The truth about pregnancy after 35 years old

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
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    There is so much misinformation about fertility. One common misconception is that passing 35 years old is walking off a fertility cliff and people often quote the statistic that 1 out of 3 women over the age of 35 will not be able to be pregnant within a year.
    The statistics quoted:
    (1) David B Dunson study:
    - 82% of women 35-49 got pregnant within 1 year
    - 86% of women 27-34 got pregnant within 1 year
    (2) Boston University Study:
    - 78% of women 35-40 got pregnant within 1 year
    - 84% of women 20 to 34 got pregnant within 1 year
    (3) North Carolina School of Medicine study:
    80% of white women with 'normal weight' got pregnant within 6 months.
    (4) Rates of genetic issues
    1 in 100 for women 35 years old
    2 in 100 for women 40 years old
    13 in 100 for women 45 years old
    (5) Down syndrome rates:
    1 in 500 at 20 years old
    1 in 400 at 30 years old
    1 in 65 at 40 years old
    (6) Blood pressure issues
    2% rate at 30 years old
    4% rate at 40 years old
    Summary:
    This data tells us 2 clear things:
    1) Fertility decreases with age and complications increase
    2) The VAST majority of women at any stage in their 30s will be able to get pregnant on their own
    Simple guide, have your last child before you turn 40. After 40 you are rolling dice which may turn out okay or may have consequences.
    And finally, as with all numbers, keep in mind that these stats only reflect the 100s or 1000s of women in the study. They may not represent all women trying to conceive. Each couple is unique.
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Komentáře • 307

  • @AliciaJanae
    @AliciaJanae Před rokem +48

    I wasn’t ready in my 20s and not in my early 30s either. I got pregnant the first time trying and I’m currently 38 and 11 weeks pregnant. And everything is going well with the pregnancy. This is my first pregnancy.

    • @rissa_mariposa
      @rissa_mariposa Před rokem +1

      As a woman who might be in a similar position but is in her early 30s wishing you strength and success in your pregnancy

    • @rissa_mariposa
      @rissa_mariposa Před rokem +3

      Hearing about your experience gives me hope

    • @joellim7010
      @joellim7010 Před rokem +1

      @alicia janae any updates regarding this? is the baby healthy?

    • @AliciaJanae
      @AliciaJanae Před rokem

      @@joellim7010 Good morning ☀️
      I’m due April 13th. But, as of now they have checked his health, done the test on him for disabilities and he has tested negative for any disabilities. He is currently measuring 6 pounds. I now meet with my doctor weekly for prenatal appointments and I’ve been nauseous and super tired but everything has checked out with baby boy. I will update you after delivery😊.

    • @AliciaJanae
      @AliciaJanae Před rokem +1

      @@rissa_mariposa thank you so much for the well wishes! He has been growing well and I’ve never received a bad report about him during any of my visits. I’ve been having regular pregnancy symptoms like nausea, extreme fatigue etc… but no bad news with baby. He can come any day now between 37-40 weeks. This Thursday I will be 37 weeks so he can come before the due date of April 13th, but at this point it would be okay because between 37-40 weeks is considered full term.

  • @desicpr00
    @desicpr00 Před 5 lety +319

    I’m 38 and got pregnant in two months of trying. 10 weeks pregnant today.

    • @lifelonglearners9784
      @lifelonglearners9784  Před 5 lety +17

      What a blessing! Congratulations! Your journey sounds smoother than my wife and mine. Best of luck over the next 30 weeks

    • @seemasoniseemasoni
      @seemasoniseemasoni Před 5 lety +3

      Hi desi c .i m 39 years old and trying to concive .but cant conciv.i hv a 14 years son. can u share ur pragnacy conciving tips plz

    • @seemasoniseemasoni
      @seemasoniseemasoni Před 5 lety

      @@lifelonglearners9784plz rpy

    • @desicpr00
      @desicpr00 Před 5 lety +13

      seemasoni seemasoni The only thing I did was take prenatal vitamins, stopped drinking caffeine, and eating as healthy as possible. I’ll be praying for you!

