Raped by my Father for years & got Pregnant | Zizo Apleni | I've Been Through The Most

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  • čas přidán 19. 04. 2023
  • This week we profile Zizo Apleni
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    I’ve Been Through the Most is a documentary series that profiles the lives of the brave, bold and courageous guests who have experienced the most and are on the show to share their story. Most if not all are back on the podcast to answer some questions which our viewer had, they also get to be interviewed by media personalities Innocent & Millicent also known as the Centtwinz. The podcast allows our guests to dive deeper into in-depth details of their story. This podcast is proudly brought to you by Centtwinz Productions.
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Komentáře • 173

  • @ArizonaZulu
    @ArizonaZulu Před 24 dny +2

    I just called my dad and told him I love him so much,he is 80years today my mom passed on when I was I 8years old,he has protected me and not even once did he make me uncomfortable.thank you for sharing your story sisi✨♥️

  • @yvonnechawatama1326
    @yvonnechawatama1326 Před 7 měsíci +10

    The fact that she's still believe in God after what happened to her Respect 🙏 May God continue to bless you 🙏 ❤️ you deserve whatever you want in life

  • @azolaqayi5878
    @azolaqayi5878 Před 7 měsíci +27

    Wow thank you for this episode Centtwinz 😢it hits home coz I personally went through the same situation with my uncle from dad’s side, sad part is that I never got a chance to confront him he is late.. my family didn’t want him to get arrested and I’m still scared to talk about it because I don’t think that they are awere ukuthi I still remember everything that happened to me ndisemncani.

  • @HellenR70
    @HellenR70 Před rokem +12

    This man should not be left. The other girls that he mollested need to get justice. He need to be re arrested. Our community are the problem, defending a rapist and a child molester.

  • @millymashile
    @millymashile Před rokem +73

    Thank you for sharing your story Zizo. I’m so sorry for what you had to go through. Wishing you all the best with your book ❤ You are destined for greatness

  • @ofentsematlala06
    @ofentsematlala06 Před rokem +25

    I’m watching this episode with tears rolling down my face because rape on its own is a very sensitive topic to me because til this day no one knows what happened to me, it haunts me so much💔. I can’t wait to share my story too

  • @SisLinaM
    @SisLinaM Před rokem +49

    I know this girl, her story touched a lot of people. She is teaching us about the importance of Forgiveness 🙌❤️

  • @summerautumn7507
    @summerautumn7507 Před 3 měsíci +5

    5 years in prison for raping a child.....God we need you.

  • @munzhedzimashige5932
    @munzhedzimashige5932 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I have been watching these types of stories lately and in all of them it happened when the girls started living with their dads. Im going to live with my children. No matter what happens. Im going to be very vigilant. I grew up in a household with uncles and my grandmother always told me to tell her if my uncles tried to touch me inappropriately, I didnt understand at that age but now i understand that she was trying to protect me.

  • @tarndiem03
    @tarndiem03 Před rokem +13

    sigh,...I cried, your story touched me, I dont know the pain you went through but I can see from your eyes that it was the worst.. I am so sorry mama you did not deserve that. I am soo happy you found yourself someone who loves you regardless of what happened. I wish you all the good things in life. I really wish I could read your story, I want to gain a deeper understanding of the survivor's experience, learning about the psychological impact of trauma, or simply being interested in your story it really touched me.

  • @tsundzukaniconstancemalule4125

    Lets give it for Millicent and Innocent 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼your interviewing skilss👏🏼👏🏼and you compliment each other so well!! Had to make sure I dont skip ads to show my appreciation for this talent!! What a powerful story also♥️♥️👏🏼👏🏼

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much, we appreciate you.

  • @SamaNyags
    @SamaNyags Před rokem +4

    heart broken . i want the book it gives me strength knowing that what ever it might be you will overcome. been through the most too but different story it also centers around forgiving people who hurt you the most. thank you Centtwinz tv🥰🥰

  • @zikomokaliwo4977
    @zikomokaliwo4977 Před rokem +14

    i like how you two coordinate when interviewing, i like the orderly flow of questions. keep it up. All the best as the channel grows

  • @sassyx2048
    @sassyx2048 Před 9 měsíci +3

    First time watchiing this just stumbled uppn it. Im reallg glad that these stories are now energing from Africa. Child Abuse does not discriminate its prevalent in African countries but has been taboo to speak about this. But thid slowly changing. With brave women like this beatiful Queen who shared her story. Im so proud she has come through on the other side, She reclaimed her power, she shared her story in a book form that will encourage many other Women in Africa and beyond to speak their truth. God has blessed you with a god fearing man and children Im so happy for you. Thanks to the lovely ladies who came with sensitivity and Compassion in their interview style.

