Kaley Cuoco's Bizarre Fat Suit Movie
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I can’t begin to tell you the number of times that I’ve forged what seemed like a really close friendship with someone and then found out that s/he was wearing a fat suit the whole time. It’s not really surprising anymore, but I’d be lying if I said that it’s not disappointing.
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hate when that happens
😂🤣😅
i mean, people are buying butt pads. anything is possible.
Wait…. So the lizard neighbor was in a suit? 😮
The most unbelievable part is $10k being enough for college.
Surely not in USA 😅
No, that amount could definitely be the difference between going to college or not. I don't know where people get this idea that college is a six figure expense. 10k would cover a good chunk of her living expenses, and she'll probably have tuition free unless she's going to some private university. Along with a part-time job and grants, maybe a small loan, it's totally reasonable.
@@kita9868 buddy, there are community colleges that were a thousand dollars a semester for just taking your four classes in the semester TEN YEARS AGO. Without living expenses, books, etc etc etc. what the fuck are you smoking?
@@kita9868 10k + a part time job + grant + a small loan (maybe) ??😂 also idk anywhere, save Germany and Scandinavian countries, that give out free higher education
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The fact that they completely glossed over the fact that if Ally doesn't have an eating disorder at the beginning of the movie, she was definitely borderline....
EDs were kind of considered "good" back then.
yeah, that's a case where there could be such a daughter-mother dynamic honestly
I guess it'd make it too complicated seeing how the movie was already convoluted. @@Turtletoots3
Oh my gosh that's true😮. Her active lifestyle and young age can absolutely handle eating a slice of cake.
the "fat called, it wants your hat back" is actually pretty accurate to something a real preteen would say. director def let that kid adlib and i'm here for it
When, in the 1950s? I've never heard anyone who wasn't at least middle-aged do those weird boomerish "X called, wants Y back" remarks
@@DaveGreanthe 90s. The children of boomers repeating stuff they heard.
Lol such a lame line but Jaime's phone immediately ringing when it cut to her 😂, that turned it into comedy gold
The audacity to criticise Aunt Hilda’s diet.. Can’t a witch EAT?!
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@@jessbarrett698 SALEM!
Lol right?
I came to say the same thing, Aunt Hilda deserves better
THE AUDACITY
She went into filming the documentary saying that she was going to prove that fat people only felt bad because of negative outlooks, then seemingly learned that they really were treated poorly no matter how cheerful and friendly they acted... and then at the end her conclusion was that it's all a matter of attitude? I astral projected from rage.
"I astral projected from rage"
Stealing this
fat people are by all metrics a marginalized group. They have poorer healthcare, stigma, judgement and abuse from strangers, are endlessly mocked and face challenges in employment. Yet because we believe that fatness is a self inflicted "illness" that can be overcome by force of will all that is considered acceptable, and even permissible under the delusion it's "for their own good" its absolutely gross.
WHY DOES THIS SOUND LIKE THE FAT EQUIVALENT OF BRUNO ON BLACK WHITE I'M FUCKING DEAD SKDKFK
Wait, was that the conclusion of the actual documentary??? 💀💀💀
SAME
I grew up with a mom that continually cried in her closet for hours before we left the house. Because nothing fit right. She would diet fad diet then binge and cry for days. I told her when i was little if she lost weight she wouldn’t be as cuddly and it would upset me (i got my genes from my dad) bean pole, bambi leggs and not the good kind. So when my friends used to say they didn’t know why I was so kind or thought they were beautiful, they also said I just didn’t get it. Then out of their insecurities when we would have friend scabbles they would say im skinny and ugly like a witch and would say “aren’t u just gonna call me fat, u know i am” They never knew how honestly truamatic it was as a kid to see your mom so devastated about her own body, I hated how much my mom couldn’t see how beautiful she was and she would just pick on herself. Im glad society is a little better with some stuff but i feel fat phobic comments are still not shunned no one cares.
I love that you love your mom that much!
My daughters all see me as beautiful. I try but I just truly cannot because of 13 years of every kind of abuse. EVERY KIND.
I see myself in a mirror and it’s a chore for me to not say something disparaging.
So keep it up with loving your mom and seeing her as beautiful. She probably loves hearing it because of all the negativity she hears.
I would give anything to be called too thin. It’s the only thing I’ve ever wanted
The pain in the psychologist's voice when she's talking about family verbal abuse and how much worse that kind of psychological torture is....... That got me 😢
I didn’t date until I was 26 because of my mother. I spent my whole life hating myself and believing that there was no way anyone would find me attractive. When I told her I was going on my first date and the first thing she said was “has he seen a picture of you? I don’t want you to be upset when he sees you and changes his mind”
She told me by boyfriend probably had a fat fetish and that was why he was so attracted to me. She was bigger than me and had been my whole life. She hated herself so much, she made sure I hated myself too
Gosh I'm so sorry you went through that!!
She does not sound like a good person! Hope you're OK and feel good in your skin now ❤️
That is so super sad, I'm so sorry that your mother projected her bs onto you. It's not right at all. I hope you're well loved and treated kindly now. You deserved better than that ((hugs))
My mother was like that too, always talking sh!t about mine and my sister's weight and the even more F'd up thing was she tried to keep us that way if we started losing weight. It was very toxic.
That’s awful 😞. I’m sorry you went through that traumatic experience. I hope you’re loved and valued. ❤
I am sorry you had to endure that, that sounds like an awful thing to have to overcome. I had a pretty toxic relationship with my mom growing up as well, where her hatred of her body started to echo onto me and now she's skinnier than me, but still makes comments about getting skinnier and being too big. I think she tries to be better with that now, by making efforts that I can see, but she does slip up and it's very triggering.. especially when it's about my body :/ I hope you are doing so much better because your mother's comments and statements will never be true to who you are.
The “DARN IT” voice in the background when she’s cleaning out her locker was killing me 😂😂😂
I just about DIED when I got that part hahahahah
I was cracking up at this pretty hard too
I was crying!!!
I screamed lmaoooo. It’s like they got confused and just used every single ADR take she did for that scene 😭😂😩
I know right lol
It's very refreshing that they didn't have Ramona forgive her at the end and just let that end badly, good for Ms. Ramona!
I’m glad they didn’t explain “why” Ramona became overweight… no bully CARES why you carry excess weight and no matter what the reason is, you can’t wear the reasons on your forehead. People look at you and decide who you are, and that you are someone unworthy and that is enough to know. Some people DO hate exercise and it’s their right to. The point is you shouldn’t need some sympathetic, medical explanation for your existence.
"only fatties eat" LMAOOOOOO how i felt growing up in the early 2000s
The 2000s were tough on anyone who wasn't a size zero...some of those low rise pants barely covered your hoo ha!
SAME!!
Hard same 😭😭
Startin to feel that way again tbh SIGHHH I’m tired of society
same
Did the main character even connect that she was someone who shamed people for their weight?! She stands at that party asking “why?” and it’s a question she needed to ask herself…
Right!? 🤣 Like the opposite of Cady's speech at the end of Mean Girls.
Exactly! So clueless!
She did, that's the whole plot, she asking herself why she hated her mom and why was she so afraid of being fat
I watched the original documentary and oof - tons of early 2000's fatphobia there. Fatness is treated as a mental illness and medical issue even though folks are outwardly sympathetic to the cruelty the kids are experiencing. It's this bizarre world of "you shouldn't be treated like this- so let's fix you so that stops happening :) " rather than full stop saying "you shouldn't be treated like this".
Eh. As a current fat person, I can tell you that mental illness is a pretty accurate description. Maybe it's not that direct, but it's definitely part of it. Being fat is not healthy, physically or mentally, and it should be treated as something that needs to be fixed. Not in a cruel way, mind you, but it's not something to be embraced.