    • @kalkidanniguse4361
      @kalkidanniguse4361 Před 5 lety +3

      Desi C congratulations 🎊🎈🎉🍾

  • @elmfork52
    @elmfork52 Před 5 lety +223

    My wife and i married late and had children late - neither by choice. We have two sons. My wife bore our first at 39 by C-section, and the second at 41 by natural birth. Both are now grown, in perfect health, and quite successful in their chosen fields. It may be better to have them young, when you have the energy to chase them, but if that option is not available, don't be discouraged.

    • @kathleenturner1082
      @kathleenturner1082 Před 4 lety

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    • @heavymaiden85
      @heavymaiden85 Před 4 lety +1

      That's amazing I'm getting worried I'll have trouble as I'm 34 married nearly two years hopefully I have no trouble getting pregnant as I've mist out on the latter years of my 20s to start a family but I am 7 years older then my husband but he wants me driving soon obviously for more self efficiency but I'm now waiting for lessons to resume because of this dam virus its put allot on hold

    • @alexiakelley4245
      @alexiakelley4245 Před 3 lety +5

      Part of what makes me worried is not having as much years with them as I would if I have them young. But I have to remind myself of quality vs quantity. Do I want many years of scraping paycheck to paycheck while having no time for my babies, or do I want to be financially stable and give better wisdom and a better roof over their heads? I guess I’ll know when the time is right

    • @erriiikk1
      @erriiikk1 Před 3 lety +1

      My wife and i married late and had children late - neither by choice. We have two sons. My wife bore our first at 39 by C-section, and the second at 41 by natural birth. Both are now grown, in perfect health, and quite successful in their chosen fields. It may be better to have them young, when you have the energy to chase them, but if that option is not available, don't be discouraged.

    • @samo6083
      @samo6083 Před 2 lety +1

      @@erriiikk1 you're wrong. It should be discouraged.
      Your anecdotal story doesn't make the rule. Stats say the chances of of death during pregnancy is really hugh for you and the baby after 30. The people that didn't make it aren't here to tell the story but the few that did like you are trying to create this false image to women that its fine.
      Its not fine, your advice will bring a lot of grief to families...

  • @8thhousealchemist600
    @8thhousealchemist600 Před 4 lety +55

    My Mom had me at 38. On my Father's side of the family, women conceived as late as 42.

  • @triw134
    @triw134 Před rokem +15

    I’m 37 and 8 months pregnant. Everything is going great !

  • @neemagsharma
    @neemagsharma Před 3 lety +26

    Yes... Women can be pregnant after 35 as well... It all depends upon the food that we eat, genetics, how active and healthy our body with no illness or diseases like diabetes, etc.

  • @pollyl5501
    @pollyl5501 Před 2 lety +23

    Thanks! You calmed me down at my age of 37 ☺️

  • @christinevanwey5757
    @christinevanwey5757 Před 2 lety +18

    My husband and I are trying to find hope after 31. Its so hard. It's reassuring to see so many women having positive and healthy experiences. It gives me courage to continue trying when it all feels like its pointless. So blessed are your families!!!

    • @melissabrock4114
      @melissabrock4114 Před rokem +3

      31 isn't considered "geriatric" you shouldn't worry just because of that

  • @gunlovingurls9200
    @gunlovingurls9200 Před 6 lety +85

    I got pregnant at 36 with no effort. The biggest issue has been them treating me as high risk. When everything is fine with her. 2 NSTs a week and 1 OB appointment. It's ridiculous. We have'nt had one issue other than me getting stressed over excess appointments.

    • @lifelonglearners9784
      @lifelonglearners9784  Před 6 lety +10

      Congratulations on the baby. My wife is currently at 37 weeks and we also fall into the high risk group but the doctors in Australia seem fairly relaxed. We are only just now starting weekly appointments.

    • @syrenaxhaferi7278
      @syrenaxhaferi7278 Před 6 lety +2

      why do you bother going to the doctor then?

    • @syrenaxhaferi7278
      @syrenaxhaferi7278 Před 6 lety +21

      My mom was pregnant at 43 and wasn't trying so...stopping stressing people...just eat healthy and stay fit and mentally stable.

