FATHERS LOST TO THE SYSTEM | tribute to the fallen
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- Special episode to discuss effect of family court on fathers mental health. Special tribute sadly for a father that gave up. Special guest Coach Jana will be joining the discussion. In depth discussion on the family court system and the anguish fathers face.
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Thank you so much for inviting me.
17:48 She nailed it. A lot of people shouldn't be getting married in the first place. They lack the emotional, mental and psychological stability for a 50 or 60 year marriage. Too many mentally weak people are getting married and can't handle their spouses' emotions.
Really good information from all parties
Great set up Farook, well done for covering this issue 💪🏼
keep up the good work, your a brave man proper gentlemen, keep discussing , and a shout to mr Ryan another gem
Thank you for supporting. 🙏🙏🙏✊❤️
Good discussion and points overall from all guests, including Interesting and sad stories. Very important to expose the unjust Child custody system which is supposed be working in the interest of the child. It would be good to bring on a MP or two to see what is going on in terms of trying to rectify the system (if they are trying anything?)
Shared-care, Child Maintenance, Parent alienation...so much to fix.
It woudl be Interesting to see what contribution ReformUK would make, as since i have been watching/reading on these issues,they seem to be the only ones vocal to expose it and want resolutions.
Speaking up is good things and congratulations .
but who we can Not protest against this o don’t understand why not organising something big to change this ?
Thanks
Thanks for supporting mate, appreciate all your efforts and work also.
I know this may be a strange comment for those who are not muslims. But it is the creepiest feeling to hear the account of a kāfir for whom I feel so much empathy and compassion due to his circumstances and downfall being so sad. Normally, those people are so lost they don't know what else to do other than turn to even more self destruction with things like alcohol. As believers, we love for the sake of Allah whom and what Allah loves, and hate for the sake of Allah whom and what Allah hates. Allah loves belief and hates unbelief, so the math is clear. But this doesn't mean we are emotionless and have no empathy or compassion for the unbelievers who were good in terms of character and sociability.
It has been narrated, the prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم was passing by some graves of some unbelievers on a journey with some of the companions and he said he could hear them being punished in their graves and he cried. Due to being very clear about what Allah says about love and hate for the sake of Allah, the companions became confused and said "O messenger of Allah, why do you cry for them, aren't they unbelievers?", to which he responded "Are they not sound from among mankind as we are souls from among mankind?"...
It is sad, especially when the circumstances of their death were the outcome of such a sad story...
Now, I want to take this opportunity to remind muslim men, our community leaders, the strong brothers active in their worship of Allah:
If you have unbelievers around you then remember, surely you will be questioned about whether you tried to show them the light of islām and how and if not then why... do not just watch them slip away on the path to hell. You may be a believer, but understand that you have responsibilities and the unbelievers do have rights over us too and their biggest right over us is that we teach them about tawheed (monotheism) and ēmān (faith/conviction) and invite them to islām...
Don't be too harsh, but also don't be too soft. Tailor how you deliver to different people without compromising the truth إن شاء الله
وَمَن يَبْتَغِ غَيْرَ ٱلْإِسْلَـٰمِ دِينًۭا فَلَن يُقْبَلَ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ فِى ٱلْـَٔاخِرَةِ مِنَ ٱلْخَـٰسِرِينَ ٨٥
And whoever desires other than Islām as religion - never will it be accepted from him, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers (3:85)
لَآ إِكْرَاهَ فِى ٱلدِّينِ ۖ قَد تَّبَيَّنَ ٱلرُّشْدُ مِنَ ٱلْغَىِّ ۚ فَمَن يَكْفُرْ بِٱلطَّـٰغُوتِ وَيُؤْمِنۢ بِٱللَّهِ فَقَدِ ٱسْتَمْسَكَ بِٱلْعُرْوَةِ ٱلْوُثْقَىٰ لَا ٱنفِصَامَ لَهَا ۗ وَٱللَّهُ سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٌ ٢٥٦
I was in a relationship we had 15 year old house 17 years paid on morgage, our relationship broke down years ago, she wanted me out,said we owed 130.000 on morgage and house worth 180000 so take 20k,, she also had been seeing a guy for 2 years fallen in love. I found out we owed 80k on morgage and house worth 230k, i said i want half then ill go that night knock on door police for assault, we argued we shouted thats it 15 hours in a cell then told i assaulted her in april, 23, we were in September, they had a picture of a bruise se lied saying i grabbed her but she attacked me pounding on my chest with her fists saying i haye you ,i grabbed her by the wrist and pushed her away. Why wait 5 months huh, well get me arrested non molestation order and you loose your job coz your guilty to everyone, Christmas no family no contact was horrible, i tried suicide February and was sectioned now im a wreck police extended case till September 24,, i dont have to go each month on bail to police station,, police help her
1:45:00 Excellent point. The family court is a secret court so the Judges can be biased. However it is possible to complain about Judges to MPs, Justice . gov . uk , and the Bar Standards Committee if your Judge is also a barrister. I missed my opportunity to complain because you only have a 3 month window to complain. Not enough men are complaining about their Judges.