That's kind of like when people approach sexual harassment by saying "you shouldn't be treated like this - so let's make you dress more modestly or not wear makeup or whatever."
Like, let's address the real problem: the people who don't know how to treat other people with respect.
That movie made me cry so hard when it came out. I was teen in the 90s and there were no plus sized clothes that were remotely cute. It was all baggy shirts, leggings and clown clothes. High school was so hard. Some boys would chant "boom bomba boom bomba ' as I walked by. They also made back up beeps when I walked around. It was torture every day. Puberty and undiagnosed PCOS caused as me to gain weight as well being sick all the time because of Celiac, also undiagnosed. I'm in my 40s now and still fat but far more comfortable in my own skin.
So, not only did they put her in a fat suit, she's in a fat suit and.... GLASSES! 😲
The only thing that missing is ponytail 😂
Lmao seriously
“Not the glasses!!!”
Uh what an Uggo. 😆
“NOT….glasses.”
Didn't Tyra also put on a fat suit to see how differently she'd be treated? The fat suit industry was really having a ✨moment✨ back then
She did!!! That was my first thought when I saw she was reviewing this movie. Lol. The fat suits sold out that year!
I think Olivia Munn did it too once upon a time
Tyra Banks? 😂 I never heard about this
don’t forget gwenth paltrow
@@strawberryjam7902ok but i unironically loved shallow hal as an 11 year old.
As a very "thick" chick that used to be super skinny, I can definitely relate to the different ways people treat you. Never got included in any moms groups, people pushing you, torment from family members. I don't think any movie can ever really portray what is like. There is so much torment in every phase of life it would be a really really long movie.
The family members! Is it even a holiday meal if a relative doesn't talk to you about weight watchers or whatever diet is in right now?
well after having children some moms never return to their original weight
I’ve been regular and fat. No one bullies me or has ever said a thing. I honestly can’t believe anyone is doing this. Especially considering how fat America is.
Was bullied throughout school for being fat but tbh the way the daughter is treating her mother is what’s disturbing me the most about this
Fr, im ready to throw hands if anyone even looks at my mom sideways
As a fat girl in the late 90s. It was brutal. I was teased mercilessly. People put gum in my hair and pushed me off the school bus and broke my leg There wasn't stylish clothes to wear like there is now
Yep, I wasn’t overweight but if you were any kind of different people treated you badly.
That’s next level. Like, lawsuit level. I’m so sorry you went through that.
JEEZ...broke your leg?! The fuck?? I was a little chubby in middle school before I hit puberty, and I did get food items, both empty and not empty, thrown at me, and called names. One kid smashed his books on my head when I was sitting on the floor at my locker once. I learned that if I verbally attacked those people about things THEY were insecure about, they'd leave me alone. It wasn't the best lesson to learn...😅
@@DoctorSib it was the same week Nancy kerrigan got clubbed in the leg. I felt some kin ship with her lol
I wonder what becomes of vile children like those who bullied you. I really don’t see a creature that vile at that young an age becoming good people as adults but what do I know. Either way I am so sorry you went through that and I hope you are living a happy and fulfilled life.
I remember watching this movie as an overweight 16 year old. The ending where she asks her bf if he would still like her if she gained weight and he says no, crushed me.
My very first boyfriend at 16 was a very sought after pretty boy. He fell in love with me at my heaviest. He airways told me how beautiful I was. I then lost a bunch of weight over time. He told me I looked good to make me feel good but he always thought I looked good. Fast forward to being an adult: I asked my son's father what would he do if I got really fat. He said: You'll always be pretty and I love you because your personality, in fact, you could be a bit thicker. Bruh, what? Goes to show. They will always love you if that's how they feel. Don't ask these questions. The questions are more like: do I like how my health is? What can I do? Or don't. It's up to me to like me. ❤️
I would have broken up with him. If he really loved you, he'd be with you either way
@@crystallynette0723 if you love someone, you'll cars about being attractive to them
The way you think being pushed on me pressures me into accepting to stay with someone I couldn't even lubricate with
People are allowed to have physical tastes. Someone who loves you will talk about it and allow time, but they are allowed to not want to stay with someone they aren't attracted to and have a right to not be attracted to everything
@rose-marie paradis but it is rude to love someone and then they put on some weight and all of the sudden you don't love them anymore. Just fucked up. I loved you before but now you're fat I don't.
@@xcheshirecat it's OK to have a physical taste and a preference because chemistry is important but being an asshole is unnecessary, it's a very nuanced and two-sided subject because you can't expect somebody to lose or gain weight or change their self for somebody to have love, just as much as you shouldn't expect somebody to force themselves to love someone without chemistry.
Not sure if anyone answered this, but her behavior toward her mother was very relatable to me. My teenaged daughter was very much like this. I have met other moms who suffered but it is rarely addressed. It’s very taboo and usually just ends with moms being attacked for even talking about it.
I'm sorry that you've experienced this. I wonder if it was difficult for you to stand up for yourself in a loving, yet firm way because of your own insecurities? Was there anyone else in the house who talked to you that way? Wishing you healing.
I'm not here to defend your daughter or make assumptions. But maybe my story could give a perspective. I used to resent my mother (still do but I hide it better) because I watched her physical and mental health deteriorate over the years due to her lifestyle choices. It ultimately stemmed from fear of her suffering or even me losing her. In the beginning I was still supportive and cheerful whenever she began a new therapy/diet/exercise routine/attempt to become sober. But as she always fell back into old habits, I became harsh, cynical and patronizing. I realised in the end that my behaviour doesn't make anything better and I am on a journey to accept her as she is and make peace. Maybe your daughter's past behaviour was also rooted in concern rather than the hatred it expressed itself as.
if a kid hate their parents it's always the parents' fault somehow. kids are "built" to love their parents unless they give their children a reason not to
@@ingupinFear of your parent suffering or even dying can definitely manifest as anger. Even when it's something they have no control over. As a child/teenager, I used to feel angry with my mum when she had migraines. I knew, of course, that it was an irrational response. I knew that she wasn't choosing to be ill. But that's just how I felt (I didn't act on it and say anything mean to her, but I felt it keenly).
In my adult life, I know that when I feel anger, it's often actually fear and insecurity.
Gwyneth Paltro literally did this while filming Shallow Hal. She went out in public dressed as her character and was all, “no one looks at me, I’m being treated so different, it hurts to be fat.” And I feel like Lifetime saw that and went, “we can make an entire movie out of this side-content.”
Right. Shallow Hal had a much better message in my opinion too.
I hated that movie. Her interviews of the time are horrible.
@@AnaReczek Oh I completely agree
That movie didn't aged well. It could had been better on some parts
Gwyneth aged up as a weirdo. She lucky her fictional counterpart married Tony stark.
@@cherryblossom7120 That movie is over 20 years old now - Most movies don't age well with attitudes towards things changing, vocabulary changing, acceptable language and humour etc (I watched Superbad the other day and cringed at the use of the word "gay" as an insult and the F slur as a homophobic insult - That wouldn't fly as well now especially aimed at the audience age range that film is aimed at) But that aside Shallow Hal did have a good message - That beauty is only skin deep and that we should love and appreciate (whether that be romantically or in a platonic way) people for *who they are* not what they are or how they look - and that is a message that holds up even today, 20 odd years later... Even if the movie was crass and incredibly clumsy in places.
I think now more than ever with the rise of social media where so much emphasis is put on looks and looks alone that message is just as important if not even more so!
Is anyone else genuinely appalled that someone made fun of Jaime by putting on a fat suit? Like....no person deserves that, least of all Jaime!
