What happens when you stare into someone's eyes for 4 minutes?

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  • čas přidán 29. 11. 2017
  • What happens when you stare into someone's eyes for 4 minutes?

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  • @NullIsAt0
    @NullIsAt0 Před 3 lety +211

    I sometimes see what people have been through when I look into their eyes.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +27

      Yes. The eyes, as they say, are the windows to the soul.

    • @HansensUniverseT-A
      @HansensUniverseT-A Před 3 lety +4

      My life is a shitshow, been for a long time, i have a feeling people somehow know, i'm constantly asked if i'm ok. Those days when i look at my face in the mirror i see a tired worn face, but i think people see more than i do. It's a bit scary.

    • @p.a.c.5889
      @p.a.c.5889 Před 3 lety

      Hansins universe I don’t want to look into your eyes.

    • @clxwnabel8349
      @clxwnabel8349 Před 2 lety

      “Look in to your eyes I can read your thoughts, shut the fuck- I mean please don’t talk” - Polo G

  • @danaglass1265
    @danaglass1265 Před 4 lety +196

    I did this with my love and it was so emotional and connecting. He said I was so beautiful and he asked what were my eyes saying to him. My answer was: that I love you and need you always. He said the same. Then we hugged for awhile. Love is beautiful. Everyone please be safe and let your loved ones know who much they mean to you. Let any bad stuff go and forgive. Life is too short. 💋

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 4 lety +11

      Lovely. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Sarah-rp2xx
    @Sarah-rp2xx Před 4 lety +230

    I felt like I was going to cry watching this... But whenever I stare into someone's eye in real life I feel like I am going to start laughing.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 4 lety +9

      Have you tried it with a close family member like your mom?

    • @Sarah-rp2xx
      @Sarah-rp2xx Před 4 lety

      @@JoeOrsak idk

    • @Sarah-rp2xx
      @Sarah-rp2xx Před 4 lety +7

      If I did this with my mom she will be like Y R U staring at me.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 4 lety +1

      @@Sarah-rp2xx lol! Welll... she's supposed to know why you're doing it. Haha

    • @armyofbangtan7362
      @armyofbangtan7362 Před 3 lety +7

      @@JoeOrsakmy mom don't understand me and my feelings 😔Our relation usr to becomes so bad in seconds! She even says to me that- the day you were bornMY LIFe became a hell!!!😭😭
      I think-
      She don't know how muvh it affects me and my heart😭😭😭

  • @naveedthalappil7976
    @naveedthalappil7976 Před 3 lety +43

    I love that this is getting recommended to everyone after 3 years

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +4

      ME TOO! It just started blowing up again. When I first posted it, it took off and I got around 15K views. It slowly trickled upward from there.
      And then just a couple weeks ago... BOOM... it's taken off like never before.
      And it is something we all need to see and experience.

  • @ryangallegos3218
    @ryangallegos3218 Před 3 lety +31

    When You look into someones eyes, and let your guard down, you begin to feel everything, your emotions, even things they have been through, their pain, sadness, it all can be transferred just through looking into someones eyes, powerful.

  • @kathylyndsey316
    @kathylyndsey316 Před 3 lety +52

    When you stare into someone's eyes you SEE them.
    Why am I crying???

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +5

      Love conquers all things. Seeing genuine love breaks us down.

    • @kathylyndsey316
      @kathylyndsey316 Před 3 lety +2

      @@JoeOrsakIt surely does.
      All defences and pretences, go straight out the window when you look into the eyes of someone who sees you.

  • @farahfofo2797
    @farahfofo2797 Před 4 lety +125

    WHY AM I CRYING ??!!! 😭😭

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 4 lety +4

      I know right? Its such a great video!

    •  Před 4 lety +4

      farah fofo I was going to ask the same exact thing.... 😭

    • @cristhianmedina4035
      @cristhianmedina4035 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah, Why are you crying?!

    • @neeraj3587
      @neeraj3587 Před 3 lety

      Exactly

    • @zianasarmiento3933
      @zianasarmiento3933 Před 3 lety +1

      Me.too. hahaha i was crying the whole time

  • @jhanhani8439
    @jhanhani8439 Před 3 lety +48

    Wowwwwww.....there are so many people in this world who should do this!!!! It will actually change their lives😊😊🥺😭🤍🤍🤍

  • @rachellevabe1397
    @rachellevabe1397 Před 3 lety +34

    The moment her son took her hands, I lost it. I cried the rest of the video. I want to experience that warmth :

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +5

      Yes! Everyone desires to be genuinely loved.

