What happened to you? #14 - Jody Plauché
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- čas přidán 6. 01. 2021
- Welcome back! Jody Plauché shares his experience being kidnapped by his molester, getting rescued, and his father subsequently fatally shooting his abuser in the head on TV. As always, thanks for listening :)
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His dad killing jeff is why he is so free with his words now. You didnt have to worry about jeff he faded away. He wont be getting out. Your not looking at a calendar as a kid counting the days.
Wow never thought about it that way. Rest in Peace Gary Plauche, forever a hero!
That’s why all predators should get the same! 😤😤😤
Exactly. God said in the Bible that such men should be killed by full penalty of the law. Death penalty. But our system is now so perverted murderers and rapists are going to be released in January of next year. That is about 3 or 4 months away.
My molester was never arrested or anything. He has a normal life and even had a newborn daughter when I messaged him telling him how I remembered everything he did to me that I forgave him only cause I was end his life. Knew his every movement. Can't let them kinda ppl continue to control you. Break the cycle.
Jody, your father is an absolute legend ❤️
How? Just for murdering someone? Y’all are strange
@@deshawntoolive1369 j'aimerais voir ce que tu ferais si ça t'arrivais à toi, qui est étrange contrairement aux autres
Justice a été faite par soi même
Voilà la légende et va ailleurs si tu ne peux pas comprendre ça !
@@deshawntoolive1369 No for murdering a pedo.
@@deshawntoolive1369 here didn't "murder someone" he killed the a worthless pedo who molested his son.
@@scothammond5736 “he killed” that’s literally the same definition as murder
Your dad is a legend my guy. You need to give him more credit.
His dad is a hero...
He really loved his son.
How? Just for murdering someone? Y’all are strange
@@deshawntoolive1369 you don’t understand
@@deshawntoolive1369 *for murdering his son’s abuser
@@JessicaGail His son said he DIDNT want his dad to murder him.
And the rapist pos was literally surrounded by cops and guards. What if the bullet took any other course of trajectory and hit or even killed one of them?
Actually use your brain if you have one.
@@deshawntoolive1369 Execution is the righteous judgment for this perpetrator. Holy Bible approves a millstone on the neck and thrown into the ocean, or bog. They weren't allowed a Christian burial either. That's what Jesus would do.
Part of healing from sexual abuse is the realization that the shame of the abuse belongs to the abuser and not the victims. I hope this talk inspires other survivors of abuse to speak openly and heal from traumatic childhood experiences. These men are helping to spread awareness by being vulnerable. Please don’t leave comments about how they should or shouldn’t be acting in this interview. This is their story, not yours. Parents talk to your children about sexual abuse. It’s your responsibility to minimize your child’s risk of sexual abuse.
If a family member had reported seeing a person kissing a child, that child wouldn't of been molested!
🙏🙏🙏
For someone who went through what he’s been through (and probably still goes through), what a well-adjusted, intelligent and funny man he is! I’m sure he has his days where it hits harder but I am in awe of him.
Jody is refreshingly blunt & has a great sense of humor.
Gary loved his boy a fathers love for his child is powerful. he did what a lot of fathers would want to do, nothing but respect to that man , Jody you are so brave for telling your story and not letting that pos dictate your life after the fact
I think thats why Jody normalized again after his experience. Having a father that loves you goes a long way.
I can’t imagine how loved he must feel by his dad
Jody you and your father are pure legends 🖤 I would do the same thing over and over and over for my kids
Thank you 😊
The interviewer seems happy to have another person to talk to that is also open about their experience. Jody has also incorporated humor into the whole experience & so they both seem pretty comfortable. I think it’s good that they have become friends. I’m pretty sure that there were at least a few predators who rethought their actions after seeing that guy get shot on tv. The father must have felt guilty for not seeing what was happening & betrayed by the guy he tried to help, that would have overwhelmed anyone’s brain. These guys ended up encountering the wrong people at a really young age when they didn’t have all the cognitive tools they needed & I think they’ve dealt with it really well. I really enjoyed this talk!
When I saw Jodi's father shoot the abuser I applauded
What nobody touches on are the effects of the abuse on the entire family, the abuser didnt just abuse the victim, they abused the entire family. The victim is not alone in the process, the after effects happens to the entire family, all the emotions, mentally, and emotionally and the effects are long lasting, can be a lifetime.
He is fortunate that his father killed his abuser, because personally, him no longer existing aids in recovery and he knows that his father supports him, which is important.
I pray that he continues to be strong and faces life head on.
His father was put in a terrible position where he was forced to protect and defend his family, I hope he was never haunted by his actions. Life is never easy one way or another.
