Why Im Always So Calm & Unbothered

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  • @HINDZSIGHT
    @HINDZSIGHT  Před 3 lety +795

    what kinda tea you sipping on today ? 🍵😌

  • @NoOne-wf5zx
    @NoOne-wf5zx Před 3 lety +1094

    How people behave is not a reflection of how they feel about you, it’s a reflection of how they feel about themselves. I live by that motto.

    • @lamontemckinney9724
      @lamontemckinney9724 Před rokem +4

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯👍

    • @SamuelFrancessco
      @SamuelFrancessco Před rokem +4

      That hit hard on me

    • @MissNamaSlay
      @MissNamaSlay Před rokem +13

      This is what I’ve been teaching my 6 year old son . Actually funny story he was 2 ( not sure why my kids talk so early but ) he was 2 and he would say hi in traffic to people ( LA traffic 😅) , sometimes he wouldn’t get the wave he wanted so I would remind him “ maybe they are having a bad day /maybe they didn’t see your wave / maybe they didn’t get enough rest “ this brought him calm and understanding! Still practicing understanding others behaviors and reactions are their own and is not our responsibility or fault ! Not even mines , how I treat my son .. he understands it’s based on me not him ! Such a rewarding journey parenting !!!! His intellect is so amazing 🧘🏾‍♀️

    • @antonymartins8310
      @antonymartins8310 Před rokem +5

      I’m just now relearning this. It’s best to ignore & walk away once you understand this

    • @iamsoohappy
      @iamsoohappy Před rokem +5

      Amen to that. I believe over 90% of the people you encounter are projecting..the less than 10% who've done enough self reflection and inner work can see and appreciate the true you. Nothing people do is personal. We basically serve as mirrors...reflecting parts of themselves back at them so they have opportunities to either recognize their shadows and make peace with it or become defensive and point fingers. Either way, all LOVE.❤

  • @Suhanibingpot
    @Suhanibingpot Před 3 lety +1810

    "When I'm angry? I'm angry. But I'm still calm about it. Because I observe before I speak."
    That. Hit. Hard. Hindz.
    THANK YOU

    • @matangiexpressions5961
      @matangiexpressions5961 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/bemVimS-_XY/video.html

    • @NuLiForm
      @NuLiForm Před 2 lety +8

      Same...learned that hesitation before speaking from our Elders..& it makes sense so i just never forget it.....it takes a Lot for me to blow my cool...But..when i do & occasionally i will, when the issue is hurting someone...........Run! lol

  • @mariyas4928
    @mariyas4928 Před 3 lety +2378

    Hindz is the unproblematic virtual friend I need to get through the week

  • @DaisyAruba
    @DaisyAruba Před 3 lety +1540

    And as a reminder to everyone who doesn’t drink tea, eat clean, meditate, work out, all that good stuff: please remember DO NOT ATTEMPT to do ALL OF THOSE THINGS at one time! You have to pick the one habit that is hurting your life the most and find the solution to that habit. Then continue to focus your energy on the chosen habit to change it, continue to do that one at a time! Edit: you might be thinking “I have a seemingly never ending list of things I want to change or do though” my answer is: through my experience of changing myself I’ve observed that over time more things fall into place. As I implement the bigger changes in my life the smaller ones tend to follow.
    If you attempt to change your life from one extreme to the next in a short period of time, you will most likely end up feeling exhausted, and like a “failure” which then serves as the excuse you tell yourself which is “I knew it wouldn’t work anyways” well no, no, and no! That is not it, as Hindz said you need to “live slowly” I 100% agree! I believe that also means slowly approach the changes you’re making in your life too, remember to do it with self love & self compassion. No one recreates their life in one day or one week, you start in one moment and learn as you go. I promise do not give up. Do not give up.

    • @ezrajackson5500
      @ezrajackson5500 Před 3 lety +45

      ^^this is the real stuff. three years ago I quit smoking, committed myself to one step at a time. today I'm fully sober, working slowly but surely to celebrate a life well lived on the daily and building a practice and lifestyle that uplifts me

    • @sparrow2831
      @sparrow2831 Před 3 lety +21

      The way this comment hit me at perfect timing ! Straight facts I think we tend to be hard on ourselves at times of failure but it’s what makes us so much greater ! No time for quitting 👊🏾❤️

    • @sharkitty
      @sharkitty Před 3 lety +10

      Thank you. I needed to hear this.

