup i have a bachelors in psych. i want more people to understand and empathize w people with mental illness but i feel like this new generation goes too far and makes every little thing a “mental illness” that needs to be “accommodated” when in reality the goal for most therapy when dealing with mental illnesses is teaching the people how to become an active member of society versus what everyone else thinks that society needs to bend backwards to make life easier for them. sorry but unfortunately us with mental illnesses have to work harder than those who don’t have mental illnesses. is it shitty? yeah but that’s just the way it is.
@@ashegrey3042 right?!?! I'm like nooooo living with an MI actually sucks. Like we need accomodations depending on severity of our symptoms but people with real MI just want to live normally, and desire to actually have their own personal agency without being hijacked by their symptoms! Truest story!
I'm sure it don't "hurt"
It’s not fake lol it’s part of the disorder. But yea we have to find ways to adjust. I have to use google maps because I will show up late if I don’t. 8 to me means you have until 8 to be there. But in actuality I need to leave by 7-7:30 to be there lol. It’s weird but yea.
The most hilarious think is that this girl is convinced she's right and everyone is wrong.
Edit:there is nothing wrong with asking for accommodations but demanding them is the problem.
Hope y’all get the point of my comment now.
Fr
She makes those with actual disabilities who actually need accommodations look stupid and crazy
Because she is right bb ! time blindness is a huge symptom of ADHD ! Yes jobs don’t need to deal with our neurodivergence but there is nothing wrong with asking if they have anything to help
@xlifexwithxlithiumx exactly, not sure why it's such a bad thing to ask. Since time blindness is a real thing. She reacted like that because she was being berated for asking a question she could have gotten a easy no to, maybe with explanation. A lot of places WILL accommodate or be understanding of conditions and she has a right to ask, as does every neurodivergent person.
I can't tell if this is ironic or real, but i hope yall are doing alright with your time organisation/blindness
She’s the type of person that if an event is 6pm you need to tell her its 4pm so she can atleast be ready
I knew someone like that.. “the movie is at 5pm! Be on time!” When the movie is at 8pm bc they won’t even take their shower until 5:30. I literally have dreams where I’m late and I’m freaking out…in a dream!
That’s a great example of going out your way to give her accommodations.
She’s disabled and needs that help and relies on others around her to care about her struggle.
She’ll do the same for others I’m sure.
@@JessicaMayBurke
Mental illness is treatable, she is the definition of "I don't want to learn how to properly cope" - I used to be like this
She's the person in a group project that ALWAYS lets you down.
ADHD paired with narcissm is a horrifying combination..
it's not that uncommon of a comorbidity, relatively speaking. why do you say so?
@@middledog466 i didn't say it was uncommon. I said it's horrifying.
Swrs
I mean, even if time blindness was a thing, it's just normal that they'd hire a person who'd be on time 🤷
Im only a couple minutes in and im like 😭😭 it can be a struggle because of mental illnesses or neurodivergencys (like me) BUT I STILL BE ON TIME CAUSE I FIGURED OUT WAYS TO ACCOMMODATE MYSELF like peopleee you can’t just expect people to bend for you RAHHHH
Right!!! Homegirl threw God and politics in there like it would make anyone obligated to hire a late person 😂😂😂😂
It is a thing it's one of the symptoms of adhd
@@itsumemario044 definitely!! i think they meant as a stand alone mental disorder..? like it’s something anyone can struggle with but it can be worse for us neurodivergents but we all gotta manage it
Time blindness is a symptom of ADHD
I love how she’s so insanely delusional to the point where she takes popular topics/terms without knowing what they mean and just runs with them.
Insane.
Omg ikr 💀
She is dululu
I'm pretty sure she does know what it means, she has ADHD and is bad with time management. and tbf to her, some workplaces/universities rlly do have accommodations(not the building, as in, set things up to help certain people) for people with ADHD and other mental health disorders and it's a good thing to do.
@@taylove1461 I was more so referring to the political terminology she was throwing around
@@kittyburger6553 ohh
This girl has just guaranteed that nobody is going to hire her ever. 😂
As a woman who struggles with this: the solution is to set an alarm to go off every 5 minutes to remind yourself of time and what you are supposed to be doing in that certain time. And give yourself at least 2 and a half hours to get ready
I love how she said, "They started yelling at me", as if it was her employer or other employees and it was just her mom..
