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  • Remember the dating show about one woman trying to find a man to father her children? Well I watched the whole first season, let's discuss.
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  • @zaknotkyle
    @zaknotkyle Před 3 lety +2072

    I am so stressed for a child who isn’t even born.

    • @vanroyal244
      @vanroyal244 Před 3 lety +53

      Or developing.

    • @frigginresulrum
      @frigginresulrum Před 3 lety +60

      I mean...the way this year's going, I'm stressed for every child that's not born or in progress.

    • @pennedbymaria
      @pennedbymaria Před 3 lety +1

      They’re gonna be shoved in a tutu and told to go throw a football all while having to be home for the 5’ o clock Fox News when they’re a liberal- it’s gonna be a shit show

  • @chrisblake4198
    @chrisblake4198 Před 3 lety +1959

    I would watch a dating show with bisexual contestants and none of them are told who the lead of the show is, they're just all thrown in together.

    • @PyrokineticFire1
      @PyrokineticFire1 Před 3 lety +294

      twist: they tell 2 (or more) of the contestants that they're the real lead (and can't tell the others)
      there'll be multiple people acting like they're the lead.
      how well will they hide that secret, see how the others react to it.

    • @chrisblake4198
      @chrisblake4198 Před 3 lety +161

      @@PyrokineticFire1 That's interesting. I was thinking they could keep everyone under a gag rule about who they vote off, then have each person vote, but only count the real lead's votes. Making 2 people think they're the lead might be interesting, but I'm not out to piss off contestants, just see if people can find some real chemistry when they don't know who they're trying to impress.

    • @wellDUHitsSarah
      @wellDUHitsSarah Před 3 lety +62

      Yes! A bisexual Love Island or Bachelor in Paradise would give me LIFEEE

    • @ognjensijak989
      @ognjensijak989 Před 3 lety +37

      They tell everybody that they are the lead so it causes funny moments

    • @theluckybunny1604
      @theluckybunny1604 Před 3 lety +55

      Then you should watch the most recent season of Are You The One?
      Because it’s exactly that

  • @QWimop
    @QWimop Před 3 lety +1908

    Dating show challenge idea: do the bear challenge again, but any contestant that doesn't immediately recognize it's a fake bear is kicked off. If they can't differentiate a man in a bear costume from a real bear, i highly doubt they can be trusted in any crisis scenario

    • @angelwings1979
      @angelwings1979 Před 3 lety +31

      QWimop My thoughts exactly! 😂

    • @Chipiliro613
      @Chipiliro613 Před 3 lety +56

      Bears
      Beets
      Battlestar Galactica

    • @KayVolley-mg9ld
      @KayVolley-mg9ld Před 3 lety +1

      @@Chipiliro613 omg 😆

    • @GamesFromSpace
      @GamesFromSpace Před 3 lety +42

      Personally, my instinct would have been to punch the guy in a bear suit so I looked like a badass who would punch a bear.

    • @charliemay3804
      @charliemay3804 Před 3 lety +31

      Expand that. Have a man in a bear suit just run on stage during jeopardy. Or having him chase the contestant on wipeout.

  • @lucydearden5625
    @lucydearden5625 Před 3 lety +1822

    “We had good kissing.” Yep. That sounds like a guy who has a house mom.

    • @jaxystarr7108
      @jaxystarr7108 Před 3 lety +127

      Me reading this before I finished the video:
      tf is a house mom?

    • @thekidfromcanada
      @thekidfromcanada Před 3 lety +85

      @@jaxystarr7108 it's a massive red flag. A nanny for an adult. or grown child. Adults should not regularly need a personal nanny for themselves.

    • @BrotherMag
      @BrotherMag Před 3 lety +4

      A house mom? Wow

    • @Kat-xy7fm
      @Kat-xy7fm Před 3 lety +47

      @@thekidfromcanada To be fair, as a grown working adult, if I could afford to pay someone to do cleaning and meal prep and laundry for me I 100% would. And when you have kids it is an absolute necessity, it's just usually grandma who is not getting paid and potentially too old to be doing that work anyway.

    • @Ethan-nl2wg
      @Ethan-nl2wg Před 3 lety +8

      @@Kat-xy7fm true but for people looking to date that person it is weird for this person to have this maid? I guess, be of the opposite sex with seemingly no other family if he had a butler or something like that then that would be a different story

  • @raycearcher5794
    @raycearcher5794 Před 3 lety +1148

    PITCH: You do a Bachelor style show. For like 5-6 episodes it's totally straight. Then in one episode the lights all go out, and when they come on the bachelor is dead. Now it's a murder mystery. Some of the contestants are actors who have detailed information on the bachelor or contestants and pretend to be hitherto unknown figures from their past, with motives to be involved in the crime. They all get trapped in the rental house by a flood or collapsed bridge or something. Food starts running low. So you have all these pretty yuppies subsisting on dry snacks from craft services, all convinced one of them is a killer and they could be next.

    • @oh-6613
      @oh-6613 Před 3 lety +70

      Great idea. I volunteer as the bachelor.

    • @Chipiliro613
      @Chipiliro613 Před 3 lety +33

      Reminds me of The Onion's 'Sex House'.

    • @meganchambers8108
      @meganchambers8108 Před 3 lety +8

      Lol I need someone to produce this

    • @thatdeadmeme
      @thatdeadmeme Před 3 lety +4

      YESSSSS.

    • @smittywerbenjagermanjensen9809
      @smittywerbenjagermanjensen9809 Před 3 lety +55

      Actually sounds like a good premise for a book or movie. Romance, comedy, survival horror, mystery and thriller all rolled up in one.

