Dinner Etiquette 🍽️ ASMR • Soft Spoken • Gentle Proper Eating • Crinkly Shirt

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  • Welcome to our dinner etiquette lesson. Today we will learn how to exhibit confidence and excellence in every move you take at the table. You will learn what to expect from your surroundings, how to properly eat and converse during the meal. Thank you for your time.
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  • @leeraxd
    @leeraxd Před 4 lety +6761

    I’m ready to be queen of Genovia

  • @SwagimirPutin
    @SwagimirPutin Před 4 lety +6287

    Maria, this is a bit advanced for society right now.
    We only just finished learning how to wash our hands!

  • @literalmonkey6535
    @literalmonkey6535 Před 2 lety +1341

    Me while eating instant noodles out of an plastic bowl on my couch:
    "Finally, something cultured!"

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
    • @garyzod8818
      @garyzod8818 Před rokem +6

      Id bet she is a harsh disciplinarian, oh my word.

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
      @dallasdandigitalproduction393 Před rokem +7

      @@garyzod8818 in your dreams maybe.

    • @calprey
      @calprey Před rokem

      @@dallasdandigitalproduction393 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona Před rokem +3

      @@KenzieLynn666 I’m watching this like “this is very relaxing but I don’t respect the culture of baseless banal signifiers behind it at all” like if anyone got mad at me for ever breaking the imaginary dinner choreography rules irl I’d just be disappointed in them for caring about something so valueless lol

  • @amy-bethtaylor2656
    @amy-bethtaylor2656 Před 3 lety +714

    If she made more of these, even if they were almost the same, I would watch every one of them. I love this.

  • @Blue-jo9fl
    @Blue-jo9fl Před 4 lety +5761

    I love how she's doing her own thing and not following a trend like some other asmrtists.

    • @kath.andrews
      @kath.andrews Před 4 lety +250

      What trend? I'm curious because I just watch Maria, Latte and WhispersRed.

    • @alejoey44
      @alejoey44 Před 4 lety +97

      Paul Harris they’re the same three I watch! (Virtual high five!)

    • @jaiden1520
      @jaiden1520 Před 4 lety +89

      Paul Harris like popular things to do for asmr videos, stuff that’s like a popular trigger and gets a lot of views

    • @neurotoxic6407
      @neurotoxic6407 Před 4 lety +243

      When you consider that many of these "trends" are things that Maria has already done...

    • @daily_gamer6080
      @daily_gamer6080 Před 4 lety +189

      Nearly every other asmrtist has followed HER lol

  • @Lowback
    @Lowback Před 4 lety +4619

    This is a lot to keep in mind when I eat my McDonald's

    • @MuItiASMR
      @MuItiASMR Před 4 lety +52

      Or my pizza

    • @fefejewell
      @fefejewell Před 4 lety +77

      These comments are giving me life! 😂

    • @nicholaskloss7198
      @nicholaskloss7198 Před 4 lety +22

      Lowback I hear McDonalds and Wendy’s are running out of beef. So you may just need a salad fork.

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 Před 4 lety +36

      U.K. McDonald’s are all closed. We’re all not ok. Send fries 🍟

    • @_feniks_9809
      @_feniks_9809 Před 4 lety +8

      Or sushi!!!!😋😋😋

  • @elenastidham
    @elenastidham Před 2 lety +394

    I am still not over how spot-on she is. In my first job I was a caterer, we were taught all this when we set up plates, and she even touched on not helping us when we switch plates! We appreciate you trying to help, we really do, but so many accidents happen that way and so many people would even get burns from it. We just ask you stay still :)

    • @wholelottanuts
      @wholelottanuts Před 12 dny

      bro just give me my damn food and i'll eat it like a pig, who cares about etiquettes

  • @kimberlygiron6907
    @kimberlygiron6907 Před 3 lety +751

    I’m going to be so professional when I get back to Olive Garden

    • @gingercashcat
      @gingercashcat Před 2 lety +10

      🤣🤣

    • @trenchcoats4life891
      @trenchcoats4life891 Před 2 lety +14

      WHEN YOU'RE HERE, YOU'RE FAMILY!
      Must be Vin Diesel's restauarant.

    • @EmeraldView
      @EmeraldView Před 2 lety +8

      OMG, I'm so doing this there.
      Maybe even at Applebee's

    • @southbrazosbass244
      @southbrazosbass244 Před 2 lety +15

      It's funny because in some small country towns people consider olive garden to be fine dining 🤷

    • @yume.online__
      @yume.online__ Před 2 lety +4

      @@southbrazosbass244 oh no. I CONSIDER OLIVE GARDEN TO BE FINE DINING!

  • @AP-pb7br
    @AP-pb7br Před 4 lety +962

    The future of ASMR are soft spoken videos that actually teach you something , as simple as it may be. This was absolutely wonderful.

    • @brock500rbh
      @brock500rbh Před 4 lety

      like how to eat..... we all have this masted i think

    • @TheTonk44
      @TheTonk44 Před 4 lety +18

      This does take ASMR to a whole new level. Educational ASMR , what a fantastic concept!

    • @monicascorpio4287
      @monicascorpio4287 Před 4 lety +6

      The Best things in life are free,
      And ASMR is just that. Heaven on earth. Tremendous Maria. Thank you and Love you for touching souls in the most gentle way.

    • @hoffwell
      @hoffwell Před 4 lety +6

      Agreed. I'm finished with 'cranial nerve examinations' and other such nonsense.

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight Před 4 lety +4

      @@TheTonk44 a lot of other asmrtists are already doing educational asmr (let's find out, the French whisperer, phoenician sailor, etc.)