IT WAS HER MOM? 😭 wow that's so embarrassing
LOL
Making a video about ur mom yellying at u is so stupid LMAOOO
That's so emberasing 😭💀
she's talking about personal responsibility but she doesn't think that being on time is literally a personal responsibility lol
She propably got the tamest response you could get on TikTok. She really has no idea how lucky she is
“Alright everyone, shift starts at 8:00.”
“Except for you. You get here at 6. Cus your time blind you should get here on time 😊”
Honestly, this will probably work on most ADHDers..
He didn't start the video with shaming us. How am I supposed to get on with my day like that😢
Ayy seems like you are used to his old videos 😂 , he doesn't do it anymore 😅 and I don't know why? (maybe he doesn't like doing "seemingly childish thing *according to him*") somebody on insta mentioned this so...maybe he wants to make more mature kind of videos now...ig
Ikr😓
He doesn't even call us Patrica anymore
Bro ikr I was waiting for it 😭😭
Although it's very real with ADHD I'm not sure what kind of 'accommodations' someone could expect to receive. I think that if this is such a prevalent issue for her the best idea is to apply for a job that is flexible and you can do from home.
This isn't the same thing but I'm disabled and part of my disability makes me sleep around 13-15 hours everyday, and it got to the point where physical school isn't an option anymore, even though I loved my school. So now I do online school. It sucks but I think there are ways to get around it, even if you can't get it the way you expected/would like it to be.
Sorry to hear about your condition but I'm glad you're making the best of the situation, wishing you best of luck!
She's very clearly autistic
Welly said! 👏
Well said! ❤
there's no excuse to be sleeping that much, you're just lazy, i bet you have no trouble waking up for your favorite show
disclaimer, this is a satirical comment and not a reflection of my personal views
14:56 (focus on the cat)
I guess the cats are used to him screaming all the time😂
Rebels cat in the backround is so cute bro 😭
Let's be honest guys, we just dying of laughter and cringing the whole time with our bestie.
Best feeling
Best 20 minutes of my life every week
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Maybe tmi but when I was 13, I was diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar disorder II, and what my doctor told me that day has always stuck with me: "You didn't ask to have this. It's not your fault you have this; however, now that you know you do, it's your responsibility to manage it. You cannot use it as an excuse."
16 years later, I have a PhD and am a college professor who still struggles with the above mentioned, but I've never let it hold me back. Set multiple alarms. Set alarms in different parts of your room if you have to. Create a daily schedule for yourself that you carry around and mark stuff off as you go. See a doctor for medicine if necessary. You might have to work a little harder than other people, but that's how it is. I'm a professor who's very understanding of students' mental health, but would not tolerate someone being repeatedly late because of time-blindness. Especially if I'M there on time!
yes! i commented on someone else’s post but the goal of therapy is usually how to manage symptoms of mental illness to become a functioning member of society. meaning WE who have the mental illness are the ones who need to work hard to accommodate ourselves rather than society accommodating us and letting us just let our mental illnesses be which is what i feel like a lot of this toxic mental illness “support” culture is nowadays. especially like the everything i see w bpd (a disorder i’ve been diagnosed with along with bipolar type 1) it’s like all the posts are kind of excusing the toxic and harmful behavior that those of us with bpd might partake in rather than explaining why it might happen and how to try to make sure it doesn’t happen again and show how important it is to APOLOGIZE for your wrongdoings instead of just playing the victim.
I'm so glad your able to manage it, congratulations, it can't have been easy. And you make an excellent point, people should never let their conditions hold them back if they can help it.
that's a nice doctor fr
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You’re my inspiration now as a teen who struggles with ADHD and Depression😭🤚
14:47 YOUR CAT ON THE RIGHT CORNER IS SO CUTE AAAAA
I’ve never seen anyone reach so far. That’s honestly a talent.
I mean she's a teenager, hopefully she's gonna look back at this 10 years from now and realize how cringe she was.
I have ADHD and I struggle with the concept of time. HOWEVER, this is just ridiculous 💀
same
My therapist once told me that society was built for neurotypical people and since then I’ve noticed how true that is. Time itself is universal but having to live by so many meetings, appointments, interviews, events, bills, deadlines…etc It’s very stressful and for ADHDers it feels horrible. However it’s not anyone in particular’s fault its just how it turned out and we just have to develop tools and deal with consequences. Its sad that this is it, and I get her point and frustration but you have to grow up and deal with it.
