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  • čas přidán 4. 09. 2024
  • Icamagu Heritage Institute Director, Dr. Nokuzola Mndende responds to eNCA caller Keneilwe and her views of older African women as she speaks on the generational differences among African women and the realities and challenges that face each generation.

Komentáře • 67

  • @tkctkc5805
    @tkctkc5805 Před 5 lety +57

    The host is being very rude, childish, immature, disrespectful, and unprofessional. Why bring a guest on to your show if you are not going to allow her to speak? Much respect to Dr. Nokuzola Mndende for maintaining her stance and dignity on this show even when she was being disrespected on numerous occasions by this unprofessional host.

    • @tshikilafambamily293
      @tshikilafambamily293 Před 5 lety +5

      I so agree worst host ever. Hated watching this she was forcing herself on Dr Mndende.

    • @ezamabona7940
      @ezamabona7940 Před 5 lety +3

      She should've just interviewed herself - such a disrespectful. she spoke more than the interviewee

    • @BabaYaggah
      @BabaYaggah Před 3 lety

      Too true ...the respect for elders is gone with westernization, they ask to be taught and we reject teaching them the new ways just because we are triggered. Mama has a point, in my culture a woman led the community and there are legends of women...I do not see how women were oppressed back then, the issue is the adoption of the western thought and ideals. We should address our issues based on this past reality that I believe was the best in contrast with today's world. Back when women were seers, diviners and chiefs. But I guess we are so embarrassed of our culture let's just shun it out.

    • @mvuyisikahla1699
      @mvuyisikahla1699 Před 2 lety +2

      Yah Malaika is debating not interviewing the guest. She should have just shared her views and not invited the good Doctor

    • @muziwakhilekhoza192
      @muziwakhilekhoza192 Před 2 lety

      Ft Dr

  • @yolokazimfuto8370
    @yolokazimfuto8370 Před 5 lety +27

    Malaika came to this interview with alot of preconceived information about Dr Mndende hence she is not giving her a chance to explain. she is not even listening to understand rather to respond\

  • @mohlomphehi
    @mohlomphehi Před 5 lety +22

    God I love this wonderful lady. Pity the presenter wouldn't allow her time to speak.

  • @sanelecebodauwa8038
    @sanelecebodauwa8038 Před 2 lety +5

    That was not an interview, that was a monologue for the host, Dr. N Mndende was just there to witness the argument skills of the host.

  • @aphiwempahleni1587
    @aphiwempahleni1587 Před 5 lety +17

    My worry is that you can't talk about the today without dealing with the past. The sad thing is that the host had told herself before the show that she will deal with her guest hence she is not granting her guest enough time to talk.

  • @FumaniBaloyi
    @FumaniBaloyi Před 5 lety +14

    What was the point of having a guest? Seems like the presenter only wanted her arguments to be heard. Constantly interrupting

  • @ismatka-mbonane7843
    @ismatka-mbonane7843 Před 5 lety +15

    OMG! The host is super duper rude and unprofessional. She is constantly interrupting her guest but she makes it a point to be known that she can't be interrupted. I'm all for a good debate or difference in opinions but there's a proper manner to do so.

  • @thulanisingapi5949
    @thulanisingapi5949 Před 5 lety +8

    New knowledge to a kid can make them think they got it all figured out. As a bad host u r you'll grow up my dear.. keep learning more n not only about the info itself bt the delivery u'll mature soon. THX

  • @surrealtalk9779
    @surrealtalk9779 Před 5 lety +17

    The Host is indeed colonized and disrespectful.

  • @projectikamva
    @projectikamva Před 3 lety +8

    Yhuuuu Malaika! What a missed opportunity to engage and learn from uDr Mndende. I mean she spent 95% of the time talking when she should be listening.

  • @Hazelbeing
    @Hazelbeing Před 5 lety +20

    Being educated and informed is sometimes a curse. This host went there armed and ready for a fight which is not existing. I'm truly disappointed by her, she's talking over this woman and it's useless. She's actually using twitter logic, waste of time.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 Před 5 lety

      I think she represented the current sentiment of a group of women and did it well. It's good to bring the elders together with the youngings so that they can correct us or teach us and we can show them as well how we're doing.

  • @123ndindi
    @123ndindi Před 2 lety +3

    akanambeko ke uMalaika... she loves the sound of her voice

  • @prudencedantye9297
    @prudencedantye9297 Před 4 lety +6

    This interview was so painful to listen to because the host kept on talking over the guest. The big words are well and good but they all went to waste. I wanted to hear the guest's views but she was not given enough time to speak.

  • @mangoyacho
    @mangoyacho Před 3 lety +2

    Dr Mndende is ver wise. What a pity she was given enough opportunity to present her thesis without interuption. I hope she will be invited again, We want to hear from her.

  • @sanelethwala1179
    @sanelethwala1179 Před 4 lety +3

    Exceptional responses to Doctor Mndende

  • @leeiam978
    @leeiam978 Před 3 lety +5

    "The problem with our young people is they are not teaching us, they are forcing us."
    UMama is so right.
    I can give an example. My 90 year old black grandmother through proper conversation understands the plights of the LGBTQIA+ community, is knowledgeable, all because I 'taught' her, not forced her.
    I'm classed as 'liberal', but it's starts with empathy, and an intention to listen not this disrespect.
    I doubt that the host is well-read on the works of Dr. Mndende. Honestly, this is wasted wisdom.