  • @Liz-pc6je
    @Liz-pc6je Před 3 lety +747

    Even if I was a grown adult that couldn’t take care of myself and needed a nanny, I would just say they’re my butler/housekeeper.
    Nanny = sad adult child
    Butler/housekeeper = bougie/rich adult

    • @terrifyingtyrannosaurusturtle
      @terrifyingtyrannosaurusturtle Před 3 lety +180

      It's weird how just that one word changes the entire feel of the conversation. From "I cannot take care of myself" to "I'm so unbelievable rich that I don't have to take care of myself"

    • @thatdeadmeme
      @thatdeadmeme Před 3 lety +114

      Exactly. Like??? Housemom sounds like you’re a big baby man with some mommy issues. HOUSEKEEPER OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT ON THE OTHER HAND. Why would you waste such an opportunity, Marcus? You could have 10 extra points. You took -1000.

    • @christalcavanaugh
      @christalcavanaugh Před 3 lety +25

      House mom = incel

    • @Talking_Ed
      @Talking_Ed Před 3 lety +5

      You can have a housekeeper without being rich.
      If you are very busy you can pay someone 100 bucks once a week to clean it's not crazy...

    • @Liz-pc6je
      @Liz-pc6je Před 3 lety +34

      @@Talking_Ed I’m aware, I am a housekeeper. I was just saying that it sounds a lot better and more adult to say that instead of an adult nanny

  • @boboblueblue2
    @boboblueblue2 Před 3 lety +994

    Why wouldn’t he just call her a house keeper? A housemother is so freaking weird?!

    • @AmazingJellyfish
      @AmazingJellyfish Před 3 lety +94

      Is At Sea house mother is the woman who is in charge at sorority or frat house. (According to tv and movies) so maybe he is a perpetual frat boy.?

    • @kidd32888
      @kidd32888 Před 3 lety +4

      Omg this is so weird 😂😂😂😂

    • @raycearcher5794
      @raycearcher5794 Před 3 lety +35

      A nanny for an adult is called a valet. Female valets are lady's maids. It's odd, but not particularly weird for these upscale folks to have one, but it's kind of peculiar for a gentleman to have a lady's maid. Jeeves would not approve.

    • @gabrielagable9365
      @gabrielagable9365 Před 3 lety +30

      The way he describes it makes it sound like she's his carer or something. It's really weird

    • @MsRabblerouser
      @MsRabblerouser Před 3 lety +22

      The way he described it I thought she was his sugar momma

  • @bitnewt
    @bitnewt Před 3 lety +688

    Can't lie, I'm both jealous of and embarrassed for these fully grown adults who have someone to do chores for them.

    • @spenhaPot
      @spenhaPot Před 3 lety +44

      If I could afford to hire a butler, a maid, housekeeper, groundskeeper, personal chef, personal driver, etc... I would. Free up my time and create employment for those who need it.

    • @karahstorm355
      @karahstorm355 Před 3 lety +32

      My family isn't rich by ANY means, but we have a housekeeper come in twice a week. It's not terribly expensive because she works by the hour and our apartment is pretty small so it doesn't require a crazy amount of work My patents hired her my freshmen year and my mom and dad didn't mention it. When I was a teenager in highschool my room would be a disaster(because messy high school teen lol) I would come home from school and my room would be spotless, I always thought my parents would clean my room everyday which was super weird because they never did growing up but I wasn't about to question it. I came home from school early one day and she was cleaning my room. I was so scared because a stranger was just in my house cleaning my room. I called my dad and was freaking out a stranger was in the house. I was pretty embarrassed when he had to explain to me she was a house keeper and they hadn't been cleaning my room for 2 years straight.😳

    • @merrybright5732
      @merrybright5732 Před 3 lety +16

      Most of my family is upper middle class mexicans, so we have a lot of maids there ranging from one that comes in a couple times a week at my grandparents’ to multiple live-in ones at my aunt’s. I think it’s just a nice luxury to have the part-time help as an adult, my grandparents are still very self-sufficient. But I could really see the sense of entitlement in my nephews that came from growing up never having to do anything for yourself since you could just order someone else to do it. In retrospect I’m glad I grew up without that.

    • @CassTeaElle
      @CassTeaElle Před 3 lety +10

      I'm not embarrassed for them. I'm the one who does their chores, so I'm just glad to have a job I enjoy that pays pretty well 😁

  • @artiqwerty6271
    @artiqwerty6271 Před 3 lety +291

    Honestly it would have been fine if Marcus had said “oh this is Diane my housekeeper, I’m busy sometimes”. But the awkward “this is Diane... she’s my house *pause* mom... :)” WHY? WHY? KYLE WTF.

  • @Chipiliro613
    @Chipiliro613 Před 3 lety +269

    Pitch - *Love of Labor*
    The woman chooses the greatest proletarian of all the men courting her, whichever man can hammer the most rocks, scythe the most corn and overthrow the most bourgeoisie.

    • @clp275
      @clp275 Před 3 lety +20

      Ah yes, the best show for all comrades

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 Před 3 lety +5

      Would never happen since entertainment television is a parasite on the great collective.

    • @embroideredragdoll
      @embroideredragdoll Před 3 lety +5

      I’d go back in time and pitch this on your behalf

  • @smittywerbenjagermanjensen9809

    *"I probably won't get cast, because they cast 9's and 10's only"* I actually agree with this. It wouldn't be fair for all those other women to have to compete with a level 100 Amanda.

  • @meganchambers8108
    @meganchambers8108 Před 3 lety +642

    Marcus thought they should have a baby....because she's pretty and they "have good kissing" ??

    • @emittlame8095
      @emittlame8095 Před 3 lety +62

      Yeah I fucking laughed so hard at that. He sounded like a middle schooler. lol

    • @katenz100
      @katenz100 Před 3 lety +10

      He sounds like he should be on "Undateables".