  • @Tfisch1010
    @Tfisch1010 Před 4 lety +4375

    As a chef in a fine dining restaurant this is bang on. Only critique is the bread plate is way smaller, but you are obviously working with your home dishes and don't have my insane plate budget. This is so well done!

    • @ROFLitzSaur
      @ROFLitzSaur Před 4 lety +25

      whats the restaurant called

    • @meghanconetta1338
      @meghanconetta1338 Před 4 lety +244

      As a waitress in FD I can confirm that the majority of society NEEDS this video lol

    • @Tfisch1010
      @Tfisch1010 Před 4 lety +327

      @@ROFLitzSaur why do you want to know where I work internet stranger

    • @abefrohman81
      @abefrohman81 Před 4 lety +30

      @@Tfisch1010 Yessss... tell us where you work.

    • @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979
      @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979 Před 4 lety +29

      Tasha Fischer So would people be judged at the restaurant if they didn’t show the etiquette like in the video?

  • @JosephBrown-cw9ml
    @JosephBrown-cw9ml Před 2 lety +192

    This lovely woman has saved me during, minimally, 6 dinner parties. I’m so grateful.

    • @milliedavis2987
      @milliedavis2987 Před 2 lety +15

      literally same, some of these tips are absolutely lifesaving

    • @jbfangirl8529
      @jbfangirl8529 Před 6 měsíci +5

      You guys go to dinner parties? I need more cultured friends 😂

  • @itsblitzzz
    @itsblitzzz Před 3 lety +1169

    I don’t know how I missed this video but it is absolutely the best!! Everything about it is perfectly relaxing. Thank you, Maria. This is a new favorite. 🤩😍😴😴😴😴😴

    • @georgew5038
      @georgew5038 Před 2 lety +3

      Probably because she does 40 videos a day

  • @zazzycatlady
    @zazzycatlady Před 4 lety +990

    i would love to see this evolve into a mini series. more etiquette lessons seem like such a dream! I was thinking about maria showing us how to eat the most difficult foods with proper (antiquated) grace 💓

  • @lpdeese
    @lpdeese Před 4 lety +624

    Maria said lemme get y’all together so when quarantine is over y’all have manners 😂😂😂

  • @tylerx8848
    @tylerx8848 Před 3 lety +183

    I never realized how barbaric I ate until watching this lol.

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner Před 3 lety +31

      It's okay to not act like you're disarming a bomb every time you take a bite of salad.

  • @af5354
    @af5354 Před 3 lety +200

    before asmr was really a full fledged community, i used to watch these incredible slow and meaningful etiquette videos on youtube that were peak unintentional asmr. I haven't been able to find them, this video is a supreme treat! 10/10!!!!

  • @julianacaggiano
    @julianacaggiano Před 4 lety +1013

    She reminds me of Julie Andrews as Queen Clarice in the Princess Diaries teaching Mia (Anne Hathaway) how to be a princess. And I love it!

  • @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915
    @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915 Před 4 lety +3339

    Maria: Elegantly setting a beautiful table for a sophisticated meal
    Me: Eating ramen on my bed with a green fork

    • @ashkinstherobot
      @ashkinstherobot Před 4 lety +100

      Girl I'm drinking wine and eating leftover pizza watching this

    • @plusultrafox5647
      @plusultrafox5647 Před 4 lety +6

      Thank you for this 😁

    • @SophieJackson1993
      @SophieJackson1993 Před 4 lety +22

      I’m eating toast with cheese chive spread on my bed.

    • @PixiePrinses
      @PixiePrinses Před 4 lety +39

      i'm eating ice cream straight out the tub lol

    • @emiliana1767
      @emiliana1767 Před 4 lety +43

      I'm eating cookies while sitting on a kids chair in the kitchen in order to procrastinate from cleaning the kitchen and reward myself for attempting to clean the kitchen 👌

  • @BuzBuzxo
    @BuzBuzxo Před 3 lety +278

    *All Those Years Of Watching Titanic Has Prepared Me For This Very Moment-*

  • @nica7747
    @nica7747 Před 3 lety +273

    PLEASE MARIA MAKE THIS A SERIES I BEG OF YOU ! WE LOVE LEARNING ETIQUETTE AND ESPECIALLY FROM YOU QUEEN !

    • @Finn959
      @Finn959 Před rokem +2

      Watch jamila musajeva

  • @iihxney_bear3171
    @iihxney_bear3171 Před 4 lety +1274

    This feels like something from Princess Diaries.

    • @jackieskellie
      @jackieskellie Před 4 lety +27

      iihxney_bear Maria is an etiquette coach from Genovia 😍

    • @avilestiffany
      @avilestiffany Před 4 lety +15

      Luv that movie. I cross my ankles b/c of that movie lol

    • @asmrstateofmind5122
      @asmrstateofmind5122 Před 4 lety +2

      So classy 😍

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff Před 4 lety +1

      @@avilestiffany Hah, I cross my ankles bc of the "Phineas and Ferb" episode, when their british cousin was teaching Candace, how to behave like a lady.

    • @PPMSwift
      @PPMSwift Před 4 lety +5

      GENOVIA! THE LAND I CALL MY HOME

  • @tabbycatcrume
    @tabbycatcrume Před 4 lety +712

    Is this how we eat in public? Because I can’t remember anymore...

  • @cayden9224
    @cayden9224 Před rokem +79

    The amount of research that goes into these videos is insane and it just proves how dedicated she is to making good content.

  • @VenusTheShinyStar
    @VenusTheShinyStar Před 3 lety +194

    This video called me a rude slob in every polite way possible but I love how calm and fancy she is

  • @betterdaysmacrame
    @betterdaysmacrame Před 4 lety +420

    Thank god, because eating is all I do these days.