    • @dr_lala5908
      @dr_lala5908 Před 5 lety +1

      So great to hear. Thank God! All the best.

    • @clearskinhabits
      @clearskinhabits Před 5 lety +3

      @@syrenaxhaferi7278 The best advice in a nutshell

  • @tyrishasmith-grady703
    @tyrishasmith-grady703 Před 3 lety +14

    I am 38yrs old now and see women that I know are having babies so I just hope that motherhood doesn’t pass me by.....I only really wanted a child once I hit my 30’s

  • @angiechua9513
    @angiechua9513 Před 6 lety +76

    This gives me hope! I appreciate your video and the researches you had done!

  • @JaniceB
    @JaniceB Před 5 lety +39

    I am 37 years old when I gave birth to my 2nd child after 16 years.
    I will share my journey in my next vlog.

    • @durgaprasad-hy6dt
      @durgaprasad-hy6dt Před 4 lety

      Pls share

    • @alexanderreyes602
      @alexanderreyes602 Před 3 lety

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    • @kimlibrisk9968
      @kimlibrisk9968 Před 2 lety

      Me too

    • @perpetualsamba9198
      @perpetualsamba9198 Před rokem +1

      I was very worried but your comment encourage me much

    • @perpetualsamba9198
      @perpetualsamba9198 Před rokem

      Am 33 years and my first child is 13years

  • @Alexis_005
    @Alexis_005 Před 5 lety +17

    I think the only upside of having children when you are young is your energy level. But the upside of having kids older is your maturity level. My mom had me at 16 she was a kid herself, we had a lot of fun growing up playing with her on the rain and eating chips and coke for lunch. But there was not serious guidance about anything! We all turned out ok but still.

  • @amorales015
    @amorales015 Před 2 lety +5

    My grandma had her last two kids @45 and 48. There is hope

  • @Caaarooo_0
    @Caaarooo_0 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for this video!! Very informative

  • @liveloveGlam
    @liveloveGlam Před 5 lety +4

    Very helpful, thank-you!!

  • @dr_lala5908
    @dr_lala5908 Před 5 lety +4

    This is great. Thank you 🙏

  • @mrknight1980
    @mrknight1980 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you for that video!

  • @rommelriot
    @rommelriot Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks man.... Very clear... U did ur research!! MANY THANKS!!!!

  • @melysac04
    @melysac04 Před rokem +2

    This was helpful. I'm soon to be 38 & was feeling worried. I do think being pregnant younger is slight better for playing with kids but I'm hoping me & baby are OK 🤞🙏🤗😌

  • @tolovly14
    @tolovly14 Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks for the info

  • @danielletravassosszabo4948

    This video is so cool. Thank you for that.

  • @deepikapandit1952
    @deepikapandit1952 Před 2 lety

    Thanks a lot for your suggestion 🙏🙏🙏

  • @phychopink9278
    @phychopink9278 Před 6 lety +26

    Everybody should watch this video. Very informative! I am 19 and I plan on earning my Master's Degree in Business Administration and then earn my law degree. I do not want children until I'm in my early to mid-30s; after I've been married a couple of years, done some traveling, and after I've been established in my career for a few years. But whenever I tell someone that I don't want children until I'm in my 30s, people will always tell me that that's too old. In my opinion, your 30s are the best years to have children. You should spend your 20s building your own life, earning your education, and gaining life experience. Then, when you finally do have children, you will be wiser, more experienced, more educated, and more financially stable. People who have children too early in life very rarely accomplish everything in life that they wanted to. There is so much in life those young parents will miss out on. There is nothing wrong with getting your life on track first. People need to stop making something ugly out of a woman who have children later in life. That's what people should be doing!

    • @lifelonglearners9784
      @lifelonglearners9784  Před 6 lety +1

      Glad you found this helpful. Best of luck with the study.

