We Didn't Kiss For Two Years (Celibacy Episode) | For The Record With Mr and Mrs Record

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  • čas přidán 12. 03. 2023
  • This episode is all about Sex, Abstinence & Celibacy (Due to Popular Demand!)
    We think this may have to be a whole series, what do you think?
    In this episode we delve into the reasons why we believe abstaining from sex before marriage is beneficial and the reason as to why we didn't kiss for two years.
    We hope these episodes can help and inspire you to heal!
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Komentáře • 65

  • @Tinashewc
    @Tinashewc Před rokem +37

    Sterling won’t finish me man said he crashed out on the wedding night💀🤣

    • @anewrecord
      @anewrecord  Před rokem +5

      CRASHED OUT.. 😭😭 what a crazy time

  • @chantelleendeley2373
    @chantelleendeley2373 Před rokem +12

    Such a great episode. Friendship to me is being able to be open, vulnerable and transparent with others, being trustworthy and a confidante, provide support through the trials and being there to celebrate the wins through this rollercoaster journey of life.

  • @adepa_00
    @adepa_00 Před rokem +28

    This provided me a deeper understanding about celibacy, I really needed it. Thank you, may God bless for blessing us with such knowledge! Keep em coming!🙏🏾🔥

    • @anewrecord
      @anewrecord  Před rokem +3

      So happy this episode gave you greater understanding ❤️

  • @NJxMJ
    @NJxMJ Před rokem +4

    Friendship for me is literally having people that stick close no matter what. Iron sharpens iron, so literally having those who will build and uplift you. The Bible says it is not good for man to be alone and I believe one of the ways God pours out His love to us is through our friends.

  • @princesskike
    @princesskike Před rokem +37

    Week after week the episodes get better and better. Thank you!
    I'm already ready for pt. 2

  • @YT.Zakhumalo
    @YT.Zakhumalo Před rokem +12

    I’ve watched 2 full episodes today! I’m beyond impressed 😭😭 Mrs Records you’re such a wise woman!😢❤ I’m watching all the way from SA🌸 Continue doing this and God bless your Union

    • @anewrecord
      @anewrecord  Před rokem

      This means a lot! Thank you 🥹❤️

  • @AgnesA98
    @AgnesA98 Před rokem +3

    For me,friendships involve humility and realising that it is okay to receive support from your friends rather than remaining in your pride and suffering.

  • @thenamesssavannah1635
    @thenamesssavannah1635 Před rokem +8

    *inserts most sentimental friendship story* hand me the book🫣

  • @deborahc.8478
    @deborahc.8478 Před rokem +11

    Love y'all so much. Just a little note, Hayley your mic is quite low compared to Sterling's maybe it's just me.

  • @jasminerossey3706
    @jasminerossey3706 Před rokem +7

    Wow. This episode was amazing! I think friendship to me is freedom to express, a safe space to grow. A space to love and to be loved for who you are authentically - no curtains! My friendships challenge me to love deeper and encourage truth. I understand love and honour, and I’m thankful. My friendships have changed my life, I don’t know where I’d be without them, I don’t really want to know.
    I thank God regardless because His Hand has been on me, and truly, I’ve seen His grace in them.

  • @jessicarendell2293
    @jessicarendell2293 Před rokem +2

    “People promote others to be naked rather than vulnerable.” Wow! I’m slowly making my way through each episode, each one brings me so much more knowledge and curiosity. This is up there with my fav podcasts already, the world needs to hear your wisdom and stories guys, I’m so excited for the journey you’ve been on, the present one and the journey you are going on. For the record; you are going places 👏🙏🫶🏼

  • @ollyk5182
    @ollyk5182 Před rokem +5

    There is no greater love than a man who lays down his life for his friend. Friendship to me is sacrifice. Friendship to me is about being understood. Friendship to me is honesty and truth. Friendship to me is about forgiveness and communication. Friendship doesn’t require perfection but a loving heart. I’ve had a million best friends. People coming and going from my life. Nobody is yet to exemplify these qualities apart from my lord and saviour Jesus Christ.

  • @brendaaswan3873
    @brendaaswan3873 Před rokem +5

    Hayley you have such a beautiful smile!🥺

  • @beneshololo8127
    @beneshololo8127 Před rokem +7

    Bring nissy and bennnn for the recordssss

  • @michellefotsing9098
    @michellefotsing9098 Před rokem +1

    I love this podcast!