    • @etoile3739
      @etoile3739 Před 3 lety +8

      Thank you! I just came across This comment and REALLY needed to hear This today! 🙏🏽

    • @DaisyAruba
      @DaisyAruba Před 3 lety +15

      Wow thank you all so much for taking the time out of your day to read & reply to my comment🥺💗! I can’t explain how much warmth my heart receives when I read human beings I don’t know found value from my comment. That makes me want to post more comments! I am so happy there is value other humans are able to apply to their own life.
      I have been putting off posting my videos to my YT channel due to the fear of failure. Even though I KNOW: pursuing anything new or starting from nothing = ignorant in the beginning and requires: commitment, education, & dedication to make progress.
      If we continue to allow our fear to stop us from even trying something how can we even learn what we want to try?
      It isn’t because you & I are incapable, it is because we let fear stop us from learning how to BECOME capable. Now we can either choose to let fear control us or to work through the fear. Also fear is inevitable no matter what you do or don’t do in life! So why not accept fear and use it to our advantage, by not resisting it anymore but embracing it instead.
      I am overjoyed to see these comments because I needed to realize I do have value to offer people. I am still afraid, I don’t 100% feel valid yet but these comments help me so much, thank you. 💗
      I believe that we should support each other because space is infinite: therefore we all have a place reserved for us. Maybe this is cheesy but we can all shine like a “star” without dimming others ✨
      Consider the fact that we refer to celebrities as stars! We don’t need to be a celebrity/famous to shine like a ⭐️ to grow, learn, love, be loved, and live a life we truly want to live.

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul Před 3 lety +868

    “...And shiva stopped dancing, because he realized there was no purpose to the dance. He then began dancing again, realizing no purpose was needed.” 😌
    - love and light from a growing youtuber💚✌🏽

    • @ethanbabbage4336
      @ethanbabbage4336 Před 3 lety +8

      I stopped dancing a long time ago for this reason, just now realizing this.

    • @izebellebluereadsoutloud3715
      @izebellebluereadsoutloud3715 Před 3 lety +1

      💜!💜

    • @guidedbysunshine333
      @guidedbysunshine333 Před 3 lety

      @@ethanbabbage4336 much love to you 💜

    • @LayRae13
      @LayRae13 Před 3 lety +7

      Okayyyyy but the universe is so funny bc I found your page like 6 months ago when one of your videos popped up on my home page (the message of that video was something I needed to hear) then found Hindz a few weeks ago & when I tell you I got so excited seeing your name in the comments 😂 bc it’s not all by chance! We’re all connected & the universe uses us like that without even knowing! love how there is a growing tribe of spiritual people on YT 🤍✨

    • @therealsyndicate
      @therealsyndicate Před 3 lety +2

      what is this quote from?

  • @growthrulove
    @growthrulove Před 3 lety +541

    I'm 95% calm and unbothered. That other 5% is from me having to let some people know just because I'm zen doesn't mean I'm naive or a pushover.

    • @stephonvalentino7020
      @stephonvalentino7020 Před 3 lety +62

      Facts ! . Most people see me as angry , but I’m not, it’s mostly because I’m trying to tell people don’t think I’m angry because I’m reacting to your disrespect. I know my tolerance and i won’t tolerate disrespect. I never understood why people think you’re crazy because of how you respond to someone else being rude.

    • @kimi2698
      @kimi2698 Před 2 lety +2

      YEP.

    • @SOULarLioness
      @SOULarLioness Před 2 lety +3

      That part.

    • @char6201
      @char6201 Před měsícem

      Same

    • @Vik1919
      @Vik1919 Před měsícem

      EXACTLY. Just because I am kind doesn't mean I am weak. Just because I am calm, doesn't mean I am lazy. I improve my mind and body on a regular basis so I have a lot of energy, which is exactly why I need to control myself and stay calm to use energy when required. But you know what? Those people are ignorant and do not possess critical thinking. Ignore them. Especially since there are people like me and you who understand each other. Focus on your life, don't waste your energy and time on people like the one you described.

  • @DaisyAruba
    @DaisyAruba Před 3 lety +337

    How Wild is it that we can naturally create an angry, stressed filled day within 10 seconds of a choice to react to something that isn’t actually a huge deal but that it takes years to get to the level of mindfulness where you can stay calm in a hurricane?