    • @carlinecarline5981
      @carlinecarline5981 Před 6 lety +1

      Phycho Pink ok

    • @nqobilenq2999
      @nqobilenq2999 Před 5 lety +8

      @dcosb09 no such thing I'm turning 36 in a month all men still want me - life is what you make it - just take great care of yourself

    • @politicallyincorrect4126
      @politicallyincorrect4126 Před 5 lety +4

      dcosb09 I agree why would you willingly wait that long by the time you turn 30 and start looking for husbands all the men you’re looking at will be looking at the younger 22 year old something women retards

    • @L1623VP
      @L1623VP Před 5 lety +4

      It's like this video was made by the Committee for Population Reduction. The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant.
      If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50. By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby.
      The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new phenomenon as far as the human species goes.
      The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Time moves on. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible. Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on.

  • @nachannachle2706
    @nachannachle2706 Před 3 lety +9

    Tell me about it.
    Coming from a rather chaotic family background, I have focused on getting financial security through my life (age 19-34) and I am now ready to focus on building my own family.
    I found out I would need to go under the knife (i.e open myomectomy) JUST to qualify for pregnancy when I was 26, but it is only now age 35 that I am fully able to commit to this journey.
    Am I "late" or "out of sync"? I don't know. I am just doing as best as I can for my progeny with the circumstances I have been given.
    All the best everyone!

    • @christinevanwey5757
      @christinevanwey5757 Před 2 lety

      I know 'sending prayers' sounds silly to some people but I genuinely wish you success. ❤

  • @maggiebol2214
    @maggiebol2214 Před 6 lety +23

    encouraging to hear

    • @linzhessey
      @linzhessey Před 5 lety

      I followed the *ThePregnancyFact. Com* (Google it) when my spouse and I decided it was time for a baby. Simply Google to learn the reasons that has made the plan to improve numerous people. After improving my diet and adopting the plan for three months, I found out that I was going to end up being a parent. This book has improved my life, despite the fact where I am in the aged.

  • @fredelynmacanaya5281
    @fredelynmacanaya5281 Před 3 lety +21

    Wow..thanks..this gave me hope..I'm 34 within 3 days and suddenly i got worried... So it's not too late to have a baby...but I just need to look for a father first..uhhh..that seems little harder..hahah

    • @myrainbowhoneycom
      @myrainbowhoneycom Před 2 lety

      Yes... finding father can be more difficult these days than getting baby...

  • @ginagjuniort
    @ginagjuniort Před rokem +1

    my grandmother had my mum naturally at 48. this was 1956. not saying it can happen for everyone but it definitely does happen

  • @danilapettersen1308
    @danilapettersen1308 Před 5 lety +8

    Uauuuu that some doctors says is not true... that gives hope to many couples 💪💪😀

  • @Megan6772
    @Megan6772 Před 3 lety

    THANK YOU 💕

  • @Sunflower-wo2xw
    @Sunflower-wo2xw Před 5 lety

    Thank you 🙏

  • @michellep1555
    @michellep1555 Před 5 lety +4

    But based on research, advance maternal age does increase many risk for the mother and the baby. New research now also shows advance male age also increase risk of baby anomalies. The increase risk is what they are, an increased changes. It doesn’t mean that every pregnancy will have this. So don’t bring your good example in bring down the research. If you can, have them early.

  • @misse7154
    @misse7154 Před 4 lety +14

    What about a man's sperm? And why are you looking at only women? It takes two to make a baby! I never got pregnant until the age of 39, even though I was married and not on an birth control. My ex-husband was 15 years older, a heavy drinker, and although we weren't actively trying, I'm surprised I never got pregnant in the years we were together in my 30s (and in retrospect I'm very happy). Fast forward a few years later, got into a relationship with a much healthier man who is 7 years younger and bamn! Unfortunately the first time we had a miscarriage, but I got pregnant again right after at age 40. Even though I'm older, fertility hasn't seemed to be an issue. In my experience, I think the big difference was my other half.

    • @lifelonglearners9784
      @lifelonglearners9784  Před 4 lety +2

      That's a fair point, it could absolutely be the man's issue (at least physically his issue). Research indicates that male fertility also decreases with age. I choose to not address this here however as I felt the most misconception is in regards to female fertility rather than male - congrats with the pregnancy.