    • @mmmm-co4dc
      @mmmm-co4dc Před 3 lety +6

      Marcus went to Harvard & is a doctor. He was on survivor & he’s very smart. He was edited badly.

    • @meganchambers8108
      @meganchambers8108 Před 3 lety +40

      @@mmmm-co4dc I mean the part where he said this was one continuous shot lol but sure.

    • @tine272
      @tine272 Před 3 lety

      sounds valid

  • @livcaitbff
    @livcaitbff Před 3 lety +190

    A grown man with a nanny thinks a beautiful woman dumped him because she’s “insecure”. What a joke

    • @user-sf4fy8bq1h
      @user-sf4fy8bq1h Před 2 lety +6

      Loved the little dig he got in about her age too. You can see the gears turning as he pauses-‘should I say this? yes, I should’
      🤦‍♀️

  • @cocoachuu
    @cocoachuu Před 3 lety +922

    wait can we talk about past contestants figuring out they like women after leaving a dating show? is that a good video idea? it would warm my lesbian heart 😣

    • @supercullen0047
      @supercullen0047 Před 3 lety +39

      This this all of this

    • @ladyjellyfish4757
      @ladyjellyfish4757 Před 3 lety +196

      And men too. Like the guy from that Mormon dating show figuring out he was gay and leaving because of it

    • @cocoachuu
      @cocoachuu Před 3 lety +100

      Lady Jellyfish wlw/mlm solidarity 🦋

    • @frncsk6488
      @frncsk6488 Před 3 lety +16

      Lady Jellyfish are you talking about Provo’s Most Eligible? which contestant was it? I didn’t end up watching the whole way through

    • @valenfr01
      @valenfr01 Před 3 lety +57

      omg like the contestant in the bachelor: vietnam who fell in love with another constestant and left the show

  • @michaelhegwood9977
    @michaelhegwood9977 Před 3 lety +571

    In all fairness, Labor of Love is a great name for the show.

    • @Sam_on_YouTube
      @Sam_on_YouTube Před 3 lety +59

      I imagine the pitch meeting went something like:
      I have a great name for a show! Labor of Love!
      What is it?
      I don't know, a dating show with women in labor.
      No, I don't think we can make that work logistically.
      Dating members of the labor movement?
      I don't know, a little boring?
      How about trying to make a baby with total strangers.
      That's a horrible idea. It could potentially ruin lives. But... we can't let that title go to waste. We'll give it a shot.

  • @chloefantasista9815
    @chloefantasista9815 Před 3 lety +324

    "I'm not saying Georgia isn't romantic"
    It's not lol, don't apologize.

  • @eleanorhenriquez3930
    @eleanorhenriquez3930 Před 3 lety +467

    Ok "House Mother" is a weird name... she is a housekeeper, probably a very well paid one lol. But to be honest, if I can pay somebody to take care of the mundane things that are house work so I can focus on my school/career lol why the heck no...

    • @yukikanegawa7470
      @yukikanegawa7470 Před 3 lety +22

      Some people find personal fulfillment in homemaking. House mother makes me think about like a dorm matron.

    • @VultureSkins
      @VultureSkins Před 3 lety +38

      That was beyond house keeping lol, it seemed like she wasn’t just keeping tedium off his plate so he could focus on way more important things, but acting as a mother to a child. An able adult should have the capacity to care for themselves lol

    • @justinmegibben4909
      @justinmegibben4909 Před 3 lety +18

      well he may have got that from Frat/Sorority things. A lot of them have house mothers that make sure the place is ok and taken care of.

    • @eleanorhenriquez3930
      @eleanorhenriquez3930 Před 3 lety +6

      @@justinmegibben4909 oh that makes sense if he belongs to one in University... I personally never watched this show

    • @seqka711
      @seqka711 Před 3 lety +7

      She said he’s a doctor, right? If he’s finished paying his school loans he’s probably making a lot of money and is very busy. Having a housekeeper just makes sense if you have money but don’t have time.

  • @melqt3785
    @melqt3785 Před 3 lety +266

    "I don't see us starting a family together"
    HOUUUUULLLD

    • @anniedangerface
      @anniedangerface Před 3 lety +11

      I snorted

    • @SwellEntertainment
      @SwellEntertainment  Před 3 lety +74

      YOU CAN HEAR ME TRYING NOT TO GIGGLE WHEN THAT HAPPENED

    • @gt-bz7zw
      @gt-bz7zw Před 3 lety +15

      OMG his reply though!! Dude is 2 steps away from joining MGTOW

    • @anniedangerface
      @anniedangerface Před 3 lety +14

      g t right?? he must have "learned" that at one of those seminar/conventions...i forgot what they're called. they are to learn how to pick up women but ALSO put down women and lift men

    • @15arael
      @15arael Před 3 lety +2

      i SCREAMED

  • @kimberlyabbott2767
    @kimberlyabbott2767 Před 3 lety +174

    aaaaa why wouldn't he just call his "house mother" a housekeeper. honey, you're just screaming mommy issues.

  • @tedcharleceus9753
    @tedcharleceus9753 Před 3 lety +104

    This show would be perfect without the having to marry a stranger part. Just make a show about 15 guys doing weird dad stuff.

  • @KrisC849
    @KrisC849 Před 3 lety +112

    He- he didn’t know he had to change his sheets??

    • @camille1324
      @camille1324 Před 3 lety +25

      Plus he says it like it's cute and funny...at least have the self awareness to be embarrassed about it

    • @iscott3187
      @iscott3187 Před 3 lety +14

      But he is a doctor tho
      HE IS SUPPOSED TO BE SMART

    • @RobAGabor
      @RobAGabor Před 3 lety +7

      Ever hear of the absent-minded professor? He sounds like the absent-minded doctor. I bet he isn't a surgeon.