    • @DaisyAruba
      @DaisyAruba Před 3 lety +1

      I am a bit confused at the end of your comment. Correct me if I’m wrong: so someone you didn’t know brought up something that involved you and it triggered you to want to go off on the person that I think is the “heifer” at the end of your paragraph? But you realized it didn’t have anything to do with why you felt triggered other than the fact that the person was not minding their own business? I just want to accurately understand your comment so I can give a better reply ☺️
      Also I’m sorry that trauma happened and that it was brought up but I’m happy you are mindful enough to understand how important controlling our reactions are. That is already such valuable info ☺️💗

    • @iLemmyG
      @iLemmyG Před 3 lety +4

      Negativity is always easier than positivity.

  • @themellowbutterfly_2446
    @themellowbutterfly_2446 Před 3 lety +500

    Brewing a pot of tea is actually quite therapeutic, the smells, the motions, the colour, the temperature, the taste. It's like poetry. Tea is mindfulness in and of itself. I highly recommend experiencing making your own tea, grow the leaf, grow the herb, grow that flower and watch it go from what it is, into a vibrant soothing cup of tea.

    • @saraperidott2013
      @saraperidott2013 Před 3 lety +9

      it's literally a way of life, and ceremonious 😃

    • @NuLiForm
      @NuLiForm Před 2 lety

      Yes!...my teacher taught me how to make tea into a meditation process...it's very relaxing & satisfying & Grounding, which is what i need most....& he saw that.

  • @salmgeremew8793
    @salmgeremew8793 Před 3 lety +447

    Please don’t skip the ads on his videos, this man deserves allll the coins for being our virtual therapist and friend 😌😌

  • @888prettylo
    @888prettylo Před 3 lety +521

    i always say "thank you" when you pass us our tea 😂

  • @Lizard4678
    @Lizard4678 Před 3 lety +236

    Not even two minutes in and I’m realizing why I am not calm. I don’t even have the patience to steep tea, for some reason I think my day needs to move so fast that if I do have a cup of tea I put it in the microwave. Which is just sacrilegious to tea

    • @GrowYourWealth101
      @GrowYourWealth101 Před 3 lety +6

      Same Here my friend.

    • @CherryBerryFashion
      @CherryBerryFashion Před 3 lety +4

      so what can you do to relax and improve your quality of life?

    • @GrowYourWealth101
      @GrowYourWealth101 Před 3 lety +9

      @@CherryBerryFashion Good question. Maybe stop being a perfectionist?

    • @sparrow2831
      @sparrow2831 Před 3 lety +3

      I love ur comment it’s a reminder to me to slow down and just breathe for once. Just take it easy and relax. I appreciate this 🙏🏾🤎

    • @kmold0033
      @kmold0033 Před 3 lety +10

      Self awareness is the first step to anything and everything. Maybe just start taking it -slow- with ONE thing you enjoy, and be okay in taking time to do it. Whether it’s making tea or reading a book or anything else! We live in such a fast paced society that it feels we always gotta be on 100mph, but when we slow down we realize everything else continues and it was okay that we took it slow for some moments of our own enjoyment.

  • @pattyshobbyworld2851
    @pattyshobbyworld2851 Před 3 lety +155

    Calmness is the absence of fear and more about understanding ones..."oneness" and connection to the spiritual self..

    • @denisee9807
      @denisee9807 Před 2 lety

      I'd hear this type of thing for years and.kinda blowed it off.Within a week something within me changed, best way to explain it.is simply JOY.

  • @sirenaspeaks
    @sirenaspeaks Před 3 lety +392

    If you guys ever watched Avatar the Last Air Bender, HINDZ is definitely uncle Iroh 🥺 especially with his tea 💕

  • @Wouldyrathery
    @Wouldyrathery Před 3 lety +415

    peace and prosperity to everyone reading this.
    in every moment you are manifesting your future reality.
    so this is a reminder to make sure that you feel good before you take any actions today (especially important ones)
    you have the power.
    you have the love.
    keep going my friend.

  • @Tinkerbell91280
    @Tinkerbell91280 Před 3 lety +86

    I start my morning spending time with God while i sit in my egg chair perfectly placed in front of my window. I find observing Gods outdoor creations is so relaxing. All these things help me reflect and gives me a better mindset to face the world. God bless!