You can choose the Time for appointments tho without all these Time managments it would be chaos
you didn't realize society was built around neurotypical people on your own? that's like having to be told society's built around able-bodied people as you walk by handicapped parking.
It is unfortunate that people who struggle with things like ADHD aren't afforded appropriate accommodations. I feel like it's okay to request accommodations because as someone with ADHD, I have to work 3x harder. What I have a problem with is the way this person wants to be accomodated because it puts more responsibility on other people than it does on her.
But also we can try and make this world a kinder place. Just 'growing up' (as if its infantile to be upset/frustrated that we're expected to live to the standards of NTs and be happy about it) and 'dealing with it' won't make things better for any of us.
i’m glad he brought up how inconsiderate it is to be late. i know this really hasn’t been brought up but as a recovering addict when i was really bad doing fentanyl i would take FOREVER to do ANYTHING and i didn’t realize how inconvenient and inconsiderate i was being to the people in my life until the person closest to me told me & i was like oh my god i’m so sorry LET ME TRY TO BE BETTER instead of saying that they’re attacking me bc although it was a result of something i struggled with, it is MY responsibility (NO ONE ELSES) to overcome those and make sure i am a FUNCTIONING MEMBER OF SOCIETY.
the way it went from " thank your god i'm not insecure😙✌" to "people are willing to ruin my life!" has me dying on the floor😭
😂👌🏻 Yasss! Lolz
I bet that she becomes "time aware" when her favorite show is on.
She must be craving that sweet, sweet clout. Just like the crazy trend hoppers with people wanting to have Split Personality Disorder. Oh, they will definitely do more insane stuff.
I mean I haven't even watched the video yet but I'm kinda scared to because time blindness IS a thing, it's a literal symptom of ADHD and as a teenager I would cry so hard at least once every few days because I'd miss something so important to me. I was almost fired from a job I LOVED because of this when I was 16 and it was so painful and difficult to deal with. Maybe the girl in this video doesn't have it or something, but time blindness very much is real and a very difficult thing to deal with.
@@artbyjem5020same I'm kinda discouraged to watch the video
@@artbyjem5020 how did you overcome the issue?
@@montetheartist medication, and certain accommodations with work and uni where its possible, for example setting timers or listening to playlists that run for a specific amount of time. my brain can't actually comprehend how much time passes without those things.
You know I wanna use 21:00 as my alarm sound but I'm afraid of the reactions I'm gonna get. It's hilarious 😂
Me too 😂
Im never late. Being late gives me extreme anxiety so I make sure im at least 5 minutes early to everything to avoid panic attacks.
as a not-so-punctual person, this video encouraged me even more to try and be early to things. just hearing how entitled the girl in the video was is so crazy to me, and it made me not want to ever give that impression about me to someone else. thanks, rebal ♡
I don't think she's entitled just plain stupid beyond return from her own delulu land 🤪
Saaaame
I have ADHD and I am a college student who has to do everything on her own, and yes it is very hard to be always on track and take care of everything from being to class on time, to doing my laundry, to not missing deadlines, etc, but the world doesn't revolve around anyone, and it is literally our own responsibility to do things according to the system. And to be fair anyone can be late, don't make it a massive political issue lmao
Bro me too. College has been a bit difficult with ADHD but I'm trying to help myself here
I just started collage for graphic design and i already have homework😭 some days my classes end at 5pm and idk how im gonna survive
@@atinybruhstay!
@@caramel_frappe i wish you the very best T___T we gotta put in extra efforts for daily activities as adhders but we have been slaying so far, so we shall keep slaying!
@@atinybruh yo same! i am a communication designer so pretty much the same and yes as a designer you have to spend long hours sitting in one place and finish our projects so with adhd, it's definitely very challenging, but we know our ways so ig we will survive xD
I struggle with ADD and I am "obsessed" with reminders. I don't want to be late but I get distracted easily, I forget what I need to take with me when I leave the house so I never plan to leave 5 minutes before the agreed time. My colleagues think I'm weird for being 10 to 30 minutes early but I can't seem to find time to explain and not using my alarms for that 😅 as I'm already exhausted from reminding myself what to do and what to take and forcing my brain to remember where I put everything eventhough I'm organized
i have ADHD diagnosed since i was 12 and i’m almost never late if i have something planned at 6 i’ll start getting ready at 4:30 because it’s all i can think about and i know myself and how i usually take longer to get ready then a average person
Same
I've taught art for years. The worst client I've ever had was "time blind", as they said. They would set up appointments and not even show up, then call me hours later and expect me to drop everything to give them a lesson even when I was helping other clients 😆 So I told them they're "block blind" because they wasted my time and I have a life too! I've struggled with chronic insomnia and bipolar depression for years, so I've had my fair share of troubles getting to appointments on time, but I worked on myself so I can present in my own life. Choosing to chalk up laziness to a fake undiagnosable phenomenon is selfish, and not only that, it's self-destructive
I feel you! I have ADHD and own a business, and if I have a client that has a pattern of not showing up on time or at all, it feels like a disrespect for my time and life, and I will fire them as a client. That's what this girl really doesn't get. Yes, time blindness is a thing, but having respect for other peoples time is what can provide the needed responsibility to be on time, or at least try your best to be!
