Simple Ways to Help Your Husband Feel Loved - Kathi Lipp

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  • čas přidán 18. 07. 2019
  • Kathi Lipp offers insights to wives on how to take a look at their husband's personality and discover simple, practical ways to build him up through words of affirmation and acts of service and love. Listeners can learn how to tune up their marriage from this fun and engaging conversation.

Komentáře • 58

  • @GoldenPalm24
    @GoldenPalm24 Před 3 lety +68

    This channel is addicting

  • @janet6560
    @janet6560 Před 2 lety +27

    We all love and need encouragement no matter our personality type.

  • @dodiereynolds7763
    @dodiereynolds7763 Před 3 lety +22

    It’s about time this was spoken about. The most important issue today. Look at all the broken homes and the sad empty children.

    • @MK-fq3fk
      @MK-fq3fk Před 2 lety +2

      May the Lord heal and Fill our children with His love

  • @DanielleBraiden
    @DanielleBraiden Před 4 lety +26

    Bless you. I am seeking healing in my marriage. So encouraging to me.

  • @virginiawango3968
    @virginiawango3968 Před 10 měsíci +1

    We are not stuck in the marriage we're in, we have a great ability to change the direction the marriage that we have.

  • @melodymast1302
    @melodymast1302 Před 3 lety +15

    I was waiting to hear the phrases an amiable needs to hear... It wasn't included.

  • @heikewatson306
    @heikewatson306 Před rokem +8

    Very helpful! Thank you Jesus for this Channel!

  • @shamgod3003
    @shamgod3003 Před rokem +1

    This is AMAZING!!!! Most have heard of the 5 Love Languages, but this is that next level that should accompany those love languages

  • @sarahmontognese5428
    @sarahmontognese5428 Před 3 lety +6

    I needed to watch this and truly hear the words . Thank you

  • @ashlealove2402
    @ashlealove2402 Před 4 lety +10

    Thank you really insightful

  • @saintamerican6105
    @saintamerican6105 Před 11 měsíci +1

    i love her, i could watch her speak for hours shes soooo lovely

  • @noryloydnarvaez327
    @noryloydnarvaez327 Před 3 lety +4

    Insightful, wow!

  • @HomeImProveMentHow
    @HomeImProveMentHow Před 3 lety +3

    This is Excellent. Blessings

  • @lisaharper7185
    @lisaharper7185 Před rokem +1

    This was great
    I’m expressive and dating an analytic
    This was helpful

  • @Maria__57
    @Maria__57 Před 3 lety +29

    Their Is one type of person that you have NOT addressed..THE NARCISISTIC PERSON. .that you CANNOT show LOVE..bc It takes advantage of. his/her partner..& i think you should talk about It ..with helping indications..bc. we are full of these people..

    • @Maria__57
      @Maria__57 Před 3 lety +12

      @@QuiteTheLady you DON'T know what your talking about..First live. with a NARC...then You Will understand..what It really means...not what you THINK..but what It Is...

    • @autumn4115
      @autumn4115 Před rokem +6

      That's exactly the situation with me was. 20 years I poured my heart to loving my husband. It was never ever ever enough. NEVER ENOUGH! I eventually died on the inside and I totally gave up...

    • @autumn4115
      @autumn4115 Před rokem +5

      @@QuiteTheLady I didn't know about narcissism until this year. But I poured my heart and all I had to my husband of 20 years and it was never enough. At one point we attended a session at church where we learned about love languages and for a while (a couple of months) it seemed like it was working. And of course he started pulling away and degrading me. When I told him he was draining the love tank and adding nothing in, he raged and told me the love language concept is garbage and that by the way he attended the session because I dragged him there. What do you do with a person like that?

    • @michelepascoe6068
      @michelepascoe6068 Před rokem +4

      Two great helps for understanding it better and what to do:
      Dr Les Carter CZcams channel, including his video entitled Calm Confidence, and the book Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.
      Learn not to JADE (Justify, Argue, Defend or Explain)
      Peace and courage to you.

    • @michelepascoe6068
      @michelepascoe6068 Před rokem +4

      @@QuiteTheLady it's also not for you to judge people here

  • @marionr4319
    @marionr4319 Před 3 lety +2

    This speaks to me alot

  • @anavenegas7826
    @anavenegas7826 Před rokem

    What a wonderful explanation

  • @helenmiller8241
    @helenmiller8241 Před rokem

    Love all your teachings ❤️

  • @autumn4115
    @autumn4115 Před rokem +12

    Seeing this topic makes me cringe. I loved my husband for 20 years, but it was just never ever ever enough. I always did something wrong even if I did everything he told me. The goal post was always moving until I totally gave up

    • @sownpeace
      @sownpeace Před rokem +2

      Yeah, this doesn't work for marriages where there is a mental illness substance abuse. I think her points are valid for most other circumstances, but those things are more prevalent than most Christian acknowledges.