Oh hell no he wasn't haunted, shortly before he died Gary gave a final interview and when asked if he regretted killing Doucet, he said nah, and when asked if he'd do it again, he said hell yeah.
How comfortable and funny you guys both are talking about this makes me feel so optimistic and happy. I’m not a victim but it makes me happy hearing people who didn’t let gross molesters ruin their life talk about it like it’s nothing but a story to tell now and it does get better
Jody is a natural storyteller. I’m sad that we live in a world that anyone is molested. I’m always impressed with people who takes the worst thing anyone to imagine to happen to them and turn it into anything good. Jody has given a voice to those that are often never heard.
The dad is awesome and so is Jody for being an advocate for victims.
This was eye-opening. Thank you for being so candid. Neither of you deserved this. No one does.
This man is a strong warrior, I thank you for telling your story.
I'm so happy knowing Jody was able to get back to his childhood life and heal from his tragic experience. You're dad is such a legend!
Honestly, it's a breath of fresh air that someone is very open about the experience. This can potentially help people to spot the signs of grooming/Sexual assault and deal with the aftermath.
This is a great interview. Thank you to you both for being so open and candid about your experiences. This is the true reality of this gross behavior.
Gary Plauché is true hero. There are so many victims still living in fear that their molester would come back and take revenge.
What makes me happy..is that it didn't destroy him..he has a sense of humor..well its trauma humor..but he does make you feel at ease..and the main thing..he let's you know there is nothing to be ashamed of because of what happened to the victim..
Thank you very much for doing this interview. I had a terrible experience with my step father for years. I feel right there with both you and gary. I never let it define me. I have a great job and a loving wife.
Mr. Gary was a wonderful man. The Plauche’s are a great family. I’m so happy to hear how well Jody is doing.
Amazing story. Thank you for this. I know for a fact this will help a lot of people.
It’s incredible that he shared his story and gave us insight into how these horrible things happen. Thank you for sharing your story, and I really hope that you are bothered by this as little as possible
Based Big Gary Plauché and his Big Iron ❤
The laughing is kind of a weird reaction, but It might be a nervous reaction.
It’s very weird that the host keeps laughing. I’m glad he’s did not let his experience break him but laughing about it is just bizarre.
It was unusual to me too but I guess humans smile and laugh at uncomfortable situations. Not just stuff that's funny.
Laughing is easy way handle awkward moments
That’s his way of making it seem less gross than what it is for his own mental constraint! It’s not bizarre! Tf?! Everybody handles situations like this differently.
Great interview ❤❤❤❤❤
I also have been sexually abused, and up to now It's still difficult for me to talk about.. and after like 2 years I finally was able to tell my mom about him (I was in 4th grade when it started and he was my school ride) and I swear if my mom knew how to use a gun she would've been Gary Plauche but she was a black belter in Taekwondo and yes she did kick him down and yelled at him for sexually harassing me. Moving on to 2 years I was in 7th grade I heard a news about him going to jail for touching a little child luckily her mom was there when it happened and she was able to put him in jail for 3 years. when I saw him again I was so scared I couldn't even talk or move I instantly told my friend to not ride that ride because he's the guy I was talking about all the time, she instantly understood and went home with me instead. I was so happy and felt safe because of my friend and up till now she's still the best bestie I ever had
God Bless you 🙏🏾💕 I'm so sorry that happened
Only 3 years! Wtaf our justice system is st!
Wow to hear them speak on this and hear the real feelings those are things I would always try to explain to people about the things that have happened to me as a kid and they thought I was weird this is the main reason I was so promiscuous as a young teen great talk and explanation of the way you feel while going thru sexual abuse!
Thank you for telling your story. Every time I hear others tell their stories I think of the song that Korn did called "Daddy" Very disturbing. Again, thank you!
He’s so strong!!
This story tells me justice was finally served that father did not deserve go to jail he deserved a medal
no, he still killed a man but i personally think he still deserves a spot on the hall of fame for what he did. Legendary.
@@sopita_f1deo363you probably think that French resistance members deserved to go to work camps too for shooting nazis
Huge respect to your dad Jody. What a legend of a father.
May he RIP.
Wow what a story 😱so interesting.I’m so glad you shared your stories that’s very good info and red flag moments that’s a real wake up call coming from you guys for us parents to know . Thank you agian .
The fact that this only has 12k view’s is disgusting
I am so sorry what happened to both you. Thank you for being brave to talk about your emotions, as a child incest survivor myself I related to many comments, I believe many men could benefit to know they are not alone, and find the strength to find support
It makes me happy to see victims well-adjusted after such tragedy cuz it messed up my whole life.