i hear you, but it's not a "fake undiagnosable phenomenon". literally a passage in the vid is read in the beginning and your google is the same as ours. not saying it should an excuse cause everyone can experience it and there's idk alarms you can set or ways to trick your brain. just saying don't spread misinfo.
accommodations for being time blind (part of ADHD actually) AREN'T letting people not be on time. Accommodations for that are like "Can I have a personal digital clock at my desk so I can keep track better, that way I can't accidentally overlook those little numbers on my computer," or, "Is it okay if I set alarms on my phone in the office? That way I can have a little warning to get ready for a meeting." Another one: "Hey, I struggle with time management, can we do weekly check-ins on long-term projects so that I can pace myself well?" I don't think this girl was explaining herself very well, but time blindness is a real thing neurodivergent people deal with and there are VERY reasonable accommodations which exist and can help people succeed at getting things in or getting places on time.
Right, I think the point here is that the accommodations this person is requesting are unreasonable and don't take other people into account. I don't think it's unreasonable to request accommodations as long as it's something that helps You remain accountable for yourself.
thank you for the genuine comment. so many people who have qualms with her are just straw manning the concept entirely but you've made great points. thank you
It’s funny people don’t realize how entitled they are to think others should behave in a way they agree with.
I verbally said "What?" @14:00
the way she keeps doubling down and getting so defensive and pretentious about this instead of just admitting that she was in the wrong lmao
So her boss and coworkers will have to somehow manage around her time blindness, just like every around her in her daily life.
The only one who will not try to manage their own issue is this girl.
She will just make it everyone else’s problem to deal with.
What a joy she must be to have around. As an employee, as a friend…. ❤
for reeaal it's cray she doesn't think she's the entitled one when she's the one wasting a friend's time because they are waiting for her to show up or causing a higher workload on coworkers until she finally shows up
She is a child. 🤦♀️ People learn how to manage themselves _over time,_ most people have different issues they make other people’s problems, like emotional immaturity, sleeping around and hurting themselves and others by using and allowing themselves to be used for meaningless pleasure, selfishly allowing slavery to continue existing by being complicit to it through their choices, requiring the deaths of animals for their appetites, overusing resources and producing waste, or infidelity that destroys an entire family, etc.
yeah but if someone wanted infidelity accommodations I'd still find it ridiculous lol. clearly they're self-aware enough to know they have an issue they're struggling with like emotional immaturity, infidelity, or being late, but they'd rather other people accommodate instead of working on improving their self-management of it lol
There are accommodations at schools sometimes for people with ADHD. They give you time and a half on test and quizzes and will also send you written notes of what was discussed in class and the ability to excuse yourself from the classroom without asking. They however would not be lenient what so ever when it came turning assignments in days late or not coming to class on time.
I do have mental illness like mild depression and anxiety but I will never make it an excuse for being late or forget things. If this 'time blindness' making it's hard for you, try to set your alarm or find solution or go for help. Bcs in reality, if you're working in the company, it's just an excuse. Unless you're self-employed, then you're complete in control of your time.
She almost had me in the first half...but holy shit, this girl was an actual rollercoaster of unexpected turns 😬🥴😵💫
that's the chaotic philosopher for you..😅
Right like at first I didn’t get what was wrong I thought everything was pretty valid 😭💀
Hek yea she was!! Agreed. 😅
timeblindness is a genuine adhd symptom lol. my mother suffers from it and it causes her a lot of distress. yes they need to take responsibility for it, but it is absolutely a real, recognised symptom.