    • @D878D5g7
      @D878D5g7 Před rokem

      Men and women are not the same. Stop. Far less of an issue for men.

    • @misse7154
      @misse7154 Před rokem +2

      @@lifelonglearners9784 lifestyle choices like heavy drinking and smoking can absolutely affect the quality of sperm at any age. I should have been clear about that in my comment.

  • @jibrealyaaseen
    @jibrealyaaseen Před 3 lety +7

    Oh I know a lot of folks who got pregnant after 35 for me I am 36 and I am very much fertile at the age of 35 I got pregnant for the 12th time in November of 2019 my due date for that pregnancy was September 1. 2020 but I lost that pregnancy and then I found out I was pregnant again and when I got my ultrasound weeks after my miscarriage I found out I was nine weeks pregnant ( so I became pregnant the same week I miscarried and my due date for this pregnancy is November 2nd 2020 and this is my 13 pregnancy hopefully 7th full term healthy baby I had one still born and five miscarriages( oh and I am overweight but black so my weight is spread in a nice way/I am very healthy)

  • @Davey1022
    @Davey1022 Před 5 lety +2

    Gives hope

  • @rubyaeasmin9732
    @rubyaeasmin9732 Před 4 lety +5

    Can I take my first baby at 35 age?

  • @MirandaVlogs0
    @MirandaVlogs0 Před 3 lety +5

    Im 38 and want to have kida its just that I haven't found Mr. Right its unfair we have to rush and If I can still conceive ill do it!

    • @jidendrap3745
      @jidendrap3745 Před 3 lety

      You are too old to have a healthy kid naturally..

  • @BrandyTexas214
    @BrandyTexas214 Před 4 lety +7

    I have an almost 4 yr old and I’m 35.. wasn’t gonna have another but now I’m considering I should so my kid isn’t an only child.. I really didn’t think 35 was that old but cause I don’t feel old but I guess it is..

    • @ZoyaKhan-ds5by
      @ZoyaKhan-ds5by Před 3 lety

      With my experience yes go ahead with 2 baby bcoz my daughter keep asking for siblings and now im having so many problems to conceive at age of 38

    • @BrandyTexas214
      @BrandyTexas214 Před 3 lety +7

      @@ZoyaKhan-ds5by I’m actually 6 months pregnant now, due in July and I turned 37 this spring

  • @meredithr9824
    @meredithr9824 Před 5 lety +7

    Had my 4th at 36. No warning i was fertile again after having my third. Thanks mother nature!😰

    • @JessG_20
      @JessG_20 Před 5 lety +8

      What do you mean no warning? You're 36 so probably nowhere near menopause.

    • @alexanderreyes602
      @alexanderreyes602 Před 3 lety

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  • @flcon5443
    @flcon5443 Před 4 lety +7

    My mother gave birth to my brother when she was 36

  • @sajidanoureen5412
    @sajidanoureen5412 Před rokem

    I am mother of two children...From 6 months trying for 3rd baby at age of 35 bt failed.....

  • @shwethaas8260
    @shwethaas8260 Před rokem

    I m 38y old I will get 2 days period that too less bleeding and I have thyroid problem buts it's normal I m trying for baby two time it's got obsession because no heart beat pls help me

  • @arcanegames4186
    @arcanegames4186 Před 3 lety

    Also from a time where life expectancy was in 60s

  • @katieward7181
    @katieward7181 Před 3 lety +2

    The truth you should eat healthy food when your pregnant or you don't have to

  • @brothertn708
    @brothertn708 Před 5 lety

    I’m 35 and want a baby but my 41 yr old bf never wants to have sex 😢

  • @lisaforde1641
    @lisaforde1641 Před 3 lety +6

    I am 35 had one accident and am pregnant lol

  • @minaryeon9259
    @minaryeon9259 Před rokem

    You are never ready to be pregnant but better to do it early than late.

