सपने, उम्मीदें और नाकामी: UPSC के असफल एस्पिरेंट्स की सफल कहानियां
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हर साल लगभग 11 लाख उम्मीदवार यूपीएससी परीक्षा के लिए आवेदन करते हैं. लेकिन केवल कुछ सौ यानी 0.01 प्रतिशत से कम सफल हो पाते हैं. लेकिन हम हमेशा UPSC Toppers और achievers की कहनी सुनते हैं. दिप्रिंट आपके लिए लाया है कुछ ऐसे नौजवानों की कहानियां जिन्होंने जीवन के कीमती समय इस परीक्षा को दिया लेकिन सफल नहीं हो पाए.
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Hatts off to The Print for venturing into a less talked about area. Upsc toppers are made no less than the celebraties by the media. But at the same, the journey and the struggle of the people who did not find their name in the merit list must also be shown.
Hi Harshit,
Thanks for writing in.
@@ThePrintIndia
Oplll
@@ThePrintIndia recently on 31st August one article was on NITIPATH scheme in Hindustan newspaper....which seems to be very much similar to AGNIPATH scheme .... After lots of struggle student get selection in UPSC and if there will be uncertainty in job after selection then how student will get motivation towards this exam?
Sir I just want to know your unbaised point of view on this.......please reply to my question🙏🏻
Thanks
I agree
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Even I have went through this
4 attempt.
3 interview
Divorce from wife
Loan of 9 lacks on head and nothing remained in life in 2015 result
Today I m very successful lawyer
Life does not end but we have to be prepared for second carrier option after second attempt
*Lawyer ki studies pehle hi ki thi ki 2015 k baad se shuru kiya tha?*
Yes
Law kaha se kiya??
Tbh, you lost more. Whatever u may have today do not justify what precious time and people you lost, people who cared for you. I hope you have a happy life ahead. And dear so called aspirants, stop being a fool. Don't fall into the trap of society or coaching centers or media focus on toppers, and start thinking that ur dread is upsc. You'll be fooling yourself, life will be full of dejection, sorrow and pain, and only you're to blame
@@ranveerjaipuriyar0710 chal bhag yahan se.
Parents ko aajkal sab easy lagta hai
IIT jee , upsc unko chaai peene jaise lagta hai..
Sad but true..
@jingelbell470 same here
During my 20s, after graduation from IIT, I also had family pressure to pursue UPSC but being good in Mathematics, I found that the success rate was 0.0001% so I immediately gave up the idea of entering this $hithole. Today I am proud of my decision, I spent my 20s cheerfully, spent quality time with friends, later got married with my love. And today living a comfortable life with my family without any remorse 😊
@@kids_tution4890IIT se padhne ke baad log UPSC karna ki sochne ki himmat kaise kar lete hai, according to me they are doing criminal activity of snatching opportunity of inferior opportunity 🤬
Fact bola
Real
Giving 5-8 years of your precious life is not a joke.
Hii I am from Assam....in my neighborhood there lives a bengali boy he gave 4 attempts in upsc but couldn't clear after that he give SBI bank exam and got selected there now he is a branch manager of my district branch of SBI......So never give up n always believe in yourself
Amit Kilhor is Brilliant as Teacher! His way of teaching is very sophisticated and comprehensive!
He is depressed person even today.. It reflects in his teaching.
@@sid2372 that's sad;
Its true..👍
@@sid2372 he was deeply ambitious and experienced unfortunate failure for his ambition! Any sane person would get depressed because he is very responsible person, hardworking and intelligent person! So, I hope he redeem himself!
@@sid2372 somehow everyone is depressed until one achieves enlightenment or don't know the purpose of life !! And. Don't be silly, ok!
Seriously this is called journalism, thank you the print for showing other side of this UPSC journey and story of these legends for inspiring upsc aspirants
Absolutely!!!
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From a UP aspirant to a hard-core WWF wrestler, priyambda has covered a long way.
Jb bccho pdhana hi tha toh PhD kr lete aur professor bn jaate kuch haasil toh hota 3 baar m hi nhi hota toh samjh jaana chahiye ki nhi hoga
"Some stories are never meant to find closure"
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Upsc k regarding apki help chye plz
I was a very good student throughout topper. My parents were very proud of me. Left decently paying job in placement and entered UPSC to make my parents proud . 8 years later I haven't cracked this exam and all my attempts have gone. I was very good student who won many national level Olympiads. I don't know what happened. Worst part is my parents are no longer proud of me. My cousins who never worked hard like me earn more than me today because they have 8-10 years experience in industry . My knowledge of Laxmikanth, NCERT, Economic Survey, RS Sharma has zero market value. I still don't know what went wrong.