(Also an ADHD’er here) I totally believe that and it also causes me a ton of anxiety. I think his point is supposed to be like, other people are not responsible for your mental illness. Because I’ve been chronically late before at my job, it takes a lot of forethought for people who struggle with this specific thing. Also this girl just seems a lil ridiculous or extreme. 😅
Its definitely real i had to teach my mother my method of setting 100 alarms and to put her things in the same place as she managed to bin 2 phones and a tv remote in the garden we found 7 years later
Its not that she doesnt value these things either, we grew up very poor.
Its completely managable however you just need to get in the right habits where you can rely on routine where memory fails
Yes, i haven't been diagnosed with adhd but I have quite a lot of symptoms, and I struggle with it too. I hope I'll be able to see a professional soon.
@@RavensEye10 oh for sure she's very much over the top, and she shouldn't expect other people to cater to her, she should be trying to work on it herself so that she can be responsible and on time. however he did say some things in this video as if time blindness isn't real, is laziness etc so i wanted to point out it is 100% a real adhd symptom which people struggle with
Reasonable accommodations could provide her some assistance. If everyone gets 4 times to be tardy, they might give her 8 times or a 15 minute grace period.
There are ways to get consideration without going on the Internet. I have ADHD too and it's a constant battle.
I will forever be grateful to Rebal and his great content!
As someone with severe adhd, I have about 100 alarms, and for shifts at work, I write that I have to be there 10 minutes earlier than the actual shift time on my calendar. You deal with it. It’s called adapting.
I am still waiting for TikTok to get cancelled because of these people
fr same i'm little upset it didn't get banned in the usa after all
@@sadakopilledfr😂
Love-hate relationship with this idea cause i cant watch those cringey comedy w/o Tiktok 😭
It should be cancelled in the usa
That's just stupid BS, ppl like that are everywhere lol, Especially the internet lol, Even YT, So What if sm1 says remove YT, how will ppl see the vids they want lol!?~🤨😤😒😅🤦♀️🤦💀☠
I have ADHD and I always leave my house an hour in advance to go anywhere. I have a hard time estimating how long something will take so just to avoid being late, I’ll rather get there early! It’s all about taking responsibility here.
Oh dude i relate so bad to this i used to leave for work like 2 hours early and eventually i got into the habit of calculating how long it took me to cycle... 20 mins!!! I started leaving half an hour before which made me a lot more anxious but honestly i had way more free time and its calmed me down in the long run learning that mechanism for figuring things out
That’s a great idea!
14:37 ...same Rebal..same my bro ..I felt the same emotions..
I just realised that Rebal's "girl voice" sounds like Mickey mouse 10:33 😂
It’s actually a really good Mickey Mouse impression 😂😂
her concept is throwing big words trying to fool us
no fr cause she said political polarization and i came to a full stop cause what the hell💀😭
I have ADHD and time blindness really sucks, but the world works on time. I can't just expect things to be as disorderly as me.
20:50 the fact that I actually did stay
I have severe diagnosed adhd. I am aware my problem isn’t to be solved by everyone else, anyone who thinks that everyone needs to be accomodating is absolutely entitled.
Felt those STACKED alarms😂
I’ve had ADHD since childhood and have had issues with time blindness but made it work with planners and keeping tabs on everything. When it came to my first real job I made sure to start getting ready for a shift an hour before and then leave 30 minutes before my shift started even thought it was only 4-5 minutes away. In school it’s still REALLY helpful to get deadline extensions and more time for tests, but it’s important to try and make it work BEFORE turning to use accommodations
Also the fact that she’s privileged enough to go to a trader school just for her to be like if they don’t have these accommodations then I’m not going. Damn
i got so irritated by watching her say all this 😭😭😭
i can’t stand it when people are “chronically late”. i don’t see it as anything more than disrespect of other people’s time. also my bestie with ADHD who struggles with timeblindness is one of the most punctual people i know, and it is fully achieved by her efforts
😂😂😂 you scrolling through the number of alarms that you have possibly set in the past cracks me up because at one point in time…my phone was exactly like that and it was actually when I was working for myself. That truly cracked me up.
tiktok is 90% of the reason why people view gen z as an entitled & soft generation. considering how you can find most gen z like this person for example *mainly* on tiktok.
I have ADHD and I just wanted to say timeblindness is a very real thing and is not just “being lazy” it’s a real struggle for many people ,but I get what he was saying and I think it would definitely make more sense for her to get a more flexible scheduled job rather then getting mad at companies who want stuff done on time.
