Why Are Marriages Within The Same Gotra Traditionally Opposed?
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- čas přidán 7. 02. 2019
- Sadhguru answers a question at TiECON, Hubli about gotras and why marriages within the same gotra are traditionally opposed, and whether such practices are still relevant.
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In this video commets 50% are..struggling like me of same gotra...
Me too
Me too
🙏 me 2
Mee too
Me too 😔
If you truly love someone,and can't live without him or her then please don't listen to anyone ... Do that what your heart say to you ..... God always with you .....
Absolutely agree. We should marry someone whom we choose. Not other people's choice.
Well said Jayadev, if our love is true, we will find a way.
@@shree384 thank you bro ...
It's not about hindering your love to your partner but the potential genetic and physical defects that your kids might suffer. Or even you're grand or great grand kids might one day in the future.
भाई लव जैसा वर्तमान समय में कुछ नही होता है सिर्फ और सिर्फ देह का आकर्षण ही होता है और लोग भूलवश शारीरिक आकर्षण को प्रेम कह देते हे
FULL length video please
well said guruji 🙏
A DNA compatability test is a safe bet for same Gotra marriages
good answers really impressed
Well said sadhguru
Love you sadguruji , namaskaaram
But is anything mentioned about Sapinda marriage in Geeta, Mahabharata, Ramayana or Vedas???? Can you please give reference???
In Hinduism can disciples(shishya) of the same Guru be married to each other?
What he told please explain me.
es lia boltey the ghar k.. english ko pdd ley😒😁
2:05 What was that sound at the background?
Great 🙏💚😍
Where is Bharathi or Raja? Or Maa Karpoori (Indira)? Or Swami Gurubisksha (Somu)? Or Srinivas? Or Maa Gambhiri (Suman)? Or Swami Devasatwa (Kiran) in your videos here? We want to hear them and meet them
who are they and why are u talking about them
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The gist is it matters in a closed society, like in olden times when people used to live in clans. So all people living in a village is closely related. Gotra basically means blood lineage! But in today's society with 1.4 billion population we have huge genetic diversity, not closed clan. It shouldn't matter if you belong to same gotra, possibly you have same ancestors 20-30 generations back , so enough genetic diversity
If you/we are separate by 10 or more generations, it should not be a problem at all. Most people won't even know their family members and other relatives beyond 3-4 generations.
abe chomu genictics test kare le
Huge population or seperation of 20-30 generation doesn't create huge or enough genetic diversity it will create a slight diversity which is not complete diversity and that is where the use of gotra becomes prominent as we indians and south asains are genetically similiar
Me and my bf have sane gotra and he is my mosi's relative means he lives in the same place where my mosi lives he call my mosi as bhabhi can I marry him ?
@@himanshisingh345i think you can….agr father side se relation hota then no
Once we see our whole life with any one how can we change our mind for another person..... it's only abouts happiness with whom u are living happy for ur rest life
👍yes
It's very painful. 😭😭😭😭😭😭we have one and only life. That life also painful means what❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓
Gotra basically comes from the father's side... because we all initially came from our father..... and thus this system has the base and still prominently practiced in my area.
How did we initially come from our fathers? Don't we have both sets of genes?
You are wrong. We don't come from father initially. From both parents not one only. It's not possible because there is need of chromosomes from both parents than how can you say that? 😅
@@bunnybearfictions8968exactly
And yes, mother is only the reproductive machine. Nothing for her. 😊
Absolutely correct
Meri mummy mughe kehti h ki shaadiyan relation mei hoti h matlab dur ke rishtedaro se par mughe yeh thoda awkward lagta h kyuki mughe lagta tha ki shaadiyan kahi kisi door daraz ke gharo mei hoti aur bas caste hi same hota h mei aisa isliye puch rhi hu kyuki meri ekk chachi ne kaha ki woh meri shaadi apne mayake mei kisi family member se karwayengi toh mughe yeh thoda azeeb laga kyuki agar woh unka family member h toh woh mera bhi kuch na khuch toh lagega hi naa jaise agar bhai hai toh mere mama lagenge niece yaa nephew h toh bhai lagenge isliye mai shaadi nhi karna chahti khair abhi toh meri age 18 h abhi toh shaadi nhi hi hogi kisi Kimat per kyuki mei abhi padhai kar rhi hu lekin phir bhi future ka soch soch kar awkward lagta h halaki ki koi zabardasti nhi h ki shaadi karni hi hai per bhi
Can we marry same gotra but different surname ?