Don't worry everything will be fine❤️
Hey just don't worry
Jitna hardwork upsc me kiya tha ab apne job ya carrer ke liye kro or sth me pcs try krte rho
Please don't lose hope.. Parents and all relatives love you but they love money as well. Don't bother.
Find innovative ways to restart your career. As you have very high logic and hard working capabilities, you will easily surpass industry experts and veterans.
😢 Almost a similar story of mine. I was a topper too. But Instead of a Gov job or private job, I decided to become a businessman. 8 years have passed, but I have not been successful yet. Parents are unhappy. I am depressed and just keep praying to God...
Sorry to hear that bro, but I have also wasted my 4 years doing GATE and M. Tech(not completed) and then switched to IT now I have 2+ years of experience and earning decent money....
You should also try different fields like AI & ML, Full Stack Development or whatever you think has a good future....Take rest and start a fresh journey. Best of luck brother
"Clear (UPSC) ho jata to sabka sapna, agar na hua to mera" - from Sandeep Bhaiya
Please continue this series, 99% of people never make it into these kinds of exams but their stories are never shown to the public, It'll help the public a lot, these coaching institutes don't want it, they always show only one side of the story!
I stand with you. Please make continue making these type of videos - series !
Exactly this is the other side of upsc
Yes ...well said
Umesh please have a look at Greylife for such stories in detail - czcams.com/channels/uvn_l2UXW1DnMUbYiTrVPw.htmlvideos.
Thank you!
💯
First the 'Aspirants' of TVF and now The Print, thank you for telling a story of those who couldn't make it.
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Aspirants doesn't even touches the fabric of upsc journey, that was more bout friendship and love
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@@xavier6956 💯
Amit sir is genius of history.....his way of teaching is mindblowing, thanku sir for your extraordinary efforts ♥️
Polity also 🤷♀️🤷♀️...
@@pragyanbharrti18 yes offcourse 😊
@@Manish-cc5jf kyu ?
All rounder
My best teacher in STUDYIQ
लोगो ने life के 8-10 साल invest किए upsc की preparation में, तब उनको महसूस हुआ कि they're not for UPSC.
Despite belonging to SC category, I invested only three years of my life in UPSC preparation and i was lucky मुझे सिर्फ 3 साल में ही पता लग गया कि i was also not for UPSC and then i gave up.
For backup plan, i had already chosen Law and now i am continuing with it.
अब UPSC preparation से मिली बहुत सारी चीज़े वकालत में और मेरी personal life में काम आती हैं।
Message to UPSC aspirants:-
At the end, UPSC preparation कभी waste नही जाती, ये व्यक्ति को जीवन में कहीं और success दिला देती है; कहीं और सफलता न भी दिलाए, अन्ततः अच्छा इन्सान तो ज़रुर बना देती है।
- Vikas Sagar
बस यही एक ऑप्शन बचता है अपने आप को दिलासा देने का। कोई बात नही कही तो फायदा होगा इसका। यह विचार एक छलावा है। 😊
@@anurag_gaur koi fayda nahi hota khud hi Khud ka dekhna hota hai
Acha insan apko koi padhai nhi banati, bahot se civil servants bhi corrupt hote hain aur marital abuse karte hain..acha insan banna apki ek khud ki bahot badi personal achievement hoti hai usme kisi aur ka hath nhi hota it's the Devine wisdom. Jise kharab banna hoga wo ashram me rehkar nhi kharab ban sakta hai.
Lekin Dil main hamesa afsos raha jata hain.."jeeta tha jiske liye..uske liye Marta tha.."
"Some Goals are so worthy, it's glorious even to fail"
-Lt Manoj Kumar Pandey PvC
1/11 Gorkha Rifles
If u dedicate all of ur energy towards ur goal. U shall definitely achieve it there wouldnt be a need for plan B
- Maj Vivek Jacob (9 Para sf )
@@ashishm5763 bhai lekin goal to sirf utne hi achieve kar sakte he jitni vacancy he
@@Nursingimpulse bhai cutoff k liye mehnat krega toh cutoff he clear hogi. Aspire for merit and highest score in the process.- this was said by a friend whose currently serving.