(Btw timeblindness is actually just another word for poor time management skills or lack of being able to keep track of time)
19:51 OMG that face🥺😍
This is hilarious! I used to be perpetually late, which stemmed from insomnia and anxiety. However, once I hit my late 30's I got my ish together. I haven't been late to work, late from break, late from lunch, etc. Do I like rigid schedules?? Absolutely not! But I don't expect others to consider me hitting the snooze button a disability lmao!
Rebel is always with his drinks, coffee. And don't forget him casually roasting us
You can see the insanity in her eyes.
At 14:17 I realised that the music is exactly like the stranger thing intro😂
As someone from HR, accommodation is a two-way street. You cannot expect to be accommodated if you haven’t done something to overcome it to the best of your abilities. I’m not neurodivergent so I can’t speak to how real time blindness is, but I can say that we absolutely will accommodate you if you tell us “hey, I have this condition, I’ve done so and so to make sure it doesn’t affect my work, but in the off chance that it does slip, I hope you understand and can accommodate me by giving me a heads up that there’s a meeting coming up and sending me calendar invites so I can immediately put meetings and deadlines in my calendar”. Companies are required to accommodate until undue hardship and if you’re requesting accommodations the way she did, they will think that this would be too much of a liability for them. Give them a plan on how to accommodate you, if you don’t have a plan then offer to work with them so they know how to accommodate you, that’s how accommodations work
Bruh I have ADHD and I also struggle with time, but she's a bit too unbelievable 💀💀
Someone needs to tell this girl not everything needs to be discussed in a tiktok
100% using Rebal as my new alarm sound, thanks
thanks to people like her we have a source of entertainment we must really thank her cause without this kind of people we wont be have this vid
He never fails to make us laugh literally he saved my life without knowing
The number of alarms on his phone I'm dying how much it's accurate 😂😂😂😂
Ive had time blindness my whole life, been told its just part of adhd. Ive never had an issue with a job, sure i made it to work exactly on the dot, many times, or at the worst 1 or 2 min late. You just have to suck it up and skip makeup or doing your hair some days, or bring it and do it on your first break.
Ah, should have waited to comment lmao. Just got to the part of you reading the hundred other commenter saying the same thing.
thank you for the video bestie!!! it was very educational 😂
imagine if she needs an ambulance but they are unable help her right away because of ✨time blindness✨
lol😂
Well a person will adhd that suffers with time blindness wouldn’t be hired to do that job because of scenarios like this
I struggle with time blindness and it is super hard but I can set an alarm for things I need to show up for !
defintely using your voice as my alarm sound. ThankYou
Her boss should just lie to her and say that she has to come at 8 30 to work instead of the right time at 9 00 boom fixed
" that is a serious condition called 'laziness' " I am dying 🤣🤣
Love your vids ❤️❤️❤️❤️
21:00 I'm literally gonna use it as my alarm, thankiesss rebal
I also have adhd and I struggle with time blindness but I cope with a lot of alarms to get ready for anything.
Whats frustrating is that lots of nuerodivergent people struggle with this concept and shes making this into something its not.
“Can we get context?” Then she talks about everything but context 💀💀😭
I Was Diagnosed With ADD When I Was In 7th Grade And I Deal With Not Being On Time And Just Plain Forgetfulness. A Few Times I've Set An Alarm For A Specific Time And Forgot What The Alarm Was For. But Now I Atleast Put A Note Of What The Alarm Is For And I Set Them Up For About An Hour Before I Have To Get Somewhere, (I Account For How Long It's Gonna Take Me To Get There) Especially If It's Important.
Longer Times For Flights.
as someone w adhd you absolutely can be early by setting timers for when you have to stop doing something (or to prepare stopping it, and having another official stop) and timers to start doing something. i can show up 30 minutes early because i know i am risking it by giving myself a 10 minute grace period. you cannot be comfortable with time when your brain struggle with it. she just isn’t taking responsibility for her disability, and you kind of have to do that despite the fact that you didn’t ask for it. the world isn’t going to cater to you unfortunately, and it’s overwhelmingly neurotypical otherwise your disability wouldn’t be a disability.
That’s a lot all alarms💀
I love it when he laughs at his own jokes 😭🤍 9:12
20seconds ago?? 😭
@@yuki820hahaha we’re watching at the same time
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Love your cat, Rebal. It's gorgeous. ❤
Absolutely adore your cats Rebal!