    • @gabbyelaine92
      @gabbyelaine92 Před 4 lety +8

      emilyballcreative quarantine eating is REAL 🤣

    • @mei-lingthomas1942
      @mei-lingthomas1942 Před 4 lety +2

      After quarantine this is what life has come to 😂👌

    • @sydneybrooks6038
      @sydneybrooks6038 Před 4 lety +1

      Same here 😂😂

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff Před 4 lety +7

      guys, how to stop?
      I wanted to be skinny this summer, but food is so tasty and I just NYAMNYAMNYAAAAAAAAAM
      don't do that to us, corona

    • @Psycho.Bengali
      @Psycho.Bengali Před 4 lety +1

      emilyballcreative ahhh same I’m so fat p

  • @holasarrita
    @holasarrita Před 4 lety +1253

    I knew this would be wonderful as soon as she said “derrière.”

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx Před 4 lety +8

      always the first thing I look for

    • @cedricdubs2143
      @cedricdubs2143 Před 4 lety +1

      Timelaps pls :)

    • @Ayraaaful
      @Ayraaaful Před 4 lety +5

      Jhin le virtuose 1:56

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight Před 4 lety +27

      it's funny cause in French it sounds a bit rude lol you would say "postérieur".

    • @rainneko3
      @rainneko3 Před 4 lety +10

      2:02
      *"butt"*

  • @roxybeaudet6777
    @roxybeaudet6777 Před rokem +119

    I love this vid. I come back to it often. What would also be awesome is if you did etiquette videos for different countries, because many countries have unique things that they consider to be polite/impolite and that would be very interesting and relaxing to learn.

  • @kingworm7168
    @kingworm7168 Před rokem +24

    Girly I keep coming back to this video like 3 times a week. Can we pleeeeeeeeeeeeaase please get a new etiquette video 🥹 these are so so good

  • @BountyFlamor
    @BountyFlamor Před 4 lety +275

    About what I would like to see on your channel: an afternoon tea role play would be much appreciated.

    • @Magirl-xq4hr
      @Magirl-xq4hr Před 4 lety +3

      BountyFlamor oh yeah I love tea

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 Před 4 lety +1

      She has a few Tea videos. One of my fave is quite awhile ago, like 7 or 8 years ago I think.

    • @ameliethisisme
      @ameliethisisme Před 4 lety +1

      great idea

    • @johneden2033
      @johneden2033 Před 4 lety +2

      Tea? You mean that stuff we dumped into the harbor a while back?

    • @deanwinchester2613
      @deanwinchester2613 Před 4 lety +2

      Yes, like a high tea role play.

  • @Marybringsgoodnews
    @Marybringsgoodnews Před 4 lety +627

    “Do not put the whole cookie into your mouth.”
    😂😂😂

    • @dontknowyou2385
      @dontknowyou2385 Před 4 lety +2

      Mary Brings Good News :(

    • @selenabranch936
      @selenabranch936 Před 4 lety +17

      Maria : * gently and elegantly eats cookies*
      Me : * inhales cookies like kirby*

    • @Ashlolz
      @Ashlolz Před 4 lety +4

      Well that's not very good news Mary

    • @tlmctaggart
      @tlmctaggart Před 4 lety

      Is this based on Gloria Star’s videos?

    • @RebekahFerro
      @RebekahFerro Před 4 lety +1

      I felt personally attacked by that one 😂😂😂

  • @vinodmehra188
    @vinodmehra188 Před 3 lety +91

    4:16
    She: Would you like some bread?
    Me : Yes please.
    She puts it back.
    Me : *(embarrassed)* or maybe not.

  • @hsvlove8799
    @hsvlove8799 Před 3 lety +187

    THIS ladies and gentleman, this is ASMR

    • @jdovgy
      @jdovgy Před 2 lety +1

      It precisely is (also omg, hello! a wild kanjagi found!)

  • @mariaaniag2385
    @mariaaniag2385 Před 4 lety +390

    Maria: eating healthy wholesome foods being elegant
    Me: eating ramen noodles with a spork

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 Před 4 lety +10

      More truth in this comment then many would admit to!

    • @kelseygirl2481
      @kelseygirl2481 Před 4 lety +5

      That's such a good idea!

    • @madelinetorye9967
      @madelinetorye9967 Před 4 lety +7

      I fail to see whats wrong with a spork. I think that is a fine idea for romen noodles

    • @jacobchesser3373
      @jacobchesser3373 Před 4 lety +2

      @Will Loehr this deserves to be top comment lmfao

    • @thebrisaeflores
      @thebrisaeflores Před 4 lety +6

      **ever so gently, with all of the grace, taps a few drops of Tapatío**

  • @DadandBubs
    @DadandBubs Před 4 lety +373

    More etiquette lessons please ma’am.
    Speech, writing, introductions, etc...
    I need help being a proper human being.
    Thank you.

  • @BryanBalak
    @BryanBalak Před 2 lety +228

    Maria: We break the cookie into small bite size pieces...
    Me: Watch me fit this whole cookie in my mouth in one bite... 🍪😁

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 Před 2 lety +6

      I think breaking these cookies into 2 halves would be okay.

    • @Thiccubus
      @Thiccubus Před rokem +1

      @@frankfahrenheit9537 Two halves is acceptable, anything more and you might as well smash it with a hydralic press and snort the dust.