@@ashishm5763 bhai jab tak desh ka yuva coaching ke chakkar kat ta rahega merit me aane ke liye me to kehta adani jese 3 se 4 log or aa jaye taki sab kuch private ho jaye or sarkar ko bhi officers contract basis pe lene chahiye n ki pure 60 saal ke liye
@@Nursingimpulse its already reality now. Past two afcats only SSC vacancies. PC vacancies only for NDA and NCC guys.
Rajat Sambyal sir got 307 in Anthropology Optional and total 942 in CSE 2021 which is no joke... Hats off Sir...
Total of PT also?
@@piyushmate3837 no
In the end he got nothing 😢
He will remain depressed for whole life
@@Kuldeep_yadav0001 he'll definitely not, but you will surely.
@@sd33252 oo bhai?
Ham ko hamari kaabiliyat pata hai,
Isliye hum to choti job ki tayyari karte hai
Tu apni dekh
Amit sir once in class you told us the difference between a war and a battle. War consists of many battles.
Life is war and UPSC was one of its battles.. so what if one was lost. We’re always gonna lose a few!
There are a lot many battles coming up for conquering! Keep shining bright the way you do sir, your light is gonna reach millions and you’re gonna win the war of life. Go strong ♥️
Well said 👍
Inspiring
The problem is with upsc war is that it took almost half of life a upsc aspirant Who are not able to become ias or IPS plus a failed upsc aspirant becomes psychological problem
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I felt touched by this video. Nice Print team. I also gave six attempts (2015-2020) n 4 mains(17-20). It certainly takes away lots of energy of us. Its hard to rebuild the original fearless daring and rebel one in self. Certainly my anxiety and panic attacks during those days,, now I can understand. But as life has to go on.... We definitely gained a personality but I keep searching my original one. The courage to cross the mountains in one go,, to work tireless for the country....when I will meet myself again. Really felt a connect with Amit sir story.
Hi Prashant,
Sorry to hear that. Hope things are fine now.
What are you doing Now?
@@astronaut9276 continued with previous job
@@prashantkumar555 which sector brother 🤔
@@prashantkumar555 in which sector bro ?
nd wht's ur JOB
Well I am also a UPSC aspirant who invested almost 2.5 years of my life and now I realized that sometimes it is important to know when to leave
I have an opportunity for you , pls connect
Glad you realised it sooner..
All the best
Definitely brother. As an ex-upsc aspirant, my humble advice will be to form a back up. It'll definitely be bitter but it's a medicine which people like us have to take.
@allan_0307
Me too, fed up with this preperation
Amit Kilhor sir, you're a damn good teacher! I cleared intelligence bureau assistant central intelligence officer (IB ACIO) - II with the help from your free lectures on CZcams. Currently I'm a GST & CUSTOMS INSPECTOR. Good luck for your future endeavours... 🎉
Being a gal, everyone told me dont go in all these exams. Only if ias happens it is good. 😅
I am an engineer and so IT was the only fall back option if not upsc 🥴
Hello sir, I'm an aspirant myself and appearing in this ib exam next week, can you please give me important tips or advice.. I'd be very grateful ❤
@@hope4017 All of the preparation should be done by today. Just revise the important points or your notes and relax. The more you relax in the examination the more marks you'll score. And trust me IB ACIO is one of the best jobs if you really have a passion to serve your country. Best of luck :)
@@inspectorsiddarthruriya2234 thank you sir ❣️
@@inspectorsiddarthruriya2234I am going to start my preparation for this exam can you please tell me what lectures of Amir sir you referred to? Also, please tell me strategy for all subjects in brief.
entrance exams in india are not meant for selection; they're meant for elimination. if you're not selected, there is no need to worry.
Damn True 1000%👍
We know.
Par lekin us elimination ke chakkar me aapki Puri jawani chali jaaye lagbhag jewwan ke 40 saal aap gum ho gaye
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@@rupamtiwari8031 folks who are smart know that preparing for upsc or mpsc is age growing game in other way so wise thing imo is finding a good paying job in private sector.
Prepared 6 years for UPSC, gave prelims 4 times, Mains once and interview never. Then prepared for Indian Army - didn't get into the finals. 2 years gone. Then prepared another 2 years for Guinness World Records and after 14 years of hard work finally got success. Life was not easy for me.
guiness world records k lie kya prepare kia?
@@Pixiefairy783 how I failed for 14yrs for Government Job and Made Guiness Book of World record
But I think it is easy broke record after all this So called India
@@AmarSingh91367 moreover I tried for coveted government jobs for 14 years while being in a government job for 14 years. I am working in SBI for past 14 years.