  • @augustorvz3543
    @augustorvz3543 Před 5 lety +2

    There is also ectopic pregnancy, molar pregnancy, stillbirth, Edwards-syndrome, Patau syndrome, diabetes, twin pregnancy, Premature-baby, C-section complication, HELLP syndrome, Klinefelter syndrome, autoimmune disease (lupus, multiple sclerosis) + you can develope endometriosis, fibroid uterus, PCOS and early menopause... + some ladies even die before hitting age 35 or lives in vegetative state... Good luck girls! (...there is also breast cancer.)

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 Před 3 lety

      I don't understand ,you mean kids from older parents get those illnesses

    • @dollyanyango3105
      @dollyanyango3105 Před rokem

      U can die even at 10.leave it to God

    • @shaamkiani1770
      @shaamkiani1770 Před 10 dny

      She is trying to address here a bigger issue then just infertility 👍🏻

  • @plugmenace8513
    @plugmenace8513 Před 5 lety +5

    What about when your 46?

  • @ultimatekilter404
    @ultimatekilter404 Před rokem

    Can anybody translate it in Urdu please

  • @jibrealyaaseen
    @jibrealyaaseen Před 3 lety +10

    And from what I see a lot of black women get pregnant late easily and have better pregnancies than they did when they were younger ( I don’t go by science I go by whatever our Creator allow to happen)

  • @melanier4985
    @melanier4985 Před 4 lety +5

    I want another baby but no husband.

  • @keyboarddancers7751
    @keyboarddancers7751 Před rokem

    If you're a woman in your early twenties watching this vid, please follow this man's suggestions and report back in the comments section in roughly fifteen years time whether what he says is true or not.

  • @a.h.2667
    @a.h.2667 Před rokem

    Men's sperm can also be the cause for fertility issues but that usually seems to be ignored.

  • @PositiveMommaLife
    @PositiveMommaLife Před 5 lety +17

    It is harder for those who are over 40 to get pregnant. I have several friends who are trying. It's best to get pregnant in your 20's and early thirties.

    • @eyekandy3000
      @eyekandy3000 Před 5 lety +2

      Trumpanomics Hobgoblin Glad you watched the video

  • @arraarnaez4059
    @arraarnaez4059 Před 5 lety +4

    😢😢😢😢i really wanted to have a baby.l

    • @kalkidanniguse4361
      @kalkidanniguse4361 Před 5 lety +2

      arra arnaez God is great nothing possible to God so so you can get 🤰 pregnant and just believe in God

  • @NMS1805
    @NMS1805 Před 6 lety +4

    I couldn't understand the accent

    • @lifelonglearners9784
      @lifelonglearners9784  Před 6 lety +1

      Oh that's helpful to know. I am an Australian. Where are you from?

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 Před 6 lety

      Neha Mohan because he is from Australia. "down under"

    • @NMS1805
      @NMS1805 Před 6 lety +1

      Lifelong Learners your video was very informative. I liked it very much. I am from India, might be the reason I was not able to understand you clearly. Can you include subtitles next time in your videos please ☺

    • @lifelonglearners9784
      @lifelonglearners9784  Před 6 lety +2

      Thanks for your comment. There are optional subtitles that i created for this video - just click the 'CC' icon at the bottom right of the screen.

    • @NMS1805
      @NMS1805 Před 6 lety +1

      Lifelong Learners cool, thanks!

  • @MayorOfMoetown
    @MayorOfMoetown Před 3 lety +4

    42 and just got married. thanks for the depressing video

    • @MayorOfMoetown
      @MayorOfMoetown Před 3 lety

      @@orismani1718 go away scammer

    • @brendabenitez7359
      @brendabenitez7359 Před 2 lety +3

      Don’t listen to this crap. They discriminate women so much on their age

  • @hermanmiller-wg5jk
    @hermanmiller-wg5jk Před rokem

    And it not good for a ride not healthy for it nether if u don't do it the nature way rather y won't kides or you don't don't need y o life storey simple yes or no on tex win y tex me texme rather y. No

  • @chadcadsonvii5258
    @chadcadsonvii5258 Před 3 lety +2

    He seems to be using statistics that don't separate out those women that used IVF treatment to get pregnant. That would show that natural pregnancys brought to term with live births decline drastically after the age of 30!