    • @katybug6572
      @katybug6572 Před rokem +5

      That’s not proper.. tsk tsk 🫵 lol

    • @ninab.4540
      @ninab.4540 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Doitdoidoit

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod Před 10 dny

      This comment is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy Před 2 lety +18

    Not only is this helpful, but the "Always, Sometimes, Never" hand position moment gets my head tingling without fail every single time which has started to become so rare. Whatever you're doing here, keep doing it haha

  • @gardevikrath5691
    @gardevikrath5691 Před 4 lety +783

    I’ve watched this several times now and it’s quickly become one my personal favorite videos of yours. Keep up the great work and stay safe

    • @doggooverlords3041
      @doggooverlords3041 Před 3 lety +10

      Same it taught me how to have a nice dinner with my imaginary friends😂

    • @karenl.281
      @karenl.281 Před 3 lety +2

      Same. Love ones like this. I play them while I work.

    • @zazzycatlady
      @zazzycatlady Před 3 lety +2

      i came here to make this exact comment!

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Před 3 lety +1

      I agree!!

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 Před 3 lety +1

      Same this is my favourite ❤️

  • @harisharris5902
    @harisharris5902 Před 4 lety +1877

    Maria is like CEO of ASMR

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 Před 4 lety +37

      Shes the queen of ASMR actually 😁

    • @Jayliah_
      @Jayliah_ Před 4 lety +18

      Haris Harris Maria and Latte are the best!

    • @pvdmtubeasmr6095
      @pvdmtubeasmr6095 Před 4 lety +17

      More like the CTO: Chief Tingles Officer!

    • @ange1i
      @ange1i Před 4 lety +2

      Haris Harris the one and only! :))

    • @zinmomo7192
      @zinmomo7192 Před 4 lety +2

      Yes she is! :D

  • @BarrocoTarot
    @BarrocoTarot Před 3 lety +868

    The worst you can order is Spaghettis please don't do that if you are on a special date or try to seduce someone lol. An amazing and lovely video. It was really helpful. Thank you.

    • @leah7348
      @leah7348 Před 3 lety +25

      What if you twirl it up onto the fork so it's less messy?

    • @solanum6039
      @solanum6039 Před 3 lety +84

      @@leah7348 Spaghetti will always be messy. 😅

    • @francescoantoniocrisconio194
      @francescoantoniocrisconio194 Před 3 lety +61

      You guys just don't know the right technique. I eat spaghetti often and i'm never messy with them

    • @verom8657
      @verom8657 Před 3 lety +35

      @@francescoantoniocrisconio194 same. I'm only messy if I'm super hungry but typically dont make a mess

    • @venanciafox8765
      @venanciafox8765 Před 3 lety +13

      Wait, I saw this in a movie called Brooklyn with Saoirse Ronan! It CAN be done! 🇮🇹♥️☘️

  • @Walker.Does.Photography
    @Walker.Does.Photography Před 3 lety +207

    I can’t imagine how people are able to eat like that 😂😂😂 you need to enjoy your food comfortably without it being stressful 😆

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner Před 3 lety +89

      Rich people refuse to enjoy things comfortably

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 Před 2 lety +10

      Just do it. It is not stressful. When I see people using fork and knife
      as if they wanted to repair their car - terrible. A laugh.

    • @paolamaria399
      @paolamaria399 Před 2 lety +14

      It's disgusting to have a meal with someone who's mannerless. It's uncomfortable for the people aroud to watch or even to listen if they make sounds when eating or drinking.

    • @janheard3826
      @janheard3826 Před 2 lety +5

      @@CarlsCozyCorner Plenty of uncouth rich people

    • @soirema
      @soirema Před 2 lety +8

      Its not stresfull its beatifull

  • @ohokay8392
    @ohokay8392 Před 3 lety +1883

    me, fingers coated in Cheeto dust “do go on maria”

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 Před 3 lety +64

      Me eating takies with chopsticks" yes...how interesting "

    • @nourhanhassanzahran2385
      @nourhanhassanzahran2385 Před 3 lety +8

      @@someone8240 DUUDDEE😭😭💀💀

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 Před 3 lety +11

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 well, it keeps you're fingers from getting coverd in chip dust

    • @kaylyndincler6933
      @kaylyndincler6933 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes🤣

    • @ohokay8392
      @ohokay8392 Před 3 lety +4

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 he got a point doe

  • @thebestyoda
    @thebestyoda Před 4 lety +1438

    When you start watching this to fall asleep but end up watching the whole thing because you realise how you dont know any of this

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 Před 4 lety +4

      How do u not know any of thia i see people do it all the time and alot in movies hahha

    • @wHenblAZESgeticy
      @wHenblAZESgeticy Před 4 lety +3

      Accurate

    • @savagejacob6301
      @savagejacob6301 Před 4 lety +1

      True true

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 Před 4 lety +1

      @@evelyng.4083 I didn't just say tv hahaha just incase of others

    • @emeralddragongaming2930
      @emeralddragongaming2930 Před 4 lety +3

      @heleen b well not everywhere in Europe, rich countries perhaps but where I live now the main and often only tool for eating is spoon and only one for all kinds of food a and a single plate too

  • @Deeeeeeeedz
    @Deeeeeeeedz Před 2 lety +24

    It shook me to the core when I learned that salad had to be ✨ cut ✨

    • @moonyshowl
      @moonyshowl Před rokem +1

      Honestly though, I usually just try -and fail horribly- to stuff it all in my mouth

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod Před 10 dny

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @drdoloresmize5386
    @drdoloresmize5386 Před 4 lety +103

    She SETS the trends!! This one was SO lovely!! Crisp white crinkly shirt, with black pants. The black chargers, white plates, and there is not a single spot on that glass and stemware!! Your attention to detail is just exquisite!! I loooooove you doing tutorials!! Nobody is better at it than you are!