@@Aajkashravankumar just enjoy your life man!!
@@Aajkashravankumar are u a po in sbi?
Amit khillor's life is my life..i am crying after listening him.
He is the faculty of study iq.
when we start preparing ..we dont realise what is at stake .....
but after the journey end we regret ...what we have lost..
@@Vikas-rx3gv very true 👍🥺
Being a UPSC Aspirant i can totally relate with them, I wish I could go back in time in my college days and relive all these years again having my present conciousness 🤞🔙⏳🤞
What's your experience
Same thing I want
If you have to chosse again, what you gonna choose?
There are Mouse Trap Exams of India...
For PCB Students - NEET...
For PCM Students - IIT JEE...
For Art Students - UPSC...
For Commerce Students - CA...
I Think Most Of The Students Have This Mindset...
___________________________________________
But I Share A Story Of My Bua...
She is an average student from UP Board...
She has done BFA, MFA then PhD...
Now she became a lecturer in Central Government after clearing a Exam ( sorry for not remember the Exam )...
Her salary upto 80K...
And she was happy with that...
Arts students upsc? Bruh all students upsc.
@@jinfin221 now from last few years that students from all branches are appearing due to unemployment but earlier it was mostly arts/humanities students.
@@manaspratimdas707 Due to unemployment? Bruh wtf it's mostly IITians that top the exam. Sometimes it's arts students but only when their father/mother is already a Bureaucrat eg Dhabi and that Jain guy.
In the end she also had to clear an exam😂😂.
Ultimately we all are in the same boat
IIT only 2 attempt, 12th and 13th, how it is a trap?
Life is above all exams you can have a high goal like IIT or UPSC or CA but ultimate goal should be to be happy in Life 🙏🙌
Absolutely we have to chase for peace and happiness...😊
@@rashmigpt8361 ji nice thinking. True happiness and joy is the real life. Many are at high post but not everyone happy. It is is internal happiness and peace which must be and which indeed is the true life. There are many who got success in upsc Iit and other exam but not necessary that everyone got internal happiness and peace . A person who don't got the love of any one of relation like parents brother sister wife children and all others his life is hell.
@@sudarshansingh109 yes true goal of life should be peace and happiness.
J Baat
Thanks for The Print for covering this👍👍. Every year when UPSC results are out, when media chases the successful ones, there are thousands of heart broken aspirants who couldn't make to final list, despite years of hard work and sacrificing every joyful moments of their youth.
Well put !
Hi Varun,
Thanks for writing in.
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Tears in my eyes 💯
They are expressing the true and bitter experiences of millions of failed aspirants like me🔥🔥🔥
same i got tears as well
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Appeared for six mains (2010-15) and interviews. 7 years past since last attempt, don't know what would have happened if I got selected, bt When I was appearing for the exam, I was a totally different person. success and failure both change you in their own way.
Hats off sir...you are great human being 💥
what are you doing now?
Can you share your experience with us please ? 😊
Can you tell your medium???
Thanks for Glorifying Unsung Heroes of UPSC ❤
He's right....managing parents' expectations is extremely difficult...Indian parents do really burden their child with excess expectations..
Not all indian parents...
@@shahranhussain2253 what do you do ? They invested all their saving then u must have achieved something big...so..what do you do ?
Don't blame them
It's you who wanted it
The main line is mam ki line
Mera humour chala gaya
True 🥲
Ekdam sach
Amit Sir is true inspiration for an aspirant. The amount of regret this person has within him and still he pretends to be super happy while teaching us is commendable. ❤
Yes right 🌟
He is lying
@@preetitiwari6018 in what sense
@@user-tg4ts7qt3x the struggle he is talking about n saying his sob story that he was so close to selection n didn't get selected but the fact is he never ever even cleared mains....one should be mindful while being a role model...one should not lie on their shortcomings n be truthful
@@preetitiwari6018 wow preeti I appreciate the wrong knowledge you have and the audacity to comment about someone without knowing their whole story. Good luck mate!
संघर्ष ‘व्यक्तिगत’ होता है, सफलता ‘सामूहिक,
वक्त की धूप में पकी हुई चीज बहुत कीमती होती है।❤️✌️
Maturity is when you realise Amit sir is real life “Sandeep bhaiya “😭😭😭
UPSC is really overhyped .. mainly by the coaching agencies .. a very good series by Print ...