I couldn't find the pic i guess he deleted it
Wow that really happened? Yeah that def pisses me off. Had to have been someone very immature and lacking life experience. Similar disgusting behavior was directed at "Wolfgang Van Halen", Eddie Van Halens son. Just like his REAL fans immediately shut that $hit down, so do Jaime's fans. She's a wonderful beautiful woman and we are NOT gonna be having that kind of BS here
Yeah kinda skipped over that. Jerk move.
I’ve been fat-shamed by my family since I was 160 pounds. After college, I gained more weight due to hormonal changes from meds and my family still fat-shamed me even more. Now, after taking meds to help my body balance insulin better, I have lost 9 pounds and all I hear is keep going.
That’s why I’m so grateful for my friends and my fiancé. They love me for who I am. My future hubby thinks I’m beautiful with a big belly. I’ve never been used to being loved as I am, but I’m grateful for it now. God has been good.
Screw the fat phobia. God made you beautiful as you are.
I worked with a 25 yr old girl who constantly put down her mom and her unsophisticated “mid-western” way of cooking. Apparently, everything her mom made, and everything her family ate, was fat-laden disgusting garbage. It certainly made me think a lot less of this ungrateful daughter.😕
I genuinely don't get that people are saying this. People called me anorexic, acted like dai was on drugs, were mean out of jealousy, my self proclaimed fat friend shamed me and also thought my life was just peachy keen because I was skinny. When I kept losing weight she was jealous. If you lose too much weight you die bro...
The “x like me” genre is so WILD to me because I can’t imagine being the kind of person who literally cannot empathize with other people unless they’re wearing that identity as a costume 💀 like you can’t just recognize that it’s bad to be cruel to fat people because they’re human, you have to experience it yourself??
I used to be a lot bigger and now I'm not. I had a pretty easy time of it as a bigger guy cause I was still strong etc. Always was able to laugh it off. Still had some long term effects I'm sure, but ya know.
I still do my best to be nice. Shouldn't think our own experiences are indicative of other people's. Being nice is not hard, and they mightn't be able to laugh it off in the same way. Some people are just douches
people are the same way about addiction, disease, disability, its insane, i think people are just stupid af
Well I can't speak to this particular iteration of it since it sounds like it missed the point entirely, but the original "Black Like Me" story WAS rooted in empathy. It wasn't that he couldn't see black people were treated badly, it was that he wanted to be able to tell a first hand account of what it's like to demonstrate to the people who clearly WEREN'T behaving empathetically. The point of the genre is empathy communicated to the non-empathetic, but attempting to tell a first-hand account because it demonstrates just how jarring a separation it is. That and gonzo journalism is always a very intriguing and compelling format. As far as I could tell from this review, Ali was NOT empathetic, thought she could prove the life experience was NOT different, and didn't communicate anything with anyone else about the lived experience of a fat person because she only witnessed name calling and another fat person with a candy stash.
@@Arionlappy lmao, that show "Black. White." Was a disaster tho what a train wreck
@@Arionlappy the entitlement of that concept is also why it was crap. There are millions of "first-hand accounts" of how black people are treated... from us... the black people.
I am 30 and I still remember the burning shame I felt at 14 when I went up to give a presentation in my Japanese class and the guy I had a crush on started *mooing*. I was, at that point, quite literally the most fit I had ever been in my life -- playing softball on three different teams, running 3.5 miles a day, weightlifting, etc -- but all anyone could see was that I was 5'3" and 180 pounds. I could have been 500 pounds and never exercised a day in my life and wouldn't have deserved that treatment of course, but it's one of those moments you look at in retrospect and think "Huh, they never were gonna respect me unless I was built like a model wow."
I’m so sorry that happened to you. At least you were cured of that crush. He definitely wouldn’t have deserved your affection
In high school one of the guys in my class had the other guys moo at me every time we changed classes. It went on for a week until I snapped and kicked him in the balls in history class.
No ragrets
That really sucks. I was constantly mooed at in my high school gym class and it was hell. Kids are so cruel. And very unoriginal. I hope you’re doing well and I hope that guy has learned basic human decency and respect since then.
Wow, what were you eating to stay that weight with all that exercising and metabolismof a teen? o:
@Larg04 don't know if ur joking or not (still shitty either way) but ppl have different metabolism levels and eating doesn't make you fat. Yes u can gain weight but it's mostly up to genetics/hormones/etc. Even the fittest and healthiest of teens can still be fat and there's nothing to suggest that it's bad long term.
I could listen to you all day long, Jaime. Yes, you are funny, but I also find your speaking voice super calming and relaxing.
I always think the same! If she makes an ASMR channel, she would slay
“Her name’s Jamie you big idiot,” made me laugh too hard because I too talk to myself like that sometimes 😂😂😂
Ally lowkey having an ED and enforcing it on her mom
Overeating is also an ED, and one that's far more common than anorexia. I mean just look at the fact that at least 50% of the US population is overweight or obese, which is because of disordered eating like binge eating etc, but we're not allowed to talk about it because you might hurt someone's feelings. Just listen to Jaime complaining about her doctors when it's literally their job to tell you if you're unhealthy or have unhealthy habits. She is at a very unhealthy weight but scoffs it off because telling the truth is "fatphobic".
@Sweaty Sweater There actually aren't that many reasons, in the vast majority of cases it's because people are taking in more calories than they are expending. Yes people with PCOS tend to get very bloated due to their condition but it doesn't automatically make them fat, having PCOS is a poor excuse to be fat. This is the problem with talking about this issue, bringing up simple facts immediately gets you labeled as as "fatshamer". Everyone deserves respect and love but that doesn't mean that everyone is healthy. Both can be true at the same time. I personally have some weight to lose and am still working on it, and while I could sit here and make plenty of (what others would consider) "legitimate" excuses, I'm not going to do that because I realize this is something I can change and that I can make better and healthier choices. So long story short, if your doctor advises you to lose weight then it's for a reason. *FYI perhaps complaining was the wrong word but she did make it seem like it was this horrible thing
@@wittysass3812 Jillian Michaels has PCOS.
@@wittysass3812 wow, it's almost like you have no idea what you're talking about. You clearly do t realise that many health issues said to be caused by being fat are actually what causes some overweight people to be overweight in the first place. Most people with PCOS are overweight because it causes issues with blood sugar, among other issues like the, I dunno, HUGE hormonal imbalance that means losing weight becomes next to impossible, no matter how many calories you eat. And no, just caloric intake isn't the issue. I gained 20lbs several years ago while weighing every bite I ate and keeping under 1200 calories and, for a month, under 800. That is when I gained the weight. Tell me how that's possible because according to know it all, I'm lying about that, but I lived it. 20lbs in 4 weeks on 800 calories and while doing HIIT 4-5 days a week and walking 10k steps a day. Some of that was water weight (enough that my legs had pitting oedema) and the rest was fat. My clothes no longer fit. I had to go up a size. I was eating clean and healthy food and not very much of it and gained weight. I finally lost it after a few years of a ketogenic diet. Guess how much I was testing then? 2500 calories almost every day....and I lost 50lbs and kept it off for a few years (until injury at the start of covid lock down and having to depend on carby eating again, because that's what was available, along with depression, and then I put it back on). So no, weight loss isn't always so cut and dry as "don't eat as much" for everyone...but bug mouth people like you don't understand that and keep fat shaming people, because yes, that's exactly what you're doing. Stop it.
