Being Tight Lipped
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- čas přidán 28. 08. 2024
- The plaintiff claims the father of her child lied to the police, so she got arrested and her child was taken away. She says the father put her child in the defendant’s childcare facility and she’s being denied her parental rights. She also claims the defendant is slandering her, so she’s suing for mental anguish and breach of parental rights. The defendant says the child was enrolled in her daycare by her father and social services, and the plaintiff had no parental rights at the time. She’s countersuing for emotional distress and punitive damages.
Case 29-396
She needs to be suing the state for taking her child away! Even the judge was shocked.
Best answer ever!
The state saved that child! She is unstable
They did what was best for the child..something is happening with this lady, she's unraveling and it could be because of the abandonment from the father when she got pregnant
Ill tell you what happened to me when I was a new mom many years ago. I don't get along with my birth mother but I tried to let her be a part of her grandson's life. Well that was a bad idea, she never changed from that pregnant 15-year-old mindset(she had me at 15) and tried to cause harm to my child and me, she's mentally unstable. I told her she would no longer be a part of our lives. Well, I lived in California at the time and she was in Vegas, so she went to las vegas court and made up a story that my child was in danger.
I had no idea until I got a letter stating she had been granted temporary guardianship of my child. Imagine that! Some incompetent judge didn't bother to see that I never lived in vegas, that I was a resident of California, and that vegas have no jurisdiction over California so she was not allowed to take my child anywhere. She went to my grandparent's home while I was at work and tried to sneak out the door with my son while my grandfather was in his room. I am so grateful to god something had just told my grandfather to get up and see what my son was doing, he said she had got halfway down the block and had a car waiting on her to put my son in there and leave. He stopped her and called me, I then called the police and she brought up these court papers the judge gave her which the police then told her these papers meant nothing because you can not take a child across state lines. the papers regardless of what was written served vegas and not California.
She looked really stupid in the end thinking she was gonna take my son. I don't know if the mother is right or wrong in this case, but you would never believe how screwed up the system is. I wish looking back I would've went to vegas and filed a complaint against the judge that granted that crap.
@Keith Sergent it sounded like the judge read the police report and DCFS report and it validated what she was saying
The mother went through the pregnancy. Bonded with the baby for the next 9 months and then they took the baby from her and give to father who never had any thing to do with the lil baby and was practically a stranger. Wow.
Completely agree and my heart hurts for both the mother and the child HOWEVER the daycare lady is being overly cautious and following the law to the letter. I cannot blame her one bit! She is liable if the wrong person has access to the child or the child goes into someone’s hands that should not have her. She was trying to do the right thing. Maybe an extreme measure but she is protecting the child and herself and I have to think as a mother I would feel some sense of relief that she is so set on protecting my child. I sure as hell wouldn’t sue her!
You both are so right. I feel so bad for her, but if the roles were reversed, I’d feel good knowing that her daycare manager was taking measures to ensure the rights of both parents or lack there of.
There is more to the story. CPS dosnt just take kids away for no reason. They had proof that the mother was unfit
@@jeanm9521 I agree with you.
She clearly wasn’t saying the full story, imagine if a stranger came up to pickup your child or a deranged parent that was trying to kill them.
The judge want to laugh at her dating comment so bad 😂😂
What dating comment?
@@minnie243 when she said if she has a child with someone she considers them dating.
@@Kodak718 I would consider that more than just dating lol
&& so did I. 😂I was like girl bye. U most definitely had a baby with a random Man U knew of. That was tremendously irresponsible.
@@minnie243 no. Plenty ppl have children from unprotected sex after 1 night stands. She clearly wasn’t his gf. She got pregnant he was unhappy & then began to be spiteful.
When I used to work for DCF, I seen some illegal things take place. The daycare owner is lying I believe. This mom is having a hard time explaining what happened.
I agree👍🏼. I have heard some scarrrryy stories about daycare keeping the kids from one parent or the other😕😒
I believe the daycare lady was not being truthful...
Absolutely agree 💯. I can’t believe she didn’t rule in favor of the plaintiff..I don’t know about 10,000 but she definitely should’ve won.
i blame a corrupt social worker or judge
The judge won't let the poor lady finish a sentence.
I don't think she was slow necessarily; she was trying to be careful, concise and controlled in her responses to the judge. In court - especially in child/custody types of cases - it's better to answer only what is asked and to keep emotion out of your responses. I think she was showing a high level of restraint, and was trying to stay focused on the facts of the case from her point of view.
I'll grant that, yes, she was robotic. And, yes, her situation is messy and very unfortunate. But I don't think she's slow or has mental issues. Plaintiffs on TPC lose their cool and display major attitude for far less.
I completely agree!
I agree as well, especially when talking about her abuse. You can tell she's trying to control her responses and keep the emotion down.
I agree
@@brittanycomeau533 - So true. It’s clear that that was a highly traumatic experience for her, to have her child’s father and, what?, at least 1-3 other men punching on her. I mean, omg, that’s insane. Her composure and resilience in the face of such injustice, disrespect, and violence… it’s really admirable.
I agree!!
I'm wondering if the father even really wants the child or is just making this woman's life miserable. He's not even the one taking/picking up the baby!!
Think he's just doing it to make her life miserable.
He’s doing all these things because he can, and secondly he beat her smdh but yet they’re still ruling in this jerk fav smdh
...it hurts to prove you are innocent... No loving mom needs to prove theyre innocent of child endangerment. .. I was lied on to cps i know the pain
“I feel bad for her” that’s why you’re suing her for 10k??
He's a violent, dangerous NARCISSISTS, who don't want to pay HER.. CHILD support.. He's doing all of that and didn't/don't even want the baby..
His INTENTIONS are VERY CLEAR..
The daycare owner seems overly involved. Judge won't even let the lady make her case.