I used to struggle a lot with time management and "time blindness" (still do sometimes), & received an ADHD diagnosis & started medication for it a few years ago. Since then, I've tried a lot of different tips/tricks, found what worked for me, and am now doing a lot better with it!
The biggest one for me has been opening Google maps when I start getting ready, and starting the directions so that it'll give me a live ETA to wherever I need to be. It may feel silly, but small things like this have made a WORLD of difference for me.
I think the important thing is that people who struggle with this realize that it's not a moral failure, it's just how your brain works! But this doesn't mean you're excluded from expectations, it just means you have to work that much harder! It sucks, but it's reality. 🙃
This chick is missing something very important in her life. An honest straight forward friend.
There are people in her life that knows how ridiculous she is and doesn't tell her because they are chicken shit.
This person needs anyone in her real life that calls her out and pushes back against these poor understanding of the real world and how it works out here .
bold of you to assume that she would keep that friend in her life
@@lovelymill you make a great point. I might have been too bold indeed.
she does. it's her mom. who do you think she was talking about in the og tiktok? that's makes it obvious enough that not only is her mom her "friend", but that's the only person who can't walk out her life or be kicked out and she still doesn't listen to them.
I don’t think many people want to deal with that shit though
@@Hungrymangos I can't argue with that.
How nfortunate for her. =/
This is really a cup of tea.
I stay on the struggle bus with my ADHD diagnosis, but honestly, my anxiety about being late has me planning hours in advance and keeping to my routine 😂
Rebel D: do you struggle to be on time?
Me: bruh I'm African😢
I can attest there is a whole continent full of people with time blindness 😭😭😭
As a Caribbean person, there's literally a joke that goes "normal time or Caribbean time?" because we're always late to stuff☠☠
@@fruiteapai1398sooo true, am Jamaican and my grandmother always cuss bout it☠️☠️😂 she’s like “If this was in America, 8:00 pm is 8:00 pm” 😭😭
Same
Tbh she is half right, who the hell made our day start so early when everyone hates it, nobody likes getting up early in the morning and 9-5 and school times are so stupid. Its still each person's responsibility to get on time people really shouldnt have to accommodate. There should probably be 5 minute wiggle room, for example the job starts at 8:30 but the wiggle room starts at 8:35
no bc then if you get that 5 min wiggle time then that will be your time then you will want more time ..
@@jameia4137 no what I mean is the day actually starts at 8:35 but you can be in by 8:30 and get away with it. If you're in any later than 8:30 you're late and if you come in past 8:35 you're alright but try to be earlier if you can. It also defends the company or place you work at because they are accommodating for ADHD since they do legally have to accommodate for ADHD and even if this doesn't come into the category of things they have to do they could get in trouble if she has a good lawyer
Sorry if my explaining is a bit rubbish, I can rephrase it if it helps
@@BigOversIzeT01L3T yeah rephrase please bc how does the day starts at 8:35 but if you come in past 8:30 you’re late ?
Is that not already the case? At least where I love, the school clocks ring at 8:10 but everyone needs to be in class before 8:15 because à 8:15 the teacher comes in and starts the class, so the time to be in is 8:10 but you have 5 minutes to get to class.
And even tho they didn't have it, why don't you make the wiggle room yourself? If you know that work starts at 8:35, why don't you tell yourself you need to be there at 8:30?
I'm a college student, from home to school it doesn't take long, but I need to take the train, if I want to be "right on time" I'll be there at 10:15/10:20 when class starts at 10:15 thanks to the train and bus, but I struggle with the idea of being "right on time", makes me anxious and being five minutes late makes me cry. So I always take a train earlier, even if that means being at school at 9:20 and having to wait an entire hour. I don't like it, but what do I have to do? Sue the train because it makes me be late? The bus? The school? We all have to create our own way to deal with time. It's not easy for anyone and if you need wiggle room, create your own wiggle room so you can feel comfortable.
@@r.d826 yeah in some places it is already true and people should make their own but it's a lot easier to follow when you have to do it
1:19 girlllll I'd say literally set alarms for like hours earlier if need be like alarms come on and get there earlier I set alarms for medication and if I need to get to a doctors appointment or something then I even set one for liek 45 minutes before hand (I live literally 5-15 mins away depending if there's a train or not that cuts through my town)
GIRL 😂 we have BIGGER issues in the working field, like wage slavery, and the majority of people living paycheck to paycheck, time blindness is literally not even on the list of issues we need to fix here