  • @blessedhighlyfavoured855

    Once again, what an amazing episode! Definitely need to make this a series! Thanks so much for your transparency. Looking forward to next week! 😀

  • @grazzziela_
    @grazzziela_ Před rokem +4

    Love the consistency
    Congrats on the 6th episode ☺️❤️‍🔥

  • @sweetcurls4205
    @sweetcurls4205 Před rokem +1

    Love this!

  • @ruthrawlins
    @ruthrawlins Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this open conversation

  • @Naomi-kin
    @Naomi-kin Před rokem

    Thank you for being so real. God bless you ❤️

  • @Amaboatt
    @Amaboatt Před rokem +1

    First time here... Amazing podcast 🙏🏻🔥Thank you guys

  • @tala_nya3908
    @tala_nya3908 Před rokem

    Smashing it guys 🙌🏾

  • @sharonjohns1686
    @sharonjohns1686 Před rokem +1

    Love this topic. God's blessings to you both. Amazing content thank you👏👏👏👏

  • @tajah9624
    @tajah9624 Před rokem +5

    God bless the both of you guys! You lot have helped so much with lots of things and I’m blessed to be watching every week!

  • @patricebrown777
    @patricebrown777 Před rokem +4

    So grateful to have come across this discussion. Very rich and indepth, and very relatable. I got a lot from this. Thank you, both! 🙏🏽

  • @alinafevictoriaeliasi4961

    I enjoyed this episode so much,, Thank you so much for sharing.. I have nothing further to add. It was Perfection and I have learned so much. Big up yourself guys and I do vote for the series🤭... I'm here for it.😁

  • @lucyinneh3834
    @lucyinneh3834 Před rokem +8

    I love how transparent you guys are!!!!🙂

    • @anewrecord
      @anewrecord  Před rokem +3

      Thank you so much for listening 🥰

  • @aburl1
    @aburl1 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this video. You all have given me hope and courage to ask myself the hard questions of Celibacy all the way in Texas, USA. I commend y'all. Flowers to you both :)

  • @MyFoodJoints
    @MyFoodJoints Před rokem +17

    This has been a great podcast so far! Really love the transparency and topics you have covered so far ❤️

    • @anewrecord
      @anewrecord  Před rokem +2

      So happy you’re enjoying ❤️

  • @amutuheirenina6178
    @amutuheirenina6178 Před rokem +2

    The prayers you guys say at the end of the episodes are so beautiful. I always feel that you're praying for me.
    I am not based in The UK but I thought I should share what friendship means to me.
    It looks like vulnerability; open and deep conversation; tears and laughter and a space where I am unafraid to be myself.
    Loads and lots of love From Uganda!🤗

  • @abiyendole1136
    @abiyendole1136 Před rokem +3

    Friendship to me, means doing life together! Been real, vulnerable & journeying towards Jesus together!! For me cultivating friendship looks like intentionally letting people in and pouring into other peoples lives! would love to grow in this area more though!!

  • @maMthunzi
    @maMthunzi Před měsícem

    Thank you for this. It's refreshing to hear such a fresh perspective separate from what the world constantly feeds us.

  • @bintaajlo
    @bintaajlo Před rokem +2

    I honestly love your podcast so much, you both speak with so much wisdom ! God bless you both ❤️

  • @CassandraHamerTV
    @CassandraHamerTV Před rokem

    I like your counsel.
    I'm very much like Haley in loving hard so I make sure to put up certain parameters and lean heavily into my community (spiritual leaders, core friends) when I've been interested in someone.

  • @Gabz647
    @Gabz647 Před rokem +2

    You man are solid! God bless you for this podcast 🫶🏾

  • @FreeStyleGospel_
    @FreeStyleGospel_ Před měsícem

    This was awesome. Your last video is 10 months ago! Please come back 🤣 I love this so much! There are so many people that could be blessed off this podcast

  • @sthandwaabegail5862
    @sthandwaabegail5862 Před rokem +6

    Thank you for the consistency fam❤ all the way from South Africa!!!🇿🇦Can’t wait to learn from today’s Episode
    God Bless your Union!

  • @vrilsessentials
    @vrilsessentials Před rokem +5

    For me, friendship means a bond focused on love, growth and peace.

  • @itsbecky1818
    @itsbecky1818 Před rokem +1

    Love your podcasts they bless me😍. Friendships for me ... He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed. A friend is someone who leads you into righteousness, brings you good opportunities, is a good influence and the discussions you have are life-giving, purposeful and supportive to them. Whether that be financial advice or even simple Maths help as it may be a subject they are struggling with. A friend is someone that leads their friends wisely in accordance with the love and wisdom God has placed on that individual, to then pour this onto their friends. A good friend will never do the opposite of these things!