IIT too...
@@fifadash....856 why?
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In india every competitive exam is overhyped
@Pragnesh Kumar same happened with me during JEE , I was interested in programming but due to our education systems i had to study PCM , eventually i failed in JEE , took admission in a private college now I'm in my 3rd year already done two internships and i have a PPO too , even I'm writing this comment during my Lecture 🤧 , If you learn from the journey it will always be worth , but I've seen people getting depressed and demotivated after they fail to crack an exam
I still remember my first class of Amit sir the way he was teaching with enthusiasm, sarcasm and a positive smile on his face from that moment i have seen him the same way but today when i saw him i felt bad for him.
Thankyou sir, you are a tremendous teacher ,keep shining.
Parents, friends and happiness, everything has to be sacrificed for UPSC, I am also an IAS aspirant, feeling all this 🙂
I didn sacrifice such things, so may be I am not in the list but also I felt that what if I had done all this and did not clear. I am happy like this only at least I know that I could have given more time to upsc but it's depressive journey was not something that I can pull it off. Selection is meagre. It is a waste of time
I would suggest to go and do a job and enjoy life. Upsc will tear u up that even after hard work u won't get anything. None of my friends cleared. Wastage of 6 years. You will be proud initially but after a while u ll realise that huge competition and selection is 0.001% .
I tell myself that it's ok may be I could have studied but corona and everything didn let me study. But transitioning to other field also takes time when I knew my efforts could hve been more. Imagine what people who have studied so hard didn clear. Their mental strength must have gone to zero. How much taunt they have to hear even I hear at times. But anyway I am out of it and I am happy.
I did not want to sacrifice my family and loved ones for an exam whose percentage of selection is less than 1 %
Yes is upsc selection is valuable but not more valuable thany my family and loved ones and little bit of my life
@@Ana-vd1rlwow great 😊
How's your journey now 😊
I can totally relate with this lady, no social connect, complete immersion in studies, just books, isolation... its very sad.
I got goosebumps just listening to her, she is complete WISDOM.
I WROTE THIS COMMENT WHILE WATCHING THE VIDEO AND AM EDITING THIS AGAIN AND AGAIN.
THE LOSS IN UPSC IS BEHEMOTH.
MAN SPEAKING IN THE LAST IS AMAZING, I CAN RELATE.
WHATEVER THE LAST PERSON IS SAYING IS GIVING ME CHILLS.
Tbh, I didn immersed myself in books and may be I am not selected but seeing that after giving so much what if I fail and the regret if you don't study. This stress eventually made me realise that I am happy with corporate job. I don't want to be proved as a failure, I will do along with job. I want to live life and expectations kills. I took a lot of time to transition from ias to private jobs but both are good. Also a lot of people who wasted my, time during prep don't even talk now, behaves weirdly. I laugh and feel I should have given more time to studies rather than uselsss relationships tht don't care about ur existence. Now I enjoy life, feel regretful about wrong choices and people whom I was friends with who took away my positivity. But anyway, law of karma works.
And I hope I will be successful in earning money as much as I want by learning skills rather than daydreaming and wasting my time.
No social connect isolation was never my cup of tea that I realised later. I am happy studing for shorter duration and I was a topper thruout anyway, I wanted to opt for this but I think this is not for me. I wasted a lot of time to even leave upsc but I think this is right for me.
respect to Amit K. very straight forward and bold attitude to his reality.
Hats off to The Print for making this.. No One can ever understand the pain of reappearing the exam, giving ur best despite of knowing high chances of failure alongwith the dedication to ur own hardwork for giving in so many years..
But this video does come very close to show that to some extent!
This is so imp for everyone who is related to UPSC Aspirants to watch!! And obviously a Must Watch for all Upsc ASPIRANTS, to help them MOVE ON!!!
Thanku so much The Print for this!
Dear Nidhi,
I cannot express my happiness after reading your mail. It filled me with joy that my story made you feel this way. I wish all the good things will happen to you. Thank you so much. Keep reading my stories.
Warmest regards,
Nootan
@@ThePrintIndia Thankyou Nootan for such a sweet reply.. I'll definitely read all ur stories.. not just bcoz u gave such a sweet reply but also bcoz u have an eye for talking about the less talked about things..
Keep on writing such good stories..🤩😄
Exactly
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As a parent we focus on kids to achieve...never see failing by a whisker and it's impact. This opened me to the other side. Wishing these ex aspirants best of luck in finding alternatives. They are one of the best.