    • @CassTeaElle
      @CassTeaElle Před 3 lety +2

      To be fair, he didn't say he didn't know he needed to change them. He said he didn't know he needed to change them every week. Lots of people don't change their sheets that often.

  • @spacecat7864
    @spacecat7864 Před 3 lety +180

    Amanda should probably do a review on the wonderful peak trash dating show: Beauty and the Geek.

    • @TexTheBest
      @TexTheBest Před 3 lety +15

      I like the season that had one himbo and one geek girl

    • @spacecat7864
      @spacecat7864 Před 3 lety

      TexTheBest I remember the geek girl! I haven’t ever watched a whole season, I just remember it was something that was on when I was in high school and I’d watch it because it was so over the top and outlandish haha.

    • @Wachalpharoh
      @Wachalpharoh Před 3 lety +4

      I'd be down for her thoughts on the awkward mini series of Geek Love too, though that's a completely different tone.

    • @juliadandy6019
      @juliadandy6019 Před 3 lety

      Yes. I need this in my life. I LOOOOVED that show Hahahhaha

    • @spacecat7864
      @spacecat7864 Před 3 lety

      Kate Malley right? I had forgotten about it until watching this and now I really want to watch it again haha. It’s so bad and obviously extra fake but it’s beautiful trash.

  • @SaviRabi
    @SaviRabi Před 3 lety +46

    Imagine a spin off involving the couple while they try to get pregnant while still kind of getting to know each other, and they call it “Love Before Labor”

    • @staceyann1180
      @staceyann1180 Před 2 lety +4

      And the spinoff of expectant couples who separate before the birth, "Love Labors Lost"!!!

  • @Wahoowa01
    @Wahoowa01 Před 3 lety +146

    Marcus was on Survivor, which is why he’s certified!

    • @caridadchang7895
      @caridadchang7895 Před 3 lety +37

      Being on survivor sounds more respectable than being on Labor of Love

    • @Milkmouse1966
      @Milkmouse1966 Před 3 lety +11

      Is being on Reality TV shows just his thing?

  • @CyberStockholmSyndrome
    @CyberStockholmSyndrome Před 3 lety +272

    I feel like Kristy didn’t choose Stewart because the notion of having a mixed child freaked her out. Not to say that she’s a bad person or racist. But I imagine that she felt her relationship with Kyle would be easier, even if it wasn’t as fulfilling.

    • @jaelk
      @jaelk Před 3 lety +102

      Definitely, after their conversation my first thought was she clearly wasn't prepared to have a mixed race kid! Imo, it's better to be honest about that and back out then potentially really harm a kid

    • @Talking_Ed
      @Talking_Ed Před 3 lety +22

      It's a bit racist to be fair

    • @iaingore.3987
      @iaingore.3987 Před 3 lety +50

      @@Talking_Ed as a mixed kid it’s not the amount of shit my mom got when I was a baby about how she could never be my real mother sounds mortifying and even now I still get comments about how she can’t be my mother

    • @louisaugustexvi4515
      @louisaugustexvi4515 Před 3 lety +29

      @@Talking_Ed it really isnt I’m mixed and it hurts as a kid, its hard to fit in and it causes identity crises

    • @Talking_Ed
      @Talking_Ed Před 3 lety +6

      @@louisaugustexvi4515 I mean, it's a bit racist to discriminate people for that and to decide not to chose someone because of his skin colour means American society failed.

  • @Ryan-ul3bv
    @Ryan-ul3bv Před 3 lety +81

    Amanda makes the things i don't care about interesting

  • @SamGlaze
    @SamGlaze Před 3 lety +64

    “Things I didn’t even know I needed help with, like changing my sheets every week”
    - a 40-year-old man

  • @peacheslikeapples
    @peacheslikeapples Před 3 lety +92

    A grown adult man.... with a "house mom"...... and he.... he made it to the final 3. These reality shows are really setting women up with men who have no life skills.
    Edit: I stand corrected, I forgot about Corinne..... where does one find someone who can't cook themselves one single meal

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 Před 3 lety +1

      As a guy there's a 50-50 chance the only thing she can cook is cereal, toast and microwave food, maybe become a lesbian?

  • @zoe_buttons
    @zoe_buttons Před 3 lety +63

    This feels like they thought of the name first and worked around it

  • @Lucy-fn9rj
    @Lucy-fn9rj Před 3 lety +20

    if they did it as finding a platonic co-parent and not a romantic partner then _maybe_ it could’ve worked. you can connect with someone with as a friend and assess if they’d be good at parenting with you a LOT faster than you can figure out if you’re gonna be in love with them for the rest of your life.

  • @dinorocks4887
    @dinorocks4887 Před 3 lety +216

    you should check out the cursed show opposite worlds! its cancelled but it was full of injuries and terrible planning. Jenny Nicholson has a great video on it

    • @Ektalon
      @Ektalon Před 3 lety +15

      Oh hells, that show was such a train wreck!

    • @starsymcdoodle6965
      @starsymcdoodle6965 Před 3 lety +15

      I felt so bad for the contestants :(

    • @miscellaneousshadow7452
      @miscellaneousshadow7452 Před 3 lety

      I think she might have done this already.

    • @VultureSkins
      @VultureSkins Před 3 lety +1

      Miscellaneous Shadow Doesn’t look like she has, you might be thinking of someone else

    • @miscellaneousshadow7452
      @miscellaneousshadow7452 Před 3 lety

      @@VultureSkins yeah I just looked it up it wasn't her I was thinking. Just someone with a similar channel.