    • @davidpinontoan3429
      @davidpinontoan3429 Před 2 lety +1

      Some people take MDMA ecstasy for that ahah but were not like other humans

  • @iamgettingahaircutt6674
    @iamgettingahaircutt6674 Před 3 lety +175

    When you stare into someones eyes you fall in love because of the akwardness and shyness that comes to you-🤣

  • @dark_bush
    @dark_bush Před 3 lety +56

    I wish if someone just look at me for 1 second

    • @samirbasfor9696
      @samirbasfor9696 Před 3 lety +10

      Bro I will look at you for 1hour bro

    • @edithl8625
      @edithl8625 Před 2 lety +3

      Consider it done with me: I'm looking at you with my intentions. You are being seen. And a big hug! ((((((((((((())))))))))))

    • @yungavelle
      @yungavelle Před 2 měsíci

      😂😂😂​@@samirbasfor9696

  • @marioesguerra2942
    @marioesguerra2942 Před 3 lety +51

    Are you guys crying too while watching this video?

  • @edithl8625
    @edithl8625 Před 2 lety +6

    No matter how many times I watch this video, I tear up... This is so touching... Pure love...

  • @XyzXyz-cd3kl
    @XyzXyz-cd3kl Před 3 lety +15

    Had to shed one giant tear... Hope all of you realise the worth of love.❤️

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      Amen on that one! Love conquers all and we really don't focus on showing it enough with those who are closest to us.

    • @XyzXyz-cd3kl
      @XyzXyz-cd3kl Před 3 lety +1

      @@JoeOrsak I completely agree... The first thing I did after watching this videos was saying "I love you" to my family and friends... Man, some things do hit hard..!! I realised I took the love I got for granted...

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      @@XyzXyz-cd3kl That's so awesome to hear! That was a big part of why I shared this video. It had that effect on me as well.

  • @ketan_raj
    @ketan_raj Před 3 lety +17

    Eyes can talk literally !!!!

  • @aires69uk
    @aires69uk Před 3 lety +9

    The eyes are the windows to the soul... never forget that.

  • @solacederby
    @solacederby Před 3 lety +10

    The daughter and father though 🥺. Love this video

  • @crystaliz8663
    @crystaliz8663 Před 3 lety +8

    I feel like we should be simple and kind . And show love and sympathy . No need to be roughed . Sparkle love, we need it❤

  • @janjacksonauthor
    @janjacksonauthor Před 2 lety +3

    Makes for an authentic response and very insightful, and healing.

  • @ashleywilliams5256
    @ashleywilliams5256 Před 3 lety +28

    I wish that I never took for granted the moments I had with my loved one who I haven't seen in years.. i would give anything to be able to see him... I would tell him I love him and that ill never quit searching for him.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      So sorry for your loss.

    • @amdiary7
      @amdiary7 Před 3 lety +2

      I’m so sorry to read that :( hope you’re doing well

    • @hiteshholkar4987
      @hiteshholkar4987 Před 3 lety

      we could look into each other's eyes, if u are interested

  • @pooja350
    @pooja350 Před 3 lety +22

    I couldn't last 2 minutes, my eyes were already tearing up

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah... it'll do that to you. :-)

  • @kenitmathewkoshy2070
    @kenitmathewkoshy2070 Před 3 lety +5

    Let them be together forever .............So Emotional. I think if we look straight into the eyes together for four minutes everyday, then those relationships will last forever with an everlasting love.

  • @felin_de_la_nuit
    @felin_de_la_nuit Před 3 lety +10

    1:32 I immediately teared up 🥺😩

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      Reaching for her hand... needed no words. It spoke powerfully.

  • @_Inferno_Fay
    @_Inferno_Fay Před měsícem +1

    Bling guy..."What I miss?"