Ikr the judge kept cutting the plaintiff off in the middle of her sentence
I feel like the daycare lady is lying.
Wasn't a case to make
This Judge is the WORST.
She either, short changes people for what they sue for and are owed, or she talks over people cutting them off and if they have anything relevant for their case to help their case succeed, she invariably says: “No.”…”We’re done here, because I’m about to rule!”…”We’re done here!”
I’ve seen this scene play out MANY times, in MANY cases.
I honestly think that she should be reported and later evaluated for her conduct as a Judge. There’s certainly no fairness or state of equilibrium in her courtroom.
@@isaiahakaic6386 - Also that part. I agree with you.
My heart goes out to this mother.
Mine, too. Too bad the judge missed key info on this. She TRIED to give her the paperwork and SHE refused to take it. Who does that daycare lady think she is to accuse the mother of having "fake" documents when she handed her COURT PAPERS?!?!?
@@scotthewitt258 unfortunately it’s too easy to falsify documents.Why,oh why do some women have babies with men they hardly know.That poor baby.
@@eh-i1841 some people are married for 25 years and happen to stumble on information that their partner has a complete second family.
There are just no guarantees in life.
@@soley3033 that is a rarity. apples and oranges.
me too , but not for trying to scam the daycare person
WHAT!!!! Naw I’m on the Plaintiff’s side. She was treated so bad in there. The plaintiff was being so polite and respectful. This was a sensitive matter, the judge did not need to speak to her like that. Completely unnecessary smdh
EXACTLY..
Claim to be shocked how the law treated the mom and took the baby.. then she turns right around and shit the mom..
The judge went from sounding like she had empathy for the mom to sounding like she hates the mom.
This was hard and sad to watch.. The judge was dead wrong.. SMFH
Unfortunately the plaintiff wouldn't shut up. And to sue for 10k, like cmon. That raises eyebrows. Also, she just needs to move on. She has her child now and that should be enough. Just get on with it. She's living in the past. Imagine if we continued to attack people who screwed us in the past? We'd be chasing all day and night!
It’s the fact that she asked for $10,000 that ruined her case
@@Overrateddavid no it’s the fact that the judge is an idiot !!! She should’ve gotten something !!!!
@@LiveGrowRescue I'm so tired of hearing "move on". Yes, sometimes that is needed but honestly, that means that person in the wrong know they got away with their bad behavior. And how do you move on from losing those precious months. Those early months are very precious and important to the bond of mother and child. It's not something you just get over. She can't get that back. And the people who took that from her should have consequences.
This is what is lacking in this country empathy, accountability, and consequences.
I believe she did try to give the daycare provider the documents at the sheriff's office but she wouldn't take them. It also sounds like the father might be a narcissist who is only going back and forth with the mom to have control
I thought the same thing too. She seemed too involved and didn't want to take the papers. I don't think the plaintiff would go through all of that trouble to get access to her kid and not try to give the lady the papers.
I said the same
Allways blame the man! Women fuck up to! The farther wasn’t arrested for assault!! She was the druggie mess
BINGO 💯💯💯💯
This right here
The judge asks a question yet doesn't wait for an answer just immediately asks another question. I can understand why the plaintiff gets flustered.
This judge is ĺogic and ĺanguage impaired. " When the baby was first born" ?? As opposed to " when the baby was born second?!!
FINALLY! Someone else has noticed, I've been saying this for so long and I also think she can be biased in most of her cases.
that's a tactic to see if any lies would slip through. If judge let you finish every sentences that you have been rehearsing in your mind you can plan your answers but when you are thrown off guard with different questions mid-answer that's where you can be confuse in your lie or take a too long time before answering question and that would be suspicious.
@@zoyarajennursingh949 if the judge were as you state she wasn’t even a judge. Lol
@@-SupraMari0- are you a lawyer?
My prayer is that the mother is blessed 100 fold for everything she endured with these trials. May God comfort, heal and bring full restoration to her mind, body and spirit. Grace!
Does anyone feel the judge is constantly interrupting the plaintiff? And then preaches to her to know when to turn the on the off button. 🙄
This is what she always does and when someone dares challenge this, she says " ... because I'm the judge!"
I have my two daughters home with me yet I am in tears after watching this. No mother should ever have to deal with so much trauma after giving birth to her child. This should have been the most Joyous time in her life and instead it's been the most trying. My heart and my prayers go out to her. I can barely even type this because tears are falling all over my phone. If you're a mother, a real mother, this breaks your heart. I pray that the Lord bless and keep her and that she is doing much better now with her child.
Yes, she looked so sad 3 minutes before the video ended and it breaks my heart. I hope she and her child are doing okay. God Bless.
ALL TRUE BUT SHE WAS SUING FOR 10K,, I COULD NEVER PUT A PRICE ON IT, even now she refuses to do what the judge said ''focus on whats important''.. no, she asked Doug which other court she can take it to.
I was a bit annoyed because I wanted the mom to explain herself without the judge continuous interruption. However i think the daycare worker was being vindictive
I mean… that’s what judges are supposed to do, ask questions to understand the case🥴
Day care worker was on a power trip, I think she was gloating over this.
The daycare lady sure was ..
The daycare director should have asked the father for a copy of the custody order or accepted the order from the mother. The daycare director doesn't seem to know dates or facts.
I feel so bad for these babies who are born with irresponsible parents 😢
Ikr
Why HAVE a baby if you're irresponsible or because an irresponsible person left their DNA inside you? I dont get it...
@@mdstanton1813 well it's not like they're allowed to fix that problem before it becomes one
How is she an irresponsible parent and she’s in court fighting for her right to be a parent? That sounds like a responsible parent to me... Just a thought
How is she an irresponsible parent?
The concept of Dating has been VIOLATED. People who have babies together are NOT dating!!