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Amit sir , such an honest person who accept clearly the loss of his life and doing his work amazigly..
कोई कितना भी समझा लें जो एक बार फस गया उनका निकलना बहुत मुस्किल हैं
asli struggle and motivational stories to inse sunni chahiye na ki selected students se
Amit Sir is the best. He is the true gem of StudyIQ. I'm lucky to get educated from you in History. Lots of prayers and happiness for you Sir, & I hope you find your true happiness. Bless you 🙏 🙏
Word hited hard when he said “if i will get a chance to do it i will never do it “
Amit sir is a gem.. it’s unfortunate that he is not in the services but for the students he is god.. his way of teaching is great.
I am starting for upsc preparation today looking both positive and negative side... watching the toppers talk to watching the interview of the aspirants who do not succeed in upsc...lets see.
What are your views now after Pooja khedkar case and Rau's IAS coaching centre case?
Finally there's someone who also covered the lost fighters who did have as much potential as the recommended students in IAS,IPS etc. otherwise every one is busy interviewing toppers and boasting their hardwork, however in reality toppers too are ambiguous about thier results and they too question their self capability a minute before seeing their names in final list.
Success doesn't teach you as failure teaches you.... Quite interesting journey of the UPSC aspirants... Sailing on the same boat but my field is different.
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Amit Kilhor Sir : Amazing teacher, even better person 🤘🏻💚
Plz upsc k regarding koch help kr skte ho?
With due respect to everyone's struggle; I would like to say with outmost respect- giving yourself another chance is easy when your family is well settled. Middle class guys have existential crisis during preparations, think about them if they fail.
Ps- Fan of amit sir, here!!!
Sahi baat bhai
I completely agree 2022 I gave my 5th attempt couldn't able to clear and this year not eligible for last attempt. Last 7 years my life contained into two aspects my job and my upsc preparation and failing in 2022 and before failures made me very cynical about myself undervaluing my self confidence towards life. Even with my spine issue in 2020 and its surgery in 2021 I still gave attempts in 2021 and 2022 with the belief that I'll clear upsc this time.
This video has been very positive for me because now I realize in past 7 years I kept myself surrounded with my job and upsc dreams and neglected my life completely, isolating with outside world.
Now I letting myself into do something more constructive and engaging with people and world.
I would say having a dream is good but dreams like upsc or other government examination has some limitations and few seats. If you are not able to clear examination in 3 or 4 attempts look for another aspect of life. Life is big and future is unknown, no one knows what's destiny has planned for you.
Bro you have l5s1 herniated discs ?
I have similar journey as you , had a major spinal surgery.
Also gave my attempts ..left with nothing.
Hope your life is good now.
Reminds me of the rough phase I had in life. I am trying to rebuild life with the broken pieces of me left after the UPSC failure.
Amit kilohar Sir : It takes patience , endurance and talent to be a teacher ..but you make it look so easy after every day ... I hope you know just how much we all appreciate you ❤️
This is the real story...success ki stories kam hain...ye zyada tar logon ki real kahani hai
By watching this interviews I feel so grateful that I took an break from UPSC journey after my first attempt and now I am doing further studies and trying to get a good job. Initially when I failed in my first and want to give my second attempt but because of some conditions I wasn't able to give my second attempt and I felt really bad that time but today I think I was lucky to do this. I will definitely going to give second attempt but with plan B
Same here bro
Sane here.
Same I joined this job. But I have a lot of gap but thankfully I got a job. I will give with job. I dont have that caliber to that risk. Because of pressure I couldn't focus or can clear or was busy in family problems but I think my temperament was not according what this exam demands. Be secluded etc. I gave a lot of years but corona destroyed my pre.
You did good.
@@Ana-vd1rl yeah i also taught that later
And you also took a better decision .
Loosers in a competitive exam but winners in life. Winners in determination and emotional strength. Congrats to those who pass competitive exams and bigger congrats to those who move on to greater things.🎉🎉
Subscribed this channel ...I was also in this race...after giving a few years and lot of hard word, mental burden, and a feeling of nothing good can be achieved finally....I changed my course...within a year cleared an officer level exam and joined a public sector bank,.gave rbi assistant manager interview...though faced a lot during my initial work in the job here ...but finally feel revived ...now when my friends suggest me to prepare again for upsc ....I deny with a beautiful smile on my face....
