Diagnosing a Patient in a Polyamorous Relationship | New Amsterdam | MD TV

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  • @cheetavontiebolt9971
    @cheetavontiebolt9971 Před 7 měsíci +129

    I like the way the doctors are being non judgmental and professional

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 Před 7 měsíci +99

    They shouldn't treat the ex like that. That's incredibly unfair. They are being cruel and shouldn't be like that, she cares and acts far more fairly to them when she could have had every one of them kicked out but let them in on it all.

  • @mar-k7104
    @mar-k7104 Před 7 měsíci +234

    All thee of his new partners are jerks for treating his ex like that. Sorry she didn’t want her husband dedicating his time and energy and sex into multiple other people after he married her in a monogamous marriage. She had no obligation to stay with him after he expressed that and they can die mad about it

    • @mladywolf
      @mladywolf Před 7 měsíci +9

      True but she is allowed to get upset about sharing him when she thought they weren't like that. She might have needed time to understand and come to terms with it. It would be interesting to know what happened next with them. While the Wife couldn't share herself with others, she could see them as friends in time.

    • @mar-k7104
      @mar-k7104 Před 7 měsíci +37

      @@mladywolf there’s not much coming to term with the fact that your HUSBAND seemingly out of the blue wants to see other people. She did not stay with him because that wasn’t a feasible relationship for her and she is not in the wrong for anything, and his new partners are assholes for treating her like she is

    • @Luna_moon_1127
      @Luna_moon_1127 Před 7 měsíci +3

      RIGHT!!!! Finally

    • @EnitVal
      @EnitVal Před 5 měsíci +1

      It sounded like he came out as bi and she didn't like that. Not sure they said he came out as poly to her first.

    • @mar-k7104
      @mar-k7104 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@EnitVal no that was the implication. Nothing at all was said about him being bisexual; she never said anything and they never said that was the issue that split them up. She explicitly says she doesn’t understand polyamory but says nothing about bisexuality. Basically she broke up with him bc she didn’t want him to see other people at the same time as her which is 100% rational

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 Před 7 měsíci +30

    The look on the Doctor's Face...
    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lindahamilton800
    @lindahamilton800 Před 7 měsíci +24

    There's a lot to be said for each side of the debate. But having been in a tri, I gotta say it's complicated enough with just a duet. Adding more people to the dynamic doesn't make it easier or better.

  • @LucidDreamer54321
    @LucidDreamer54321 Před 2 měsíci +5

    "Diagnosing a Patient in a Polyamorous Relationship" "Polyamorous Relationship" is not a medical diagnosis.

  • @user-jo7kf2bj9s
    @user-jo7kf2bj9s Před 6 měsíci +10

    That's a hard "NO" from me. My husband and i have been together 18 years, married 16, and there is no way on earth. Im not judging. We have a family friend that's in a poly relationship. She is a lovely person, and her first partner is fabulous. Dont know her other partner. Watching her and her partner, its a difficult relationship, and particularly difficult at times.

    • @Sniperboy5551
      @Sniperboy5551 Před 5 měsíci +1

      It just ends up throwing more wrenches into the works. I know a girl I went to high school with who’s in a polyamorous relationship with a married couple… it’s pretty obvious that she’s just the third wheel they like to have fun with. If that works for her, good, but I’m sure she wants more than that and is in denial.

  • @sjc4
    @sjc4 Před 22 dny

    this made my skin crawl, i can't explain why

  • @meggrotte4760
    @meggrotte4760 Před 7 měsíci +31

    You know when you start getting into issues like this counseling is helpful.
    Just because people want something doesn't make it right

    • @joyhahn2572
      @joyhahn2572 Před 7 měsíci +7

      have you ever herd of ANY scociety that does polyamory, its a lot more common than you think

    • @meggrotte4760
      @meggrotte4760 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@joyhahn2572 , Actually yes I have. It's usually tribes and other countries
      Doesn't mean it's right

    • @joyhahn2572
      @joyhahn2572 Před 7 měsíci

      it happens all the time in nature too, look up polyamory in nature and you will see what I mean, same with homosexuality too @@meggrotte4760

    • @Mimickolas
      @Mimickolas Před 7 měsíci +9

      what exactly isn't right about polyamory? if you mention god or the bible you lose

    • @YourRandomBAD
      @YourRandomBAD Před 7 měsíci +16

      @@meggrotte4760 You are most likely referring to the fact that in some societies there are polyamorous relationships where 1 man has many wives and none of them actually share themselves except the husband. That is only one distinct type of poly relationship of many. Just because you see one example and it makes you uncomfortable doesn't mean all examples of it are morally corrupt. Don't generalize people like that, that's not right.