  • @razaakeniola
    @razaakeniola Před 3 lety +98

    Love is the new money.
    Peace of mind is the new bag.
    Cheers to calm living everyone 🥂

  • @nandiphasibiya4152
    @nandiphasibiya4152 Před 3 lety +397

    Hindz: you can't rush a cup of tea
    Me using teabags: 👁👃👁👄

  • @felicecancellara4524
    @felicecancellara4524 Před 3 lety +365

    “Your energy speaks louder than you” so true ❤️

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul Před 3 lety +78

    Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react it. 😎
    - love and light from a growing youtuber 💚✌🏽

  • @dantepepper
    @dantepepper Před 3 lety +72

    Peace is found through struggle ❤️

  • @mohdymi
    @mohdymi Před 2 lety +28

    " I am in control of my thoughts and my actions, You can only control your reactions and attitiude to what happens to you, you can not control the actual event"
    That hits different, thanks man!

  • @Kinsey6King
    @Kinsey6King Před 3 lety +32

    His energy and hand movements are unmatched. I love it.

  • @Pb-mb9yr
    @Pb-mb9yr Před 3 lety +46

    Hands down the best CZcams channel I’ve ever found.

  • @BabyBat14
    @BabyBat14 Před 3 lety +60

    Even though I'm an atheist, I love how Hindz uses spirituality to abstractly explain human reality and emotions. It's like youtube therapy with a touch of magic

    • @denisee9807
      @denisee9807 Před 2 lety +4

      I don't necessarily believe in God,I began to believe in myself, the negative thoughts and the fear id had my whole life were
      ...gone, I'm crying as I write this in so completely excited about the future 😊

    • @Kamgotinsight_
      @Kamgotinsight_ Před rokem

      Question, what took place to make you an atheist?

    • @Dialogos1989
      @Dialogos1989 Před rokem +1

      Some would argue that if you have a hierarchy of values (and all of us do) then you necessarily believe in God. Do you admire some people and not others? What are they representing?

    • @BabyBat14
      @BabyBat14 Před rokem +1

      @@Dialogos1989 not really. God is inherently a metaphysical concept, whereas I have a materialistic approach to reality. Man makes god in his image, not the other way around. These spiritual values are actually human sociocultural values

    • @BabyBat14
      @BabyBat14 Před rokem +1

      @@Kamgotinsight_ a bunch of things: autism, a History degree and my Marxist approach to life, based on materialism. Religion and faith are superstructures on our material infrastructure. TL;DR means culture reflects the way we survive and produce stuff. Therefore, religion is a product and reflection of our historical context. :)

  • @saraperidott2013
    @saraperidott2013 Před 3 lety +55

    Hindz is so zen he can literally survive any dynasty.. his videos always put me in a good mood. Thank you 🌻

  • @asmatamba
    @asmatamba Před 3 lety +32

    I was lowkey trying to avoid watching this bc ive been avoiding getting my life together and finally committing myself to my journey but your face kept popping up so I gave in 🙄😂 and this is exactly what I needed, thank you thank you!!!

  • @e-visuals3465
    @e-visuals3465 Před 3 lety +167

    Hindz listening to you is like talking to the family member who doesn’t come around the rest of the family

  • @Themoment888
    @Themoment888 Před 3 lety +15

    I stay calm by journaling my frustrations and sorting out my thoughts. When I go back to read things, I can see my progress more clearly.

  • @wildseed1181
    @wildseed1181 Před 3 lety +32

    Oh yes negativity is a choice. Sometimes a hard one. *sips tremella tulsi cardamom tea*☕️🐸✨🌻🌞

  • @rahafmarzoug8790
    @rahafmarzoug8790 Před 3 lety +10

    While I was watching, my cat came, curled up around herself and slept next to me, I think your video helped her to be calm more than it helped me :)

  • @bettye1731
    @bettye1731 Před 3 lety +16

    "The calm is already within you. The cool is already within you."
    I feel so calm and chill listening to this video. Thank you 💜💚💜

  • @justinbergstedt2027
    @justinbergstedt2027 Před 3 lety +18

    I swear this dudes hand movements can calm a tornado

  • @rva
    @rva Před 3 lety +20

    green tea bebe. thanks for the chill

  • @collirvctth
    @collirvctth Před 3 lety +15

    Living simply has definitely made my life more peaceful

  • @therockabillygal1
    @therockabillygal1 Před 3 lety +9

    I was in a very angry and nasty space, I knew I had to head over to your channel and get peace in my mind and back to my self. I was really triggered and sitting watching your videos have helped so much. Thank you for the peace I was looking for. Much love, namaste ♥️

  • @angieinthecity
    @angieinthecity Před 3 lety +16

    I'm learning to be calm and unbothered. Self Checkins throughout the day has been helping a lot and redirecting my energy. If my day starts off moody I try to do something fun to center myself. It can be from having a lil dancing session in my room to a glass of wine heh!