  • @kovid07
    @kovid07 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m crying so hardly I can not explain it in words thanks a lot man

  • @jenevycruz6526
    @jenevycruz6526 Před 3 lety +16

    Am I the only one scared to make eye contact 😭💀

    • @jamiekheng6482
      @jamiekheng6482 Před 2 lety

      If continue staring at a person I feel shy 😅

    • @klsingzz
      @klsingzz Před rokem

      Your not alone my friend 😂

  • @minianoiz6492
    @minianoiz6492 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you, thank you all so so much from the bottom of my heart 😭❤❤😭

  • @stefanvanderwerk2434
    @stefanvanderwerk2434 Před 3 lety +5

    So there is this girl in the same church where I'm going and I always liked to bully her, not RUDDLY, and last sunday I said something too her and I was thinking about it almost all week and I laughed, then I noticed oh boy you are in love with her. I saw once how she cares for the children in our church and I was looking at her and my heart melted but her eyes also tell much.

    • @NoName-zb1gm
      @NoName-zb1gm Před 10 měsíci +1

      Sometimes God flips a switch. I became attracted to someone at my Church after 15 years seeing her. I hope 2 years later you two are happy together.

  • @neltorres7733
    @neltorres7733 Před 2 měsíci +1

    eyes says what your thinking and what your heart saying

  • @wafumboisaac3677
    @wafumboisaac3677 Před rokem +2

    This is something every married couple should do...

  • @arianne4557
    @arianne4557 Před 3 lety +3

    Why this video has not the hype it should, i even start crying myself watching it !

  • @madhyamideshmukh7908
    @madhyamideshmukh7908 Před 2 lety +1

    That daughter touching her father's ear.... Oh man I'm crying even as I type this....
    ❤️❤️❤️🧿🧿🧿

  • @snehamarvania5937
    @snehamarvania5937 Před 3 lety +2

    I don't know why but this really made me cry.
    I realised that I don't have any one to talk

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm Před 10 měsíci +2

    This is fascinating to me. I want that relationship where we're always looking for each other so we can make eye contact. It's like you miss the person and it makes you feel better and you like looking at the person and you're making sure they're ok. There's a woman I like and we have this powerful energy that keeps us together slowly working towards a relationship. But we've never looked into each other's eyes. I always felt she has such beautiful eyes and I'd love to look into them for 4 minutes but she's shy so I haven't really stared into her eyes. But we're getting closer to a relationship and it's coming soon. I think it will be electric when we allow ourselves to stare into each other's eyes. Hopefully my eyes will tell her that I love her deeply and care for her and she can trust me.

    • @NoName-zb1gm
      @NoName-zb1gm Před 10 měsíci +2

      Funny little story about this there's a girl at work who I catch looking at me and I have to admit I look for her sometimes just so we can make eye contact. But she's much younger so nothing will happen but perhaps it shows how eyes contact is so strong and addicting that even people of different ages can still feel a little magic from looking at each other and into each other's eyes. Or it could be a deeper connection that manifests itself with eye contact.

  • @pathania3377
    @pathania3377 Před 3 lety +7

    This is .......
    Beautiful❤️

  • @camileytv
    @camileytv Před rokem +1

    That's sad, cause people live together, love each other, but lose intimacy

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před rokem

      True. You must work at it all the time. It is the effort of love.

  • @stephenfasick6409
    @stephenfasick6409 Před 2 lety +4

    I'm far to cynical for this never the less, even I got Misty eyed!

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah... I know what you mean.

  • @sean3473
    @sean3473 Před 3 lety +2

    Dude the one with father and daughter, i can't. Made me realize how little i embrace my dad. He's 72. I really, really should hug him more. We're both very reserved and emotionally unexpressive.. so maybe thats why.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      Bro... go hug your dad today and tell him what you think about him as a dad. You never know when you will not get that chance any more.
      Do it today!

    • @camileytv
      @camileytv Před rokem

      That's so sad

  • @lilya.2328
    @lilya.2328 Před 3 lety +7

    Wow! Who made this video? It's so beautiful!!

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety

      Honestly don't remember. I found it and thought it needed to be shared.

    • @lilya.2328
      @lilya.2328 Před 3 lety +1

      @@JoeOrsak Thank you so much for sharing!! The video is amazing!!

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety

      @@lilya.2328 thank you. Felt the same.

  • @HansensUniverseT-A
    @HansensUniverseT-A Před 3 lety +2

    I usually have my ass loaded with smelly wind for kinky scenarios like this to break me free,
    No okay so about three days ago i was at Staples just getting some stuff, the girl in the cashier was more talkative than what i'm usually accustomed to, i'm comfortable with making eye contact with anyone typically, but it happened as she commented on my walkman cassette player, i think we made eye contract for a few seconds, not long at least, i wasn't in any sad as far as i'm aware of but she prompted me with the age old question: You ok? I've started reflecting on this, why do people ask me this very question upon engaging in conversations? It may or may not be my overall body language or my face. But i believe it's in my eyes, my life is etched in there and people can see it. It's sort of terrifying, maybe that's why i naturally just avoid looking people in the eyes. Let's just say I've been through some shit and still is.