  • @notoriousbroadcasts2367
    @notoriousbroadcasts2367 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I am in a multi dynamic relationship with a husband, who is monogamous to me, and a current boyfriend who is also; I previously had a partner that was polyamorous and had two other girlfriends. From personal experience I can say that so much of what they portrayed here is unhealthy; all parties in the dynamic need to be consenting, honest and respectful of each other's needs and the needs of the other partners, or it just doesn't work for anyone. 😅❤++

    • @Sniperboy5551
      @Sniperboy5551 Před 5 měsíci +1

      It always ends up being a political game in the end. Everyone competing with each other. I don’t care how open and consenting y’all are with each other, you all have your own selfish motives at heart. We all do, it’s human.

    • @notoriousbroadcasts2367
      @notoriousbroadcasts2367 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@Sniperboy5551Ok.

    • @kaeldare
      @kaeldare Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@@Sniperboy5551I'm in a polyamorous relationship. I am the hinge of a V. My partners are best friends and love each other and they love me. It's not a competition. We've been together for 13 years and 8 years. I love them both deeply. It's no more selfish than any other relationship.

    • @snowkitty1914
      @snowkitty1914 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Crazy how simple the solution is to everyone else's close minded made up problems for this type of relationship

  • @pokepersie
    @pokepersie Před 7 měsíci +29

    as someone who was in a poly relationship for 3ish years. don’t do it 🤩

    • @subgrv27
      @subgrv27 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Complicated?

    • @A-Smartass-that-people-love
      @A-Smartass-that-people-love Před 6 měsíci +3

      Agreed. Biggest issues: Knowing who your medical proxy is and sharing a single bathroom.

    • @asia8001
      @asia8001 Před 5 měsíci +3

      It sounds good in theory but no lol to much going on for me. Plus I see many of these couples end up having favorites. Sister wives for example 😂😂

  • @ameliaflynnhayes
    @ameliaflynnhayes Před 7 měsíci +14

    That is one weird relationship I would ever see in a hospital. But I wouldn’t like sharing my special someone

  • @cheetavontiebolt9971
    @cheetavontiebolt9971 Před 7 měsíci +23

    Polyamourous people do what they do in an ethical way

    • @theresemartin7930
      @theresemartin7930 Před 7 měsíci +1

      there is nothing ethical about polyamory.NOTHING.

    • @thatonegaybitch1811
      @thatonegaybitch1811 Před 7 měsíci

      @@theresemartin7930I’m polyamorous. as long as everyone consents there’s nothing wrong with it. maybe stop being so worried about other people’s choices that don’t affect you personally.

    • @DravenGal
      @DravenGal Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@theresemartin7930 Baloney. You have no right to pass judgement on someone just because they choose to live a different lifestyle and make different choices than you. Many cultures throughout history have practiced polyamory-some still do, and they do just fine. Just because your culture is brought up to believe one way, doesn't make it the ONLY true way. What matters is someone lives the life that makes them the best person they can be, the most caring and compassionate, the most willing to learn, grow and teach others to help them grow, and to connect in a positive way with others. And being sanctimonious is NOT a positive way. We're all different people, each with a different path. So while it may not work for you, it doesn't mean it doesn't work.

    • @theresemartin7930
      @theresemartin7930 Před 7 měsíci

      I do have the right because God gave it to me. Part of my Catholic duty is to bring more sheep back to the Lord's flock. In order yo do that, I need to point out sinful ways. It's called righteous judgement. How can a person realize what they're doing is wrong if no one speaks up and lets them know? I'd be sinning if I let others sin.

    • @cheetavontiebolt9971
      @cheetavontiebolt9971 Před 7 měsíci +6

      @theresemartin7930 I am pagan and proud of it thus is America 2024 what is good for one is not for another we have religious freedom

  • @cheetavontiebolt9971
    @cheetavontiebolt9971 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Good

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 Před 7 měsíci +13

    Call me old-school, but IMO romantic relationships are reserved for two people _only._ I could never be in an open relationship because that would be cheating. To me, that’s not valid. This just seems off.

    • @--julian_
      @--julian_ Před 5 měsíci +1

      this isn't open but polygamus

    • @Sniperboy5551
      @Sniperboy5551 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @--julian_ The two terms are basically interchangeable.

    • @WhoCaresHo
      @WhoCaresHo Před 2 měsíci +1

      Feel how you want to feel but just like you can make that choice for yourself they can make a different choice for theirselves and *surprise* it doesn’t affect your life at all! As long as everybody is a consenting adult it is nobody else’s concern 🥴

    • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
      @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 Před 2 měsíci

      @@WhoCaresHo That’s your opinion and you’re entitled to it, I’ll give you that. And you’re right, it doesn’t affect my life at all. But honestly, I don’t think I could associate with people who do this. It bothers me. Period. There’s really nothing more I can say about that. My opinion may be wrong, close-minded, possibly even judgmental, but it is still just that: an opinion. Eh.