    • @AmyandAlex
      @AmyandAlex Před 3 lety +2

      We do the same! We used to just sit in a bad mood but we've learned to centre throughout the day. Dancing is the perfect way to do that 😊

    • @denisee9807
      @denisee9807 Před 2 lety +1

      Isn't it Awesome!!?

  • @korra1429
    @korra1429 Před 3 lety +7

    “live the life you love--love the life you live”

  • @CrystleSky
    @CrystleSky Před 3 lety +13

    We all deserve the very best. We all deserve to feel worthy. We all deserve to feel happy and at ease. Believe in yourself 💞🐎🌠🐎🐎🐎

  • @Vianeyregina
    @Vianeyregina Před 3 lety +8

    I need to be more like this. The other day I caught myself being a negative nancy at the grocery store and I gave an ugly look at someone...and I felt so ashamed afterward. I don't want to be angry over stupid insignificant things. I need you in my life. Glad I found this channel. 💖

  • @ST-ov6yg
    @ST-ov6yg Před 3 lety +8

    It would be great if Hindz started doing ASMR because his voice, his vibe, his hand movements, everything, just everything about him is calming.

    • @ST-ov6yg
      @ST-ov6yg Před 3 lety +3

      Let’s not forget the tea too

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  Před 3 lety +8

      im planning on it , im actually thinking of a whole asmr channel

  • @themellowbutterfly_2446
    @themellowbutterfly_2446 Před 3 lety +30

    A High vibe playlist and a cup of tea sets my day off on the right foot. I'm reminded to observe, to allow, and to love. 😌🦋

  • @danielleransom123
    @danielleransom123 Před 3 lety +7

    I realize what also helps you stay calm and unbothered, is not having to deal with people at all. If you have your own space and actually have time to just sit by yourself and relax, that helps you be calm and unbothered.

  • @kaitlindoesstuff
    @kaitlindoesstuff Před 3 lety +7

    Calm living is a trend I NEED to see on youtube more lol. I've been really struggling the last several months, especially this past month. 3 weeks ago, my partner broke up with me due to his mental health; our relationship was really struggling to stay afloat since we both have issues that need sorting through and lots of healing work to do for ourselves. Watching your videos has helped me get through hours in a single day, reminding me it's gonna be okay. Thank you.

  • @TiffanyA837
    @TiffanyA837 Před 3 lety +17

    Mate.. i love everything you’ve said. It’s important for us to find peace within our homes and within ourselves first. Being intentional with spending time with yourself. It’s super important

  • @lexasakie8107
    @lexasakie8107 Před 3 lety +8

    I woke up this morning with the intention of reading The 4 agreements. Loved it the first time, but felt the need to reconnect to the powerful message shared in it. This is just confirmation. I wish you all peace within.

  • @thomas232
    @thomas232 Před měsícem

    Ran my first marathon last year. Was tense, nervous, rigid going into the race. There was NO way I was gonna finish unless I calmed down. Focused on being calm, relaxed, and mentally repeated that and “slow down” in my head. And amazingly shocked myself on how my body performed. It’s amazing what we can do when we calm and slow down! Great message. 💯💯💯

  • @CherryBerryFashion
    @CherryBerryFashion Před 3 lety +14

    I like to drink warm water with you as I rarely drink tea. Feeling into the ritual is the vibe

  • @brownlovedlifestyle6186
    @brownlovedlifestyle6186 Před 3 lety +22

    The energy everyone needs 😌

  • @EmilioFii
    @EmilioFii Před 3 lety +5

    Pandemic has brought me to a really dark place, depression & constant thinking. I feel so blessed I found meditation because of it tho, I was reacting so bad to many things in my life, I mean... I still do, but at least I'm conscious about it and working on being better. I wish you all the best

