How to be COZY in WINTER I Hygge I Swedish MYS

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  • čas přidán 15. 11. 2021
  • In this video I share how to be cozy in winter and Swedish "mys". Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Get 10% OFF your first month at betterhelp.com/benita
    I often get asked how I deal with and survive the Swedish winters and the darkness that we have during this time of year. Also Learn more about "mys", the Swedish equivalent of Danish "hygge".
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  • @BenitaLarsson
    @BenitaLarsson  Před 6 měsíci

    If you're looking for sources, I've tried to collect as many as I can here: www.benitalarsson.com/sources

  • @Woeschhuesli
    @Woeschhuesli Před 2 lety +131

    This made me smile here in Switzerland - it‘s a grey Wednesday morning, my small lamps are on, candles burning, tea in hand, a puzzle has been on the table for a week, my dog and woolly socks (oh and my handknit blanket…) are warming my feet here on the sofa and the first twinkle lights are up…. yep, much the same here!! 🤎

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +10

      That all sounds amazing!

    • @marywall5262
      @marywall5262 Před rokem +2

      I live in Alaska, and can definitely relate to the darkness. I love the coziness effect to soften the darkness. I just love drinking hot teas in the winter!

    • @ancutagemanaru
      @ancutagemanaru Před 8 měsíci

      But at least in Switzerland we have sun almost every second day. I moved in northern Germany and it is everything grey since 14 days. We had sun for max 5 hours together

  • @aprillr2158
    @aprillr2158 Před 2 lety +113

    The Nordic perspective of the long dark seasons has really helped me in the last 5 years deal with my S.A.D. Thank you Benita for another great video. All the best from Canada ❤️

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +6

      So happy you enjoyed it!

    • @angellas.1314
      @angellas.1314 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I am also learning to lean into the season and enjoy it. In fact this past spring, I had a hard time coming out of hibernation! 😊.

  • @Peony25001
    @Peony25001 Před 2 lety +21

    As a fellow Canadian I love the coziness of winter; a fire to snuggle around, wool socks, warm beverages, candles and fuzzy blankets. We always have a puzzle on the family room table and a few good books on the go. Love from 🇨🇦!

  • @paleoeco2008
    @paleoeco2008 Před 2 lety +86

    Thank you very much Benita for making your beautiful country known. I love the Nordic countries. I am very happy to learn about their lifestyle and culture through your wonderful stories. Thanks.

  • @minimalistserendipity4744
    @minimalistserendipity4744 Před 2 lety +22

    I learnt that as we progressed throughout history our lights where always from the ground up and warm, not from the top down which is unnatural and disrupts circadian rhythm. Simply makes sense 🤔

  • @barbaran.6667
    @barbaran.6667 Před 2 lety +12

    My wish for this christmas time is a video of Benita speaking swedish and showing Stokholm in christmastime.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +1

      Haha, I wouldn’t know what to do with myself speaking Swedish on my channel 😆

    • @oursimplestory
      @oursimplestory Před 2 lety +1

      That is a lovely idea! It would be nice to hear it and possibly learn a few words if there were subtitles!

  • @carolynjones5222
    @carolynjones5222 Před 2 lety +54

    I am a big fan of ambient light. I never turn on the ceiling lights, even in the kitchen. It doesn't get dark in New York until 5P, but like you, I turn on my lamps before the sun sets. Cozy is my jam. Thank you for sharing your video. it was delightful. 💖

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you so much for always watching. Cozy is definitely my jam too!

  • @louisespiteri5587
    @louisespiteri5587 Před 2 lety +131

    As a Canadian, I can relate to much of what you experience in Stockholm. Our winters last about nine months, depending on where you live in Canada, with long dark days, snow, cold, ice, and the occasional blizzard. Winter is actually my favourite season, as I think it makes us hardier :)

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +11

      It does make us hardier, I love that!

    • @oursimplestory
      @oursimplestory Před 2 lety +15

      We live in Canada too and I agree that winter is such a beautiful season! I love having all four seasons!

    • @linedallaire9631
      @linedallaire9631 Před 2 lety +7

      I hear you Louise, I'm from the nation capital.....

    • @1012chart
      @1012chart Před 2 lety +4

      Yep I love winter too!

    • @earthysoulgirl
      @earthysoulgirl Před 2 lety +10

      I’m in Saskatchewan and while I don’t mind the season changes I find it much too long and hard on the mental health. That’s wonderful that you enjoy it!