    • @WhoCaresHo
      @WhoCaresHo Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 no what I said is FACT. It doesn’t affect your life and as long as they are all consenting adults it’s legal. My opinion is that it bothers me when entitled people think that their way of thinking, no matter how dated it is, is the only way of thinking and that everybody should be held to their standards and I’ll never understand that. I am pro choice, not because I would ever have an abortion but because I don’t impose my beliefs on others! People can make their own choices and I don’t have to agree but I MIND MY BUSINESS! I bet you do that others don't agree with and I bet you would have a fit if someone came into your house and passing judgement… I am a vegan and I don't go out and condemn people that eat meat…even silently in my head! It takes up too much energy to be worried about what others do and, to be frank, it’s gives a boomers “self righteous” energy and that needs to die off asap! Please don’t bring it in to this next generation… because what I find is the ones that judge the hardest are usually the ones hiding something 🤫

  • @farinshore8900
    @farinshore8900 Před 4 měsíci +3

    There is a label for him - cheating husband

    • @TimberlakeTigerGirl
      @TimberlakeTigerGirl Před 4 měsíci +2

      Not really. Even though it's technically illegal, people engage in polyamory all the time. As long as all parties involved are over 18 and are consenting, then it's not really cheating.

    • @farinshore8900
      @farinshore8900 Před 4 měsíci

      @@TimberlakeTigerGirl His wife did not consent

    • @TimberlakeTigerGirl
      @TimberlakeTigerGirl Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@farinshore8900 Yet she never divorced him so even though she herself didn't like it, she didn't stop him. So it's technically not cheating if the husband/wife lets it happen regardless of how they personally feel.

  • @trilby5546
    @trilby5546 Před 7 měsíci +11

    The more the merrier.👍⭐️🔥

  • @orlandobabe
    @orlandobabe Před 6 měsíci +7

    Monogamy is all drama with cheating and betraying but at least in Polyamory, there is no cheating. And so long as they are all consenting adults I see nothing wrong with it.

    • @TimberlakeTigerGirl
      @TimberlakeTigerGirl Před 4 měsíci

      The Ottoman Empire allowed the Sultan to have multiple women who gave him many sons. The infighting between brothers got so bad that they had to initiate a law. Literally saying the new Sultan, upon his ascension to the throne, had to kill all his brothers and their sons (even infants). All to prevent any and all attempts to take the throne through force of arms. If the Sultan had only taken one wife and only had children by her, then a lot of issues can be avoided. Same thing happened to all royalties that didn't practice monogamy.
      Monogamy is necessary for handling things like inheritance rights. Because some people, mostly men, want to make sure the children are in fact theirs. So that the property and inheritance remains in the family through a blood child. Not a lot of men are willing to give their property and inheritance to a child they know or suspected was fathered by someone else. For women, regardless of who fathers her children they will always get an inheritance from her but men are more picky. That said, there are cases of women who will deny their stepchildren inheritance because their husband had the child with another woman in an affair.
      Don't get me wrong I'm not dissing polyamory; I guess it's up to personal preference. I'm just saying it can cause it's own set of issues.

  • @_MayDAY_
    @_MayDAY_ Před 7 měsíci +3

    Welcome to the real world

  • @namjoon632
    @namjoon632 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I would never be in a poly relationship . It’s not my thing

  • @MissAlii432
    @MissAlii432 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Selfish, the label is selfish.

  • @mdeleon8410
    @mdeleon8410 Před 3 měsíci

    Xoxo

  • @Sniperboy5551
    @Sniperboy5551 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Polyamory is just kinda ridiculous, in my opinion. Good for the people who can deal with it though, if it makes them happy, more power to them.

  • @malikguzman9132
    @malikguzman9132 Před 7 měsíci +1

    🤦‍♂️😆

  • @user-tp5yf6dy4t
    @user-tp5yf6dy4t Před 7 měsíci +4

    איכס

  • @meggrotte4760
    @meggrotte4760 Před 7 měsíci +10

    That's pretty disturbing

  • @FullTimePatient37
    @FullTimePatient37 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Humm, I'm watching this in 2024.. what is COVID, I failed history?

  • @SamahMakawy
    @SamahMakawy Před 7 měsíci +1

    And still not accepting muslim man have two wifes. Media's hypocrisy

    • @darknesseker
      @darknesseker Před 7 měsíci +9

      Nah...hipocrisy is trying to defend that when a muslim woman doesn't have the same right of having multiple husbands.

    • @YurinanAcquiline
      @YurinanAcquiline Před 6 měsíci +3

      When the wife gets multiple husbands, sure.

  • @freyamccauley
    @freyamccauley Před 7 měsíci +4

    This is disgusting. This show is horrible. Im unsubscribing.

  • @feliciatierney2265
    @feliciatierney2265 Před měsícem +1

    I am a very open-minded person and wholly believe in letting people be who they are without judgment but in a case like this the fact is this man is a "greedy bastard" as he said. He wants what he wants without really considering how his desires may be painful or hurtful to the ones he claims to love.
    He made a commitment to his wife essentially under false pretenses and then changed the rules on her. She made her feelings known and instead of doing the decent thing and letting her go to try and find love again he kept her on the hook so she could never really move on. In my mind, that's just cruel.