  • @winterburden
    @winterburden Před 3 lety +403

    Aha, they wouldn't cast me because they only cast 9s and 10s, never an 11 that would just be too much 😄

    • @GamingtheOtter
      @GamingtheOtter Před 3 lety +8

      Were you able to watch this early because your a patreon member?

    • @sanjana3728
      @sanjana3728 Před 3 lety +10

      The Gaming Otter Yes patreon members are able to watch videos more earlier than normal subscribers.

    • @winterburden
      @winterburden Před 3 lety +7

      There's still time to become a Patreon member, Simptember's not completely over yet 😄

    • @siddiqsmouse5004
      @siddiqsmouse5004 Před 3 lety +14

      Usually comments like these are self deprecating, but I'm loving the self confidence!

    • @alexander-vq3jd
      @alexander-vq3jd Před 3 lety +5

      i am LOVING your confidence maywither dragon

  • @nameofthename
    @nameofthename Před 3 lety +22

    idea for a trainwreck of a show: a dating show where all the contestants are socially inept

  • @thatpersonisblah
    @thatpersonisblah Před 3 lety +16

    I want to be on the Bachelorette, and my story arc is that I am trying to find love, but throughout the competition, I figure out I am actually homosexual, so when she gives me the rose I come out on TV. I am telling you that will be the face crack of the century

  • @CassTeaElle
    @CassTeaElle Před 3 lety +10

    Okay, I'm gonna toss in my two cents, as a professional housekeeper for many years.
    Why didn't he call her a housekeeper? Well, I have a couple thoughts.
    1. Housekeepers don't generally do all of the things that woman is doing. I clean people's houses, I don't cook and sew their pants and go grocery shopping for them. I also only go to clean people's houses once every two weeks, or weekly at the most. I'm definitely not there every day. So "housekeeper" could be a term that would actually sort of minimize what it is she does for him.
    2. Here me out with this one... I get that it's sort of a flag (I would say yellow, not red) that would give you pause and make you want to make sure he isn't an immature manchild who doesn't know how to take care of himself. But... I actually think it's rather sweet that he calls her his house mother.
    To me, it seems like he is recognizing that she means more to him than just being a random person who does his chores, and I think that's a good thing. I have clients across the board: some I think of more as friends, one who just moved across country and had to cancel service gave me a hug when she left and told me she loves me, and then I also have clients that are very much just a distant person who I rarely ever see whose house I clean. I'm fine with all of that, honestly. I don't care if people see me that way. But if I was in their house every day, and did everything this woman does for him, and he referred to me as his "housekeeper," I would honestly feel a little bit saddened by that. To me, it seems a little dismissive and minimizing.
    That's just my personal opinion on the matter, as a housekeeper myself. It might give me pause if I was dating the guy, but there's also nothing really wrong with it, as long as he isn't just relying on her because he is incapable of taking care of himself and doesn't want to learn.

  • @IsomerMashups
    @IsomerMashups Před 3 lety +115

    "House mom."
    I think we call them "butlers."

    • @Ektalon
      @Ektalon Před 3 lety +18

      Isomer Mashups Or housekeepers . . .

    • @yukikanegawa7470
      @yukikanegawa7470 Před 3 lety +2

      Butlers are male. Maids and housekeepers are female. And home makers are usually the house matriarch.

    • @IsomerMashups
      @IsomerMashups Před 3 lety +7

      @@yukikanegawa7470
      That's just... not true.

    • @christalcavanaugh
      @christalcavanaugh Před 3 lety +6

      I have never once heard someone refer to a woman as a butler

    • @IsomerMashups
      @IsomerMashups Před 3 lety +3

      @@christalcavanaugh
      Nonetheless, they exist.

  • @VintageInkBlot
    @VintageInkBlot Před 3 lety +16

    The clips of Stewart after they broke up that you showed were heartbreaking. Now there's someone who was invested. I feel so sad for him.

  • @demon2441
    @demon2441 Před 3 lety +30

    I don't think him not emoting is due to toxic masculinity. I think he just didn't want to cry on TV in front of people who will may judgements without actually knowing him.

    • @schnozz4301
      @schnozz4301 Před 3 lety +5

      The stigma against expressing normal human emotions esp for men is part of toxic masculinity

    • @demon2441
      @demon2441 Před 3 lety

      @@schnozz4301 Is it toxic masculinity when it becomes expected that you remain stoic and strong? I've tried expressing my emotions only to be given cold looks despite my pain from all genders.

    • @schnozz4301
      @schnozz4301 Před 3 lety +4

      @@demon2441 Yep. I'm sorry you've gone through that, but there's hope. I've managed to surround myself with people (including men) who get and give emotional support, and I'm sure you can too. Though it can definitely be a lot harder depending on the sort of place you live and the communities you interact with.

    • @Te3time
      @Te3time Před 3 lety

      well Im judging him for being heartless

  • @RivenLove
    @RivenLove Před 3 lety +156

    As someone who lives in Georgia, I can confirm it's not romantic. Mostly just racist

  • @LovelessYayaoi
    @LovelessYayaoi Před 3 lety +79

    "I'm also a Scorpio."
    /subscribed

  • @geoffingoff
    @geoffingoff Před 3 lety +217

    Nothing wrong with having a "house mother" imo... especially being a doctor, it's probably a lot easier to have plenty of time for your job and still time to have a life. Although, calling it a "house mom" is pretty weird...

    • @thatcutenerdgirl6090
      @thatcutenerdgirl6090 Před 3 lety +72

      Yeah, it’s fine to hire a maid or an assistant or a butler or whatever. But why call her a house mom??? That’s the part that gets me

    • @Clovis_the_Cat
      @Clovis_the_Cat Před 3 lety +97

      Honestly, if he just said "she's my housekeeper" it wouldn't have been weird at all. My own parents got a housekeeper after I got older and they were both working. Its difficult to keep up on house chores when you have a full-time job.
      Calling her a "house mom" is just creepy though.