Amit Varidhikilor Sir, the way you teach and make history much interesting. I love the way you deliver. Much respect for you sir. 🙏
Teaching level of Amit is on different level, rare teachers who can make history interesting and he's one of them. I can proudly say that i'm the student of Amit sir.
Amit Sir, nobody teaches like you.
Keep going !!
Best Mentor 🥰
He might be a good teacher but he is lying about facing interview...he has never cleared mains
When there are so many hardworking candidates and vacancies are so less, Destiny comes in play ..
In this era where ias has been turned into a cult and it's no more a simple recruitment exam, I really thank The Print for bringing up this dark side of the story which the world often prefers to overlook.
The way Amit kilhor sir told about his journey..it is real heart touching..
A aspirant can only know what he left out with this failure
Amit Varidhi Kilhor sir is my inspiration❤ Huge respect to him🙏
Amit Sir is one of the phenomenal teacher he makes every thing so easy for learning one of the best teacher i have ever seen in my upsc journey.
Although I am not a Print frequenter but I appreciate their this initiative to bring this story in light. We need to touch upon the education and the monstrous impact they put on young minds when they fail, it's devastating.
In an Exam where only max. 1000 students are selected out of 5-6 lakhs, I think it's not right to stay whiling time away at attempting it, instead other exams could be cracked and skills can be learned for pvt jobs/ MBA. ALL THE BEST TO EVERYONE FIGHTING OUT THERE... ❤
Thank You so much "The Print"❤️
For showing this most important part of life💔
सफलता की बात तो सब करतें है, और सफल लोगों की कहानियाँ भी सुनते और सुनाते हैं
लेकिन कहानी की उन हिस्सों में क्या जिन्हें मेहनत के बावजूद़ सिर्फ असफलता और निराशा ही मिली..
चैनल को मेरा आभार कि आपने इस हिस्से को भी दिखाया
Being a upsc aspirant myself, after leaving it all in 2021(tier1 college passout, stable IT job, friends....) i don't know what lies ahead and i can only hope and try to work hard.The last speaker's regret and outlook in present is inspiring. We have to account for our decision and always try to build things from scratch even if they get destroyed, for life is a journey and the goal is to become a better human.
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I wish you all the best!
Why you thrive into this part?
Why you resigned?
You won't get a job that easy after resigning.
Better don't even appear, it kills your confidence and in case your mental peace gets disturbed in between because of one or the other thing you are dead.
Corona in my case did that. I now don't even want to study because of regrets of not giving my best. I hate myself now because I entertained people at the wrong time. I am fully responsible for my failure but i don't have spine to study last time and in case i fail i will ruin myself. So i took a pragmatic decision. Although I break down alone because of giving up but now I got a job after a lot of gap year thankfully otherwise I don't know how my life would have looked being the topper of my batch, I still feel how I couldn't strategized well and wasted my time here and there. I always saw the brighter side 3months prelims etc but it never happened. Selection is rare here even if you work hard. Mind you.
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jab insaan galti kar raha hota hai tab aankhe band kar leta hai aur jab galti ho jati hai tab aankhe khulti hai. I'm also in IT but from tier 4 college, I feel lucky sometimes I didn't fell in such trap. Instead, I keep updating my IT skills daily. Moreover, this upsc bakchodi isn't much glamorized in my state compare to North India.
@@sm-vr9xo you did right but anyway I always wanted to be an ias but never had a proper strategy because you never know one. Your good alumini network, close contact may help but still it is a gamble. I was so stressed and so much of consistency is required that one day here and there it is done. Many are lucky to get through. My luck is not that good. My mind is just something that keeps on getting distracted. After wasting so many years, thankfully I got a job somehow that too because that person was close otherwise how many times my resumewould had got rejected. Even being the most academically bright student I just lost confidence. I didn appear for jee and all. So never had experience to handle pressure but anyway my age is not allowing me to further take risk otherwise I will be doomed.
So may be destiny, corona everything did all to make my mind distracted. It was good if I would had not resigned and prepared alongside. May be now I don't even want to see upsc and all nonsense because of uncertainty. When you are young you can take risks🥴 like I did but now it's too late although I know I can crack if I give Full attention but I have lost that dedication and what if Idont clear syndrome. 😖
Seriously tears in my eyes
Upsc is something which we can't express in words
Yes
I think it's beautiful that you cover the dark side of preparation...
It broke me mentally & I went in depression & I'm still recovering it..
It's wonderfull...
That you covered it..