Absolutely.
True. They're not even courting just breeding cause all that comes out of it are babies and never marriage.
He probably was married
I'd say your dating someone when there's an intention to be in a relationship one day
@@madeyalook2041 that supposed to be what it is but she had a whole child during the "dating" phase. He was probably married
If people would actually date and get to know someone instead of just having unprotected sex, they would not be bonded for life with unwanted exes.
It baffles me how people have unprotected sex and then are shocked a baby comes around :)
Did you use any protection or take birth control other than the "pull out method"? Then don't be SHOCKED about getting pregnant. It's like getting shocked about snow on Christmas.
@@ancastanescu4190 lol I wish it snowed here at Christmas (Australia)
Irrelevant
And you can broadcast that over the loud speaker!
Preach! 🙏🏿... seems like such a simple solution ehh?
I feel bad for this woman losing that bonding time with her baby. Praying ot all gets better for the sake of her child
Me too, so unfair especially considering the circumstances that many children are kept in even with a cps case open
I feel for her too, and Milian is delusuinal if she needed to read this happened to believe it. This happens to poor and Black people a lot.
That’s so crazy.
She gotta keep her hands to herself
@@AishaBrownIsMe It happens to POOR WHITE people a lot, infact a book was written about taking poor white children from families, I think in Fayetteville N.C.
I believe she did try and give her the documents.She was in cahoots with the father. Id be a little upset too.
Yes, I do not understand how the judge didn't see that. Anyway, all of this separation from a child that the father didn't want to be his in the first place can make one lose their marbles. This case truly hurt me. I hope she does get counseling and the right help to make better decisions.
That's exactly what I was thinking too. I never heard of a daycare worker coming to a meeting with the other parent.
BTW Just because you have a kid by someone doesn't mean you are or were dating.
I can’t believe the plaintiff said that!! Lol
She said it so emphatically, like it’s happened to her several times 😂
@@michaeldelyjah5696 U sound foolish. That's an immature woman thing regardless of ethnicity.
@@mzfancy4767 you beat me to it sis bc that was an ignorant comment from Michael !!
@@mzfancy4767 Really? Black women are the #1 group to be unmarried and single but have different children by multiple men. So, tell me they think you need to be in a stable relationship to have children, because they've shown REPEATEDLY that they don't believe that.
Everyone is saying she is off, but like attracts like and therefore he must be off as well. Both have prior convictions, both partake in domestic violence and both laid down with each other. He isn't any better than she is, I feel for the child.
Yup. He’s probably not the sharpest tool in the shed. Anybody with a lick of common sense would sense that she’s off.
Water seeks its own level!
Exactly. I see a woman fighting to be right over looking her wrongs allowing her emotions to get the best of her. I bet the man gets frustrated so he lashes out also. I see lack of maturity.
I thinks he’s crap but her choice to sue this lady is a little off lol
@@kaeshalae1 👍🏾
I have a lot of compassion for the plaintiff. May God give her peace in her spirit, joy, and the strength to preservere. God will handle her enemies.
JUDGE: Please let the plaintiff finish answering your questions.
My sentiments exactly. Judge Marilyn Milian does this often. She asks questions and then she starts to answer them her damn self instead of allowing the people she's asking the questions to to answer her questions thoroughly. How are you a Judge yet you don't know that some questions cannot be given yes and no answers? I understand that Judges listen to numerous different cases all day long and that it gets annoying but if you cannot do your job sufficiently and with empathy, concern and true compassion then step the hell down and let someone who can do so do the job properly.
My gosh, YES! I am so annoyed at her right now. Let the plaintiff finish her sentence!!!!
Exactly!! I was like Dam let the lady speak!!
Favoritism!
She never does… she’s so unprofessional
The judge is so good at keeping up with ppls stories lol it's amazing
They probably edit it down a lot. Each of these cases probably takes over an hour and they edit them down to 20 minutes so there is probably a lot more back and forth that we never hear
They barely get to tell their side of the story most of the time. She is extremely rude and unprofessional, always cutting people off mid sentence. I would never take my case to her, she has her mind made up long before any facts are shown. All the other reality tv judges at least let people present their case or defense.
@@LunchMeatTrump so have you never watched judge Judy? Lol
@Adrienne Huff facts lol
@@LunchMeatTrump facts, she's the worst judge on tv. Who knows what she did to get on tv? Smh
I need 30 aspirins after watching this episode.
Try working in ER or dealing with the public in general.
Im.so confused....I need cliffnotes to understand this case
I agree....this case was all over the place!
🤣😂🤣 I never read so many comments in my life this thread is one of the most interesting ones!
seriously 🥴 negative energy indeed😥
Clearly the planetiff has been done an injustice. I pray that her life will be more successful.
Uh oh. When Doug said she may have a case in a different court, her brain shot off in 5th gear.
Lol.. for real!
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Mom is definitely a lil off. I can only imagine the scene when she was arrested. Probably was going crazy and was warned to calm down and leave but wouldn’t listen. Does anyone else feel like the daycare lady is friends with the dad’s girlfriend? I just feel that I my gut. Like they knew each other prior and that’s why the child was in her care. She went above and beyond for them to turn around and claim to just be a childcare provider. Don’t sound right. Why get in the middle?
Right! Why was she at the police station during the child exchange? Why did she deal with the girlfriend at all?? (who had zero rights)
that's what I was thinking, why was she SO involved in the middle of THEIR family issues. i can understand calling the social worker, but like everything else was extra.
Right it was way too much goin on in this case!!🤦🏽♀️
Thank you! I’m not the only one
Jj
I don’t think she was treated fairly by the authorities (maybe because she’s slightly challenged) but the child care provider was just doing her job. Sad situation.
Agreed 100%
I concur!