  • @starrygrl4
    @starrygrl4 Před 4 lety +447

    Less than 3 minutes and I already can understand I’m doing everything wrong

    • @carladargent6209
      @carladargent6209 Před 4 lety +1

      Bruh same

    • @leileiX
      @leileiX Před 4 lety

      Me too.. I feel bad .-. I think i'll take some notes. xD

    • @cristinarnold
      @cristinarnold Před 4 lety +1

      Damn you made it to 3 minutes before realizing that! It took me .02 seconds😂💚✌

    • @user-ph1dm4hg5v
      @user-ph1dm4hg5v Před 4 lety

      Doctor Who: Revolution only when you’re at an expensive and luxe restaurant, nobody eat’s like this at home with their family’s lol

    • @cypher2540
      @cypher2540 Před 4 lety

      It took me the hole video to understand stand I do everything wrong on the table

  • @Danthonyt
    @Danthonyt Před rokem +36

    This is still my favorite ASMR video of all time!

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy Před 2 lety +9

    Commenting again to say that this video must be in the Top 5 best ASMR videos of all time for me, and I've been listening/watching for nearly 10 years... It's not only the position of the microphone and the subtle rustling that makes it feel like actually in the room hearing clothes naturally move, but the soft, patient tutorial/lesson delivery that makes it the most relaxing (and educational!) thing to listen to over and over.

  • @uhohitschellie
    @uhohitschellie Před 4 lety +372

    The scene from Titanic where Molly Brown tells Jack to "start from the outside and work your way in" has informed my ability to use silverware in fine dining ever since. I'm very excited to have Maria teach me more techniques.

    • @uhohitschellie
      @uhohitschellie Před 4 lety +41

      It also blows my mind that these videos are intended for relaxation but they should be considered actual training guides (like the towel and clothes folding, too!) because they are just so well researched and executed.

    • @kristenf8335
      @kristenf8335 Před 4 lety +4

      Hahaha same!!! 😂

    • @Chloe299XxX
      @Chloe299XxX Před 4 lety +6

      Michelle Horn same! every time I get confused I think of this scene 😆

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 Před 4 lety +4

      Exactly what I was thinking, that scene probably taught a lot of us basic table etiquette

    • @LunaLeea1
      @LunaLeea1 Před 4 lety +7

      @@uhohitschellie also Julia Roberts learning to eat with fine cultery in Pretty Woman!

  • @QueenofAnon
    @QueenofAnon Před 4 lety +131

    this video has a similar vibe to your old towel/napkin/clothes folding tutorials, and those are my absolute favorite videos of yours to date! thank you for blessing us with knowledge, manners, and relaxation in these trying times.♥️ you are a goddess, maria! 🥰

    • @daisyblu3000
      @daisyblu3000 Před 4 lety

      cloud nine so true! the pace, voice level and overall gentleness and the “step/explanation” type really do bring me back to those vids. awesome as usual 💕🤗

    • @laineyerin5801
      @laineyerin5801 Před 4 lety

      I second this! These are the ones I still get tingles from. Thank you so much Maria!

  • @aldausa
    @aldausa Před měsícem +1

    i will never get tired of this video, the "soup moment" lives in my head rent free
    tysm

  • @neonevaa7943
    @neonevaa7943 Před 6 měsíci +6

    this is the first asmr video i ever watched and it was in 2019. i wanted to learn more about table etiquette and ended up here. every now and then i come back to this video especially when im feeling down. thank u maria

  • @MsQuickSilver
    @MsQuickSilver Před 4 lety +336

    This food etiquette/table manners lesson was absolutely divine, Maria. Your uniquely relaxing voice, graceful hand movements, knowledge and self-confidence, it all felt to me as though you were the teacher from Heaven. Tingles galore! Thank you and bravo for a job well done. Keep up the great work, Maria, because in these stressful times we need you more than ever. Greetings from Montreal. 😍💖🌈👍🇨🇦

    • @jeannineasselin761
      @jeannineasselin761 Před 4 lety +4

      Hi from Montreal !
      Bonjour de Montréal !

    • @awesomedude6249
      @awesomedude6249 Před 4 lety

      Us wrestling fans don't really like Montreal. Just search up "The Montreal Screwjob"

    • @Glooomyy
      @Glooomyy Před 4 lety +1

      Oh hey I'm from Montreal too!:D And yes, I totally agree with this comment💓💓 I took a nap from this video earlier and it was wonderful.=0=💤💕 Anyways, I hope you and your family are safe and doing well!💗

    • @scity3301
      @scity3301 Před 4 lety +2

      @@jeannineasselin761 bonjour de quebec

    • @tysmith5653
      @tysmith5653 Před 4 lety

      Greetings from a place near Calgary

  • @RockyFloral
    @RockyFloral Před 4 lety +149

    When I took home economics in 8th grade we had to learn table etiquette and then we went on a field trip to a “fine dining” restaurant experience and my teacher actually graded us on how we acted throughout the dinner. Many people failed..

    • @assmosis4573
      @assmosis4573 Před 4 lety +6

      Flora Papadimitriou your teach is a boss!

    • @avakay1
      @avakay1 Před 4 lety +5

      i’m did this in 11th grade!

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 Před 4 lety +2

      Lucky! My schools too broke and ratchet to be able to go to a restaurant Lol most of the children there including me are not lucky and low on money with our families and ya know.... But um ... Yeahhhh that's cool!!!

    • @nihilisticbarbie
      @nihilisticbarbie Před 4 lety +1

      @@i___270___x8 there's videos on CZcams if you're genuinely interested in learning formal table manners

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 Před 4 lety

      @@nihilisticbarbie thank you 😊 ill check em out

  • @LizCanKnit
    @LizCanKnit Před 3 lety +33

    This was great! Would love to see how drinking is incorporated. Conversation etiquette is sorely needed as well.