@@wittysass3812 also, no, it isn't always the Dr's job to mention weight because many times it is irrelevant and many other times, that's all they see and attribute whatever issue the person is having to them being overweight. I went to a dermatologist for psoriasis I have developed, most likely triggered by extreme stress and a decade of ear infections (ear infections can actually trigger psoriasis). It took me over a year to get a derm appointment because of covid and put on weight in the mean time, due to the depression and injury I mentioned above....so weight was not my issue when the psoriasis occurred. When I finally got to see the derm, she said it was probably caused, or made worse, by my weight.....even though it literally had nothing to do with my weight. Likewise when a woman goes to see a Dr about something unrelated, like migraines or period pain or a broken hand, they will undoubtedly mention the person's weight. That is actually NOT their job. If you go to see someone about your weight, then they can mention it. If they have a condition that is actually made worse by weight, like diabetes or heart disease, then they can mention weight and, more importantly, how to help them become healthier and lower their risk of complications from those diseases.....but that's not where mention of weight is limited. It comes up at every appointment...and it shouldn't. We know we are fat. We don't need someone telling us we are fat, even if it is our doctor. Stfu
My experience being fat in highschool was mostly just REALLY lonely. No one really shamed me, but I was just... invisible. I had a couple mean comments, but I got lucky not being bullied. It felt like I was watching a movie everyday, but was never cast in the film ya know?
I hope you feel seen and valued now
@@hailbones6666 I do now. Thank you 💜🤍💜
This was my experience too. I literally felt invisible, and while I’m glad I wasn’t actively bullied as much as this movie portrays, it still hurts to feel that way. I lost 70 pounds in college and I was honestly astounded by how differently the world treated me as a thinner person. It was kind of heartbreaking.
I hear you and I hope things have changed now, sending hugs 🤗
Why do you assume it was avout your weight?
Ive always been super skinny and I was lonely af during my entire school life. I felt the exact same way... watching life go by while you never get to participate in anything
My mom is just like the mom in this movie. She's always worried about me not eating enough. If she sees me eating very healthy, she is worried I'm hungry. I'm 36 years old married and with 3 kids. She's been like this since I was a little girl. But we are Mexican, and all my aunts are just like her. 😂 It's a Mexican thing, I guess.
I work with Mexican people and I freaking love them! They do love to feed people 😆
My grandma was like that- she’s italian
In Italy too, especially south Italy! Lol
My fiancé is of Indian descent, and he and his whole family are like this 😂 I always leave any visit stuffed to the gills out of concern
Wow, when the boyfriend said he wouldn't like her if she was fat, damn. I was like "darn, girl, dump his ass".
I had a friend in college who forgot her book at home and we went to pick it up and her mom said she didn’t want to go outside to bring it to her because she was in her nightgown and my friend screamed on the phone “it’s not my fault your fat and embarrassed”. I literally almost shit my pants!! We weren’t friends for much longer after that
Honestly made me laugh. Rude, spoiled kids exist. Her poor mom.
Someone put on a fatsuit and pretended to be you?! What an absolute jerk. You didn’t deserve that meanness- you are awesome and wonderful and hilarious! Love you and your content!
I know, that shocked me and absolutely disgusted me. What the hell?
@@ElizabethAnnnn9311 I went on that guy’s Instagram page and searched for the picture and video of what she was referring to, and I couldn’t find it. I’m assuming he removed it? It looks like he transforms into lots of different celebrities. And honestly, it seems like he’s actually fairly talented. If he wanted to just do his makeup to look like her, that would be one thing. But to put on a fat suit? Unnecessary.
@@pirategirl9989 this guy was mad at her and threw a fit and this was his unhinged "revenge" on Jaime. He claimed she "stole" his tiny face makeup look and didnt give him credit, when in actuality she never even saw his. She had credited the makeup artist that she did get the idea from, but he inSISted Jaime must have stole it from him and proceeded to make an ass of himself by trying to shame her. It was embarrassing for him lol
Thank you so much friend. Iwas a few years back, hurtful at the time but hilarious now! What a douche 🤣 also I got a merch design from it.
Right?! I did the same thing. I went to look for it and I didn’t find it either. I want to forget a lot of the things I saw there 💀 But anyway! Whether he deleted or not, he’s still a big poo poo head.
When you were saying "how could you do anything with the fat rubber arm gloves," it made me think that they could have done an alternative bowling alley fat suit reveal where the fingers of the gloves get stuck in the bowling ball and as she throws it, the glove is pulled off her arm to flail down the lane attached to the ball haha
Okay, that's actually brilliant.
Aunt Hilda didn't deserve to be treated like that
Hi Jaime. My Boyfriend of 15 years passed last week and you really have helped lift my spirits. Thankyou.
I'm so sorry for your loss 🖤🖤🖤
Grief sucks sending whatever helps ❤ for me distractions and laughter helped too
this is my worst fear :'( im so sorry boo.. be gentle with yourself
I'm so sorry sweetheart
My condolences, I hope that you continue to stay strong through your grief. 💪😢
One of my favourite things about Tracy Turnblad from the movie Hairspray is that she never eats. Not in a "oh i better not" guilty kind of way, but just that she isn't hungry.
She's always constantly moving or dancing, and her body is a source of pride!
Also, her costume choice is this very blocky shape that accents her middle, and de-emphaizes any hourglass - stark contrast to the skinny characters all trying to get that 1950's aesthetic!
So she never eats but is somehow her size? That makes ZERO sense. Like the people on my 600 pound life that only eat 3 reasonable meals, a fruit snack and sometimes have a cheat day but can no longer leave the house. How does that type of delusion help anybody
Her outfits are the one thing I didn't like about her portrayal in Hairspray. Those 50s swing dresses are so flattering on so many body types, and a lot of fat women in real life look super cute in them, but they let all the thin characters wear them and put the fat girl in a blocky outfit. Maybe the intention was to highlight her size even more (whereas a swing dress might make her look thinner / more hourglass like you said) but it felt unfair that all the other characters got the cute dresses and she got the outfits that looked like a school uniform.
@@annaf4720 I totally see where you're coming from, and I used to agree, until I saw the Go-go dress she wears in the the final scene! The whole point of the movie is that it'a time to move forward to a brighter and more inclusive future. Every other character is trapped in the past. Putting her is the same fashion as everyone else - flattering or not - would weaken her visual distinctiveness!
In the original John Waters movie, there’s a scene where she’s piling mashed potatoes on her plate and her mother asks if she’s taking the diet pills she gave her. Tracy replies “I’m a growing teenager, I need food.” And Tracy eats a donut at Mr. Pinky’s (for sure the commercial, maybe the store too) and I think that’s it.
I didn’t like Zac Efron’s Link finding a candy bar under her pillow, it’s like they couldn’t help themselves and had to put it because fat people need their chocolate bars.
@@anabelle8784 i didn't realize there was a movie from the 60's - but i shouldn't be surprised!
Yeah, the 2000's version is not without it's flaws, and I totally agree about the chocolate bar. But otherwise Trac's character as an isolatwd person skips a lot of harmfup tropes.
As someone who has cptsd, I can say that it's often not logical but trauma doesn't affect that part of the brain. For example, my Dad and I get along better now for the most part but he treated me quite badly when I was growing up. Until a person processes traumatic events etc she will continue to have difficulty. So it all doesn't just go away because the family member changes for the better.
When I was a kid, I was always super slim and I was teased by my uncles calling me "stick" or "anorexic", I'm talking about me being 6, 7 , 8 years old. I didn't understand why so id eat more and this was after searching up words and their definitions. At age 8 I started getting a little belly and a friend who had a crush on me told me I should stop eating so much because I'd be ugly, I didn't realize it but all this led me to start sucking in my stomach and led to an eating disorder. I starved myself. Then I would binge eat. Then I'd be too thin and then I'd eat more and basically repeat the cycle.