  • @vanja222
    @vanja222 Před 2 lety +33

    Hygge and Benita - My favorite word and person on CZcams ❤️🕯❄️

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +1

      Aww, that's so sweet, thank you!

    • @victhoene
      @victhoene Před 2 lety +1

      Agree! And I've learned a new Swedish word MYS! Thank you Benita!

  • @tinalemna7998
    @tinalemna7998 Před 2 lety +55

    Another beautiful video made even more perfect with a sleeping Mini and kneading Bonus at the end. 😽

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +10

      Loved that I got to sneak some footage of them 😊

  • @sl9906
    @sl9906 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Absolutely what makes my heart smile. Especially no overhead lights! Everything you said is how I live every day of the year. Although I use flameless candles for my health. I even keep my small Christmas tree up all year and just change the ornaments. I love the tiny lights 💝 May you have “mys” all year long 😊

  • @SuperPuddingcat
    @SuperPuddingcat Před 2 lety +21

    And of course nothing defines cozy more than kitties in a cozy blanket ❤️ The perfect ending to another lovely video!

  • @cindypack5151
    @cindypack5151 Před 2 lety +9

    I have replayed this video several times, it really echoes many things I have been doing for having cozy surroundings. I wear warm socks and sweaters inside to keep the thermostat set a little lower. Warm fuzzy throws are ready to grab when needed. I have a “fake” electric fireplace and use battery candles (the real ones sometimes trigger my asthma, and scented ones are a big no-no!) and small lamps for the cozy feeling they provide. My condo here in East Tennessee was built in 1982, and they didn’t put overhead lights except in the kitchen, thank goodness. I detest overheads! My screened porch has a string of white lights up all year, and real candles out there for wine time 😊. There are some solar lights in my tiny patch of yard, but it is overcast or rainy here a lot in winter, so they aren’t very effective. Thank you for the calm, serene space you have created and share with us to encourage us to de-clutter our homes and our lives! I love to get Benita notifications! Happy Holidays to you! And early happy birthday 😉 too!

  • @alexeemcnultyart6312
    @alexeemcnultyart6312 Před rokem +1

    Watching your video made me feel so relaxed and cozy! It started to get cold 🥶 here in Chicago and as I watched your video I sat down by my window and enjoy my warm coffee!

  • @penelopesparrow
    @penelopesparrow Před 2 lety +7

    Ah this is how I like to live! I've been intuitively enjoying my days like this for years, even here in Australia. I use sheer curtains to block the harsh light, often have candles/lamps and I gravitate toward soft textiles and neutral colours. I've lived here my whole life but I've never liked it, especially the light/heat. Autumn/winter has so much peace and beauty.

  • @rknrlgrl6146
    @rknrlgrl6146 Před 2 lety +5

    I live in near Chicago in the US and although we don’t get the long hours of darkness it can get very overcast and cold. However, I kind of like those days sometimes...there’s nothing like the feeling of being all cozy and warm inside while is snowing and sometimes blizzarding outside. Love hearing more about Swedish culture and would love to hear more :)

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety

      I also don't mind bad weather when I'mall cozy inside😊

  • @anaalves3658
    @anaalves3658 Před 2 lety +20

    Thank you for yet another glimpse into your live. I am sitting in bed with a cat on my lap watching this and it feels very appropriate 😊🐱. I seldom light candles, but my almost 7 year old daughter loves them and fairy lights, she likes low lighting, she thinks it's romantic.☺️

  • @riccabecker8214
    @riccabecker8214 Před 2 lety +9

    I love your saying about cold season..."This is not the time when style is king, but mys is queen." I totally live that way in fall and winter. ❤️🍁❄️

  • @cussot
    @cussot Před 2 lety +8

    That's interesting about having lights in every window - is that so that your neighbours and passersby can share in the mys? What a lovely idea. I've recently been putting a couple of candle-lit lanterns on my front step to add a flicker of cheeriness to our street. 🕯🕯

  • @lofrish9948
    @lofrish9948 Před 2 lety +19

    Your videos are so calming and inspiring! This is what I need having nearly the same climate and short days in St Petersburg. I’m also a lover of cozy socks and candles☺️

  • @sometimeswrite239
    @sometimeswrite239 Před 2 lety +5

    My cats are too obsessed with burning candles, so while not the same, I have LED candles everywhere. My favorite are the LED tapers I put in my windows. I used to only use them in December, but I’ve decided to put them up at the start of November and use them until March. The light is so pretty and mys!

    • @TheDriftwoodlover
      @TheDriftwoodlover Před rokem +1

      I am afraid I’ll forget a candle so rely on the batteried ones too.