I thought the same thing. The way she spoke was borderline robotic and it made me think of some people I know with aspergers.
I agree. I see the plaintiff as slightly mentally challenged. She needs legal guidance.
Right
I'm praying for this MAMA ❤️🙏🕊️
The judge was totally wrong for doing the mother dirty
Pray for the child
@@gtsound12 done stand with me in prayer please God can do it🙏
I would love an update on this!
This case is outrageous, this poor mother. My heart aches for her. There is a special kind of bitterness you have to swallow, when the system set up to protect you, is weaponised against you. I do not believe that daycare workers story at all 🤷🏼♀️. This poor lady. I hope things work out for her and her baby.
Really???? She has an obvious one night stand, gets pregnant, decides to prove paternity so she can get child support, which backfires on her because he dodges it by filing for joint custody, then she tries to scam ten grand off of the day care worker…I don’t feel one bit bad for her…notice not one tear was shed throughout this case???…AND she had priors for DM! See how her eyes lit up when it was mentioned that she may file in a different court??? She’s a gold digger plain and simple!
Yall are weird. Saying she's "challenged" because she doesn't act like you. Everyone has different personalities, just because it doesn't look like what your use to, doesn't mean they are "challenged" Grow up.
So Harvey basically just pops in these days to interrupt me to repeat what I just heard?
Ok, got it
It's done for TV after a commercial break to catch people up LOL
Girl, that lady is running a business. YOU need to call your case worker and follow up.
Facts the daycare worker going to listen to whoever is paying them ! 😂😂
@@cocoshauntel5979 No, the daycare has to follow the court ordered paperwork. I have had parents get mad but they don't show any updates in the paperwork, so i have t go with the last one I received. This has nothing to do with their feelings about each parent.
Sounds to me the defendant is friends with the baby daddy and his gf ...i feel bad for the plantiff but T least the child is in her care now.
Why sue the child care provider? I wouldn't have even dealt with him. He's proven to be a fool. And then he had his goons jump me?? I'd be done. I wouldn't even ask for child support. Girl, RUN! If you don't, it's going to always be something.
Absolutely agree! The plaintiff is getting nowhere fast...
you should always ask for child support you can get protection child support so he pays the government and the government pays the mother that way they have no communication with each other, he wont even know where she lives.
She can't run cause she's in court limbo when also can get his joint custody back
I felt like the daycare was on the father's side instead of being more thoroughly involved in the well being of the child
She's tied to him through the child. She can't just take his child from him
Cases like this are the perfect example of why I choose to remain childfree. In my almost 40 years on this earth I have YET to meet a man that I had a desire to breed with. Even the ones in church are either alcoholics, drug addicts, mysoginist, have some kind of mental health issue, are ex convicts, or are straight up narcissists in 3 piece suits. Not worth it to me to bring a child into this world to live a miserable existence between parents that eventually end up hating each other. NO THANK YOU !!!
You hate men !! Lol yeah many men feeling the same way these days
You got issues
At their goes humanity lol what if your mom felt the same way ...just say u selfish and don't want to share your life with a child its your right to be selfish
The phrase “breed with” took me out. 😂😂
@@corporateraider77 right! like are we farm animals now, what grown woman refers to conceiving a child as breeding. Like girl.. stop.
I love how she still fighting for her baby and yes you can she definitely had some type of break down what real mother wouldn’t? I guess I’ll continue to watch bless her heart💕💕
What real Mother gets her Child taken away on sum false info. it's clear that the situation did not happen the way she said it did. Crazy ass! unstable fit parents get there kids taken sãd thing is it don't happen enough só many damaged kids around BC cps didn't get involved
Somehow,she seems a bit half-baked.Don’t go having sex with someone you hardly know.
@@Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol I just watched this Rasta man and wife yes innocent. Get their new born baby taken away from pr government so yes it can happen to the innocent moms and dads. The parents I just described baby was taken due to racism and human trafficking. In the meantime I don’t know the lady situation personally and to be honest don’t even remember this video.lol. but if I felt sorry for her it had to be for a reason. I do understand what you saying tho.🙌🥰
@@eh-i1841 So right it is good to know who you dating first.💕💕Now y’all make me want to rewatch.lol
@@kweenkashmereiman I WORKED for a private adoption agency we only dealt with white babies and every case worked beautifully. .
That poor child.
Well said. All that matters
He said “ not this court, but a different court”! She was like “what court”? He was confused 🤔! Lol confused himself! 😂🤣😂
NO, HE KNOWS OF A COURT THAT MIGHT CAN HELP HER SITUATION, BUT THOUGHT OH SHIT MAYBE I SHOULD NOT HAVE SAID THAT, SHE GONNA HAVE ME ON THE PEOPLE COURT DEFENDING MYSELF AT MY JOB.... LOL
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@@Supernovabrown1 omg I'm lmbo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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breaks my heart, she was so scared to say anything.
everyone keeps saying the plaintiff is off- none of that changes the fact that even the judge read the details AS FACTUALLY RECORDED and even she thinks the way the plaintiff was treated is excessive and strange. She honestly seems like she's so persistent because people keep lying on her and she keeps GETTING PUNISHED.
Grabbed an arm and got this level of punishment (that a law enforcement agent- a judge said was too much), the daycare woman doesn't even sound like she was really trying to hear or be helpful- she admitted she wasn't even receptive when she first heard of the joint custody. All this mess is happening to her and over and over again while she is missing time with her CHILD.
I agree with you. She being railroaded by everyone and she doesn't know what to do. She is soo distraught and she trying to really keep it together. You can tell she really wants to break down and cry real hard, but she can't cause not one single person has sympathised with her.