It took years, YEARS, TO BE HAPPY WITH MYSELF. And still to this day I find myself sometimes looking in the mirror and shaming myself. I'm a work in progress. I think these thing stay with you, or at least with me but I tell myself "You look good. You're you." I give myself compliments and a little self love. But things like this stay with you. I'd never ever want my child to go through what I went through. I'd teach my kids self love, self care and not to give a flying fck about what anyone else thinks of them.
Love yourself. ❤️
Sometimes it easier said then done. I don't know who needs to hear this but you are beautiful, sexy, glamorous, unique and loved. Stay blessed.
I'm so sorry :( I only had brothers and they were praised for eating so much, so I made it a goal to eat as much as them (they were 4 years older than me, a 10/11 year old), when I reached that goal I was so proud (at 2 big plates full of food) my step brother said "well of course you can, you're a fuckin' fatty." And that was my spiral to ED. That and seeing the girls I babysat regularly say "oh you're so fat now".
It's awful :S
When you popped in saying “Her name is Jaime, ya big idiot” while your chair flies into the wall made me laugh so hard and it hurts to laugh right now but I still went back to see it again 😂
I laughed so hard at this part that I had to pause the video. Lol
lol that part got me too :P
Omg that part made me burst out laughing 😆 I watched this movie sooooooo long ago and reliving here was great and hilarious
I reached this comment as it happened 🤣 wonderful timing, universe, wonderful timing.
That part bout took me out 🤣
To be fair, you spend many years in your body learning its contours and measurements. That's how you can place yourself in relation to objects, avoid walls and furnishings, know where your body parts are in the dark.
The fat suit suddenly distorts the body map her brain had drawn by whole inches in each direction. So it's not strange that she bumps into things. (Also because her center of gravity probably shifted, so her balance is off.)
Yep. After I got my boob job, I was running into so many things and knocking things over. Took a while to get used to but it was shocking how difficult it was at first lol
that's actually very true. I gained quite a lot of weight in a short period of time due to some hormonal stuff, and I really did bump into stuff for some time...not a fun feeling at all
Based on these clips, though, the film seems to treat it as “Yup! Fat people be bumpin’ into sh*t!”
You’re putting more thought into this than the writers did 😂😂😂
@@poopface6006 I almost always put more thought into things than other people.
How she spoke to her mum broke my heart a little every single time.
Gosh I remember watching these when I was alone dying in the hospital from abuse/miscarriage I couldn't keep watching after I was discharged and it's been two years since I left that situation and I feel like myself again and I was scrolling mindlessly when this popped up and I just had to take a moment to express how greatful I am for your content when I was at a time where nothing made me happy let alone genuinely laugh and Its so weird what the brain will do to protect you Idk I didn't have anyone not even family or friends in the hospital no one to call except old dude and he was screaming about how ridiculous I was to ask him to come see me and all I had was your videos and it felt like you were the only person there for me to get me through that so if you ever see this I love you and thank you 💜
Had a doctor that hated fat people. Ended up changing doctors when he literally almost let me die cause he kept telling me my issues were because I was fat even though I told him the fat was from the actual issues and now my doctor is awesome. Love her and literally hope the doctor who almost let me die gets everything he deserves.
Me too!! No matter how sarcastic I answered her!
She said, have you tried dieting?
Um I'm a 40something chubster who grew up in America, have I ever tried a diet?
So I answered her " No, do they work?"
Her "yes, like using mustard instead of mayonnaise on your sandwich"
Me "Ooooh we better let all the overweight people know! The answer is this new idea called dieting"
Another time
Me "my back hurt"
Her " it's because you're so obese, if you lose weight it won't be as hard on your back"
Me "gosh I forgot that thin people never get back aches"
And finally
Me. "My stomach pain is intense and I'm vomiting"
She prescribes me an antacid
Me again " it hurts so bad I can't even eat I've lost 30lbs in the last month without trying"
Her "It's great you lost weight, I saw on your chart today, very good"
Me "I'm not trying to lose weight, it's because something's wrong with my stomach or something"
Her " well if you keep it up you'll feel a lot better I'm sure. You're doing great"
Same! My doctor was convinced that the numbness spreading through my lower extremities was due to a compressed nerve in my foot. Because I was fat. Spoiler alert, it was multiple sclerosis. I changed my doctor so fast.
@@Beannin f u to all the fat hating doctors!!!!! They have no repercussions for letting us die or worse, killing us
Ughhhh. I literally wrote on a piece of paper "STOP EATING!!" and taped it to the back of my bedroom door so I would see it every time I left my room for anything. I was maybe 14 at the time. What sparked it was I had a crush on someone and got rejected. Idk if it was cuz I was fat. But my brain had been so conditioned then that that was the only logical explaination.
When I was younger I wished I had a genie to poof myself to be super thin. I would have given anything. If I could instantly be thin and only live for ten years I'd have been okay with that.
I'm naturally bigger. Especially in elementary and middle school. I was so much taller than everyone else and a little chubby. It's just a genetic thing. And if sucked because it was a genetic thing there wasn't much I could do about it.
The most embarrassing thing was my frenemy went to ask out the "ugly guy" without my consent because she thought because we where both the "ugly people" in school we should "date". She did it when I was there and he straight up said I was disgusting and he'd never date me and some other things. I went and cried in the school bathroom.
Hope you're doing better now :) self love is such a hard thing especially when it starts effecting you when you're a kid. I still struggle alot but it's better.
I had a similar experience. I remember getting rejected by someone I didn't even really like that much and looking down at my 3rd grade thighs and thinking it was because I had fat thighs. 😭
Oh man, you sparked a memory to emerge from the depths. I would write, "DE" on my hand when I was little. If someone asked, I'd play it off like I was a secret Death Eater (HP times were weird, lol) but it really meant, "Don't Eat." Crazy how you treat yourself for being fat.
It makes me so happy that they didn't have Ramona forgive and forget. The one good thing about this dumpster fire 😂
Me too!!!
I love that you mentioned that this movie “has no lesson” because my only experience with this movie is watching it my 8th grade year in Health Class. 😅
I saw this movie and hated all the same things. You can tell it was written by people who have never been overweight.
The premise is weird to me because why does it take a skinny person to be made to feel bad to get people to be like “oh yeah, people DO really treat “fat” people like shit.” Um…yeah. Duh. Kinda like Tyra Banks pretending to be homeless (omg and she did a fat suit!!) just to come tell us “guys, yeah, it’s true, being homeless DOES suck and people treat you bad.” YEAH. DUH. Do we really need a skinny person or a rich person to validate the feelings of people who live this experience? I mean…apparently we do because people are still mean and shitty, but I just don’t get it 🙄
I guess I just don’t get the moral of the story or lesson to be learned here. I guess the point is to teach a lesson to the people perpetrating this kind of mistreatment but clearly…it hasn’t worked 😅
Which is ironic because tyra was a shitty person anyway so having her confirm what we already know but then not bother to learn from it is just 🙄
Unfortunately way less people are gonna watch a documentary following an actual regular fat or homeless person, having a well known celebrity go undercover is more interesting to people. Same reason why Hollywood movies mostly have a cast lineup of A-list actors that cost a boatload of money to hire instead of the lesser known but equally talented. Big names bring more views and money.
You made some excellent points about fat shaming. My daughter was a tiny skinny little girl until she got her period...enter hormones and PCOS. She would go on starvation diets and gain weight! Her doctors were so terrible to her...finally one decided to investigate for PCOS. With knowledge there is power, but that does not change fat shamers.