  • @lindiwedumane4439
    @lindiwedumane4439 Před rokem +4

    We need more of this content......thank you centtwin may God bless you

  • @StarDaughterOfZionDube
    @StarDaughterOfZionDube Před rokem +18

    Thank you for sharing, I’m speechless, God is definitely a father to the fatherless , no one could survive such without Jesus 💙
    Im loving the way your doing the podcasts now 👏🏽

  • @ChatswithNene
    @ChatswithNene Před rokem +3

    Yooooh! Such a brave person you are Zizo. May the Lord be with you as you continue to share your story and impact lives. Lots of love

  • @deeake6940
    @deeake6940 Před rokem +3

    The maturity and wisdom in Zizo is remarkable 🙏🏽 may God continue to bless you abundantly.
    The stunning Centtwinz what a beautiful collaboration.

  • @bmolefi5molefi761
    @bmolefi5molefi761 Před rokem +7

    I thank God for your strength🙏😢
    I'm still a coward to say something even today.
    Thanks for the interview beautiful ladies 😍 😍

  • @nthabisengfaneke8453
    @nthabisengfaneke8453 Před rokem +14

    I want the book because i have grown up not knowing my biological parents . Raised by my grandparents . This book would help me because one day I would publish my book in how I over came the difficult situations that I have faced even now I'm facing some issues . Me getting this book it would really assist me not to give up regardless of my story . I cannot allow my pain to define me . Big up to milly and inno the way you guys handle the interview may God opened doors for your all love your all.

  • @SisLinaM
    @SisLinaM Před rokem +7

    We were signing a petition just two weeks ago because a former teacher abused school kids and his wife..These perverts are protected because they are known and mostly principals protects them. Yhoo bethuna I cringe thinking about this.. may God heal you Zizo baby and thank CentTwins Tv🙌🙌

  • @rosehlatshwayo7238
    @rosehlatshwayo7238 Před 5 dny

    Thanks for sharing the story, may God continue to heal you & bless you.🙏🙏

  • @dimakatsolesane1876
    @dimakatsolesane1876 Před rokem +2

    This is very sad especially being done by your dad.Truly God strengthens and changes situations 🙏

  • @makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485

    Sending prayers and healing to everyone who is not brave enough like zizo.

  • @simplyandrandomlysane8208

    The reason I'd like to read this book is because I'm afraid.... I'm afraid of something like this happening to MY daughter. She's only 6 months old and I think about this almost every day... To a point where I think I'm being unfair to her dad(who loves her so so much) and other male relatives and maybe, I need to loosen up. However, I realize that I need to voice it out so they know that should someone ever do something similar, ngofela kuyena and that I expect them to be her protectors ... Like, angazi man but there's that.

    • @zamambhele242
      @zamambhele242 Před rokem +4

      I understand ur fear, maybe get help through therapists or psychologist to help u manage ur fear, and also hold on tight to ur faith it helps a lot to shut down the fear coz the enemy thrives on fear and it might manifest in ur life eventually if u don’t get help 🙏

    • @simplyandrandomlysane8208
      @simplyandrandomlysane8208 Před rokem +1

      @@zamambhele242 I hear you mama ❤️

  • @nomthandazomsenga2948
    @nomthandazomsenga2948 Před rokem +4

    Heart breaking , Such a strong woman

  • @coachpontshomashile3900
    @coachpontshomashile3900 Před rokem +5

    I trust that all women, young girls and boys that are abused find justice whatever form it comes in...Zizo be unto you

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Před rokem +6

    It’s appalling that she still lives in fear of this monster!!! He should’ve rot in prison!

  • @andisiwemcasa7360
    @andisiwemcasa7360 Před rokem +6

    Jesus, I never cried so much… people are so evil how can your father do this to you? Guys why would God allow such painful experiences in our lives 😓 sending you so much love and light Zizo🙏❤️

  • @victoriezaire3335
    @victoriezaire3335 Před rokem +2

    Her father is supposed to be her first Love ❤ thank you mommy inno and Milley for sharing these stories and I learn alot from it

  • @wpp1586
    @wpp1586 Před rokem +3

    It was very authentic for me.when it was just someone telling their story without the questions nor an interview kinda setting, it will take getting use to.peace to you sisi.