    • @thatcutenerdgirl6090
      @thatcutenerdgirl6090 Před 3 lety +3

      Heather Rigg AGREED

    • @ontheinternetnooneknowsyou2764
      @ontheinternetnooneknowsyou2764 Před 3 lety +12

      I was looking for a comment like this...as a physician myself, I hate having to give up my limited free time for house work. When I have kids and a bigger home, I’m going to need help. But calling her a house “mom” does seem weird of him.

    • @CassTeaElle
      @CassTeaElle Před 3 lety +6

      I agree, there's nothing wrong with it. And personally, I thought it was kind of sweet that he calls her that. I'm a housekeeper myself, and what that woman is doing is way above and beyond what a housekeeper normally does. Him having a special name for her, to me, seems like a sign of respect and that she means more to him than just being the random person who comes over to clean his house for him.

  • @thecoolertaylor
    @thecoolertaylor Před 3 lety +13

    That guy Marcus was on one of the worst seasons of Survivor, Gabon. He didn’t even make it to the merge. Even in 2008 he was my (second. Sugar sucks) least favorite member of the cast, and Survivor fans know how much of a train wreck the cast was that season.

  • @DatBrasss
    @DatBrasss Před 3 lety +24

    Dating Show Concept: Non-Ren Fair people spend an entire summer going between different renaissance fairs while doing the typical bachelor/bachelorette thing. Call it "My Fair Lady" or something.
    I just want to see these people stupefied by Ren Fair culture tbh.

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 Před 3 lety +2

      Most of the guys would be too distracted by swordfighting to make the show work.

  • @Reyairia
    @Reyairia Před 3 lety +28

    he probably could have gotten away with the "house mom" thing if he had just called her what she is: a butler

  • @MsRabblerouser
    @MsRabblerouser Před 3 lety +48

    Ok my reality show idea isn't a dating show, but I want a show where you do Great British Bake Off and keep everything exactly the same, except replace the contestants with Americans who don't know how to bake. Imagine it. Paul Hollywood says "I want you to make a three-layered Battenburg" but it's normal people so they're like "a what???" And no Nailed It is NOT the same thing. I want the gravitas of the Great British Bake Off with the international culinary skills of someone who hasn't left Delaware.

    • @jess9722
      @jess9722 Před 3 lety +3

      they have a show called worst bakers in america which is a spinoff of worst cooks in america. the only downside its a very americanized show, so its not subtle and calm like the great british bake off. both are available on hulu.

  • @Maria_745
    @Maria_745 Před 3 lety +20

    The way he said "house mother" makes me think she lives with him and that's definitely more unusual than a single guy hiring a housekeeper

  • @katiey9869
    @katiey9869 Před 3 lety +24

    .....we love an Amanda follow up

  • @mokono5331
    @mokono5331 Před 3 lety +12

    I mean I would get a nanny tbh, especially with depression and easily forgetting to take care of myself, it wouldn't be a bad idea

    • @camille1324
      @camille1324 Před 3 lety +10

      Yeah I mean at least call them a housekeeper lol

  • @meganchambers8108
    @meganchambers8108 Před 3 lety +37

    Also weird that he put "Labor of Love S1" as if there is every gonna be a season 2 😹

  • @robertmangrum1748
    @robertmangrum1748 Před 3 lety +19

    The divorced parent trauma hit hard in this video 😳😳😳 I definitely don't think about not wanted to get married out of fear for mixing families. Not at all. No

  • @rascal342
    @rascal342 Před 3 lety +17

    Reality dating show idea: Love’s A Little Bit Funny
    It’s The Bachelor but all the contestants are amateur comedians.

  • @francisquerin-laporte8833
    @francisquerin-laporte8833 Před 3 lety +22

    Dating show idea to create the most possible drama : 6 couples join but are never revealed to anyone (including the audience) and the goal for the participants are to match people with who they already are with. Couples get voted off in pairs and the last 2 people standing split the prize money.
    Every time people are voted off, we get to know if they were actually a couple and if they weren't, money is subtracted from the prize pool as an incentive to properly identify couples and not just push people out.
    Since drama is what get views and since the contestants all want the win the cash prize, they're going to try to act the same way towards everyone (flirty for even more drama). They'll probably also start scheming with their SO to get people kicked off, but any amount of collaboration might be seen to the others as a sign of them being together.
    Everything is going to turn around and blow up in people's faces when couples with insecurities with start doubting their own partner's loyalty. Furthermore, having the producers intentionally pair people together for activities might make people dislike their partner or fall for someone else, creating even more drama.

  • @trumanderee2366
    @trumanderee2366 Před 3 lety +6

    My pitch: a season of the Batchelor/Batchelorette where every single contestant is a former Batchelor/Batchelorette whose relationship didn't last

  • @Emnms68
    @Emnms68 Před 3 lety +28

    My mom watched the show and I watched the hometown visit episode with her. I laughed so hard at “house mother.” He’s an actual man-child. I’m just glad she saw through that and was like “I’m not going to be your mother, bye.”

  • @Skullkiddawn
    @Skullkiddawn Před 3 lety +26

    I think you should review the old FOX show, The Swan, where they gave two women each week their dream plastic surgeries then pit them against each other to win a spot in the en season beauty pageant.