Thank you friend! 😊 😘💕💝
Your daughter's story is mine exactly. Except now I know I have pcos and it is still always a fight to get any Dr to help treat the pcos
It’s amazing how many doctors still deny PCOS is a thing. Just like your daughter I’d starve myself (and ppl would witness this) and still gain weight. I’m still struggling to figure out how to combat it, but it’s nice to know other ppl understand now
@@milkflavored I found weight training helped some. Also being on glucophage at 2000mg per day. Now I no longer have access to my prescribing Dr I am currently fighting with Drs for a script higher than 500mg per day (even though ideal standard treatment for pcos is 1500 - 2000mg per day)
@@heatherm8736 Thank you for that! I’ll keep it in mind. I need to schedule a doctors visit so Ill have a better idea of what I’m walking into
I was the same way in HS: Chronically underweight and 90 pounds until I finally hit puberty my junior year- then suddenly I was 135 practically overnight (a big deal on such a tiny frame, especially so suddenly; I'm only 5'1 and I was even smaller than that in HS); I dealt with a variety of Eating Disorders constantly after that ... Didn't finally get diagnosed with PCOS (which is a Lived Intersex Condition) until I was 26.
I cannot tell you how ground breaking I thought this movie was when it came out. As a far 8th grader I really thought this was top tier cinema. I thought this was going to change the world. People wouldn’t hate me anymore because of this movie. I wish I were exaggerating when I say I paid for it on iTunes and had it on my 5th gen iPod. I watched it regularly. Thanks for reminding me 😅😅
Back in the day, I loved this movie and Kaley Cuoco but there’s so many problems with this movie! The way she treated her mom so terribly is what stood out to me the most watching this movie. Im glad you called it out 😂
My ex was a very heavy girl at over 300lbs back when she was in her early 20s. She had a younger sis who was almost as heavy but more like 270ish. Her morbidly obese mother basically raised them on low fat this and that and constant focus on weight, weight loss, fad diets, etc etc. They would get into a LOT of arguments about it.
So what did her mom get as a reward for raising her daughters to be uber paranoid about getting fat? Well, she got 2 grossly obese adult daughters.
Some parents will simply never ever understand this dynamic. The more you badger a kid to be a certain way through paranoia, condescension and force, the more they'll become the total opposite.
So true
My asshole stepdad was a huge dick about me being fat even when I wasn't. Just going through puberty and stuff. I never weighed more than 110 lbs (at 4'10", that's a BMI of 23, so at risk of being overweight) during the first few years of it. I was like "fine, fucker. if i'm so fat, then I'm going to GET fat." and i did. ate nutella french toast every day for breakfast just to spite him. Got fat, then joined the military ASAP so I could get the fuck away from home. Was second to making top PT female at basic training and graduated at a healthy 108 lbs.
This happened to me. I was always big. Both fat and tall for my age. I was 5'4" in the 5th grade and weighed 180 lbs. I wasn't that fat for my height, but it didn't keep the comments or diets away. Now I'm 30 and weigh more than most scales will weigh, so I just say 400+. I would ride my bike for miles every day and it never helped me lose weight.
When they’re dumb. At one point you realize, the only one you’re punishing, is yourself.
This is so so true and resonates so much with me. My mum was skinny but it was basically the same dynamic and made me so paranoid over the years... even in the years I wasn't fat... probably just not thin enough for her.
" oh, if only that were true I would probably have a much different career", bruh,You're a very successful CZcamsr. Not to detract from any struggles but you are wildly gorgeous and people tune in specifically to listen to you because you are very insightful and have Funny things to say.
Yes!!!^^^
Her point being she had to make opportunities completely for herself.
Can we just appreciate how Jaime works with commercials during the video? I just love it.
I’ve experienced that dynamic 🙋♀️ After having 5 children and health problems my mom gained a lot of weight and since she was the one who basically solely raised all 5 kids she never had the time to look after herself. Im the youngest of the 5 and my sister before me was always embarrassed and I would go as far as to say hated my mom because of her weight. I remember my mom telling me about a time that my sister had a mommy daughter tea party at school and my sister didn’t tell my mom at first because she didn’t want my mom to go to school and embarrass her. Now that sister is obsessed with “staying fit” and is still super fat phobic. Idk if she even remembers or realizes how toxic she can be.
As a person that used to weigh about 80 lb more than I do now I can tell you for sure that everyone treats you so much differently when you are thin.
It breaks my heart someone has made a video to make fun of you Jaime! I guess I shouldn’t be surprised, the internet is a terrible place but I’m so sorry you experienced that. I love every single video you have ever put! Please know that many of your fans love you for exactly who you are! ❤
Same! Jaime is adorable, talented, funny, and beautiful - how could anyone be so nasty?!
STRONGLY AGREE
STOP IT 😭😂 when it switched to the fat suit makeover montage with that music I choked on my drink. Thank god you stopped it.. dear god 😂
I'm so glad you reviewed this and your review just makes me respect and like you more. The conversations going on in the comments are so important.
Every time I have had a serious medical issue, the doctors and surgeons always ask me if I've always been this fat. And when I went blind in my left eye due to high cerebral spinal fluid pressure they said was because I was a girl and I was fat. Darn it.
jfc that’s horrible. I’m so sorry.
Yeah the medical field is horrible with that :( I always get comments about my weight, while it's true that obseity leads to a lot of different medical issues, it's not the reason for *everything*.
Had to come out of the woodwork to comment on this. My daughter will be 27 next week and she’s getting married in May. Well when she was about 15 she told me I need to stop relaxing my hair and get in touch with my African roots. There is so much wrong with what she said because times were different and I was trying to keep a job and take care of her and her brother. She had the luxury of not having to chemically straighten her hair. I didn’t. I felt sooooo bad. A few years later I stopped relaxing but her mouth was something else. Teenagers. She hurt my feelings more than once. We’re besties now.
I never insulted my mom or told her what to do, but I was such an ass to her in high school, my younger sister even more so. I feel terrible that I treated her so badly as a teen 😭 her and I are super super close now
I feel guilty
Sometimes I’d tell my mom she should change certain things about herself
But it’s because I care for her and saw the potential she probably didn’t
If I knew a makeup look would make her look more appealing to someone other than her I’d let her know
She loves dark eyeliner and always has her hair up
She’s Italian
Loved the 80s goth vibe
Then again I feel like she had no sympathy for me growing up
One year she took my sister to the mall and bought her new shoes, cool clothes,
When I complained I didn’t get anything (I was tall and oddly shaped kind of chunky)
It was hard to shop for me. She took it upon herself to go to Kmart and buy me some old lady clothes that were 3 sizes too big
I was so embarrassed as a 7th grader at a new mostly black school (all the kids there dressed a lot cooler than me already)
-.-
Now I have my own daughter
Lord help me.
Entering the preteen stage with my daughter and it's a doozy. Hoping for that same light at the end of the tunnel.
It’s hard, teenagers don’t understand all the factors but she may have not been just not having a selfish lack of understanding
She may have been struggling with her own image and felt that it was harder to accept herself if she didnt see you managing your hair naturally and being proud of it
My sister in law struggled with this for years.
Especially since girls with natural hair are often feeling stigma and prejudice amongst the world where their peers may not understand he struggle of accepting and caring for your natural hair.
Ive hurt my mother and apologized, and I hurt ber in the worst ways making her feel financially unstable when she wasnt she just wasnt a list celebrity rich and now move forward in time my daghters done the same, you are right sometimes we do not know better. Im glad you and her havr made up.
I am currently at my heaviest weight after giving birth to my second child. It's crazy how invisible I am. One time at work this guy was talking to a woman sitting next to me and he literally never even glanced in my direction, even though he interrupted our conversation. It was the worst feeling, like I wasnt even worth his eye contact.
This might be my fave so far. I was invested early on. The softball correction every time had me rolling.
The saleswoman part got me. I wasn’t even “fat” but I guess I was plump because I was short and like 135 lbs. I was 21 and looking for a wedding dress at David’s Bridal. I asked for a size 8 and the sales associate looked me over and said “I’d look at the 10-12 size.”