The judge can’t do anything about what happened to get custody taken away. The daycare lady has rules and regulations she has to follow as a childcare provider. Anybody can call and say “oh yeah I’m this child’s parent and we have joint custody “ and what the daycare is just supposed to believe? She has things she had to check and she could not verify what the mother was saying. If she had just gone along with what the mother was saying she could have found herself in court for another reason. The judge’s ruling was correct. What happened was unfortunate but the daycare lady did not break any laws and does not owe her $10k
A man can throw a pillow at a woman and get charged with assault, so each of she puts her hands on someone it’s assault and there should be the same level of consequences.
@@jessicamcgaughey8551 she grabbed the bd’s arm, got her child taken away. He got her jumped and held her throat and he gets a slap on the wrist🥲
@@alterego2978 but the daycare lady did in fact state that the father had opened up to her about the case and the fact that he does have joined custody w the mother. She showed up to testify against the woman, without even actually knowing the woman. Shoot she even spoke to the agent in charge of the child’s case multiple times
I have very mixed feelings about this case. It felt more like an episode of Dr. Phil, with Judge Milian talking over the plaintiff all the time, while she was trying to presnt her case. I feel that she was pretty much exploited on TV. And yes, I know the participants come to the show voluntarily. But this time (and I think Milian is usually a good judge!) this was not a good decision.
@Alexis Sarkasia No one is making the daycare provider be a “scape goat” calm down. The daycare provider seemed like she was overly involved and like she had some type of relationship with the father. Why was she showing up to the police station when it was time to hand the child off to the other parent? That’s strange. Also, the plaintiff said the daycare worker verbally told her she would get in contact with her social worker and contact her and then turned around and threatened to file harassment charges. The judge was very biased with this case and did not provide the correct ruling in my opinion.
We had a son who suffered bruises at a daycare and when we confronted the daycare owner, she turned us in for abuse the next day and it took us a threat of lawsuit against child services and six months of harassment to get them off our backs. It was determined later that the daycare owners daughter had been the one who attacked our son!
So sorry to hear this! Absolutely horrendous
Wow, that pisses me off for you guys. Insane that that can even happen. Glad it’s been sorted.
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how did you find out it was the daycare owner's daughter?
Lmao yeah okay buddy. Stop beating your kid 🥰
She supposed to sue her child's father for emotional distress
Yeah he seemed to really ruine her mental health
That’s not likely to make it. It would be easily dismissed. Mom was just hurt by the daycare.
That would not have worked either because they don’t award emotional distress for relationships unless she/he was battered physically. It’s unfortunate but it was her choice to be with him. 😟
@@chickenwings6745 What if her mental instability had nothing to do with the father. she seems off.
She won’t win.She needs to concentrate on her baby,and forget chasing the lawsuits.They have 50/50 custody,so she won’t even get child support.
Dang i wish the judge would SHUTUP and let her the plaintiff respond!! She’s not slow she’s jst trying to articulate what she wants to say
I don't believe that mom didn't give papers to day care. My first question to day care is are you in a relaty with the dad
I don't know why the judge is so shocked, there's more stories of DCF ruining people's lives than helping. (At least where I'm from)
Also, the daycare provider was definitely biased because the first version of the story she got was from the father, so that's the side she stood on.
I thought it was funny that the plaintiff got indignant over the fact the judge didnt see a romp in the hay as a date.
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Prayers for ALL THE MOMMAS SUFFERING like the plaintiff
1. When she asked for $10,000, I knew she wasn’t winning! Out of all the TV judges, Judge Milian is the one who is going to give you the MINIMUM! Had she asked for maybe $500 or $1000, she might’ve got a pity ruling. But Judge Milian keeps the People’s Court wallet CLOSED! 😂 If you want THAT much money, you better be able to prove your case without a doubt. 2. She suing the wrong person. Sue the baby’s father who falsely filed charges and caused that absurd & completely unreasonable ruling. Sue the state or the Department that was responsible for the unreasonable ruling. However, the daycare lady could argue that she was acting out of an abundance of caution & not face many issues. (Even though I think the Defendant may have had some connection with the father, because she seemed to be helping him). 3. The Plaintiff may have some idiosyncrasies & certainly has a temper, but she’s well-researched & prepared. She’s just going after the wrong people.
If we all had memory like the plaintiff lol
Yes she knew her ish
She remembered everything in details lol
Lmao
Hell I can’t remember what I did yesterday 😂😂 I wish I had it like her
@@jaybay2149 ikr!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Where’s the Father since he’s been spoken about? 🤷🏾♀️ This always seems to be the case.
...they're not together and he's not being sued.
She said had to file a restraining order
He's not concerned
Why did the judge treat her so poorly??!!
This is an injustice!
Definitely injustice Yelling at her How'd she feel if someone had taken a baby 🍼 you Bore for 9 MONTHS let's see 👀 HOW she'd react didn't Like the way she treated her Just straight mean
The mother is clearly holding back something and might be unstable. You don't get kids taken unless there's a legitimate reason.
With the judge being a former prosecuting attorney… I see where her Sassiness comes from
Plaintiff need Legal Aid and she didn’t used the right resources. Not everything can be addressed by a civil court and you must always have documentation which plaintiff failed to submit.
She’s awful. I can’t watch her anymore. I’ve seen her do this too many times and this was my last.
The judge literally wouldn’t allow her to complete a sentence. She would cut her off or complete the sentence for her. Then accused her of not listening and talking too much. Smh The case was bogus, but she still should have given her the respect of allowing her to complete a thought. Sheesh.