    • @aliyahamalia3840
      @aliyahamalia3840 Před měsícem

      This is also what happened to me. My own father took my innocence at the age of 8 - 12. He was a teacher and raped my Mom while she was a learner/primary School student. So, I am also a result of rape.

  • @siphililemoyo5712
    @siphililemoyo5712 Před rokem +8

    Surely God's plans for us are for good and not evil, thank you Zizo for sharing your story, and may you experience the peace of God ALWAYS...YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN

  • @NamhlaLingani-tk6uu
    @NamhlaLingani-tk6uu Před rokem

    It was about time! Read her book.

  • @nthabimabuza1031
    @nthabimabuza1031 Před rokem

    Thank you Zi for telling us your story im so happy you find love from your partner ❤Go big Zi God blessed you 🙏😇✌

  • @miss_teetee8265
    @miss_teetee8265 Před rokem

    Wow may God continue healing Zizo such a beautiful soul she is 👌

  • @melodychiringa290
    @melodychiringa290 Před rokem +7

    This story touched my heart even in Zimbabwe there are so many people that they rapped by there fathers and relatives they were afraid to report to the police those relatives they were telling them that if u tell anyone will kill u

    • @lufefemapoma9954
      @lufefemapoma9954 Před rokem

      Sad to hear, I have always viewed Zimbabweans as more humane, more ethical than the people living in the devil's playground i.e South Africa.

  • @misssepayne9202
    @misssepayne9202 Před rokem +2

    Your interviewing skills guys 👏😍👌 impressive 😊

  • @TRO175
    @TRO175 Před rokem +9

    So sorry to Zizo for what she went through 💞and congratulations for the book, God always knew you would be OK one day. Thank you beautiful ladies for this Podcast❤

  • @samukelisiwembhele5691
    @samukelisiwembhele5691 Před rokem +1

    She is such an amazing young lady. Thank you for sharing your story. Just wanted to ask if she still has the child from the pregnancy?

  • @samukelomadide797
    @samukelomadide797 Před rokem +3

    Syabonga twinnies, we should swe these in tv's not these uneducational content we consume weekly

  • @zikomokaliwo4977
    @zikomokaliwo4977 Před rokem +5

    Hello, i would be happy if i got the book because i am a teacher and would use it to make my students aware of rape, and for those that might have gone through it already, it would be helpful for them to heal.

  • @misssepayne9202
    @misssepayne9202 Před rokem +1

    My goodness 🥺💔🤦 yoooo,you've been through the most Sisi I'm so sorry hay💔

  • @SuzetteKhiba
    @SuzetteKhiba Před rokem +2

    I'm so sorry for what you went through, but so glad that you've healed and have most importantly have found true love... but I really still fail to understand how he was sentenced to so such few years for rape?

  • @thatovanessa4545
    @thatovanessa4545 Před rokem +1

    For me after I heard the story of sis ipfi I don't want but need the book to help me as a young women in order that I will be able to empower other young women our there with her story and I say I love her bravery and indeed God's has a purpose for each and everyone of us and no situation can take that away from us. 😢

    • @thatovanessa4545
      @thatovanessa4545 Před rokem

      @CENTTWINZTV2 😃😃😃 really 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳I am very much happy and I can't wait to have it in my hands, thank you so much.

  • @lekgatlanehellenmoshidi62

    This is heartbreaking
    😭😭

  • @Nzaloyenkosi.M
    @Nzaloyenkosi.M Před rokem +11

    Wow, what an amazing episode 🥰🥰
    Very inspiring.
    My team and I have recently started an initiative that is called " Brokenness saved me"
    The initiative focuses on mending broken relationships ( marriage, families, friends, ministry etc.)
    And that is through pointing one to Christ having had also go through his own share of brokenness so he can redeem us. In the same manner our brokenness can help redeem another.
    With that said and done may i kindly request the copy of the book 🙏😅

  • @GaviNkuna
    @GaviNkuna Před rokem

    Hey centtwinz,I would really like this book.🥺

  • @kamomagaret5169
    @kamomagaret5169 Před rokem

    I couldn't finish this,my heart is so broken 💔

  • @priscillasabi8325
    @priscillasabi8325 Před rokem +2

    Thanks!