Wait the abuser was also abused? That’s terrifying. Like… how does someone who goes through that then goes on to do that? That’s one sad existence
All my love to both of you
Thank you Nahdya! Much love right back to you ❤
my brain just left me, im sori this happened to these men, but yes Gary is that happy thought that makes me snicker, that sly smile that says...,"perfect aim, sir👍"
Glad he doing well
Congratulations your book.
This is obviously something to take so seriously and not to make fun of at all. But how excited the guy is on the right kind of trips me out when certain topics are touches on. Maybe thats just how he is im not sure.
is disturbing to see them laughing about it....
I hope your doing well Jody, I think your dad did the right thing
1:09:45 Yo this story had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣
So weird when they laugh 🤭
Why is this host smiling so much??
Maybe to make Jody feel comfortable and just an awkward response. This stuff is hard to talk about and nerves could cause the smiling/laughing. If you look into Jody’s interviews and such, you can see that Jody uses humor to talk about his abuse and it could be a coping mechanism.
Humor and csa shouldn't mix.
His dad is a hero.
Around 56:10 it wasn’t about himself it was all about his son. He allowed this man to come in your home, drive your car, spend time with your children and your family he was fcked up and was outraged how dare this man he trusted was fcking with his child in a horrible unforgiving way.
A story with a very big mystery
No mystery there.
@@Raw1818 A story with a very big mystery
Survivor's. ,,,,. Get mixed up,
Explore, explored,. Hollywood. Top. Of the class
That man, not going hurt anymore
I wanted more details just because it’s interesting and the abused person has already healed a long time ago.
How disgusting!! Jody’s Dad sent him straight to #€¥¥!
I knew from the moment you started talking that you were from Louisana, cause you sound a lot like my ex-boyfriend. He was from Prairieville, and you from Gonzales!
Blow them all away.
#savethekids
We don't need healing but judges, justices, jail
Seems like his dad didn’t want him to be like guys on the other side of the gloryhole or something.
They restrict. As they don't need anyone to get inspiration !!!!!
It's privacy
Yo sebastian how did u get in touch with him i make like crime documentaries id love to interview him too maybe im not famous enough THO
Jody Plauché feel safe with jeff . as per his talk
Stockholm syndrome....
Man he looks like gary.
Why is the host Sebastian smiling and laughing so much throughout this interview? It’s not an appropriate response to the situation and he keeps smiling and laughing. I don’t get it.
You don't realize how people deal with different situations. Laughing, smiling and joking is very common in stressful or traumatic situations.
18:00 foreshadowing
The word trust means absolutely zero
But this was different. In the 80s and 90s life was like home. But things were taking a turn for the worst. And now child predators exist up until now on discord, omegle, and even in real life.
Why is the host smiling so much
I think it's a common reaction when discussing a awkward and uncomfortable topic. I've never heard 2 male victims of sexual abuse talk about their experiences so frankly.
It was kinda disturbing at first. I had an ex girlfriend that would joke about being molested and raped. I never got used to it. It was obviously her way to take control of the emotions tied to the abuse.
It is really tragic how the chain of abuse has permanent effects.
Cause when get raped they enjoy it.. That's why no takes it seriously look how he is in love with that Jeff guy
@@kathloveeee In love? Seriously?
Survivor's. That words explain,. Because this pedictor. See wictim as object,. That's why it nammed
Survivor's
At some point,. It's can get dangerous
Why the host smilling,
His dad is a sigma
Enough with the Michael Jackson!
Did someone touch you????
The problem. Is. Drugs, thret
Kidnapped
Institutions, jail.
Forgive me if this is a rude comment, I constantly hear that boys who are molested by older boys or men become gay or bisexual. Is that a case here? Just wondering if that phenomena does happen.
It happened to my brother...so wondering if it may just be him or if it was brought on by molestation.
Jody doesn't have kids or a wife. My boyfriend's brother was molested and the only gay one out of 6. I think it's safe to say that molestation can definitely be a trigger.
@@haleighhellfire321 Quite common it seems. Interesting story.
Odds are it's just him and his abuser may have picked up some tendencies...thus making him the target increasing the odds that your brother did not tell. Being sexual abused is not going to change your sexual orientation which I believe is determined at birth. But I will not discount the possibility, that depending on the age and other circumstances, it can confuse someone as to what is normal...it creates a doubt. Fortunately for me, I was old enough that I knew Jeff was the one who had the problem and not me.
@@haleighhellfire321 Don't want any.
@@jplauche Agree
The dollars could be a accomplis,????
39:06 this is what I have been saying to people, now even Jody said it. Guess that makes him a pea dough empathizer? No, that's how idiotic people functions for coming to such conclusion.