    • @leeiam978
      @leeiam978 Před 3 lety

      Also, the assumption that Dr. Mndende isn't knowledgeable about the topics mentioned in the 'modern idiom' is an insult to her intelligence.
      Also, since when did an opposing view warrant a complete shutdown. People that give textbook definitions of political ideology annoy me. We know that. That's a lecture, this was meant to be a conversation.

  • @lindokuhlepetuniazwane664

    "Teach us do not impose". Very critical. I love how mama Mndende carried herself throughout the interview but I still did not get her fundamental argument, ber advocacy.

    • @johnmhlanga8153
      @johnmhlanga8153 Před rokem

      How could you if she couldn't even make a point at all

  • @sidwellmaqoko5540
    @sidwellmaqoko5540 Před 4 lety +6

    the guest should be given enough time by the presenter.

  • @yolandayalezo3497
    @yolandayalezo3497 Před 3 lety +2

    The host was very disruptive. Although the arguments she was making were quite valid and I feel Dr. Nokuzola Mndende didn't fully make her point on any of her answers even when she wasn't disturbed.

  • @sanelethwala1179
    @sanelethwala1179 Před 4 lety +3

    Doctor Mndende is very knowlegable about this isssues.. but the host seems to be wanting to give lecture and not absorbing information.

  • @matshabalalaeleki
    @matshabalalaeleki Před 3 lety +1

    I won't bother going all the way because I concur with the comments.

  • @jackiemwangi8963
    @jackiemwangi8963 Před 3 lety +3

    “Young people are not teaching us. They are forcing us.” The lady is forcing her opinion. She should have taken a deep breath before saying anything.

    • @projectikamva
      @projectikamva Před 3 lety

      Then she insuates that uDr Mndebde is being 'violent' for suggesting such... kanti what must happen?

  • @malibongwematutu8830
    @malibongwematutu8830 Před 5 lety +1

    Malaika is presenting her muster so one should not expect her to respect mama .

  • @kennethvolwana7799
    @kennethvolwana7799 Před 3 lety +2

    Why did you call her 🤷‍♂️

  • @khanyamazkhali6949
    @khanyamazkhali6949 Před 2 lety +1

    Who is the guest here na kanti? She doesn't seem to have been given enough air time . This interview is a joke. There is a lot to be learnt from this elderly person.

  • @mpingampinga8635
    @mpingampinga8635 Před 3 lety +1

    Am sorry Dr you so knowledgeable try to engage with old people what we are listening hear Yoooo sisilungu santoni na esi kubantu abamnyama, yiyo lonto udibana nabantwana abalahlekileyo, njenge ndoda mama unyanisile lo uzawubethwa ngamanyange ngamathongo ungakhathazeki ngenye imini uzakuthi ndicela Dr Mndende sizothetha

  • @everythingispolitics6526
    @everythingispolitics6526 Před 6 měsíci

    The host was talking AT the guest which I found extremely distasteful. The caller was beyond condescending. What's a shame. The Dr handled herself very well. The arrogance of the younger generation will come back to hurt.

  • @nyende158
    @nyende158 Před 2 lety +1

    Was this an interview? 🤔 😳

  • @babsie3235
    @babsie3235 Před 3 lety

    Yho am not sure what this whole interview was about mntakabawo omnye uthetha phez'komnye but the answer is no, elders are not the guardians of patriarchy.

  • @asivekonkenontombiwani6882

    Uyaphoxa lo Presenter y can't she give a chance Gogo?

  • @mpingampinga8635
    @mpingampinga8635 Před 3 lety

    Dr

  • @sisekosivuyilemkhululimali3698

    This host is irritating and unprofessional

  • @yoknyamdabale4753
    @yoknyamdabale4753 Před 3 lety +1

    The interviewer is horrible, oh my God! Why bring someone to your show and not allow them to talk?

  • @siziwetobie5818
    @siziwetobie5818 Před rokem +1

    This lady is very toxic! Malaika wakhona wow rude as hell

  • @vuyisilesilekwa9292
    @vuyisilesilekwa9292 Před 5 lety +1

    akanambeko lomntwana akakwazi kusebenza umsebenzi awunikiwe tu unobuntwana.akenzi njengosasazi

  • @nonujako3557
    @nonujako3557 Před 2 lety

    Malaika waAzania took it to herself, Dr uxolo shem; hat interview was not yours..

  • @bulitm1
    @bulitm1 Před 2 lety

    The host should not have invited the guest if 80 % of the time she would be the one speaking

  • @ncumisagarishe2733
    @ncumisagarishe2733 Před 5 lety +2

    uKrwada Man losisi

  • @peacheskong2245
    @peacheskong2245 Před 5 lety +3

    I don't understand why people are so disrespectful to the host. She did a good job coming with counter arguments and allowing her guest to speak as well. It was a good debate where different povs were presented I don't agree with her even but I think she did well bringing up her points. THIS is how we can learn and remain open for teachings

    • @tshidiso9653
      @tshidiso9653 Před 11 měsíci

      She did a bad job with weak counter-argument

  • @mpingampinga8635
    @mpingampinga8635 Před 3 lety

    Ndiyarhalela sithetheni 0791382044 uze egqibile to deal with umama Mndende

  • @athiluyololupuwana4242

    The presenter is so unprofessional, she is a typical example of a lost youth generation.

  • @ayandaandisiwe2859
    @ayandaandisiwe2859 Před 2 lety

    Malaika you are disruptive.

  • @tshidiso9653
    @tshidiso9653 Před 3 lety +1

    Very bad hosting skills