I am Gadwallis Brahmin. Gadwallis marriages in same gautram but in different castes. Like I am Kukareithi by paternal caste & Dhasmanna by mother caste. But I have gautram "Bhaaratvaajas" by both side.
We have seperate system than other Hindus
Can the same cast and the same gotta marry each other?
. If yes then how! If not then why ?
@@karkisafal7377 NO. STRICT NO.
What do u mean by caste ? Varna a brahmin with same gotra can marry same brahmin gotra . If this is . Yes . But same surname can't marry.
Quite interesting
No cannot marry in same gotra in uttrakhand also .. if any one doing same gotra marriage in kumaon or ghadwal .. they are doing big sin (paap) aur uttrakhand main peoples kuch gyaan nahi hai plus pundits aapne greed (lalach) main yeah sab paap Kara rahe hai..
Thank you guru ji, for increasing my confidence 💝💝💝💝💝🙏🙏🙏🙏
Apki shaddi ho gyi kya
Aapki baat kha tk pahuchi...
@@me_Ahuja.x pehle koi mil jaye fir bat aage badhayenge
I am also not getting it that india is diversified country muslims are exception but what about South side Maharashtra side they said they can
could you Please advice true essence of thread mangal sutra sindur etc rituals which are scientific but lost now adays 🙏🏽
how are they scientific?
@@aniruddha4023 South indians use mangalsutra which is related to their cultural belief but in north India it is a choice of women.
@@lifedivinecreation no no I am saying how are they scientific? Is there any link with science? As in Psychological effect or so? Pretty fair assesment that tho
Yes Sadhguru has already told the science and everything behind mangalsutra in a video you should search it.
About the sindur what I've known is that there are points on our body which are called as chakra kshetram and the chakra kshetram of ajna chakra is between the eyebrows and traditionally sindur has mercury (Sadhguru has also talked about mercury's significance) and when sindur is put at ajna or crown chakra kshetram, it slowly unconsciously makes our system aware of the kshetram. But these days they're making sindur mercury free so that defeats the whole purpose.
Mangal sutra is not a belief system, nowdays people don't know the science behind it and they don't wanna follow traditions blindly so they're calling it a belief but it's not that
More than considering gothra, I believe should marry a person who is from bit far place from you when considering probable genetic issues in offsprings. Because gothra of women changes after marriage and we can't keep track of more than 2-3 generations, however marriages used to happen in nearby communities(places) by getting to know about other person through relatives, so ancesters being siblings is of less chance when marrying someone from far place. Just my theory, eod we forget it all when falling for someone.. haha.
Gotra basically comes from the paternal side and not maternal... because we all eventually come from our father and then enter our mother's womb.. so even after the marriage, the children come from the father side initially and not mother... yes mother has the role in developing the child after fertilization. So Gotra system is still functional and correct.
@@kritika.717we inherit genes equally from mother and father.
Yes totally 46 chromosomes. 23 from father( sperm) and 23 from mother(egg) . Please understand . After 3 , 4 generation it's not matter. Ok
Me and my partner are same gotro and same cast and we are in lineage.. But long lineage..We love each other.. Can we getting married? Plzz tell me.. we are in very confused what should do..
Same prmb
@@chandrakalamurahari9556 what should you do for your love?