  • @hedgemist691
    @hedgemist691 Před 2 lety +1

    I typed 'How to help your WIFE feel loved' and this was number two on the list. Sigh, I give up, I really do.

  • @lorikorstanje2964
    @lorikorstanje2964 Před 4 lety +3

    New information that we all need thanks

  • @patsavinda1703
    @patsavinda1703 Před 4 lety +27

    Hi, I just subscribed to this & scrolling thru reading the topics. What about ways for a husband make his wife feel loved😕

    • @christineb3669
      @christineb3669 Před 4 lety +4

      Pat Savinda you might enjoy this radio interview that Focus on the Family did called “Practical Ideas for Loving Your Wife” with Jay Payleitner.
      www.focusonthefamily.com/media/daily-broadcast/practical-ideas-for-loving-your-wife

    • @Maria__57
      @Maria__57 Před rokem

      It's a. Narcist video..the women has to do all the work..& the Narc ALWAYS... takes... draining. the partner..GIVING BACK NOTHING.. but hate ..

  • @amandapeterson3659
    @amandapeterson3659 Před 2 lety

    I have those same two love languages she does lo!

  • @shamgod3003
    @shamgod3003 Před rokem

    Where can I get the material for home please??!!!! The 4 personalities...wow

  • @lovedandhighlyfavord
    @lovedandhighlyfavord Před 3 lety +1

    So what are the amiable phrases? Didn’t hear that, to help him feel love

  • @noryloydnarvaez327
    @noryloydnarvaez327 Před 3 lety +5

    Focus of the family is great, but there seems to be only one host, haha.. i mean 90% of the talking is by Jim.. Ha, an expressive!

  • @JM-rf4be
    @JM-rf4be Před měsícem

    I have an important question
    How do we discover our husband 's personality in order to love him in an appropriate way? Hope you can help

  • @nadmel
    @nadmel Před 3 lety +1

    20:02 Does anybody know this verse?

  • @Mrs.T305
    @Mrs.T305 Před 9 měsíci

    How does this work with a man who has narc tendencies??

  • @GinKirk7256
    @GinKirk7256 Před 4 lety +1

    What happened to my comment and the one I responded to?

  • @csmoviles
    @csmoviles Před 2 lety

    🙏❤🙏❤🙏

  • @mariaalfonsi4746
    @mariaalfonsi4746 Před rokem

    Help, I'm 2 of these personalities & my husband is the opposite 2. It's a challenge b/c he's a driver, esp. control & UN emotional, & I'm amiable, his strong personality usually overwhelms me & I can't stand up for myself.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před rokem

      I'd take a time out to pray and fast to hear from the Lord. Can u get away for a few days? This is no way to live. Bad for your health in every aspect. He doesn't sound like a true Christian. Get FOTF resources and a Godly counselor.

  • @ricecristi
    @ricecristi Před 3 lety +4

    There seems to be a lot of content on what women should be doing.

    • @hedgemist691
      @hedgemist691 Před 2 lety +2

      Oooh, there always is. This one is aimed at women , but if you look for the advice for men, you'll not find as much.

  • @avonnii372
    @avonnii372 Před 10 měsíci

    Trouble is when an expressive is married to an amiable

  • @rhondamintac3414
    @rhondamintac3414 Před 3 lety +1

    33s3a

  • @tubeyou2184
    @tubeyou2184 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm a driver amiable

  • @sarahko2014
    @sarahko2014 Před 4 lety +4

    What if you aren't sure what your husband's personality is? Do you have a checklist to help determine it?

    • @bigphoneold5824
      @bigphoneold5824 Před 4 lety +1

      Saved this video to watch later but after seeing your comment, I think I'll watch sooner than later.
      Another guest simply mentioned asking each other "What makes you feel loved?"

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  Před 4 lety +3

      Sorry for not responding sooner, Sarah. We don't really have a checklist, but this article might help you understand your husband's love language and communication style: bit.ly/2KO6Upp. Hope it helps. God bless!

    • @cheyennewright6481
      @cheyennewright6481 Před 4 lety +5

      Love languages book is also helpful to love your spouse in the best way.

    • @juniper_woods9508
      @juniper_woods9508 Před 4 lety +4

      This is on her blog describing the four types. I screenshot them, sent it to my husband and asked him which one he thought described him best. I was shocked to find out his answer wasnt even close to what I thought! Hope that helps www.kathilipp.com/2012/09/marriage-and-the-four-personality-types/

  • @emmymac2
    @emmymac2 Před 3 lety +1

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  • @blanchehanstein3450
    @blanchehanstein3450 Před 11 měsíci

    I really love these sessions, I learn so much from these. 🫶

  • @nonamehi
    @nonamehi Před 3 lety +4

    This was such a fun guest!