The judge only wants to hear the background of the case and the evidence nothing else matters that’s why she cuts them off this was an unfortunate situation but I agree with Judge M the defendant is not liable for 10k when the plaintiff can’t show evidence of her trying to get the court order to her and her (defendant) denying it had she had that evidence then she could’ve got alil something but it’s hard to make an accurate judgment when all you have is words spoken which is why Judge M went off the evidence she did have the defendant never got the court order so she’s not liable I do think Judge M felt bad for this woman but in civil cases the preponderance of evidence is on the plaintiff you have to show something was done unfair to you… This is gonna sound harsh but as sad as this case is evidence is evidence and that’s all the most judges especially judge M care about
@@sierrabrower7362 I see what you’re saying. However, I think she hardly ever shows empathy or express emotions (other than anger/frustration) felt for someone’s situation and I hope she’s not so cold in a relaxed setting but I just think she’s too harsh sometimes, especially when it’s evident that the plaintiff is struggling to express themself
As Judge Judy said out of 2 parents a child deserves one good one
She needs therapy! That man having sex, don't want her and she kept trying to MAKE him be daddy.... she don't know how to protect herself and/or her child, now look at this mess.
Agree!!
Wow, you know her whole relationship with him???!!! You ought to change your name to “the mad ratchet” because real millionaires aren’t sitting around, commenting on People’s Court sketches on YT. Plus, that Kaneakalon wig in your avi says pauper, not millionaire. Once there is a child, he has to be the “daddy,” like it or not. You need therapy for that dirty ass wig and your poor understanding of family law.
@@KamalasNotLikeUs not kanekalon… whew you said a mouthful 😂😂😂😭
I find it funny how the judge can keep interrupting them while they're talking when they interrupt her she freaks out
For anyone saying the mother is on the slower side: Pay attention to how she speaks during the case: But she speaks normal at the end with the guy in the hall with the mic. She spoke slower in the case to be precise with the Judge. She's not slow.
No she didn’t. She even asked “what kind of court”. Lol something is off with her
I believe that the defendant is lying,and the plaintiff did try and give her the paperwork and the defendant refused to take it.
The father probably lied as well
All of thee above. She definitely needs legal guidance
What kinda different court? 😂 She wants some money! I do think the daycare lady had a hand in intentionally of her not seeing her child though.
Agree!!!
Yeah the daycare worker was wrong to take sides, she should’ve stayed neutral
@@tanyawins exactly!
I agree but She should def seek legal advice. There’s a case here I think
The judge continually interrupted the mother every time she tried to explain herself. Why ask questions and don’t give people time to respond.....very frustrating
Because she's not answering. Instead of just giving an answer, she's doing the "Well, what had happened was." Aside from that, none of the questions she's not letting her respond to will make any difference to be honest. Whatever her reason was for not taking her child out of the daycare wasnt anything preventing her from doing it. Like the judge said, she had the legal right to and didn't do it. So her taking all day to explain why she didn't really wouldn't change anything.
This was hard to watch. When you file a case, you have to wait for paperwork processing, then a court date. From there, you are either gathering your evidence or thinking about what you want to say.
When the day comes, the least the judge can do is listen to what the people have to say.
The judge was visibly surprised that the previous officers arrested her, which resulted in the removal of her baby. The mom has been shut down over and over again, and this judge did the same. She can deny her claim while treating her like a person who deserves respect.
Plaintiff doesn’t seem all there but honestly… I feel that she was really trying all that she could and didn’t know what to do at this point. She had some evidence the judge didn’t even care to look at. Everything Judge Malian told her she should have done, she did. I feel bad for her.
Because it didn’t matter what she had. By her own testimony, the defendant broke absolutely no laws nor violated any contract. It’s not a lawsuit. And she was NOT trying everything she could or else she would have emailed the fucking document.
The judge ask questions.... without letting anyone even finish their sentence! (totally irritating).
Right?!
You clearly have missed the part where she says she had already read the entire case.
@@michaeldelyjah5696 I didn’t miss that part!! What’s your point?
@@elainevankat5353 She doesn't need to hear long ass explanations about irrelevant bullshit. That's the point. Answer the question and quit telling stories that have NOTHING to do with the question. You clearly have never been in court.
@@michaeldelyjah5696 If the judge doesn’t let anyone finish a sentence.... How would she even know if it’s going to be irrelevant or not!
This mother seems to be traumatized by what is happening to her. She realllllly went through emotional distress poor woman.
Being an adult is hard, but trying to be an adult when you have a little kid is even harder. Hopefully Mom will be able to move on from this and learn from it.
I hope.
Then stop having kids why do people keep having kids stop having kids if you're not responsible what the f***
It’s essential,to be an adult,when you have children.Doesn’t matter how hard it is.There’s a little life who needs you.
Plaintiff had the wheels turning in that big ol head of hers when Doug at the end said it didn't work in small claims court she would have 2 look in2 a different kind of court....The gears started spinning and she said, "what kind of different court???" Girl...Go home...
seriously girl, no. go home!! 😂
Lmaooooo I’m reading the comments while watching and haven’t gotten to the end yet but your comment has me dying! 😭
i was spending the whole time tryna find her hairline 🤣
@@ney9400 SAME HERE LOL
@@ney9400 I'm looking for her brows..
Day care provider was caught in tons of lies I can't even keep track of the amount of lies and judge Marilyn asked the plaintiff multiple questions and when she tried to answer JM cut her off EVERY single time!!!! Grabbing an arm is not at all assault and then JM says stop talking when she knows damned good and we'll every time she was Trying to talk she was never allowed maybe she didn't have a good case but the way this was handled really upset me and makes me lose a ton of respect I've had for her for a very long time. And I do think she was 100 percent entitled to something maybe not 10 grand but this was wrong on her part for sure. She still didn't even listen to any of the evidence she had.... everytime the judge was upset with the plaintiff for not doing something later she'd provide facts and the judge would be like oh ok you did do that .......what happened to asking a question before assuming JM really was disgusting here and she needs to know it and you know if this happened to her it would have been ON!!! And I believe the defendant did know she was in contact with the husband the case workers and admitted she was made aware of joint custody by the dad in OCT such a mess the judge was here.... wish someone would tell her this was absolutely gross.
