Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage (Part 2) - Guy and Amber Lia

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
  • They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!
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Komentáře • 31

  • @bobbi543
    @bobbi543 Před 3 lety +10

    One major trigger for me is family getting in the way, we need to let them go and remember we are married and it is us, we need to say no to the in laws on both sides and have our husband and wife time. Do not take phone calls when it is our time, do not let them dictate or be controlling. We have to make sure we stay focused on our marriage and not let others get in the way

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Před 3 lety +11

    "If it feels like the death of you to
    Yield in that instance
    You are in the right place."
    Great advice
    Thanks Guy and Amber

  • @alysedubuis1294
    @alysedubuis1294 Před 2 lety +4

    My husband and I have been struggling silently and this was such an encouragement to me! Thank you

  • @owlfethurz8377
    @owlfethurz8377 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you FOTF team and contributors! Amber and Guy: sharing your struggles and story of healing is such a blessing. Thanks for pointing the way to the Lord's sufficiency as we navigate marriage is wonderful.

  • @camijohnson9750
    @camijohnson9750 Před 3 lety +6

    So grateful for these resources to help marriages thrive.

  • @noryloydnarvaez327
    @noryloydnarvaez327 Před 3 lety +13

    Jim and Amber dominated the whole talk 🤪 The constant interruptions are sort of annoying.. pls listen patiently, let the other person finish her/his statement 😳 Perhaps ask the "lesser talker" more questions to have a more balanced conversation. 😵

  • @barbarapower4245
    @barbarapower4245 Před 3 lety +12

    Jim, you are always such an EXCELLENT host! Love your transparency, love the way you move things along. Love the way you bring out the truths to be said. Thank you!

  • @lookingforsure
    @lookingforsure Před 3 lety +8

    She's barely letting him talk.... I hope she's working on that

    • @gmar4454
      @gmar4454 Před 3 lety +3

      That's exactly what I'm thinking....

  • @canndis967
    @canndis967 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing, i was like that with my husband with this issue of spiritual leader. Only to found my husband explain it better than i do hallelujah 🙌

  • @jcimlas210
    @jcimlas210 Před 3 lety +18

    Let Jean talk, Jim 😩😩😩

  • @cherylwalker2535
    @cherylwalker2535 Před 3 lety +9

    I would like to have heard Jean more.

  • @andrea.imiller
    @andrea.imiller Před 3 lety +15

    Love it!
    Do you want to win or do you want Love to win?
    Also. When it’s hardest to yield that the best place to be. Dying to self!

    • @donnahoward354
      @donnahoward354 Před 3 lety +4

      I LOVE this, and I definitely want love to win out in my marriage. We are struggling, so much prayer is appreciated.

    • @iw7962
      @iw7962 Před 3 lety +1

      @donnahoward. I prayed for you and your husband when I read your statement. May God's sufficient grace abound. May He keep you both

  • @prayingalways777
    @prayingalways777 Před 7 dny

    Blessed by this amazing Podcast ❤❤ Thank you Focus on the Family team 🛐✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @kathymatula7163
    @kathymatula7163 Před 3 lety +3

    Thankyou so much for the deep thgs Amber in particular shared....to start to work on yourself and being humble... please pray for our marriage !!

  • @staylor8847
    @staylor8847 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm glad I found the 2nd half! I heard the first one on the radio and missed the second.

  • @jcimlas210
    @jcimlas210 Před 3 lety +2

    Also, linking the marriage assessment tool would have been 👌🏼

  • @karoblee
    @karoblee Před 2 lety

    Unbelievably helpful and encouraging segment. Thank you so much for these. My husband and I will be watching them to remind ourselves of the truth. Thank you!

  • @marcywhitesell497
    @marcywhitesell497 Před 3 lety +1

    The attitude doing the project is important

  • @jamieandfamily729
    @jamieandfamily729 Před 4 měsíci

    Loved this.

  • @marcywhitesell497
    @marcywhitesell497 Před 3 lety +1

    I truly needed this. I have truly been struggling.. What r your 3 businesses... Communication has been truly difficult

  • @kareno6222
    @kareno6222 Před 3 lety

    I needed to hear this at this moment- thank you all 🙏🏻

  • @NavyLady82
    @NavyLady82 Před 3 lety

    Guy seems like a warm person.

  • @jenniferbtoo9344
    @jenniferbtoo9344 Před 3 lety

    We were not raised with our parents going on dates... this seems to be a more recent phenomenon. It’s hard to justify babysitting with our family caregivers because they don’t understand why we need to go out when they didn’t do that when they were younger.

  • @jenniferhatfield8640
    @jenniferhatfield8640 Před 3 lety

    Awesome! Thank you!

  • @marcywhitesell497
    @marcywhitesell497 Před 3 lety

    You sound like my husband when he goes places and talks with the kids... Some very important talks have happened this way

  • @TP-tg6cd
    @TP-tg6cd Před 3 lety +1

    The book cover says Amber Lia and Guy Lia Vs Amber and Guy Lia...? Know it may seem like a petty observation.

  • @kimberlysnell2822
    @kimberlysnell2822 Před 10 měsíci

    Looking for ways we're being loved....E.G.G.s - Evidence of God's Grace
    Lead your heart, it will follow.

  • @jambrosine52
    @jambrosine52 Před 3 lety +2

    Guy you talk over your wife