  • @og6920
    @og6920 Před 2 lety +6

    Lovely video, Benita! I lived in Sthlm most of my 20s and 30s, and didn't mind the dark, it was the cold I disliked (I'm a Florida girl). Now, in my late 50s, I could not bear the dark, I'm sure. I still practice my Swedish mys here in FL. I love tiny string lights in my dining room and all my Swedish candle holders, Kosta Boda, Svenskt Tenn Candelabras, Snowballs etc. My friends love how mysigt my home is!

  • @JazzyBabe56
    @JazzyBabe56 Před 2 lety +11

    Also as a Canadian I would inject a tad of colour into your scheme - for me it would be black and red buffalo checked throws or a Hudson Bay blanket with the coloured lines....colour of some description cheers me up during the drab winter months as well as an abundance of candles and fairy lights strung about...- love your content! ♥

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +2

      I love Buffalo check but would obviously pick the black and white version 😂

  • @shanipie3
    @shanipie3 Před 2 lety +57

    YAY!! I can't believe I got here so early! Haven't even finished watching your video but I wanted to let you know that your videos always calm me, thanks for doing what you do! Happy holidays to you and your family! :)

  • @ivakotvickova1074
    @ivakotvickova1074 Před 2 lety +1

    Nádherné vlídné a útulné video, děkuji, Benita 🌞

  • @donnarakitzis2719
    @donnarakitzis2719 Před 2 lety

    Cozy and peaceful ❤️

  • @ninanina-le5zx
    @ninanina-le5zx Před 7 měsíci

    Merci pour tous ces renseignements

  • @lir9875
    @lir9875 Před 2 lety +2

    I love the Nordic aesthetic

  • @hollygsphpr
    @hollygsphpr Před 2 lety

    Benita well done on another lovely video

  • @tzochri9630
    @tzochri9630 Před 2 lety

    Lovely video as always 🥰🥰

  • @larag1764
    @larag1764 Před 2 lety +3

    Here in subtropical Australia it's humid and warm (my least favourite time of year January to April) so I'm envious of your cool days !

  • @connieclark1288
    @connieclark1288 Před 2 lety

    This was so interesting and informative. Thank you for sharing that information.

  • @olgakari660
    @olgakari660 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I completely fell in love with Sweden after visiting Stockholm in december, 🎉that 30 min lasting daylight for me was a total love! I adore coldness, darkness, grumpy heavy sky, that is my gem❤

  • @HomeFrugalicious
    @HomeFrugalicious Před 2 lety +1

    I love how cozy your home looks! It's fantastic ❣

  • @kedi2064
    @kedi2064 Před 2 lety

    I love MYS 🥰 thank you for your videos.

  • @korinaviado3333
    @korinaviado3333 Před 2 lety +1

    My soul needed this, thank you 😊

  • @dianebruno3811
    @dianebruno3811 Před 2 lety

    Winter is my favorite. Great video!

  • @carolmadere8300
    @carolmadere8300 Před 2 lety +1

    I love how much thought you all have given to being cozy.

  • @amykelly3242
    @amykelly3242 Před 2 lety

    Just lovely! Thank you Benita 💕

  • @expeditionconfidential8853

    Well done. Absolutely beautiful video.

  • @vanessablanc2074
    @vanessablanc2074 Před 2 lety +7

    Love love love this video!! I’ve learned a lot about hygge but never heard of mys. I think I must be part Swedish when you talk about no overhead lighting!! 😆 I live in Florida and am always looking for ways to get that cozy feeling even in warm weather. 🌴🦩🌞Thank you for this video. ❤️

  • @annak6693
    @annak6693 Před 2 lety

    Very interesting information. Thanks for sharing. Love from Greece

  • @virandoultra
    @virandoultra Před 2 lety

    I really enjoy to hear a little bit more of this amazing country.

  • @vesnakovacic8286
    @vesnakovacic8286 Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful as always, thank you for yet another enchanting video!

  • @amystephens513
    @amystephens513 Před 3 měsíci

    I love the bunny light

  • @gemmafolz5854
    @gemmafolz5854 Před 2 lety

    Love all of your cozy lights and candles!
    🐈🐈‍⬛❤️❄️

  • @marshaharwood8883
    @marshaharwood8883 Před 2 lety

    Very warm and cozy home❤️

  • @AC-wl9qx
    @AC-wl9qx Před 2 lety

    Love it. Very cozy watching as usual, thanks for taking the time 😺

  • @janicegardner5027
    @janicegardner5027 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Benita! I love that cozy is Queen. I must remember that!

