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@@KevinYeePharmD yes! I’m also in therapy for the exact same things… it’s nice to see it from someone’s else perspective. The story about your dad was very emotional, sorry you and him had to go through this!
Thanks for the advice and openness regarding your life. Makes me reflect on others in my life. Helps me become self-aware of what I say and do that will trigger others. Interesting. Your videos have great pedagogy.
Hey Kong what's going on? I appreciate you just watching my video and love that it helps you reflect on aspects of your life. Honestly these are some of my favorite conversations have in real life. What are some things that you kind of realized in your life after watching this video?
@KevinYeePharmD Hey Kevin, thanks for responding. When I watch your video, and I hear your narrative: the "character" that I see myself as--which worries me--is your "dad". I'm short & hot tempered--though others see me as cool and reflective--until they see my anger come out. I'm the one that people walk on egg-shells around, though I try to be sensitive and maintain high levels of Emotional Intelligence. I'm the 3rd oldest of 15 siblings, from two parents who were refugees from the Vietnam War, having fled Laos after 1975. After relocating and somewhat assimilating into California as Hmong farmers, often my eldest sister and I took care of the younger siblings while mom&dad worked on the leased farm land, growing and harvesting tomatoes during those days. And in the 90's of Central California, particularly Fresno: gangs, poverty, and latch-key children were my norm. And often, there would be non-stop arguments, verbal fights, and sometimes physical ones. All those years...I wonder about the trauma, tensions, and scars those battles have havoc--ed on my by-stander siblings. All the debris of egg-shells others have had to walk and endure and suffer. I see "you" in those some of those younger siblings...And I wonder how I can make amends. How I've failed. How I was so blind, so unaware, so ignorant. The youngest is in college now. And I've entered my "40s", as my birthday is on January 14th. How does one gain back the years? Love your videos, bro.
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Thank you for this important video. I can completely relate!
One of the most important skills Ive had to learn these last few years 🙃 What was relatable for you?
@@KevinYeePharmD yes! I’m also in therapy for the exact same things… it’s nice to see it from someone’s else perspective. The story about your dad was very emotional, sorry you and him had to go through this!
Thanks for the advice and openness regarding your life. Makes me reflect on others in my life. Helps me become self-aware of what I say and do that will trigger others. Interesting. Your videos have great pedagogy.
Hey Kong what's going on? I appreciate you just watching my video and love that it helps you reflect on aspects of your life. Honestly these are some of my favorite conversations have in real life. What are some things that you kind of realized in your life after watching this video?
@KevinYeePharmD Hey Kevin, thanks for responding. When I watch your video, and I hear your narrative: the "character" that I see myself as--which worries me--is your "dad". I'm short & hot tempered--though others see me as cool and reflective--until they see my anger come out. I'm the one that people walk on egg-shells around, though I try to be sensitive and maintain high levels of Emotional Intelligence.
I'm the 3rd oldest of 15 siblings, from two parents who were refugees from the Vietnam War, having fled Laos after 1975. After relocating and somewhat assimilating into California as Hmong farmers, often my eldest sister and I took care of the younger siblings while mom&dad worked on the leased farm land, growing and harvesting tomatoes during those days. And in the 90's of Central California, particularly Fresno: gangs, poverty, and latch-key children were my norm. And often, there would be non-stop arguments, verbal fights, and sometimes physical ones.
All those years...I wonder about the trauma, tensions, and scars those battles have havoc--ed on my by-stander siblings. All the debris of egg-shells others have had to walk and endure and suffer. I see "you" in those some of those younger siblings...And I wonder how I can make amends. How I've failed. How I was so blind, so unaware, so ignorant.
The youngest is in college now. And I've entered my "40s", as my birthday is on January 14th. How does one gain back the years?
Love your videos, bro.
@@kmxhlivn Thank you so much for sharing your story brother 🙏