    • @sugarbaby1974
      @sugarbaby1974 Před 3 lety +6

      OMG, I'd blocked that show out of my mind, it was so gross.... :(

    • @user-sf4fy8bq1h
      @user-sf4fy8bq1h Před 2 lety +3

      Holy shit that's even more misogynistically dystopian than wife swap

  • @jeneraljen
    @jeneraljen Před 3 lety +9

    the one channel i don’t skip ads for

  • @SusanSnapDragon
    @SusanSnapDragon Před 3 lety +3

    As a demi-ace woman...I would do none of these these shows. It took me eight months to become sexually attracted to my boyfriend, and that was eight months into DATING him. It would not work for someone like me at all.

  • @reginarodriguez1477
    @reginarodriguez1477 Před 3 lety +33

    This show was so weird
    I enjoyed almost every second of it

  • @izzyfarmer2500
    @izzyfarmer2500 Před 3 lety +18

    I’ve been waiting for this!

  • @AmberHeidi
    @AmberHeidi Před 3 lety +12

    Follow ups are great! I like that we get a conclusion

  • @jenniferarmstrong8879
    @jenniferarmstrong8879 Před 3 lety +3

    Can we get a video on the women who realized they were into other women while on reality dating show?

  • @nealty99
    @nealty99 Před 3 lety +14

    I find it funny how I just rewatched the last video on this while I was eating, and as soon as I was done I get the notification for this video.

  • @meganchambers8108
    @meganchambers8108 Před 3 lety +17

    "I'm gonna adopt.." lol girl I feel you

  • @blane2472
    @blane2472 Před 3 lety +7

    Ah, I guess I've just found the second worst thing after a momma's boy... a nanny's boy.

  • @mr.waffles8739
    @mr.waffles8739 Před 3 lety +7

    I'd never do a dating show, I'd get too attached, then kicked off lol
    Dating show idea: all the contestants are artist and the challenges would be cool art related ones, maybe the first is they meet the girl talk to her for a few mintues, then they do a portrait from memory
    They could do art challenges with different materials, like pencils that have different colored erasers, so they stab the canvas with the pencil and make a picture out of the erasers, stiff like that

    • @Te3time
      @Te3time Před 3 lety

      so you choose a partner based on how good of an artist they are? wtf

    • @mr.waffles8739
      @mr.waffles8739 Před 3 lety

      @@Te3time is that really better than any other "reality" dating show?

  • @drewjay8940
    @drewjay8940 Před 2 lety +1

    Undercover Soulmate: force a bunch of people to work together and encourage them to be romantic with each other, but no one knows who's voting people off. Part Undercover Boss, part Werewolf, part Dating Show. Added bonus, to cover up who the lead is it would have to be either all bi contestants or single-gender mlm/wlw

  • @anthonyramirez7272
    @anthonyramirez7272 Před 3 lety +5

    Poor Stewart. I didn’t watch the show; but, I feel bad for him

  • @nicoledenel
    @nicoledenel Před 3 lety +4

    I remember that the only season of the Bachelorette that I watched was season 1 and I was rooting for the guy that won from beginning to end and years later saw that they were still together... now I need to research if that hasn't changed 🤞🏼🤞🏼
    EDIT: Tristan and Ryan! And they're still together 😭😭😭

  • @GamingtheOtter
    @GamingtheOtter Před 3 lety +20

    Wait your a Scorpio?!? I'm a Scorpio too!!!

  • @xsteveconwayx
    @xsteveconwayx Před 3 lety +1

    Matt Stryker! Former WWE wrestler/commentator. He was an awesome commentator. He was also a NY school teacher that got fired after taking a sick day to go wrestle at an independent event, it made national news, and WWE hired him. He was an awesome wrestling bad guy. He also had multiple action figures. How many dating show contestants can say they had their own action figures on the shelves of Toys R Us, Walmart, and Target?

  • @LovelessYayaoi
    @LovelessYayaoi Před 3 lety +2

    Also thank you SO much for mentioning Leon's video in the description... I've been trying to remember his channel name for months and had absolutely no luck 😫

  • @Lastlineshow
    @Lastlineshow Před 3 lety +13

    I had/have no interest in the actual show however I will Literally watch any video of you talking about this show. Your frustration with why she picked Kyle over Stewart is hilarious and from what you've said/shown it really doesn't make sense. Great vid.

  • @bellesmith8925
    @bellesmith8925 Před 3 lety +9

    Hey, if I could afford a house mom, I would 100% have one!

  • @jonathanbowers8964
    @jonathanbowers8964 Před 3 lety +2

    My idea is "Marrying Mr. Darcy" as love island meets regency England. All of the contestants have to live as Regency England characters, following the strict social rules of the time period and have to "find love" by the end of the season or be labeled as old maids.

    • @user-sf4fy8bq1h
      @user-sf4fy8bq1h Před 2 lety

      yikes Yikes YIKES

    • @user-sf4fy8bq1h
      @user-sf4fy8bq1h Před 2 lety

      We have enough racism, misogyny, and queerphobia in the modern day, we don't need to rewind the clock by a century 😵

    • @jonathanbowers8964
      @jonathanbowers8964 Před rokem

      Note that I am imagining "Bridgertoning" this up (taking out some of the more problematic elements that are unnecessary for the narrative). The whole point is to show how rough the past was on a sarcastic and creative way.
      Obviously every contestant will be able to return to the real world afterwards and is fully aware of the weird contrivances of the show that keep it going.
      Given the popularity of Bridgerton (and period dramas in general), this could totally work as a show.

  • @avakaul5345
    @avakaul5345 Před 3 lety +4

    Reality dating show idea: lock a buch of people in a house together and let them do bachelor like stuff under quarentine constrictions: romantic dinners in suitable distance in front of a greenscreen showing the Eiffel tower, exiting skydiving dates using vr goggles and deep romantic talks while seperated by a plastik wall. And if the chemestry is really on, they can go to the supermarket together or something...