This judge sincerely has problems with listening. She barely gives the plaintiffs enough time to state their case. She's on a major ego trip.
The daycare owner was in it with the dad....she deserved those 10k
“What kind of Court” 😂🤣the look on her face was priceless! That interviewer know he was wrong for making that comment about “another court,” then had the nerve to stumble on his when she asked what kind of court.” 😂🤣
The plaintiff was hilarious.
If the daycare lady showed up to the exchange, she should automatically assume that there’s shared custody regardless of paperwork. Clearly there’s an arrangement at play if you showed up to a precinct to witness an exchange.
She's letting the Judge talk, but, the Judge want let her talk, smh
That poor child will be so damaged by all this. 😔
The plaintiff is barking on the wrong tree. Should've sued the no-good baby daddy or CPS instead. I feel bad for the kid being in the middle of that mess tho
One side of the story
Cps rarely gives custody to the father over the mother,
What did she do?
SHUT UP WOMAN YOU LOST
THIS PLAINTIFF NEEDED TO
SHUT UP THE JUDGE TOLD U YOU
LOST WHY SUE THIS WOMAN?
SUE THE BABY DADDY IDIOT.
1st case to watch in a long time.
Time 7:08PM Tues 7/27/21
@@bobbarker9556 that's true, but in a case like my dad, he actually 'rented a shitty apartment' to be able to use a judge he paid off in another area, claiming said shitty apartment was his residence.
there are ways evil people can be evil despite innate court bias.
my assumption here is the dad had friends in bad places, like the gf being friends with the daycare worker as well. And of course, the plaintiff couldn't keep her mouth shut so when dad called the cops on the 'arm grabbing' she made it worse because she felt aggrieved.
I promise you, if I told you how my birth giver got custody of my oldest 5 children, your reaction would be like the judge! I bet you didn't know that CPS get paid BONUSES.... LARGE BONUSES, for taking kids from their parents! I SUPER bet you that you didn't know that they get even LARGER BONUSES if they can adopt your kids to another family!!! You'll be SURPRISED what CPS do
@@shayg.1012 How does CPS even get involved with your children to begin with? I don't get how that happens unless there are already some adverse circumstances going on.
They did the mom dirty and it's sad. She should get some justice I believe anyone should
I can see the plaintiff slashing the defendants tires 😩😂😑
Lol
I can see her doing more than that…hopefully not.
Judge Millian was so rude this episode, over speaking, finishing the plantiffs testimony and making assumptions. She's acting like judge judy
Judge is unfair and unreasonable with the plaintiff. Judge needs to listen, she makes up her kind quickly by blatantly disregarding the plaintiff as been unbalanced. She could have at least listened to her and be more understanding. Judge Milan needs a time out sheesh!!!!
I wholeheartedly concur with you . The judge did not listen and was kind of belligerent. At moments, she didn't even want to give the plaintiff a chance to finish her sentence. That was heartbreaking to watch.
Her current mindset is probably why he did what he did.
He knew she was OFF when he was screwing her.
So it is all her fault, bit hard to come to that assumption when he isn't there. If her accusations against him are true, not only is he a wife beater but also a coward who needs help to beat up a woman.
@@mickm6309 I've been accused and convicted on a complete lie my ex made up. I'm speaking on her flat effect as if she's on meds.
@@mickm6309 what about those that lie? The what if game can go on and on my friend.
@@loveshangover5062 I don't doubt you at all and I am sorry you were treated that way. I just believe in this case there is so much more we weren't shown and maybe she is acting this way because she is desperate to get her child from a man who didn't want the child. I personally believe that she should of just accepted that he didn't want the child from the start and just moved on with her life.
There are many ways nowadays to stop pregnancies, the most effective way is not to screw around.
@@mickm6309 I agree!
Her persistence here shows why she lost custody for almost 2 years, like the judge said you need to know when to shut up and cut your losses. She should've never gone to his house to confront him about not calling. I understand now why some mothers choose to be single mothers and not even ask for child support because they don't want the drama. They are in court again and will probably act foolish until they take the kid from both of them
Most just want the control. If they don't get child support they don't feel obligated to allow them to see the child. That why most choose to be mom's that are single.
@@Hellowendogggy11 I agree to an extent. Most single mothers want to control the narrative due to the fact that the man don't want them yet they have his child. This tends to happen with one night stands or folks who are not in a committed relationship so hurt jealousy feeling used guilt anger etc resinates. Now mother needs help & the man is not giving their all plus they're not together opps the child is now Collateral. I'm a single mother I don't get help & I got angry due to that but with help (thinking) I choose peace & to never use my child as collateral for I laid down with dude. Fact most women can't handle for we want what we want. I know of women who just picked the kids up & go or the grandmother sneaking the child to see the father smh. This woman here is fighting to expect something that was not there to begin with. One can't make another do nothing they don't want to & true she needs to realize it stop talking listen & rationalize what's important. I had to learn that early my child is 9 now. This is a main result of not knowing who one is sleeping with. Someone gotta be the bigger person.
@@EmpressNic it happened alot more then in one night stands and more likely to happen with someone one has feeling for not just fu**ing
Exactly why I don't ask for child support 😔
@@Hellowendogggy11 true I get that. Statistically even if both souls know each other things get sticky when a child is involved because certain things are not established before hand. So here comes mess after the baby. Women are emotional we're born nurturers so we want what's was best for the child. Emotions tends to play a BIG PART when we don't get the results we deeply desire & have yet to learn how to maturely deal with it.