Same problm
We are from same gotra we are in a relation of 8 years now my parents are forcing me to marry other people but i will never do this jabarjasti vli shadi
Same gotra me shadi hone se bachhe apang ho sakte hhhh esliye 4 gotra hamesha chhode jate h
Ladke ke mata,pita ke aur ladki ke mata ,pita ke
@@realreaper726if you have sexual feelings for you cousin, you just be mad. Cousins in bengali society are seen as siblings only. I'm Bengali too and I can't even think of looking at my cousin in the same manner. You are out of your mind.
Gotra of same people are however interconnected and have relation of brother sister chacha aur great grandfather can be brothers may be divided
Only men are brothers. I have always wondered how does it even affect the women? Women do not have y chromosomes, both their X could come from any Rishi (ancestor) because you can't trace the X, so what if one of the X's is actually the same rishi's as his Y in the man she is going to marry? Wouldn't that be same gotra again? And with even 5 generations behind you, wouldn't it become so intermixed that all kinds of ancestors have impacted her gene pool?
@@amritavarshini_._do you support their marriage then??
@@realreaper726 I don't understand the logic or science behind the gotra system. There is no question of supporting or not supporting at all at this stage. If you can explain the system or answer the question I posted above, that shall help. Thanks.
@@amritavarshini_._ I too don't have idea about it but I have feelings for my cousin sister. She is my mother's father's father's brother's son's daughter's daughter . But I wonder if i family will agree to it 😔😔. Even she's ready to go in relationship with me. I'm in deep stress about it. I live in west Bengal. So will they easily accept our marriage as she's not that related to us or close.
@@realreaper726 One of my cousin brother's would be (girlfriend) turned out to be the same gotra. But they didn't have any immediate common person who could be traced in the family tree (unlike you). Perhaps, 7-8 generations before or more they shared a common person but then they did get married. They did some Pooja for it.
I love a boy. He and I are having same gotra. However I wanna marry him and he wants to marry me. And I don't want that he will suffer in future cause of are marriage decisions or as well as me too. We are basically single child of our houses. Plz tell me anything I will do any thing. Plzzz parents are not agreeing with are marriage. If I don't get him. I can't even imagine my life without him . Plzzzz tell me any solution any one. Plzzzzzzzzzz.
U can marry each other but by doing this there is a chance that your children may born with some disability ,,,, or same ailments ,your should watch vedios that why people don't Marry in same gotra , just gather all the required knowledge about this ,,, then take decision it's up to your ,, best of luck for your future 👍
Hiii
Don't listen about anyone just run away and leave everything else to god
Go for kundli matching, but mind it, get it done by a GOOD ASTROLOGER. If the marriage is not compatible, you guys can always choose to stay together as unmarried partners, but PLEASE respect the compatibility thing. You don't want to spoil his and your family, do you? 🙂
Best of luck 😊
@@wildifyworld1553
Could not agree more.
Me tooo
Pls go ahead with ur choices. And marriages and births and everything is pre written. If a life has to be born it wil be born.. dont think much be confident and move ahead. Dont keep any fear.
So you'll marry your cousin in name of love? Do you know the dangers faced by children of people genetically close to each other?
What are the dangers
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We don't need anything to be together.... If we have our social securties and indipendent we don't depend on people for that needs ..if we r indipendent we can do whatever we want to. we r evolved too much we don't even knw from same genes or not.... Things will still work of the 2 want to work
I agree with you. I'm so in love with my man, we want to marry and stay happily together but we are just bounded by caste, and gotra. They say people of same gotra can't marry but we have same gotra and the marriage is gonna be intercaste marriage 😔. It's tough
Gotra wedding was prohibited bcz of some logical reasons...bcz they share same ancestory and if they have kid , then it may lead to some biological defects in kids or maybe in upcoming generation... I know we all want to marry whom we love so do i .... So decisions depends on individual but before marriage one should be aware about this important information
Ha fir jab bache langde lole paida honge tab mat rona 😁
Same in my bf n my case...he is totally of different caste karna n I m sc..I don't think so our caste have ever had married to high caste...as in those tyms there was high untouchability in our case....