😳 and yes she was snarky
*I ended up wearing a size 8. The $99 special for the least ugly 2000’s dress. Those were the days 😂
In all fairness they really want to sell alterations. They did the same to me. I was 5'7 and 130. 🤣 I was like nope bring me a smaller size and I felt it was almost a fight.
Had a bad experience at one and I got a size 6, I am 5’. I just asked if they had a wedding dress with sleeves. Ended up going to a different one and it was a lot better. They told me they heard terrible things from that specific David’s Bridal.
Wow, the nerve!!!
I had the same experience recently. I'm not fat or plump, but not skinny either and yet when I was trying on a jacket the saleswoman looked at the size label and said "oh, it's size M, too small for you, I mean I wear size M, YOU need like L". Just don't comment on ppl's bodies in general or compare how skinny you are in relation to others wtf.
I was 18, 5'2 and 95 pounds they tried to tell me I would be a size 12 also 😂😂. I have broad shoulders but come on man.
“Her names JAMIE you big idiot!” I nearly spat out my water 😂😂😂
"I don't have your hat, fat" took me tf out 💀 this whole video had me cackling
Missouri here, and when she mouthed off to her mom I literally winced waiting for the slap. The fact that it never came just had me holding my breath for longer.
I’m 30 years old and I have always hated my body. I have been working on loving myself and now I’m wearing clothes I would’ve never wore 2 years ago. I hate that we grew up thinking we had to be extremely skinny to be beautiful. But we are all beautiful 🥰
I am so happy you posted a video! After a long week this is what I needed. You da bomb 💖🤪😘
I hate my body too. I don’t want to hate it, I’m going to therapy. At my skinniest and fittest I was 110 pounds but I still had hip dips, no matter how much I dieted and exercised, they never went away. I learned recently that it’s genetic. Fuck 2000s beauty standards.
It is possible, it's hard, but it's possible, take it from a 41 year old transgender man that didn't start my transition until I was 39, and spent the years and years before that hating myself on two levels 1) my gender expression 2) my body image as an overweight female presenting person. It was hard, my mental health was a disaster. But I came to terms with who I am and did what made me healthy and happy not anyone else
That doesn't mean being thin, Eff that! It means loving yourself for you, if it's as tiny as "I make people laugh" or " I have a nice smile" healthy is not just lab results and physical in fact most of it is mental and emotional. I'm glad you know you're beautiful, you're right everyone is beautiful and meaningful in their own way, as I tell my step daughter a rainbow needs all the colors to be as pretty as it is ( she's 7 so this is a VERY simplified version of it(
The "at least I'm not like you" burn-format is SOOO powerful. I'm chronically unhoused and when I'm dealing with stigma online it can be really nice to fall back on "I'd literally rather be unhoused the rest of my life than ever end up harboring the kind of fear and hatred you have in your heart" or similar. As my family like to say, "I wept because I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no class!" 😆
I wish you all the best, you sound like a good person
I am constantly imitating your "darn it" overdubbing, that was frickin great
The “fat like me” thing is based on a social experiment “Black like me” by John h. Griffin
Yes, I understand that a little teenage girl did a documentary for it. But I’m quite sure that girl was inspired by the Black like me experiment where a white man in the 1960s disguised himself as a Black man and documented his experience and the discrimination he faced as a “Black” man. It was a book and then later a movie.
True story, Google it.
Boy meets world has an episode based on the same concept and I believe the episode was “chick like me” where Sean dressed as a girl for the same purpose.
As a teenage girl, when I was 130lbs at 5'4, I remember my dad would take me to the doctor when I was sick and the conversation would become exclusively about my weight, every single time. I outright refused to go to the doctor if I knew it would be my dad taking me eventually. Now at 28, I still deal with horrible anxiety going to any doctor.
Fatphobia is so much more than name calling. It is seeing a human being as nothing but the fat they carry. The way BMI was used as a weapon against me as a literal child was vile.
You are more than your body. You are more than the fat you carry. And you are more than any of the cruel words people might use against you.
130 isn’t even bad! I’m 5’4” and I wish I could be 130. Actually that’s what I weighed in high school at one point. I was 145 by senior year. Sure I had a little belly but I wasn’t considered fat. So there’s no way you were fat and no reason for it to be discussed at a doctors appointment. Thy was uncalled for and I’m sorry that happened to you.
But that’s not even overweight??? I was shorter than you at that weight and had very prominent collar bones.. !
Isn’t 130 skinny lol, well idk, I mean maybe because you were shorter at the time..
@@riotz8742 130-140 is average weight for that height. I would know I’m that height and was 105-110 in high school. It was bad you could see all my bones.
Ok.
Nothing brings me more joy than when you show a scene at the actual pace. 😂😂
I see this differently. I feel bad really often for how poorly I acted as a teenager to my parents but when I was growing up my mother had an eating disorder. Just like addiction, the main causes of eating disorders are mental and there are multiple symptoms of them that affect your loved ones.
My mom was frequently short tempered, depressed, too fatigued to pay attention or parent us, neglectful and especially was incredibly vocal about her hatred and dissatisfaction with her body.
A body that I inherited almost exactly.
Once I grew up a little I apologized for being a, more than usual, rude teenager and then had to go through moments where I had to face the resentment and abandonment I felt and forgive my mother despite knowing she didn’t mean to hurt us at all when she was sick.
It’s a difficult nuanced process to understand and face your childhood fears and hurts and yet give your parents the grace you hope your children will give you one day.
Your movie reviews are so funny! And i cant wait for the next episode of the brew C:
I love how often you said “soccer”- even when the girls are literally wearing the giant word “softball” on their chests 😂. Almost as if the movie is mocking you while you’re mocking them 😂
"Don we now our double chins" I AM DEAD 😂😂😂
This whole movie is so toxic. I went between laughing and shaking my head in disbelief. As for the role reversal, I currently have a problematic roommate who screams at her mother over the phone about how her mother manages her eating habits. I heard her call her OWN MOTHER fat once. Smh
I had convinced myself for years - since middle school - that I was fat. Why? Because I wasn't skin and bones like the early 2000s media said I needed to be. I look at pictures of me in high school and I'm like, "....I seriously thought I was fat back then????? I was a size eight!" And because I was so paranoid about my weight I assumed everyone else was silently judging me for it. I still struggle with it today because now I actually am a bit bigger than I used to.
But the thing is...bodies change over time. And for crying out loud, eating a few slices of bacon and frying things in butter isnt gonna make you gain 15 pounds.
I totally feel you on the bowling PTSD. The last time I remember going bowling a little kid (prolly 5-6) was running around with their like 5 (!) siblings in the next lane and kept stopping to point at me and loudly yell "That man is FAT!" The oldest daughter [the Dad ignored it (orthodox Jewish family scolding the kids is "women's work")] scolded him for being too loud, saying nothing about him mocking an adult, or just for yelling at strangers for that matter, for no damn reason.
I had a skinny-to-fat journey in high school that would've made a better plot than this: I was skinny my whole life from playing sports. I had a scholarship for basketball but tore my ACL twice during my sophomore year. Without exercise to keep fit AND to distract me from the abuse I was facing at home, I blew up and gained over 50lbs within just a few months. Rumors circulated that I was pregnant. People literally stopped talking to me. I was bullied relentlessly the rest of high school, pushing me to temporarily drop out and finish at night school. I even heard "MOOOO" as I walked across the stage to get my diploma. It sucked. In short, people are assholes. Especially teenagers. It took me YEARS to unlearn my self-hate and rebuild my heart and mind, ultimately finding worth in myself that wasn't based on my looks. I still struggle to this day, but I'm content in my 30s and know I'm much more than my weight. To any young girls out there that are struggling, hang in there and don't give up! Don't let societal expectations determine your self-worth! Jesus loves you and you ARE beautiful. ❤️
You had me all the way... Until you had to ruin it with the Jesus crap. Way to be inclusive to all.... Jesus isn't special to a large percentage of the population...