  • @user-yt7ht7gi2u
    @user-yt7ht7gi2u Před 9 měsíci

    The power of forgiveness 🙏 💕💋m so touched

  • @owethusilinga6101
    @owethusilinga6101 Před rokem +2

    Yhoooooooo we read this book at home kanti we know this man 💔💔💔💔 Mntase I hope you are healing♥️

  • @risunamathebula8129
    @risunamathebula8129 Před rokem

    Zizo your story make me 😢😢😢 sorry sisi for what happened to you wishing you the best of your life may god be with you always 💓 💓 hun 💞💞 huge 🤗🕊️🕊️🕊️💕💖🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

  • @pontshobetty-kk9go
    @pontshobetty-kk9go Před 7 měsíci

    Ur story it's so sad😢 thanks for sharing it i want that book where to get it

  • @starlight7739
    @starlight7739 Před rokem +7

    This is painful for a little girl to live through thus father should be in jail forgiveness or not😢

  • @zinhledludla6674
    @zinhledludla6674 Před 4 měsíci

    Im literally in Tears 😭😭😭😭

  • @khosiroyalhighness4965
    @khosiroyalhighness4965 Před rokem +7

    I would like to win a copy of book, because I have gone through something similar. I also was raped by my step father for years. I think the book might help me put things into perspective and be comforted. For me to get the book you'd have to send it to protea Glen mall pep. 🙏

  • @priscillasabi8325
    @priscillasabi8325 Před rokem

    Shuu..i love how everything turned out for Zizo..thank you for sharing your story also i hear she spoke about her girls,,,does it mean she kept the baby?

  • @tshiamomahape292
    @tshiamomahape292 Před rokem +2

    Am out of words, like such monsters are living with us in communities and we still shy away from talking about such topics. We honestly need to talk more about this and educate our kids better make them aware of such vultures, put a name to it from a young age for both girls and world

  • @patiencesadzauchi-tf1zc

    Zizo ur story is so heart breaking bt u survived. It's a woke up cal to all mothers don't trust man when it cmz to a girl child. Pple are rotten to the core out there. And also I feel like the justice system has failed ths young girl. The man is evil ws suppose to spend the rest of hs life in prison. The man is rotten to the core sleeping with ur own blood child yeses. To the twins thank u fr the interview u are doing a gd job

  • @khodanimavhungu6079
    @khodanimavhungu6079 Před rokem

    This podcast is so painful to finish 😔😭

  • @makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485

    I love the fact that zozi believes that god exist. Time heal everything. I love u zozi

  • @boitshokobuthelezi8469
    @boitshokobuthelezi8469 Před 5 měsíci

    So sorry Zizo, you’re so brave

  • @Christianconnecion
    @Christianconnecion Před rokem

    Dear Lord 🙏 pls help me overcome this pain I feel about this story. It brings me fear for my daughter God pls help women also out there to blv that there are still good men out there's pls Lord. I pray in the mighty name of Jesus Christ 🙏😭 Amen..

  • @nomathamsanqamatai7549
    @nomathamsanqamatai7549 Před rokem +2

    I'm so sorry

  • @favourk8705
    @favourk8705 Před rokem +6

    I feel like what the father did must not be justified using God" I think God didn't want it to come out " , what he did its wrong, it shouldn't have happened at all.

  • @NalediGoldinah
    @NalediGoldinah Před 4 měsíci

    Dont feel bad about writing the book or telling your story, if your father really felt remorseful he would not even care about how you decide to go about your healing journey.
    Keep talking girl,kee healing the world.

  • @zamambhele242
    @zamambhele242 Před rokem +1

    What is the name of the book and where can we get it from ?

  • @somilambunjana9981
    @somilambunjana9981 Před rokem

    I’m so sorry, Zizo 🤍

  • @pukupie5027
    @pukupie5027 Před rokem +7

    Hence I trust no one with my baby girl. No one!!

  • @destimonialottering4492

    WOW God bless you dear 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @victoriezaire3335
    @victoriezaire3335 Před rokem

    I am so interested in the book I hope I can get it

  • @angelcele950
    @angelcele950 Před rokem +1

    I heard her story when I was in grade 8 on the radio

  • @zaneleshabalala1464
    @zaneleshabalala1464 Před 4 měsíci

    I love to watch the show but please add volume to the guests mic..they sound very far. thanks

  • @unlockwiththandomaumela

    But this story 😢😢Yooh so painful

  • @leratoramokgopa5908
    @leratoramokgopa5908 Před rokem

    My heart 😢. South African law mara!