    • @c3ka
      @c3ka Před 2 lety +3

      Conversation etiquette, yes!!! Especially in an age where we've forgotten all about articulation.

  • @Phoenix-zy1cx
    @Phoenix-zy1cx Před 4 měsíci +3

    I just noticed the really beautiful and subtle sound mixing in the first minute and a half. All of the ambient sounds are crisp, while the soft song slowly grows more clear yet does not overpower. It's a masterpiece of sound design.
    I think each ASMRtist develops an audio style. Yours is very distinct and cannot be imitated. I hope you are proud of your artistic sound. :D

  • @autumnangelino
    @autumnangelino Před 4 lety +759

    my immediate thought was that she's eating in cursive

    • @danithefiend6167
      @danithefiend6167 Před 4 lety +5

      Ha! I adore this creative thought. Too cool.

    • @olgapopova5768
      @olgapopova5768 Před 4 lety +20

      I'm eating in comic sans then

    • @Elven.
      @Elven. Před 4 lety +4

      Oh, I write in cursive now I have to stay on brand

    • @talscorner3696
      @talscorner3696 Před 4 lety +5

      I find this thought to be oddly accurate...

    • @Andrea-nj3je
      @Andrea-nj3je Před 4 lety +2

      Autumn Angelino the fact that somebody else thought the same makes me feel so much better

  • @hannylovely5
    @hannylovely5 Před 4 lety +541

    Me, sitting at an elegant table next to my dog during quarantine: So, Molly, please do tell me how your afternoon was. Did you say hello to the mailman again today?
    My dog, Molly: *does not care that Maria worked hard to teach us table manners and is devouring everything in sight*

  • @Bellawhereyoubeenloka
    @Bellawhereyoubeenloka Před 3 lety +330

    Imagine nikacado avocado trying to eat like this

    • @iiredgm
      @iiredgm Před 3 lety +62

      he'd have a mental breakdown half way and start hitting the dishes with a broom while crying

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 Před 3 lety +16

      @@iiredgm and he would yell at the wait staff

    • @laurenlesley6081
      @laurenlesley6081 Před 3 lety +7

      Omfg don’t even get me visualising 🤣🤣🤣

    • @fha1758
      @fha1758 Před 3 lety +12

      Not even remotely possible for him.

    • @cass956_
      @cass956_ Před 3 lety +2

      @@iiredgm LMAO 😂😂😂😂

  • @dragonnymphs5882
    @dragonnymphs5882 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Black space for anyone sleeping
    Goodnight x

  • @labonihira
    @labonihira Před 4 lety +2069

    This video feels like a subtle clap back to those crazy mukbangers 😂

  • @Sangonomiiya
    @Sangonomiiya Před 4 lety +1982

    This has the energy of “im Enissa Blanche and im your freestyle dance teacher” but it’s like actually serious

  • @ara.4497
    @ara.4497 Před rokem +2

    These etiquette rules make a lot of sense and are very respectful and caring for everyone involved in the formal dining experience. Thanks for this great surprisingly relaxing ASMR presentation!

  • @carriebasler6927
    @carriebasler6927 Před 3 lety +1

    I so enjoyed this so much. I am 53 years old and learned a few new things today. Thank you Maria! Been watching for a few years now. Love your work!

  • @madina4568
    @madina4568 Před 4 lety +284

    She radiates sunshine, sweetness and she is just such a *Maria* . Simply We all do love her.

    • @jerrysoriano9827
      @jerrysoriano9827 Před 4 lety +2

      maria being maria.

    • @kazbar7611
      @kazbar7611 Před 4 lety +2

      I may be wrong but I thought Maria said at the start of the video, she was going to demonstrate the European and American way of eating?. But it looked to me like she ate the salad and the main course the same way. As a European I'm curious as to what the difference is?. This is not meant as a criticism, I really enjoyed the video Maria. I just wanted to know what the difference is and thought I might have missed it?.

  • @hugznotdrugs2
    @hugznotdrugs2 Před 4 lety +516

    Maria: How to be proper at the table
    Me: *nodding* in my pajamas drinking out of a Dixie cup

  • @truestormi8444
    @truestormi8444 Před 3 lety +16

    I really love this kind of asmr, where you give tingles and new knowledge to people.. thanks maria

  • @tiyetiye379
    @tiyetiye379 Před 3 lety

    Maria, I think this is my favorite video of yours that you’ve done all year. I’ve lost count of the number of times it’s sent me off to sleep, so thank you for all the work you put into this and so many other videos!

  • @ydotbiggie
    @ydotbiggie Před 4 lety +538

    I’m never going to eat the same way in a restaurant again

    • @nightlizard4770
      @nightlizard4770 Před 4 lety +1

      @Nicholas Estrada 😆

    • @avo11
      @avo11 Před 4 lety +2

      Nicholas Estrada why wouldn’t we :)

    • @xglitchedoutx9964
      @xglitchedoutx9964 Před 4 lety +2

      Coronavirus

    • @ydotbiggie
      @ydotbiggie Před 4 lety +4

      Hopefully we can eat at restaurants very soon

    • @Ceanothes
      @Ceanothes Před 4 lety +3

      Ne venez jamais manger au restaurant en France ! On vous montrera du doigt car on ne doit jamais couper la salade au couteau; on doit la plier. C'est très mal élevé de couper

  • @LC-cj6cn
    @LC-cj6cn Před 4 lety +301

    this was interesting to watch. as a French person I learned to never cut my salad : you fold it, because it avoids making that sound (you know what sound lol). And also I learned we are to never cross our fork and knife (whether it's on the plate itself or even on the side. just never cross them). Also when drinking wine, we ate given two glasses on feet : smallest is for the wine, biggest is for the water (because you should drink more water than wine).