  • @Stephanie-vx4zi
    @Stephanie-vx4zi Před 16 dny +1

    I cried in like 30 seconds. We all NEED TO STOP..PAUSE...AND TAKE IN THE LOVE❤❤❤❤

  • @ali-25yearsold
    @ali-25yearsold Před rokem +2

    I shed tears. Just for watching. Thank you!!

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před rokem

      It's almost impossible not to right?

    • @ali-25yearsold
      @ali-25yearsold Před rokem

      @@JoeOrsak yes youre correct. I am a lonely guy, so this kind of moment really warms my heart.

  • @sithandiweshange6568
    @sithandiweshange6568 Před 3 lety +3

    I literally chocked up watching this❤️

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah, it has that effect right?

  • @nancy4370
    @nancy4370 Před 3 lety +3

    I NEED TO STOP WATCHING THESE VIDEOS AT 7am omg ITS TOO EARLY TO CRY 😭 😭

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety

      LOL! I get ya on that one. lol. But what a great way to tune your heart for the day yes?

  • @jenniferlopez901
    @jenniferlopez901 Před 3 lety +18

    I stare at my brothers eyes all the time and he always asks me what I’m doing.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      And what do you say?

    • @jenniferlopez901
      @jenniferlopez901 Před 3 lety +2

      I say I’m looking at you. He used to think it was weird but now he occasionally stares back. (I usually stare at him during lunch or dinner since he sits right across from me)

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      @@jenniferlopez901
      ANd what are you looking at? I mean... more than just eyes... what are you trying to SEE?

    • @abhinayanand2713
      @abhinayanand2713 Před 3 lety +3

      @@JoeOrsak 😂

    • @jenniferlopez901
      @jenniferlopez901 Před 3 lety +8

      I see my brother as he is in the present and it reminds me of how much he has grown (he’s 14 I’m 21). When we tried this exercise it was emotional. I’m reminded of how much of an impact he made in my life and I reflect on how our relationship is. I’ve always thought we were close and a lot of people have told us too. We told each other that we love each other and he told me how thankful he was to have me as a sister. It honestly made me cry and feel really happy.

  • @Emine070582
    @Emine070582 Před 3 lety +5

    I wished I could look into the eyes of mum and dad 🥺

  • @kareishajeanpierre7147
    @kareishajeanpierre7147 Před 4 lety +12

    I’m crying 😭. This so beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @ridaas7021
    @ridaas7021 Před 3 lety +1

    3:39 you’ve said it. i’m not crying it’s just a dust...

  • @coachganga9653
    @coachganga9653 Před 5 lety +16

    Beautiful emotions

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      Yes. It's so moving to watch.

  • @abelnick1728
    @abelnick1728 Před 3 lety +1

    Overwhelming

  • @rosemhd4250
    @rosemhd4250 Před 3 lety +2

    Sh*t u melted the stone.

  • @vishnukamble2221
    @vishnukamble2221 Před 3 lety +3

    The time when U Feel true love u will get tears

  • @abhistraj5732
    @abhistraj5732 Před 2 lety +1

    Ans : you start to cry

  • @prashantnsk
    @prashantnsk Před 3 lety +1

    The music was more emotional than staring 😜

  • @Clevoliver
    @Clevoliver Před 3 lety +2

    Soo cute :)

  • @lesliehilesgardener6959
    @lesliehilesgardener6959 Před 2 lety +4

    When you love someone truly you Can't stop looking in their eyes it's mutual

    • @NoName-zb1gm
      @NoName-zb1gm Před 10 měsíci +1

      I love this. It's what I want with someone where it's like a drug you can't wait to look into each other eyes.

  • @coolcalm582
    @coolcalm582 Před 3 lety +3

    I think peoples now need to love people in their syllabus...humans hb grown so inhumans in search of careers money that he has forgot to live and love humans..