Please anyone give me some suggestions we are completely different caste but same gotra
Same please help me😭😭
Are you still in relation? Please tell mei... i love her more than myself 😭 her caste is totally different she is sc and I'm Brahmin (gen) but our gotra is same😭
@@phantom6944 my bf left me due to this n you don't know what I m going through
@@samikshyajena26 where u from .? First I need to know.
I'm from himalayas uttrkhand. We can marry same gotra but surname should be different. My mom and dad has same gotra.
@@Garh52 odisha
My mother and her mother same gotra😓😓😓
I am getting into depression because when I know after spending 9 year's I got to know same gotra what should I do now😢
Koi baat nahi bhai problem yahi hoti hai ki apki ane wali generation ke survival ke chance kam hote hai 😁
Agr 5-6 generation se ancestors same nhi h then you can go for it
Same gotra and he is grandson of my maternal grandfather's sister. what we do now ?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and suddenly we realized we share the same caste and clan. I love him sm what do I do???😢😢😢😢
@@livelovelaughlana94 facing same issue
@@Neha_234_56 idk what to do anymore
Have faith in God🙏🏽
Love sadhguruuuu
🙂
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In Gurjar community we still follow our Gotras no one is allowed to marry in ur father ur mother and ur grand mothers gotra we are the people with tradition and respect for elders and sir ur inspiring .
@@couleurful it is track of family names kept verbally from generation to generation so you dont end up marrying ur sista or broda. It is imp in India.
@@MusicallyDisturbed thik h bt insan hi vishvas layk ni h to gotra k Kya krna. Btao aap m uttrakhand s hu or shyd tum bhi uk s hi ho to sahi bolna jo bolna
@@MusicallyDisturbed bs yhi krta rho gun match kro y vo pura drama pyar ki kisi ko value nhi yha
@@MusicallyDisturbed Acha pr m Kya hi khu is topic pr
@@MusicallyDisturbed tum to mera p legy Bat bt n to mera koi frd h n kuch or meri frnd n Kiya tha comment maina nhi usko prblm thi gotra s ap mujhpa n dalo yr
If i speak against, can i get in trouble?
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I m also in a same sitution nd if some1 Really loves uh he will not bothered abt this things
Hey are you than married if you have same gotra
@@divyasharma2443 what about u girl...🤨🤨??
@@divyasharma2443 same situation here divya
Same here😶
@@greatone7259 my parents are ready but my partner parent is not.. 😒
Mera 9 saal relationship ho gaya i got to know same gotr same mul i m not getting it what should i do
Genetic compatibility test
@@user-xg6ii9ju3k what is this
My brother in law want to marry girl but the prlm is they both have same gotra and same cast. They is any solution? Plzz reply🙏🙏
If u knw plz do tell me..
Same prblm.....is there any solution
Yes in mamas family we can do marriage..bt wt about same caste same gotra and with relationship
Yes can
Yes u can
Everyone is basically talking about the social contract
I am a JAAT
and we doesn’t marry in the same goath as well as we doesn’t marry in the same goath of our mother and grandmother .....though we marry in the same caste .........and I would like to thanks my ancestors and people of my community for still keeping this system alive 🙏🙏
sahi boley bhai g
I am a Aggarwal and we also don't marry in the same gotra
R u crazy??? Dose that all matter
@@me_Ahuja.x yeah
@@aniruddha4023 nope there is no scientific reason (after 7 generation there is no gene mutation) neither historical (these were followers of same community)dont create myth n rumours .
If the person is not yr cousin 1st or 2nd or last any remembable thn we can marry there is no flow
Meri pasand ka shadi fix ho gya ham dono bhi same gotra ke hain.
How do you convinced your parents?