I was exactly thinking of same video that why failed candidates are never interviewed! Nice initiative👍🏻
It's good that temporary unsuccessful candidate are getting platform to narrate their story and we are getting useful insights..
The journey will never end . Everyone has a beautiful life ahead , we only work hard and always be positive. Amit sir is our mentor to guide in this journey .
ऐ वीडियो बहत ही जरूरी है समाज केलिए,,, जो सफलता पा जाते है भलेही उनको cover करो लेकिन जो सफलता नही पाते है उनके पीठ थपथपाओ तकि उन्हें जीने की सहारा मिलसके।।।।
Bitter truth of UPSC. Prepare, try your best and give attempts. If you feel you're stuck, get the f out of there. Life is full of opportunities. Go, try new things, passion, hobbies etc. Find yourself, UPSC is not only an option, there are hundreds of other things to try. Don't take life so seriously that an event make you stuck on it. No matter what, life keeps going in any circumstances. Keep going. Do what makes you happy, don't think you're a failure, no, no one is failure here. Everyone's hero. Play your role. Be yourself.
Amit sir is the best teacher, motivator and inspiration for all the aspiring students....
This video is imp not just for an aspirant but also for parents as well.
Much needed interview, noone talks about people who couldnt crack and blindly follow those who does, students need to see both side some of them are even better than those who did crack, doesnt matter if you believe on luck or not but in every exam luck plays crucial role,
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Same here wasted 11 crucial years of my life from 18-29 in CA.
Attemts pe attempts and today all my sacrifices, hope, ambition, dream, hardwork, confidence, perseverance, late night studies, early morning studies, no love life, no friends, no family support, no financial stability and many more things all in vain.
Instead I achieved berozgaari, locked in deep clutches of depression, suicidal thoughts, all hair lost in stress, relatives taunts, Jeleousy while seeing your dumb friends doing far better than you. Not able to get a healthy sleep, lost health. And many other things. 😢
Main reason is population.
Secondly the lustfulness of previous generation.
@@sidhkon8543 True indeed.
@@vivekkumar1726 may you do great in life brother life is tough please don't quit in life ❤❤❤
brother u will do great in life
Now what's you doing dear
I hope you are fine in life
This video is more of a eye opener and motivating that life doesn't end for nothing.... It keeps flowing.
Even after you lost your dreams and everything there still hope you can do better for yourself tomorrow.
NEVER LOST HOPE..
I m an UPSC aspirant too.
3 Preliminary.
1 Mains..
Journey is in the process.
Bhai kuch aur kar le
THE PRINT is doing excellent job. Congratulations 👏 to the entire team.
Amit Sir you might have not won upsc but you are winning our hearts by teaching us .Great to have you as a Teacher. You will make many Future IAS,IPS,etc officers .You are awesome Sir❤️😍
Amit sir, his unending journey is like a river which flows and nourished all, but taking all the dirts with him...
This is called the real inspiration.
Hatts off to the team who made it.
Amit sir is the best teacher.
His lectures are awesome and very informative.
All the aspirants did well and all the best
I like Amit sir’s interview, raw ,candid and very brave.
this line by amit sir --- if i get a chance to do it again probably i will never do it
Inspiration from AMIT SIR.....❤
Inspite what happened in the past...He works hard and now he is one of the best teacher of StudyIQ.👍
Thank you The Print for covering this.
In the age of social media where only success is chased and shown, you are covering the journey of aspirants.
For me, these people are real heroes they fell and again rose up to make the best of life. Handling failure is not easy. We must stop hero worshiping of toppers and also show the real picture.
That's true. Thank you for this perspective.
Much appreciation for the print to showing the more than 99% face of the UPSC. My heart really goes out to them. UPSC should restricted it to for 1or 2 attempts only. Our youth have a way more potential than preparing for UPSC or any other govt exams just for the sake of power or the relaxed govt job. We as a nation have to go much far and for that this has to be stopped.
Topper jhoot bolte hai pr jinka nhi huaa bo sahi sahi batate hai ❤❤
amit sir 👌👌 today he is inspiration for many aspirants 🙏 giving right way to clear upsc
Amit sir uh is the world's best teacher... I don't have words to describe uh because uh are precious and a good human being... I respect uh from the bottom of my heart. uh is love
Very well reported. Important to bring out this side of the story as well. 👏👏
दुनिया सिर्फ उन्हीं लोगों का संघर्ष देखती है ,जो सफल हो जाते है।।। Thanks for this wonderful coverage ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Literally I had tears in my eyes...I'm also a aspirant...