Sadly how the "teens" are acting toward her is how people treated me in Highschool..
I got called so many names and even had someone write "FatAss" on my locker and put a bunch of coupons to McDonalds in the locker along and had a girl once hand me a Coupon to "Soup or Salad" and said it looks like i could use a free Salad bar. It was a horrible time for me
Same, elementary and middle school were by far the worst times for me. HS I started ignoring everyone and just minded my own business even though they still made me the butt of their cruel jokes and always made comments whenever I walked by.
Same but it started for me in middle school. I had to drop out. It felt like it was okay to bully only me. It deeply effected me. I was already dealing with trumatic stuff at home then to go to school and be physically and emotionally abused I couldn't deal with it.
I mourn my childhood and teen years.
My best friend was called "tub of lard" and "oompa loompa" all the time! It was horrible for her. She got it at school and at home from her parents! Not the horrible nicknames at home, but still degrading remarks about her being fat. We're on our 30s now and she still gets it from her dad.
Omg that's so awful. I know it's not the same but in college, in an all female dorm they decided I was a "slut" because I went on I think... 3 dates in 2 months with different guys (no sex, just dates but apparently the dudes lied to their friends like dumb 18 yos do) and they would slip condoms and handwritten in multicolor gel pen "STD surveys" under my door and ask me questions about my vaginal health. It was pretty relentless until I finally quit staying at the dorm and opted to sleep on a friend's couch despite the fact that the dorm cost me $4k per semester.
I've never been big, but I know what it's like to be bullied by everyone and nobody should have to feel ashamed for their appearance or something they cannot control. Hope you're well now.
Wow…this just confirms how crappy humans can be/are to one another. I’ve had things similar not as brutal but similar to you happen to me all throughout school however I wasn’t even fat to begin with I just wasn’t a size 0 which is what everyone wanted to be at the time. Even the skinny girls were complaining about being too fat. It was a toxic time and no one helped the situation we all just fed into it instead. Glad things have changed.
Jaime..."Soccer..."
Uniforms..."SOFTBALL!!!"
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Swear-ta-gahd the editing is so superb!!
Jaime...I too am triggered by endocrinologists. Mine yelled at me after I had my thyroid surgery. She said "I backed her into a corner." Wtf? Anyway, you aren't alone. Honestly that actor reminds me of mine too 😄
To be fair, the CCTV footage showed you with a chair and whip in a lion tamers costume. But nobody would blame you, endocrinologists are known to bite
I didn't have a weight gain issue with my thyroid but I did loose alot of weight before my thyroid tumor was discovered and removed, you're not alone in cancer doctors assuming
Got accused of being anorexic so many times by walk in doctors and mental health workers despite constantly eating high calorie foods (at 80lbs was drinking coffee creamer and eating every bread product, would have gummy candies in my pockets) I know it's not the same but I would have been equally frustrated if I had gained weight from a thyroid issue and a doctor said that too me about my medication. Especially when your thyroid and the hormones is produces directly affects how your body's metabolism works
Since we're sharing war stories... I can't quite remember when but sometime between 6-8th grade in gym class some girl told me to "run some of [the] fat off" me. I was maybe a size 14 kids? Fatphobia in the 2000s was UNREAL
I was fat in middle school. But I had a bigger girl call me fat... like wtf.
The 2000s were definitely the worst of it between low rise jeans and Britney/Paris/etc
I'm mid Gen Z, so I watched the "You need to be so skinny it's concerning" attitude die out during my late elementary years and the "You need to have a big butt with a teeny waist" attitude take over in my middle school years. Everyone went from making fun of me for being "fat" to being jealous of my pear shape. I am still bitter
This is one of your funniest videos you’ve ever made, coming from being heavy set my whole life. Your commentary is everything!!! I binge watch your content all the time. 😅
Jaime mischievously but confidently smiling to the store manager floored me
Kaley's character's broken leg also healed pretty quickly!
In response to the mother/daughter role reversal, I remember a Sweet Valley High book where Robin (her last name escapes me), who used to be overweight and decided to lose weight, became borderline anorexic. Her mom was making food, I think a cake, and Robin gets pretty nasty with her, saying she knows she used to be fat since her mom kept feeding her food like that. I remember being so sad at that since her mom got sad.
Oh, I think I remember that storyline in the book! I used to find the Sweet Valley High books in Goodwill as a preteen/young teen.
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I remember this! And she also got mad at her mom for hanging up and putting away her laundry because she had it all color coded and her mom messed it up
Yes! I remember that one! And Robin starved herself, passed out, immediately learned a Very Important Lesson and magically no longer had an ED. SVH was sssooooo fatphobic.
@@jessicaneedles3147 "Lipophobic."
Like all your videos, this is gold, but I was especially encouraged to hear your little side rant about your endocrinologist! I've had a very similar thing happen to me after having my thyroid removed, and that actress happens to look like my endocrinologist too.
This was the best video you've done for a while. You really seemed like you was enjoying yourself. 🥰
"what part of a baggy dad shirt is cool for a 16 year old girl?"
Everything. Every part of it is cool.
yeah, NOW lmfao. then, not so much.
It worked in the 90s 🤷
I will never forget 6th grade getting up to throw something out and walking in front of a guy's desk as he yelled out, "thunder thighs!" And the thing is, I wasn't even big then. I have always had big hips, but I wasn't overweight at that time. It wasn't the first comment I got like that and there were a lot more to follow, but it was the first time I really let it get to me. Since then my weight has fluctuated by 100+ lbs and looking back it just makes me sad to think about how I thought of my body in those years. I think middle school is hard for most kids, but especially girls. I wouldn't love through those years again for any amount of money.
I was skinny in high school and I got picked on. These girls who were on the heavier side, and who were supposed to be my friends, would get boys in our class to call me ugly stick, and pull my hair. They would say I must have aids or something to make me so skinny.
The girls sat with me at lunch and would steal half my lunch because supposedly I didn't need food since I was little. I hated that.
i probably would’ve been embarrassed as a kid but as an adult i would take that as a compliment 🥰😂
@@reallycarly2 isn't that so funny? I only wish I knew then that thunder thighs would be all the rage one day, lmao.
That sucks, I'm sorry you went through that. I think a lot of girls have similar experiences with girls who were their "friends." It's a really hard realization when you see they aren't really your friends.
I am so sorry u went thru that. My birth father called me thunder thighs as a kid. So I feel ya. But I wasn't even heavy. I was a cheerleader, a dancer, a gymnast and played softball. It was muscle. I was so small as a kid and into my 20s. Now at 40 I am struggling to lose this baby weight and I am perimenopausal (sp) so I am just a mess. I am not super happy, but I am getting there. My daughter is 9 so we're about to hit those tough yrs. Her school is small, so hopefully it won't be so bad. I miss being young, but it's honestly easier to be an adult most days. Not all days of course. But I worry about so many other things I don't have time to worry about my weight as much.
Oh Jamie. So so so good. Thank you for your insightful, funny, brilliant review.
Really enjoyed this video Jaime and would love to hear you discuss these topics more!
I absolutely knew a kid who would tell his mother to f off and call her the c word, and she would just do the head shake, hand wave, sigh, and walk away. I couldn't believe what I was watching, and I let into him and his little brother for talking to her like that. I may have made a comment like, "No wonder neither of you can get a girlfriend. If any woman saw you behave like this, their vag would instantly dry up and crawl somewhere up inside her chest cavity." Or something like that, I think.