Ghar Walon ko kaise mnaya
Well even science says every human must had same ancestor🙄🧐
No. The entire theory of humans came from africa is already being disproved. No we all didn't have same ancestry. We had multiple origin points
3000 year old thing still blindly followed by morons this is India
@@sagarshetty3175 Exactly bro there so many chimpanzees and our origin is not from Africa that theory completely outdated
We r same caste nd same gotra is dere any pblm if will get mrg bcz we r in lv plz give me solu
Same gothra is bad because your child might end up with genetic defects
R u married plz reply I have same problem
No your genetics would be weak
Nope if he is not your relative then okay.....
Hi
Just like your sishya....
What if caste is different but gotra is same?? This is not getting out from my head 😔😔
gotra same means you are brother and sister anyway...but if he/she 7 ancestor generation back this should be fine in my view..but our society didn't accept this 😪
@@downer12 there is no chance of any kind of relation between our 7 ancestors generation back or even more.. and I don't care about society.. I'm only worried about our future
@@kindcancerian4874 it's basically to prevent your kids from developing genetic disorders, if they aren't immediate family you shouldn't worry much
@@downer12 my bf is karna caste and I belong to sc there is no way of matching till 7 generations 🥲
@@samikshyajena26 its all depends upon both of yours parents
Didn't get the clarity on answer.😣😣
what do u mean ??? whats more SIMPLE thAn the rule "dont marry ur brother /sister"
Don't go with same gotra in your own caste it may lead to genitical problems , you can marry same gotra girl in other caste it will not affect you in any way...
@@idontcarei first of all you have to know that when the life started there is only one man and lady, everybody on earth are their child..
@@idontcarei the gotras started from the saptarishis but what about before them?
Sir I and my love are of same gotra but our family don't know each other. We two are from different caste. Sir is our marriage possible. Please answer me soon
If u two are from different caste then u can marry.
You can marry anyone if you love doesn't matter
@@sreezuchaudhary5872 yes of different caste
@@arijitbagchi1192 tq😊
Simply do a DNA test if there's confusion
Jab yeh 6 generation ki baat h to jab tak to india bna bhi na tha
To yeh bss India m he kyu follow hota h.
Gotra s koi frk na pdta.
Bhai mujhe lagta hai ki aapko gothra ke bare me pata nahi hai.
Agar same gothra me marriage hota hai to bachon me genetical problems hone ki possiblity hai.
Gothra is to prevent cousin marriage 🙂🤘
@@zoro4994 Bhai ese couples bhi h Jinhone same goytra m marriage ki h aur koi geneticall issue Nahi hua h. Aur agr love hota h Kisi s yeh Nahi puchte ki ap konse goytra m ho, agr dono shaddi krna chate ho to krni chayeya
@@yashchaudhary6734apko kaise pata ki genetic problem nahi hai? He or she is lucky she doesn't have problems.
Hindhi
Maya sandy Bhandari 😘
Wt is the difference between surname and gotra is it same?
Gotra is ancestral lineage from rishi... like there is Bharadwaj Gotra, Kashyap gotra and so on... people having the same surname can have different gotras too
@@sourodipbiswas2001 tq
@@sourodipbiswas2001 Mujhe gotra ka matalab samajh m hi nhi aata toh kya aap Gupta ka kaunsa ghotra hota hai bata sakte h plzz
@@skguptagupta4607 Gotra is from which ancient Rishi(sage) you've descended... 2 Guptas with the same surname can have different gotras, my gotra is Bhardwaj means I'm a descendant of Rishi Bhardwaj... for gotra ask your parents or grandparents if you have them now, they'll surely know... I hope this answers your question :)
@@sourodipbiswas2001 fine, thanks for ur reply...
I don't believe that people of same gotra are all brother sister , their villages are different , districts are also different. Their great grandfather's are different. So how can any foolish man say they are related..........
Yes...in my marriage itself people around me to split with my love by using gotra....but before that we don't know each other and there belong somewhere
@@revathikandasamy7383 dear sister I am also against this foolish perception of gotra & now a days no one knows who descended from where . Apart from this you know India is very much populas 139 crores of population is a huge number 😂 enormous figures
What if there village is same, is there a problem ?