“What kind of different court?!” 😬 🤣😭🥴
I believe the mother 100 percent. The daycare worker knew damn well the mother tried to present her with documents about having custody. She even admitted she could’ve doctored the documents
It's an unfortunate situation. I think any parent, especially mother who wants to be involved in their child's life would be negatively impacted by the circumstances. Her behavior in court may seem a bit "off", but consider what she (and the family) has been through. Some people would lose it if they were kept away from their child for a day, a week, a month, hell especially over a year (not to mention arrested). She may need therapy at this point. I agree with the judge, she should focus her energy on rebuilding and moving forward. The child care provider had to take precautions, because it can be dangerous and she would be held liable if anything happened to the child in her care or anyone else's child. I do wish the mother would have emailed or mailed the court documents to the child care provider. I hope things get better, forgiveness occurs, lessons are learned, and the child is safe and stable.
At the beginning of my divorce, my exhusband won physical placement and I went from being a stay at home mom and had my son every day to seeing him once a week and every other weekend. I fought like hell and got 50/50 placement and custody but one thing I learned is that if you don’t act responsibly and show that you are 100% together, you won’t get your child back. You have to keep your head in situations like this
I have nothing to add.
You summed it up exactly how I've perceived this case.
lovingly said!
Fathers are routinely keep from their children by their mothers backed by the state
Beautifully said.
Judge Milan hit the 🎯. The Plantiff is Petty with traces of entitlement and a huge victim's mindset. The defendant knew this women had some issues and protected that child as long as she could. Prayers for this innocent child.
There’s definitely something wrong with her. That poor kid
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The defendant is not her parent. Just because she got fed a bunch of crock by the dad doesn’t make it right for her to try maneuver things so that the daughter can’t see her own mother. Just because she “feels” some type of way doesn’t give her any right to keep them away for three months. This is going to effect their relationship and bonding for a very long time. The mom isn’t even a abusing her child. She got way too involved for a daycare worker. And the mother was separated from her child by a coward who didn’t want anything to do her even after that child was born, got her arrested for touching his arm, and then recently came with his friend to beat her up, so of course she’d be pissed. Did you even follow the case?
@@nc8586🤯. This women has issues and if you think that she is being lied on by her baby's daddy that your right to do so. The defendant answers, her lack of answers and a decision to have a baby by a lying deadbeat father speak about her lack of character as a mother and women.
I feel so very sorry for her. I wish the judge could help her.
The plaintiff is definitely a little off. 🤔 I kind of do believe her when she said that she tried to present the defendant with the papers during the drop off that she (defendant) showed up to, but the defendant wouldn’t look at them.
And what makes her "a little off" exACTly? Enlighten me.
The plaintiff seems like she likes drama but I believe that the daycare worker was not willing to work with her or accept documents. I believe the daycare worker has ties to the dad’s family ..
I love when people draw the most outrageous conclusions. Where on earth did you get this idea? 🤣
@F. Aduke Femi-Babalola except there was no “evidence” from which to draw such an inference. A “belief” isn’t “evidence” 🤷🏾♂️
@F. Aduke Femi-Babalola Based on what evidence? There is ZERO evidence to make that inference. You, like most people, don't know what "evidence" is.
Absolutely agree! The daycare worker (defendant) is playing favorites!
I believe the day care worker has ties to Al Qaeda and was the real mastermind behind the planning and implementation of the 9/11 bombings! Also based on this case I believe she was the direct cause of the BP oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico in 2010!
I feel bad for the plantiff BUT she got on my nerves!
I do hope the childcare provider has a similar situation one day because she joined a fight that wasn’t hers. She should’ve kept it neutral and followed the laws. All that extra friendship with the Dad showed she took sides.
I love how this seems like there will be a part two when she said "what kind of different court" she was very professional and kept her head up high through out it all
I really feel sorry for the mother. She’s very pretty.
I feel sorry for the mother.she's very pretty. OK! You seem more truthful just saying you feel sorry for the mother.
Judge Marilyn is taking over the nastiness of Judge Judy!!!!
I’ve noticed that Judge Milian does seem way more angry and aggressive lately. I was wondering if it was just a coincidence that I’ve seen so many episodes in the last week or two where she was mean/rude or if they’ve all been very recent episodes. I was even wondering if she is going through something difficult in her personal life that is affecting her attitude. I really hope that she doesn’t continue to act this way. I choose to watch her specifically because she is NOT like Judge Judy. I’ve seen Judge Milian become angry and loud in the past but it wasn’t that often and it seemed like it was only in the most extreme cases. She usually has a great sense of humor and seems to genuinely care about people. PLEASE BRING BACK THE KIND AND REASONABLE JUDGE MILIAN THAT WE LOVE AND RESPECT!!!❤️
@@falangomamango I agree she has become very aggressive. I too watch her because she is NOT judge Judy! I think judge Judy is racist,she's out of touch with today's technology, and she is a very nasty woman!
I’m sorry this Judge bothers me. She asks people to talk and tell her their side but cuts them off when they are trying to explain and then gets mad if they cut her off to correct something that was misunderstood. I don’t like her i am intrigued by the cases but I would recommend people to go to other courts cause this judge is too self involved to completely understand others people’s situation to listen. She angered me during this case she really didn’t care to listen.
She does this too much but especially to black women if you look closely
This is what needs to be taught in school. Don’t “date” hookup with etc someone you aren’t willing to spend the rest of your life being bothered with. We only seen her for 20 minutes. Can you imagine life 🥴
Did you not hear what happened to her? Even the judge says she would’ve thought she was crazy if she didn’t have proof... yet your doing exactly what she said. Go look in the mirror and see if you have any abnormalities on your skull. Seriously
This should be taught at home
She had plans for that $10,000. This whole thing is a shame. These child care providers to through mess like this alllll the time.
The judge won’t let this lady fully testify......stop cutting her off already! Yes she does not deserve $10,000. But goodness this is crazy
This child care provider completely over stepped
lol at the end "what kind of court" she wants some $$$