  • @dianeyoung8068
    @dianeyoung8068 Před 2 lety

    I love all your lights, they are so pretty!

  • @EmiMakesIt
    @EmiMakesIt Před 2 lety

    Loved this! Great & simple ideas. 💛✨

  • @jillstigs1637
    @jillstigs1637 Před 2 lety

    Fall color is the BEST!

  • @jennyfulcher8035
    @jennyfulcher8035 Před 2 lety +6

    I like the concept of "mys" and being cozy. I've heard about hygge but didn't know mys. Your home certainly looks very cozy with its soft gray knits, candles, flowers, and a nice cat sleeping in a nest of blankets. Jenny

    • @somethingbambi875
      @somethingbambi875 Před 2 lety +1

      As a swede hearing about "hygge", I was like WHAT is the big deal, and it is called MYSIGT, haha, but my husband who is from Skåne, very close to Denmark, told me it is something else... But I am a very "mysig" person, in my sweater, fluffy socks and underneath my throw blanket right now, after being outside :)

  • @terrirojas2162
    @terrirojas2162 Před 2 lety

    I LOVE your candle drawer!

  • @equaljustice2054
    @equaljustice2054 Před 2 lety +1

    Watching your videos are so calming to me, thank you💐

  • @aleithea2715
    @aleithea2715 Před 2 lety

    Lovely video. Thank you sooo much. I felt cosy just listening to your comforting voice.

  • @karenbendtschneider7625

    Love your channel and posts. Your aesthetic is soothing and a pleasure to view.

  • @erminiobellissimo9945
    @erminiobellissimo9945 Před 2 lety +1

    So enjoyable, keep up the good work.

  • @lizandjohnny
    @lizandjohnny Před 2 lety

    Loved this Benita. Thank you 🖤

  • @elena_a-2023
    @elena_a-2023 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Benita! I love the content on your videos; they are inspiring. I love the Nordic concept of coziness. Lighting candles and using ambiance-type lamps are the best.

  • @KarronAngel
    @KarronAngel Před 2 lety

    Wow, thankyou for sharing your winters with us xxxxxxxxxxx

  • @sandihedstrom4480
    @sandihedstrom4480 Před rokem

    I love staying connected to Sweden through your beautiful videos. Thank you!

  • @Costanza_G
    @Costanza_G Před 2 lety +1

    Hej!
    I’ve loved the feeling of the houses illuminated in winter, especially from the outside, when you walk along and see all the mys!

  • @xolisancoyo8172
    @xolisancoyo8172 Před 2 lety

    I always enjoy your videos. Stay blessed.

  • @patriciad.7309
    @patriciad.7309 Před 2 lety +4

    Hi Benita, here in Canada we know all about winter! However, coming from Scotland, I was amazed at how lovely the winter can be - we do get many sunny days, and with the snow everything looks beautiful. But you're right - style goes out the window when you need to cover up!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  Před 2 lety +1

      We haven’t had very much snow these past few winters but it does brighten things up in winter.

  • @sandiesunshine4814
    @sandiesunshine4814 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for talking about mys ❤️ it’s great to learn and add to my learning 🥰

  • @lynngudgeon9416
    @lynngudgeon9416 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing your part of the world! It looks absolutely lovely. Have a blessed day 🙂.

  • @jolitama1634
    @jolitama1634 Před 2 lety

    Thank you❤

  • @anniebowen1
    @anniebowen1 Před 2 lety

    Great video.

  • @deborahhuffman3231
    @deborahhuffman3231 Před 2 lety

    I love the bunny light it's addorable. I stock up on candles for winter also. Great video thankyou.

  • @amoto1501
    @amoto1501 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for this! Wonderful way to start my cold winter day! Love from Alaska!

  • @PavJedrusiak
    @PavJedrusiak Před 2 lety +1

    Fabulous relaxing - thanks Benita!

  • @Soycamysenra
    @Soycamysenra Před 2 lety

    So cozy video 🥰 I was lived in Goteborg years ago and I miss a lot your country🇸🇪 Tack så mycket 🙏🏻

  • @caramia4789
    @caramia4789 Před 2 lety

    Your videos are so relaxing!

  • @margwally5849
    @margwally5849 Před 2 lety

    Love it.
    From London

  • @katharineamin6066
    @katharineamin6066 Před 2 lety

    Thanks so much. I’ve only been in Sweden in summer, so this was very interesting to me.