  • @gracemonae5180
    @gracemonae5180 Před rokem +3

    You guys mentioned some good points! Can you guys also talk about soul ties and attachment

  • @YT.Zakhumalo
    @YT.Zakhumalo Před rokem +7

    CELIBACY IS AN INVESTMENT!

  • @MissXeniaJames
    @MissXeniaJames Před rokem +2

    What does friendship mean to me?
    Friendship is closeness and navigation. The title of a 'friend' is a high title and heavy weight to place on someone's, because friends are the people that get to peal back your layers. Friends are the people that you give access to, you show them what lies behind the curtain. Even biblically speaking, Jesus had 12 disciples but he had 3 that he were his inner circle, and witnessed things that the other 9 didn't. This make me think that you can have people around you, but friends belong in your inner circle. There is more intimacy between friends than acquaintances. And so friendship means closeness, doing life together with someone, allowing someone into the inner parts of you. But then friendship is also navigation. Friendship allows someone to see the potential you have, and drive it forward, help you steward what God has placed on the inside of you. When I think about a 'ship' I think of navigation, I think of steering. And that's exactly what the 'friend' ship is, it's allowing people to guide you and push you to utilise the gifts that God has given you to the fullest. Friendship is delicate, friendship is beautiful, and friendship is an investment. It takes real discernment, time, and vulnerability to build a healthy and functional friendship. But you can only cash out on an investment if you sow into it. And so for me, being able to call someone a friend means that I would have invested my time into that person's life (and vice versa) and do life with each other so that we can both pull out the God given vision and purpose on the inside of each other.

  • @ndifsmurida8838
    @ndifsmurida8838 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the great content. Mrs. Record's volume of her microphone was not as loud as her husband's. Adjusting the microphone to be closer her mouth would be great.

  • @mariesmelodies8881
    @mariesmelodies8881 Před rokem +3

    You guys are sooo cute 😊😊

  • @samaraholmes
    @samaraholmes Před rokem +5

    Friendship for me is something I do not take lightly at all. As someone who only really has relationships with their nuclear family, for me my friends are my family.
    As for my best friend and close friends, they are people that get to see sides to me that no one else does. People I can be “naked” with, vulnerable and transparent. Individuals that respect my boundaries and truly want to get to know me. You never stop getting to know someone, we are all constantly growing and evolving (I would hope 😂)
    Friendship - true & Christ-like friendship should be iron sharpens iron relationships. It should be family, speaking life, love and correction where needed

  • @denzheadoration9270
    @denzheadoration9270 Před rokem +2

    Friendship I feel is the purest form of love and companionship. Where u learn how to be there for someone without thinking about what to get in return like how romantic relationships could infer. I believe a friend is someone who you feel emotionally safe with. Someone who keeps you grounded in God’s Word and hold you accountable like how Proverbs 27:5-7 says “open rebuke is better than love carefully concealed, faithful are the wounds of a friend but deceitful are the kisses of the enemy.” A friend is reliable, and trustworthy like how David trusted Jonathan with his life to a point where the Bible said,” the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David.” A friend loves you like how Jesus said,” greater love than this that a Man would lay down his life for His friends-JOHN 15:13. Finally a friendship is one where u can tell each other things not revealed to just anyone. I love how Jesus says you are no longer servants but friends because servants don’t know what their master is doing but I have revealed to you everything I am doing. It’s someone who sticks around and carries u through life’s greatest battles and victories too.

  • @vesseline1593
    @vesseline1593 Před rokem

    Nous voulons une deuxième parties please🤌🏽💞

    • @anewrecord
      @anewrecord  Před rokem

      La deuxième partie est déjà disponible : czcams.com/video/LKyw-JzMkHo/video.html ❤️❤️

  • @Noise_floorxx
    @Noise_floorxx Před rokem

    Did they really start 6 episodes or did they have a following before this?

  • @Indigo-lp5sl
    @Indigo-lp5sl Před rokem +1

    some parts should've been left in the drafts lmao

  • @aishaa-zs2mq
    @aishaa-zs2mq Před rokem +8

    To me, friendship is about safety. A family I get to choose. A bond I get to nurture. And a growth I get to witness. Friendship is a sacred covenant to me. It's the decision to intentionally lay down my life in love and service to one whom I am in no legal obligation to regard. It's the introspection as each season passes and the revival as another begins. There is no guide to friendships, but friendships are a guide to life.