    • @violet20205
      @violet20205 Před 4 lety +26

      Exact ! Ne jamais couper la salade !!

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 Před 4 lety +15

      Laurys C so interesting! in the united states we never learn about drinks because it’s assumed that that information isn’t necessary until you are 21, so most people have to figure it out on their own

    • @LC-cj6cn
      @LC-cj6cn Před 4 lety +7

      @@colbymcarthur7871 I learned via my parents when I asked why they had two "wine glasses" but just used one.
      It shouldn't be about "it's wine glass so it's alcohol so you shouldn't know because you're a minor", because it's just explaining why the table is set that way. Also as a kid I used to help set the table for family dinners (the ones you're like 7373838 at the table lol)

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 Před 4 lety +4

      Laurys C Oh that makes sense, my family normally already has our drinks from earlier (whether water, beer, wine, etc), so we don’t usually put glasses down to set the table

    • @mam2896
      @mam2896 Před 4 lety +7

      True and crossing cutlery upon finishing indicates you were not happy with the meal 😅

  • @fingergunsflowers1182
    @fingergunsflowers1182 Před 10 měsíci +2

    This is so amazing and unique! Usually etiquette classes are formed as stressful and up tight environments but you’ve shown me how it’s actually a wonderful and informative experience ♥️

  • @amaravirtue8833
    @amaravirtue8833 Před 2 lety +3

    Now I'm properly prepared for Friday night reservations at Dorsia.

    • @biscatcat2409
      @biscatcat2409 Před 2 lety +1

      Very nice, lets see Paul Allen's ASMR table manners video.

  • @ac421
    @ac421 Před 4 lety +91

    Many people (most) were never taught how to eat this way as I think most we’re really never exposed to it. I think this video was a very good idea. Something interesting, relaxing and informative. Thank you!

  • @TomPMelanson
    @TomPMelanson Před 4 lety +35

    As a catering event manager, I have to say thanks for the accuracy of this video! Once I learned how to eat with heightened etiquette, I never went back. It's second nature to me now. So glad others get to enjoy!

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker Před 4 lety +2

      Tom Melanson it really is so much more pleasant for others around you, thank you for being considerate

  • @Ineke1466
    @Ineke1466 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Love this❤ This is normal for me, Table manners were part of my education and I’m happy that my mother taught me these

  • @atmydarkesthours2713
    @atmydarkesthours2713 Před 4 lety +355

    When you asked the “ person” if they wanted bread I really expected your husband to take it from you 😂😂

  • @ellalala._
    @ellalala._ Před 4 lety +152

    María is the perfect, classy lady. Everything about her it's just delicate, feminine, calming. Not a single bad/fake vibe from her and I feel her genuine and loving personality is what makes her one of the best ASMRtist. She's always so patient and so polite, hats off to her classy ways, a true queen 👸

  • @valerieholdman5760
    @valerieholdman5760 Před 2 lety +4

    She never ceases to amaze me😊🥰👏🏼 This was very educational. I never knew this. Plus she makes everything so mesmerizing to watch💯

  • @KaterinaK8
    @KaterinaK8 Před rokem +2

    Умничка.Весь ютюб обучили, правильной сортировки стола и правильному этикету.

  • @aimeeisgoingtomars
    @aimeeisgoingtomars Před 4 lety +323

    Reminds me of the times when my dad taught us table etiquette, he always said 'never meet your food when bringing it to your mouth, you're not a chicken so dont peck at it' 😂

    • @ivania.
      @ivania. Před 4 lety +25

      aimée my mom would say “food to mouth not mouth to food” 😂

    • @bluesummers5051
      @bluesummers5051 Před 4 lety +29

      I was always taught to lean forward (like actually slouch) until my mouth was over the plate and a little beyond so that the food wouldn’t fall on the table/floor 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @krystallinum
      @krystallinum Před 3 lety +9

      Maybe I am a chicken, dad.

  • @ShuAum
    @ShuAum Před 4 lety +1598

    Thats why rich people are so slim. There are so many rules that you eat too little.

    • @mariabrant1665
      @mariabrant1665 Před 4 lety +109

      Table etiquette is not a rich people thing. Americans have just gotten too used to eating alone and not being taught proper manners. General table manners such as eating with your mouth closed, using your fork and knife, and not talking with your mouth full are taught in households of all social and economic classes outside of the US.

    • @henry3792
      @henry3792 Před 4 lety +103

      @@mariabrant1665 lol whys it always Americans this Americans that. You think mexicans eat their tacos with a fork and knife and follow this bs or Italians when eating pizza? Only snobby rich people use this etiquette for all of their meals. Common sense like not talking with your mouth full or elbows on the table is all you need. Might as well eat comfortably we ain't here for long.