    • @LesegoWaGaPhiri
      @LesegoWaGaPhiri Před rokem

      I'm glad u did it's for Ur healing my love...May God use u to heal and open the eyes of parents because children are gng through a lot... Twins thank you so much you so good in this

  • @prettyleremi9748
    @prettyleremi9748 Před 9 měsíci

    I am crying 😢as I watch this episode because am far away from my children n I can't protect them😢😢

    • @mayowaoyedokun9828
      @mayowaoyedokun9828 Před 9 měsíci

      Always check on them physically. If not possible at all, call , use videos. Make friends with them

  • @Rock_my_crown
    @Rock_my_crown Před rokem +3

    My daughter was raped by her cousins brother and now the family is protecting this cousin brother..Pls help.

    • @tmi530
      @tmi530 Před rokem

      please report it to the police, there must be justice for your daughter

    • @Rock_my_crown
      @Rock_my_crown Před rokem +1

      @@tmi530 the case was opened and the police are dragging their fit.. just waiting

    • @tmi530
      @tmi530 Před rokem +1

      Now i believe that our state is a failed state!!we are not protected, wish you all the best ma'am, God will help in ensuring justice is served

  • @portiamafokwane
    @portiamafokwane Před rokem +1

    Where can we get the book

  • @dimakatsoM
    @dimakatsoM Před rokem +5

    It's so touching to hear people speak about their story without any fear.. she is brave girl
    Can I please have the copy reason being
    I went thru the same thing but by some people I knew and kept it secret all because I didn't know what was happening at the same time I knew what was happening. My family don't know about it and wish I could tell my story
    I still need healing

  • @ivymweemba2749
    @ivymweemba2749 Před rokem

    Where can I purchase the book? Am in zambia

  • @ThandekaShawe-qv2jw
    @ThandekaShawe-qv2jw Před rokem

    You are such a beautiful nd strong woman

  • @user-cj5ss1hb3n
    @user-cj5ss1hb3n Před 6 měsíci

    This is just so sad what this man is doing he's evil😢😢😢😢

  • @pequeninajose2735
    @pequeninajose2735 Před rokem +1

    sad story

  • @lindamaponyane456
    @lindamaponyane456 Před rokem

    This is my baby ❤❤❤❤

  • @amandachungwa1867
    @amandachungwa1867 Před rokem +1

    Ohh Zizo 💔

  • @mapuseletsomareka4385
    @mapuseletsomareka4385 Před rokem +2

    Sorry girl's ❤

  • @merciamolekoa8799
    @merciamolekoa8799 Před 2 měsíci +1

    How do you forgive? I've been struggling with that😢 and my dad was a man of God, I also fell pregnant.

    • @ngwaletau4343
      @ngwaletau4343 Před měsícem

      I'm really sorry for what you went through. Try to find someone you can trust.. or an elder at church that your father respect..

  • @zama_mandisa
    @zama_mandisa Před 2 měsíci

    The book is called My Father took away my innocent

  • @zamanxumalo8415
    @zamanxumalo8415 Před rokem +2

    How does one get to tell their story?do we email or something?

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  Před rokem +2

      yes email centtwinz@gmail.com

    • @ndagebs6092
      @ndagebs6092 Před 5 měsíci

      Obviously, one on the father's 🎉or mother's in the lineage has gone through the same. The scripture is TRUE on saying, "Our fathers have sined and we bear our iniquities"

  • @thapelopetja3420
    @thapelopetja3420 Před rokem +1

    The man is out as we speak? Wow...like out out out ?

  • @dinahpole7699
    @dinahpole7699 Před rokem

    Ooh my God this is bad,where is the baby?

  • @margaretodonkor4747
    @margaretodonkor4747 Před 8 měsíci +1

    His relatives are equally wicked...

  • @Justgloryn
    @Justgloryn Před rokem

    💔

  • @nkulieblose7604
    @nkulieblose7604 Před 9 měsíci

    His family💔

  • @margaretodonkor4747
    @margaretodonkor4747 Před 8 měsíci

    He is a monster and deserves the punishment he got.
    May the lord heal her wholly.

  • @phofolomotaung8238
    @phofolomotaung8238 Před 4 měsíci

    Title of the book please

  • @asie_dudula
    @asie_dudula Před rokem +1

    Tjooo 💔😭

  • @alungefaithedwana6753

    Zizo🥺♥️

  • @RealLifeStoriesWithBoitumelo

    My God🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

  • @trustingnobody628
    @trustingnobody628 Před rokem

    Mhmm! Some other homesteads! I don't know.