  • @Lunar-snow
    @Lunar-snow Před 3 lety +13

    You always flow when you talk! I love the way your mind works ✨🌱

  • @CasandraLeahhh
    @CasandraLeahhh Před 3 lety +3

    I got into this bad habit of bad positivity and you might think how can positivity be bad, everytime I felt something off sad or mad or frustrated I would always try to force myself to think about it in a good way or pretend to be in a good mood. Well for light things this can help but not as a habit. That’s why I love how he said he still allows his self to feel angry just while remaining calm

  • @sangsmohana
    @sangsmohana Před 3 lety +4

    I woke up today feeling disorientated till I came across your video this morning which served as a great reminder to keep myself grounded and to stay present.Hindz,I can't thank you for your words.I appreciate you for sharing your light with the world x

  • @jazmin5050
    @jazmin5050 Před 3 lety +16

    “ all that mmm all that good good” 😌 that made me smile 🙏💕 sippin on some green tea and sending love and light to you!

  • @bettye1731
    @bettye1731 Před 3 lety +2

    "You have One Life to Live so.... Live the life you love..... Love the life you live."
    I have to meditate on this over a cup of tea 🍵

  • @Edward_Adams
    @Edward_Adams Před 3 lety

    Hindz! Thank you so much for your presence on CZcams! Your every video has a positive and smoothing vibe in it. After each one I feel more calm and mindful. Thank you for your beautiful energy! You make such an impact on this world just by being you! Thank you! Wish you all the best (tea included)!

  • @FlamboGIAnt
    @FlamboGIAnt Před 3 lety +3

    Hindz I am SO grateful i found you and this channel, i truly believe it's supposed to happen.
    You're like a close friend it's a vibe ting u understand

  • @hindenburg2006
    @hindenburg2006 Před 3 lety +5

    Your voice and energy are so soothing, I even listened to the Audible commercial...and I have no intention of getting it!

  • @sidnieiyland55
    @sidnieiyland55 Před 3 lety

    i always feel like you're giving a big spiritual hug with your words and with your presence

  • @marcey926
    @marcey926 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you for this reminder hindz, i really needed it

  • @LindsayHildebrandt
    @LindsayHildebrandt Před 3 lety +5

    Love you, Hindz. And love everyone reading this 💗

  • @nikkif9873
    @nikkif9873 Před 3 lety +21

    The four agreements ❤️ helped me get through a rough time 🙏

    • @CherryBerryFashion
      @CherryBerryFashion Před 3 lety +1

      This book is screaming at me for years to buy it. Maybe I should

    • @Likerholicz
      @Likerholicz Před 2 lety +1

      @@CherryBerryFashion
      I originally bought it in 2014 but never read it.
      Last year a lot of people started to recommend it to me and one day I gave in and started reading it.
      One of the best books I’ve ever read.

  • @AmyandAlex
    @AmyandAlex Před 3 lety +1

    Hindz, you inspire us with each and every one of your videos and we've been planning a video just like this, then you bring this out - definitely not a coincidence! We appreciate you endlessly! Thank you!

  • @jacquelynrichardss
    @jacquelynrichardss Před 2 lety +1

    Hindz your videos are one of the best things I’ve come across! Coming from a generally hotheaded family I’m always looking to be calmer and especially in lockdown where there is little escape, your videos really centre me and keep me calm ☺️

  • @HoneyBee-jo1qt
    @HoneyBee-jo1qt Před 3 lety +7

    I've always been so calm. I've never been one to take anything personal or let situations or other people get the best of me. However, my current partner has severe anger issues. His irrational behavior towards me, other people, and every single incident he faces has started to weigh on me. I've tried so hard to be patient and understanding, while he upsets himself trying to understand other people's motives for things they do but it's taken a toll on me. I've started to lash out at the slightest sign of emotion or anger he presents, and I just wish I could go back to where I used to be mentally and emotionally. I never mean to get upset and flare up, I just get so overwhelmed because I just know where it's headed, and I don't have the energy for it anymore. I'm so glad I found this, it's like I've found a missing piece of myself.

    • @smaytaganya1446
      @smaytaganya1446 Před 2 lety +1

      Seems like you need to take some time apart and let him work on himself while you're working on yourself too cause staying with him will keep affecting you more, emotionally and mentally and even physically. "You cannot heal in the same environment that made you sick".

    • @HoneyBee-jo1qt
      @HoneyBee-jo1qt Před 2 lety +2

      @@smaytaganya1446 thank you so much for your insight! We ended up breaking up a couple weeks ago, things were getting out of control. I feel so much better now. It's almost like going to emotional rehab, but the rehab center is also the DMV. I hope he eventually begins to see how destructive his behavior and mentality is. I'm going to start therapy soon to ensure I've healed and worked through the resulting emotional issues. It's going to be a beautiful life.