    • @hyun6587
      @hyun6587 Před 2 lety

      Can you provide any resources for this info? Haven't seen it anywhere

  • @jidendrap3745
    @jidendrap3745 Před 3 lety +2

    Well.. The entire data and studies are just here to give hope to modern women who are already passed midthirties.. You can't beat nature..

    • @irahdykeabueva4615
      @irahdykeabueva4615 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah, considering your face, nature really did you dirty.

    • @jidendrap3745
      @jidendrap3745 Před 3 lety

      @@irahdykeabueva4615 people become bitter when they have to face the reality... We are nothing but small creatures of mothernature and law of nature is the only reality.. Not these stupid studies..

    • @irahdykeabueva4615
      @irahdykeabueva4615 Před 3 lety +4

      @@jidendrap3745 yeah, mother nature sure did you dirty

    • @jidendrap3745
      @jidendrap3745 Před 3 lety

      @@irahdykeabueva4615 granny got offended 😄.. Sorry granny

  • @mkzhero
    @mkzhero Před 5 lety +1

    The truth is that disorders of all sorts skyrocket the later the pregnancy occurs.

    • @JessG_20
      @JessG_20 Před 5 lety +9

      He just debunked the whole claim that issues "skyrocket". Didn't you watch the video?

    • @finchborat
      @finchborat Před 4 lety

      And the kids will start off their adult lives taking care of their aging parents.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 Před 3 lety +1

      @@finchborat yes,happening to me ,it's horror ,I hated that my parents are old

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 Před 3 lety

      @@JessG_20 I guarantee most of those kids will have health issues

    • @finchborat
      @finchborat Před 3 lety

      @@SRBOMBONICA86 Me too. Mine were in their early 40s when I was born. I've had to help take care of my mom for nearly 10 and a half years, with the heavy lifting being in the last 3+ yrs. I'm currently 28. I just hope I'm not totally screwed as far as looking for work when the caregiving finally ends.

  • @svasianfilipiname6603
    @svasianfilipiname6603 Před 3 lety +3

    Why is it always about WHITE WOMEN?! I'm ASIAN (Filipina to be "exact"!)!

    • @jimbosmith6327
      @jimbosmith6327 Před 3 lety +1

      There's nothing wrong with white. Sounds like an issue with YOU

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 Před 3 lety +4

      @@jimbosmith6327 I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it mean person! Just saying they are LEAVING out other races as always!

    • @blackbird7842
      @blackbird7842 Před 3 lety

      Race has nothing to do with this. White, black, brown etc women have the same reproductive organs. Your organ doesn't know if you're white or Filipina. Btw, why are you putting quotation marks on the word exact?

  • @toddgoogle4387
    @toddgoogle4387 Před 5 lety +1

    The problem is the children will be messed up. They will have some issues

  • @corriescrivener1937
    @corriescrivener1937 Před 5 lety +3

    i would not risk having a kid with a woman over 35 do u what my kids to have disabled problems

    • @s_r1705
      @s_r1705 Před 5 lety +9

      Corrie Scrivener u urself seem to be a moron

    • @rubylace9963
      @rubylace9963 Před 4 lety +9

      "do u what my kids to have disabled problems" lol okay

    • @finchborat
      @finchborat Před 4 lety +2

      And in that scenario (mainly from 38, 39, 40 onward), the kids are slapped with early caregiving. They're stuck in the nest and have to put their lives/careers on hold.
      NO ONE should have kids that late in life. The blessing for the parents will be a curse for the child.

    • @s_r1705
      @s_r1705 Před 4 lety +4

      Corrie Scrivener ha ha checked ur channel. U seem to be a cripple and ur concerned about moms 35 plus.. freaking MORON

    • @s_r1705
      @s_r1705 Před 4 lety

      finchborat how about 35 37?

  • @franzjosephaque2066
    @franzjosephaque2066 Před rokem

    Older mothers tend to have children with genetic disorders.