    • @saysHotdogs
      @saysHotdogs Před 4 lety +33

      It’s actually cocaine

    • @bigsmokeI408
      @bigsmokeI408 Před 3 lety +3

      Mande Gianfala shit.That actually makes a lot of sense

    • @patopurific26
      @patopurific26 Před 3 lety

      @Fuert NeigtWTF Men ¡

  • @shannenarcher1380
    @shannenarcher1380 Před 3 lety

    You make me feel so peaceful considering my life is 100 mph. I love your voice and all of your soft spoken videos. Thankyou so much for your content I honestly couldn’t live without ASMR now. I used to generally think it was strange but the minute I got the tingles there was no going back, I watch your videos to not only go to sleep to but when I’m feeling stressed and depressed I pop any of your videos on and a immediately relax. You honestly don’t know how much of a god send you are to my life. Once again Thankyou Maria ❤️xoxo

  • @pamburt
    @pamburt Před 3 lety +29

    Exactly how I was taught to behave as a teenager for eating out in restaurants, or if invited for a meal at someone else’s home. No, it’s not “rich people “ who try to follow these rules, it’s everyone with basic manners. Of course I’m from the UK and I’m from an older generation, so I don’t think kids are taught this stuff anymore, more’s the pity. It looks archaic to young people now but I still think it creates a good impression if you’re eating out in public (and you’re not just slumped in front of the tv eating TV dinners)! Well done Maria👍🏻

    • @dnr2089
      @dnr2089 Před 2 lety +1

      I’m from the uk too….in my 60s. People today haven’t a clue about table manners. I often see children being allowed to eat with their hands, and it appals me!

    • @megatronskneecap
      @megatronskneecap Před 2 lety +5

      @@dnr2089 Luv, anglo saxons and tribes went around eating all sorts with hands - It's not a crime infact it's perfectly normal history. You say 'children' babies and such eat with hands because holding two bits of metal or plastic when eating is stressful.

  • @ClemiASMR
    @ClemiASMR Před 4 lety +31

    One thing I love when Maria does videos like this is you can tell she has put so much time and effort into really learning about dinner etiquette, rather than just pretending for the sake of the video. She's always so committed and I love that ❤️❤️

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 Před 4 lety +1

      Tbh she strikes me as the kind of person who already knew this.

    • @ClemiASMR
      @ClemiASMR Před 4 lety +1

      Jim Lee that’s true!!

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 Před 4 lety +1

      @@ClemiASMR I think you might be getting a new sub :)

  • @sunshineladyxxx7975
    @sunshineladyxxx7975 Před 4 lety +82

    Whow, never seen such a detailled instruction for proper eating like this. This is not only ASMR but also really helpful! I learned the rules for correct eating at a fine table in my earliest childhood, but it is really nice to remember that all now. We all tend to get used to a little messy behaviour at table when we eat all time alone i think. *gg*
    Thank you so much Maria, you are perfect at anything you do!

  • @kategamgee
    @kategamgee Před 2 lety +1

    Last night we went out to dinner for the first time in over a year. I ordered soup and as I was eating, this video and Maria's tips came to mind 🙏♥️

  • @raley-nj5ps
    @raley-nj5ps Před 3 lety +2

    this video was the first asmr to give me tingles in a long time, i can always count on you maria- thank you!

  • @jay-tr2we
    @jay-tr2we Před 4 lety +1246

    Me: Interesting
    *continues to eat chips in bed*

  • @havingicecream
    @havingicecream Před 4 lety +49

    Honestly, it suprises me every time how Maria slips into these roles so perfectly, but is still unmistakenly Maria

  • @kellyshaffer6083
    @kellyshaffer6083 Před 12 dny

    Please please please more etiquette videos! This is my absolute #1 ASMR video of all time. ❤

  • @wendyischarms
    @wendyischarms Před 2 lety +2

    These are my favorite videos, where I learn at the same time as I relax!!

  • @aimeephillips6571
    @aimeephillips6571 Před 4 lety +65

    As someone who's worked in hotel restaurants for several years, I just want to say, this was so accurate and well done! Also I'm so glad you mentioned about not moving or trying to help between courses! 🙏

  • @jaredkick1177
    @jaredkick1177 Před 4 lety +1911

    This would be a lot more relaxing if I weren't furiously scribbling notes...

  • @lindaspratt1152
    @lindaspratt1152 Před 2 lety +91

    I so appreciate creative, realistic role-play! So tired of phony eye exams, haircuts, makeup sessions and the other usual suspects. I also don't like ASMR folks who are obviously trying hard to trigger by repeating words, tapping, unnatural mouth noises etc, it ruins it for me.

  • @chuckycarbone3295
    @chuckycarbone3295 Před 2 lety +16

    8:40 - 9:30 where she tastes the soup gives me the most intense tingles of anything I have EVER seen. My favorite ever asmr clip of all time. I watch it every night and it never gets old. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT THIS VIDEO

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Před rokem +2

      OMG SAME really this is my favourite part

    • @chuckycarbone3295
      @chuckycarbone3295 Před rokem

      @@Cerveza- She is so cute. A true artist. So tingly the eating soup. Literally never had tingles this intense

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Před rokem +3

      @@chuckycarbone3295 well I don't really experience tingles but just that part I feel so much warmth and wholesomeness somehow haha

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Před rokem +1

      Well through the whole vid, but especially that part

  • @callmekyle4950
    @callmekyle4950 Před 4 lety +460

    Me: so how’s your day
    Maria: *chewing*
    Me: same
    Thx for the likes god bless

  • @maryhaucke-davis7750
    @maryhaucke-davis7750 Před 4 lety +141

    I loved this Maria. It reminded me of being a little girl at my grandmother’s house. She would invite me for “tea” and taught table etiquette. I loved her lessons!

  • @silentdarksar4865
    @silentdarksar4865 Před rokem +6

    This looks so pretty and elegant. I have zero patience and could never eat like this. I'm like an animal and drop food down myself in a frantic enjoyment

  • @elintia
    @elintia Před 10 měsíci +3

    Thank you, I literally took notes because I was genuinely interested. Not that I'll need them because I'm a shut-in. I think this means your content is great and entertaining!

  • @misskris62
    @misskris62 Před 4 lety +94

    Can we acknowledge that sis made a whole 4 course meal in order to make this video? 🍲🥗🍗🍪 what dedication!