    • @smaytaganya1446
      @smaytaganya1446 Před 2 lety +1

      @@HoneyBee-jo1qt yess! I'm happy to hear that 👏🏾

    • @HoneyBee-jo1qt
      @HoneyBee-jo1qt Před 2 lety +1

      @@smaytaganya1446 thank you!! Sending love and peace 💛

    • @smaytaganya1446
      @smaytaganya1446 Před 2 lety +1

      @@HoneyBee-jo1qt same to you! 💕

  • @thatfoofernie7987
    @thatfoofernie7987 Před 2 lety +3

    The fact that you mentioned the four agreements really hit me . I’ve adopted the four agreements and I try to live by it every single day . It definitely helps you change your mindset and break old habits . It’s a great way to take control over your life and be happy . I’m so glad I came across this book . It’s made a big difference in my life

  • @adiashannen3088
    @adiashannen3088 Před 3 lety +1

    your videos are so calming for me. i've been struggling with severe anxiety since i was a child, and for the first time in a while i feel like i have a safe space to go to, thank you for sharing all of your thoughts and helping us humans to feel less alone in our struggles. i hope you had something to smile about today!

  • @rastask81
    @rastask81 Před 2 lety

    Maximum Respect bredda 🆙 “Think before you speak, observe before you do” that hit a chord deep. Bless up, excited to see what your next videos will either teach or present more awareness on 🤍

  • @bryanpaulino9755
    @bryanpaulino9755 Před 3 lety +3

    woke up this morning in need of some positive vibes and thought to myself “ i could use a new hindz video today “ and the first video in my recommended was yours 🙏🏽 bless up brother

  • @amalayache
    @amalayache Před 3 lety +4

    This is the first time I come across this beautiful zen breeze of positive energy. It felt like I've just finished meditating or daydreaming. Thank you sir for the trip! God bless ♥

  • @adrianastoca
    @adrianastoca Před 3 lety

    I literally have been listening to your podcasts and watching your videos learning so much about myself and where I wanna be and practicing how to get there. I appreciate you so much during this hard season in my life where I feel completely alone 🙏🏽 teaching me and challenging me so much. Love love love you Hindz! 💖

  • @gracehaneline999
    @gracehaneline999 Před 3 lety +1

    You speak to me so much, I’m so glad I found your channel, I love you and thank you for continuing to share with us ❤️

  • @Myodee15
    @Myodee15 Před 3 lety +3

    Omg…so excited to watch your video today…enjoyed getting to see a little of your life outside your beautiful home…your content has reminded me to take time out to acknowledge how I am feeling that day and to be okay with how I am feeling, journaling helps me to express myself and to get things off my chest and it helps me to process things.
    Thank you for sharing the affirmation too. You are so freaking cute sipping your tea!!!
    Enjoy your day!😊

  • @lavine1219
    @lavine1219 Před 3 lety +9

    had to hug my screen, i needed this so bad today 😭

  • @isidorita101
    @isidorita101 Před 3 lety +2

    you guys don't understand how i love this guy, wish you the best HINDZ, you deserve it!

  • @RMGrmgryfry1024479
    @RMGrmgryfry1024479 Před 3 lety

    It's interesting how 'trippy' things can get when it feels like you're speaking directly to me. Helps me remember we're all one just vibrating on different levels.
    I'm adjusting to slow living
    I couldn't sleep and needed this moment, thank you for keeping your energy so balanced and sharing with others how to do the same

  • @elle3839
    @elle3839 Před 2 lety +3

    This might be my favourite video, which is saying something. The voice-over in the beginning is so good, I'm seriously excited for your asmr channel! And the message too is exactly what I need honestly, more peace and calm in my life/brain lol thank you Hindz! Love from Edmonton, AB

  • @kimberlytarpley3741
    @kimberlytarpley3741 Před 3 lety +11

    Having an interview with ourselves ....love it!