  • @L1623VP
    @L1623VP Před 5 lety +4

    The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant. If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50. By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby. You may get lucky on the first few tries, but that does NOT mean that your fertility hasn't dropped or that it's the same as it was at 25. It's not.
    The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new phenomenon as far as the human species goes.
    The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible. Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on.
    It's almost like this video was made by the Global Committee for Population Reduction to convince women to wait far too long to have children and then end up having only one or most likely, none. Hmmmm.

    • @missxmarvel
      @missxmarvel Před 5 lety +8

      lcowles peak fertility is at 27. I’m sure you post this crap on every fertility video. Women should not have kids as young as possible because they will be a burden on the grandparents since it costs a lot of money to raise a child and egg freezing works not 100% but it’s not a scam.

    • @L1623VP
      @L1623VP Před 5 lety +4

      @@missxmarvel A woman's fertility at 27 is 70%. Nature doesn't care about "burdens" or "money" or "maturity" or anything else. Those are all subjective issues. Fertility is not political; it's biological, and most women who wait too long will be sorry. Nature wins.
      I just wrote an extensively researched article for a medical group's journal on egg freezing and the fallacy of extending fertility. There is no such thing. Corporations like Facebook and Apple will pay foolish young women $20,000 as part of their health benefits package to freeze their eggs. Why? So they can keep working and slaving away for the corporation, while valuable years of their fertility pass them by. The company won't care when they're 38 and realize their frozen eggs all failed because it was never about helping women. It was about getting more productivity out of them and avoiding having to deal with the accommodations that come with pregnant employees.
      If the companies really cared about women, they'd institute policies that allow women more flexibility in their schedules to deal with family issues like a newborn, additional leave time on top of FMLA, and other family-friendly accommodations. Butt that's not what corporations are about. They're about maximizing productivity and profit, and if they can get women to delay motherhood and work more years by giving them a bogus guarantee to "extend their fertility" by paying to freeze their eggs, so be it. It's the women that end up the losers.
      It was the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) that lifted the "experimental" label from egg freezing several years ago. Egg freezing was ONLY approved for women with cancer and other serious illnesses as a way to protect their eggs from chemotherapy and other damaging treatments. It was only offered as a slim (very slim) chance for them to possibly have a baby after their health crisis. It was NEVER intended for healthy women as a way to extend fertility because it's impossible to extend fertility.
      Because the procedure could no longer be considered "experimental" after the ASRM declaration, profiteers began targeting healthy women with the costly and near-worthless procedure that has never been studied for efficacy or risk. In fact, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) along with the ASRM do NOT recommend egg freezing for healthy women as a way to delay conception or "extend fertility" for all the obvious reasons. Women were meant to have their babies young as nature still intends.

    • @missxmarvel
      @missxmarvel Před 5 lety +4

      lcowles Yeah and Technology doesn’t care about your bullshit facts. Times have changed, it’s like saying you can’t live longer than 30 because back in the day ppl only lived that long. Things have changed we live longer and have a better healthcare system. This is a video for women who might want to get pregnant and all you do is make women feel uncomfortable with nonsense because I have met women who got pregnant in their 30s naturally. Seriously if you got nothing nice to say then don’t say anything at all. Unless you are a doctor you have no business telling women with a dream to have children that egg freezing is a lie because it’s not. You don’t even realize how heartless you are.

    • @L1623VP
      @L1623VP Před 5 lety

      @@missxmarvel Nonsense? You clearly can't see past your feminism bias. Nature wins. Always.

    • @missxmarvel
      @missxmarvel Před 5 lety +4

      @@L1623VP It has nothing to do with feminism scumbag. Humans live longer than back in the day and Technology has been improved. All you morons can do is accuse others of being a feminist just because nobody believes your bullshit. You even said that this video is probably made to decrease birthrates by making women wait,you couldn't be more pathetic.

  • @babyboy8597
    @babyboy8597 Před 4 lety +1

    Guys if you have your shit together get a young woman to marry so as you can have babies pretty easy.
    An old woman will have less chances to give you children.