  • @laurelarmstrong4535
    @laurelarmstrong4535 Před 2 lety

    Interesting and calming

  • @CindyClough
    @CindyClough Před 2 lety +1

    I so enjoyed your video! I love hearing a new word for cozy, too! Your tour of Stockholm reminded me of my visit there in 2011, as well as a visit to Iceland in 2019. I so love the nordic countries - beautiful landscape, lovely culture, and friendly people! Instead of souvenirs, I brought home some of the things you talked about: the blankets around the house, the candles, etc... Thank you for sharing & reminding me to enjoy all of my own seasons.

  • @elizabethhelen784
    @elizabethhelen784 Před 2 lety

    This was SO interesting! Tack 💕

  • @allieblank5992
    @allieblank5992 Před 2 lety +11

    Just watching this video makes me feel relaxed and cozy. In Canada there are some similarities but I think you Swedes do it better! 😄

  • @aussieanne6812
    @aussieanne6812 Před 2 lety +2

    Here in Sydney, Australia, we don’t experience the same seasonal changes as elsewhere in the world. How nice it must be to have a white Christmas and get cosy around a fire - even one that’s streamed! I recall visiting Denmark (my grandfather’s birthplace) one winter and packing in lots of sightseeing during the reduced daylight hours. The candles lighting up windows in towns and the strings of lights were welcoming. Thanks for another soothing and interesting vlog Benita 😎🇦🇺

  • @elizabethgarcia6399
    @elizabethgarcia6399 Před 2 lety

    Benita love your videos hello from Florida

  • @lindatait5326
    @lindatait5326 Před 2 lety

    This is the first of your videos I have watched and I’m hooked already!

  • @kathrynp7595
    @kathrynp7595 Před 2 lety +9

    Love your sweatsuit, looks so Cozy✨, you have such a calming voice 🌸

  • @oursimplestory
    @oursimplestory Před 2 lety +3

    Loved learning about MYS, I had never heard about it until today! Lovely video as always!

  • @adaisychain5
    @adaisychain5 Před 2 lety +5

    The cold weather has arrived here in Illinois, US and how fortunate we are to have a spitting of snow!😻 Oh yes, time for those warm woolly mittens!!! Do love those kitties!

  • @emilyhislop1051
    @emilyhislop1051 Před 2 lety +2

    This was so timely and one of your best ones yet. Such great content. You made a great call going full time!

  • @raeden4742
    @raeden4742 Před 2 lety +4

    So cozy! Mini and Bonus are totally mys. Thank you! Love, Love, Love your videos....always look forward to them.

  • @jaecruz301
    @jaecruz301 Před 2 lety +1

    i luv watching your videos! so warm and welcoming and soothing background music and enjoying your home and tips of what it means to be cozy, comfortable and warm. i hope you are doing well....and the kitties are so cute as always!

  • @RGoublim
    @RGoublim Před 2 lety

    You are my favourite CZcamsr by far. I am always riveted by your lovely content.

  • @peggymohr7899
    @peggymohr7899 Před 2 lety

    Love your calm and lovely style.

  • @rosemarykehoe3909
    @rosemarykehoe3909 Před 2 lety +1

    You know how to make yourself happy, and that in its self is a blessing. I will use some of your cozy ideas during my New England winter time

  • @carlathomas9617
    @carlathomas9617 Před 2 lety

    Light o’clock 😊 favourite evening ritual in autumn/Winter🇬🇧

  • @amyk2993
    @amyk2993 Před rokem +1

    Hej Benita! So sorry to hear about your mom. I hope this season brings you peace as you close a chapter and begin a new one. Looking forward to all your wonderful videos in 2023! ❤️God Jul to you and your family. Amy Fran MN

  • @martha4136
    @martha4136 Před 2 lety +3

    Love your home, it is cozy, so nice. Always enjoy your videos, many thanks for sharing.

  • @Anita-rq9ev
    @Anita-rq9ev Před 2 lety +1

    Relaxing and cosy, thanks for sharing and I hope you are doing well❤ take care

  • @katiem6773
    @katiem6773 Před 2 lety +6

    Thanks Benita. I love learning about your home and lifestyle. Here in Canada, winter can be very long and it gets dark early where I am. I love to get cozy every chance I get. I love to snuggle up in layers and read and burn candles. It's a great time for home made soup as well. I like cozy lights too.

  • @monicaw101
    @monicaw101 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes for MYS !!!

  • @CitrouilleCitron
    @CitrouilleCitron Před 2 lety

    So maaaaanyyyyy candles !!! I love winter's spirit. It's so cosy...
    Love from France 😘