  • @myrrhwashere
    @myrrhwashere Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for always sharing your energy and knowledge with us HINDZ! Appreciate you brother 🤍🤍🤍

  • @jeannemcdonald3541
    @jeannemcdonald3541 Před 2 lety

    This was by far my most favorite video of yours. This is exactly what I needed as I’m learning to calm my energy and be present in the moment. Thank you for this 🙏🏼

  • @chrissantiago7643
    @chrissantiago7643 Před 3 lety +5

    Wow I feel so calm watching this I felt kinda anxious and just overwhelmed but man I should really loosen up and be grateful for the little things. Why so rushy ♥️ it’s ok to take ur time and let the universe guide you

  • @vishruthysaikumar5565
    @vishruthysaikumar5565 Před 3 lety +3

    This production quality is what I aim to have one day, when I create my CZcams channel. Sending so much love ♥️♥️

  • @thandekamakhubu9406
    @thandekamakhubu9406 Před 3 lety

    -After watching and listening to you, I feel so aligned. Thank You for sharing your wisdom with us and helping us find clarity.

  • @elizabethhennessy5980
    @elizabethhennessy5980 Před 3 lety

    Hindz I love you. Literelly spent the last hour telling my friend about you and showing your videos. You make me feel valid and inspire me to be me!!!! Thankyou for all the content and caring ❤

  • @BonnieCreoleSpirit
    @BonnieCreoleSpirit Před 3 lety +11

    “...curating your day..” What a calming yet powerful expression. I want it on a shirt, jacket, backpack . ❤️🙌🏽✨

  • @charlottecox9976
    @charlottecox9976 Před 3 lety +8

    Sound advice at the end my friend. I wish I could have applied this when I was younger but it’s not until 40 I really got this🤔.........never too late 💪🏼💖

  • @paolasocorro7988
    @paolasocorro7988 Před 3 lety

    Just needed this video. I have felt overwhelmed cause I haven’t spent some time with myself when i most needed to be mindful and to observe. This helps a lot❤️

  • @feliciapinkney1725
    @feliciapinkney1725 Před 3 lety +1

    Keep up the positive vibes Your energy is captivating and soothing. As a massage therapist when I’m feeling off track I know I can always visit you and leave refreshed and grounded

  • @dettykovacs5235
    @dettykovacs5235 Před 3 lety +7

    I mix different type of tee for myself every week.
    These are in one of my favourite tee: rose, sakura, acacia flower, blackthron flower, lemongrass, rosehip, lavender, hawthorn flower. 😌

  • @MySaviorAndMe
    @MySaviorAndMe Před 3 lety +18

    Where do you get you’re tea bag mixes? They always look deliciously divine 😊

  • @victoriarector1419
    @victoriarector1419 Před rokem +1

    woahhh. receiving the permission to be angry lifted so much off my heart. i’ve been very mindful about what i say when i’m angry but i was trying to rid myself of anger or frustration entirely, and that’s not the answer! i am human and i will get mad, as long as i do my best not to bring another person down with my words or irritation i’m on the right track. this was my little awakening for the day, thank you :)))

  • @erikamichele7275
    @erikamichele7275 Před 3 lety +2

    Calm living should definitely be a trend. New to your channel. Thank you.

  • @justcallmeneesh1102
    @justcallmeneesh1102 Před 3 lety +4

    I’ll say it feels good to be in control of your emotions and behaviors

  • @SharlenesJourney
    @SharlenesJourney Před 3 lety +7

    Hindz is such a chill dude I would love to just sip some tea with him one day lol

  • @amyestrada2689
    @amyestrada2689 Před rokem +2

    I am literally the opposite of this - never calm. Day 1 of listening to you- looking forward to my journey to peaceful energy.

  • @kayleerenae214
    @kayleerenae214 Před 3 lety +2

    i found your videos at my absolute lowest and i’m currently going through so much and have so much constant stress and anxiety. i’m gonna start drinking tea to try to help, but you make me feel less overwhelmed

  • @katarinavillasenor8510
    @katarinavillasenor8510 Před 3 lety +6

    My headphones vibrated when you started making your tea I was like “Alright, I’m up. I’m making my tea.” Hahahahaa

  • @iknowserenity555
    @iknowserenity555 Před 3 lety +4

    i love that i can practically smell the tea

  • @TheSMSpider
    @TheSMSpider Před 5 měsíci +1

    “When im angry, I am angry. But I am calm when I am angry. But I observe before I speak” I am working on learning this.

  • @emilyvian8853
    @emilyvian8853 Před 3 lety

    Everything in this video is just what i aspire to be and experience. good energy, calm, love, peace. i'm here for this