@@Manish_Kohad I'm totally agree with you 😊
@@raonishant5890 yes then you are very close
Anyone from Kashyapa Gotra?
Yes
Its common gotra
@@s.bth8436 what's your title
Sabka gotra ye hi h kya
Romanian blood in you?
Its just coz the Romanian people were ethnically Indian dude.
Just because you love some that is of same gotra and caste will put you in big trouble for sure , I have live examples in my city where Husband and wife got married in same gotra now the offspring are suffering with such a rare disease a rare genetic mutation which can’t be cured.
So uptil whatever extent we move to modernisation we have to follow what our elders says, I will recommend one who is willing to marry in same gotra please its for your benefit dont do that otherwise you will lose your future generations
We jaats don't marry in gotra of our Father, Mother and grandmother 😄
That's why we still are purest Race by not marrying in these 3 gotras
Nearly 200 years ago 4th gotra of Maternal grandmother was also checked
What do u mean by purest?
@@psk5849 means we have maintained our body and genes by this .
For example our physical traits are 6Foot Tall , broad chest , White and brown color etc. That is the reason we are so strong and our immunity is better than many communities .
Lol lol but if your race is the purest and most developed..then why do you guys need reservation?? did leaving your brain in gutter came with the condition of maintaining purity🤣🤣🤣
@@pokepikamasters3288 what do you mean white and brown color? Is that a sign of purity? Are dark people impure? No Indian is white.. we are all different shades of brown. Even after so much gotra checking, looks like the size of the brains have diminished.
@@aditichoudhary4535 that original comment is obviously wrong in many ways…but u are wrong too ..reservations got nothing to do with this because of ur ancestors who bullied the lower castes reservation has come in to place….but yes when a lower caste family or ews when they are able to sustain without any help(which is statistically less than 10% of the total lower caste )than must have the reservation removed either willingly or through income certificates declarations etc…brain power or such non sense doesn’t come in to play when u have not been given an opportunity to use it…..
Marriage in same gotra will not lead to evolution generation will go backwards . Genetic defects happen . Manna hai to mano warna bhaad me jawo . This is the truth
Bol bol k thak gaya chutiye mante hi nahi
Ha Bhai Shi baat h
मजहब. जाती. प्रथा. बुद्दा. इस्लाम. क्रेसचन. मे
था. हिन्दू को. कम्यूनिस्ट. ने. इस्लाम को. कम्यूनिस्ट. क्या. देंगे
Yar yeh kya bkwas kar rha hai… jo pncha hai wo to bol hi nhi rhe hain yeh babaji
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Hs kyu rahi he
Vats Gotra Op 😂👍🏻
Matlab?
Ye kyun bola batao mujhe bhii
Kya vats gotra vats gotra me shadi kr sakte hai?
Simple conclusion-
Marry the person you love and who you think can keep you happy
I still don't understand why people follow these things because in the end we are Humans...
Because marrying in same gotra cause birth defective ,no need to be oversmartness(in short ,genetic error )
@@Blankpaper_openbook if one family residing in tamilnadu from 70 years and another family is from UP , both have same gotras so the teens should not intermingled
@@ankurs2315 yes
Yaa marry the person whom you choose. Who knows so much about gotras.
Well said Abheeshek, even I like to keep things simple.
Bhirgu gotra here .
Bhai behan 😂
@@andy00007 lol
Promote Intercaste Marriages.
Yes
Yessssssssss
no it will destroy the the dna of india
Yes
Kam se kam gotra to baksh do kameeno.
Kyu saare hinduism ki aisi taisi krdi
Tumhare pitro ke liye bhi kuch ijjat bchi hai ya nhi
Nahi bachi hai bhai 😁 jabtak angrezo apna tag na de tab tak ye log kuch nahi manenege 😂
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