There you have it, Jody and I think alike on this specific part. One is THE victim and the other is a neutral party.
1:15:05 What is this? It's not a RULE that people can't overcome the horrendous trauma? HUH?? Yeah, again Jody spitting facts. Some do, some don't. Deal with it.
is he married
Im special , access
Hurt. ,,,,, Im,. By boy was. !!!!! Justices,!!!! And do you have, the life you wanted ????
So what age was jody when all this happen??? I know he was in elemantary but idt think i heard the age
I think he was 10/11 years old
@@agustinasalerno5949 You are correct
16:03 I will disagree here. I'm an aunt and I love to spend time with kids rather than their parents! I don't get along with the parents ethos & values but we do live in the grandma's house (different culture). So when I'm visiting, yes the kids do come over and I give them cereal and play with them. I'm like a mother to them. Definitely not a molester and I don't have such interests in them (sounds weird even saying it!)
...I really dislike people like you. They made a valid point and they're right. That you disagree with that is weird.
It is not about you, it is about general patterns
@@mhorset Pssst. They don't understand that. They want to make it about themselves so badly that they missed the point on purpose.
@@mhorset thanks
Maybe it’s just I’ve never seen a discussion like this be so relaxed and comfortable for the victims to speak on, but I hope Jody is truly healed. Sometimes the way he talks about Jeff it’s almost like he misses him or idolises him to some extent which would be from the grooming but I think the fact he’s turns out so ok is the fact I think Jody is gay. And could of looked at Jeff in a different way (please don’t hate me for this thought I know I have no right to allude to these things but something feels uncomfortable about how comfortable they are but that may be on me to fix not them
Even if I was gay...I was still 10-11 years old. I can assure you I do not miss a child raping Sociopath. But for the record I am straight.
Cause when get raped they enjoy it.. That's why no takes it seriously look how he is in love with that Jeff guy
is he married
A story with a very big mystery
Hi
It's scary, and so sad,. Sorry on behalf. Humsnright
Anger,. Self-destructive,. .... Alkohol, drugs
Do dangerous act,. To survive even,
Drug raped,. Do many stories,. Were it ?????? Kids too.
I'm french
Good for you...
I am sorry.
@@cyclone8974 why
so
may god have mercy on your poor soul
Sir you have a secuire, ???? Stress ???
That's mixed. PTSD !!!! Memos. ???
Stockholms syndrom
Jody as turn a gay in heart he enjoy it and was inlove with his molester but i dont blame him i love his dad action...
You don't charm me. Mr
is he married Jody Plauché
No. He is single
I wonder if the impact was such that it made him gay?
@@motec8222 I don't think he is like me, but his story contains many mysteries. Do you agree with me?
“Even stone cold killers love their kids, and people like him have to go.” I definitely see the danger of just letting people murder people accused of doing something but I think this is a case that’s understandable and forgivable for sure.
Why you laugh sometimes in this interview? Not funny at all.
Don’t judge how a victim deals with their trauma. It’s literally their experience.
That’s what I’m thinking!! Why the hell is he smiling and laughing. It’s terrible.
Disney world,. Swim, Holly day
Major placed for abuse, Thailand !!!
Michael Jackson is innocent. Periodt
Damn right!👏🏻👍🏻♥️
yeah...no
He was never innocent.
Do Michael Jackson fans just watch every video about child abuse and comment on them? Just because a court didn't find him guilty doesn't mean he is innocent. Jackson fits every behaviour of an abuser.
Nope 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah humor is helpful, but this isn't really a knee-slapping, hawhawhawhaw fest they're making it. It's a little much.
I feel like the dude liked it or something
He comes off as gay to me.
Wtf?
It's the way they talking about it and laugh joking about child molestation don't seem right
He was severely traumatised, groomed and probably had Stockholm syndrome.....
He was a child , children don’t consent ! If you give children drugs and they enjoy it , it’s not their fault
For God's sake stop putting a stigma on tickling lots of child molesters don't tickle at all and clearly you have no children because if you did you would never even say that!! Obsurd to make that assumption just because you were tickled by your molester!!! I was molested and would never ever joke about it or talk like you do.. Stop going around throwing stupid suggestions people are molesters if they tickle or wrestle with kids... 🤦♀️
Jeff never tickled me. But many child molesters use tickling as a way to test the child's boundaries. And of course people tickle that are not molesters...but ticklers suck! End of story.
What can I say bois are cute😆
What's wrong with you
It is cute to ruin their psyche? It is cute to use, use, use again their body, is it? Cold. Mathematical, predatory. It is cute to destroy the deep persona in their soul and a hole family.
Cute.
Go to hell.
Troll
Wut