  • @notcesr7136
    @notcesr7136 Před 3 lety +1

    Her not picking Stewart at the end was easily top 10 anime betrayals

  • @linnyroro3177
    @linnyroro3177 Před 3 lety +2

    im a married mom of 2 and I want to know if Marcus will send his "house mom" over here to clean my house and cook a few meals please. im on complete burn out from these kids being home all the time, teen boys are absolutely the worst animals on this earth and I also have a 45 yr old husband and I can 100% understand a grown man needing a house mom because trust me these 3 fools that live here with me need some extra help because they have just burned me out completely!!

    • @kimberlymarino7344
      @kimberlymarino7344 Před 3 lety

      I hear you! I don't have a man baby anymore but I have the teens. I'd love a house mom. What grown man says that put loud and not hear how bad it sounds? Is that really where we have landed? Grown people having nannies? My sons can take care if themselves. They choose not to as I'm the house mom but I would feel like I failed as a mom if my 39yr old son hired a Nannie for himself!

  • @GamerJules_
    @GamerJules_ Před 3 lety +1

    I truly enjoy watching Amanda's thought process, with all the interjected thoughts and comments.

  • @trent.vs.robots
    @trent.vs.robots Před 3 lety +1

    So I went back and watched the episode where you watched the first episode. I'm glad I did, as you gave us this gem.
    "I love reality tv, I do, You guys know I’m nosey, and reality tv gives me a different glimpse into messy peoples lives” - Amanda

  • @elyseforcier8742
    @elyseforcier8742 Před 3 lety

    love the editing on this one!

  • @whoopsiedoodle.26
    @whoopsiedoodle.26 Před 3 lety +3

    I actually wanted you to make this and was wondering about it like a week and a half ago

  • @asian6oy
    @asian6oy Před 3 lety +7

    Love watching Amanda's videos even though it's 1 in the morning where I am 😂💙

  • @h.ar.2937
    @h.ar.2937 Před 3 lety

    I paused the video because I couldn't resist saying that I love you and your videos

  • @kthomp38
    @kthomp38 Před 3 lety

    I just love your videos! This show sounds totally bonkers!

  • @PlagueBunny
    @PlagueBunny Před 3 lety +4

    Matt: “I don’t like this.”
    Christie: 👁👄👁

  • @SuperLegoman345
    @SuperLegoman345 Před 3 lety

    I really liked your explanation of the reality show bubbles and how they affect behaviors/emotions because most CZcamsrs who react to reality tv are just like “wtf why are they acting like this” and I totally agree with them but like the info you gave really put it in perspective!

  • @feerow
    @feerow Před 3 lety

    You're an 11 to me! I really enjoy your insights and your sales background shows, keep up the great work Amanda!

  • @Briisneat
    @Briisneat Před 3 lety

    I was waiting for this.

  • @GrizzlyMovieReviews
    @GrizzlyMovieReviews Před 3 lety

    Yay!!! New Swell video!

  • @sunflower-bh4df
    @sunflower-bh4df Před 3 lety +6

    I love the intro btw....

  • @estherbunny7069
    @estherbunny7069 Před 3 lety +15

    Why do you always post right before I have a zoom call 😭😭😭 now I have to wait an hour before I can finish this video 🤧🤧🤧

  • @Alsyoutubeaccount
    @Alsyoutubeaccount Před 3 lety +3

    I actually thought Kyle looks like he’s showing genuine emotion when Christie is crying. He’s blinking a lot from his eyes watering, his face muscles tense a bit and he does a hard swallow. he’s trying to be her rock. (Or at least doing a good acting job)

  • @jaelk
    @jaelk Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this follow-up because after your first video I started watching this show and became minorly obsessed with it. Relieved for Kristy that she didn't have a baby with an Adam Driver look alike she met on a reality show. Also Stewart is a king and deserved better

  • @kackie
    @kackie Před 3 lety +2

    “I’m also a Scorpio.” The only sign more self aware than my home sign of Aries 😂

  • @annastephens581
    @annastephens581 Před 3 lety +5

    I really want to see a "second chance at love" dating show. I want to see an older (like 50-65 yo) widow, widowers, or perpetually single person as the lead. Imagine a 60 year old widower dating a group of single 45-60 year olds. I would watch!!!

  • @ThatWeirdFinn
    @ThatWeirdFinn Před 3 lety +6

    Semi relevant info of the day: baby in Finnish is "vauva". You're welcome.

    • @user-sf4fy8bq1h
      @user-sf4fy8bq1h Před 2 lety

      Is this pronounced the same way I'd pronounce “vulva” with a mouth full of ice cubes?

  • @soul6299
    @soul6299 Před 3 lety +2

    I totally agree with almost all of your commentary regarding the show, but I just wanted to make a small side note about you mentioning that Kyle doesn’t emote and how that’s a weird or potentially negative thing. My boyfriend is autistic and he very often has a flat affect (he doesn’t emote a whole lot, like, at all), however he’s very supportive and he offers a lot of physical affection and touch when I’m upset because he knows it comforts me and that he can’t really offer comfort in the form of an emotional response or facially emoting. It might be an ‘on the spectrum‘ thing for Kyle, it very well might not be, I just wanted to point out that sometimes when someone isn’t emoting it’s not a negative thing or a toxic masculinity thing, it’s just because they’re on the spectrum.
    Love your channel! :)

  • @LivingWaterStudio
    @LivingWaterStudio Před 3 lety +5

    Ayyyye another scorpio !

  • @crispyg1998
    @crispyg1998 Před 3 lety +6

    Georgia is romantic as hell. We can peach pick at the orchard then go to the Waffle House.

  • @magicmike191v2
    @magicmike191v2 Před 3 lety +2

    I know I saw the first part but I have no memory of former WWE wrestler Matt Striker being on the show, so I was so shocked to see him