  • @marieferbasco7530
    @marieferbasco7530 Před 3 lety +1

    So much tears! 😭

  • @pousalimukherjee6719
    @pousalimukherjee6719 Před 3 lety +1

    O God, I couldn't see full...I started crying

  • @hamnaijaz5545
    @hamnaijaz5545 Před 3 lety +1

    Watching this made me cry

  • @ngakuchang1758
    @ngakuchang1758 Před 3 lety +2

    Though I can't look at my crush like that to make him fall for me but I looked at this video and I fall in love with the video and I cried

  • @jannatmir7694
    @jannatmir7694 Před 3 lety +4

    Why I m crying 🥺

  • @WONDERFULLYMADE2009
    @WONDERFULLYMADE2009 Před 3 lety +5

    Why am I crying 😢

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      It will do that to you. :-)

  • @AnonW
    @AnonW Před rokem

    I can't understand this at all, I always stare at people right in the eyes when they're talking, often for minutes and I always feel nothing.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před rokem

      It is in silence and for 4 minutes. Looking someone in the eye while they talk is a normal part of communication. It is in silence that makes this a unique experiment and especially with someone you love.

  • @pousalimukherjee6719
    @pousalimukherjee6719 Před 3 lety

    It is sad for me to write that nobody wants to see me like this...after I die, people will cry over my dead body

  • @doner2565
    @doner2565 Před 3 lety +1

    i am trying this with myself in the mirror

  • @krokodylan2373
    @krokodylan2373 Před 3 lety +1

    This breaked me

  • @mbalip1
    @mbalip1 Před 3 lety

    I'm touched!

  • @missmatch9058
    @missmatch9058 Před 2 lety +4

    Is it actually possible to watch this without sobbing?

  • @stephenfasick6409
    @stephenfasick6409 Před 2 lety +1

    Why do I keep watching this! Can someone tell me?

  • @suvethas.4721
    @suvethas.4721 Před 3 lety +1

    why did I start to cry

  • @blliehamilton9532
    @blliehamilton9532 Před 2 lety +1

    omg im crying

  • @suefernandez2032
    @suefernandez2032 Před 3 lety +1

    oke ..wow🥺

  • @lakshmipriya1917
    @lakshmipriya1917 Před 3 lety +1

    👌

  • @vaultvon2126
    @vaultvon2126 Před 2 lety +1

    Zahra is very beautiful

  • @litzibasilikum4663
    @litzibasilikum4663 Před 2 lety +1

    I am crying

  • @davidpinontoan3429
    @davidpinontoan3429 Před 2 lety +1

    I will try thiss

  • @aldosmole7281
    @aldosmole7281 Před 3 lety +2

    you blink

  • @Grohlizm
    @Grohlizm Před 3 lety +1

    What does it mean when someone stares at you?

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      Depends on who it is and why they are staring I suppose.

  • @Carl.Henriksson
    @Carl.Henriksson Před 3 lety

    What the hell I thought their eyes would start to shoot lazers at each other.

  • @JanhviB7
    @JanhviB7 Před 3 lety +4

    REALLY Life is to Short for Complaining :(

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety

      Very true. And it changes nothing anyway.

    • @JanhviB7
      @JanhviB7 Před 3 lety +1

      @@JoeOrsak yeah!! I am really missing my Family after I watch this Video .I wanna see them :( 😔

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety

      @@JanhviB7 Reach out to them.

    • @JanhviB7
      @JanhviB7 Před 3 lety +1

      @@JoeOrsak Yeah !! Lots of love from me to your family and ur youtube Channel :)

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety +1

      @@JanhviB7 Thank you! Like wise.

  • @ridaas7021
    @ridaas7021 Před 3 lety +2

    4:04 this how i wanna grow with my husband

  • @frenchlia
    @frenchlia Před 3 lety +1

    I accidentally did this with me crush and we couldn't break contact

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety

      Kinda a magical moment isn't it.

  • @ahava77
    @ahava77 Před 3 lety +1

    🙂

  • @Taltinus
    @Taltinus Před rokem +1

    no

  • @anitahendricks
    @anitahendricks Před 2 lety +1

  • @ferchorps2224
    @ferchorps2224 Před 3 lety

    naaaaahhhhh que.
    La realidad es otra.

    • @JoeOrsak
      @JoeOrsak  Před 3 lety

      entonces has probado esto?

  • @ronf3954
    @ronf3954 Před 7 měsíci +1

    One of the most beautiful things I've ever seen. ❤🥲🥰🤗